The following program presents 00:00:01.98\00:00:02.95 principles designed to promote good health 00:00:02.96\00:00:04.77 and is not intended to take the place of 00:00:05.15\00:00:06.79 personalized professional care. 00:00:06.82\00:00:08.59 The opinions and ideas expressed are 00:00:09.29\00:00:11.28 those of the speaker. Viewers are encouraged 00:00:11.31\00:00:13.74 to draw their own conclusions about 00:00:13.77\00:00:15.47 the information presented. 00:00:15.50\00:00:16.85 Hello and welcome to 'Health For A Lifetime.' 00:00:50.65\00:00:52.36 We're glad you're with us today. 00:00:52.39\00:00:53.49 My name is Don Mackintosh and 00:00:53.52\00:00:55.24 today we are gonna be talking about 00:00:55.27\00:00:56.67 things that might seem simple but if 00:00:57.12\00:00:58.90 they are not taken care of, that they 00:00:58.93\00:01:00.94 are not really prioritize and kept 00:01:00.97\00:01:02.94 on the top burner you can really get 00:01:02.97\00:01:04.85 into a lot of problems. Talking with us today 00:01:04.88\00:01:06.92 is Vicki Griffin, you are from the 00:01:07.43\00:01:09.81 Michigan Conference, you're the Health 00:01:09.84\00:01:11.02 Director there and you have a ministry 00:01:11.05\00:01:13.31 called Lifestyle Matters, right, right and 00:01:13.34\00:01:17.47 lifestylematters.com is your webpage. 00:01:17.50\00:01:19.59 Lot of things we talk about here and a lot 00:01:20.03\00:01:21.81 of other resources can be accessed there. 00:01:21.84\00:01:24.95 Today, we're gonna talk about, 00:01:26.36\00:01:27.61 you know, these goals that many 00:01:28.19\00:01:30.49 times we sometimes will neglect, but if 00:01:30.52\00:01:34.63 we want to have a designer lifestyles 00:01:34.66\00:01:36.48 what you are calling it, we have to keep 00:01:36.51\00:01:38.22 these components on the top burner. 00:01:38.38\00:01:40.66 Sometimes as we've done seminars and 00:01:41.07\00:01:43.86 symposiums throughout the country it's easy 00:01:43.89\00:01:48.64 to see that folks are just buried in a 00:01:48.67\00:01:52.04 blizzard of activities and so sometimes 00:01:52.07\00:01:55.27 the very most important goals 00:01:55.30\00:01:57.35 for overall successful living 00:01:57.38\00:01:58.75 just gets swept unto the carpet because 00:01:58.78\00:02:01.15 they are in the quadrant of urgent, 00:02:01.34\00:02:03.82 taking care of the immediate, urgent, 00:02:05.22\00:02:07.03 and the important is neglected. Exactly. 00:02:07.06\00:02:09.13 For the most important. That's right. 00:02:09.16\00:02:10.77 So over this time you have talked to 00:02:10.80\00:02:12.71 hundreds of different groups all over the place. 00:02:12.74\00:02:15.02 You've said look these are the things 00:02:15.05\00:02:16.54 as I listened day and day out these are the 00:02:16.57\00:02:18.57 things that are being neglected. 00:02:18.60\00:02:19.71 If we can keep these priorities, 00:02:19.74\00:02:22.84 these goals as a major focus in our 00:02:22.87\00:02:26.22 life then the other activities become 00:02:26.25\00:02:28.85 easier and we will gain the wisdom and 00:02:28.88\00:02:31.62 knowledge to know what we can leave 00:02:31.65\00:02:32.95 out of our schedules, but the things that 00:02:32.98\00:02:35.05 we are leaving out to a large extent today 00:02:35.08\00:02:38.72 are things that are critical to life, 00:02:39.16\00:02:41.57 well being, and having healthy 00:02:41.60\00:02:43.62 relationships. Well let's look at this list. 00:02:44.23\00:02:46.14 Let's look at the first one in the list. Right. 00:02:46.17\00:02:48.13 The first thing you say kind of the 00:02:48.16\00:02:49.28 foundation principle is to have good 00:02:49.41\00:02:52.49 nutrition, which I think in other 00:02:52.68\00:02:55.25 words bring home the meat and 00:02:55.28\00:02:56.58 potatoes is that what do you mean. 00:02:56.61\00:02:57.76 Well you might want to leave those at the 00:02:58.72\00:03:00.09 store actually, but having good 00:03:00.12\00:03:02.25 nutrition means more than just 00:03:02.28\00:03:03.76 feeding yourself, 30% of Americans 00:03:03.79\00:03:05.85 are eating atleast one meal a day in their 00:03:05.88\00:03:08.69 cars and it's not the best quality food. 00:03:08.72\00:03:11.40 People are in a hurry. They don't think 00:03:11.43\00:03:13.01 about what they are eating and this has 00:03:13.04\00:03:15.03 very profound effects on mental 00:03:15.06\00:03:16.91 function, stress, cognitive functioning. 00:03:16.94\00:03:20.09 Just the ability to process and meet 00:03:20.79\00:03:22.56 challenges it has an effect on mood 00:03:22.59\00:03:24.34 and memory and so. The very foundation 00:03:24.37\00:03:27.74 elements of person that are so important, 00:03:27.77\00:03:31.35 the resiliency and the mental energy that is 00:03:31.38\00:03:35.30 required for the challenges of life 00:03:35.33\00:03:37.34 begins to deteriorate 00:03:37.37\00:03:38.68 because of food, because they don't get 00:03:38.86\00:03:39.83 good food, because of poor nutrition 00:03:39.84\00:03:40.94 and so making nutrition choices 00:03:40.97\00:03:43.22 a priority in life frequenting the 00:03:43.54\00:03:45.93 produce department, finding fast food 00:03:45.96\00:03:48.60 choices that are healthful which is 00:03:48.63\00:03:50.18 very possible now, you can go to the 00:03:50.21\00:03:52.38 grocery store and buy hummus, 00:03:52.41\00:03:54.02 you can get fresh salads all made up 00:03:54.19\00:03:56.48 with the dressing, and making me hungry. 