Welcome to another edition of "Issues and Answers." 00:00:30.48\00:00:33.08 What are you doing for the rest of your life? 00:00:33.11\00:00:35.75 You know, that was the very question 00:00:35.78\00:00:37.15 that my husband asked me when he proposed. 00:00:37.18\00:00:39.99 And at the time, I was not sure. 00:00:40.02\00:00:43.59 That's what we're gonna talk about today 00:00:43.62\00:00:45.16 with our special guest, 00:00:45.19\00:00:46.56 Pastor Stanley Dixon of Tucson, Arizona. 00:00:46.59\00:00:48.83 Let me tell you a little bit about Pastor Dixon. 00:00:48.86\00:00:51.51 He is a graduate of Los Angeles City College, 00:00:51.54\00:00:54.99 Oakwood College and Andrews University, 00:00:55.02\00:00:57.32 Theological Seminary in Berrien Springs, Michigan. 00:00:57.35\00:01:00.06 He is a former military man, servicing in the US Navy Ships 00:01:00.09\00:01:03.59 servicemen in Armoured Guard Division. 00:01:03.62\00:01:06.64 He is currently the pastor 00:01:06.67\00:01:08.04 of the Sharon's Seventh-day Adventist Church 00:01:08.07\00:01:10.50 in Tucson, Arizona. 00:01:10.53\00:01:12.81 Welcome, Pastor Dixon, to the program. 00:01:12.84\00:01:14.36 It's good to be here. So tell us. 00:01:14.39\00:01:17.61 "God has a plan for our life" 00:01:17.64\00:01:19.89 is the topic I understand we're talking about. 00:01:19.92\00:01:21.79 Yes, and He has a perfect plan. 00:01:21.82\00:01:24.07 And if we find out what that plan is 00:01:24.10\00:01:27.84 then our lives will be more rewarding and fulfill, 00:01:27.87\00:01:32.27 but the text that I wanted to start out with 00:01:32.30\00:01:35.26 which explains this even better than I can. 00:01:35.29\00:01:40.52 It's a Jeremiah 29:11. Okay. 00:01:40.55\00:01:45.00 And the text says, "For I know the thoughts 00:01:45.03\00:01:50.20 that I think toward you, saith the Lord, 00:01:50.23\00:01:54.74 thoughts of peace, and not of evil, 00:01:54.77\00:01:58.25 to give you an expected end." 00:01:58.28\00:02:02.12 And I'd like to read that in another translation. Okay. 00:02:02.15\00:02:04.80 "For I know the plans, I have for you, 00:02:04.83\00:02:09.27 plans to prosper and not to harm you, 00:02:09.30\00:02:13.03 but to give you a hope and a future." 00:02:13.06\00:02:17.70 So God is saying that, "I don't want to harm you, 00:02:17.73\00:02:22.08 if you follow Me and you yield your life to Me, 00:02:22.11\00:02:25.26 I will not harm you. 00:02:25.29\00:02:26.66 In fact, it will be hope and I'll give you a future. 00:02:26.69\00:02:31.40 I know the plans, you may not be aware of those plans. 00:02:31.43\00:02:34.72 But if you trust Me, I'll make those plans obvious to you." 00:02:34.75\00:02:40.02 And I think the text is so important to me, 00:02:40.05\00:02:42.05 because as I look back on my life, 00:02:42.08\00:02:44.76 I have always tried since becoming a Christian 00:02:44.79\00:02:49.32 to make sure that I'm in His plans. 00:02:49.35\00:02:51.82 It doesn't matter whether it's, 00:02:51.85\00:02:53.79 you know, marrying someone or choosing a job 00:02:53.82\00:02:56.45 or location for a house, choosing a church to minister 00:02:56.48\00:03:00.74 although God doesn't leave it up to us what, 00:03:00.77\00:03:02.89 you know, to choose, 00:03:02.92\00:03:04.29 but sometimes we may have a choice 00:03:04.32\00:03:05.69 between several congregations. 00:03:05.72\00:03:07.50 But God has a perfect plan. 00:03:07.53\00:03:10.02 And recently I received the call 00:03:10.05\00:03:14.20 to go outside of the conferences where I'm pastoring now. 00:03:14.23\00:03:18.78 And it seemed like a right thing to do. 00:03:18.81\00:03:21.90 And, you know, I prayed about it. 00:03:21.93\00:03:23.30 And, but it was like the Lord was saying, 00:03:23.33\00:03:28.38 okay, go ahead, you know. 00:03:28.41\00:03:29.78 So I went just to kind of check things out, 00:03:29.81\00:03:31.77 check out the lands, 00:03:31.80\00:03:33.17 see if we can do some to my children 00:03:33.20\00:03:34.57 and everything was excellent. 00:03:34.60\00:03:36.21 I mean, they had a nice house, 00:03:36.24\00:03:37.62 the kind of living that we look for. 00:03:37.65\00:03:39.45 We wanted to get out of the city. 00:03:39.48\00:03:41.91 Tucson is a large city 00:03:41.94\00:03:43.98 and more opportunities for children in terms of education 00:03:44.01\00:03:48.11 in this area that we were moving to, 00:03:48.14\00:03:51.41 but when I got there, I decided, 00:03:51.44\00:03:52.81 you know, I've got to really pray and fast about this. 00:03:52.84\00:03:56.49 And so while I was there, the Lord began to impress me 00:03:56.52\00:04:00.78 that I don't wanted to leave my perfect will. 00:04:00.81\00:04:03.48 Now you can leave 00:04:03.51\00:04:04.88 and you'll be a blessing to that conversation, 00:04:04.91\00:04:06.56 but my perfect will for you is to remain where you are. 00:04:06.59\00:04:12.41 And I said, "Lord, I can't do that. 00:04:12.44\00:04:13.81 I already told the people I'm leaving." 