Hello, I am Shelley Quinn
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and welcome again
to Issues and Answers.
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I'm so glad you
could be joining us today
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and I think you'll be glad too,
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particularly if
you're having difficulty
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prioritizing your life and
keeping things all in order.
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We're gonna be talking today
about passions and priorities
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and how to really
manage your time better.
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Jesus said in Matthew 6:33,
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"Seek ye first the kingdom
of God, and his righteousness
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and all these things will
be added unto you as well.
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And our guest today knows
this from personal experience,
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I'm pleased to welcome back
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Linda Schultz from
Spokane, Washington.
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And Linda, I thank you so much,
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we've enjoyed the programs
we've been doing with you.
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Thank you. Well, now
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let's kind of recap for those
who are not familiar with you,
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if they missed our
first couple of programs.
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You are the Vice
President for a Ministry
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by the name of
Transforming Lives for Christ;
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you're a pastor's wife.
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The mother of
two children, a nurse
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and you at one
point in your life
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found yourself
where it was like,
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ah! Help Lord.
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Tell us about what happened.
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It was overload and essentially
what has happened was,
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I had allowed the expectations
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of people to take
more control of me,
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then I had allowed my
connection with Christ.
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And so
consequently what happened
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is it became
very imbalanced. Yes.
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And when then happens, of
course there is no strength
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because where do
we get our strength?
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From Jesus. Amen. And so,
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I was doing a lot
of things on my own,
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I was in on dangerous territory.
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And it's dangerous
because what happens is,
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when you give
there is no receiving,
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because you're not in
connection like you should be.
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And you run dry and then anger,
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resentment and depression set
in and that's where I was at.
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Now your husband being a pastor,
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when you actually walked
into him one day and said,
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okay, this is it, I
can't handle it anymore.
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It's either me or the church,
you've got to chose. Right.
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And your wise husband
looked at you and said,
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if I could arrange for you to go
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to a Christian counselor
would you? And you said yes.
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Right. Now,
that counselor helped
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turn your life around,
tell us a little bit about that.
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What he did was, he
removed the busyness of life,
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he had me remove that.
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Because remember
that wasn't busyness
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that Christ had
put into the life,
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that's the busyness I had put in
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or allowed to be
put into my life.
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Removed that and than we
start from the ground up,
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building a solid foundation.
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And the solid foundation
being built on Christ, our rock.
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And that was beautiful
and also along with that
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not only in reconnecting
with Jesus but also in resting,
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resting in Jesus and
resting physically also.
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So, what would your
first advice be to a person,
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who is finding that
their life is so fragmented?
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That they don't know
what they're gonna do or what,
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where they're gonna put
all of the responsibilities
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in their life.
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Probably one of the very
first things you need to do is,
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you have to reevaluate
where you are in life.
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And the only way I
could do and the only way
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I would recommend
doing it. Is number one,
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stepping back, another words,
getting into the posture of rest
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Steeping back from it
and reconnecting with Jesus,
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not expecting, not
over expecting of yourself,
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where you're gonna sit-down
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and you're gonna spend
an hour a day or whatever.
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But stepping back in rest,
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like I said physically
and then opening the word,
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spending small amounts of times,
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getting good Christian
literature that help support
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and encourage and build you.
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And then this learning to
pray without ceasing which is,
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when you're
walking, when you're doing,
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whatever you're
doing throughout your life.
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Connecting with
Jesus, talk to him about it,
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whatever it is.
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It doesn't have to be that
we have to come with a concern.
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But we start
connecting with him,
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whether in just
those small little things
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that are occurring
throughout our lives.
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Because once we
have that connection,
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there is a greater desire to
spend more time with Him. Amen.
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And then that's where
we start getting filled,
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but it's a slow processes.
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So, again don't expect
too much of yourselves,
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allow yourselves that
time to grow and to be filled.
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You know,
something that impressed me
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that you said earlier,
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I think that was a program
before that you had mentioned
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when you were emptying your
life of all of these busyness.
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And now you were
trying to refill your life
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and make that connection.
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When I ask you what
was your first step?
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I expected you to say, oh!
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I spend hours in the
Bible and hours in prayer,
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reconnecting to the
Lord. And what you said was,
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I rested, I will took a walk,
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I thank God for my
blessings, I prayed.
