Hello, I'm Shelly Quinn 00:00:30.31\00:00:31.41 and welcome again to "Issues and Answers." 00:00:31.44\00:00:33.65 Today we have something that you won't want to miss. 00:00:33.68\00:00:36.40 We're going to be talking about internet safety 00:00:36.43\00:00:39.44 and we'll specifically be talking about the spiritual 00:00:39.47\00:00:42.66 impact of the internet and media on our families. 00:00:42.69\00:00:47.90 You know, there's really I look at media as a great blessing 00:00:47.93\00:00:52.81 because obviously this is the tool 00:00:52.84\00:00:54.85 through which God is using 3ABN 00:00:54.88\00:00:58.80 as a tool of evangelism in His hands. 00:00:58.83\00:01:01.33 And because we're media, we're broadcasting 00:01:01.36\00:01:04.42 to every inhabited continent around the world. 00:01:04.45\00:01:08.83 What an incredible opportunity. 00:01:08.86\00:01:11.13 And I think of the internet and all the good 00:01:11.16\00:01:13.63 that's on the internet and it's a wonderful tool. 00:01:13.66\00:01:16.08 But at the same time 00:01:16.11\00:01:18.02 if we don't keep our lives in balance 00:01:18.05\00:01:20.54 and if we aren't aware of the dangers 00:01:20.57\00:01:25.15 and the evils that are lurking out of there, out there. 00:01:25.18\00:01:28.12 Then what can happen is the internet 00:01:28.15\00:01:31.21 and media can become our enemy. 00:01:31.24\00:01:34.58 And Peter, wrote something interesting in 1 Peter 5:8, 00:01:34.61\00:01:38.40 he says, "Be well balanced, be vigilant 00:01:38.43\00:01:42.53 and cautious at all times; for that enemy of yours, 00:01:42.56\00:01:45.97 the devil is roaming around like a roaring lion, 00:01:46.00\00:01:50.99 seeking whom he may devour." 00:01:51.02\00:01:53.29 So we got to be cautious and be vigilant. 00:01:53.32\00:01:55.74 And here to do some instruction for us today 00:01:55.77\00:01:59.24 and share some of the wonderful knowledge 00:01:59.27\00:02:00.89 that he's gained is Ernest Staats 00:02:00.92\00:02:03.16 and he is the IT or in--What is IT? 00:02:03.19\00:02:07.77 My mind went blank, is something technology. 00:02:07.80\00:02:09.59 It's the computer information technology. 00:02:09.62\00:02:12.35 And you are the information technology director 00:02:12.38\00:02:15.52 at the Georgia-Cumberland Academy 00:02:15.55\00:02:18.38 in the great town of Calhoun, Georgia. 00:02:18.41\00:02:22.29 That is correct. 00:02:22.32\00:02:23.47 Well, we are so glad that you've come here 00:02:23.50\00:02:25.52 and that you've come safely 00:02:25.55\00:02:27.25 and so is this how you got interested 00:02:27.28\00:02:32.70 obviously in what the internet and media is what kind of impact 00:02:32.73\00:02:37.23 its having on our spirituality. 00:02:37.26\00:02:39.48 Part of it was from academy, 00:02:39.51\00:02:40.55 I started getting into network security 00:02:40.58\00:02:42.30 when I worked for the State of Georgia. 00:02:42.33\00:02:44.39 And then-- when I came on fulltime staff 00:02:44.42\00:02:46.69 on to the academy staff, 00:02:46.72\00:02:48.49 I started seeing some real issues 00:02:48.52\00:02:50.44 and then I went on to get a masters in network security. 00:02:50.47\00:02:53.91 And while I was doing that I was challenged by Nancy Limbro 00:02:53.94\00:02:57.50 who is the division IT director to not look, 00:02:57.53\00:03:00.21 just look at it as technology. 00:03:00.24\00:03:01.61 See I always thought of myself as a technologist. 00:03:01.64\00:03:04.14 I am into data bits, bytes, zeros, ones. 00:03:04.17\00:03:07.68 She was more saying look at it as a ministry. 00:03:07.71\00:03:09.92 I always just thought 00:03:09.95\00:03:10.98 I was a technologist helping a ministry. Right. 00:03:11.01\00:03:12.96 And she challenged me to look at more as a ministry 00:03:12.99\00:03:14.89 and I said okay, if I'm gonna have a ministry, 00:03:14.92\00:03:16.55 where would this fit in. 00:03:16.58\00:03:18.21 And since I kind of got a-- 00:03:18.24\00:03:19.42 I really got involved with security. 00:03:19.45\00:03:21.12 I said, well, how would that fit into 00:03:21.15\00:03:22.37 and I saw there was a huge gap in our church 00:03:22.40\00:03:24.73 with the lack of understanding. 00:03:24.76\00:03:26.80 And not just inside our church, 00:03:26.83\00:03:27.86 I've spoke to other congregations too, 00:03:27.89\00:03:29.90 non-Adventist congregations. 00:03:29.93\00:03:31.15 And there is just a huge lack just across the Christian world 00:03:31.18\00:03:33.27 of understanding the security implications 00:03:33.30\00:03:35.37 of what's online, what they're doing, 00:03:35.40\00:03:37.20 what to do with their cell phones, all of that involved. 00:03:37.23\00:03:39.66 Oh, I'm really, I know that I'm going to be educated as well. 00:03:39.69\00:03:43.09 But let me ask you this because when I think about it, Ernest, 00:03:43.12\00:03:46.65 here we're talking about the spiritual impact 00:03:46.68\00:03:49.03 of media and television and the internet, 00:03:49.06\00:03:52.61 how that's impacting us. 00:03:52.64\00:03:54.78 But first we have to establish is it really becoming a problem. 00:03:54.81\00:03:58.70 I mean, are we-how much time are people spending 00:03:58.73\00:04:02.55 in watching the media and being bombarded by these influences. 00:04:02.58\00:04:07.39 Well, for example my watch here also plays mp3's 00:04:07.42\00:04:11.68 so I can have music on it. 00:04:11.71\00:04:13.23 This is Dick Tracy, aha. 00:04:13.26\00:04:14.93 And I have another watch that I can actually watch movies on, 00:04:14.96\00:04:18.55 that I can sit here and I've got my head phones 00:04:18.58\00:04:20.16 and I can sit here and watch movies. 