00:04:13.84\00:04:15.55 And I've already said, 00:04:15.58\00:04:16.95 "God has told me to leave, right?" 00:04:16.98\00:04:18.93 And I couldn't do that, you know. 00:04:18.96\00:04:20.33 But the Lord said, "Just put down your pride 00:04:20.36\00:04:21.73 and go back and tell the people." 00:04:21.76\00:04:23.73 And so I went back the following Sabbath 00:04:23.76\00:04:25.28 and told them that I changed my mind. 00:04:25.42\00:04:28.71 And that upon praying and further reflection, 00:04:28.74\00:04:31.29 I discovered that God's perfect will for me was to remain 00:04:31.32\00:04:35.14 and applause broke out in the congregation. 00:04:35.17\00:04:38.78 200 or 300 families who were visiting said, 00:04:38.81\00:04:40.59 "We want to transfer our membership to this church 00:04:40.62\00:04:42.29 because you listen to the Lord, you know." 00:04:42.32\00:04:44.32 Yes, I was thinking the same thing. 00:04:44.35\00:04:46.34 That would the reason to applause. 00:04:46.37\00:04:47.99 And also the reason why I was leaving 00:04:48.02\00:04:49.77 was to develop a kind of a cross cultural ministry, 00:04:49.80\00:04:52.70 where-- you know, 00:04:52.73\00:04:54.80 where I was going and I didn't know it, 00:04:54.83\00:04:57.38 but I had that there at the congregation where I was. 00:04:57.41\00:05:01.14 And the Lord just, I mean, He's just been blessing, 00:05:01.17\00:05:04.56 He's just been blessing, 00:05:04.59\00:05:05.96 and I think it's because I wanted to find out 00:05:05.99\00:05:10.53 what His perfect will is-- will was for me at that time. 00:05:10.56\00:05:14.77 And I believe that God, like He says, 00:05:14.80\00:05:16.85 "I know the plans I have for you. 00:05:16.88\00:05:18.56 I know them. You're not aware of them." 00:05:18.59\00:05:21.07 And it maybe a time when it's time to leave, 00:05:21.10\00:05:23.98 but I want to make sure that I'm in His will, you see, 00:05:24.01\00:05:27.95 because there are choices, we have choices in life. 00:05:27.98\00:05:30.65 Who we're gonna marry, Bob, Joe? 00:05:30.68\00:05:32.16 Or what college to go to, La Sierra, Pacific Union? 00:05:32.19\00:05:36.68 But God has a perfect will. 00:05:36.71\00:05:38.98 And I think as we seek Him, 00:05:39.01\00:05:40.38 He'll make it plain to us, you see. 00:05:40.41\00:05:43.54 And something happened to me before I became a Christian. 00:05:43.57\00:05:49.15 When I was embarking on a career as a night club comedy performer 00:05:49.18\00:05:54.30 I remember going up on the stage. 00:05:54.33\00:05:57.02 And before we went up on stage, 00:05:57.05\00:05:58.67 a friend of mine who is also a comedian, 00:05:58.70\00:06:01.45 we both, we didn't know God, but we said, 00:06:01.48\00:06:04.25 "Let's pray that God will bless our routines tonight 00:06:04.28\00:06:07.82 because Mitzi Shore, 00:06:07.85\00:06:09.48 the owner of the comedy store is gonna be there. 00:06:09.51\00:06:11.59 So let's pray." Now we're not serving God. 00:06:11.62\00:06:14.69 We're just gonna use God to bless us. 00:06:14.72\00:06:16.86 So we knelt down and we prayed. 00:06:16.89\00:06:19.26 "Lord, give us skill, give us the ability 00:06:19.29\00:06:22.22 to make those folks laugh and, Lord, help us." 00:06:22.25\00:06:24.69 And so we got up on the stage. 00:06:24.72\00:06:27.67 It was like, everything went wrong. 00:06:27.70\00:06:30.67 The timing was off, 00:06:30.70\00:06:32.07 the punch lines weren't punching. 00:06:32.10\00:06:34.51 It was terrible, it was awful. 00:06:34.54\00:06:36.93 And the Bible says in Romans 8. 00:06:36.96\00:06:39.93 It says, 26, 00:06:39.96\00:06:44.26 "For likewise the Spirit helps us in our infirmities, 00:06:44.29\00:06:46.65 for we don't always know 00:06:46.68\00:06:48.51 what we should pray for as we ought. 00:06:48.54\00:06:50.79 But the Spirit itself maketh intercession with-- 00:06:50.82\00:06:54.82 for us with groanings which cannot be uttered." 00:06:54.85\00:06:57.44 So I thank God. 00:06:57.47\00:06:58.84 Even though I didn't know Him 00:06:58.87\00:07:00.25 and even though I had the nerve to just pray 00:07:00.28\00:07:02.15 that the Lord intercepted my prayer 00:07:02.18\00:07:04.67 and prayed according to His will 00:07:04.70\00:07:07.41 which eventually let me out of the stand up comedy. 00:07:07.44\00:07:10.18 And so now I believe I'm more in the center, 00:07:10.21\00:07:12.85 well, I am in the center of His will 00:07:12.88\00:07:15.86 because that wasn't His purpose for my life. 00:07:15.89\00:07:18.54 Do you think that God reads our hearts and our character, 00:07:18.57\00:07:23.80 and when you prayed that prayer even though 00:07:23.83\00:07:26.40 it was not what you had actually prayed for? 00:07:26.43\00:07:29.48 Or you prayed for God to bless you? 00:07:29.51\00:07:32.65 Yes. Okay. 00:07:32.68\00:07:34.21 Then you did get the blessing. 