Hello and welcome to Health for a Lifetime. 00:00:45.72\00:00:48.01 I'm your host Don Mackintosh. 00:00:48.04\00:00:49.26 We're glad you're with us today. 00:00:49.29\00:00:50.66 And I'm also delighted to have Dr. Zeno Charles-Marcel with us. 00:00:50.69\00:00:54.46 He is the medical director of the Lifestyle Center of America. 00:00:54.49\00:00:58.82 Now that's a mouthful. 00:00:58.85\00:01:01.08 Yes! 00:01:01.11\00:01:02.32 And yet it's a good mouthful! 00:01:02.36\00:01:04.17 Lifestyle Center of America is located in Oklahoma 00:01:04.20\00:01:08.56 midway between Oklahoma City and Dallas. 00:01:08.60\00:01:11.41 It's a great, easy place to get to. 00:01:11.44\00:01:13.67 There's a lot of good things that happen there. 00:01:13.71\00:01:15.98 If you're interested in getting in touch with the 00:01:16.01\00:01:18.21 Lifestyle Center of America the best place to contact would 00:01:18.25\00:01:21.94 be their webpage www. lifestylecenter. org 00:01:21.98\00:01:28.80 all one word: lifestylecenter. org 00:01:28.84\00:01:31.38 Or you could call us here at 3ABN and we'll give you some 00:01:31.42\00:01:34.31 contact phone numbers. 00:01:34.35\00:01:35.40 Today Dr. Zeno, we're going to talk about what you like to call 00:01:35.43\00:01:41.18 Total Health or The Health Iceberg. 00:01:41.22\00:01:44.03 And we hope that iceberg heats up. 00:01:44.06\00:01:46.80 But really an iceberg you can just see the top of it but 00:01:46.84\00:01:49.73 underneath there's a whole bunch of other things. 00:01:49.77\00:01:51.17 Maybe that's why you call it that. 00:01:51.20\00:01:52.61 Yes, that's correct. 00:01:52.65\00:01:54.45 Is total health like that, that what you see is not necessarily 00:01:54.49\00:01:57.23 what you get? 00:01:57.27\00:01:58.24 That's what it is. 00:01:58.25\00:01:59.22 A lot of times people are very interested in what the top might 00:01:59.23\00:02:02.51 look like - their health status. 00:02:02.54\00:02:04.60 And really the health status is nothing more than what we see 00:02:04.63\00:02:08.04 or what the person might experience. 00:02:08.08\00:02:09.60 And if he were to go to the doctor, the doctor would usually 00:02:09.63\00:02:13.59 tell you what your health status is like. 00:02:13.63\00:02:15.74 It's like a snapshot of how things are going. 00:02:15.78\00:02:17.86 That's just the top. 00:02:17.89\00:02:19.32 I mean, could you have someone that's very thin 00:02:19.35\00:02:21.35 that's very unhealthy? 00:02:21.38\00:02:22.40 Yes, you can. 00:02:22.44\00:02:23.82 People think that if you're slender that this is an 00:02:23.85\00:02:28.06 indicator of health and sometimes it is 00:02:28.10\00:02:30.86 but sometimes it's not. 00:02:30.89\00:02:32.00 People with cancer, for instance, can loose a lot 00:02:32.03\00:02:34.52 of weight and become very slender. 00:02:34.55\00:02:36.38 They might say, "Oh, finally I'm loosing weight. " 00:02:36.41\00:02:38.52 But is that the way you really want to loose weight 00:02:38.56\00:02:40.63 if you have cancer? 00:02:40.67\00:02:41.64 Can someone who's very overweight, 00:02:41.65\00:02:46.55 could they be healthy? 00:02:46.59\00:02:47.56 They could be moderately healthy. 00:02:47.57\00:02:50.14 But we believe that for someone to have total health that really 00:02:50.17\00:02:54.46 in the physical realm that they ought to have a weight that is 00:02:54.50\00:02:58.75 within what we would call normal and optimal for them. 00:02:58.79\00:03:03.50 And usually that is not overweight. 00:03:03.53\00:03:05.28 Now we want to look at what is sort of like a pyramid here 00:03:05.32\00:03:07.09 about total health, right? 00:03:07.13\00:03:09.08 Yes. 00:03:09.12\00:03:10.09 So is someone was drawing a picture at home, they would draw 00:03:10.10\00:03:11.89 a pyramid using these different words that we're going to use. 00:03:11.93\00:03:13.93 Is that right? 00:03:13.97\00:03:14.94 That's correct. 00:03:14.96\00:03:15.93 Which way do we want to work from the base or 00:03:15.94\00:03:18.41 from the top down? 00:03:18.44\00:03:19.41 Well, I think it's easier to start at the top and go down. 00:03:19.44\00:03:21.75 All right, let's start at the top. 00:03:21.78\00:03:23.11 What's the tip of the iceberg? 00:03:23.15\00:03:24.25 The tip of the iceberg is their health status. 00:03:24.29\00:03:26.27 When someone goes to the doctor and they want to find out how 00:03:26.31\00:03:30.32 their doing the doctor will usually ask them some questions, 00:03:30.35\00:03:33.07 get a history, do a physical exam, do some laboratory tests, 00:03:33.11\00:03:36.64 and then make a pronouncement. 