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And I think that
many of us are very driven
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to you know we think that,
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we've got to
constantly be doing something,
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rather than learning
to rely totally on God.
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And to step into that rest,
so that was a beautiful thing.
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But how that God help
you, you know we have there is,
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there is priorities to
life. And as you've learned,
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keeping and
maintaining that relationship
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with Him is the top priority.
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How did God teach you to gain
those priorities back in life,
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because many people
they'll know what's important.
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But all we have,
we manage our life by,
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its management
by crisis. You know,
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the things come up that demand
our attention and we seem,
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sometimes what we give to God,
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is nothing but leftovers.
How did you come up with this?
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Well, it was
really interesting because
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as I connected with Him and
as I spent my time with Him.
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Again, it draws me to want
to spend more time with Him.
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So, my priorities started,
I realized you know in John
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when He calls us to
come and to dyeing with Him,
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He knocks at the
door, He wants to come in.
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I realized He was
calling me to a relationship,
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not just one in
which I just talk to him.
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But one in which He
wanted to talk with me. Amen.
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And so I lay out my
day, I started learning that
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as I lay out my day and I
bring that day to Him with all,
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its many things
that I have on my played.
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He helps me than
to priorities and then
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He promises me the strength
to take care of the things,
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He wants me to
do that day. Amen.
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Whatever that might be,
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whether you're
working in the home,
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outside of the
home or both. Amen.
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And then how do you then move
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from priority to
priority throughout the day?
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What's interesting is also that.
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Isn't really what you know
all of these that I went through
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what I found was it's
not about my priorities,
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it's about my
priority. Oh! That's good.
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Always about my priority,
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because if we'd
listen to one another
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as we're talking about our days.
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It's about the things
rather than the person,
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who gives us this
strength to do the things.
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And so, I realize that
my connection, my eyesight,
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my whole focus was on
things rather than on Jesus.
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And one of the things.
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Psalms 107, if you
read Psalms 107 through
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I found something
very interesting there.
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The children of
Israel are crying out
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in their despair to the Lord.
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And this happens three
times throughout that chapter,
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each and every time
Christ brings them back
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to praise and thanksgiving.
In all of those crisis,
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He brings them back to
praise and thanksgiving.
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And Christ was
calling me back to be pray,
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to praise and
thanksgiving for who He is.
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But also for the blessings
He does give me day by day.
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And that, doing that really
changes our reflection inside.
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So, did you find as the Lord
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was reordering your priorities,
that He changed your passions?
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Absolutely, and
that was beautiful.
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And when He changed
my passions, it was a,
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I should say it this way some
of my passions were changed,
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some of them were not
changed but they regained new,
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what I was gonna
say? Vitality. Yes,
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new vitality, because
now behind that passion
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comes Jesus
strength, Jesus power.
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And I am going thank
you Lord and I have a sense
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that that's exactly
what God's wants me to do.
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And you know when you're
on the path with the Lord,
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there is nothing
more joyous. Absolutely.
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And you know that, no
matter what needs you,
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He's there to help you walk
through it around it or over it.
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And that's how our days,
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that's what he
offers to us with our days.
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You know, I
have this place that,
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it's for me if I don't start my
day off with an hour in prayer.
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Now, I pray all through the
day, but if I don't comes sit
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at his feet in the
morning impress Him by myself.
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This is not with my husband
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or you know
share devotional time.
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If I don't do that and
sit at his feet and listen,
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than the rest of my day
is just usually a little bit
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up side down. Now, how do you,
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how would you recommend someone
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or has God led you in
prioritizing your life?
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Because I know right now,
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I've got a few
priorities out of order.
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What do you feel is
its God first no question;
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do you think its self
next before your family?
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Well, you know we're
told that if we don't love,
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that we need to
love Christ supremely.
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But if we don't have
a love for ourselves,
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and I say that
through the biblical approach
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which is that love comes
through what God creates us,
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the value He is placed on us.
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Then we can't give to
someone else, so if we,
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ourselves are not
filled then we don't have
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anything to give.
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So, when we filled
ourselves with Christ,
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then at that point in
time we, ourselves are renewed.
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And we're able to
give to someone else.
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And would you agree that
possibly, it's that healthy love
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we're talking about a
selfish love itself. No.
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But that healthy love
itself would be recognizing,
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who you are in Christ? Yes.
