Welcome to Issues and Answers. 00:00:27.96\00:00:29.62 Today we're going to talk about 00:00:29.66\00:00:31.26 breaking down barriers and things that divide people. 00:00:31.29\00:00:34.96 Our guest today is Richard Valenzuela. 00:00:35.00\00:00:37.23 Richard is president of Leadership Diversity Institute. 00:00:37.27\00:00:40.54 He is the former education director 00:00:40.57\00:00:42.47 for Silicon Valley FACES, 00:00:42.50\00:00:44.47 former executive director and president of Anytown U.S.A. 00:00:44.51\00:00:48.28 which is affiliated 00:00:48.31\00:00:49.64 with the National Conference of Christians and Jews. 00:00:49.68\00:00:52.11 He is an internationally recognized diversity specialist 00:00:52.15\00:00:55.98 and he was involved in the Civil Rights Movement 00:00:56.02\00:00:58.62 and was a foot soldier for Dr. Martin Luther King. 00:00:58.65\00:01:01.62 He consults regularly with schools, colleges 00:01:01.66\00:01:04.46 and universities across the USA. 00:01:04.49\00:01:06.86 Richard is going to share his life experiences 00:01:06.90\00:01:09.26 in working with over 10,000 young people 00:01:09.30\00:01:12.10 across the nation and adults on how to break down barriers. 00:01:12.13\00:01:16.44 Thank you so much, Richard, for coming to the program. 00:01:16.47\00:01:18.37 It's my pleasure to be here. 00:01:18.41\00:01:19.74 I appreciate you making that trip here to 3ABN. 00:01:19.77\00:01:23.04 So we're going to talk a little bit about 00:01:23.08\00:01:25.58 today about breaking down the barriers through... 00:01:25.61\00:01:28.45 How did you come up across doing this? 00:01:28.48\00:01:32.22 Well, you know ever since 00:01:32.25\00:01:34.32 I was in school basically... 00:01:34.36\00:01:39.39 You know one of the first things 00:01:39.43\00:01:41.03 that really impressed me 00:01:41.06\00:01:43.70 was when Sammy Davis, Jr. got married. 00:01:43.73\00:01:47.67 Some of your audience may remember him. 00:01:47.70\00:01:49.14 He was a very talented black 00:01:49.17\00:01:51.47 dancer and singer and he got married. 00:01:51.51\00:01:54.78 This was in the late '50s 00:01:54.81\00:01:56.75 I believe was, it was '59 or so. 00:01:56.78\00:01:58.51 And I was in junior high school at the time. 00:01:58.55\00:02:00.82 And he got married to a white woman from Europe, 00:02:00.85\00:02:05.69 I don't remember her name. 00:02:05.72\00:02:07.06 But anyway it made national news. 00:02:07.09\00:02:08.92 How dare he marry this white woman 00:02:08.96\00:02:11.39 and he got hate mail, I'm sure, 00:02:11.43\00:02:13.19 from all over the country, all over the world, 00:02:13.23\00:02:14.76 most likely. 00:02:14.80\00:02:16.13 But what really touched it off 00:02:16.16\00:02:18.07 and made it a conversation in our school was that 00:02:18.10\00:02:21.00 he was going to have a child, 00:02:21.04\00:02:22.47 he was going to have a biracial, 00:02:22.50\00:02:23.84 multiracial child, 00:02:23.87\00:02:25.64 and all of a sudden they were slamming it. 00:02:25.67\00:02:29.51 They were saying the child was going to be polka dot, 00:02:29.54\00:02:31.31 there's something wrong with that, 00:02:31.35\00:02:32.68 it's going to be a half breed child. 00:02:32.71\00:02:34.92 You know, the idea of that 00:02:34.95\00:02:38.35 it wasn't right. 00:02:38.39\00:02:39.72 And they even used such idiotic comments 00:02:39.75\00:02:42.16 such as you don't see cows and horses mixing, 00:02:42.19\00:02:44.86 do you, or dogs and cats mixing. 00:02:44.89\00:02:47.53 Well, I was raised on a farm 00:02:47.56\00:02:48.90 and I knew that brown dogs went with white dogs, etc., 00:02:48.93\00:02:53.17 you know the color. 00:02:53.20\00:02:54.54 There were separate species 00:02:54.57\00:02:55.90 and that's how we were being treated in the '50s and '60s 00:02:55.94\00:02:58.61 as separate species of people. 00:02:58.64\00:03:00.61 Really! Separate Species! 00:03:00.64\00:03:02.48 Yeah and that really irritated me 00:03:02.51\00:03:05.81 even as a 13-year-old kid. 00:03:05.85\00:03:09.35 Wow! 00:03:09.38\00:03:10.72 So it started me on this journey 00:03:10.75\00:03:14.26 to make a difference and make changes. 00:03:14.29\00:03:16.86 And then I got involved with this program 00:03:16.89\00:03:18.36 which I'll explain later, 00:03:18.39\00:03:19.73 that I think has met the need to a great degree. 00:03:19.76\00:03:21.93 So how about your own background, 00:03:21.96\00:03:23.53 what nationality? 00:03:23.57\00:03:24.93 I'm Latino, I am Mexican-American. 00:03:24.97\00:03:27.27 Both my grandfathers came over from Mexico 00:03:27.30\00:03:29.54 and settled in Arizona. 00:03:29.57\00:03:30.91 One homesteaded some land. 00:03:30.94\00:03:32.37 The other was just running away from the revolution 00:03:32.41\00:03:35.14 I think is what the story is told. 00:03:35.18\00:03:37.65 But I've grown up there. 00:03:37.68\00:03:39.78 I'm second generation 00:03:39.81\00:03:41.15 and just experienced a lot of prejudice growing up. 00:03:41.18\00:03:43.85 And that's the other thing that intrigued me that 00:03:43.89\00:03:49.82 I ran into problems 00:03:49.86\00:03:51.29 and when Martin Luther King came around, 00:03:51.33\00:03:53.16 gee, well that's what I mean by being a foot soldier. 00:03:53.19\00:03:56.03 But I just became one of the people 00:03:56.06\00:03:58.03 that helped the movement and did my part 00:03:58.07\00:04:00.54 and this was one way that I found through education. 00:04:00.57\00:04:03.67 So how was it growing up at that time for you 00:04:03.71\00:04:06.91 as a person of Mexican descent? 00:04:06.94\00:04:08.98 Were you able to speak your language, 00:04:09.01\00:04:11.38 speak Spanish in school? 