00:03:36.67\00:03:38.11 As some people like to say, "A clean bill of health," right? 00:03:38.15\00:03:40.66 So the person gets a clean bill of health. 00:03:40.70\00:03:42.71 But have you ever heard of someone getting a 00:03:42.75\00:03:44.69 clean bill of health only to have a few days or a few weeks 00:03:44.73\00:03:48.56 later that the person has a serious problem like cancer was 00:03:48.59\00:03:52.39 diagnosed or a heart attack or they even drop dead? 00:03:52.42\00:03:55.06 Have you heard of that happening? 00:03:55.10\00:03:56.52 Oh, yes. 00:03:56.55\00:03:57.52 And then I've heard of others going to the doctor trying to 00:03:57.53\00:04:00.34 act like their healthy when they're not. 00:04:00.38\00:04:01.93 Fool the system. 00:04:01.96\00:04:06.27 The health status, the tip of the iceberg, is like a snapshot. 00:04:06.30\00:04:11.70 Now, what we like to delve into is what kinds of things favor 00:04:11.74\00:04:16.32 the health that the doctor would see or that you would find? 00:04:16.36\00:04:20.75 That's the second level which would be like what, habits? 00:04:20.78\00:04:25.14 Habits, that's precisely it. 00:04:25.18\00:04:26.78 If you can tell what habits people have then you'll be able 00:04:26.81\00:04:30.19 to tell whether or not they're likely to be fit or likely to be 00:04:30.23\00:04:35.01 trim or whether they're likely to be enjoying 00:04:35.04\00:04:38.23 good total health. 00:04:38.27\00:04:40.10 If you look at their physical habits, you look at their eating 00:04:40.13\00:04:43.62 habits, you look at what things they take, what things they 00:04:43.66\00:04:47.17 don't take, you look at their spiritual health, social life, 00:04:47.21\00:04:50.50 you look at all of these things you can more or less have a 00:04:50.54\00:04:53.52 pretty good idea as to whether this person is going to be 00:04:53.55\00:04:56.50 healthy or not. 00:04:56.54\00:04:57.51 So if you open up all their mail coming out of their house 00:04:57.52\00:04:59.57 you could probably tell if they're healthy or not? 00:04:59.61\00:05:01.07 I don't know if that would be enough to tell, but that 00:05:01.10\00:05:04.04 might give us a start. 00:05:04.07\00:05:05.88 And then you see how much they sleep, you watch their habits, 00:05:05.91\00:05:08.94 you watch them for a while. 00:05:08.97\00:05:09.95 Yes. 00:05:09.98\00:05:11.13 So as a doctor you have to get in touch with those types of 00:05:11.16\00:05:13.72 things very rapidly. 00:05:13.75\00:05:15.38 Do you have a way to go about that? 00:05:15.41\00:05:17.68 How do you figure out what people's habits are 00:05:17.71\00:05:19.40 when they come to your office? 00:05:19.43\00:05:20.40 At the Lifestyle Center we have a questionnaire that we have 00:05:20.41\00:05:25.91 patients fill out that's 18 pages long. 00:05:25.94\00:05:29.17 Can you believe that?! 00:05:29.20\00:05:30.17 18 pages? 00:05:30.18\00:05:31.15 18 pages of issues relating to their life. 00:05:31.16\00:05:33.91 The last page of that is actually for the person to 00:05:33.94\00:05:37.91 describe a typical day - what time they get up, 00:05:37.94\00:05:41.10 what they do as they go through the day, 00:05:41.13\00:05:43.25 and then what time they go to bed. 00:05:43.28\00:05:44.63 You would be surprised how much you can learn from something as 00:05:44.66\00:05:47.94 simple as that or as much as 18 pages of information. 00:05:47.97\00:05:51.16 Is that thing worded so that if they try and fudge in one area 00:05:51.19\00:05:53.82 they get caught in another question? 00:05:53.85\00:05:55.10 No, it's not like that. 00:05:55.13\00:05:56.10 But most people who fill it out, actually everybody fills it out, 00:05:56.11\00:05:59.20 they do a pretty thorough job and they get a copy of it 00:05:59.23\00:06:02.92 back if they want it. 00:06:02.95\00:06:04.06 Because for many of them this is the first time that they ever 00:06:04.09\00:06:07.75 sat down and really taken a self-inventory and have it 00:06:07.78\00:06:13.00 explained to them what these things might be in terms of 00:06:13.03\00:06:16.06 their impact on the person. 00:06:16.09\00:06:17.06 Someone has told me that an accurate diagnosis is about 85% 00:06:17.07\00:06:22.73 accurate health history. 00:06:22.76\00:06:24.04 Is that right? 00:06:24.07\00:06:25.04 It depends on what kind we're talking about. 00:06:25.05\00:06:27.47 But by in large that is true. 00:06:27.50\00:06:29.30 For some of the dermatologic illness, for instance, often 00:06:29.33\00:06:33.82 times the history is irrelevant. 