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Hello and welcome
again to Issues and Answers.
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Today we're going to be talking
about creative bridge building.
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Now sometimes people are
thrown off a little by the word
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creative. I've had people
tell me, Ruthie, I'm just not
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creative. I haven't had a new
idea in 50 years. Well that's
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not true, but people
see themselves as uncreative
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sometimes. But I really believe
that if you're praying and
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asking the Lord to help you
be creative, you may have some
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gigantic surprises ahead because
he's the creator and he can make
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you creative in ways that will
bring joy to your own heart and
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enjoyment and blessing to
the people around you. Do you
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believe that? I really believe
it because God is faithful.
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Today we're going to talk about
building bridges with creative
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new ideas, new attitudes and
that's really where it starts.
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It starts in your mind, in your
attitude. If you think you can't
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do something you probably can't.
But if you are believing God he
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can help you to do anything.
That's what he's promised. I can
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do all things through Christ who
strengthens me. It's not about
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you, not about me. It's all
about him and his promises are
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true. I love the text in Isaiah
44:2 that says, and this is the
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Lord speaking to you and to me.
He says, I am the one who will
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help you. How about that for
a promise? My guests today are
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Tim Garrison from Camarillo,
California. Welcome back.
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Thank you
Ruthie. Good to be here.
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And Derek Morris from Forest
Lake Church in Apopka, Florida.
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Your church, Derek, is one of
the fastest growing and one of
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the largest in our denomination
in all of North American and I
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really believe it's because
people have been doing some
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creative bridge building.
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Well it's really amazing. We've
talked about the importance of
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prayer as a foundation and
building that foundation, but
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then giving the Lord of the
harvest permission to throw us
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out into his harvest. That may
be as simple as a friendly smile
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or helping mow someone's lawn.
But I'm looking forward to the
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program today as we talk about
creative bridge building because
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I think that we do have a lot
more creativity than we think
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especially with the
Holy Spirit's blessing.
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I want to tell you about
one creative idea that stumped a
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lot of people. In fact, the
pastor himself didn't think this
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was going to work. But he'd
baptized a man who was about
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65 or a little more. He was a
veteran; I think it was the Viet
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Nam war and he had a decided
limp. I think he only had vision
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in one eye. He had a real
problem with one of his legs and
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one of his arms. So he kind
of shuffled about but he was
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ambulatory but he told the
pastor shortly after he was
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baptized, he said you know I've
been praying about this and I
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really believe God is calling
me to a specific ministry.
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The pastor said good, good for
you. What is it? He said well I
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want to do something creative.
I want to do something that I
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really think is needed in
our church and in our community.
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Good, what is it? Well you know
that gym that we've got isn't
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used very much. Let's turn
it into a skating rink for the
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young people of our town. And
the pastor kind of scratched his
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head and he thought you're
the last one to do this kind of
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thing. But how can you say
something to discourage the poor
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man when he's sure that
the Lord's calling him to this
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ministry. So he said, I've
already been on the internet.
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I know where I can get several
hundred pairs of skates, shoe
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skates, good condition. There's
a big company somewhere that is
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closing down and they're
liquidating their business
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and he said I found somebody
that'll buy them. Well that's
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creative. So he installed a good
music system and put it in the
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newspaper, put up signs and two
days a week during the summer
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he was there in the evening with
those kids and they showed up,
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they came. And as they
came through the door they said
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what's it cost? He said, nothing
You need some skates, over there
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There are some rules and he
had installed a something like a
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pipe or something, you know
a rail around the inside around
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the wall so that beginners could
stand up and skate around there
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with one hand to hold them
up. And he said, there are some
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rules. You have to be attentive
to whatever's going on; the
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girls only then it's girls only
and we respect each other in
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here. And he said but before we
skate at all we go to the center
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Everybody puts on your skates,
come to the center. We're going
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read a text or two in the Bible.
We're going to talk about what
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that means to us personally.
We're going to pray and then you
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can go out and have fun. Well
the kids said, not a problem.
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And so he did that.
