Hello, and
welcome to Heart Lift.
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I'm Jill Morikone,
and I'm so glad that
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you've joined us today.
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We're on a journey of
hope, of healing, of finding the
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transformation that the Lord
Jesus Christ wants to do in your
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heart and mine, as women of
God, as daughters of the King.
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If you're just joining us for
the first time, last week our
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last program, we discussed
the brokenness that we all
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experience as the result
of sin, as a result of the
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world that we live on.
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We talked about the mask
that we wear, the mask we put on
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to kind of hide who we feel we
are inside, the mask that we put
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on for other people to see.
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We talked about the lies that
Satan tells us about ourself,
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about who we are, and how
none of that really matters.
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Because all that matters is what
the Lord Jesus thinks about us.
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When He looks at us
He says, I love you.
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You're My daughter.
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I made you. I have a
beautiful plan for your life.
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Our Scripture
today is 1 John 3:1.
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If you have your
Bible, open up with me.
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If not, you can
jot down the reference,
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and you can
always look it up later.
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The Bible says, Behold, what
manner of love the Father has
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bestowed on us, that we should
be called the children of God.
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Let's pray. Father we
come before You right now
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in the name of Jesus.
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Thank You that You
call us as Your children.
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Thank You that You
call us as Your daughters.
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And I pray right now for the
anointing of Your Holy Spirit,
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that You could speak, and
that we could hear what You
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have from Your word.
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And we thank You in the precious
and holy name of Jesus, Amen.
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She was just a little thing.
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When we first adopted
her, or maybe I should say,
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When she first adopted us,
she was probably six inches
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from the tip of her pink
nose to the end of her tail.
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She was a little grey ball
of fluff; a little kitty cat.
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We loved her. She came into our
yard and she would roll on her
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back in the gravel driveway,
because she liked her tummy
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scratched, which is
kind of unusual for a cat.
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She loved to pounce on
unsuspecting birds, and beetles,
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and bugs. She loved that.
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She would sleep
in the flower beds.
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We named her Pebbles, because
she was grey, and she looked
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like a little grey stone.
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We'd had her about four years
when the unthinkable happened;
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she disappeared. Greg
and I had traveled for 3ABN,
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and when we came home we jumped
out of the car and we said,
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Pebbles, and she wasn't there.
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And Greg said, It's fine.
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She's out hunting something.
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She's maybe sleeping somewhere.
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It's fine. So we went inside
and we unpacked all our luggage.
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And then it began to
grow dark, and she always
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comes by that time.
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And so we went
out in the backyard.
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We have a field
out back of our house.
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We went out in the back
and we called, and called.
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But there was no
answering little meow.
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I was kind of discouraged.
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And Greg took my
hand as we walked,
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and trudged back to the house.
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He said, Jilly, it's okay.
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We can trust God with her life.
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And I knew that, but I
didn't want to think about that.
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I just wanted her home.
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I wanted her safe.
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I knew that she was
not a very good fighter,
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and we have coyotes in our
area, because we've seen them.
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We have bobcat
in our neighborhood.
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We've seen them in our driveway.
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We have owls that come.
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And I thought, she
doesn't fight very good.
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She wouldn't stand a
chance with any of that stuff.
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We went to bed and
we prayed over her.
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We got up the next
morning at five o'clock.
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I ran to the front
porch, I opened up the door,
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I flipped on the
light, and I called.
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There was no answering
little meow; no Pebbles.
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Greg left for work, and
I pulled on his old jeans,
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and an old flannel shirt,
and I went out to see if, maybe,
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just maybe, I could find her.
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Across the road... We
live on a gravel road.
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We live in the country.
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Across the road from our house
is a whole forest of trees,
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and brambles, and
thickets, and all of that.
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So I crossed the road, picked
up one leg over the barbed wire
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fence, the other leg
over the barbed wire fence,
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and almost immediately
the brambles, the thickets,
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forced me to my hands and knees.
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And I began to crawl, dodging
deer droppings, and poison ivy,
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pausing to yank Greg's old
flannel shirt off of one of
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those briars and thorns.
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Every so often I would pause, I
would call, and I would listen.
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But there was no answering
little meow; no Pebbles.
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After an hour I finally gave up
and I came back through all that
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out on the main road.
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Later, almost as
if on an impulse,
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I started off a different field.
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And I'd almost given up hope.
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I'd been searching for a few
hours; there was no kitty cat.
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And I went down this
other road, and all of a
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sudden I called again.
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And I don't even know
why I called, but I called
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and I heard meow.
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And I thought, Ah!
Is that Pebbles? Meow!
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And so I went into the woods.