00:06:33.85\00:06:35.90 You look at it, you see it, you say this is what it is and 00:06:35.93\00:06:38.24 that's it. 00:06:38.27\00:06:39.24 So, looking at the status first of all and it looks like that 00:06:39.25\00:06:44.36 snapshot but really that's not as good a snapshot 00:06:44.39\00:06:47.22 as looking at the actual habits. 00:06:47.25\00:06:49.42 Where do we go next? 00:06:49.45\00:06:50.79 Well, the next thing is for most people they find that even if 00:06:50.82\00:06:54.75 they know what things they ought to do to keep their health 00:06:54.78\00:06:59.41 optimal, or what things they need to do to gain or regain 00:06:59.44\00:07:04.75 optimal health, often times we have difficulty doing the things 00:07:04.78\00:07:09.29 we know to do, right? 00:07:09.32\00:07:10.97 People say, for instance, "I know I should be doing this 00:07:11.00\00:07:14.53 but... " 00:07:14.56\00:07:15.53 and they go ahead and do the things they shouldn't do. 00:07:15.54\00:07:17.35 That I would like to do that I don't do, I see another 00:07:17.38\00:07:21.10 thing warring against my flesh, that's what Paul says. 00:07:21.13\00:07:23.30 Exactly! 00:07:23.33\00:07:24.30 That's Romans chapter 7. 00:07:24.31\00:07:25.36 I'm glad that it doesn't stop in Romans chapter 7. 00:07:25.39\00:07:27.52 Even though it gives us a little bit of consolation that we're 00:07:27.55\00:07:31.27 not the only ones that went through that. 00:07:31.30\00:07:33.99 A part of what we all need to pay attention to is the fact 00:07:34.02\00:07:38.51 that knowing - just having the information about something is 00:07:38.54\00:07:41.94 often times not enough to get us the change. 00:07:41.97\00:07:45.14 Rather there's something below that's pushing our habits. 00:07:45.17\00:07:49.28 We have our habits formed to a large extent from the 00:07:49.31\00:07:53.47 people around us, from how we grow up, etcetera. 00:07:53.50\00:07:55.77 You see we inherit more than just genes. 00:07:55.80\00:07:59.04 So this would be our culture? 00:07:59.07\00:08:00.94 This is our culture. 00:08:00.97\00:08:01.94 So in other words, if we are Eskimos, for instance, they have 00:08:01.96\00:08:07.10 certain liabilities in their culture about what they eat 00:08:07.13\00:08:09.12 that's going to cause problems in their health. 00:08:09.15\00:08:10.47 That's correct. 00:08:10.50\00:08:11.50 Like what would that be? 00:08:11.53\00:08:12.69 I don't know if you know about Eskimos. 00:08:12.72\00:08:13.69 Yes, I know some about Eskimos. 00:08:13.70\00:08:15.39 First of all Eskimos don't have a lot of fresh fruits and 00:08:15.42\00:08:18.54 vegetables in their diet. 00:08:18.57\00:08:20.37 And therefore they tend to have some of the 00:08:20.40\00:08:22.75 B vitamin deficiencies and so on that is associated with that. 00:08:22.78\00:08:25.92 They tend to, because of the amount of fish that they do have 00:08:25.95\00:08:31.47 in their diet and some of the fats that they have, 00:08:31.50\00:08:35.91 if they get a stroke the kind of stroke tends to be a 00:08:35.94\00:08:38.43 hemorrhagic stroke as opposed to the kinds of strokes we have 00:08:38.46\00:08:41.40 in this country. 00:08:41.43\00:08:42.62 So someone like me, you're looking right at me, you're 00:08:42.65\00:08:44.16 doing a snapshot in your mind, your saying this is a white, 00:08:44.19\00:08:47.13 Anglo Saxon, Protestant it looks like, so called wasp, 00:08:47.16\00:08:50.36 what are my liabilities in my culture? 00:08:50.39\00:08:54.27 It mostly depends on what part of the country you're from 00:08:54.30\00:08:56.47 Ok, I'm from Kansas. 00:08:56.50\00:08:58.82 You got real problems, call the ambulance! - laughter - 00:08:58.85\00:09:03.03 No, what's wrong with me? 00:09:03.06\00:09:07.53 Rather than making it personal for you, I would suggest 00:09:07.56\00:09:13.44 that we start with the inner circle. 00:09:13.47\00:09:15.99 Because people's families tend to have certain things 00:09:16.02\00:09:19.42 that they do. 00:09:19.45\00:09:20.42 It's what is called "normal. " 00:09:20.43\00:09:22.00 See, in your family it might be done this way, in the family 00:09:22.03\00:09:26.66 next door, same kind of activity but they do it differently. 00:09:26.69\00:09:30.62 In one family people may sit down and eat and in another 00:09:30.65\00:09:33.25 family it's catch if you can. 00:09:33.28\00:09:34.76 Those two will have different effects on the individuals 00:09:34.79\00:09:38.27 growing up. 00:09:38.30\00:09:39.27 We sit down and eat - so how am I doing? 00:09:39.28\00:09:40.33 Ok, that's better. 