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And also that since you
are the living temple of God
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that you need to
take care of your body.
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Because that's one
area I find that most people
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who are really starve for
time and we all are nowadays.
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Its seems that taking
care of ourselves physically,
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eating properly,
drinking plenty of water,
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getting enough
rest and even exercise
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particularly is something that
we can make a very low priority.
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And God even spoke
to you in your life
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through kind of a threatening
situation, didn't he? Yes,
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yes my bone
density test had came back,
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come back and
they were stating that
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they were gonna need me to
start on medication for it.
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So, I was new,
it's called Osteopenia,
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it was first day just
before we moved on to Osteo,
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Osteoporosis. But
interestingly enough,
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so I had to get into an educate,
I needed to get into either,
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I need to go on medication
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or need to get into
an exercise program.
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The beauty was, I start
into an exercise program
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and I've actually improved
my bone density as a result.
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Because it was weight-bearing.
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And it was like, to me
it was double fold I read,
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reap the benefits of
the exercise program.
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And at the same time
God said see this is what,
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this is the reason why
it so important for you,
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your body is
healthy, you feel better,
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you're gonna live longer.
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There is more time then to do
the work that needs to be done.
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And there is more
time to enjoy life.
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And do you find
you have more energy,
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because now you're exercising.
Yes, absolutely much more energy
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And I find that the same
true, see with the exercise
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it gives us more
energy for our physical life.
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With the connection with Christ,
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it give us more energy
for our spiritual life. Amen.
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With the food that we take in,
again our bodies are renewed.
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So, that we can go out
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and we can do
what we need to do.
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What we're doing when we,
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when we do not pay attention
to these different areas,
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is we are
tearing our bodies down.
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And then they can't be used
like God would have them to use.
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So, the quality
of life goes down
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and so does the
quantity of life.
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And you know, when you were
telling us your story earlier,
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you're sharing
your personal testimony.
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It was obvious that,
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you had your priorities
out of wack completely,
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because you weren't having that
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personal connection
with the Lord. Right.
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And you really weren't
taking care of yourselves,
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because you were
being so spent by others,
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as you've said
the unmanaged time.
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Because, it wasn't
under the control of the Lord.
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It was being
dominated by everyone else
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and you were
just finding yourself
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completely empty
at the end of the day.
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Exactly. And at the beginning
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of the day
actually. Exactly. Right.
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I didn't matter, you know
I'd like to share something
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because I think it, I
think this particular quote
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that I'm gonna share,
tells, is an excellent example
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of "Where We Are In Our Life."
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Phil Callaway summarizes to
dilemma in our lives, he says
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we have bigger
houses and smaller families,
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more money and less time.
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We buy more things
and enjoy them less,
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we've added years to our lives,
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but drained the
life from our years.
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We talk too much,
but when do we listen.
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We've sacrific
better for bigger,
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peace for noise,
E-mail for communication.
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We have more
hype, but less hope.
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More
conveniences, but less time.
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More counselors
and more problems.
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We have wider
roads and fewer carpools.
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More information,
but less knowledge.
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More choices, but less wisdom.
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Taller buildings
and shorter fuses.
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We drink too
much; drive too fast,
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laugh too little and sleep a
whole lot less than we should.
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We've doubled our incomes
and tripled our divorce rates.
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We've built beautiful houses
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and turned them
into broken homes.
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We're stealing time
from those who love us
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and giving it
to those who don't.
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Our schedules are full,
but our lives are empty.
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Oh, wow! That is powerful.
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It is very powerful.
And accurate assessment of
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what is going on in our
world today. Completely.
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So, in your life
then as you were getting
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rid off the busyness of
life. And now, and we discussed
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setting boundaries and
having balance in our life.
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And that came through
understanding priorities.
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So, it was God
first. Yes. Them yourselves
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in yourselves healthy
again and then your family
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I assumed before you
church and work. Absolutely.
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So, when you went to
the Lord each morning
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and as you lay
the day on the altar,
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coming before him and
you're saying okay Lord.
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Here are my plans for the
day, you said in your word
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commit your plans unto you
and you cause them to succeed.
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But Lord, are these
your plans for my day.
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Right. As you
allowed Him to prioritize
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the things you
thought, you needed to get done.