00:04:20.19\00:04:21.34 You really are a techie, aren't you? 00:04:21.37\00:04:22.58 So, yes, but I mean its just everywhere, 00:04:22.61\00:04:25.64 there are more then 56 unique devices 00:04:25.67\00:04:28.41 that are being tracked by the consumer reports 00:04:28.44\00:04:30.35 right now that are electronic media devices. 00:04:30.38\00:04:33.34 So and that means totally different, I mean, 00:04:33.37\00:04:34.82 an mp3 is and mp3 player 00:04:34.85\00:04:36.24 but there's an mp3 player then there is this, 00:04:36.27\00:04:37.78 then there is this, I mean there is all these. 00:04:37.81\00:04:38.84 There's iPod's and the Blackberry's and that. 00:04:38.87\00:04:41.49 There is everything, exactly. 00:04:41.52\00:04:42.60 So most people are consuming between 8.5 hours a day of media 00:04:42.63\00:04:46.97 and this is children from the ages of 8 to 18. 00:04:47.00\00:04:49.54 8.5? 8.5 hours of media a day. 00:04:49.57\00:04:53.15 Where do people have time to do that? 00:04:53.18\00:04:55.32 Yeah. That's amazing. 00:04:55.35\00:04:56.54 Well, and kids complain about homework 00:04:56.57\00:04:58.15 but they don't spend 8.5 hours on the whole 00:04:58.18\00:05:00.13 but when they are doing homework 00:05:00.16\00:05:01.19 they are listening, they are watching stuff on TV. 00:05:01.22\00:05:03.96 There's most--lot of times people are--right now 00:05:03.99\00:05:06.12 60% of young people that were pulled 00:05:06.15\00:05:08.13 when they rather eating their meals, they are watching TV. 00:05:08.16\00:05:11.57 That's unbelievable. 00:05:11.60\00:05:12.63 So that means the communication that used to happen, you know, 00:05:12.66\00:05:15.08 when people sit down at the table 00:05:15.11\00:05:16.24 and talk as a family, that's not there. 00:05:16.27\00:05:18.36 You know I say that's unbelievable but I'm thinking, 00:05:18.39\00:05:21.42 my husband and I really don't eat a large supper, 00:05:21.45\00:05:24.38 we just have a little snack and often that's the time 00:05:24.41\00:05:27.05 that we turn on only bit of news 00:05:27.08\00:05:29.33 that we'll get to see for the day or something. 00:05:29.36\00:05:31.28 So it's really become-in the family 00:05:31.31\00:05:34.08 though you kind of think that a family is gonna sit down 00:05:34.11\00:05:36.00 and take that time but it's just not happening. 00:05:36.03\00:05:37.93 It's not happening, no. 00:05:37.96\00:05:39.30 And actually my wife and I were quite surprised 00:05:39.33\00:05:41.07 couple of years back when we invited 00:05:41.10\00:05:42.26 several students over for more of a formal, 00:05:42.29\00:05:44.01 just sit down, just nice dinner supper, 00:05:44.04\00:05:46.35 and the kids weren't, it was a foreign concept 00:05:46.38\00:05:48.24 to the few of the kids that were there 00:05:48.27\00:05:49.37 to actually sit down as a family 00:05:49.40\00:05:51.45 and talk without anything else on, no radio, no TV. 00:05:51.48\00:05:55.35 And they expressed that this was a real culture shock for them. 00:05:55.38\00:05:59.12 And it was real, I didn't think much about at the time, 00:05:59.15\00:06:01.11 I was like, okay. 00:06:01.14\00:06:02.58 You know it seems like there's different personalities 00:06:02.61\00:06:04.62 and I'm not sure but like I'm the type of person 00:06:04.65\00:06:07.02 when I get up in the morning, I appreciate some quiet time, 00:06:07.05\00:06:10.21 so I even get up an hour earlier than my husband, 00:06:10.24\00:06:14.48 at least 45 minutes early to have that quiet time. 00:06:14.51\00:06:17.16 He on the other hand is the type that he wants to get up, 00:06:17.19\00:06:19.52 he's got the TV on and the radio going on 00:06:19.55\00:06:21.85 another room and that constant, 00:06:21.88\00:06:23.70 he doesn't like to driving the car without it. 00:06:23.73\00:06:26.81 Now there is--has something to do with personality 00:06:26.84\00:06:30.11 but I've also noticed that this generation 00:06:30.14\00:06:33.28 of youngsters that are coming up, 00:06:33.31\00:06:35.69 they feel like they have fallen off the face of the earth 00:06:35.72\00:06:38.71 that they're in a vacuum 00:06:38.74\00:06:40.46 if they don't have some kind of media input. Right. 00:06:40.49\00:06:43.31 If they're unplugged, they're almost like 00:06:43.34\00:06:45.66 they're having a culture shock 00:06:45.69\00:06:46.96 and a environmental shock. Yeah. 00:06:46.99\00:06:49.03 'Cause it is, it's on your cell phones, 00:06:49.06\00:06:51.08 you know, cell phones, you can surf the internet. 00:06:51.11\00:06:53.43 You know, so even like 00:06:53.46\00:06:54.49 a Georgia Cumberland Academy, 00:06:54.52\00:06:55.55 we tried real hard to keep good filters on the system. 00:06:55.58\00:06:58.60 But if the kids come with internet on their cell phones, 00:06:58.63\00:07:00.63 they've unfiltered internet. Yes. 00:07:00.66\00:07:02.53 You know, so there's a lots of different aspects 00:07:02.56\00:07:04.43 where they can reach 00:07:04.46\00:07:05.90 and where they're just constantly 00:07:05.93\00:07:07.16 being bombarded by images, by different media and music. 00:07:07.19\00:07:11.53 We're also using it as an education, 00:07:11.56\00:07:13.13 we've got-- our chaplain does, 00:07:13.16\00:07:14.98 you know, a podcast and the kids listen to it 00:07:15.01\00:07:17.02 and they really enjoy it. 00:07:17.05\00:07:18.55 You know, we do a virtual newscast on our website, 00:07:18.58\00:07:20.80 you know, the kids tune into and they enjoy it. 00:07:20.83\00:07:23.27 So, you know, we tap into that 00:07:23.30\00:07:25.26 because we see that this is where the kids are at 00:07:25.29\00:07:27.74 but we also realize that there is also 00:07:27.77\00:07:29.35 some issues along with this. 00:07:29.38\00:07:30.87 So internet use is just continually growing, 00:07:30.90\00:07:34.23 isn't it? It is. 00:07:34.26\00:07:35.29 And there's something I think 00:07:35.32\00:07:36.35 you had a statistic about 150,000 new users a day. 00:07:36.38\00:07:40.25 Right, they were coming on to MySpace. 