00:03:56.51\00:03:59.01 You can buy all kinds of good fresh 00:03:59.04\00:04:01.01 fruits and vegetables readymade as fruit 00:04:01.04\00:04:03.69 salads and wholesome crackers and breads 00:04:03.72\00:04:05.95 those are the kinds of foods, healthy 00:04:06.28\00:04:07.78 nuts these are the kinds of food that 00:04:07.81\00:04:09.88 are going to help to create a foundation 00:04:09.91\00:04:12.76 for success in whatever 00:04:12.79\00:04:14.22 else you do in life. I bet you're gonna 00:04:14.25\00:04:15.22 say breakfast is the most important 00:04:15.23\00:04:16.66 meal of the day. I was just gonna 00:04:16.69\00:04:18.07 say breakfast is the most important 00:04:18.10\00:04:20.13 meal of the day. Even if you have 00:04:20.16\00:04:21.64 the packet which many times I do 00:04:21.67\00:04:23.66 because I'm on the road a lot. 00:04:23.69\00:04:24.99 There are still ways to craft a morning 00:04:25.52\00:04:29.80 meal that is going to give you the energy 00:04:29.83\00:04:32.98 you need during the day to meet the 00:04:33.44\00:04:35.61 challenges that you are going to be faced. 00:04:35.64\00:04:37.97 Well this morning I had a great breakfast 00:04:38.00\00:04:39.32 to meet the challenges today. 00:04:39.35\00:04:40.58 I had strawberries, blueberries, I had 00:04:40.61\00:04:42.93 some pecans, I think it was some 00:04:42.96\00:04:45.06 cranberries and then I had this 00:04:45.09\00:04:46.81 still kind of like. I don't know what 00:04:46.84\00:04:48.86 it was kind of a grainy kind of trout 00:04:48.89\00:04:51.17 and then I had some soy milk and I had 00:04:51.20\00:04:54.06 these other things. You know who 00:04:54.09\00:04:55.15 I was eating with? Who? It was your 00:04:55.18\00:04:58.09 husband and yourself. Excellent. 00:04:58.12\00:04:59.35 That's exactly right. So, you actually 00:04:59.38\00:05:00.46 practice what you preach. Well we actually do 00:05:00.49\00:05:02.80 and we are staying in a hotel right now, 00:05:02.83\00:05:06.11 but we manage to get this very nice 00:05:06.14\00:05:07.65 breakfast from the grocery store and 00:05:07.68\00:05:09.28 that is what has given us the energy 00:05:09.31\00:05:10.86 that we need today. The brightness to 00:05:10.89\00:05:12.85 that's right, carry on with the duties of the day. 00:05:12.88\00:05:15.37 It would have been easier perhaps to 00:05:15.40\00:05:17.52 drive through a fast food and get some 00:05:17.55\00:05:19.36 sought of pre-made sandwich but the 00:05:19.39\00:05:21.64 better choice is going to give us 00:05:21.67\00:05:24.50 one-third, atleast more energy during 00:05:24.90\00:05:26.88 the day and better resources to meet 00:05:26.91\00:05:28.70 challenges. Second thing you have on the list. 00:05:28.73\00:05:31.28 We started with a good meal and its exercise. 00:05:31.37\00:05:34.40 Now this is one of your favorite things. 00:05:34.43\00:05:35.65 You love to exercise, don't you? No. 00:05:35.68\00:05:37.29 You don't, so this is a discipline. I don't, 00:05:38.07\00:05:39.36 but yes, this is one of those things that you 00:05:39.65\00:05:41.03 have to design in. I absolutely exercise 00:05:41.06\00:05:44.46 almost everyday of the week and I even 00:05:44.80\00:05:48.37 have a little palate CD that I take with me. 00:05:48.40\00:05:52.01 What is the palate, it sounds like a food. 00:05:52.04\00:05:53.69 It's not a palate. It's a type of exercise that 00:05:53.72\00:05:56.38 you can do at the floor of your hotel 00:05:56.41\00:05:58.99 room and it's strengthening and it 00:05:59.02\00:06:02.44 tones and just having the 00:06:02.47\00:06:04.87 ability to exercise everyday. 00:06:04.90\00:06:06.61 It just does amazing things metabolically. 00:06:07.89\00:06:10.30 It improves my mood, lowers anxiety, 00:06:10.33\00:06:12.39 and keeps me toned. We do lot of sitting, 00:06:12.42\00:06:14.92 we do lot of traveling, we do a lot of head 00:06:14.95\00:06:16.97 work and having that. You have to exercise. 00:06:17.00\00:06:19.72 I have and I have those little voices, 00:06:20.13\00:06:22.48 you do the punching bang at all, no, 00:06:22.51\00:06:23.86 but I have those little voices that tell me 00:06:24.29\00:06:26.01 I don't have time to get out and exercise, 00:06:26.04\00:06:27.52 but I know that when I get out and get my 00:06:27.55\00:06:30.07 exercise what I do, I do better. 00:06:30.10\00:06:32.82 Do you have a treadmill? I go to the gym and 00:06:33.07\00:06:35.58 I'm on a treadmill there, there is a 00:06:35.61\00:06:37.53 track, I lift weights, yes. While even today, 00:06:37.56\00:06:41.54 you know, just again you exercise today 00:06:41.57\00:06:43.93 atleast two times. Yes. And yesterday 00:06:43.96\00:06:46.08 as well nice walk. Yes and it was short. 00:06:46.11\00:06:48.35 I can hardly keep up with you. 00:06:48.81\00:06:49.90 It was short, but a ten minute; 00:06:49.93\00:06:51.32 a ten minute brisk walk can elevate 00:06:51.35\00:06:53.58 mood for an hour. I thought 00:06:53.61\00:06:54.71 I was in the Olympics. You well. 00:06:54.74\00:06:56.11 You got to walk faster if you're with me. 00:06:56.48\00:06:58.16 Nutrition, exercise then the next thing 00:06:58.43\00:07:01.21 on your list is one of my personal 00:07:01.24\00:07:03.98 favorites rest. Yes, many people look 00:07:04.01\00:07:07.53 at rest are going to bed as a necessary 00:07:07.56\00:07:11.54 evil but in reality getting physical, 00:07:11.57\00:07:14.10 spiritual and mental rest is so very 00:07:14.13\00:07:16.94 important. We were speaking with 00:07:16.97\00:07:18.59 someone at lunch today that literally 00:07:18.62\00:07:20.42 had a six year mental break down because 00:07:20.45\00:07:22.91 of the failure to take physical and mental 00:07:22.94\00:07:25.39 rest and so it's very, very important, 00:07:25.42\00:07:27.82 when people get inadequate sleep not 00:07:27.85\00:07:30.12 only does it affect their immune system 00:07:30.15\00:07:31.96 but their cortisol or stress hormone 00:07:32.25\00:07:34.08 levels the next day are going to be 00:07:34.11\00:07:35.74 higher, they're gonna handle stress more 00:07:35.77\00:07:37.52 poorly, they're gonna be more irritable, 00:07:37.55\00:07:39.01 more hostile. They are not going to 00:07:39.04\00:07:41.77 handle stress as well. The blood sugar will 00:07:41.80\00:07:43.79 not be regulated as well. So there are metabolic 00:07:43.82\00:07:46.57 consequences to missing sleep. 