00:07:34.24\00:07:35.92 Yeah, I did. Yes. 00:07:35.95\00:07:37.65 Yeah. He did bless absolutely and-- 00:07:37.68\00:07:41.96 Just along the ways that you have thought originally. 00:07:42.00\00:07:43.92 And often times, you know, 00:07:43.95\00:07:46.22 God does bless us in ways that we-- 00:07:46.25\00:07:48.97 'cause we're shortsighted. 00:07:49.00\00:07:50.37 We can't see the consequences of this or that action. 00:07:50.40\00:07:54.21 Although it may appear to be good for us, 00:07:54.24\00:07:56.00 even things that are illegitimate, you see. 00:07:56.03\00:07:57.97 And that's why we should, you know, 00:07:58.01\00:07:59.91 with prayer and supplication make our request known to God, 00:07:59.94\00:08:02.54 pray about everything, you see. 00:08:02.57\00:08:04.41 I may even accuse of buying shoes. 00:08:04.44\00:08:06.87 You know, Lord, which shoe to buy? 00:08:06.90\00:08:08.27 You know, maybe that's a little bit fanatical, 00:08:08.30\00:08:09.80 but I take that as-- 00:08:09.83\00:08:12.79 No, I think praying for good bargains is a good thing. Yeah. 00:08:12.82\00:08:15.20 It's good use of stewardship of money. 00:08:15.23\00:08:16.88 Yeah, yeah. 00:08:16.91\00:08:18.41 So as far as trust, but we have choices to make. 00:08:18.44\00:08:21.48 And the point is you don't need a horoscope, 00:08:21.51\00:08:23.67 you don't need the physic hotline, 00:08:23.70\00:08:25.78 and you don't need, you know, 00:08:25.81\00:08:29.16 some counselor to tell you what choice to make. 00:08:29.19\00:08:32.58 You know, God will make His will plain. 00:08:32.61\00:08:34.54 In Proverbs 3:5, it says, 00:08:34.57\00:08:36.04 "Trust in the Lord with all your heart. 00:08:36.07\00:08:39.18 Lean not on your own understanding, 00:08:39.21\00:08:43.05 but in all your ways acknowledge Him 00:08:43.08\00:08:46.12 and He will direct your paths." 00:08:46.15\00:08:48.63 You know, my husband and I were having a conversation 00:08:48.66\00:08:50.54 about this very thing not too long ago. 00:08:50.57\00:08:53.04 And we were saying that 00:08:53.07\00:08:55.93 that people who really want to have a life with God, 00:08:55.96\00:09:00.25 they are the ones who don't really have 00:09:00.28\00:09:01.99 a lot of plans, set and plans. 00:09:02.02\00:09:04.62 But if we really want to have plans, 00:09:04.65\00:09:07.67 those who wish to stay here 00:09:07.70\00:09:09.29 or those who wish not to have eternity with God, 00:09:09.32\00:09:12.59 their plans can be executed because they're for this earth. 00:09:12.62\00:09:15.71 Absolutely, absolutely. 00:09:17.88\00:09:20.85 I think as Christians we need to be a neutral, 00:09:20.88\00:09:24.29 so that God can further reveal. 00:09:24.32\00:09:26.49 You know, this life for us is a pilgrim 00:09:26.52\00:09:29.04 and it takes the pressure of, you know, making plans, 00:09:29.07\00:09:32.52 where you're gonna sleep, 00:09:32.55\00:09:33.92 where you're gonna live, you know. 00:09:33.95\00:09:35.32 Jesus said, "These are the things 00:09:35.35\00:09:36.72 that Gentiles worry about, 00:09:36.75\00:09:38.12 but take no thought for your life." 00:09:38.15\00:09:40.12 And because our Father knows that you need, 00:09:40.15\00:09:41.79 you know, need these things. 00:09:41.82\00:09:43.19 "But seek ye first the kingdom of God, 00:09:43.22\00:09:45.12 and all of His righteousness, 00:09:45.15\00:09:47.06 and all of the rest will be added." Amen. 00:09:47.09\00:09:49.42 So God, you know, it's a wonderful life. 00:09:49.45\00:09:53.88 It's a blessing to be a Christian, 00:09:53.91\00:09:57.13 to be called into His body at this time, 00:09:57.16\00:10:01.13 and to be in the center of His will. 00:10:01.16\00:10:03.46 But some of our viewers maybe asking, 00:10:03.49\00:10:05.99 "You know, what is God's plan for my life," you see? 00:10:06.02\00:10:09.81 What is-- But first you need to understand 00:10:09.84\00:10:11.85 that there is a primary plan 00:10:11.88\00:10:14.75 and His ultimate will for your life 00:10:14.78\00:10:17.70 is found in 1 Timothy 2:4. Okay. 00:10:17.73\00:10:23.47 Shall we turn there? Yes. 00:10:23.50\00:10:24.87 1 Timothy-- 1 Timothy 2:4. 00:10:24.90\00:10:26.98 New Testament, 1 Timothy 2:4. 00:10:27.01\00:10:34.98 Okay. "Who--" 00:10:39.53\00:10:42.67 Oh, go right ahead. No, you go ahead. 00:10:42.70\00:10:44.75 1 Timothy 2:4, "Who will have all men to be saved, 00:10:44.78\00:10:48.91 and to come unto the knowledge of the truth." 00:10:48.94\00:10:52.35 Amen. So that's His ultimate will. 00:10:52.38\00:10:55.16 Is that for everyone first and foremost to be saved? 00:10:55.19\00:10:59.85 So when we pray, God's will be done in our lives. 