00:07:40.28\00:07:42.19 On to MySpace. Just under MySpace. 00:07:42.22\00:07:44.49 And MySpace itself has over 13 million people 00:07:44.52\00:07:48.03 viewing it a day which is twice the number of use of Google, 00:07:48.06\00:07:51.19 if you can imagine that. 00:07:51.22\00:07:52.99 And that's so amazing to me 00:07:53.02\00:07:54.05 'cause I guess I'm gonna sound like an old folk, 00:07:54.08\00:07:56.38 yeah, I use the internet all the time 00:07:56.41\00:07:57.70 but I've not been on MySpace 00:07:57.73\00:07:59.31 or any chat room or anything like that 00:07:59.34\00:08:00.90 because I just don't have time, 00:08:00.93\00:08:03.43 so that's interesting. Go ahead. 00:08:03.46\00:08:05.24 I was gonna say that well, 00:08:05.27\00:08:06.64 I have multiple MySpace accounts. 00:08:06.67\00:08:08.25 It amazes me. 00:08:08.28\00:08:09.31 I use it for different things at the school 00:08:09.34\00:08:10.84 'cause we go and check MySpace profiles of young people 00:08:10.87\00:08:13.43 who are interested 00:08:13.46\00:08:14.63 because we find some pretty alarming things 00:08:14.66\00:08:16.54 when we're there sometimes 00:08:16.57\00:08:17.95 and sometimes students are told that 00:08:17.98\00:08:20.20 no, thank you, we don't think 00:08:20.23\00:08:21.42 you'll fit into the program of GCA. 00:08:21.45\00:08:23.90 But what happens is they don't realize that, 00:08:23.93\00:08:25.48 that's also all the companies now are searching that 00:08:25.51\00:08:27.88 when you go look for your next job, 00:08:27.91\00:08:29.34 most of the time they'll check on MySpace profile 00:08:29.37\00:08:31.66 and see what you put out there. 00:08:31.69\00:08:33.29 Oh, you know, and here's something that I think 00:08:33.32\00:08:35.69 that most young people don't recognize 00:08:35.72\00:08:38.11 and many don't is that once it's on the internet, 00:08:38.14\00:08:40.95 it's pretty hard to get it off the record, 00:08:40.98\00:08:43.18 I mean, it's going to be cashed somewhere. 00:08:43.21\00:08:46.11 Well, I've gone around the country 00:08:46.14\00:08:47.57 and I've spoken to different young people 00:08:47.60\00:08:48.92 and they say, we know all about internet, 00:08:48.95\00:08:50.11 we know about security and stuff like that. 00:08:50.14\00:08:52.15 I said how many of you know about worldwide web archive. 00:08:52.18\00:08:55.08 And I get completely dumb looks. 00:08:55.11\00:08:57.03 You know, like I don't know what you're talking about 00:08:57.06\00:08:58.60 and I said, everything you put on the internet, 00:08:58.63\00:09:00.56 even once it's taken off, 00:09:00.59\00:09:02.94 it's still on the worldwide web archive, 00:09:02.97\00:09:04.57 so I can go back and search that. 00:09:04.60\00:09:06.03 Isn't that interesting. 00:09:06.06\00:09:07.09 And the kids are like oh, you mean that picture. 00:09:07.12\00:09:09.15 I said, yeah, that picture. 00:09:09.18\00:09:11.17 And we've don't it before where I asked one girl, 00:09:11.20\00:09:13.57 we came across media cart from the camp 00:09:13.60\00:09:16.15 where they had a bunch of inappropriate contact ones 00:09:16.18\00:09:18.78 and inside that media cart was one of our female students, 00:09:18.81\00:09:21.98 a picture of her in a bathing suit. 00:09:22.01\00:09:23.61 And I said, did you realize this is being passed around the dorm? 00:09:23.64\00:09:27.14 And she's like no. 00:09:27.17\00:09:28.50 And I said, she's like I never gave that picture out. 00:09:28.53\00:09:30.65 And I said, you didn't post it anywhere. 00:09:30.68\00:09:33.02 Oh, was on MySpace. Oh, merciful. 00:09:33.05\00:09:35.52 So she was put in there 00:09:35.55\00:09:36.94 with a bunch of really horrible stuff 00:09:36.97\00:09:39.15 and she didn't realize it. 00:09:39.18\00:09:41.03 You know, and she didn't think about the fact 00:09:41.06\00:09:42.60 just 'cause she put on MySpace, 00:09:42.63\00:09:43.86 she's like I need to get that off 00:09:43.89\00:09:45.29 and I said, oh, okay, good. 00:09:45.32\00:09:47.12 And once it's up there, you can't erase. Right. 00:09:47.15\00:09:48.89 There's no retrieval process that you can reduce it. 00:09:48.92\00:09:51.35 And you know, there's things that are going 00:09:51.38\00:09:52.82 on in high school, you hear about this, that, 00:09:52.85\00:09:55.56 where kids are taking in their cell phones 00:09:55.59\00:09:58.23 and they go into the locker rooms after gym or something 00:09:58.26\00:10:01.33 and they're taking compromising pictures 00:10:01.36\00:10:03.72 and then they put these up on something like MySpace account. 00:10:03.75\00:10:08.53 And they're doing so much damage, 00:10:08.56\00:10:10.78 so there's all of these issues 00:10:10.81\00:10:12.55 that schools have to think about, 00:10:12.58\00:10:13.90 but it's not just schools nowadays, 00:10:13.93\00:10:15.93 I mean, we really--our privacy is really being interrupted here 00:10:15.96\00:10:20.79 and intruded upon. 00:10:20.82\00:10:22.77 Now what kind-because of this large percentage 00:10:22.80\00:10:26.76 of families and teens who are spending time 00:10:26.79\00:10:30.98 in front of the television and on the internet, 00:10:31.01\00:10:35.25 what kind of trends do we see coming out of this? 00:10:35.28\00:10:39.31 Some pre-alarming trends 00:10:39.34\00:10:40.92 as I've taught with different colleges, 00:10:40.95\00:10:42.43 Adventist and non Adventist 00:10:42.46\00:10:43.85 and there's been studies done around the world 00:10:43.88\00:10:45.87 looking at young people and what's happening to them. 00:10:45.90\00:10:48.82 They're finding that they're having high anxiety, 00:10:48.85\00:10:51.96 high depression rates, eating disorders. 