00:07:46.60\00:07:47.99 So how much rest is appropriate, 15, 16 00:07:48.02\00:07:50.96 hours, how much? Well there is, such 00:07:50.99\00:07:53.64 a thing is too much sleep I guess, 00:07:53.67\00:07:55.22 but what would you say? They say the average 00:07:56.35\00:07:57.66 is 8. It's going to vary, I'm a person 00:07:57.69\00:08:00.12 that need 7-8 hours of sleep a night. 00:08:00.15\00:08:02.42 It's gonna vary from individual to 00:08:02.45\00:08:03.71 individual, but the early the lark pattern 00:08:03.74\00:08:06.56 rather than the night owl pattern, early to 00:08:06.73\00:08:08.26 bed pattern is the, the best. 00:08:08.29\00:08:10.05 It is the best because during sleep our 00:08:10.35\00:08:12.49 memory is solidified, so the things that 00:08:12.52\00:08:14.85 you learn during the day are solidified 00:08:14.88\00:08:16.37 during sleep. So you are going to be 00:08:16.40\00:08:18.30 fresher, better, what you learned 00:08:18.72\00:08:20.45 yesterday you will perform better 00:08:20.48\00:08:22.26 tomorrow, if you would had a good 00:08:22.29\00:08:23.43 night's rest. So, all the hours before 00:08:23.46\00:08:26.90 12' o clock are probably the best. 00:08:26.93\00:08:28.43 They are the best, and not only do we 00:08:28.65\00:08:30.82 need physical rest that we need to look 00:08:30.85\00:08:34.81 at it and program it into our lives, 00:08:34.84\00:08:37.09 we need to schedule it into our lives, 00:08:37.12\00:08:38.72 but we also need mental rest, 00:08:39.20\00:08:41.32 we need to switch gears from what we use. 00:08:41.35\00:08:43.14 If you are on the computer all day 00:08:43.17\00:08:44.40 don't turn the computer on when 00:08:44.72\00:08:45.78 you get home at night. If you're doing 00:08:45.81\00:08:48.07 construction all day long, switch gears do 00:08:48.10\00:08:50.34 something different. Get out or go to your 00:08:50.37\00:08:51.82 favorite library or engage in some other 00:08:51.85\00:08:53.88 type of activity, so that you have a 00:08:53.91\00:08:56.71 mental rest from the type of work that 00:08:56.74\00:08:58.58 you, that you do all day. So it's not so much 00:08:58.61\00:09:01.79 to stopping what you are doing. 00:09:01.82\00:09:03.48 It's not so much, you know, stopping 00:09:03.91\00:09:05.81 one thing and shifting to something else. 00:09:05.84\00:09:07.63 That's exactly right, and that's where 00:09:07.99\00:09:09.76 spiritual rest comes in. You know there is 00:09:09.79\00:09:11.49 an old Dutch saying that "a clear 00:09:11.52\00:09:13.07 conscience makes a soft pillow." 00:09:13.10\00:09:14.48 That's a good saying. And it is true because 00:09:14.51\00:09:17.03 we can be so busy in such a blizzard 00:09:17.59\00:09:19.64 of activity that are. We don't take time 00:09:19.67\00:09:22.54 with God, we don't take time for the 00:09:22.57\00:09:24.26 spiritual rest that he has promised. 00:09:24.29\00:09:25.58 He said in Exodus: "My presence will 00:09:25.61\00:09:27.67 go with you, and I will give you rest." 00:09:27.70\00:09:29.90 And so I want to do more than just study 00:09:29.93\00:09:32.56 my Bible and pray, I want to sit in his 00:09:32.59\00:09:34.65 presence. I want to communicate with 00:09:34.68\00:09:36.97 God and have him communicate with 00:09:37.00\00:09:38.41 me and enter into the peace that comes 00:09:38.44\00:09:41.57 with me knowing that you are right 00:09:41.60\00:09:42.78 with Him and right with your follow men. 00:09:42.81\00:09:44.26 So daily devotions, weekly services, 00:09:44.29\00:09:46.89 very, very, or mid week services. 00:09:46.92\00:09:48.50 Yes, having daily time with God is so 00:09:48.53\00:09:51.27 very important for staying focused are 00:09:51.30\00:09:53.92 the most important priorities in our life 00:09:53.95\00:09:55.55 and getting power to pursue the goals that 00:09:55.58\00:09:58.17 He sets for you. Are we ready to move on? Yes. 00:09:58.20\00:10:00.61 Okay next thing is work. Nutrition, exercise, 00:10:00.64\00:10:04.19 rest, and work. I thought work was a bad word. 00:10:04.22\00:10:06.23 A four letter word isn't it? 00:10:06.85\00:10:07.82 Work is not a necessary evil but it is necessary 00:10:07.99\00:10:11.34 to avoid evil. Alright. Ninety percent of 00:10:11.37\00:10:14.24 what we do in this world most people 00:10:14.27\00:10:15.92 are doing what they do not feel like 00:10:15.95\00:10:18.23 doing at any given moment. Most of us would 00:10:18.26\00:10:20.12 probably rather be doing something else 00:10:20.15\00:10:21.82 at any given time. At least that's what 00:10:21.85\00:10:23.34 a lot of people would describe their life 00:10:23.37\00:10:25.38 like, but real work satisfaction does not 00:10:26.31\00:10:28.61 come from a better job necessarily, 00:10:28.64\00:10:30.78 but doing the job better, doing that 00:10:31.07\00:10:32.86 job with a different kind of an attitude. 00:10:32.89\00:10:35.63 Whatever your hand finds to do the Bible 00:10:35.92\00:10:38.99 says, do with all your mind, do with 00:10:39.02\00:10:40.88 all your heart, unless it's wrong. 