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You know what's beautiful about
that too is that he's taking
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where he's at, an existing
environment, and finding
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creative ways of using it. You
know sometimes we think we have
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to go out and invent something
new or do something new, but
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the fact is that gym was there
already. He just saw something
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that would be different
and creative and would meet the
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needs of the community
and actually draw them in. The
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beauty of that my guess is
it was much easier for those
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families of those kids to come
back to the church perhaps for
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another event because
they'd already been there once.
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Well I want to say, it seems
like they've had 31 baptisms
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from that specific ministry
because parents get interested
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and they're saying you know my
kid's different. Well of course
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he's different. He has
been exposed to the word of God.
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He's been prayed over. He's been
treated like a gentleman and he
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has been shown how a Christian
treats another person with
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respect and maturity and
the kids are learning. And they
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respond. You know, young people,
and older people, will live up
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to expectations.
And the bridge building,
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wonderful metaphor really
is breaking down the wall. It's
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building a bridge that breaks
down a wall and that bridge
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broke down the wall of hesitancy
for those people to connect with
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You know, I'm in a
church plant and so we don't
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have a permanent building of our
own. We're a portable church.
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We come in, you know, with the
truck and trailer and all our
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equipment into a middle school
in the middle of the community
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and we were thinking of ways
to try to build bridges to the
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school that we meet in.
So I went one day into the
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principal's office and I just
talked with her and I said we
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would like to do something for
your school, just to kind of,
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you know, build a bridge. And
she said well our dictionaries
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are really old in the classrooms
So I went back to our group and
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we decided that we would equip
every room in that school with a
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brand new dictionary. And
the principal was so grateful.
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I want to stop you. I love
it. But what did that cost?
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It wasn't much. No,
no it wasn't. I mean less
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than $1000, to build that bridge
Well the principal was really
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grateful and every year the
school has an opportunity for
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business people to come in the
school and judge presentations
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made by the students and they
invited me to come. You know, a
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pastor, a Christian pastor, from
the community to come into the
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public school and actually
participate in the classroom
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helping the students
with their presentations.
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Because you had built a creative
bridge. You had done something.
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You'd filled a need as Christ
did and they wanted to say to
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you in their own way,
you've become our friend.
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Now that's not the end of the
story. I have another aspect of
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the story because one of the
things we'd decided in our core
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group development was we wanted
to really reach out and join the
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local chamber of commerce.
I don't know how many churches
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have really considered this, but
when you consider the fact that
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you have a huge business
community there and the chamber
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is the place where you can
connect and you join and they
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have a breakfast every month
and you go there and wear your
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badge, you know, as a pastor.
You interact with the different
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community people and when they
have like a big event, Easter or
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Christmas concert, you prepare
little cards and I place the
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cards at each place at the
breakfast. So I did that this
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one year and it happened to
be the breakfast where they were
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hosting all the principals
from the schools in the school
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district. And they were having
each principal get up and give
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a little statement about their
school. Well when the principal
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of Mesa Verde Middle School
where we meet got up she held up
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one of the cards unbeknownst to
me and she said I just want to
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encourage all of you to attend
this program here at Moorpark
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Community
Seventh-day Adventist Church.
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Ah that's wonderful. You
said one thing. You said it
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didn't cost that much, $1000,
and some people go that's a lot
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of money. Why would we bother
to spend $1000 to build bridges?
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I think it comes back to the
attitude. If I just view myself
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saying you know I'm a follower
of Jesus. I just want to try to
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stay out of trouble until Jesus
comes and everybody else can be
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damned then you're not going to
spend $1000 on building a bridge
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But if you really believe that
it's something that Jesus has
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asked you to do and something
he modeled then you have the
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attitude of saying that was a
small investment to build such a
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wonderful bridge. But
you know the interesting
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thing is the principles of the
kingdom and building the kingdom
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of heaven aren't based on $1000.