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Did you find God who
was giving you assignments?
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Yes, He will give an assignment,
that's what interesting.
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Some days what I found
is, what I had on my plate
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I didn't feel
any necessary change
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in what I've gotten down,
my day kind of went routinely
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like I would think
and.. But other days
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He would send
people into my lives,
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into my life that I
had not, that were in need.
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And what I found
was very interesting is?
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When you've gone
through an experience,
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God usually will send
you people. Absolutely.
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That also is going through what?
This very similar experience,
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so that you can be
have encouragement.
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And that I find,
that's one of the blessings
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of going through trail like that
is knowing that He turns around
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and He makes that
ministry experience.
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Exactly. And then
we're able to give back
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and when we give back we
ourselves are strengthened.
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And so, yes there were
many times when I had people
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they were totally
unaware of the experience
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I had gone through.
And God would place them
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in my life, because
they were going through
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a similar situation and
they needed encouragement,
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they needed pryer
and they needed to know
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that there was a
rainbow at the end.
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Exactly, and this
is something that,
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the Bible tell us
that God comforts us
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so that we can comfort
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others with the same
comforts. Yes, absolutely.
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That He is giving to us in
Second Corinthians chapter 1.
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So, as now your
passions begun to change,
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because I know
you're a passionate
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about exercise.
You get up everything,
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the first thing every
morning after your devotionals
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you go out and you exercise.
Well, three times a week
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and then I' tried to
do. Yes, at the weight bear
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and then I try to do
some on the treadmill
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and I admit it's a
struggle. Now, the ones that I,
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I tend to know where
my weakness is which is,
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I know that it is better
for me to schedule something.
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So, I have a
trainer that I go to
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and I workout with that
person. Because I know then
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I'm responsible and I'm
accountable and that's good.
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So, I put that
component in for myself.
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But then I also
have my own personal time
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than I hit the treadmill.
Usually at night I'm trying too,
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but there is a
struggle as we all know
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where things get
out of balance again.
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And we have to go
before the Lord say,
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Lord I know I'm
out of balance here,
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help me find the
time. Because you know,
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it's important. That's
the thing is when you see
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the imbalance and you
know it's not present.
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You can go to the
Lord and ask Him for it.
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Yes. I still remember,
that I have a friend of mine,
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she says you know I
had three little children
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they were all
preschool ages. And she says,
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I'd there was no
time for my devotion
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and she says I went to
the Lord and I said Lord
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if you were awake me up an
hour before I usually get up.
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I will spend that time with you;
do you know He was faithful?
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Its' so amazing
that you said that,
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because I found that recently
my schedule was becoming
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so busy and I was
cheating the Lord in the time
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and I don't think cheating
the Lord I was cheating myself.
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Because and so I
just told the Lord,
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I need that time
with you, I miss you,
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I miss that intimacy of
that hour of pressing into you.
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So, I said Lord
you have my permission
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to get me up earlier and
He's been getting me up at 4:30,
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I mean it's just. And I'm
not, usually one who awakes up
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without the alarms,
so He gets me up at 4:30
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every morning. So,
that I can really enjoy
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that time with
Him. Praise the Lord.
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Amen, it makes a
big difference. It does.
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And sometimes people
think, well you need to sleep
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but He compensates
somehow for that. Yes.
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Now, in
discovering these passions
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or rediscovering your passions,
what would you say to someone
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and if we're looking
at prioritizing things?
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Who, you've got
like, I have a list,
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and I've got a list of
many pages of priority projects.
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It's like you know how
they say you should do A's?
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Right. I've got so many
A's, I've got three pages
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worth of A's
that need to be done.
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So, I know I'm over
committed, but how do you,
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if you don't have a deadline
on some of those projects
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in particular? What
would you say to someone,
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who, you know
you've got all of these
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important things
to do. And yet since
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they are not deadline,
you've got all of these
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little things
coming up through the day.
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How would you
manage your time there?
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Well, I always,
first of all I know that
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it is very, very difficult
to make a call on lot things,
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when you've got
them in front of you.
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But what I do is, I
continually as I'm going along,
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I having committed
my day to the Lord,
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I pick out what I, in
the sermon and the wisdom
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that he's giving me. As
I'm looking at my schedule
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I try to choose
wisely what I know
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that I should be
doing. And then I ask Him Lord
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if it's not or you want me to go
to some place else let me know.