00:04:11.41\00:04:12.88 How was that? 00:04:12.91\00:04:14.25 Well, that was one of the first experiences that I had. 00:04:14.28\00:04:16.08 A lot of our Latino kids at that time 00:04:16.12\00:04:19.45 were told not to speak Spanish on school grounds. 00:04:19.49\00:04:22.62 If you did you would be sent to the principal's office, 00:04:22.66\00:04:25.49 you would be punished. 00:04:25.53\00:04:26.86 So immediately we began to think, 00:04:26.90\00:04:29.13 hey, there's something wrong with speaking Spanish. 00:04:29.16\00:04:31.03 There must be something wrong with me 00:04:31.07\00:04:32.73 and that second class citizenship began very early. 00:04:32.77\00:04:35.34 Now I'm sure the purpose was to get us to assimilate 00:04:35.37\00:04:37.94 and to learn English which would help us in the future, 00:04:37.97\00:04:40.64 but the intent is not always the same as the outcome, 00:04:40.68\00:04:45.01 you know, how it's interpreted. 00:04:45.05\00:04:47.05 How do you see things today now with some many... 00:04:47.08\00:04:50.99 In the media you hear a lot of racial conflicts, 00:04:51.02\00:04:54.06 you hear a lot of socioeconomic conflicts. 00:04:54.09\00:04:57.69 What do you think about the times right now, 00:04:57.73\00:04:59.83 which we live in? 00:04:59.86\00:05:01.20 Well, you know we've made a lot of progress. 00:05:01.23\00:05:02.86 There's no denying that. 00:05:02.90\00:05:04.33 I'm not an extremist to say 00:05:04.37\00:05:05.73 hey we're still in the dark ages. 00:05:05.77\00:05:07.77 But we've made progress especially this country 00:05:07.80\00:05:09.90 and I'm a proud American. 00:05:09.94\00:05:12.77 But there is still progress to be made 00:05:12.81\00:05:14.64 as you can see from the news 00:05:14.68\00:05:16.44 and how quickly it can erupt racial problems, racial issues. 00:05:16.48\00:05:21.58 Yeah. 00:05:21.62\00:05:23.15 That's just part of the barriers, 00:05:23.18\00:05:24.52 I think there's also a gender issue 00:05:24.55\00:05:25.89 between men and women. 00:05:25.92\00:05:27.26 And that's something 00:05:27.29\00:05:28.62 that we also touch upon in our program, 00:05:28.66\00:05:31.16 the issue of religion. 00:05:31.19\00:05:34.10 How many wars and fights 00:05:34.13\00:05:35.96 and what's happening in the Middle East right now. 00:05:36.00\00:05:37.57 There's a lot of religious, interfaith conflict, 00:05:37.60\00:05:40.77 and that's why it was always a pleasure to work with 00:05:40.80\00:05:42.90 the National Conference of Christians and Jews 00:05:42.94\00:05:44.54 that used to deal with interfaith conflict in 00:05:44.57\00:05:47.04 communities across the country. 00:05:47.08\00:05:49.48 So now things have kind of... 00:05:49.51\00:05:51.91 Some people ave said that 00:05:51.95\00:05:53.88 it's not really so important to really 00:05:53.92\00:05:55.38 deal with racial issues or deal with gender issues 00:05:55.42\00:06:00.02 or deal with social 00:06:00.06\00:06:02.09 because everybody's kind of doing much better now. 00:06:02.12\00:06:05.19 Do you see that there's still a need for this? 00:06:05.23\00:06:07.33 Oh, definitely. 00:06:07.36\00:06:08.70 I mean people say, well, we've made tremendous progress 00:06:08.73\00:06:10.57 because we have a black president 00:06:10.60\00:06:12.03 but that's just a beginning. 00:06:12.07\00:06:13.70 I mean there's still a lot more. 00:06:13.74\00:06:15.07 And what I find from young people, 00:06:15.10\00:06:16.44 and that's who I work with 00:06:16.47\00:06:17.81 high school and college students, 00:06:17.84\00:06:19.17 is they still are running into issues, 00:06:19.21\00:06:21.61 especially as children 00:06:21.64\00:06:22.98 when growing up of racial problems, 00:06:23.01\00:06:25.51 especially with biracial youth, too. 00:06:25.55\00:06:27.62 I'll get into that later too. 00:06:27.65\00:06:29.72 It's the idea that separation is still occurring. 00:06:29.75\00:06:34.02 You know, there's separation on our high school campuses. 00:06:34.06\00:06:36.22 You can walk into any campus, 00:06:36.26\00:06:37.79 especially in the inner city or midway in the inner city 00:06:37.83\00:06:42.03 and you'll find the groups are separated. 00:06:42.06\00:06:44.03 They're not talking, they're not communicating 00:06:44.07\00:06:45.93 and you wonder why problems can erupt up so quickly, yeah. 00:06:45.97\00:06:49.77 And even still like you said, 00:06:49.80\00:06:51.14 even on the campuses there are issues. 00:06:51.17\00:06:53.58 In fact, it's a big issues in high schools and campuses 00:06:53.61\00:06:56.31 across the country. 00:06:56.34\00:06:57.68 Segregation is there. 00:06:57.71\00:06:59.05 It may not be by law, but it's voluntary segregation. 00:06:59.08\00:07:03.85 So now you've been involved in developing a program 00:07:03.89\00:07:07.89 that is designed to address a host of these issues. 00:07:07.92\00:07:12.93 Tell us about the program? 00:07:12.96\00:07:14.30 Now I didn't create the program. 00:07:14.33\00:07:15.83 It started in East L.A I believe in '53, '54 00:07:15.86\00:07:19.77 and then it came to Arizona in '57. 00:07:19.80\00:07:21.64 It was called Anytown. 00:07:21.67\00:07:23.00 It's taken on other names now across the country. 00:07:23.04\00:07:26.68 But I helped develop it and update it in many ways 00:07:26.71\00:07:29.81 and I've had many people work with me 00:07:29.84\00:07:32.15 and many ideas that I've picked up from other folk 00:07:32.18\00:07:34.38 but it's a program that's very unique 00:07:34.42\00:07:36.42 in that it brings a diverse group of youth together 00:07:36.45\00:07:39.35 at a camp site preferably 00:07:39.39\00:07:41.49 because you need some degree of isolation 00:07:41.52\00:07:44.76 in order for the students to think about who they are 00:07:44.79\00:07:47.10 and where they're going and what's happened to them. 00:07:47.13\00:07:50.13 And you also have to create an environment of safety 00:07:50.17\00:07:52.57 where they feel safe to speak, 00:07:52.60\00:07:54.50 that they're not going to get jumped on, 00:07:54.54\00:07:55.87 they're not going to get hit, 00:07:55.90\00:07:57.24 they're not going to be shut down 00:07:57.27\00:07:58.87 for what they believe in, 00:07:58.91\00:08:00.24 either by faith or by race or by whatever issue. 