00:10:59.88\00:11:03.22 We're asking, we're giving God permission 00:11:03.25\00:11:05.21 to further any plan 00:11:05.24\00:11:07.68 that will facilitate our being saved. Amen. 00:11:07.71\00:11:11.45 Closing doors that would prevent that from happening 00:11:11.48\00:11:15.32 or opening doors, you see. 00:11:15.35\00:11:18.55 So that's His ultimate will. 00:11:18.58\00:11:20.19 So whether the things, whether things good or bad 00:11:20.22\00:11:22.55 happened to us in our journey and through life? 00:11:22.58\00:11:26.30 His ultimate plan for us is to be saved in His kingdom 00:11:26.33\00:11:29.66 which is far greater than any plan 00:11:29.69\00:11:32.54 that we could have here on earth. 00:11:32.57\00:11:34.60 You see, but even while we're on earth, 00:11:34.63\00:11:36.00 God still has a secondary plan, 00:11:36.03\00:11:37.65 and that secondary plan is found in Colossians 1:28. 00:11:37.68\00:11:43.58 Okay. Colossians 1:28. 00:11:43.61\00:11:46.25 You have it? Yes, I do. 00:11:46.28\00:11:47.86 Okay, go ahead and read it. 00:11:47.89\00:11:49.34 "Whom we preach, warning every man, 00:11:49.37\00:11:51.86 and teaching every man in all wisdom 00:11:51.89\00:11:54.35 that we may present every man perfect in Christ Jesus. Yes. 00:11:54.38\00:11:58.73 So God's secondary will for us is that 00:11:58.76\00:12:01.90 we become mature in Christ. Okay. 00:12:01.93\00:12:04.84 So after being saved, He wants to-- 00:12:04.87\00:12:08.55 for us to produce more fruit as John 15 tells us, you know. 00:12:08.58\00:12:13.91 More fruit, so that we can bring glory and honor to the Father. 00:12:13.94\00:12:17.66 He wants us to mature to the place 00:12:17.70\00:12:19.55 where we're not affected by circumstances 00:12:19.58\00:12:21.94 that we grow into the knowledge of Christ Jesus, 00:12:21.97\00:12:26.92 so that we're not tossed to and fro 00:12:26.95\00:12:29.07 by every wind or every situation, 00:12:29.10\00:12:31.10 according to the Ephesians 4. 00:12:31.13\00:12:32.73 So God wants to save us. 00:12:32.76\00:12:34.32 He wants us to develop and to mature to grow 00:12:34.35\00:12:37.17 as the trees of righteousness, according to Isaiah. 00:12:37.21\00:12:40.44 And finally He wants us to-- 00:12:40.47\00:12:44.15 His purpose and will for us is for us to witness, 00:12:44.18\00:12:48.87 so that we can reveal to other people 00:12:48.90\00:12:52.02 the glory of God, you know. 00:12:52.05\00:12:54.21 And in this process, in this journey we may-- 00:12:54.24\00:12:56.82 the things may happen to us that we can't explain. 00:12:56.85\00:12:59.96 For example, Joseph, you know, was sold by his brothers 00:12:59.99\00:13:03.07 and here he was the most favorite child, 00:13:03.10\00:13:05.76 the one who was most spiritually adept 00:13:05.79\00:13:08.25 and yet his brothers plot against him, 00:13:08.28\00:13:10.37 throw him in a pit, 00:13:10.40\00:13:11.77 and now he is in the being sold as a slave and he's wondering. 00:13:11.80\00:13:14.91 What's gonna happen to my life? 00:13:14.94\00:13:16.31 I thought God had a plan for my life. 00:13:16.34\00:13:17.94 I had dreams about people bowing down to me, you know. 00:13:17.97\00:13:20.83 What's gonna happen? Now I'm sold in slavery. 00:13:20.86\00:13:22.75 And so he sold as into slavery, 00:13:22.78\00:13:25.15 and then He run into temptation, okay? 00:13:25.18\00:13:28.64 And then he does what God tells him to do, 00:13:28.67\00:13:30.89 and now he is in jail, he is in prison. 00:13:30.92\00:13:32.93 He could again say, "Lord, what is Your plan for my life? 00:13:32.96\00:13:35.84 I'm in prison, you know, 00:13:35.87\00:13:37.24 and I don't know how long I'm gonna be here. 00:13:37.27\00:13:38.64 That must have been awful. 00:13:38.67\00:13:40.04 Yeah, must have been awful, 00:13:40.07\00:13:41.44 but he resolved that he would be faithful to God. 00:13:41.47\00:13:43.11 Trust in the Lord with all your heart 00:13:43.14\00:13:44.51 and that's what he did. 00:13:44.54\00:13:45.91 And eventually we know the end of the story, 00:13:45.94\00:13:48.83 God used those bad things 'cause the text says, 00:13:48.86\00:13:52.07 "All things work together for good 00:13:52.10\00:13:54.51 to them that loved God." 00:13:54.54\00:13:55.91 In the original it means that He causes all things 00:13:55.94\00:13:59.13 to work together for good, to them that loved God. 00:13:59.16\00:14:01.83 So ultimately what was given to him as-- 00:14:01.86\00:14:06.72 to cause Him to be defeated and to be discourage, 00:14:06.75\00:14:12.12 ultimately turned out not only on a God, but to bless Joseph, 00:14:12.15\00:14:16.78 because he became the second ruler 00:14:16.81\00:14:18.92 in the kingdom of Egypt. 00:14:18.95\00:14:20.32 And not only was he able to help his family, 00:14:20.35\00:14:22.11 but the entire peoples of the world were blessed 00:14:22.14\00:14:25.03 because of Joseph's commitment. 