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But I do the best
I can to priorities
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with what I have then
having submitted to Him
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and put my day and
myself on the alter,
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I call at the alter
because it's where I dedicate
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myself back to Jesus
and surrender my whole life
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saying it's all yours
Lord. And then I walk forward
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in faith knowing,
He can close doors
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and He can open doors.
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And I leave that to
each individual soul
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because I know that God works
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with each one of us
differently. Because He's agenda
00:21:10.99\00:21:14.87
for each one of us
is unique which I love.
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And how do you keep the
little, the Bible we called
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it the little foxes
that spoil the vines.
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So, you're working, you
have that important project,
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but it really
doesn't have a deadline.
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And all of sudden all these
little issues start coming up
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and they've got I
mean their little crisis
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that need your attention,
how do you protect that time
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on the important projects
so that you're not always
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working with the
little things that spoil?
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Well, it's interesting because
sometimes we don't need to go
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where the emergencies are.
Sometimes those needs to be
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set aside and again there
is where I would offer prepare
00:21:49.52\00:21:52.89
and say Lord you see
what's happening here.
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Is this important
enough that I step aside
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from where I am to
go over to treat this.
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Sometimes I
think He will do that,
00:22:02.24\00:22:03.97
He'll say yes I need to
hear. But again I would say,
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we're not gonna know His voice
if we are not connected. Amen.
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So, we have to stay connected
and if we hear His voice,
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yes I need you hear,
then we obey and we go.
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If not we continue and
we ask that the Lord provide
00:22:19.27\00:22:23.51
what is needed to
address the situation.
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And it could be that it's
gonna be address latter by us
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or it could be
that somebody else
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is to play a role in
that. So, what, it sounds like
00:22:30.19\00:22:33.29
that you're saying Linda,
is that throughout the day
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you are really keeping your mind
00:22:36.50\00:22:38.49
steadfastly fixed on
the Lord. Absolutely.
00:22:38.50\00:22:40.68
And you're trusting on
Him to lead you, guide you,
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and direct you. And as
Isaiah 26 verse 3 says:
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When your mind is steadfastly
fixed on Him, you trust in Him.
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He keeps you in
that perfect peace.
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Yes. So, as all of these
things come up through the day,
00:22:52.01\00:22:56.14
you're not
letting the chaos destroy
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your peace, is that
right? That's correct,
00:22:59.19\00:23:00.94
and that is such
an important part.
00:23:00.95\00:23:03.06
Because that's
what the world is chaos,
00:23:03.07\00:23:05.73
the world is chaos.
And that's the last read
00:23:05.74\00:23:09.76
you know we were, we
were broken world. Yes.
00:23:09.77\00:23:12.84
That's the last place
we want to go to have,
00:23:12.85\00:23:17.01
to find our priorities. We
don't want that interfering,
00:23:17.02\00:23:21.64
we want Christ to
help us to understand
00:23:21.65\00:23:24.32
what He wants
us to do with chaos
00:23:24.33\00:23:25.89
and what role
do we play in that.
00:23:25.90\00:23:28.53
And that's where
we do, we have to that
00:23:28.54\00:23:30.83
praying and
ceasing that connection.
00:23:31.75\00:23:33.12
And I know what its' like, when
I don't keep that connection.
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I know what is like when I
fall helpless and I realize
00:23:37.35\00:23:40.52
that I have a decision
to make and I have no idea
00:23:40.53\00:23:43.10
where to go with that decision.
Amen. Because I have not been
00:23:43.11\00:23:46.10
connected that day
and it's interesting
00:23:46.11\00:23:47.88
it doesn't take,
it's not something
00:23:47.89\00:23:51.05
that you can go without
for 30 days and then I feel it,
00:23:51.06\00:23:55.04
if I haven't had it that day.
Exactly. I know it that day.
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Exactly, but now what
would you say to maybe
00:23:57.68\00:24:00.49
someone who is listening
to this program right now.
00:24:00.50\00:24:04.35
Who, when we talk about
hearing the Lord's voice,
00:24:04.36\00:24:07.02
the still small
voice of the Lord.