00:09:40.36\00:09:41.52 You are spending time with calm, quiet composure as you eat 00:09:41.55\00:09:46.41 actually is very beneficial to your health. 00:09:46.44\00:09:48.26 Eating on the run tends not to be as good on the digestion. 00:09:48.29\00:09:50.81 So the big point is looking at those health habits. 00:09:50.84\00:09:54.17 What we do around our family table, 00:09:54.20\00:09:57.68 what we are used to doing. 00:09:57.71\00:09:59.09 These things are important. 00:09:59.12\00:10:01.07 Additionally we inherit such things as attitudes. 00:10:01.10\00:10:04.00 In some families the attitude to what's exercised is one that 00:10:04.03\00:10:08.28 is very positive - people like to go outdoors, they bike or 00:10:08.31\00:10:12.97 they run or they hike, things like that. 00:10:13.00\00:10:15.06 In other families, as Mark Twain said, "Every so often he gets 00:10:15.09\00:10:19.49 an overwhelming urge to exercise. " 00:10:19.52\00:10:22.75 You know the rest of the story? 00:10:22.78\00:10:25.21 "But then he quickly lies down until it passes. " - laughter - 00:10:25.24\00:10:27.82 In some families this is the idea. 00:10:27.85\00:10:31.51 Exercise and physical activity is really not emphasized a lot 00:10:31.54\00:10:35.53 and therefore, people growing up in that environment, 00:10:35.56\00:10:38.75 by and large, will tend to pass that on to their children and 00:10:38.78\00:10:44.13 actually have that be a part of their attitude. 00:10:44.16\00:10:46.14 I was in a family the other week where the man said, "You know I 00:10:46.17\00:10:49.47 always feel bad for these joggers. " 00:10:49.50\00:10:51.26 He had just moved to America, he was from a different culture. 00:10:51.29\00:10:54.13 He said, "I always felt bad, here they are running, it seems 00:10:54.16\00:10:56.74 someone is out to get them, they're after them. " 00:10:56.77\00:10:58.23 He was stopping them and offering them a ride to where 00:10:58.26\00:11:01.22 ever they want to go. 00:11:01.25\00:11:02.22 They found out they just didn't want a ride. 00:11:02.23\00:11:04.03 So, from his culture this was really not going to be helpful 00:11:04.06\00:11:07.26 with his exercise program. 00:11:07.29\00:11:08.29 This is not talking about ethnic cultures or this kind of thing. 00:11:08.32\00:11:15.94 It's talking more about the habits of a family or 00:11:15.97\00:11:19.21 people group. 00:11:19.24\00:11:20.28 That's right and it actually involves some of the ethnicity 00:11:20.31\00:11:23.65 and some of the regency. 00:11:23.68\00:11:24.70 We can start with the family, then we can go to the 00:11:24.73\00:11:27.50 neighborhood, and we can go from the neighborhood to the part of 00:11:27.53\00:11:30.65 the town that you live, you can go from the part of town that 00:11:30.68\00:11:33.85 you live to the city, to the part of the country that you 00:11:33.88\00:11:37.18 live, to the country that you live even to the region 00:11:37.21\00:11:39.56 in the world that you live. 00:11:39.60\00:11:40.84 Because all of these things kind of interplay with each 00:11:40.87\00:11:45.43 other for people who live in a particular place to think that 00:11:45.46\00:11:49.13 what they're doing is actually normal. 00:11:49.16\00:11:50.99 True or False - America is a high risk culture? 00:11:51.02\00:11:55.12 Depends on what you are talking about. 00:11:55.15\00:11:57.31 Health wise - yes, because of the so-called 00:11:57.34\00:12:01.08 Western lifestyle. 00:12:01.11\00:12:02.08 But that is changing - fortunately that is changing. 00:12:02.09\00:12:03.96 If you are to look at the American culture from the point 00:12:03.99\00:12:07.91 of view of cleanliness and hygiene, that's much better 00:12:07.94\00:12:11.41 than in some places where that is a major issue. 00:12:11.44\00:12:14.70 If you look at opportunity for exercise and reasonable food, 00:12:14.73\00:12:19.56 etcetera, in the United States we can get just about anything 00:12:19.59\00:12:23.11 to eat that we want. 00:12:23.14\00:12:25.28 The problem is we also have an attitude about food that goes 00:12:25.31\00:12:28.25 beyond eating just for health. 00:12:28.28\00:12:30.52 We have an attitude of eating for pleasure, eating for value. 00:12:30.55\00:12:34.91 You know when people go into a buffet restaurant, they change 00:12:34.94\00:12:40.29 from being ordinary people on the street, right? 00:12:40.32\00:12:42.09 When they walk through those doors they want to put those 00:12:42.80\00:12:44.79 folks out of business. 00:12:44.82\00:12:45.79 They want to get their money's worth. 00:12:45.82\00:12:47.29 I shouldn't say "they" I should say "we" 00:12:47.32\00:12:49.43 because we are all in it. 00:12:49.46\00:12:50.99 And they do get their money's worth. 