00:14:25.06\00:14:27.20 So the text is clear. 00:14:27.23\00:14:28.60 All things work together for good. 00:14:28.63\00:14:30.68 Good things and bad things will work together for God's-- 00:14:30.71\00:14:34.22 according to His purpose and they work together for good. 00:14:34.25\00:14:38.17 So it's wonderful to-- 00:14:38.20\00:14:42.39 for God to give this promise 00:14:42.42\00:14:43.79 that I know the plans I have for you. 00:14:43.82\00:14:45.74 So now what happens if we breakdown on a freeway 00:14:45.77\00:14:48.52 or something tragic happens in our life. 00:14:48.55\00:14:50.32 Is that a part of God's plan 00:14:50.35\00:14:52.08 or does He workout His plans from those incidences? 00:14:52.11\00:14:54.78 Yeah, I think in the text says, 00:14:54.81\00:14:56.54 "He causes all things to work together for good." 00:14:56.57\00:14:59.39 So even those things that are bad 00:14:59.42\00:15:01.81 we can still learn something from them 00:15:01.84\00:15:03.82 even if we've brought the consequences on ourselves. 00:15:03.85\00:15:06.88 Maybe we forgot to put gas in the car. 00:15:06.91\00:15:09.33 So we'll learn, you know, from that point forward 00:15:09.36\00:15:12.08 to make sure that we have enough gas. 00:15:12.11\00:15:16.10 But even in things with simple things, 00:15:16.13\00:15:19.83 we need to consult God's plans 00:15:19.86\00:15:21.23 especially with the major things. 00:15:21.26\00:15:23.51 Now, it was my last year in the seminary. 00:15:23.54\00:15:26.75 And you know, usually around that time 00:15:26.78\00:15:32.41 seminarians are either married or at least, 00:15:32.44\00:15:36.27 you know, pursuing that or dating someone, 00:15:36.30\00:15:38.81 but at that time I was not dating 00:15:38.84\00:15:40.94 any one person in particular. 00:15:40.97\00:15:43.90 But for 7 years I have prayed, 00:15:43.93\00:15:45.82 Lord, what is your will 00:15:45.85\00:15:49.17 for my life in terms of marriage, who is it? 00:15:49.20\00:15:51.41 You know, I have friends, several, they are all-- 00:15:51.44\00:15:53.84 you know, nice young ladies. 00:15:53.87\00:15:56.02 But so I prayed for 7 years and nothing happened. 00:15:56.05\00:16:01.67 And my mother was dying from cancer 00:16:01.70\00:16:03.66 at the end of that 7 years. 00:16:03.69\00:16:05.57 And I remember one night I was living on the fourth floor 00:16:05.60\00:16:09.26 of Burman Hall at Andrews University. 00:16:09.29\00:16:12.58 I was a head already. 00:16:12.61\00:16:13.98 So I could see the entire campus from my window. 00:16:14.01\00:16:19.30 And it was somewhere maybe 5:00 or 4:00 in the morning 00:16:19.33\00:16:23.30 and you know, I was just impressed to pray for my mother. 00:16:23.33\00:16:25.42 And as I was praying and pleading, 00:16:25.45\00:16:27.93 I felt the spirit of intercession. 00:16:27.96\00:16:30.00 I even felt her pain in me, you know. 00:16:30.03\00:16:33.93 And at the end of that prayer, 00:16:33.96\00:16:35.33 the Lord impressed me to pray again for a wife. 00:16:35.36\00:16:41.57 And I resolved in my mind that now 00:16:41.60\00:16:46.90 and I didn't know it but I was had not up until that time, 00:16:46.93\00:16:51.73 submitted my dating life completely to God. 00:16:51.76\00:16:54.79 You know, I always wanted a little bit what I want, 00:16:54.82\00:16:56.62 a little bit you know, I had my own criteria. 00:16:56.65\00:17:00.83 And they were all nice young ladies. 00:17:00.86\00:17:04.28 But at this time I was willing to say, 00:17:04.31\00:17:06.09 Lord, I'm leaving it all to you. 00:17:06.12\00:17:08.11 And the Lord said, you really mean that. 00:17:10.19\00:17:12.50 And I said, "Lord, I'm willing to wait, 00:17:12.53\00:17:14.66 I can go another 10 years." 00:17:14.69\00:17:16.31 You know, because I just felt this incredible love for God 00:17:16.34\00:17:19.38 and I wanted to be in so submission to His will 00:17:19.41\00:17:21.50 even if it meant being single for a while. 00:17:21.53\00:17:24.56 And I didn't care where she came from. 00:17:24.59\00:17:26.17 I didn't care if she came from China, it didn't matter. 00:17:26.20\00:17:29.91 It was just the Lord's will, be done. 00:17:29.94\00:17:32.88 And then the Lord said, 00:17:32.91\00:17:35.50 well, if you really want my will turn to Proverbs 31. 00:17:35.53\00:17:39.68 So I read Proverbs 31 00:17:39.71\00:17:41.50 and it talked about virtuous woman. 00:17:41.53\00:17:43.80 And all of the quality she possessed, 00:17:43.83\00:17:45.58 she was kind, she smug with the law of kindness, 00:17:45.61\00:17:48.19 she gets up early. 00:17:48.22\00:17:50.33 She is a good manager of resources and all of this things 00:17:50.36\00:17:56.08 and I said, "Lord, I'd never really 00:17:56.11\00:17:59.25 considered that, you know. 00:17:59.28\00:18:01.26 But the Lord said, "Well, this is what I want for you. 00:18:01.29\00:18:05.26 Is that okay with you?" 00:18:05.29\00:18:06.66 Yes, Lord, I'm okay with it. 00:18:06.69\00:18:10.44 And at the end of that prayer, 00:18:10.47\00:18:13.42 I got up off my knees, already its morning. 