00:10:40.91\00:10:42.19 That's right. And, so you may get a better 00:10:42.53\00:10:44.77 job and that's a wonderful thing 00:10:44.80\00:10:46.25 but along the way we can turn ordinary 00:10:46.28\00:10:48.20 activities into achievements and 00:10:48.23\00:10:49.80 and when I was at home with my 00:10:50.26\00:10:51.29 children as they were growing up. 00:10:51.32\00:10:52.74 The Lord helped me to adopt that 00:10:53.90\00:10:55.26 philosophy in, whether I was 00:10:55.29\00:10:56.40 cleaning a bathroom or gardening or 00:10:56.43\00:10:57.83 fixing a meal, it all was fraught with 00:10:57.86\00:11:00.08 importance to me and it was, 00:11:00.11\00:11:01.54 it was important and so I didn't have this 00:11:01.57\00:11:03.87 this feeling, poor pitiful me. 00:11:04.58\00:11:05.95 No, I felt that it was important and I will 00:11:05.98\00:11:08.99 never feel any, looking forward 00:11:09.02\00:11:09.99 discovering that bathroom, man 00:11:10.00\00:11:11.99 I was just looking for that is that. 00:11:12.02\00:11:13.09 Well, I can't say that but these disciplines of life. 00:11:13.38\00:11:17.43 The discipline of work, the routine of 00:11:17.87\00:11:19.95 work looking forward to executing 00:11:19.98\00:11:22.92 our responsibilities, even when we don't 00:11:22.95\00:11:24.76 feel like it, is a really good thing? 00:11:24.79\00:11:27.02 It's good for us and it prepares us for 00:11:27.19\00:11:28.78 greater challenges. I mean these are they 00:11:28.81\00:11:30.83 seem so simple, but if we don't have this 00:11:30.86\00:11:32.78 down, you know, then the mundane 00:11:32.81\00:11:36.80 becomes really a mess for us and we 00:11:36.83\00:11:39.23 just lose our focus, we go off track. 00:11:39.26\00:11:41.62 We know people that complain about 00:11:42.08\00:11:43.23 everything they do from they had to 00:11:43.26\00:11:44.99 do this and that at work and then they 00:11:45.02\00:11:46.20 had to go to the store and then they had to 00:11:46.23\00:11:47.61 do laundry, and then they had to talk with 00:11:47.64\00:11:49.42 their kids, and then had to be with their 00:11:49.45\00:11:50.92 husband, and where is the joy? 00:11:50.95\00:11:53.09 Well, the joy is in deciding if this is 00:11:53.22\00:11:55.50 what's in front of me to do then it's the 00:11:55.53\00:11:57.99 most important thing to do in the world 00:11:58.02\00:11:59.64 and nothing else should get my 00:11:59.67\00:12:01.63 attention right now. And it's just a 00:12:01.66\00:12:03.37 wonderful freedom. Well now the next 00:12:03.40\00:12:08.71 thing are we ready to go to it? Yes. 00:12:08.74\00:12:10.17 Our next thing on our graphic is 00:12:10.20\00:12:12.15 relationships, now this is what makes it 00:12:12.58\00:12:15.09 all come together isn't it? 00:12:15.12\00:12:16.09 It is really is the most important thing 00:12:16.59\00:12:18.58 and often times relationship suffer 00:12:18.61\00:12:20.78 the most in the busyness of activity. 00:12:20.81\00:12:22.68 Even in the attempt to provide wonderful 00:12:22.71\00:12:26.05 things for the people we love. 00:12:26.08\00:12:27.27 For instance, poor children can be so 00:12:27.30\00:12:29.42 over scheduled from hockey to violin, 00:12:29.45\00:12:33.08 to swim meets, to glee club, to girl's scouts. 00:12:33.11\00:12:36.65 We can actually lose relationships with 00:12:37.49\00:12:40.57 the ones that we love the most because 00:12:40.60\00:12:42.45 we're all so over scheduled, so taking 00:12:42.48\00:12:45.06 time to form positive relationships is 00:12:45.09\00:12:48.45 really like cultivating a garden what we 00:12:48.48\00:12:50.80 focus on and spent time with, with the 00:12:50.83\00:12:53.35 people that are the most important in 00:12:53.38\00:12:54.74 our lives is going to yield a great harvest. 00:12:54.77\00:12:57.11 So how did you do that? You know you have 00:12:57.14\00:12:58.40 raised two children, how did you keep it all. 00:12:58.43\00:13:00.00 You know you got two kids, you got a 00:13:00.03\00:13:01.57 husband may be he is the third child, 00:13:01.60\00:13:03.63 I don't know. No. You've got all these things. 00:13:03.66\00:13:06.97 How did you balance that? Well we were very, 00:13:07.00\00:13:09.39 we were very limited financially when we 00:13:09.70\00:13:12.47 were raising our children. So we had a garden 00:13:12.50\00:13:14.54 and I just did a lot of things with my 00:13:14.57\00:13:18.78 children, they had music lessons, 00:13:18.81\00:13:20.16 but I tried not to over schedule them, 00:13:20.19\00:13:21.80 I'm not sitting here and claiming that 00:13:21.83\00:13:23.49 I'm any kind of perfect parent but 00:13:23.52\00:13:25.14 I made the decision when I gave my 00:13:25.17\00:13:27.55 heart to God before that I was women's libber. 00:13:27.58\00:13:29.62 I was only interested in my own career, 00:13:29.65\00:13:31.49 but when my children were babies I understood 00:13:31.81\00:13:34.77 that it was a selfish mindset and I gave 00:13:34.80\00:13:37.15 my time to God and the most important 00:13:37.18\00:13:40.19 thing that any of us has is our influence 00:13:40.22\00:13:43.65 and our time and I gave my time and 00:13:43.68\00:13:45.97 my influence to God and so therefore as 00:13:46.00\00:13:49.63 I work with my children, as I cook 00:13:49.66\00:13:51.87 for my family, as I worked in the 00:13:51.90\00:13:53.37 garden, as we did little chores together, 00:13:53.40\00:13:55.81 whatever was that we did, whether it 00:13:55.84\00:13:57.42 was shopping or just talking to them or 00:13:57.45\00:13:59.14 reading stories it became the most 00:13:59.17\00:14:00.89 important thing in my life and I have no 00:14:00.92\00:14:04.02 regrets for the time, it was not time wasted. 00:14:04.05\00:14:07.39 I did not lose mental culture. 00:14:07.42\00:14:09.08 I did not lose my individuality. 