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I said, I'm coming!
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And I went in and
there she was, back arched,
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tail up and waving
proudly. She was there!
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Why hadn't she come home?
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I don't know. Maybe she
got lost, and turned around,
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and she couldn't
find her way back home.
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Maybe she was so worn out
that she said, I'm too tired,
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too tired to come back.
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Whatever the
reason, I started for home.
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She does not like to be carried,
so I thought, if I walk she's
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going to keep pace with me.
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But she didn't. She
just stayed back there.
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So I did the only
thing I knew how to do.
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I went back, I picked her up,
and I carried her close against
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my chest, close to my heart.
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Across the field we went;
a dirty scratched up woman,
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and a little kitty cat,
both content and at peace.
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And as I walked, my mind
traveled to the many times
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my Father, the
Shepherd, has looked for me,
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to the miles He's
walked in my pursuit,
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to the brambles and the
thickets that He has braved
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trying to find me.
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Sometimes I
think I purposely hid.
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I heard His voice calling, yet
I was afraid, afraid of a holy
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God seeing my
sin polluted heart.
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Other times I just got turned
around and lost, and I couldn't
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seem to find my way back home.
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Still other times I was so worn
out with the fight that I didn't
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think I could take another step.
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Those were the times He
reached down, He picked me up,
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and He carried me close to His
chest, close against His heart.
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Every time I think of that story
that happened with my kitty cat,
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Pebbles, I'm reminded
of a verse in Ezekiel.
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If you have your
Bibles, turn there with me.
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If not, just jot
down the reference.
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And Ezekiel's talking to
the people, and then God says,
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Repent and turn away
from what you've done.
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Turn away from your sin.
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And then He says in verse
31, For why should you die,
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O house of Israel?
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God's coming to
you, He's coming to me.
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He says, I
don't want you to die.
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I don't want you to perish,
lost in the brambles and the
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thickets, a long ways from home.
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I want to go and find
you, and to bring you home.
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We have a self-evaluation
for this program.
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And when we do this
self-evaluation, I want to
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remind you to be honest.
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Don't feel like you have
to say what I want to hear,
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or what your spouse wants
to hear, or what even your
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pastor wants to hear.
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Just be honest.
Where are you right now?
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Do you know that
Jesus has forgiven you?
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How would you
rate your forgiveness?
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your peace with Jesus?
your assurance of salvation?
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We have four different options,
and just pick the one you feel
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most accurately reflects
where you are right now.
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I know that has
been my experience.
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I know there have been
times when I know I messed up,
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and I know I do something
wrong, and I don't even want to
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come back to God, because I
already asked for forgiveness
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for the same thing again.
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And I say, I'm
just too bad, God.
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I'm not even sure
that You can forgive me.
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Maybe that's where you are.
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Let's look at number 3.
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And the last one.
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No matter where you
feel you are right now today,
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that really doesn't
matter, come to God.
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We're going to discuss today
how we can know with assurance
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that the Lord Jesus forgives us.
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What are the barriers
to keeping us forgiven?
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What are the keys to
experiencing and finding that
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forgiveness ourself?
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1. I think there's four steps.
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1. Pray about it and ask
God to show you what it is.
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It might be a
twenty year mistake.
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What I mean by that, you might
have done something when you
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were 18 years old,
and you've regretted
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it the rest of your life.
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Maybe you're 38 and you say,
I can't forget something I did
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20 years ago when I was 18.
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Maybe you're 58, maybe you're
88 and you say, I've lived with
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the knowledge of
this sin for 60 years.
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I cannot put it
away. Maybe that's it.
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Maybe it's a habit, and you say,
Jill I have this certain habit,
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and I ask for forgiveness,
and I know God does forgive me,
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but the next day I'm
going to go right back to it.
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How can God forgive me again?
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How can He do that?
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Maybe you have, you don't
know what it is specifically,
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but you feel like you're
under a cloud of condemnation,
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and you just feel like
God cannot forgive you.
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Whatever it is, ask God.
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Pray and ask God to
identify what it is.
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That's 1. Write it down.
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Pray and ask God to identify.
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2. Pray over it and confess
it to the Lord Jesus Christ.
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When we do that
we want to be honest.
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God already knows all about
our heart, and He knows what's
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going on inside
anyway, so be specific.
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I think sometimes we
come to God, maybe at night,
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and we're in a hurry, Forgive
me for all my sins today,
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in Jesus' name, Amen.
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Be specific. God, you
know I gossip to my best friend
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about the minister.
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I shouldn't have
done that. I'm sorry.
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You know I just went out
and slept with my neighbor?
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I shouldn't have
done that. I'm sorry.