00:10:51.99\00:10:55.51 They're also finding that self abuse is going up 00:10:55.54\00:10:57.83 in several different form factors. 00:10:57.86\00:10:59.72 And self abuse can be anything 00:10:59.75\00:11:01.29 from the cutting to they're choking, 00:11:01.32\00:11:04.67 there's all different kinds of things they are doing. 00:11:04.70\00:11:05.73 There are several different forms 00:11:05.76\00:11:07.38 and just and putting themselves down 00:11:07.41\00:11:09.06 and beside what's one of the big issues 00:11:09.09\00:11:10.88 it's kind of spun out of this, 00:11:10.91\00:11:12.11 was something we didn't expect, 00:11:12.14\00:11:13.17 it's called cyber bullying. Yes. 00:11:13.20\00:11:15.75 And that's where they're text messaging each other 00:11:15.78\00:11:17.59 or they get on to MySpace, 00:11:17.62\00:11:18.86 they say horrible things about each other. 00:11:18.89\00:11:20.69 And, you know, people are getting hurt, 00:11:20.72\00:11:22.29 that's happening, that's very common. 00:11:22.32\00:11:24.87 Kids are committing suicide because of cyber bullying. 00:11:24.90\00:11:27.49 We heard of that famous case of a young 13-year-old girl 00:11:27.52\00:11:32.99 who thought that she was interacting with a young boy 00:11:33.02\00:11:36.93 and he was kind of--that language was luring her in 00:11:36.96\00:11:40.61 and it turned out then that the person 00:11:40.64\00:11:43.67 that she was communicating with on MySpace 00:11:43.70\00:11:46.06 turned on her viciously and she committed suicide 00:11:46.09\00:11:50.07 because of this and unfortunately, 00:11:50.10\00:11:52.67 I mean either way it's horrible. 00:11:52.70\00:11:54.64 But it turned out that this was not a young boy 00:11:54.67\00:11:57.73 but a mother of young boy 00:11:57.76\00:11:59.37 who was upset with this little girl 00:11:59.40\00:12:01.12 and so she done this vicious things 00:12:01.15\00:12:03.56 and you know, it's so hard to police. 00:12:03.59\00:12:06.07 Right. So it's very difficult situation. 00:12:06.10\00:12:09.24 And, well, and the FBI are short in staff. 00:12:09.27\00:12:12.04 They have a directive to hire 00:12:12.07\00:12:13.93 literally thousands of people to help them 00:12:13.96\00:12:16.12 but there's not the people out there to do it. 00:12:16.15\00:12:18.53 You know, so the security is the hot topic, 00:12:18.56\00:12:20.56 it's a good job, you know, interest, 00:12:20.59\00:12:22.03 if someone's interested in it but right now, 00:12:22.06\00:12:23.75 there's just a huge demand 00:12:23.78\00:12:24.83 because it's growing exponentially. 00:12:24.86\00:12:27.13 So what are the kind of trends are we seeing? 00:12:27.16\00:12:29.25 Some of the other trends we're seeing is the young people 00:12:29.28\00:12:31.11 are becoming--really specially towards the young people 00:12:31.14\00:12:33.68 that's more of my passion would lie honestly 00:12:33.71\00:12:36.38 working on in academy. Yes. 00:12:36.41\00:12:37.70 We're noticing that the young people 00:12:37.73\00:12:39.74 are getting really disconnected 00:12:39.77\00:12:40.92 from church and from God. 00:12:40.95\00:12:42.02 They're not, they're spiritual seekers 00:12:42.05\00:12:44.02 that we thought they were. 00:12:44.05\00:12:45.72 We're actually finding they would rather 00:12:45.75\00:12:46.99 go to car sales than go to church. 00:12:47.02\00:12:49.03 Well, you know, you're finding when you said that they, 00:12:49.06\00:12:51.37 you know, I was thinking this is a plugged in generation. 00:12:51.40\00:12:54.74 But they're plugging into the wrong power source. 00:12:54.77\00:12:57.22 They're not plugging into God. Right. 00:12:57.25\00:12:59.18 And so it's just another one of these distractions, 00:12:59.21\00:13:02.99 you know, Ernest, I have a saying that sin-- 00:13:03.02\00:13:08.27 what the devil does with sin 00:13:08.30\00:13:10.03 is he puts this beautiful shiny foil wrapping paper around it 00:13:10.06\00:13:15.43 and big old bow and then he serves it up to us 00:13:15.46\00:13:19.12 and it looks so attractive 00:13:19.15\00:13:21.07 and it's nothing more than gift wrapped garbage 00:13:21.10\00:13:23.78 but we don't recognize it. 00:13:23.81\00:13:25.59 And so these kids, they seems innocent 00:13:25.62\00:13:28.33 and they get involved in all of these 00:13:28.36\00:13:31.43 various electronic activities 00:13:31.46\00:13:34.13 and it just is changing their priorities taking, 00:13:34.16\00:13:38.28 robbing them of the time that they could spend with God. 00:13:38.31\00:13:41.73 And not only the time but one of the things 00:13:41.76\00:13:43.38 that's also we've seen a big change 00:13:43.41\00:13:44.94 and I've seen it even through teaching. 00:13:44.97\00:13:47.28 The author Leonard Sweet talked about this generation, 00:13:47.31\00:13:50.34 generation wise being epic, they're experiential, 00:13:50.37\00:13:53.55 if they don't experience it, it's not true. 00:13:53.58\00:13:55.95 They don't have ultimate right and wrong. 00:13:55.98\00:13:57.97 It's what they experience, it's what they participate in. 00:13:58.00\00:14:01.00 yeah, they've been involved in it. 00:14:01.03\00:14:02.71 They're very image driven and that's where the online, 00:14:02.74\00:14:06.27 the text messaging with pictures and videos even. 00:14:06.30\00:14:09.06 You know, all that's part of it and they want to communicate. 