00:14:09.11\00:14:11.72 I lost myself in the lives of others for a 00:14:12.02\00:14:14.40 good purpose and it was a wonderful time. 00:14:14.43\00:14:16.95 And you know they tell me that moms 00:14:16.98\00:14:20.34 they learn how to work with their kids, 00:14:20.37\00:14:22.23 keep them all motivated. They have the skills 00:14:22.26\00:14:24.56 of a corporate executive. They actually know 00:14:24.59\00:14:27.50 how to keep things going. You probably have 00:14:27.53\00:14:29.21 found that this is the way you keep the 00:14:29.24\00:14:30.76 problem going. You're just like little 00:14:30.79\00:14:32.16 kids and you give them the projects 00:14:32.19\00:14:33.28 and then it goes on down the road. 00:14:33.31\00:14:34.83 I had a masters degree in public 00:14:34.86\00:14:36.19 administration before I began my 00:14:36.22\00:14:39.55 family and I wanted to go on and be a 00:14:39.58\00:14:41.71 city manager and get into politics and that 00:14:41.74\00:14:43.89 kind of thing and people would ask me 00:14:43.92\00:14:45.70 with the forlorn look, a look of sympathy 00:14:45.73\00:14:47.76 what did you do with your degree 00:14:47.79\00:14:49.05 and I just tell them I manage a very small 00:14:49.08\00:14:51.19 city and it's really interesting after my 00:14:51.22\00:14:55.34 children were raised and left home. 00:14:55.37\00:14:57.76 I was hired into a position, where 00:14:58.11\00:15:00.44 I was a departmental head. 00:15:00.47\00:15:02.38 Right so just going from, and so the Lord 00:15:03.58\00:15:05.15 the Lord prospered me because I felt 00:15:05.18\00:15:09.28 that his priorities were the most 00:15:09.31\00:15:11.09 important thing and so if we can adopt 00:15:11.12\00:15:12.98 that kind of an attitude toward 00:15:13.01\00:15:14.68 developing relationships taking time 00:15:14.71\00:15:16.46 with one another. And I have to say 00:15:16.49\00:15:18.11 sometimes it's the men that really 00:15:18.46\00:15:19.70 fall short on this. They are married to 00:15:19.73\00:15:21.59 their work. They have a substitute 00:15:21.62\00:15:23.85 family. Watch if they are now. 00:15:23.88\00:15:24.85 They have a substitute family at work and 00:15:24.86\00:15:26.64 they have lost a lot of the joy of what it 00:15:26.67\00:15:29.77 really means to be involved. 00:15:29.80\00:15:30.88 At work they are in control, everybody 00:15:30.91\00:15:32.51 does what they say, they come home and 00:15:32.54\00:15:34.09 it's just they have to rely on a different 00:15:34.12\00:15:35.96 level on a more intimate level and so 00:15:35.99\00:15:37.75 I would just challenge the men 00:15:38.15\00:15:39.37 and our viewing audience to 00:15:39.40\00:15:41.36 rediscover the joy of the intimacy that is 00:15:41.39\00:15:45.08 waiting in taking up the challenge of a family. 00:15:45.27\00:15:49.55 Now that all the ladies are buying this 00:15:49.58\00:15:51.64 tape to show to their husbands, 00:15:51.67\00:15:54.29 I know that you're gonna want to join 00:15:55.28\00:15:56.84 us for the rest of the program. 00:15:56.87\00:15:57.85 And we look forward to some 00:15:58.18\00:15:59.25 more goals that can really give us that 00:15:59.28\00:16:01.62 designer lifestyle when we comeback. 00:16:01.65\00:16:03.88 Are you confused about the endless 00:16:05.90\00:16:07.90 stream of new and often contradictory 00:16:07.93\00:16:10.13 health information with companies 00:16:10.16\00:16:12.48 trying to sell new drugs and special 00:16:12.51\00:16:14.51 interest groups paying for studies 00:16:14.54\00:16:16.02 that spin the fact, where can you find a 00:16:16.05\00:16:18.56 common sense approach to health. 00:16:18.59\00:16:20.23 One way is to ask for your free copy of 00:16:20.86\00:16:22.77 Dr. Arnott's 24 realistic ways to 00:16:22.80\00:16:25.47 improve your health. Dr. Timothy Arnott 00:16:25.50\00:16:27.79 in the Lifestyle Center of America 00:16:27.82\00:16:29.56 produced this helpful booklet of 24 short 00:16:29.59\00:16:31.86 practical health tips based on scientific 00:16:32.17\00:16:34.38 research and the Bible that will help 00:16:34.41\00:16:36.52 you live longer, happier and healthier. 00:16:36.55\00:16:38.75 For example, did you know that 00:16:39.35\00:16:40.77 women who drink more water lower the 00:16:40.80\00:16:42.79 risk of heart attack or the 7 to 8 hours of 00:16:42.82\00:16:45.65 sleep a night can minimize your risk 00:16:45.68\00:16:47.34 of ever developing diabetes. 00:16:47.37\00:16:49.06 Find out how to lower your blood 00:16:49.63\00:16:50.94 pressure and much more if you're 00:16:50.97\00:16:52.76 looking for help not hike, then this 00:16:52.79\00:16:54.42 booklet is for you. Just log on to 00:16:54.45\00:16:56.46 3abn.org and click on free offers or call 00:16:56.49\00:16:59.76 us during regular business hours, 00:16:59.79\00:17:01.58 you'll be glad you did. 00:17:01.73\00:17:03.01 Welcome back we are talking with Vicki Griffin. 00:17:05.35\00:17:07.32 We are talking about how to have a 00:17:07.35\00:17:08.38 designer lifestyle. I know that sounds 00:17:08.41\00:17:10.31 exotic. If you miss the first half of our 00:17:10.34\00:17:12.94 program, you can get this information. 00:17:12.97\00:17:15.60 Vicki written a book about this. 00:17:15.63\00:17:17.12 What's name of that book. 00:17:17.15\00:17:18.12 It's called living free, finding freedom 00:17:18.13\00:17:20.02 from habits that hurt. Alright living free, 00:17:20.05\00:17:22.75 finding freedom from habits that hurt 00:17:22.78\00:17:24.67 and having a designer lifestyle. 00:17:25.07\00:17:26.57 I mean these are simple things but 00:17:26.60\00:17:27.95 they are very powerful concepts and you 00:17:27.98\00:17:30.30 were just sharing with me before the break. 00:17:30.33\00:17:31.48 How your relationships with your family 00:17:32.39\00:17:34.19 really equipped you for the next part of 00:17:34.22\00:17:36.53 the life, where you are now working 00:17:36.56\00:17:38.44 with hundreds of people around the country. 00:17:38.47\00:17:40.46 That's right. And just because you put 00:17:40.74\00:17:42.31 these little simple things into practice 00:17:42.34\00:17:44.93 not knowingly maybe but as you 00:17:44.96\00:17:46.64 look back and you know seeing the 00:17:46.67\00:17:48.89 Lords blessing. Let's just review them 00:17:48.92\00:17:50.52 and then we will go forward. 