00:12:51.02\00:12:53.77 You are what you eat. 00:12:53.80\00:12:55.25 Ok, so we're looking at our pyramid here - we got "status," 00:12:55.28\00:12:58.04 that's that snap shot. 00:12:58.07\00:12:59.80 We got "habits," you get that from what kind of 00:12:59.83\00:13:02.55 a health history - what do you do day in and day out. 00:13:02.58\00:13:04.47 But then more than that, where did you get your habits, 00:13:04.50\00:13:06.74 that being your family group, your people group, your country 00:13:06.77\00:13:09.68 group, your ethnic group, your geographical location 00:13:09.71\00:13:12.36 group, whatever. 00:13:12.39\00:13:13.36 Right. 00:13:13.37\00:13:14.39 Ok, so we kind of moving down the pyramid. 00:13:14.42\00:13:17.19 Now here's the thing. 00:13:17.22\00:13:18.39 When we look at culture we have a phenomenon that everybody 00:13:18.42\00:13:22.73 might be familiar with in some way or another. 00:13:22.76\00:13:26.16 This I call the "Uncle Harry" situation. 00:13:26.19\00:13:29.88 Uncle Harry is that person in a family that folks don't 00:13:29.91\00:13:33.40 talk too much about. 00:13:33.43\00:13:34.45 Ok, Uncle Harry, we want to come back to Uncle Harry. 00:13:34.48\00:13:36.35 We're talking with Dr. Zeno Charles-Marcel 00:13:36.38\00:13:39.03 and he's going to talk about Uncle Harry. 00:13:39.06\00:13:40.62 So if you want to know about Uncle Harry you better come back 00:13:40.65\00:13:43.21 and join us after the break. 00:13:43.24\00:13:45.68 Have you found yourself wishing that you could 00:13:47.53\00:13:49.13 shed a few pounds? 00:13:49.16\00:13:50.16 Have you been on a diet for most of your life? 00:13:50.19\00:13:52.87 But not found anything that will really keep the weight off? 00:13:52.90\00:13:55.75 If you've answered yes to any of these questions, then we 00:13:55.78\00:13:59.28 have a solution for you that works. 00:13:59.31\00:14:01.09 Dr. Hans Diehl and Dr. Aileen Ludington 00:14:01.12\00:14:04.39 have written a marvelous booklet called, 00:14:04.42\00:14:06.46 Reversing Obesity Naturally, and we'd like to send it to you 00:14:06.49\00:14:10.08 free of charge. 00:14:10.11\00:14:11.29 Here's a medically sound approach successfully used 00:14:11.32\00:14:14.34 by thousands who are able to eat more 00:14:14.37\00:14:16.44 and loose weight permanently 00:14:16.47\00:14:18.18 without feeling guilty or hungry through lifestyle medicine. 00:14:18.21\00:14:21.87 Dr. Diehl and Dr. Ludington have been featured on 3ABN 00:14:21.90\00:14:25.41 and in this booklet they present a sensible approach to eating, 00:14:25.44\00:14:29.00 nutrition, and lifestyle changes that can help you prevent 00:14:29.03\00:14:32.20 heart disease, diabetes, and even cancer. 00:14:32.23\00:14:34.75 Call or write today for your free copy: 00:14:34.78\00:14:37.25 Welcome back. 00:14:47.99\00:14:49.60 I'm your host Don Mackintosh. 00:14:49.63\00:14:51.65 This is Health For a Lifetime, if you just joined us. 00:14:51.68\00:14:53.44 We have a delightful treat today. 00:14:53.47\00:14:55.38 We are learning about really total health. 00:14:55.41\00:14:58.60 Isn't that right Dr. Zeno Charles-Marcel? 00:14:58.63\00:15:00.02 That's correct 00:15:00.05\00:15:01.93 We're glad that you're with us. 00:15:01.96\00:15:03.49 He's the medical director of the Lifestyle Center of America. 00:15:03.52\00:15:06.80 And that's the same thing you would put in if you were looking 00:15:06.83\00:15:09.39 up their webpage: www. lifestylecenter. org 00:15:09.42\00:15:13.63 So if you'd like to find out more about their program, 00:15:13.67\00:15:16.19 and different things you can do that. 00:15:16.23\00:15:17.20 We're talking about health and total health today 00:15:17.21\00:15:19.42 We're seeing there's more than just what meets the eye. 00:15:19.46\00:15:22.46 There's more to the iceberg than just the top as those on 00:15:22.49\00:15:25.19 the Titanic wanted to really know before hand, right? 00:15:25.23\00:15:27.71 That's correct. 00:15:27.74\00:15:28.71 They learned to late, but today we're finding out where the 00:15:28.72\00:15:30.88 icebergs are so we don't hit them. 00:15:30.91\00:15:31.97 That's correct. 00:15:32.00\00:15:33.05 So we've moved down the pyramid with the first one being our 00:15:33.08\00:15:36.19 health status, that's when you go to the doctor office, they 00:15:36.22\00:15:39.29 take your EKG, blood pressure, pulse, history, 00:15:39.32\00:15:42.49 and that kind of thing. 00:15:42.53\00:15:43.54 That's just one piece of the puzzle. 