Hello, and
welcome to Heart Lift.
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I'm Jill Morikone,
and I'm so glad that
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you've joined us today.
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We're on a journey, in
the middle of a journey toward
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healing, toward hope, toward
the transformation that the Lord
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Jesus Christ, wants to
work in your life and in mine,
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as women of God, as
daughters of the King.
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If you've just joined us,
we're in the middle of several
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programs dealing with
the concept of forgiveness.
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Two programs ago we talked
about the parable, the story,
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that Jesus told in Luke
8 about the sower who went
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forth to sow his seed.
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It fell on the wayside.
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We talked about the hindrances
in our own hearts for God
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when He wants to
plant His word deep,
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and sometimes we
put up roadblocks.
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Sometimes we have hindrances
that we put up to keep God from
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planting His word in our hearts.
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One of those hindrances is
when we're resistant to the work
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of the Holy Spirit.
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We're like the
road; we've become hard.
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And God said, Surrender to Me.
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I can plow up that hard
soil, and I can make it soft.
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Next, some of the
seed was trampled upon.
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We talked about how each one
of us experience trampling on.
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Sometimes Satan
confuses the character of God.
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Sometimes its an abuse, or some
sort of pain, some wrong that
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someone else has done you.
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We discussed last program on
the deliverance that the Lord
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Jesus Christ wants to do in each
one of our hearts and lives.
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He says, Simply pray.
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Ask for My forgiveness.
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Pray for the
person who hurt you.
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Surrender the
desire for revenge.
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And choose to
process those steps until God
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releases our heart.
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Today we're going to
discuss forgiving other people.
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How do we ask for
forgiveness when we're the ones
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who have done wrong?
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And, finally, we'll
end with the stolen seed.
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The sower casts
forth his seed on the road.
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Some was trampled, and some
the birds ate. It was stolen.
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We're going to end
with that stolen seed.
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First is our
Scripture, Hebrews 12:14, 15.
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The word of God says,
Pursue peace with all people,
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and holiness, without
which no one will see the Lord:
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looking carefully lest anyone
fall short of the grace of God;
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lest any root of bitterness
springing up cause trouble,
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and by this many become defiled.
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Lets pray. Father
we come before You.
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Thank You for the forgiveness
that You want to pour into our
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hearts for our
brothers and sisters.
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We praise Your name for that.
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Right now we open up our hearts
for Your divine inspection.
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We ask that You would
show us, show us if there's any
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bitterness, or any aught against
us and a brother and sister.
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I just pray that You could hide
me, and that You could speak
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to our hearts,
that You could be seen.
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And we thank You in the precious
and holy name of Jesus, Amen.
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Greg and I like to garden.
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I think I could honestly
say that Greg is a much better
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gardener than I am, and that he
enjoys it even more than I do.
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He loves nothing better
than the wind in his hair,
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and his hands in the
dirt, the sun on his face.
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Now I like to go outside, and I
love working in my flower beds.
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But Greg loves any type of
gardening: working with the
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tractor, plowing up the
soil, working in the garden.
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He likes weeding, he likes
hoeing, he likes fertilizing,
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he loves our raspberries, and
our blueberries, and our apple
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trees, which sadly died.
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But any type of
gardening, he really likes.
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One of my special
loves is herbs. I love herbs.
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I like fresh herbs.
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To me they're
much more economical.
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It's a lot cheaper if you're
cooking to use fresh herbs,
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if you grow
them from the garden.
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If you buy them in the
store, they're quite expensive.
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So I really like
to use fresh herbs.
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They taste better,
and they're cheaper if
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you grow them yourself.
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On the South side of our garage,
we planted an herb garden.
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Now I had your
traditional herbs.
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There's some Basil, there's some
Parsley, there's some Oregano,
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some Cilantro, some Thyme.
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One year someone gave us some
mint, and they said, Oh Jill,
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you're going to love this.
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Now if you garden
you know exactly where
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this story is going.