00:08:00.28\00:08:04.68 They need to express that to get it out in the open. 00:08:04.71\00:08:06.78 Because I think what's happening today a lot 00:08:06.82\00:08:08.45 is we're saying, well, let's not talk about it. 00:08:08.48\00:08:10.45 You know, that's past, that's old. 00:08:10.49\00:08:12.89 A lot of parents are not even bringing up the issue 00:08:12.92\00:08:14.82 so it needs to be talked about. 00:08:14.86\00:08:17.89 So like, 00:08:17.93\00:08:19.26 can you kind of take us as best we can for those 00:08:19.29\00:08:22.26 who are watching from home who couldn't maybe go to camp. 00:08:22.30\00:08:25.13 It would be great if they could. 00:08:25.17\00:08:26.70 But what's it like, 00:08:26.74\00:08:28.07 what's it like to go through the camp? 00:08:28.10\00:08:29.44 What are some of the experiences 00:08:29.47\00:08:30.97 that people go through? 00:08:31.01\00:08:32.34 There are two models. 00:08:32.37\00:08:33.71 One is a summer model. It's a week long. 00:08:33.74\00:08:35.48 And you get to cover so many more issues. 00:08:35.51\00:08:38.68 But the basic model 00:08:38.71\00:08:40.05 that I'm promoting now is during the school year 00:08:40.08\00:08:42.72 where you can take the kids out of the classroom 00:08:42.75\00:08:44.75 and that's why it's called out-of-classroom education. 00:08:44.79\00:08:47.46 You take them out of the classroom 00:08:47.49\00:08:48.82 and take them to an isolated area 00:08:48.86\00:08:50.33 or a retreat center and you work with them 00:08:50.36\00:08:53.23 for what I'm saying three nights and four days. 00:08:53.26\00:08:56.00 And you go through all these segments, 00:08:56.03\00:08:57.60 all these exercises 00:08:57.63\00:08:59.43 based on experiential experience 00:08:59.47\00:09:01.67 and emotional intelligence. 00:09:01.70\00:09:03.51 What do I mean by experiential? 00:09:03.54\00:09:04.87 You put the kids through the activity 00:09:04.91\00:09:07.38 where they get to feel it and they get to see each other 00:09:07.41\00:09:09.34 and learn from each other. 00:09:09.38\00:09:11.25 The whole idea of emotional intelligence, 00:09:11.28\00:09:12.91 I really believe in that 00:09:12.95\00:09:14.28 that we need to develop our emotional intelligence 00:09:14.32\00:09:16.12 so we can cope and so we can communicate 00:09:16.15\00:09:18.55 and be better citizens. 00:09:18.59\00:09:21.46 So that's two of the main parts of this program 00:09:21.49\00:09:24.69 is those two things. 00:09:24.73\00:09:27.30 Empathy building. 00:09:27.33\00:09:28.66 You know we're hearing more about empathy now. 00:09:28.70\00:09:30.93 The idea that we're not just looking for sympathy. 00:09:30.97\00:09:33.74 I'm sorry what happened to you in history 00:09:33.77\00:09:35.44 or what happened to your people. 00:09:35.47\00:09:37.04 We're looking at 00:09:37.07\00:09:39.97 what the Native Americans once said, 00:09:40.01\00:09:41.54 you don't know anyone 00:09:41.58\00:09:42.91 till you walk a mile in their moccasins. 00:09:42.94\00:09:44.48 To walk in somebody else's shoes, 00:09:44.51\00:09:47.12 to be able to live their life for a short moment. 00:09:47.15\00:09:50.29 That's where we make progress 'cause sympathy didn't do it. 00:09:50.32\00:09:53.66 Apathy sure didn't do it because, you know, 00:09:53.69\00:09:55.96 we don't care what happened to you or what's happened. 00:09:55.99\00:09:58.49 But when you begin to feel as or with someone, 00:09:58.53\00:10:01.30 when you start seeing your friends 00:10:01.33\00:10:03.80 as your brothers and sisters, 00:10:03.83\00:10:05.33 and you're walking in their shoes, 00:10:05.37\00:10:07.10 then progress begins. 00:10:07.14\00:10:09.04 And that's what the whole concept 00:10:09.07\00:10:10.47 of the whole workshop is based on. 00:10:10.51\00:10:13.31 So give us an example. 00:10:13.34\00:10:15.71 So how does it start? 00:10:15.74\00:10:17.08 What's the first issue that you deal with 00:10:17.11\00:10:19.05 when a person comes up to the camp? 00:10:19.08\00:10:21.28 And they come with young people 00:10:21.32\00:10:22.68 and they come with some of the counselors 00:10:22.72\00:10:26.15 and some of the other people, so there's a safe environment. 00:10:26.19\00:10:29.66 What's the first activity that people go through? 00:10:29.69\00:10:31.49 Well, I think one of the things we have to do 00:10:31.53\00:10:33.13 is begin breaking those barriers 00:10:33.16\00:10:35.63 right from the start by just getting acquainted 00:10:35.66\00:10:38.17 by creating what I say 00:10:38.20\00:10:41.97 not only a safe environment but a trusting environment 00:10:42.00\00:10:45.17 and create what we call a community. 00:10:45.21\00:10:47.78 That's where the name Anytown came from, 00:10:47.81\00:10:50.28 create a community. 00:10:50.31\00:10:51.68 How do we do that? 00:10:51.71\00:10:53.88 I'll just mention a few activities 00:10:53.92\00:10:55.25 that we begin right at the beginning. 00:10:55.28\00:10:57.72 We do what we call two ups. 00:10:57.75\00:11:00.52 Two ups are response to there's no putdowns 00:11:00.56\00:11:03.63 allowed during the retreat. 00:11:03.66\00:11:05.23 And we're going to do it, 00:11:05.26\00:11:06.59 we're going to slip up either because we're used to doing it. 00:11:06.63\00:11:09.86 It's kind of a funny or harassment 00:11:09.90\00:11:11.50 but it can get real too. 00:11:11.53\00:11:13.00 But anyway, no put downs. 