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You know I'm just
falling back into those drugs,
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and I thought I
had victory over that.
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God, I want to be clean again.
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I want to be
forgiven. I'm sorry.
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Be specific.
Ask for forgiveness.
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3. Walk by faith not by feeling.
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I think this is pivotal
when we discuss forgiveness.
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We can ask God to show me what
it is in my heart, number one.
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We can pray over, and ask for
forgiveness, but just because
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we pray, and just
because we've asked,
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doesn't mean we feel forgiven.
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Have you ever been there before?
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Have you ever asked and
thought, It can't be that easy.
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Surely I need to do
something in order to
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experience that forgiveness.
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Choose to accept what
God's word says about you.
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Choose to
accept His forgiveness.
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There's a quote I love, it
says, When you can't feel God
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with your feelings,
feel Him with your faith.
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We were talking on Monday night
with the girls in jail about
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this concept of forgiveness.
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We were talking about how all
we have to do is come to God.
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We ask, 1 John 1:9.
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If we confess our sins, He is
faithful and just to forgive us,
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and to cleanse us
from all unrighteousness.
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What does it say? We
don't make pilgrimages.
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We don't have to
do anything special.
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We come to God and we ask.
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And so as we were discussing
this on a Monday night at the
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jail, one of the girls
raised her hand and she said,
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You mean it's that easy?
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You mean I can
be forgiven today?
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And I said, Absolutely.
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The moment you
ask, you are forgiven.
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And she said, What
if I killed somebody?
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What if I killed somebody?
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If I commit
murder, does it take longer
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for that sin to be
forgiven? Absolutely not!
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No matter what the sin
is, God says, Come to Me.
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I can forgive instantly.
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Now the issue is we
don't always feel forgiven.
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That is a challenge.
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That has been a challenge
in my own heart and life.
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That promise in 1
John 1:9 we just discussed,
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we can turn it
around to an affirmation.
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Father I thank You for the
faithfulness of Your promise.
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Thank You that You are able
to forgive me, and to cleanse me
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from any stain of sin.
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Right now I confess my sin of
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Fill in the
blank, whatever it is.
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I confess my sin. Thank You
Father for Your forgiveness.
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And the cleansing blood of
Jesus that removes me from any
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spot, any stain of sin.
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I'm standing before You
right now cleansed and forgiven.
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Glory Hallelujah! As
we learn to walk by faith,
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and not by feelings, I think
there's a couple things that
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we can keep in mind that
will help; things that have even
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helped me in my own journey
experiencing forgiveness.
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1. Is to know that feelings
will come. They always do.
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If our feelings follow our
thoughts, and if we choose to
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bring our thoughts into line
with what God's word says about
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us, then our feelings
will eventually follow that.
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You know they say
practice makes perfect.
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I taught music lessons for ten
years, and I'm here to tell you
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practice does not make perfect.
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When I would sit with one of my
piano students, and they would
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work at the piano, if you go
home and you practice a B flat
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instead of a B the whole
week, what's going to happen?
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The next week when you come
to your lesson, you're going to
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play the note wrong.
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Practice doesn't make perfect.
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I think
practice makes permanent.
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Practice makes permanent.
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So if every time, if I make
a mistake, if I do something,
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and I go to God
and I say, I'm sorry.
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Will You forgive me?
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I can choose one of
two thought patterns.
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I can say, He can't forgive me.
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I asked again. Oh,
surely He can't forgive me.
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I'm too bad. Or I can say,
Your word says whether I feel
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forgiven or not,
that I am forgiven.
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I am choosing by faith to accept
what Your word says about me.
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Greg and I went to the zoo.
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And at the zoo they have
all the different animals housed
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in their different area.
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We were at the
section for the big cats;
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you know, the
lions, and the tigers.
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And I like those animals.
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We were at the
leopard cage, and he had a
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pretty nice sized cage.
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But instead of
running around the whole cage,
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do you know what he did?
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He walked up the cage, back the
cage, up the cage, on one side.
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He went up and
down, up and down.
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He wore the grass
down to there was dirt.
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And then he walked up
and down so much that it wore
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a rut in the ground.
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You could see
that's what he did all day.
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He walked up and
down one side of his cage.
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And I think as Christians
we can do the same thing.
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We can form pathways in
our brain like the leopard
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did with the grass.
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We can wear pathways,
those neurons, those synapses,
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they start to connect and fire.
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So if every time I
make a mistake I go to God,
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ask for forgiveness, and then
every time I don't feel forgiven
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I say, No, no Satan, God says
I'm forgiven, I'm choosing to
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bring my mind into line
with what God's word says.