00:17:51.13\00:17:52.65 Let's look at our graphic and we'll 00:17:52.78\00:17:54.11 review what we were been for those, 00:17:54.14\00:17:55.65 who just joining us, we've noticed and 00:17:55.68\00:17:57.62 the first thing was to lay a foundation with 00:17:57.65\00:18:00.12 nutrition and then exercise, rest, work, 00:18:00.98\00:18:04.50 and then relationships. But, our new thing to 00:18:04.53\00:18:07.95 consider is mental fitness. 00:18:07.98\00:18:10.77 That's right and this is an area that 00:18:12.12\00:18:15.01 believe it or not is really slipping in our 00:18:15.04\00:18:18.18 country and really worldwide as we 00:18:18.21\00:18:20.30 become plugged into the ipods and the 00:18:20.33\00:18:24.05 video games and internet and all of 00:18:24.08\00:18:26.34 the television, young kids are watching 00:18:26.37\00:18:28.70 about 28 hours of television a week 00:18:28.73\00:18:30.72 and it's causing some real changes in the 00:18:30.75\00:18:34.05 brain and in the same way 00:18:34.08\00:18:35.57 that physical fitness requires 00:18:36.20\00:18:38.09 determination and perseverance and 00:18:38.12\00:18:40.52 practice, so do the mental fitness, 00:18:40.55\00:18:42.34 it's a decision and choosing to engage 00:18:42.37\00:18:46.19 in activities that are going to challenge us 00:18:46.22\00:18:49.25 mentally whether it's reading a book 00:18:49.28\00:18:50.94 whether its' trying a new positive 00:18:50.97\00:18:52.55 behavior that you know is going to 00:18:52.58\00:18:54.59 be better, whether it's learning how to 00:18:54.62\00:18:57.06 adapt and meet new challenges which all 00:18:57.09\00:18:59.55 the other things we've talked about 00:18:59.58\00:19:00.90 will help a person to learn to do, to meet 00:19:01.20\00:19:04.29 obstacles better, developing mental 00:19:04.32\00:19:07.26 fitness is a decision that we have to make 00:19:07.29\00:19:09.32 in our life. So how does mental fitness work? 00:19:09.35\00:19:12.02 It means that we are going to choose 00:19:12.07\00:19:13.73 things to read that are uplifting, 00:19:14.12\00:19:16.21 edifying and mentally challenging. 00:19:16.38\00:19:18.32 You told me like a book on physics 00:19:18.35\00:19:20.00 that's what you wanted me to read next. 00:19:20.03\00:19:21.06 Well I was just saying in another 00:19:21.24\00:19:22.96 conversation that we had there is a new 00:19:22.99\00:19:25.95 book out on understanding the 00:19:25.98\00:19:28.06 basic principles of physics. 00:19:28.09\00:19:29.45 Physics is something that I don't understand 00:19:29.48\00:19:31.48 and I would like to get an understanding, a basic 00:19:32.03\00:19:34.06 understanding of some concepts in 00:19:34.09\00:19:35.49 physics and so this is something I want to 00:19:35.52\00:19:36.97 do on my vacation. On your vacation 00:19:37.00\00:19:39.05 with physics book. Well, like earlier you 00:19:39.08\00:19:41.45 were saying you want to visit the 00:19:41.48\00:19:43.30 library of your choice. I mean a lots of 00:19:43.33\00:19:47.29 people out there can identify that, 00:19:47.32\00:19:48.65 even I can identify that, but you know 00:19:48.68\00:19:50.28 may be, you know, you have to find 00:19:50.73\00:19:52.95 mental fitness for you maybe it's taking 00:19:52.98\00:19:55.05 a part of tractor and then actually putting 00:19:55.08\00:19:57.24 it back together or Let me give you an example, 00:19:57.27\00:19:58.95 mental fitness. oh that is such a 00:19:58.98\00:20:00.25 wonderful example. You know little kids 00:20:00.28\00:20:02.36 having helping them to instead of playing 00:20:02.39\00:20:04.40 with game boys get them in a vector set. 00:20:04.43\00:20:06.36 You know building things with that, 00:20:06.39\00:20:08.20 it used to be on Sundays or on 00:20:08.23\00:20:10.96 weekends dad would go out and open the 00:20:10.99\00:20:13.27 hood of the car and just tinker under the 00:20:13.30\00:20:15.07 hood of the car. These are all things 00:20:15.10\00:20:16.67 not only foster a good relationship 00:20:16.70\00:20:19.45 emotionally, but just help to meet 00:20:19.48\00:20:22.45 challenges, to learn how to solve 00:20:22.48\00:20:23.91 problems, to learn how to persevere. 00:20:23.94\00:20:25.46 Getting out and organizing the 00:20:25.82\00:20:27.93 garage, cleaning it out or just doing all 00:20:27.96\00:20:30.77 kinds of things like this. These are things that 00:20:30.80\00:20:32.85 are mentally challenging rather than sitting in 00:20:32.88\00:20:34.73 front of a television or rather than just 00:20:34.76\00:20:36.45 being entertained. There are very 00:20:36.48\00:20:38.98 significant changes that take place in the 00:20:39.01\00:20:40.68 brain as a matter of fact just 14 minutes 00:20:40.71\00:20:42.66 of negative news elevates the levels of 00:20:42.69\00:20:45.11 three different stress hormones and the 00:20:45.14\00:20:47.54 people that watch a lot of television are 00:20:47.57\00:20:49.25 more prone to catastrophizing four 00:20:49.28\00:20:51.60 hours a day television exposure leads to 00:20:51.63\00:20:54.37 increase risk for dementia and causes 00:20:54.40\00:20:56.88 significant increase in tension and 00:20:56.91\00:20:58.87 depression and so, except for 3ABN, 00:20:58.90\00:21:02.05 oh yes I'm sorry except for 3ABN, 00:21:02.08\00:21:04.54 but we need to remember even with 00:21:04.57\00:21:07.00 inspiring television. We've got to get out 00:21:07.03\00:21:09.26 and do the things that we are learning 00:21:09.29\00:21:10.52 about, we've got to interact with other 00:21:10.55\00:21:12.12 people, we've got to give those Bible 00:21:12.15\00:21:13.57 studies, we've got to do the reading for 00:21:13.60\00:21:15.11 ourselves and so that is different. 