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What happened: the first year
the mint filled in very nicely,
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and I was very
pleased with the results.
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The second year,
you know what happened?
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It began to overtake
and overrun my garden.
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My Basil was boxed in.
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The Cilantro was crowded.
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And the Oregano was overrun.
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It even went out into the grass.
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And when Greg would mow the
grass, you know what happened?
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You could smell the mint,
and it smelled really good,
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but that was not the point.
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I didn't want mint everywhere.
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So we yanked, and we pulled,
and we tried to pull it up,
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and nothing worked.
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Finally what we did is we used
good old fashioned weed killer,
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and we sprayed the
entire herb garden,
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and we let it rest for a year.
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When I planted my herb garden
again on the South side of my
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garage, you can be
sure I did not plant mint,
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or if I did, I would have
put it in a container box.
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But I was so burned on
it, I didn't even plant mint.
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I think the root of bitterness
is something like that mint.
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It invades us, and in
the beginning we think
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it's not such a bad thing.
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But then pretty soon it spreads,
it grows, it multiplies until
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it effects us, our homes, our
marriages, our kids, our church,
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our ministry, our place of work.
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Bitterness spreads,
but the beautiful thing is
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that God's love wins.
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In John 13, John 13,
let me jump over here.
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This is Jesus speaking, and
I like to think of John 13, 14,
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15, 16, 17 as Jesus' last
will and testament, as it were.
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He's just completed the
foot washing with the disciples.
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They're getting
ready, He's getting ready
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to go to the cross,
and He's on His way to the
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Garden of Gethsemane.
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But yet He takes time with
those twelve men that He loved,
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that He was training for
service, and He shared with them
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some last minute pointers,
you could say, as it were.
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John 13:34, 35. He says, A
new commandment I give to you,
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That you love one
another; as I have loved you,
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that you also love one another.
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By this all will know
that you are My disciples,
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if you have
love one for another.
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And as I read that verse,
it seems like I hear God speak
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to my mind and He
says, Jill, do you have love
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for your brothers and sisters?
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It's easy to be kind to those
who are kind to us in return.
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It's painless to reach
out to those without prickles.
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It's easy to love
those who love us back.
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The real test comes when
the loving costs us something;
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when it's
uncomfortable, when it hurts.
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I received a letter from a woman
once who decided to address
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some of the issues
that she saw in my life.
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Now I'm just
being honest with you.
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I think there was some valid
points, and there were some
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issues that I really
had that I should look at.
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And, I'm being honest
with you, I think some
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of it wasn't so valid.
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But maybe that's
just my own opinion.
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So some was good, and
maybe some I shouldn't
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have taken to heart.
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But at the beginning I couldn't
even focus on any of that.
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All I felt was the
sting of what she had written.
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And as I prayed over it, I
didn't know how to deal with it.
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And I tried praying for
her, and I started working
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through this in my life.
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And that morning I
was in Romans, Romans 15,
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for my own personal devotions.
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And I was reading Romans
15, and I came to verse 5.
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It says, Now may the
God of patience and comfort
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grant you to be
like-minded toward one another
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according to Christ Jesus:
that you may with one mind
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and one mouth glorify God.
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And as I read it I said,
God, I know I'm not like-minded
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toward this sister who
just wrote me this letter,
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but I want to be.
And I kept reading.
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Verse 7. Therefore receive
one another, just as Christ also
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received us, to
the glory of God.
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And it's like I felt
God tap me on the shoulder.
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And He said,
Jill, I've received you.
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I've accepted
you as My daughter.
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Don't you think you could accept
and receive this other woman?
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this woman who
wrote you this letter?
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And I said,
Okay, God, I'm sorry.
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I want to
receive her as my sister.
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Please teach me how.
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And He led me on those steps
of forgiveness, on those steps
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of releasing and becoming
free from that bitterness
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that I was bound with.
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But what if you say
you've dealt with that.
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And you've dealt with maybe
the people who have hurt you,
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but what if you
have hurt someone else?