00:18:13.45\00:18:16.89 And Mark Finley was conducting an early Morning Prayer service 00:18:16.92\00:18:20.35 because he was holding a meeting there underneath Burman Hall. 00:18:20.38\00:18:24.64 And when I got up off of my knees 00:18:24.67\00:18:28.04 and stood up and looked out of the window, 00:18:28.07\00:18:30.78 I saw walking towards that the lower auditorium, Sheena. 00:18:30.81\00:18:38.70 And it hit me. 00:18:39.86\00:18:41.23 And you know, and it wasn't a coincidence, 00:18:41.26\00:18:42.71 I mean, just felt that's the one. 00:18:42.74\00:18:45.32 Did you know her? I had met her. 00:18:45.35\00:18:47.21 I had even try to date her, you know, 00:18:47.24\00:18:48.82 I've call her up and I said, 00:18:48.85\00:18:50.22 "would you like to go to prayer meeting?" 00:18:50.25\00:18:51.62 She would say, "what time is it and where is it gonna be?" 00:18:51.65\00:18:53.14 I said, "Well it's at Casa Felix it's about 30 miles." 00:18:53.17\00:18:54.91 And she said, "okay that's enough 00:18:54.94\00:18:56.60 I've got a lot of homework to do I'm sorry." 00:18:56.63\00:18:58.00 You know, so-- 00:18:58.03\00:18:59.40 What a beautiful name even, Sheena. 00:18:59.43\00:19:00.80 Yeah, yeah, so she knew me and we had try to cross paths 00:19:00.83\00:19:04.94 and I had even been introduced to her. 00:19:04.97\00:19:07.57 And I even tried to set up the introduction they'd occur. 00:19:07.60\00:19:11.29 But I didn't know, you know, I didn't think seriously. 00:19:11.32\00:19:14.54 When I saw her I knew that. 00:19:14.57\00:19:15.94 That was the one I just knew if. 00:19:15.97\00:19:17.89 And so later on after the program was over-- 00:19:17.92\00:19:20.95 I went down stairs where the meeting was taken place 00:19:20.98\00:19:22.97 then I went back to my room afterward 00:19:23.00\00:19:24.68 and I'm still trying to figure out, 00:19:24.71\00:19:26.08 what's going on here? 00:19:26.11\00:19:27.75 So PMC was having church at 11:00. 00:19:27.78\00:19:30.90 Pioneer Memorial Church. 00:19:30.93\00:19:32.30 Yeah the Pioneer Memorial Church and it was a special day. 00:19:32.33\00:19:35.63 And so I'm walking out of the door. 00:19:35.66\00:19:38.06 I'm across student center and I passed the cafeteria. 00:19:38.09\00:19:42.35 And passed the girls auditorium. 00:19:42.38\00:19:43.75 And just as I'm walking by here she is again. 00:19:43.78\00:19:48.78 And we bumped, hit in to each together. 00:19:48.81\00:19:51.75 And I say to her, "How are you, today? 00:19:51.78\00:19:56.10 Would you like to go with me to church?" 00:19:56.13\00:19:57.80 And that was our first date. Going to church. 00:19:57.83\00:20:01.26 And then text says, "Trust in me with all your heart 00:20:01.29\00:20:03.82 lean not into your own understanding 00:20:03.85\00:20:05.70 and acknowledge me in your ways. 00:20:05.73\00:20:07.10 And I will direct your path." 00:20:07.13\00:20:08.64 So here we are meeting at an intersection. 00:20:08.67\00:20:12.32 So we go into the church and we sit down. 00:20:12.35\00:20:14.69 And the Dwight Nelson is preaching. 00:20:14.72\00:20:17.16 And he gives an illustration 00:20:17.19\00:20:18.56 of how he met his wife walking on campus. 00:20:18.59\00:20:22.89 And his sermon was entitled 00:20:22.92\00:20:24.35 "Can two walk together, except they be agreed." 00:20:24.38\00:20:27.73 And I'm just I'm paralyzed, what is going on? 00:20:27.76\00:20:32.54 The Lord has answered prayer 00:20:32.57\00:20:34.21 and he has made it so plain to me, 00:20:34.24\00:20:36.67 that I would have to be either drugged out 00:20:36.70\00:20:39.95 or comatose not to really miss it, you know. 00:20:39.98\00:20:44.77 And so we eventually you know, 00:20:44.80\00:20:48.00 we got married and the Lord has blessed. 00:20:48.03\00:20:50.99 And I know He chose. 00:20:51.02\00:20:53.05 It was not something then I did. 00:20:53.08\00:20:55.42 But when I got to the place where I was ready 00:20:55.45\00:20:57.28 to surrender that part of my life, 00:20:57.31\00:21:00.08 God wasted no time. 00:21:00.11\00:21:01.48 It didn't take another three years, 00:21:01.51\00:21:03.10 it only took a matter of seconds 00:21:03.13\00:21:05.47 after the prayer before He answered it. 00:21:05.50\00:21:07.38 Praise the Lord. 00:21:07.41\00:21:08.78 So I was sitting with my mouth wide opened. 00:21:08.81\00:21:10.72 You know, trying to figure it. 00:21:10.75\00:21:12.12 The Lord, how can you could answer Prayer, it scared me. 00:21:12.15\00:21:14.76 It was, he answered so quickly. 