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Every time you do that
it's going to get easier.
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It's going to get easier.
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It's going to make a difference.
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So know that feelings will come.
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Know that practice
makes permanent, so continue.
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Choose to practice to bring
your mind into line with what
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God word says about you.
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Spend time in the word of God.
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Do you want to grow your faith?
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Spend time in the word of God.
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Romans 10:17. I
like this verse. It says:
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Faith comes by hearing,
and hearing by the word of God.
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Do you want to grow your faith?
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Do you say, Jill
I have weak faith.
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I don't have a strong
faith, but I wish I did.
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Then spend time
in the word of God.
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Write out those 3 x 5
cards, promises that we talked
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about the last program.
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Here's two I can think of
off the top of my head that
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would be great to do.
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If we confess our sins, He's
faithful and just to forgive us,
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and cleanse us from
all unrighteousness.
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That's a wonderful promise.
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Anytime Satan
says, You messed up!
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You're not forgiven.
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Whip out your card and
say, The word of God says I'm
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forgiven, Jesus
says I'm forgiven.
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By faith I accept what it says.
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John 6:37, Jesus
says, Whoever comes to Me,
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I will never cast away.
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So first when we're
dealing with forgiveness,
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we identify the sin.
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We go to God and ask Him, Okay,
what is between me and You?
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What is the issue here?
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Then we ask for God's
forgiveness, number 2.
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3. We walk by
faith, not by how we feel;
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not by what our
heart and our feelings say.
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4. Is to be aware of
conviction versus condemnation.
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I was in Massachusetts.
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My mom and dad
live in Massachusetts.
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And I went up to see my family.
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And we were eating out
at a little Tai restaurant.
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It was just a cute little
place tucked into a city block.
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And as we were waiting for
our food, my cell phone rang.
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And I looked down and
I saw it was one of my
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girlfriends from church.
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And I knew she was
struggling, so I took the call.
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And I went outside
and I said, Hi, my sister.
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How are you doing?
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And she said,
I'm struggling, Jill.
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Satan keeps saying, Who are you?
00:21:23.75\00:21:26.98
What type of Christian
wife and mother are you?
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And I instantly was reminded
of what my friend Rhonda always
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says: Conviction
comes from God, condemnation
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comes from the enemy.
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How do we know the difference?
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How do we know if we're
experiencing conviction from the
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Holy Spirit, or if I'm
experiencing condemnation
00:21:47.74\00:21:51.04
that comes from the enemy?
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I think the difference
is really in the spirit
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behind the thought.
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What I mean by that: if the
thought has anything to do with
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my worth as a woman of God,
then I know it's condemnation.
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The Holy Spirit brings
conviction to our hearts.
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Yes, He might say, Jill,
you weren't honest there.
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My daughter's tell the truth.
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Go back and tell the truth.
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That is conviction.
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Now if Satan were bringing the
same thought with condemnation,
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he would say,
You're never honest.
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You've never been honest.
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Why even try? You're a loser.
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Do you see the difference?
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God brings conviction,
Satan brings discouragement.
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God reveals our sin,
yet He has a solution.
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Satan taunts,
torments, and offers no hope.
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Our Savior deals redemptively,
Satan deals destructively.
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The last step... We've
gone through identify the sin,
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write down what it is.
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2. Ask God. Go to Him
and ask for His forgiveness.
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3. Choose to walk by
faith, not by how you feel.
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4. Learn to recognize the
difference between condemnation
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from Satan, and
conviction from the Holy Spirit.
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And 5. Burn or shred your paper.
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If you wrote that
down, get rid of it.
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Now there's nothing inherently
good about getting rid of it,
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it just is a symbolic act.
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It symbolizes that our sins are
cast into the depths of the sea.
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That whatever
we've done is put away.
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I don't know where you are right
now in your walk with Jesus.
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You might say, Jill I
just feel lost in the thickets;
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lost and alone. I
feel miles from God.
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God knows where you are.
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He knows exactly where you are,
and He says, I want to find you.
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I want to brave those
brambles and thickets.
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I want to come
back and bring you home.
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He said, I want to forgive you.
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No matter what you've done,
nothing that you could have done
00:24:07.98\00:24:12.61
in the past, or you could ever
do in the future, would make God
00:24:12.65\00:24:18.82
love you any less,
who would make God say,
00:24:18.85\00:24:22.12
I can't forgive you.
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He can forgive anything.
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We're going to
take a short break.
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When we come back we'll have
some practical applications,
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something you can
do this week at home.
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And then our next program
we're going to discuss how we
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can forgive other people.
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Do you feel trapped?
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We're going to unpackage
how you can forgive others.
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