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What if there's pain, and
there's angst in your life,
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and you have injured someone?
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You've lied about someone.
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You've stole from someone else.
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You've gossipped about them.
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Maybe you're the one who pulled
the trigger on someone else.
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I don't know what's going
on in your heart right now.
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If we've hurt, if
we've offended other people,
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God has a
solution for that as well.
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I think there's five steps
specifically when we're asking
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for forgiveness
for other people.
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1. Pray for God to show
you who you have wronged.
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I think this is very important.
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Many times we
don't see our hearts.
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We don't see our lies.
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We don't see the way that
we have hurt, or that we have
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injured other people.
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So just go to God.
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I love Psalm 139. Search
me, O God, and know my heart:
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try me, and know my thoughts:
and show me the wickedness
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that exists in my life.
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So just go to God and
say, God, what is in my life?
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Who have I hurt,
even unintentionally?
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I remember once a woman
came up to me and she said,
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Jill you have
hurt me excruciatingly.
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And you know the
truth? I had no idea.
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I had never intended
anything in my heart.
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I was glad she told me.
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But if they don't tell
you, what are we supposed to do?
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Go to God. He can show us.
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He can show us what's in
our heart, and if we need to ask
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forgiveness of someone else.
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2. Ask for their forgiveness.
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I think the most important thing
would be to do it in person,
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if you can. I think that's best.
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But what if you can't?
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What if they
live a long way away?
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What if you're uncomfortable,
and a little afraid
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what you're going to say.
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You can always detail it out.
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You can write it in a letter.
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3. Be specific. Don't say,
I'm sorry if I offended you.
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I'm sorry if I hurt you.
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That puts it right
back on the other person.
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Be specific. Say I know
what I said here was damaging,
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or whatever,
whatever you did. Be specific.
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4. Make restitution.
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If possible
make the wrong right.
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If you stole some
money, pay it back.
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I think of Zacchaeus.
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Remember he was climbing
up, and he was in the Sycamore
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tree, so that
he could see Jesus.
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He was a tax collector.
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When Jesus came what did He do?
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He said, Zacchaeus come down.
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I'm going to your house.
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Zacchaeus came down and he said,
Lord who ever I have wronged,
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who ever I have hurt,
I'm going to repay fourfold.
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It's a Biblical
principle, restitution.
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Maybe you've
gossiped about someone.
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You can go back
and tell the truth.
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That's eating some humble pie.
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Now I don't mean to the
person you gossiped about,
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I mean to the people that you,
all the other people you told.
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Go back and say, You know what?
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I talked about so and so.
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I should never have
done that. I'm sorry.
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First pray and ask for
God to show you who you need
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to ask forgiveness for?
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Second, ask for
their forgiveness.
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Either write a
letter or in person.
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Third, be specific
in how you've hurt them.
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4. Make restitution.
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And 5. Trust God to heal
the relationship in His time.
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Healing takes time.
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Once you've
asked for forgiveness,
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and done all you can to
make it right, simply trust God
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to make it right in His time.
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I remember there was a
woman, I'll call her Mary,
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this was years ago.
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I did something and God brought
to my mind several years later.
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He brought to my mind
what I had done, and He said,
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Jill you need to make it right.
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And I said, God I don't
even know where she lives.
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This is over ten
years ago when I did that.
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I knew her then, but
I haven't kept in touch
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with her in ten years.
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How am I going to find her?
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What if she doesn't
live in the same house?
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You know it's too difficult God.
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I'm not going to do that.
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But He didn't let me
off the hook that easily.
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Every day as I was having
my devotional time with God
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in the morning, He
said, Write Mary a letter.
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Write Mary a
letter. And I said, Okay.
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And so I sat down and I
began to write a letter to Mary.
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I explained, I was specific.
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I said, These are the ways
I hurt you, and I am sorry.
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Specific in what I had done.
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I mailed the letter, and
I didn't know if she still
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lived at that address.
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I just took a chance.