00:15:43.57\00:15:46.12 You said you need to go deeper than that - look at the habits. 00:15:46.16\00:15:48.96 You have the 18 page questionnaire, a lifestyle 00:15:48.99\00:15:51.39 questionnaire that shows what are your habits. 00:15:51.42\00:15:54.12 The next part of the pyramid is your culture. 00:15:54.15\00:15:56.59 And that doesn't just mean ethnic group, although 00:15:56.62\00:15:59.03 it can be that. 00:15:59.06\00:16:00.03 It can be more or less your family patterns of doing things, 00:16:00.04\00:16:04.81 how you eat, sleep, drink, whatever you do. 00:16:04.85\00:16:08.01 But that can be geographic and everything else. 00:16:08.05\00:16:11.14 So that's the next step on the picture of who we really are - 00:16:11.17\00:16:15.63 why we are what we are. 00:16:15.66\00:16:16.63 You were mentioning, when we left, Uncle Harry, but we left 00:16:16.65\00:16:19.51 him hanging on the wall. 00:16:19.54\00:16:20.92 Who is this Uncle Harry? 00:16:20.96\00:16:22.27 The way we see Uncle Harry is if you were to look at a 00:16:22.31\00:16:27.20 picture of an extended family. 00:16:27.24\00:16:29.23 Uncle Harry might be the guy standing in the back who isn't 00:16:29.26\00:16:32.68 dressed exactly the same way as everybody else. 00:16:32.72\00:16:35.04 He's got the plaid pants on. 00:16:35.07\00:16:36.15 Yes, right. 00:16:36.19\00:16:37.44 And when people are saying, "This is Dad, this is Mom, 00:16:37.47\00:16:40.33 and this is cousin so-and-so, or this is uncle so-and-so, 00:16:40.37\00:16:43.79 and aunt so-and-so. 00:16:43.83\00:16:44.80 They tend to forget Uncle Harry. 00:16:44.81\00:16:48.03 Even though he has plaid pants on. 00:16:48.06\00:16:49.31 Even though it's obvious there's something going on here. 00:16:49.35\00:16:52.03 And typically, someone looking at this will or they see several 00:16:52.07\00:16:56.30 pictures, they will say, "Who is this guy?" 00:16:56.33\00:16:59.21 And the answer is, "Oh, that's Uncle Harry," 00:16:59.25\00:17:02.10 and they go on to the next page. 00:17:02.13\00:17:03.28 You want more information. 00:17:03.31\00:17:04.77 Why is he so different? 00:17:04.80\00:17:06.77 What is this guy all about? 00:17:06.80\00:17:08.70 Well, let me ask you, in your family, if you're to 00:17:08.73\00:17:11.84 look back at your family tree for 4 or 5 generations, 00:17:11.88\00:17:14.92 is there a dominant pattern of occupations in that family? 00:17:14.95\00:17:21.22 Well, we all eat, does that count? 00:17:21.25\00:17:23.28 Well, that's one. - laughter - 00:17:23.32\00:17:24.29 I'm a fourth generation pastor, does that count? 00:17:24.30\00:17:30.69 Yes, that counts. 00:17:30.73\00:17:31.91 So, in your family if you were to look at, I assume it's mainly 00:17:31.95\00:17:36.81 the males in the family that become pastors? 00:17:36.84\00:17:38.80 Yes, we don't have any lady pastors. 00:17:38.83\00:17:40.14 I think they would probably be the "Aunt Harry!" 00:17:40.18\00:17:44.84 - laughter - So they're the "Aunt Harriet!" 00:17:44.88\00:17:49.51 But if you look down, that is the dominant feature. 00:17:49.55\00:17:54.29 Right. 00:17:54.33\00:17:55.30 The expectation in some families is that if there's a son that's 00:17:55.31\00:18:00.24 born, he'll be a pastor too. 00:18:00.28\00:18:01.92 If that is the thought, then to have one of these young men 00:18:01.96\00:18:06.80 decide to become a plumber might be considered strange. 00:18:06.83\00:18:11.64 "Why is he doing that?" 00:18:11.68\00:18:13.04 Nothing wrong with being a plumber is there? 00:18:13.07\00:18:14.63 There is nothing wrong with being a plumber, but in that 00:18:14.66\00:18:18.59 family if the expectation was for pastors, then plumber 00:18:18.63\00:18:22.52 is different. 00:18:22.56\00:18:23.53 In my family I remember coming home from one of these 00:18:23.54\00:18:28.32 graduations where you had to fill out what your 00:18:28.36\00:18:30.75 secret ambition is. 00:18:30.78\00:18:31.80 You know what I put down? 00:18:31.83\00:18:33.06 No. 00:18:33.10\00:18:34.07 An auto mechanic. 00:18:34.08\00:18:35.05 Now anyone that knows me is laughing right now because 00:18:35.07\00:18:37.51 they know all my cars end up on the engine reserve list. 00:18:37.54\00:18:40.83 When I got home and that year book came out and I had 00:18:40.87\00:18:44.05 put down auto mechanic, everyone in my family just looked 00:18:44.08\00:18:47.23 at me like... 00:18:47.27\00:18:48.60 What's wrong with you, right? 00:18:48.63\00:18:50.06 - laughter - But that's the idea you see. 00:18:50.09\00:18:56.32 So being "Uncle Harry" is not bad. 00:18:56.35\00:19:00.09 In some cases it might be. 00:19:00.12\00:19:01.68 But by in large the issue is being different. 