00:21:14.79\00:21:17.24 And--but the Lord promises that I know the plan. 00:21:17.27\00:21:23.42 So He had this in mind all the time. 00:21:23.45\00:21:24.98 Isn't that amazing how-- 00:21:25.01\00:21:26.38 So He orchestrated the events, 00:21:26.41\00:21:27.78 He orchestrated when she would get up, 00:21:27.81\00:21:29.54 when should leave the auditorium 00:21:29.57\00:21:32.83 and walk towards the student's centre. 00:21:32.86\00:21:34.86 He orchestrated me. 00:21:34.89\00:21:36.79 You know, coming down the stairs, 00:21:36.83\00:21:39.14 walking past the student centre. 00:21:39.17\00:21:41.13 He'd made everything just right. 00:21:41.16\00:21:43.86 So it will be clear to me and He spoke in my own language. 00:21:43.89\00:21:46.35 You see, because I understand stuff like that. 00:21:46.38\00:21:49.73 God is so good. Yes, yes. 00:21:49.76\00:21:51.81 And the ideas is that-- 00:21:51.84\00:21:53.53 He really does have plans for us. 00:21:53.56\00:21:55.23 He has plans. Yes. 00:21:55.26\00:21:56.63 You know, a lot of times the old people say 00:21:56.66\00:21:58.62 and also the Bible says, 00:21:58.65\00:22:00.56 "Well, before you call I'll answer." 00:22:00.59\00:22:02.50 That's what God says. Yes. 00:22:02.53\00:22:03.90 Right. Yes. 00:22:03.93\00:22:05.30 So sometimes we wonder how things are gonna 00:22:05.33\00:22:07.50 actually turn out when we're faced with a dilemma. Yes. 00:22:07.53\00:22:12.23 But clearly from what your personal testimony is that 00:22:12.26\00:22:14.84 God does answer prayer 00:22:14.87\00:22:16.24 and God has a sequence that He puts in events. Yes. 00:22:16.27\00:22:19.25 And we'll just follow that sequence in order 00:22:19.28\00:22:22.26 we will be much better off before we even go further. 00:22:22.29\00:22:24.62 I want to have time to share your address 00:22:24.65\00:22:27.24 with our viewing audience. 00:22:27.27\00:22:28.64 Sure. Sure. 00:22:28.67\00:22:30.04 If you'd like to talk to Pastor Stanley Dixon 00:22:30.07\00:22:31.73 about plans for your life or if you'd like to reach him 00:22:31.76\00:22:35.27 to come your church for a speaking appointment. 00:22:35.30\00:22:37.79 You may contact Pastor Stanley K. Dixon 00:22:37.82\00:22:40.48 at 5133 West Condor Drive, Tucson, AZ 85742. 00:22:40.51\00:22:48.48 The telephone number is 520-622-2218. 00:22:48.51\00:22:54.37 And the email address is 3angelsmsg@juno.com. 00:22:54.40\00:23:01.85 If you're interested in having someone 00:23:01.88\00:23:04.06 praying with you right now. 00:23:04.09\00:23:05.46 If you are not certain what God's plans are for your life 00:23:05.49\00:23:09.31 please dial that 800 number that you're see 00:23:09.34\00:23:11.68 in front of your screen right now. Amen. 00:23:11.71\00:23:13.47 And there'll someone 00:23:13.50\00:23:14.87 who will be more than happy to pray with you. 00:23:14.90\00:23:17.09 If you'd like to have materials 00:23:17.12\00:23:18.65 on how to have peace in your life 00:23:18.68\00:23:20.56 there is a great book called 'Finding Peace Within' 00:23:20.59\00:23:23.18 that you can obtain via that 800 number. 00:23:23.21\00:23:25.39 Amen. Amen. 00:23:25.42\00:23:28.15 And I appreciate the emphasis on prayer 00:23:28.19\00:23:31.64 especially with this program because it really-- 00:23:31.67\00:23:34.11 "prayer is the key that unlocks heaven storehouse" someone says. 00:23:34.14\00:23:38.52 And you know, 00:23:38.55\00:23:39.96 we have difficult choices to make in life. 00:23:39.99\00:23:42.72 Sometimes it may be a matter of life and death. 00:23:42.75\00:23:46.49 About nine years ago my wife and I had a serious challenge. 00:23:46.52\00:23:54.15 She was about six-and-half months pregnant 00:23:54.18\00:23:59.83 and she went to the doctors office 00:23:59.86\00:24:01.47 and I won't mention the hospital but-- 00:24:01.50\00:24:05.01 and they said that we have to have an emergency c-section 00:24:05.04\00:24:08.70 because your child is not getting enough nourishment. 00:24:08.73\00:24:13.83 He's a little small and so forth 00:24:13.86\00:24:16.53 and that early, that morning in my prayer that the Lord said, 00:24:16.56\00:24:20.52 "that when the enemy comes in like a flood 00:24:20.55\00:24:23.27 the Lord will raise up a standard against him." 00:24:23.30\00:24:25.29 Amen. Well how does it fit? 00:24:25.32\00:24:27.20 Well, prior to that we had made some changes 00:24:27.23\00:24:29.41 and we talked about diet. 00:24:29.44\00:24:31.73 And I believed what I learn 00:24:31.76\00:24:33.70 and we immediately began to put those things in the practice 00:24:33.73\00:24:36.67 and it just seemed difficult for me to understand 00:24:36.70\00:24:40.12 that that was-- what was happening 00:24:40.15\00:24:42.78 that they needed an emergency c-section. 00:24:42.81\00:24:45.13 In spite, of the fact that we were putting into practice, 00:24:47.50\00:24:51.25 you know, those superior principles that will assure, 00:24:51.28\00:24:55.39 you know, healthy delivery and a healthy child. 