00:11:13.03\00:11:14.80 But if you do, you got to give that person two ups 00:11:14.84\00:11:17.37 which means you got to say 00:11:17.41\00:11:18.74 two positive things to that person 00:11:18.77\00:11:20.11 and it can't be something physical, 00:11:20.14\00:11:21.48 like you have pretty eyes or you dress well. 00:11:21.51\00:11:23.58 It's got to be about their personality or their character 00:11:23.61\00:11:26.11 and it's amazing how the students start 00:11:26.15\00:11:28.02 calling each other on that. 00:11:28.05\00:11:29.68 The teachers start calling each other on that 00:11:29.72\00:11:32.05 and they take it back to the school sometimes, 00:11:32.09\00:11:34.19 where they say you owe me two ups. 00:11:34.22\00:11:35.76 Yeah. 00:11:35.79\00:11:37.13 And then there's the concept of rainbow where anyone, 00:11:37.16\00:11:40.23 whenever we get together as an activity, 00:11:40.26\00:11:41.60 we can yell out rainbow. 00:11:41.63\00:11:42.96 That means you got to mix it up. 00:11:43.00\00:11:44.33 You can't be with the same race, 00:11:44.37\00:11:45.70 you can't be with the same gender necessarily 00:11:45.73\00:11:47.47 either and definitely not your best friends. 00:11:47.50\00:11:50.17 You know best friends are always gathering together. 00:11:50.21\00:11:53.11 That's the toughest thing to break 00:11:53.14\00:11:54.48 in any workshop that you do. 00:11:54.51\00:11:55.98 But with rainbow everybody's got to mix it 00:11:56.01\00:11:58.15 or else, you know. 00:11:58.18\00:11:59.55 And then one other thing that we do is, 00:11:59.58\00:12:06.02 well, I'll come back to that later. 00:12:06.05\00:12:07.39 Right, right. 00:12:07.42\00:12:08.76 So this is a type of mixer where everybody gets in there. 00:12:08.79\00:12:10.69 You plan it where people are diverse, 00:12:10.73\00:12:13.40 it's not just one group of people 00:12:13.43\00:12:15.13 and if they mix up the rainbow 00:12:15.16\00:12:17.23 it means they have to get up and talk to somebody 00:12:17.27\00:12:19.10 that they don't know. 00:12:19.13\00:12:20.57 Okay so then what happens? 00:12:20.60\00:12:21.94 The other thing we introduce is a concept of hugs. 00:12:21.97\00:12:25.41 You know it's really fascinating. 00:12:25.44\00:12:27.54 In fact, I read something 00:12:27.58\00:12:28.94 this morning about the power of touch. 00:12:28.98\00:12:30.88 And I think to some degree 00:12:30.91\00:12:32.25 we may be losing that in society, 00:12:32.28\00:12:34.08 but also to show these students the value of it. 00:12:34.12\00:12:36.52 Now we respect cultures that don't touch or hug much 00:12:36.55\00:12:39.15 or families that don't hug too much 00:12:39.19\00:12:41.52 but we make it an option. 00:12:41.56\00:12:42.89 We say it's okay to hug here. 00:12:42.92\00:12:44.86 But we may also put some humor into it. 00:12:44.89\00:12:46.76 We tell them, okay, 00:12:46.80\00:12:48.13 there are some hugs that are not allowed. 00:12:48.16\00:12:50.43 I don't know if you recall those 00:12:50.47\00:12:51.80 but the hugs are you know, 00:12:51.83\00:12:53.44 you can't have a bear hug picking someone up, 00:12:53.47\00:12:55.50 you might drop them. 00:12:55.54\00:12:56.97 You can't have an A-frame hug where you're barely touching, 00:12:57.01\00:12:59.44 very impersonal hug. 00:12:59.47\00:13:00.81 And, of course, 00:13:00.84\00:13:02.18 the sexual hug is not allowed at camp at all. 00:13:02.21\00:13:04.41 In fact, we're one of the longest running 00:13:04.45\00:13:07.18 male/female camps in the country 00:13:07.22\00:13:10.09 because we set up some restrictions on that. 00:13:10.12\00:13:12.42 So it's not there to pick up somebody, you know. 00:13:12.45\00:13:14.86 We want to deal with seeing people 00:13:14.89\00:13:16.93 as people and it's okay to hug. 00:13:16.96\00:13:19.29 And I even make the point that there's an experiment 00:13:19.33\00:13:22.10 that was done years ago, 45-50 years ago, 00:13:22.13\00:13:25.57 where they had these infants in an orphanage 00:13:25.60\00:13:28.77 and in this orphanage they split up the infants, 00:13:28.80\00:13:31.74 10 kids in one room, 10 babies in the other room 00:13:31.77\00:13:34.61 and this experiment didn't last very long 00:13:34.64\00:13:38.05 because they hugged the 10 kids in one room 00:13:38.08\00:13:39.68 and they picked them up and held them a lot. 00:13:39.71\00:13:43.42 The kids in the other room they just ignored. 00:13:43.45\00:13:45.02 They only picked them up when they had to feed them 00:13:45.05\00:13:46.59 and that was it. 00:13:46.62\00:13:47.96 So guess what happened? 00:13:47.99\00:13:49.32 Within a few hours they found, this is a true experiment, 00:13:49.36\00:13:51.63 I think it's been done more than once. 00:13:51.66\00:13:53.80 The kids that were hugged and... 00:13:53.83\00:13:55.80 I mean the kids were picked up and cuddled 00:13:55.83\00:13:57.60 and all they were smiling, they were eating. 00:13:57.63\00:14:03.41 The kids that were not, 00:14:03.44\00:14:05.67 they began to give up, stop smiling, 00:14:05.71\00:14:09.61 stop eating and they turned their faces to the wall 00:14:09.64\00:14:12.08 and just started to give up. 00:14:12.11\00:14:15.88 And that's exactly what we don't want 00:14:15.92\00:14:18.35 young people and people to do, 00:14:18.39\00:14:20.26 to give up and that's why people give up. 00:14:20.29\00:14:21.82 You're saying the power of touch 00:14:21.86\00:14:24.33 because they're not being held, 00:14:24.36\00:14:26.49 they're not being, you know, having that human interaction. 00:14:26.53\00:14:30.33 It's just that crucial, it's just that important. 