00:21:15.14\00:21:18.69 Watching television is a passive activity, 00:21:19.07\00:21:20.83 listening to lecture is a passive activity, 00:21:21.07\00:21:23.44 when you adopt it as your own, when you 00:21:23.79\00:21:25.85 study at, when you look at yourself, 00:21:25.88\00:21:27.74 learn about it then you are ready to 00:21:28.12\00:21:30.60 teach and it actually becomes a part of you. 00:21:30.63\00:21:32.57 I hope you are making a list, 00:21:33.30\00:21:34.47 maybe you're doing, running in place at 00:21:34.50\00:21:36.39 home, doing something to keep 00:21:36.42\00:21:37.82 yourself active because just 00:21:37.85\00:21:39.42 watching this is not enough. 00:21:39.45\00:21:40.93 So get all those pens and those papers and 00:21:41.31\00:21:42.82 write down this list. Hey by the way 00:21:42.85\00:21:45.11 Vicki has done a lot of work in this area 00:21:45.72\00:21:47.54 and she you know has written a book about this. 00:21:47.57\00:21:50.74 There is a website you can go to as well 00:21:51.00\00:21:52.77 and it's called lifestylematters.com 00:21:53.26\00:21:56.15 and when you go there is all the kinds 00:21:56.61\00:21:58.05 of resources that can help you in many 00:21:58.08\00:21:59.92 different areas of life and this is, 00:21:59.95\00:22:02.59 you know, one of these new books that 00:22:02.90\00:22:04.05 your teams were working, they are 00:22:04.08\00:22:05.69 putting out excellent material. 00:22:05.72\00:22:06.70 I mean they got nice art work. 00:22:06.73\00:22:08.06 I mean you know you just like to look at it. 00:22:08.82\00:22:10.30 We are very grateful and we put 00:22:10.45\00:22:12.08 those positive images there because we 00:22:12.11\00:22:13.86 know that as people look through that 00:22:13.89\00:22:15.65 book they can actually do some 00:22:15.68\00:22:17.46 modeling and patterning just after 00:22:17.49\00:22:18.92 the images that they are gonna see in the book, 00:22:18.95\00:22:21.09 but this is one thing I wanted the folks to 00:22:21.31\00:22:23.31 understand about the process of 00:22:23.34\00:22:25.47 developing mental agility. Developing mental 00:22:25.50\00:22:28.18 agility is about more than just learning 00:22:28.21\00:22:30.21 facts and figures. In other words, when 00:22:30.24\00:22:32.51 you force your brain to switch gears learn 00:22:32.54\00:22:35.00 new things, our brains want some 00:22:35.03\00:22:37.94 novelty, so learning new things is a 00:22:37.97\00:22:40.47 wonderful way to experience the thrill 00:22:40.50\00:22:42.25 of novel situations, novel experiences, 00:22:42.28\00:22:44.82 learning to ride horses or ride bikes so. 00:22:44.85\00:22:46.73 New language go to different 00:22:46.76\00:22:47.89 country take a trip. All of those kinds of 00:22:47.92\00:22:49.99 things it actually increases mental 00:22:50.02\00:22:53.27 agility in other areas. So, the brain becomes 00:22:53.30\00:22:56.50 more adapt at switching gears, 00:22:57.53\00:22:59.34 so when you face with challenges you 00:22:59.37\00:23:01.47 just have the mental balance, exactly you 00:23:01.50\00:23:05.87 have more ability more neuronal 00:23:05.90\00:23:08.32 connections to be able to meet the 00:23:08.35\00:23:10.89 tough challenges that come in life. 00:23:10.92\00:23:12.60 Now you know your kids probably were 00:23:12.63\00:23:15.15 very mentally challenged by you. 00:23:15.18\00:23:16.81 You didn't let them a break, did you? 00:23:16.84\00:23:18.30 Well I think I was a little on the drill side 00:23:19.45\00:23:21.95 to tell you the truth, but 00:23:21.98\00:23:22.95 they equip me that. You'll like this 00:23:23.35\00:23:24.77 typical Italian mother, who was 00:23:25.23\00:23:26.83 saying you're gonna do what you're 00:23:26.86\00:23:28.02 gonna do the best, you're gonna do it today. 00:23:28.05\00:23:29.78 I just, yeah we did all kinds of things. 00:23:29.81\00:23:34.37 We were busy in the garden and I had 00:23:34.40\00:23:36.94 a friend correct me one time and this 00:23:36.97\00:23:38.52 was an important correction. 00:23:38.55\00:23:39.85 We were to go on a trail, a height 00:23:39.88\00:23:41.75 together and I was getting binoculars 00:23:41.78\00:23:44.67 and notebooks and we were gonna 00:23:44.70\00:23:46.01 check boards out and then we brought our 00:23:46.04\00:23:47.63 field guides and my friend look at me she 00:23:47.66\00:23:50.49 said, hey why don't we just, take a walk, 00:23:50.52\00:23:53.12 take a walk. You know and just enjoy 00:23:53.15\00:23:55.37 what's here now right around us and 00:23:55.40\00:23:57.42 I took that as a wonderful correction 00:23:57.45\00:23:59.92 from my friend, because it is possible 00:23:59.95\00:24:01.75 to over structure and we do need time for 00:24:01.78\00:24:05.54 relaxation and just doing nothing for a change. 00:24:05.57\00:24:08.23 Okay, kids will go to Wal-Mart, they are 00:24:08.85\00:24:10.76 gonna chart the market trends and all 00:24:10.79\00:24:12.13 the report, right you wanna just kind 00:24:12.16\00:24:13.98 maybe relax little bit sometimes 00:24:14.68\00:24:16.04 but that's the rest part. 00:24:16.07\00:24:17.71 That is part of the rest. I mean all those 00:24:17.74\00:24:18.83 things are kind of. Yes. You know you 00:24:18.86\00:24:21.21 can over do any of these and I'm glad 00:24:21.24\00:24:22.69 you brought that up because part of rest 00:24:22.72\00:24:24.45 that we discuss in our book is learning 00:24:24.48\00:24:26.29 to relax and enjoy versus being 00:24:26.32\00:24:28.89 entertained that is not relaxation, 00:24:29.09\00:24:31.73 but true relaxation really does refresh. 00:24:32.54\00:24:34.88 In our last three minutes here we 00:24:34.91\00:24:36.72 want to focus on perhaps one of the 00:24:36.75\00:24:38.12 most important things on your list 00:24:38.15\00:24:39.57 and we review first and then talk about 00:24:39.60\00:24:42.72 this last one and that is a spiritual health. 