00:14:09.09\00:14:11.43 They want to talk about their experiences 00:14:11.46\00:14:13.86 and that's one of the areas 00:14:13.89\00:14:14.92 where I feel like a lot of times as a church, 00:14:14.95\00:14:16.95 we need to look at how we're treating our young people 00:14:16.98\00:14:19.69 because if we don't tap into realizing that they're epic, 00:14:19.72\00:14:22.88 that they want to have images, 00:14:22.91\00:14:24.01 that their communication that they want to participate, 00:14:24.04\00:14:26.54 they want to experience it but there's a problem here 00:14:26.57\00:14:29.26 because that's where they go to places what they do, 00:14:29.29\00:14:31.56 what they do experience, they say, 00:14:31.59\00:14:32.87 oh, that's my reality, that's my truth. 00:14:32.90\00:14:35.76 So they're looking at it differently than we do. 00:14:35.79\00:14:37.66 You know, and how interesting 00:14:37.69\00:14:38.80 because what you just said 00:14:38.83\00:14:40.28 is really what's created this mindset, 00:14:40.31\00:14:44.23 this trend within this younger generation 00:14:44.26\00:14:46.78 is all of these things that we're discussing 00:14:46.81\00:14:49.45 has created this attitude. 00:14:49.48\00:14:52.07 But now, instead of us trying to combat it 00:14:52.10\00:14:55.81 because how do you combat it once it becomes, 00:14:55.84\00:14:58.81 so what you're saying is that 00:14:58.84\00:15:00.45 we actually have to feed into the technique 00:15:00.48\00:15:03.53 if you will, if you're going to reach them. 00:15:03.56\00:15:05.67 I think so, yes. Okay. 00:15:05.70\00:15:07.52 Ellen White in Evangelism talked about in her day 00:15:07.55\00:15:10.50 the big thing was the press. 00:15:10.53\00:15:11.79 There's people who really said 00:15:11.82\00:15:12.87 maybe we shouldn't get into the press 00:15:12.90\00:15:13.98 'cause there was bad books being printed and stuff. 00:15:14.01\00:15:17.15 And she said, no we need to reach the people 00:15:17.18\00:15:18.78 where they were or where they are excuse me 00:15:18.81\00:15:20.90 and that's exactly right. 00:15:20.93\00:15:22.64 Our young people are online. 00:15:22.67\00:15:24.81 At GCA we have over 150 rules just blocking MySpace. 00:15:24.84\00:15:30.07 But I also encourage all of our staff to go out to MySpace. 00:15:30.10\00:15:33.99 Because that's where our kids are. 00:15:34.02\00:15:36.41 While we block it on campus 00:15:36.44\00:15:37.79 to keep them safe and stuff like that. 00:15:37.82\00:15:39.33 We realize when they go home 00:15:39.36\00:15:40.55 when they are on their cell phone, 00:15:40.58\00:15:42.25 they are on MySpace. 00:15:42.28\00:15:43.75 So we try to make a positive outreach there. 00:15:43.78\00:15:46.65 So you're telling me that somebody like myself 00:15:46.68\00:15:48.61 even should learn the use of MySpace 00:15:48.64\00:15:52.33 and to learn how to know what kids are doing online. 00:15:52.36\00:15:56.94 Political candidates are doing it. 00:15:56.97\00:15:59.15 You know, if they are trying to reach 00:15:59.18\00:16:00.32 and they are trying to reach the younger generations, 00:16:00.35\00:16:02.06 I think if you want to reach the younger generations, 00:16:02.09\00:16:03.76 I think we should, yes. That is amazing. 00:16:03.79\00:16:06.48 So what are some of the specific 00:16:06.51\00:16:09.25 implications of on our spiritual life. 00:16:09.28\00:16:13.18 You said that children are tuning out from God somewhat, 00:16:13.21\00:16:18.27 what about these online lives, 00:16:18.30\00:16:21.32 what are the kind of spiritual implications does this bring? 00:16:21.35\00:16:25.35 A lot of people are getting a lot more disconnected. 00:16:25.38\00:16:28.60 Substituting real life relationships, 00:16:28.63\00:16:31.35 that's happening sometimes between spouses, 00:16:31.38\00:16:33.73 that sometime happen between kids and parents, 00:16:33.76\00:16:36.10 that's happening between us and the Lord. Yeah. 00:16:36.13\00:16:38.86 Because even if I'm looking up at spiritual stuff, 00:16:38.89\00:16:41.17 I'm always doing spiritual stuff online, 00:16:41.20\00:16:43.56 that's a different type of medium. 00:16:43.59\00:16:45.31 If there's not some quite time to hear the voice of the Lord. 00:16:45.34\00:16:49.05 Then there's a problem and people are not realizing 00:16:49.08\00:16:52.02 and I call the big G's and little G's. 00:16:52.05\00:16:54.65 I say we need to go back to the big G 00:16:54.68\00:16:56.37 which is the Word of God. Okay. 00:16:56.40\00:16:58.03 And we need to unplug from the little G's, 00:16:58.06\00:16:59.78 the Google's, the MySpace, 00:16:59.81\00:17:01.71 all these other G's that are part of our life. 00:17:01.74\00:17:04.75 So I think there's a certain amount of time 00:17:04.78\00:17:06.46 that we need to detoxify basically. 00:17:06.49\00:17:09.86 When I was in Union College, 00:17:09.89\00:17:11.26 one of our professors there 00:17:11.29\00:17:12.40 always told us in literature class 00:17:12.43\00:17:13.98 that while she read a lot of literature for every hour 00:17:14.01\00:17:16.70 she spent in secular literature, 00:17:16.73\00:17:18.47 she would spent two hours in the Bible. Amen. 00:17:18.50\00:17:21.33 If I did that with my media life, 00:17:21.36\00:17:22.82 that would be an amazing amount of time in the Bible. 