00:14:30.37\00:14:33.84 And so for some kids that have never been hugged 00:14:33.87\00:14:35.80 as little kids it's amazing to see them. 00:14:35.84\00:14:38.57 Do you have that where kids come to camp 00:14:38.61\00:14:40.08 and say they have never been hugged? 00:14:40.11\00:14:41.44 The other norm that we have in many families 00:14:41.48\00:14:44.68 in our society is you stop hugging little boys 00:14:44.71\00:14:47.25 after they're four or five years old 00:14:47.28\00:14:49.82 because of the fear of what they might become. 00:14:49.85\00:14:52.75 Or you may make them too soft, 00:14:52.79\00:14:54.16 or you many make them whatever and so. 00:14:54.19\00:14:58.13 I think that concept 00:14:58.16\00:14:59.49 that it's not a manly thing to do 00:14:59.53\00:15:01.20 is what's hurting relationships in our society. 00:15:01.23\00:15:03.70 Wow. 00:15:03.73\00:15:05.23 So we get... 00:15:05.27\00:15:06.60 then they get to that kind of like the icebreaker, 00:15:06.63\00:15:08.74 they learn about the rainbow and hugging. 00:15:08.77\00:15:12.07 What's next? 00:15:12.11\00:15:13.44 The first night, we have to start quickly, 00:15:13.48\00:15:16.31 and this is a very condensed program, 00:15:16.34\00:15:19.58 is that we start with the idea of understanding 00:15:19.61\00:15:22.35 prejudice and discrimination. 00:15:22.38\00:15:24.79 What is it? What makes it? 00:15:24.82\00:15:26.82 What are the stereotypes out there 00:15:26.86\00:15:28.59 that we're constantly hearing? 00:15:28.62\00:15:30.19 What do you say to the kids? 00:15:30.23\00:15:31.56 What we do is we split the kids up 00:15:31.59\00:15:32.99 by the different ethnic or racial groups 00:15:33.03\00:15:35.46 and we send one group out of the building 00:15:35.50\00:15:37.83 for a few minutes 00:15:37.87\00:15:39.30 and then we have the rest of the group come up 00:15:39.33\00:15:40.84 with all the stereotypes or slurs 00:15:40.87\00:15:43.07 they've heard about that group. 00:15:43.10\00:15:45.21 And it's amazing the list that they come up with. 00:15:45.24\00:15:47.24 Well now the group comes back in. 00:15:47.28\00:15:49.34 This is done in confidence. 00:15:49.38\00:15:50.71 You're saying one of the groups goes out, 00:15:50.75\00:15:52.18 say maybe it's the Latino kids 00:15:52.21\00:15:54.28 or maybe it's the Native American kids, 00:15:54.32\00:15:55.88 African-American kids 00:15:55.92\00:15:57.25 or the white or European descent kids, 00:15:57.29\00:15:59.92 or Asian kids 00:15:59.95\00:16:01.72 and the rest of the whole group 00:16:01.76\00:16:04.89 they're all talking about the slurs 00:16:04.93\00:16:06.90 that they've heard growing up 00:16:06.93\00:16:08.46 or experienced about that group that's out. 00:16:08.50\00:16:10.00 The stereotypes and the slurs. 00:16:10.03\00:16:11.80 So we get a full list of all these. 00:16:11.83\00:16:14.17 And I make sure 00:16:14.20\00:16:17.14 this is not a superficial program. 00:16:17.17\00:16:18.87 This is a real program in order to get the feelings out. 00:16:18.91\00:16:22.11 So we get them up there and each group comes back in 00:16:22.14\00:16:24.58 and reflect on with ones affect them 00:16:24.61\00:16:26.05 or hurt them the most or would affect 00:16:26.08\00:16:28.15 or hurt their family the most 00:16:28.18\00:16:29.52 if they were there to hear them or see them. 00:16:29.55\00:16:32.05 And by the time that we're through that evening 00:16:32.09\00:16:33.62 you've got about seven or eight lists 00:16:33.66\00:16:35.32 of different groups and all of a sudden 00:16:35.36\00:16:38.09 the empathy building begins. 00:16:38.13\00:16:42.20 The students realize why they're there. 00:16:42.23\00:16:45.30 I think they really have to know that. 00:16:45.33\00:16:47.17 You see this is also called the leadership program 00:16:47.20\00:16:49.50 and I don't call it that just to be marketing 00:16:49.54\00:16:51.77 or be superficial about that. 00:16:51.81\00:16:54.24 I really feel and I make reference to all the students 00:16:54.28\00:16:56.91 as leaders or potential leaders. 00:16:56.95\00:16:59.21 I really believe every kid, every young person, 00:16:59.25\00:17:01.25 has the potential to be a leader, 00:17:01.28\00:17:02.95 not only to guide themselves as leadership 00:17:02.98\00:17:04.89 but to guide others. 00:17:04.92\00:17:06.29 And so we try to emphasize that throughout the program 00:17:06.32\00:17:09.36 that they're there for a reason, 00:17:09.39\00:17:10.99 They're there to influence their friends 00:17:11.03\00:17:13.16 or their circle of influences as we call it. 00:17:13.19\00:17:16.87 So after your deal with the racial slurs 00:17:16.90\00:17:21.47 and then you say it's like a big poster 00:17:21.50\00:17:24.21 that's on the wall that everyone can see 00:17:24.24\00:17:26.68 and then they kind of process. 00:17:26.71\00:17:28.04 What happens, what's the next exercise 00:17:28.08\00:17:29.41 that you do with the kids? 00:17:29.44\00:17:31.01 Well, yeah, the processing goes on 00:17:31.05\00:17:33.68 and I think that's a real important part. 00:17:33.72\00:17:35.12 You just don't do an exercise and walk away. 00:17:35.15\00:17:37.22 You've got to process 00:17:37.25\00:17:38.59 what can you gain from that activity, 00:17:38.62\00:17:40.52 what can you learn. 00:17:40.56\00:17:41.89 And it's amazing how the kids express themselves. 00:17:41.92\00:17:43.76 Now I know how it feels. 00:17:43.79\00:17:45.13 Now I know that it's not over 00:17:45.16\00:17:46.76 because there is even new stereotypes 00:17:46.80\00:17:48.40 and new slurs coming out all the time. 00:17:48.43\00:17:50.73 So the kids all of a sudden see this. 00:17:50.77\00:17:52.50 The other thing is, I think one of the learning 00:17:52.53\00:17:54.77 that they get from the program is they're not the only one. 00:17:54.80\00:17:57.94 Because a lot of them think, 00:17:57.97\00:17:59.31 oh, this is just happening to my group or my people. 