00:24:07.03\00:24:08.80
Where they were
saying, you know, I don't know
00:24:08.81\00:24:11.11
that I trust myself enough
to know if it's God's voice
00:24:11.12\00:24:14.59
or someone else's
voice. How would you counsel
00:24:14.60\00:24:18.54
if say someone
came to you and maybe
00:24:18.55\00:24:20.36
they're a new
Christian and their life is just
00:24:20.37\00:24:23.24
out of order and you,
they will coming to you,
00:24:23.25\00:24:26.64
how would you counsel with them
to get started on prioritizing.
00:24:26.65\00:24:32.78
Probably the first
thing I would do is,
00:24:32.79\00:24:34.77
I would bring them to Jesus
and I would say number one.
00:24:34.78\00:24:39.83
I would want to pray for
them, I would want to pray
00:24:39.84\00:24:42.58
that the peace
that the Holy Spirit
00:24:42.59\00:24:44.71
and Jesus Christ can bring into
their life would be present.
00:24:44.72\00:24:48.88
Because we're
told in John 10:27:
00:24:48.89\00:24:52.64
"My sheep recognize my voice;
I know them, and they follow me"
00:24:52.65\00:24:55.51
and in Psalm it
says: "I will instruct you
00:24:55.52\00:24:58.19
and teach you in the
way which you should go;
00:24:58.20\00:25:00.26
I will guide you
with my eye." Amen.
00:25:00.27\00:25:03.41
So, I would bring
them first to Jesus,
00:25:03.42\00:25:05.89
Jesus who is, is
the lover of our soul,
00:25:05.90\00:25:10.61
He comforts us,
He provides the rest,
00:25:10.62\00:25:12.73
He give us the peace and
then He give us direction.
00:25:12.74\00:25:16.54
I so appreciate then
I know in Palms 143:10
00:25:16.55\00:25:19.94
the Palms it says:
"Teach me you will,
00:25:19.95\00:25:21.96
lead me by your
good spirit. Yes.
00:25:21.97\00:25:24.04
So, it's one of those things
that getting up in the morning
00:25:24.05\00:25:26.57
and just going
to the Lord and say
00:25:26.58\00:25:28.55
Lord my life's a mess,
everything is out. That's right.
00:25:28.56\00:25:32.16
You know, all of my
priorities are wrong.
00:25:32.17\00:25:34.32
Teach me your will,
lead me by your spirit,
00:25:34.33\00:25:37.17
I'm wanting to be leave by
Him. Right? And the beauty is,
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he leads you, he
leads you in His timing,
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He understand your heart,
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He understand
how burden you are,
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He understand
how much you can take
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and where you are going.
And I guess the first thing
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as you said in of
our earlier programs.
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The first thing if you find that
your life is totally chaotic
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and maybe you well over
booked and over schedule.
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The first thing to do
is how the Lord led you
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and that is to get rid of
all the busyness in your life,
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step back for awhile,
maybe take week offer,
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however long it takes to kind of
empty of all these commitments
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and schedules and
then connect with Him,
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get rested and
then start adding back
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what is other top
priorities in your schedule.
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That's correct, and
it's the easiest way to put
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organization and put
prospective back into your life.
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But we have to
slow down stop and rest.
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In fact I love
this quote it says:
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"Peace cannot be
had in a searching,
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but in the resting. Resting
in Jesus and waiting for Him."
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Amen. And explain for
our listeners once again
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what you mean,
when you're talking
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about resting in
Jesus? I like to think of it
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like my friend does,
she says, I come to Jesus
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and I can just sense
myself with my head on His chest
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and I'm just there beside Him.
And she says you know the longer
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I sit there beside
Him, I realize she said
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as I'm listening that His
heartbeat and mine are one.
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That's beautiful,
that's really beautiful.
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And it is, as we come
to Jesus we don't have
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to be full of
words, He knows our heart,
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we don't have to be
full of our own even agenda,
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we can just come to
Him say Lord you understand
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I don't even know
how to verbalize it.
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Amen. But you I know
will take care of me,
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you understand me
and you'll direct me.
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Amen, Linda thanks you so much.
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I'm sorry our
time is already gone,
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but I do hope that you
have enjoy this program
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and maybe learned
something about passions
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and priorities and how
to get them back in order.
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Until next time, may the grace
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of our Lord Jesus
Christ, the love of the Father
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and the
fellowship of the Holy Spirit
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be with you. Thank you.
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