00:17:22.85\00:17:26.04 And, you know, the one thing about the Word of God is, 00:17:26.07\00:17:29.73 it is inexhaustible but it takes--it's interesting that, 00:17:29.76\00:17:34.09 you know, the Psalmist said, 00:17:34.12\00:17:35.22 taste and see how good the Lord is. 00:17:35.25\00:17:37.92 But it takes more than just dipping 00:17:37.95\00:17:40.27 your toe in occasionally to really enjoy. 00:17:40.30\00:17:43.12 You've got to learn how to jump into it 00:17:43.15\00:17:45.57 and really to swim but I will say one thing, 00:17:45.60\00:17:48.64 I love Bible software. 00:17:48.67\00:17:50.29 I mean, to me Bible software has changed the way I study, 00:17:50.32\00:17:55.29 it's made my study experience so much richer, 00:17:55.32\00:17:58.42 so there's some really good things about this as well. 00:17:58.45\00:18:02.36 Some excellent things, 00:18:02.39\00:18:03.56 I use these sort a lot, I really like it. 00:18:03.59\00:18:05.36 I have it on my laptop, 00:18:05.39\00:18:06.57 you know, it's got different maps, 00:18:06.60\00:18:07.87 I can pull up the Greek, I can still say, you know, 00:18:07.90\00:18:09.81 what was the real meaning behind this. 00:18:09.84\00:18:11.80 And try and dig a little bit deeper into that. 00:18:11.83\00:18:14.01 And there's so many resources out there 00:18:14.04\00:18:16.40 and the nice thing I like seeing in our church now, 00:18:16.43\00:18:19.40 as I'm starting to see more resources for young people. 00:18:19.43\00:18:22.07 You know, Review and Herald, several other sites, 00:18:22.10\00:18:23.75 these children sites up that are fantastic. 00:18:23.78\00:18:26.56 And I think we need to have more and more of that 00:18:26.59\00:18:28.83 not less that are plugging and pulling young people 00:18:28.86\00:18:31.76 'cause they're already gonna be out there online. 00:18:31.79\00:18:33.89 My 3 year old girl Nariah, you know, 00:18:33.92\00:18:35.86 she's four now but when she was three years old, 00:18:35.89\00:18:38.01 she called me said, daddy, 00:18:38.04\00:18:39.07 I was at strawberryshortcake.com today with mommy. 00:18:39.10\00:18:41.99 And I was like, oh, my...you know, 00:18:42.02\00:18:44.45 she's already getting used to it 00:18:44.48\00:18:45.91 and she can drive a mouse very well as a four year old. 00:18:45.94\00:18:48.42 And they do it-- And they do it. 00:18:48.45\00:18:49.65 She knows her way around. 00:18:49.68\00:18:50.98 So of course besides having some educational stuff, 00:18:51.01\00:18:53.28 I want to make sure she's getting 00:18:53.31\00:18:54.47 some spiritual content also in there too. 00:18:54.50\00:18:55.99 Amen, amen. 00:18:56.02\00:18:57.14 So what are some of the--with the teens, 00:18:57.17\00:19:00.71 other than the fact that they're just unplugging, 00:19:00.74\00:19:04.47 what are some of the implications for youth 00:19:04.50\00:19:07.52 when it comes to the media online lives 00:19:07.55\00:19:12.23 that they're living? 00:19:12.26\00:19:13.96 As I mentioned before we're seeing higher anxiety, 00:19:13.99\00:19:16.38 higher depression rates 00:19:16.41\00:19:18.20 but lot of them are now on medication, for things, 00:19:18.23\00:19:22.05 you see a lot more of that what used to. 00:19:22.08\00:19:24.18 We have small numbers of hyperactive children before. 00:19:24.21\00:19:27.16 Now we're seeing a lot more or higher numbers 00:19:27.19\00:19:29.68 and they're more medicated. 00:19:29.71\00:19:31.16 And, you know, I rarely watch television 00:19:31.19\00:19:34.51 but as I sometimes I'll flip the channels 00:19:34.54\00:19:37.11 to be looking for a specific program 00:19:37.14\00:19:39.78 and I saw a commercial the other night 00:19:39.81\00:19:42.40 and noticed this increasingly 00:19:42.43\00:19:44.55 so lately is that commercials 00:19:44.58\00:19:47.45 within that 30 to 60 second timeslot, 00:19:47.48\00:19:51.47 you're bombarded with a couple of hundred images, 00:19:51.50\00:19:54.00 they just bam, bam, bam, bam. 00:19:54.03\00:19:55.91 Now this is what's happening to little kids 00:19:55.94\00:19:59.06 who are watching television all the time, 00:19:59.09\00:20:00.74 they're having all of these images 00:20:00.77\00:20:03.00 and I'm wondering if that's not what's giving 00:20:03.03\00:20:04.78 them the ADD and ADHD, 00:20:04.81\00:20:06.98 it's just their brains don't learn to go 00:20:07.01\00:20:10.97 from step A to step Z, it's kind of like A G B F 00:20:11.00\00:20:16.85 and it's just back and forth 00:20:16.88\00:20:18.26 and it's shooting that at all the time. 00:20:18.29\00:20:20.40 Yeah, and that's what we're finding 00:20:20.43\00:20:21.64 a lot of them are pulling their spirituality from to, 00:20:21.67\00:20:24.53 as far as who they are with the Lord, 00:20:24.56\00:20:26.93 what they do is they pull little from here, 00:20:26.96\00:20:29.01 a little from there, they pull little from this 00:20:29.04\00:20:31.31 and I'm talking not even just from one religion. 00:20:31.34\00:20:34.74 Because they're seeing all this stuff is out on the internet. 00:20:34.77\00:20:37.43 There's a little bit of Hindu mixed in here, 00:20:37.46\00:20:38.94 a little bit of Buddhism mixed in here, 00:20:38.97\00:20:40.74 it's on the TV shows, it's on their favorite movies. 00:20:40.77\00:20:44.06 So they pull all these little trends in and out 00:20:44.09\00:20:46.44 and that makes who they are. 00:20:46.47\00:20:48.44 So they're now being coming very pluralistic 00:20:48.47\00:20:51.11 in their philosophies and their religion. 00:20:51.14\00:20:53.28 Oh, mercy, that's dangerous. That is very dangerous. 00:20:53.31\00:20:55.62 And I saw when we go on, go on for four years, 00:20:55.65\00:20:58.32 lot of the kids there, they were Adventists 00:20:58.35\00:21:00.00 because it was such a catholic society, 00:21:00.03\00:21:01.60 call themselves Catholic Adventist, 00:21:01.63\00:21:03.90 which at first I said, this is a contradiction. 