00:17:59.34\00:18:01.04 We've had it the worst. 00:18:01.08\00:18:02.71 And then they see all these lists 00:18:02.74\00:18:04.18 and all these emotions coming from these students 00:18:04.21\00:18:06.38 saying this is what hurts me, 00:18:06.41\00:18:08.32 and there are some ugly things that come up there, 00:18:08.35\00:18:10.95 and if we have time we'll go over those. 00:18:10.99\00:18:13.22 But the next activity, the next afternoon, 00:18:13.25\00:18:16.79 we do have discussion groups 00:18:16.83\00:18:19.59 or sharing groups as we call them. 00:18:19.63\00:18:21.40 And those are guided also 00:18:21.43\00:18:23.43 but it's mainly just expressing 00:18:23.47\00:18:24.90 what they felt and what they learned 00:18:24.93\00:18:27.10 from the previous activity. 00:18:27.14\00:18:29.54 We give them guidelines such as agree to disagree 00:18:29.57\00:18:32.87 'cause sometimes that has to happen. 00:18:32.91\00:18:35.84 I statements, you speak for yourself 00:18:35.88\00:18:37.91 not for all your group like all blacks 00:18:37.95\00:18:39.95 or all Latinos think this. 00:18:39.98\00:18:41.48 No, you speak for yourself. 00:18:41.52\00:18:43.28 And those are important guidelines. 00:18:43.32\00:18:45.05 And then the confidentiality of keeping it within the group. 00:18:45.09\00:18:48.29 But anyway, then we move on to the following afternoon. 00:18:48.32\00:18:50.83 We deal with privilege. 00:18:50.86\00:18:52.99 And I know there's a lot of talk today 00:18:53.03\00:18:54.46 about white privilege in our society. 00:18:54.50\00:18:56.87 But there are other privileges too 00:18:56.90\00:18:58.57 that we need to discuss, 00:18:58.60\00:18:59.93 not only just white privilege. 00:18:59.97\00:19:02.24 Then there's also light skin privilege, 00:19:02.27\00:19:04.67 not just white. 00:19:04.71\00:19:06.04 I mean even... Yeah, BMT just did a... 00:19:06.07\00:19:07.58 there's a program someone just did 00:19:07.61\00:19:09.61 and you're hearing a lot of different programs 00:19:09.64\00:19:11.28 of people dealing with the light and the dark. 00:19:11.31\00:19:13.35 But tell us about this privilege. 00:19:13.38\00:19:14.72 What is it? 00:19:14.75\00:19:16.08 What do you mean by privilege? 00:19:16.12\00:19:17.45 Well, the whole idea of privilege or advantage 00:19:17.49\00:19:19.75 that we are born without our say so, 00:19:19.79\00:19:22.26 without our individual choice. 00:19:22.29\00:19:26.66 We are given color, we're given sexual identity, 00:19:26.70\00:19:31.57 or even the family we're born into, 00:19:31.60\00:19:34.00 we didn't have a choice, 00:19:34.04\00:19:35.37 and I mention that to the students 00:19:35.40\00:19:36.97 before we do the exercise. 00:19:37.01\00:19:38.47 I say you are born into the world 00:19:38.51\00:19:39.87 and here's what happens to you 00:19:39.91\00:19:41.24 and you don't have a choice. 00:19:41.28\00:19:42.61 But here's what happens to you as you grow up. 00:19:42.64\00:19:45.95 So we do this exercise where people step forward 00:19:45.98\00:19:48.28 or step back depending on 00:19:48.32\00:19:50.42 if the question refers to a certain privilege. 00:19:50.45\00:19:53.86 Like what are some of the questions that you ask? 00:19:53.89\00:19:55.39 Well one of the questions is number one is 00:19:55.42\00:20:00.60 if you've ever had a job, 00:20:00.63\00:20:04.53 or did you get a job because of someone you knew 00:20:04.57\00:20:06.74 of someone in your family knew? 00:20:06.77\00:20:08.24 Then they would step forward? 00:20:08.27\00:20:09.60 Yes, they would step forward 00:20:09.64\00:20:10.97 if they had that advantage 00:20:11.01\00:20:12.37 or privilege of knowing someone. 00:20:12.41\00:20:13.74 So then we get into the discussion of networking 00:20:13.78\00:20:15.48 and friendship making out of that, 00:20:15.51\00:20:17.68 because that's what often happens is that 00:20:17.71\00:20:20.42 we have that privilege of who somebody knows. 00:20:20.45\00:20:23.99 Economics: I wish my father would have been born rich. 00:20:24.02\00:20:27.62 I would have had so many more privileges. 00:20:27.66\00:20:29.12 I would have been able to travel. 00:20:29.16\00:20:32.46 Gender: There's still an advantage in this society, 00:20:32.49\00:20:35.80 especially in the world to be a man versus a woman. 00:20:35.83\00:20:39.30 There's advantage and privilege to that. 00:20:39.33\00:20:41.20 There's the education, 00:20:41.24\00:20:43.17 one that's hardly ever mentioned but 00:20:43.20\00:20:44.81 this is how we emphasize to the students, 00:20:44.84\00:20:46.44 hey you need to get educated 00:20:46.47\00:20:48.34 because historically 00:20:48.38\00:20:51.25 if any group wanted to advance, 00:20:51.28\00:20:53.82 education was the way to do that for the most part. 00:20:53.85\00:20:56.99 And you could see when they took away education 00:20:57.02\00:20:59.22 why they did it. 00:20:59.25\00:21:00.59 During slavery. 00:21:00.62\00:21:01.96 There were I think 13 states 00:21:01.99\00:21:03.32 that had laws against educating the slave. 00:21:03.36\00:21:04.83 Why? Because they didn't want them to question. 00:21:04.86\00:21:06.80 During the Middle Ages 00:21:06.83\00:21:08.46 the British had the Irish as serfs 00:21:08.50\00:21:12.17 and it was against the rules to educate the Irish. 00:21:12.20\00:21:14.60 And there were not books 00:21:14.64\00:21:15.97 that were available to the common folk. 00:21:16.00\00:21:17.34 In fact the Bible was the first book printed... 00:21:17.37\00:21:21.14 Really, that was... 00:21:21.18\00:21:22.51 Yes, at the end of the Middle Ages 00:21:22.54\00:21:24.38 or the Dark Ages. 00:21:24.41\00:21:26.28 It was the desire to see something, you know, 00:21:26.31\00:21:28.85 to read and to be able to get that word out. 00:21:28.88\00:21:31.32 So you're right. 