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And so the amazing thing is
a week went by and I thought,
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Oh, she's gotten it by now.
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What's she going to think?
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What's she going to say?
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I didn't hear anything.
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But that barely had time
for her to get the letter.
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Two weeks went by, nothing.
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Two months went by, nothing.
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Six months, nothing.
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A year, nothing. Remember
step 5. Trust God to heal
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the relationship in His time.
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And so I prayed and I
said, God I don't know
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what to do with this.
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I've done all I can.
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And He said, Jill
you've done what you can.
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There's nothing else
you can do. Trust Me.
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And so I said, Okay, but it sure
feels good if the person you've
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asked forgiveness
for, if they come back
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and say, I do forgive you.
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I met her at a convention.
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And I just bumped into her.
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And she never
comes to this convention.
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But I bumped into
her, and she said,
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Oh thanks for that
letter Jill. It meant a lot.
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And God said, Now I have brought
your relationship full circle.
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Now I have brought the
healing that I intended
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to do in the beginning.
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We talked about the
sower, how he went forth to sow.
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Remember there was the wayside,
the road, the resistant heart.
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Then some of the
seed was trampled on.
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Some of the
other seed was stolen.
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How was the seed stolen?
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How do you know if the seed,
the word of God, is being stolen
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right out from under your
nose? right out of your heart?
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I think the seed is stolen
sometimes by our busyness.
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I don't know about you, but
sometimes I'm so busy it takes
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time even to get
into the word of God.
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And I say, I've got five verses.
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Done, done, okay,
I'm done! Next thing God!
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I didn't take time.
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I didn't savor His presence.
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I didn't read and study.
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So sometimes the word
of God is stolen right
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out because I'm busy.
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I think another way it's stolen
is because I become careless,
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or maybe I'm lazy.
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We have a lot of
deer in our neighborhood.
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We live in the country.
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I've mentioned that before.
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I think we've counted
twenty-five at one time.
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But usually they don't all
come through our yard at once.
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We have two or three, and
then another two or three,
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and then another two or three.
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They love to come in.
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They go in our garden,
and they eat up the stuff.
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That is not very pleasant.
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And I've tried to
run out and chase them.
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We have a fence.
It has electricity.
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But they can get in our garden.
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They eat my azalea bushes
on the north side of the house,
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and that doesn't
make me too happy either.
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And they can even come
in; they cross the sidewalk
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and they dig my tulip bulbs
out right in front of my house.
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Now, they're not
very lazy, are they?
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They get in, they
get what they want.
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But sometimes I can become lazy.
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I cannot pay attention.
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Maybe there's more things, more
steps, something we could do
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to prevent them
from coming in as much.
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And I just get
careless, or lazy.
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I think the third way the seed
is stolen is by misunderstanding
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of the seed's value.
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It was another Monday night, we
were having our study in jail.
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And all of a sudden
I heard a woman scream.
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And I was startled, but I looked
around the circle of women,
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and they didn't
seem startled at all.
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They were just
focused on the study.
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My friend from church
was leading the study,
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and she said, How many of
you have heard of the story of
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Daniel and the Lions Den?
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Not a single hand went up.
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Just as she launched into
the story of Daniel and the
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Lion's Den, the
scream came again.
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And I said, I
can't, I can't focus.
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I don't know how they
could focus and block it out.
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And so I said, I'm
so sorry to interrupt.
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What's wrong? Who's screaming?
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Do they need help?
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They kind of rolled their
eyes, and looked at each other,
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and they said, Oh, that's Amber.
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We'll call her that.
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That's not her real name.
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She's been in and out of
jail before. She's crazy.
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Amber, Amber? I kept
trying to think about it.
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Where had I heard
the name Amber before?
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And then it hit me,
she'd been in jail before.
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I remembered her. She
came to our Bible study.
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But what had happened?
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Why was she coming
back to jail again?
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The study continued, and I have
to admit my mind was not very
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focused on the study.
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Because all I could think about
was Amber, and would they let
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us go pray with her?