He said give a cup of cold water
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For instance, at a sporting
event there were people that
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were handing out cold bottles
of water. It was a hot, hot day
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in Cincinnati, Ohio and people
said, I'm dying of thirst. I
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needed this cold water. Why are
you here doing this? May I pay
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you? No, no, no. But here's a
little card. This will explain
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On one side it says,
Demonstrating God's love in a
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practical way. On the other side
it has the name of the church,
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the website, maybe a phone
number for the pastor and people
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go away drinking that cold water
and reading this and shaking
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their heads and they don't throw
the card away. They put it in
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their pocket and a lot of people
have gone the churches because
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there have been just little
creative ways. It doesn't always
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have to cost a thousand dollars.
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Well that's true, that's true.
Every year in Moorpark they
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have what they call a
peach festival and the chamber
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sponsors it and local businesses
can buy booth space and so we
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always get a booth for
our church. We had made
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up these little
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stress balls you know, stress
balls that you squeeze and it
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was actually a world globe, a
little world globe and we just
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put on it He's got the whole
world in his hands. We handed
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those out and people were
squeezing them and looking at
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them, you know. Just
small things like that.
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Was there anything that told
them who was giving them this.
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Yes, our logo was right there
Moorpark Community Seventh-
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day Adventist Church.
Because they want to know.
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Exactly. We have a
fair in our city and
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know about our Prayers and
Squares Quilting Ministry which
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is typically give to people if
their sick or if they're facing
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a challenge to remind them that
people are praying for them.
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But we noticed they had a
grandmother of the year award
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for the city. So we thought
well what about one of these
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beautiful quilts that our
quilting ministry makes and give
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that to the grandmother of the
year without thinking how much
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advertising we get from that but
just building a bridge and that
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has become an annual tradition
of the fair that the Forest Lake
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church Prayers and Squares
Quilting Ministry presents a
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quilt to the grandmother of
the year. So someone somewhere
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will remember that and perhaps
will say you know those are
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people who build
bridges rather than walls.
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I like in your book, and you
can remind me of the author, but
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it's called Seed Flinging.
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Oh yes, Steve Sjogren.
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Yes and that's such a nice
thought because that's really
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what we're doing; we're
flinging seeds. You know stress
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balls or wonderful quilts,
you know whatever it is we're
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planting those seeds and the
Bible tells us clearly that we
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are seed planters and
he is really the harvester.
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I think there's a very important
principle here and we would be
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remiss if we didn't point
this out and that is. That is
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sometimes we have been taught
that in order to be sharing our
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experience or sharing the love
of Jesus in just the right way
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we have to be able to expect
and measure some results. Wrong!
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I think we need to be doing
anything that we're doing with
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no strings attached.
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Not only are there no strings
attached, Ruthie, but there's no
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stereotypical way of
responding. Sometimes we think
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well I'm supposed to be
witnessing and we have this kind
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of regimented approach and some
people say well I'm just not
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like that. The beautiful thing
about bridge building is I'm
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doing things with no strings
attached and I'm doing them
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in a creative and spontaneous
way and just allowing the Spirit
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to use my gifts...
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And it doesn't have to
look like anybody else's.
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Exactly and I think that what
makes it so enjoyable because
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I'm just saying God just lead
me, the prayer that you talked
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about, Tim. Just lead me and
I'll just be building bridges
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all day. And you
never know, you never
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know where he's
going to take you.
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Well that's the exciting part
really is just move into your
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day of being sensitive,
allowing God to sensitize you
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so you understand that there
will be opportunities that will
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come. For example, in our church
plant one thing that I talked to
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the Lord about was the school
district sends a paid custodian
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to be there every week and
I said I am going to develop a
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relationship with this
custodian each week and the
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custodians take turns because
they make time-and-a-half on the
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weekends, you know, so it's a
good thing for them. Anyway so
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they do about five weeks at a
time. Now I kind of compared it
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to Paul when he was in prison
and he had the guard there and
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he determined to
witness to that guard.
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A captive audience. A
captive audience, exactly.
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So I've made it a point to learn
the names and ask about their
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families, to develop a
relationship with them and now
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after five years I know the full
custodian staff of the Moorpark
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school district. I know them by
name, I know their families and
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when I come for a setup they
come right over, Pastor Tim how
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are you. I just see that as
a way of connecting with them,
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planting seeds and seeing
them and how they respond.