00:21:03.93\00:21:06.35 It was really hard for me to wrap my head around 00:21:06.38\00:21:07.88 but because their families were so catholic, 00:21:07.91\00:21:09.99 they would go to rosaries, they would do all this. 00:21:10.02\00:21:12.33 They would sit here and then they would come back 00:21:12.36\00:21:14.10 and it would go back around, so I would see how, 00:21:14.13\00:21:16.27 they would see even opposing views 00:21:16.30\00:21:18.58 on the State of the Dead for example. 00:21:18.61\00:21:20.63 They will say, they were Adventists 00:21:20.66\00:21:21.69 but they talk about so and so 00:21:21.72\00:21:22.84 being in heaven right now with Jesus. 00:21:22.87\00:21:24.86 So the kids are pulling these little pieces 00:21:24.89\00:21:27.08 from here and there. That's so dangerous. 00:21:27.11\00:21:29.86 And so what can we do if there's parents 00:21:29.89\00:21:32.10 out here watching or even teenagers 00:21:32.13\00:21:35.55 who might be watching. 00:21:35.58\00:21:36.73 What can we do to make sure that we're not squandering 00:21:36.76\00:21:41.44 our spiritual health if you will online? 00:21:41.47\00:21:46.79 First, I would recommend unplug and detoxify, 00:21:46.82\00:21:50.12 for a while, I mean, I work, 00:21:50.15\00:21:51.84 you know, I've all the great geeks 00:21:51.87\00:21:53.99 at the school work for me 00:21:54.02\00:21:55.64 and they're great group of people. 00:21:55.67\00:21:56.97 I've got one girl and a bunch of guys 00:21:57.00\00:21:58.34 and they do fantastic work. 00:21:58.37\00:22:00.70 But even there, people think of them as the nerds. 00:22:00.73\00:22:03.00 They enjoy going out and going rock climbing. 00:22:03.03\00:22:04.93 I got a climbing wall behind my house, 00:22:04.96\00:22:06.78 they enjoy doing that. 00:22:06.81\00:22:08.20 You know, they enjoy doing some stuff 00:22:08.23\00:22:09.81 that's totally non technological at all. 00:22:09.84\00:22:12.72 And we need to find avenues, so we can plug in there. 00:22:12.75\00:22:15.40 We need to spend time with them. 00:22:15.43\00:22:16.82 The biggest thing that I tell parents, 00:22:16.85\00:22:18.48 it's not rocket science, you don't have to understand 00:22:18.51\00:22:20.30 all the super intricacies of technology 00:22:20.33\00:22:22.23 that maybe someone like me 00:22:22.26\00:22:23.29 or other people may know but you need to know is, 00:22:23.32\00:22:26.52 its good parenting is good parenting. 00:22:26.55\00:22:28.71 You spend time with your kids. 00:22:28.74\00:22:30.32 Even online that's what you're saying, okay. 00:22:30.35\00:22:32.34 Right, you spend cyber time. Okay. 00:22:32.37\00:22:34.72 And just like my little girl Nariah, 00:22:34.75\00:22:36.70 she's 4 years old I know who all her friends are, 00:22:36.73\00:22:38.48 I know their parents. 00:22:38.51\00:22:40.00 I need to know when she gets older, 00:22:40.03\00:22:41.62 who her friends are online. 00:22:41.65\00:22:43.67 I want to know who they are. 00:22:43.70\00:22:45.09 I want to be involved with her life. 00:22:45.12\00:22:46.77 Now how does a parent, I just know there's someone out there 00:22:46.80\00:22:49.13 saying, you got to be kidding me, 00:22:49.16\00:22:50.80 my teenage daughter and how does she see it, 00:22:50.83\00:22:52.65 if I sat down and try to be her online partner 00:22:52.68\00:22:56.01 and see what she's doing. 00:22:56.04\00:22:57.26 How does a parent go about doing something like this? 00:22:57.29\00:23:00.93 And I'm not going to tell you that its that's the easy walk, 00:23:00.96\00:23:03.76 it's a challenge, there are several different ways, 00:23:03.79\00:23:05.87 one of the thing is to open the two way, two line communication, 00:23:05.90\00:23:09.28 you can't just pull the plug 00:23:09.31\00:23:10.74 and rip the computer out tomorrow. 00:23:10.77\00:23:12.54 If you do what will happen is the kids will go underground 00:23:12.57\00:23:14.69 with it and you have just lost the battle 00:23:14.72\00:23:16.71 'cause now you have no idea what they are doing. 00:23:16.74\00:23:18.95 So my suggestion is you start talking say 00:23:18.98\00:23:21.11 hey, if you are not involved with their daily life friends, 00:23:21.14\00:23:24.25 you need to start there. 00:23:24.28\00:23:25.78 get involved with their friends 00:23:25.81\00:23:26.88 that they have that are coming around the house 00:23:26.91\00:23:28.93 and then it will just be a natural transition 00:23:28.96\00:23:30.81 into what are your friends like online. 00:23:30.84\00:23:32.70 I want to be a part of your online life too. 00:23:32.73\00:23:35.21 Because I love you, you're my child, 00:23:35.24\00:23:36.58 I want to be involved in your life. 00:23:36.61\00:23:38.76 So that's where you kind of have to make the transition. 00:23:38.79\00:23:41.41 And that is a lot of prayer to go into that-- 00:23:41.44\00:23:44.13 And a lot of prayer, a lot of prayer. 00:23:44.16\00:23:46.04 Okay, what are some specific steps that parents can use 00:23:46.07\00:23:50.74 to learn to help their children balance their online time. 00:23:50.77\00:23:54.90 You know, 'cause as you were talking, 00:23:54.93\00:23:56.06 I was thinking one thing I would do maybe as a parent, 00:23:56.09\00:23:59.22 if I knew my child is spending too much time plugged in. 00:23:59.25\00:24:03.91 Is that I would entice him to do exciting things, 00:24:03.94\00:24:08.93 have some exciting adventures to go 00:24:08.96\00:24:10.86 through that something we'll have to use both hands 00:24:10.89\00:24:14.09 and feet and can may be plugged in. 00:24:14.12\00:24:18.03 I worked in summer camp for Nariah's summer, 00:24:18.06\00:24:19.63 so my first answer is gonna be summer camp. 00:24:19.66\00:24:22.56 Because and then make sure that the summer camp 00:24:22.59\00:24:24.33 has a policy were they are unplugged. 