00:24:55.42\00:24:57.98 And it was just a gut feeling inside 00:24:58.01\00:25:00.43 and so to make a long story short, 00:25:00.46\00:25:03.03 we'd signed a paper said, no, we won't have the operation. 00:25:03.06\00:25:06.18 And 2 months later the child was born 00:25:06.21\00:25:09.12 with Apgar score and perfect timing. 00:25:09.15\00:25:12.59 I mean, he's healthy today. 00:25:12.62\00:25:13.99 I mean, he's wonderful. Praise the Lord. 00:25:14.02\00:25:15.39 And I'm glad I listened to the Lord 00:25:15.42\00:25:16.79 because the temptation was 00:25:16.82\00:25:18.19 okay, go ahead and have the surgery 00:25:18.22\00:25:19.59 would had more bills, more complications. 00:25:19.62\00:25:22.20 But when we seek God's perfect will, 00:25:22.23\00:25:24.29 He will lead us and guide us and direct us. 00:25:24.32\00:25:27.46 Well, I'm very happy that you're able to come 00:25:27.49\00:25:30.26 and talk with us about the fact 00:25:30.29\00:25:33.08 that God does have a plan for our lives. 00:25:33.11\00:25:36.44 And again we're gonna invite those at home with us as we-- 00:25:36.47\00:25:39.59 as our custom to come into Prayer time 00:25:39.62\00:25:43.34 into spiritual agreement for God to direct 00:25:43.37\00:25:46.66 every single aspect of our lives. 00:25:46.69\00:25:49.42 And if we are not sure, 00:25:49.45\00:25:51.11 if we have some very specific plans 00:25:51.14\00:25:53.22 we want to pray God's blessings 00:25:53.25\00:25:55.59 so that we're in the center of His will. 00:25:55.62\00:25:57.92 Will you please pray for us, Pastor Dixon? Yes. 00:25:57.95\00:26:00.66 Our Father Lord, we're delighted that You have plans for us. 00:26:00.69\00:26:04.44 We thank You, God that ultimate plan is salvation. 00:26:04.47\00:26:09.34 But even here Lord, we see evidences of Your love 00:26:09.37\00:26:12.14 as You direct us in the daily choices that we make. 00:26:12.17\00:26:15.74 Some of us or some of our viewers 00:26:15.77\00:26:17.72 may have challenge us today, O God, 00:26:17.75\00:26:19.38 and I pray that You will guide them. 00:26:19.41\00:26:20.97 Praise Lord. 00:26:21.00\00:26:22.39 And understanding of Your perfect will. 00:26:22.42\00:26:24.71 You're specific will for their lives, 00:26:24.74\00:26:27.04 bless their choices, O Lord. 00:26:27.07\00:26:29.19 And let them here that still quiet small voice 00:26:29.22\00:26:31.50 that says, "This is the way walkie in it." 00:26:31.53\00:26:34.88 We ask these blessings in Jesus name, amen. Amen. 00:26:34.91\00:26:39.02 Thank you again for coming to our program. 00:26:39.05\00:26:40.61 It's been a pleasure being here, yes. 00:26:40.64\00:26:42.01 It's been great. 00:26:42.04\00:26:43.41 So what you're planning now for the future. 00:26:43.44\00:26:45.75 I have no idea, I am waiting on God. 00:26:45.78\00:26:48.44 I like that answer that you gave. 00:26:48.47\00:26:50.03 Yeah, I have no idea. 00:26:50.06\00:26:51.43 I don't even know how I got here but I'm here. 00:26:51.46\00:26:55.16 I'm talking about the transportation problems 00:26:55.19\00:26:57.71 there was no way logically why I should be here. 00:26:57.74\00:27:00.33 But the Lord worked it out. 00:27:00.36\00:27:02.20 And from here we'll just let the Lord leave. 00:27:02.23\00:27:04.86 I got to go back to Tucson, I know that. 00:27:04.89\00:27:06.44 I'll be in trouble if I don't. 00:27:06.47\00:27:07.90 Yes, you've got a wonderful group of people 00:27:07.93\00:27:10.49 that are waiting for your return. Yes. 00:27:10.52\00:27:13.16 And we're looking forward to that. 00:27:13.19\00:27:15.06 Well, I tell you thank you so much 00:27:15.09\00:27:16.51 for traveling so far to come to this program. 00:27:16.54\00:27:19.13 Yeah, it's been a blessing. 00:27:19.16\00:27:20.53 And for those of you at home 00:27:20.56\00:27:22.10 again we invite you to dial at 800 number. 00:27:22.13\00:27:25.18 It's so wonderful to be able to take our plans, 00:27:25.21\00:27:29.17 our concerns, our petitions, and our request 00:27:29.20\00:27:31.53 directly to the throne of grace. 00:27:31.56\00:27:33.66 Because when we go there, we know we can have answers. 00:27:33.69\00:27:36.25 And it is true, 00:27:36.28\00:27:37.65 we've heard the testimony that Pastor Dixon has given. 00:27:37.68\00:27:40.22 Before we call the Lord we'll answer 00:27:40.25\00:27:43.00 even in the case of being able to the very second 00:27:43.03\00:27:46.45 knowing when the best time is. 00:27:46.48\00:27:48.74 God will answer our prayers. 00:27:48.77\00:27:51.73 God does have a specific plan for our lives. 00:27:51.76\00:27:54.92 And until next time, may God bless you. 00:27:54.95\00:27:57.72 And we look forward to see you 00:27:57.75\00:27:59.12 in another edition of Issues and Answers. 00:27:59.15\00:28:01.14