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I like that. You know somebody
has said, may have been my
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husband, he gets pretty profound
sometimes. But somebody said if
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you go too long without
listening you forget how to talk
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and if we aren't listening
to the people around us, if we
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aren't gearing what we're
doing to meet their needs, if we
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aren't just flinging seeds,
if we aren't doing something
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totally for them, totally
for the kingdom then we can be
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doing our own thing and
be totally out of touch.
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That's correct, yeah. I had one
of these custodians come to me
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one week with a very personal
family situation and right there
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at the entrance to that
gymnasium at that school, the
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two of us bowed and had
prayer and I was able to provide
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pastoral care for this custodian
as he was going through a very
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tragic situation. And I think
that's what happens when we
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plant the seeds then the Lord
uses us to minister to people.
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You know, here's a very,
very simple, simple thing but it
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means everything in our
community. For instance, we had
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a bathroom party and
because... That's a true story.
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Explain what that means.
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Because we needed a bathroom
remodel and all the people who
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came to work on the bathroom
liked what we were doing because
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we knocked out a wall and put
in a window and brought in some
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pretty tile and everybody that
was working on it said, I want
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to see this when it's finished.
My wife would like to see this
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when it's finished. So what
could we do? We had to invite
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everybody and have a party. Well
they loved the idea of having a
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bathroom party. But there have
been so many serendipity things
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that have happened since that
time. People have said to me
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we've got to get better
acquainted, could we study the
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Bible together. These are
invitations. I want to come to
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your home and we want to get
better acquainted with you. My
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boyfriend wouldn't go to
your church for anything, but he
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would come to your home if
you'd invite him to come up for
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a meal and we can pray together
at your home. See these are open
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doors and one of the vendors,
our cabinet man said I have a
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new place of business, and
he has a gorgeous new office and
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showroom and he's worked
very hard and it's a beautiful,
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beautiful new place of business.
He said I want you and Don to
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come down and bless my place of
business, have a special prayer
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service. And we still are
planning to do that. But I drop
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by once in a while with
something like cookies or
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something. The other day he said
to me, why are you so good to
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Lucille and me? I said, you're
just great people He said, Wow
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we are aren't we? So let me get
this straight, Ruthie. You're
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literally and figuratively
breaking down walls, huh?
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You know what you illustrated
which is so important is once
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you've built a bridge, you
can pass back and forth and this
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cabinet maker can also
come across that bridge and say
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would you pray for my new
showroom. Because the bridge is
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there it is easier for that
person to come back and connect
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with you. And I think
that emphasizes that it's not a
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one-time event. It's a process.
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No it's a cultivated
relationship. And something that
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by husband does; and at first
I thought this seemed a little
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strange and what difference
does it make, but every time he
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drives by on the way to the post
office the bank, whatever, he
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has to go by Phil's new showroom
and so he taps on the horn three
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time, beep, beep, beep and
I thought who's going to hear
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that, who's going to care. But
he and Phil were talking about
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it and Don said, you know every
time I drive by I give you three
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little taps on the horn. That's
saying, we love you, we're going
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by and we care about you. The
last time that I stopped by to
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see Phil he was talking to me
about something that was coming
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up and he said, I've got to tell
you something. I said, what's
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that? He said, you know what
your dear husband does? I said
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hard to tell. He said, he
gives me a three-tap on his horn
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hello every time he drives by
here. You know I really didn't
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think it was such a big thing,
but apparently God can take the
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simplest things and if we're
praying, I believe that's the
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bottom line. If we give the Lord
our day, if we acknowledge our
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need of him and if we say Lord
I'll be obedient then he can
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take the strangest, simplest
things and used them for kingdom
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business. Yes, and
I think people need to
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hear that. They need to be
reassured that in their setting
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there are ways that God can use
them in simple, easy things. You
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know, it's not complicated, this
is not difficult. It's simply
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being open and using their
unique gifts in a simple way.