00:24:42.75\00:24:45.84 Yes spiritual health is at the centre of a 00:24:47.07\00:24:49.03 healthy lifestyle. There is no question 00:24:49.06\00:24:50.69 about it and our connection with God 00:24:50.72\00:24:53.13 and our walk with God and the spiritual 00:24:53.16\00:24:55.93 disciplines that we have in our life 00:24:55.96\00:24:57.52 actually are what give us the power 00:24:57.55\00:25:01.13 and the vision and the wisdom to keep 00:25:01.52\00:25:05.15 those other priorities in there proper place 00:25:05.18\00:25:07.62 because those are Gods priorities. 00:25:07.65\00:25:09.53 The priorities that we have been talking 00:25:09.87\00:25:11.07 about today are God's priorities and 00:25:11.10\00:25:13.60 all of the other things that we do in 00:25:13.63\00:25:14.99 our life are to fit into those priorities, 00:25:15.02\00:25:16.74 but they are not an end in themselves. 00:25:16.87\00:25:18.40 Our relationship with God is what 00:25:18.51\00:25:20.11 defines every other activity in our life. 00:25:20.14\00:25:22.29 And it is pretty interesting here, 00:25:22.54\00:25:23.51 you look at that and you know I always 00:25:23.52\00:25:25.37 when someone says this is God's priorities. 00:25:25.40\00:25:27.24 You know, I have read the Bible from 00:25:27.27\00:25:28.73 time to time and you know the Book of 00:25:28.76\00:25:31.51 Genesis has all these in it. 00:25:31.54\00:25:32.87 It has nutrition number one or in 00:25:32.90\00:25:34.99 that first chapter, it has exercise in 00:25:35.02\00:25:36.77 second chapter, it has rest in second 00:25:36.80\00:25:38.62 chapter, it has work right there in the 00:25:38.65\00:25:40.87 second chapter, it has relationship 00:25:40.90\00:25:42.32 right there in the first chapter, it has 00:25:42.35\00:25:44.29 mental fitness right there in the first 00:25:44.32\00:25:46.45 chapter and spiritual health. 00:25:46.48\00:25:47.46 I mean this is like Genesis one. 00:25:47.49\00:25:48.76 So it's also like Daniel one. 00:25:49.10\00:25:50.17 Yes and as we look at a comparison 00:25:50.42\00:25:51.78 with the end of time you see that the Lord 00:25:51.81\00:25:55.40 said after the sin came the Lord went 00:25:55.43\00:25:58.49 to Adam and he said by the sweat of your 00:25:58.52\00:25:59.95 brow you will eat so He linked exercise, 00:25:59.98\00:26:02.53 work and nutrition as part of the saving 00:26:02.56\00:26:05.88 health components. For redeeming mankind, 00:26:05.91\00:26:08.78 for redeeming the man from the pit of 00:26:08.81\00:26:10.32 self destruction and you go to the end of 00:26:10.35\00:26:12.35 time you look at Ezekiel 16: it says 00:26:12.38\00:26:14.32 what is the sin of Sodom it was 00:26:14.35\00:26:15.52 fullness of bread and idleness. 00:26:15.55\00:26:16.79 So the very things that we neglect and 00:26:16.82\00:26:19.24 don't take care of his priorities in our life 00:26:19.27\00:26:21.04 are the very things that God gave us that 00:26:21.37\00:26:23.57 he said were so vital and important to our 00:26:23.60\00:26:26.01 walk with him. So you have a little 00:26:26.04\00:26:28.16 routine every morning, you're reading a 00:26:28.19\00:26:29.33 devotional book. You study your 00:26:29.36\00:26:30.49 sample school lesson what you'll do? 00:26:30.52\00:26:31.85 Yes I have, I get up and I have 00:26:31.88\00:26:33.94 my prayer time in the morning, 00:26:33.97\00:26:35.03 I go to the gym with my husband several 00:26:35.06\00:26:36.52 times a week and in the morning I will 00:26:36.55\00:26:38.69 have my devotions and prayer time, 00:26:38.72\00:26:40.34 but in the evening is when I like to put 00:26:40.37\00:26:42.20 everything away and really have my sit 00:26:42.23\00:26:44.75 down study time. I just really enjoy it. 00:26:44.78\00:26:46.72 In the evening. Yes, I do both, but my 00:26:46.75\00:26:49.03 heavier time is actually in the early 00:26:49.06\00:26:50.72 evening not before it gets too late then 00:26:50.75\00:26:52.55 and I'm really tired, but that's the little 00:26:52.58\00:26:54.82 space of time I've curved out. 00:26:54.85\00:26:56.25 You'll do scripture memory. I do several things. 00:26:56.89\00:26:59.24 I have memorization, I do what I call deep 00:26:59.27\00:27:02.39 bible study, but then I also do devotional 00:27:02.42\00:27:04.43 work because I don't want to just learn truth. 00:27:04.46\00:27:06.78 I want the truth to be engrafted in my own 00:27:06.99\00:27:10.24 heart so I look for my personal 00:27:10.27\00:27:11.70 instruction that I know that I need 00:27:11.73\00:27:13.45 in my life. So what's the text you are 00:27:13.48\00:27:15.14 memorizing this week. What is the text that 00:27:15.17\00:27:16.87 I memorizing, well this week I have 00:27:16.90\00:27:18.75 been reviewing second Timothy 3 00:27:18.78\00:27:20.64 in light of the events that are going on in 00:27:22.15\00:27:24.59 the world, this know also that in the last 00:27:24.62\00:27:26.51 days perilous time shall come for men 00:27:26.54\00:27:29.06 shall be lovers of their own selves, 00:27:29.09\00:27:30.54 covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, 00:27:30.57\00:27:32.85 disobedient to parents, unthankful, 00:27:32.88\00:27:34.42 unholy etcetera, etcetera. Okay you pass the 00:27:34.45\00:27:36.56 test, well the important thing 00:27:36.59\00:27:38.14 about that scripture is it creates the 00:27:38.17\00:27:39.62 picture of a highly hedonic self posses, 00:27:39.65\00:27:44.04 self absorb busy society as we need to 00:27:44.07\00:27:47.16 break away from that in that God priorities 00:27:47.19\00:27:49.11 to be our own. Vicki Griffin practices 00:27:49.14\00:27:51.59 what she preaches, she has put the 00:27:51.62\00:27:52.92 designer lifestyle to work in her life you 00:27:53.27\00:27:55.27 can too and if you do you have health and 00:27:55.30\00:27:58.35 prosperity that last for a lifetime. 00:27:58.38\00:28:00.68