00:21:31.35\00:21:32.69 It is a powerful tool, education. 00:21:32.72\00:21:36.06 It definitely is. 00:21:36.09\00:21:37.43 And so, and then we also talk about sexual orientation, 00:21:37.46\00:21:40.36 being heterosexual versus homosexual. 00:21:40.40\00:21:43.03 But there's all these privileges that society 00:21:43.06\00:21:47.50 provides for people and some get them and some don't. 00:21:47.54\00:21:49.84 And we're still either reaping the benefits 00:21:49.87\00:21:54.24 from those past laws, 00:21:54.28\00:21:56.41 even though we don't have the laws. 00:21:56.44\00:21:57.88 We're either benefiting 00:21:57.91\00:22:00.68 or we're being the victims of some of that past. 00:22:00.72\00:22:05.25 So you're saying as far as 00:22:05.29\00:22:07.69 dealing specifically with the child 00:22:07.72\00:22:10.09 or if you're dealing with the student, 00:22:10.13\00:22:11.46 being raised in that kind of a family. 00:22:11.49\00:22:13.83 They had nothing to do with it. 00:22:13.86\00:22:15.36 They were just in a particular family set of circumstances, 00:22:15.40\00:22:19.50 two-parent household, 00:22:19.53\00:22:22.70 maybe we're a family that had inherited money 00:22:22.74\00:22:27.28 or inherited privileges or businesses. 00:22:27.31\00:22:30.55 What about immigrants? 00:22:30.58\00:22:32.38 Immigrants the same way. 00:22:32.41\00:22:33.75 I often ask the students if your parents were here, 00:22:33.78\00:22:35.88 your grandparents, where would they be? 00:22:35.92\00:22:38.09 And if they have immigrant parents or grandparents, 00:22:38.12\00:22:39.55 they would be behind them. 00:22:39.59\00:22:41.19 Then I also talk about the kids that aren't there. 00:22:41.22\00:22:43.39 You say they would be behind them. 00:22:43.43\00:22:44.76 What do you mean? 00:22:44.79\00:22:46.13 You know, we put them in a big open area, 00:22:46.16\00:22:48.46 either a parking lot or a field of some sort 00:22:48.50\00:22:50.93 and they step forward and step back 00:22:50.97\00:22:53.54 depending on if it's a negative. 00:22:53.57\00:22:55.94 Some of the questions? 00:22:55.97\00:22:57.31 Well again... 00:22:57.34\00:22:59.74 Oh, there's also the social, 00:22:59.77\00:23:02.41 what I call social support, 00:23:02.44\00:23:04.55 family support. 00:23:04.58\00:23:05.98 Did you grow up with 50 books in your house? 00:23:06.01\00:23:10.69 That one has to deal more with education. 00:23:10.72\00:23:12.82 But did your parents ever take you to plays or fairs. 00:23:12.85\00:23:16.93 And some kids have never been to a play or an art fair. 00:23:16.96\00:23:21.43 So how is it when these kids are all lined up, 00:23:21.46\00:23:24.83 and the adults too, right, 00:23:24.87\00:23:26.47 adult counselors come so in that group 00:23:26.50\00:23:29.20 everybody is involved with this. 00:23:29.24\00:23:30.94 What does it look like? 00:23:30.97\00:23:32.31 Are they all pretty much together as a group, 00:23:32.34\00:23:34.21 what do you see often? 00:23:34.24\00:23:35.58 Well, if I have a good mix of white and black 00:23:35.61\00:23:37.91 and Latino and others, 00:23:37.95\00:23:39.28 there's usually a few more whites in the front. 00:23:39.31\00:23:42.22 It's usually a mix in the middle 00:23:42.25\00:23:43.72 and in the back is mainly minority members, 00:23:43.75\00:23:45.62 both staff and delegates. 00:23:45.65\00:23:47.82 But one of the things I stress 00:23:47.86\00:23:49.26 so they don't feel bad about where they are placed is 00:23:49.29\00:23:51.36 this is not where they're at now, 00:23:51.39\00:23:53.40 this is where they came from 00:23:53.43\00:23:55.16 especially the adults that now have degrees 00:23:55.20\00:23:57.13 and are educators or administrators there. 00:23:57.17\00:24:00.04 But sometimes the minority, they're in the back 00:24:00.07\00:24:01.90 because the questions are asked in that manner. 00:24:01.94\00:24:05.47 But I also say that you're the survivors for the students 00:24:05.51\00:24:08.51 because now there's a lot of kids here 00:24:08.54\00:24:10.25 that should be here but are not 00:24:10.28\00:24:12.81 because they either dropped out, 00:24:12.85\00:24:14.18 turned to drugs, turned to alcohol 00:24:14.22\00:24:15.95 and they fell off the edge and you don't see them anymore. 00:24:15.98\00:24:19.59 And so I have them do a couple of things. 00:24:19.62\00:24:22.42 I have them look straight ahead first 00:24:22.46\00:24:23.96 and say, okay, if you never look back 00:24:23.99\00:24:25.33 you don't know what's happening. 00:24:25.36\00:24:27.83 With privilege comes responsibility, 00:24:27.86\00:24:29.96 one of the major points that I make. 00:24:30.00\00:24:31.60 You have privilege because you're here at this workshop 00:24:31.63\00:24:35.37 and you've survived some of the things 00:24:35.40\00:24:37.04 that have happened to you and your family. 00:24:37.07\00:24:38.81 So now you've got to help someone else. 00:24:38.84\00:24:40.78 So there's a lot of lessons in the discussion of privilege. 00:24:40.81\00:24:44.28 It's not just you have privilege 00:24:44.31\00:24:46.51 and I don't or it's a white man's world, 00:24:46.55\00:24:48.68 this type of thing. 00:24:48.72\00:24:50.05 So, how do you deal with the violence, you know, 00:24:50.09\00:24:54.02 the things that kind of cause people to act violently 00:24:54.06\00:24:57.76 the young people, the gangs and all of that kind of thing? 00:24:57.79\00:25:01.53 What do you do to really... 00:25:01.56\00:25:04.00 How do you see this program can actually 00:25:04.03\00:25:05.70 break down the barriers? 