00:19:01.71\00:19:05.05 Now where I come to this understanding with regard to 00:19:05.09\00:19:10.03 culture is that we all have "Uncle Harry" in us. 00:19:10.06\00:19:13.81 Because we all don't do things exactly the way our parents did. 00:19:13.85\00:19:17.77 We all want a little of it, we want to have those plaid pants, 00:19:17.80\00:19:19.75 we want to be those auto mechanics, we want to be 00:19:19.79\00:19:21.33 those plumbers, forget being those pastors! 00:19:21.37\00:19:23.35 So we do something a little bit different, ok? 00:19:23.39\00:19:25.30 By doing things a little bit different it shows what's below 00:19:25.34\00:19:29.41 this culture. 00:19:29.45\00:19:30.42 You see culture does not determine everything 00:19:30.43\00:19:32.44 that we are. 00:19:32.47\00:19:33.44 There is something below that. 00:19:33.45\00:19:34.92 And that's our own minds - our psyche and our will. 00:19:34.96\00:19:39.10 Now are we getting to the bottom of the iceberg? 00:19:39.13\00:19:41.51 We're not at the bottom yet. 00:19:41.55\00:19:42.52 But here is an area where individuals actually have a 00:19:42.55\00:19:47.36 choice to make in determining what's going to be happening 00:19:47.40\00:19:50.89 in their future. 00:19:50.93\00:19:51.90 In this case we're talking about health but it has 00:19:51.91\00:19:53.90 wide implications for all other aspects of life as well. 00:19:53.94\00:19:57.64 So, are our values and our psyche... 00:19:57.68\00:20:01.24 How can we change those things if they're wrong? 00:20:01.28\00:20:03.54 What if we're a type of person that wants the bread and pudding 00:20:03.57\00:20:07.73 but now we need to move to broccoli? 00:20:07.77\00:20:09.30 All right, well you see there's where we have to come a little 00:20:09.34\00:20:11.80 bit lower again. 00:20:11.84\00:20:13.36 And there's where we get to the bottom of this iceberg. 00:20:13.39\00:20:15.88 The bottom of the iceberg is actually our world view. 00:20:15.91\00:20:19.24 Now world view is nothing more than the way we see ourselves 00:20:19.27\00:20:24.05 fitting into the world and the way we see the world 00:20:24.08\00:20:26.21 impacting on us. 00:20:26.24\00:20:27.22 It's where we are, who we are, what we are, where we came 00:20:27.25\00:20:30.60 from, where we're going. 00:20:30.63\00:20:31.60 In our best moments, when we sit and reflect as to the meaning 00:20:31.63\00:20:36.64 of life - this is where we are residing. 00:20:36.67\00:20:39.10 We're residing in this place that we call our world view. 00:20:39.13\00:20:41.47 Do you think that most people do that in some sense 00:20:41.50\00:20:43.42 some time in their life? 00:20:43.45\00:20:44.42 I think most people have a period of time in their life 00:20:44.43\00:20:47.76 where this is an issue. 00:20:47.79\00:20:49.78 As a matter of fact, for some people they get to this point 00:20:49.81\00:20:52.63 when they're sick. 00:20:52.66\00:20:53.63 They have to take inventory and they get to the point of 00:20:53.64\00:20:56.98 thinking, "Why am I alive anyway?" 00:20:57.01\00:20:59.03 Right? 00:20:59.06\00:21:00.30 Now in this area, this world view area, I see three points 00:21:00.33\00:21:04.32 that are pivotal in people's understanding and appreciation 00:21:04.35\00:21:08.94 of what this is about. 00:21:08.97\00:21:09.94 This is the bottom of the iceberg. 00:21:09.95\00:21:11.38 And we are three points at the basis of the iceberg. 00:21:11.41\00:21:15.53 1. HOPE 00:21:15.56\00:21:17.39 2. MEANING 00:21:17.42\00:21:21.77 3. PURPOSE 00:21:21.80\00:21:25.00 See people have to have a purpose for living. 00:21:25.03\00:21:29.45 As we say, if someone comes to see the doctor and they don't 00:21:29.48\00:21:35.14 have a reason for getting up in the morning, pretty soon 00:21:35.17\00:21:37.79 they won't be getting up in the morning. 00:21:37.82\00:21:39.17 The story is told over and over again of husbands and wives. 00:21:39.20\00:21:43.50 Of course they've been married for 67 years, husband got a 00:21:43.53\00:21:48.49 stroke, wife is taking care of the husband, the children 00:21:48.52\00:21:50.87 say, "Come and live with us," the wife says, "No, no, I can 00:21:50.90\00:21:54.25 can take care of Dad, we'll do fine, we get around here, 00:21:54.28\00:21:57.25 we do all right. " 00:21:57.28\00:21:58.25 Husband then dies. 00:21:58.26\00:21:59.78 The mom says, "I'm not going to come anywhere, I'm going 00:21:59.81\00:22:03.44 to take care of things here at home. " 00:22:03.47\00:22:04.65 But Mom within a year, doesn't have a purpose for getting up 00:22:04.68\00:22:09.63 in the morning, within a year Mom dies. 00:22:09.66\00:22:12.06 Why? 00:22:12.09\00:22:13.08 Now this doesn't always happen but it's often enough 00:22:13.11\00:22:15.57 that we have to ask the question. 