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You know, in our neighborhood
I've tried to connect with the
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people and it's a very intimate,
close neighborhood and there are
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four pastors in our neighborhood
and we all know each other and
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one neat thing about planting
seeds and about reaching out and
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building bridges is you can
go both ways on the bridge. And
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it's a mutually beneficial type
thing. And I actually have a
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Catholic priest that I'm a good
friend with that lives down the
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street and when we see
each other out on the street, he
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calls me and I go over
and we talk to each other and
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inevitably he'll say let's pray
for each other and so he prays
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for me and I pray for him and
together we have a sense that
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we're both in the work for
the Lord. That's the beauty of
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creating these bridges because
there's this greater community
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out there of people that
the Lord is using in his work.
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You know, once you've built the
bridge you have the credit to be
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able to do that. If you just
walk randomly up to someone and
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say let me pray for you, you're
invading their private space,
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they don't know who you
are, maybe you're going to steal
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their wallet, you know. Once
you've built that in simple ways
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a smile, a honking horn,
whatever it is, then you have
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those time, like with the lady
where you could pray for her and
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pray together. So maybe to use
the analogy of the bridge, the
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bridge gets broader and
stronger as time passes.
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I couldn't believe that
Phil said to me every time your
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husband goes by he honks
and I could tell that was really
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meaningful to him. It
was a reminder to him that
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there was a bridge between you.
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Now how hard is that?
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That's a simple thing that makes
a connection and to carry the
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analogy further, I think as
you make the connection you find
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more people on the bridge. You
know, in the community, in the
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neighborhood as the word gets
around; well I had prayer with
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that pastor or he helped me then
others collect that word and
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pretty soon they know that
you're open to the possibility
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of you
ministering to their needs.
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What's happening in my
development, my wife and I walk
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together and one lady fell down
while we were walking and we
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prayed with her and she asked
about us and I told her I was a
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pastor and somehow word got
around to all the walking people
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and sometimes people I
don't even know will say Morning
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pastor, you know. A bridge has
been built and they had bridges
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to other friends and only
God knows where that ends up.
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Just recently we had an
interdenominational event
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in our little town. And before
we did that a little group of us
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interdenominational, got
together and prayer walked.
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We prayer walked the entire
church where this was going to
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be held. We went to the pulpit
and we prayed for the sermon.
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We went to the piano because we
knew that was going to be used.
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We walked up and down the aisles
and prayed for the people who
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would be there and we prayed
that God would send unchurched
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people. Now when
you say prayer walk,
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you pray as you walk?
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That's right. Yes. One person
prays out loud. You usually have
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two or three in the group. One
person prays out loud and the
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others pray silently. But you
are agreeing in prayer. You're
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asking God to do something
at that specific place. And it's
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based on the text in Joshua
where God said wherever you step
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your foot, I'm
going to give that to you.
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Now you just said something that
I think is really important. You
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said that's what it says
in Joshua. You know, what's
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interesting is when we have this
attitude and we pray that God
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uses us, suddenly the scripture
comes alive with ideas.
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That's right, that's right.
But this prayer walking became a
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very significant event not only
for the people who were going
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to be there, the speakers, the
musician a couple days later,
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and we told them. We said we
have prayer walked this place
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for you. They loved it. But
it also was meaningful for the
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group who was prayer walking.
They loved it. And that's just
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creative bridge building.
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You were building bridges with
the group as well as bridges to
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the community. And
there's no end to prayer
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walking or to bridge building.
You can use prayer walking
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anywhere. You can use
bridge building anywhere.
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When you consider that, it's
only as big as God's potential.
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Which means that
it's absolutely limitless.
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That's right, that's right. Well
we're just about out of time,
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but I want to think you
both. It's so good to hear your
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stories and to hear your
profound wisdom from scripture
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and your experience. I'm sure
that our audience enjoyed it as
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much as I did. And I hope
that it piques all of us and our
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curiosity and our minds to think
I want to be creative. I want to
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ask God to use me to build
bridges wherever I go, wherever
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he puts me because he has a
purpose and a plan for my life
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and he is faithful. He has big
surprises. Thanks for joining
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us. We'll see
you again next time.
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