00:25:05.73\00:25:08.24 Well, one of the things I've always 00:25:08.27\00:25:10.17 like to have is kids that are on the edge 00:25:10.21\00:25:12.67 of either going to gang activity or not 00:25:12.71\00:25:15.64 and this can make a big difference 00:25:15.68\00:25:17.08 on many of these kids. 00:25:17.11\00:25:18.45 And I've had some gang members 00:25:18.48\00:25:19.81 that have turned themselves around 00:25:19.85\00:25:21.18 because all of sudden they see something 00:25:21.22\00:25:22.55 to be proud of because 00:25:22.58\00:25:23.92 one of the other programs we have up there is 00:25:23.95\00:25:25.39 what we call cultural pride night 00:25:25.42\00:25:27.42 where every group makes a presentation 00:25:27.46\00:25:28.89 about their culture, 00:25:28.92\00:25:30.26 their contributions to America and the world, 00:25:30.29\00:25:32.26 immigration pattern, 00:25:32.29\00:25:34.26 major customs and traditions that they're most proud of 00:25:34.30\00:25:36.67 and also the stereotypes that they wish to eliminate. 00:25:36.70\00:25:39.27 And it's amazing how creative young people can get 00:25:39.30\00:25:41.60 when you give them those four options 00:25:41.64\00:25:42.97 of coming up with a presentation. 00:25:43.00\00:25:45.17 But what I've noticed is 00:25:45.21\00:25:46.54 these kids walk out 10 foot higher 00:25:46.57\00:25:48.64 because they're proud of who they are. 00:25:48.68\00:25:50.25 So many kids are put down. 00:25:50.28\00:25:51.71 It's amazing. 00:25:51.75\00:25:53.92 One of the groups that's very unique 00:25:53.95\00:25:55.28 is the biracial/multiracial kids 00:25:55.32\00:25:56.79 because that's an increasing number, 00:25:56.82\00:25:58.15 thank goodness. 00:25:58.19\00:25:59.52 Yes, in fact America, 00:25:59.55\00:26:00.89 right, it's moving 2050 they say 00:26:00.92\00:26:02.82 the average American is like almost the racial groups 00:26:02.86\00:26:05.76 that we see in the United States 00:26:05.79\00:26:07.13 are not even going to be close to being the same. 00:26:07.16\00:26:09.20 It's such a melting pot 00:26:09.23\00:26:10.93 so this is really important work that you're doing. 00:26:10.97\00:26:13.00 Yeah, this is one that I believe our final taboo 00:26:13.03\00:26:16.07 or biggest barrier is to overcome 00:26:16.10\00:26:18.34 that intermarriage thing or inter-date thing. 00:26:18.37\00:26:21.11 Kids are still being told marry your own kind 00:26:21.14\00:26:23.91 instead of looking for common interests so. 00:26:23.95\00:26:25.71 Right. 00:26:25.75\00:26:27.08 But we have a gender night too 00:26:27.12\00:26:29.02 where we talk about gender power. 00:26:29.05\00:26:30.65 How can we empower men and women to get along better? 00:26:30.69\00:26:33.56 We come up with stereotypes and messages 00:26:33.59\00:26:35.59 that they've heard. 00:26:35.62\00:26:37.43 Many of the messages 00:26:37.46\00:26:38.79 that we get in our society are negative messages 00:26:38.83\00:26:41.03 and some people apply them. 00:26:41.06\00:26:42.73 Like no means yes, 00:26:42.76\00:26:44.30 having to deal with sexual encounter. 00:26:44.33\00:26:46.43 That's sweeping across the country right now 00:26:46.47\00:26:48.40 at major colleges and universities 00:26:48.44\00:26:49.87 because they're being told you better 00:26:49.90\00:26:52.94 start looking into these cases more. 00:26:52.97\00:26:55.84 But that's a common thinking. 00:26:55.88\00:26:57.38 There are lot of messages that we don't always recognize. 00:26:57.41\00:26:59.88 But we recognize them up at camp 00:26:59.91\00:27:01.55 so they can see them and do something about them. 00:27:01.58\00:27:04.15 The act of violence between men and women 00:27:04.19\00:27:05.85 where there're couple messages 00:27:05.89\00:27:07.32 that always go up there is, 00:27:07.36\00:27:10.89 never hit a woman, 00:27:10.93\00:27:12.26 which most boys agree and most students agree that's good, 00:27:12.29\00:27:15.56 but there is always a few 00:27:15.60\00:27:16.93 that vote for never hit a woman unless she hits you first. 00:27:16.97\00:27:20.14 And so I get up there and explain okay, 00:27:20.17\00:27:21.84 how hard are you going to hit her, 00:27:21.87\00:27:24.17 how are you going to stop 00:27:24.21\00:27:25.74 and what happens because of this. 00:27:25.77\00:27:27.91 Is this a violent message and of course it is. 00:27:27.94\00:27:31.08 It has the effect on our society. 00:27:31.11\00:27:32.45 Richard, I thank you so much for coming. 00:27:32.48\00:27:34.18 There are so many great issues 00:27:34.22\00:27:35.98 that have been covered through here 00:27:36.02\00:27:37.99 and things to break down barriers. 00:27:38.02\00:27:40.99 I want to also thank our audience at home 00:27:41.02\00:27:43.39 for joining us on today's program. 00:27:43.43\00:27:45.66 If you're interested in learning more about the camps, 00:27:45.69\00:27:47.73 go ahead and contact Dare to Dream Network. 00:27:47.76\00:27:49.86 We'll have Richard's information available. 00:27:49.90\00:27:52.40 He is available to come 00:27:52.43\00:27:54.04 and conduct camps across the country 00:27:54.07\00:27:55.84 as well as there may be a camp near you. 00:27:55.87\00:27:58.54 You know Christ came to turn on 00:27:58.57\00:28:01.51 the divide between people 00:28:01.54\00:28:03.21 to break down those barriers 00:28:03.24\00:28:05.41 and He has a lot of different ways 00:28:05.45\00:28:06.85 that He is doing that. 00:28:06.88\00:28:08.22 Let us decide ourselves 00:28:08.25\00:28:09.58 that we're gonna be that community of one. 00:28:09.62\00:28:10.99 We're gonna be that person 00:28:11.02\00:28:12.55 that's gonna go and make the difference 00:28:12.59\00:28:14.46 and break down the barriers and bring people together. 00:28:14.49\00:28:16.86 Thank you for joining us. 00:28:16.89\00:28:18.23