00:24:24.36\00:24:25.93 And I found several Christian Adventist and non Adventist 00:24:25.96\00:24:28.46 camps where they say, no headphones allowed. 00:24:28.49\00:24:31.24 You know and that's part of the importance to make sure 00:24:31.27\00:24:34.15 the kids are out doing stuff in nature 00:24:34.18\00:24:37.02 being involved in the real world 00:24:37.05\00:24:39.23 giving them opportunities to lead. 00:24:39.26\00:24:41.94 That's one of the things we strive very hard 00:24:41.97\00:24:43.61 for at the church that I attended, 00:24:43.64\00:24:45.32 we make sure that the kids, 00:24:45.35\00:24:46.38 they are not junior elder, they are elders. Wonderful. 00:24:46.41\00:24:49.22 They are part of the church board 00:24:49.25\00:24:51.35 so they see everything they become a part of it. 00:24:51.38\00:24:53.55 They are just you know board associates 00:24:53.58\00:24:56.16 they actually sit on there full votes, 00:24:56.19\00:24:58.20 they are full board members. 00:24:58.23\00:25:00.13 But you give them leadership, you let them experience it, 00:25:00.16\00:25:03.25 you let them participate, you have some image 00:25:03.28\00:25:05.45 and you know, you let them communicate 00:25:05.48\00:25:07.57 that's how you pull them in. 00:25:07.60\00:25:09.15 You know, it's so amazing, 00:25:09.18\00:25:10.59 my husband and I were in the Cayman Islands 00:25:10.62\00:25:13.50 just recently and I want to say 00:25:13.53\00:25:16.00 hello to all of our brothers and sisters down there. 00:25:16.03\00:25:18.97 And we had such a wonderful time and wonderful people 00:25:19.00\00:25:22.02 and wonderful hospitality. 00:25:22.05\00:25:23.83 But coming back in the airport, I believe we were in Miami 00:25:23.86\00:25:27.86 and there was a soccer team, 00:25:27.89\00:25:30.89 young men they were sitting all around 00:25:30.92\00:25:33.00 and I punched JB on his shoulder and I said, honey, 00:25:33.03\00:25:36.29 look out of about 18 boys that were sitting around us, 00:25:36.32\00:25:40.26 only one of them was not plugged in doing something 00:25:40.29\00:25:43.75 as we were sitting there. 00:25:43.78\00:25:45.60 And the thought comes to me there's some parent out there 00:25:45.63\00:25:49.25 who's saying, you know, there's so many dangers 00:25:49.28\00:25:52.24 on the internet and if this is, 00:25:52.27\00:25:53.57 if my child is going to maybe be introduced to pluralism 00:25:53.60\00:25:57.52 as far as worshipping many different forms of a god 00:25:57.55\00:26:01.39 or different gods, would it be best just to say 00:26:01.42\00:26:06.79 okay, unplug, none other stuff. 00:26:06.82\00:26:10.80 And I would say no 00:26:10.83\00:26:11.86 because you're gonna get have straight rebellion. 00:26:11.89\00:26:14.82 At least I'll be really surprised if few wouldn't. 00:26:14.85\00:26:17.24 And that's were I think that's the easy road 00:26:17.27\00:26:20.07 is to say we're just unplugging we're done. 00:26:20.10\00:26:22.76 The better road which often times the harder road 00:26:22.79\00:26:26.09 is to get involved with there online life 00:26:26.12\00:26:28.47 and to sit there and say, how can I help you lead you. 00:26:28.50\00:26:31.83 Ask them about their philosophies, 00:26:31.86\00:26:34.00 you might be surprised. Amen. 00:26:34.03\00:26:35.96 And so it mean, we start talking to them just communicate 00:26:35.99\00:26:38.61 and say what do you believe about when you die 00:26:38.64\00:26:41.77 and listen, don't try to correct. 00:26:41.80\00:26:44.65 You know when you said that might be the easier way, 00:26:44.68\00:26:48.16 it's just kind of like when you want to teach 00:26:48.19\00:26:50.18 your child how to cook. 00:26:50.21\00:26:51.37 I mean, it's actually easier to get into the kitchen 00:26:51.40\00:26:53.73 and do the cooking yourself than to teach them to cook 00:26:53.76\00:26:55.82 but that's where we have to model various skills to then, 00:26:55.85\00:26:59.46 so I agree with you. 00:26:59.49\00:27:00.92 Ernest, I can't believe this has gone by so rapidly 00:27:00.95\00:27:03.90 but we really do want you to come back 00:27:03.93\00:27:06.06 because we want to talk some more about 00:27:06.09\00:27:08.89 what's going on in the internet. 00:27:08.92\00:27:10.93 I think next time we're gonna be talking about 00:27:10.96\00:27:13.55 predators and bullying on the internet. 00:27:13.58\00:27:15.53 So, Ernest Staats, thank you so much for coming 00:27:15.56\00:27:18.58 and sharing this with us today. You're welcome. 00:27:18.61\00:27:21.57 You know for those of you at home, 00:27:21.60\00:27:23.70 if you take away anything thing from this program. 00:27:23.73\00:27:27.00 If you are parent, get involved with your kid's online life 00:27:27.03\00:27:32.57 and don't be surprised that they are lot deeper involved 00:27:32.60\00:27:36.43 than you might think they are, very young 00:27:36.46\00:27:38.35 and part of this younger generation particularly 00:27:38.38\00:27:40.82 25 and under and so get involved 00:27:40.85\00:27:44.24 make it your point to really learn about the internet. 00:27:44.27\00:27:48.68 Now may the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, 00:27:48.71\00:27:51.35 the love of the Father 00:27:51.38\00:27:52.63 and the fellowship of the Holy Spirit 00:27:52.66\00:27:54.45 be with you always. 00:27:54.48\00:27:55.61