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Many times when we
come into jail, we walk in,
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we do our study, we walk out.
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They don't let
us wander the halls.
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They don't let us go
visit people in cells.
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It's very strict, and
so I didn't know if they
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would let us do that.
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We said goodbye to the girls.
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I walked up to the guards desk
and I said, Hey, I wondered,
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is there any chance you
would let me go visit Amber?
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He looked tired. Amber,
he said, She's probably been
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in and out fifteen times.
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She no sooner gets out
and she gets picked up again.
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He said, She's ruined
her mind with bath salts.
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Sure, you can go pray with her.
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And so I started walking,
walking down the corridor,
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and he followed behind me,
hand on the gun at his belt.
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Before we even
got to the window,
00:21:08.10\00:21:10.97
Amber stepped up to the
glass and she said, Hey lady,
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come over here. I
want to talk to you.
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And so I stepped up
and I said, Hi Amber.
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My name is Jill. I
came to talk with you,
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if that's okay with you.
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So we made small talk;
had a pretty good discussion.
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And then I said, I'd
love to pray with you,
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if that's okay with you.
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She began to get agitated.
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I don't need prayer.
00:21:37.43\00:21:39.19
I don't want prayer.
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Then she stepped
right up to the glass.
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There's a glass
window in the door there in
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solitary confinement.
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She stepped
right up to the glass.
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She said, Oh lady,
look at your teeth.
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You have pretty teeth.
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And I said, Oh Amber, I'm
sorry I can't give you my teeth.
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But I'd love to pray with you.
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No, no, no, she said.
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I don't want prayer.
00:22:07.22\00:22:08.66
Oh, but your teeth!
00:22:08.72\00:22:10.06
Look at your teeth!
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That's what I
want; teeth like that.
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Amber, I said, We can talk
to the God of the universe.
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Look at those teeth!
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Tears filled my
eyes, and I turned away.
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We could have talked to
the Creator God, the God of the
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universe, the God
who can do anything,
00:22:32.68\00:22:36.32
and all she wanted was my teeth.
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Later that night as I
drove home, I thought of the
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tremendous gift
she had cast aside.
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It wasn't purposeful.
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She simply had no idea
of the power of our King.
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And then in the recesses of
my mind, in the quietness of my
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heart God reminded me that
I, too, have been like Amber.
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I have prayed for teeth.
00:23:09.12\00:23:14.72
Haven't I desired advice from
people, but neglected to seek
00:23:14.76\00:23:21.06
my Father who says, If you
lack wisdom, just come to Me.
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Haven't I trembled with fear
instead of seeking His face?
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When have I had not
because I asked not?
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I don't know about you.
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I don't know in your life,
have you been praying for teeth?
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Are you settling for
second best when God says,
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I love you. I made you.
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I have a plan for your life.
00:23:52.73\00:23:55.33
I long to bring you deliverance
from your bitterness,
00:23:55.36\00:24:01.70
from your unforgiveness, from
the pain that just hangs on your
00:24:01.74\00:24:07.11
chest, or
constricts your shoulders.
00:24:07.18\00:24:09.41
I want to bring you forgiveness.
00:24:09.44\00:24:12.08
I want to pour My forgiveness
into your life so that you can
00:24:12.11\00:24:16.28
extend it to others, so that you
can go, and if you have hurt,
00:24:16.35\00:24:20.49
if you have wronged
someone else, can go and ask
00:24:20.52\00:24:24.43
for forgiveness from them.
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When have we had
not, because we ask not?
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Come to the Lord Jesus.
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Ask, ask for His forgiveness,
ask for His cleansing,
00:24:31.83\00:24:36.10
ask that He would pour His
forgiveness into your life,
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so that you could
extend it to others.
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We're going to
take a short break here.
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We want to do a practical
application, something that you
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can take with you, something
that you can do this week
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that will help
you on this journey.
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In our next program
we're going to discuss fear.
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All of those aspects of
fear, and what God wants
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to do in our lives.
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