00:22:15.60\00:22:16.65 Part of the reason is that if Mom doesn't have a reason 00:22:16.68\00:22:19.72 to get up in the morning, Mom is not going to get up 00:22:19.75\00:22:22.16 in the morning. 00:22:22.19\00:22:23.31 For us, it may not be an issue of life and death like that. 00:22:23.34\00:22:28.48 But if we don't have a purpose for living, why live? 00:22:28.51\00:22:32.66 If we don't have a purpose to be healthy, why be healthy? 00:22:32.69\00:22:35.33 The second issue is that of meaning. 00:22:35.36\00:22:39.02 What's the meaning of life? 00:22:39.05\00:22:40.52 What's the meaning of living? 00:22:40.55\00:22:42.15 That's related to purpose but it's not the same. 00:22:42.18\00:22:44.39 It's not the same. 00:22:44.42\00:22:45.41 Another issue of course, along the same lines in that meaning 00:22:45.44\00:22:49.35 is, if I were to get sick, or if something were to happen, 00:22:49.38\00:22:53.02 what's the meaning of that? 00:22:53.05\00:22:54.02 Is it trying to tell me something? 00:22:54.05\00:22:55.84 Is there something bigger than meets the eye? 00:22:55.87\00:22:59.19 This is the idea of... for instance some people say, 00:22:59.22\00:23:02.97 "Well, you know this happened therefore, it's giving me a 00:23:03.00\00:23:05.84 warning that I ought to take care of x, y, or z. " 00:23:05.87\00:23:08.87 It's like little cues and what you ascribe to it. 00:23:08.90\00:23:14.78 Some people say, "Well, it's just coincidence," and others 00:23:14.81\00:23:19.08 say, "It's luck. " 00:23:19.11\00:23:20.28 But many people go beyond that and they say, "You know what, 00:23:20.31\00:23:23.17 I think there is something here that's beyond that 00:23:23.20\00:23:26.59 that I'm being stimulated to do something different. " 00:23:26.62\00:23:29.88 My grandfather when he moved in with me, I took care of him 00:23:29.91\00:23:32.70 when he turned 86 or so, he'd get up in the morning and say, 00:23:32.73\00:23:35.85 "I guess the reason I'm still here is for you boys. " 00:23:35.88\00:23:39.06 And then when we would do something good he'd say, 00:23:39.09\00:23:42.08 "That means everything to me. " 00:23:42.11\00:23:44.12 Those were the kind of things. 00:23:44.15\00:23:46.12 When we graduated from school then he died. 00:23:46.15\00:23:50.01 Yes, then he felt like he had met the goal. 00:23:50.04\00:23:53.83 Now this is not an issue of self determination or anything like 00:23:53.87\00:24:00.08 that or kind of like a pre-conditioned... it's just 00:24:00.12\00:24:03.55 that the way human beings are. 00:24:03.58\00:24:05.03 We have an engine, a purpose, and meaning, two parts that 00:24:05.06\00:24:12.15 help drive that engine. 00:24:12.19\00:24:14.63 The third part is that of hope. 00:24:14.66\00:24:16.40 Now the word "hope" might be a little difficult for some people 00:24:16.44\00:24:20.26 to work with because we use it in other ways. 00:24:20.29\00:24:23.31 We say, "I hope this will happen or that will happen. " 00:24:23.34\00:24:27.43 But really having a sense of hope is really having a belief 00:24:27.46\00:24:31.51 that tomorrow is going to be better than today. 00:24:31.55\00:24:33.86 Or belief that the next minute is going to be better than 00:24:33.90\00:24:37.44 this one. 00:24:37.48\00:24:38.73 If we lack hope the researchers show people who don't have hope 00:24:38.76\00:24:45.23 actually have more illness. 00:24:45.27\00:24:46.68 People who have a hopeful attitude, these people tend to 00:24:46.71\00:24:51.17 flourish with their health. 00:24:51.21\00:24:52.40 Remember that story of Jesus where He was with the two 00:24:52.44\00:24:54.58 disciples and they were going along and they were discouraged 00:24:54.62\00:24:56.70 because they thought He had died. 00:24:56.73\00:24:58.18 And then they said, "We were hoping this wouldn't happen. " 00:24:58.22\00:25:02.62 They were hopeless. 00:25:02.66\00:25:04.15 And then He kind of switched them around. 00:25:04.19\00:25:06.06 Is that what you try to do there at the Lifestyle Center? 00:25:06.09\00:25:08.59 You try to switch around people's hope? 00:25:08.63\00:25:11.14 One of the biggest things that we can do for people is actually 00:25:11.17\00:25:14.57 to help them restore, if they had hope and then they lost it, 00:25:14.60\00:25:17.97 or if they had not had hope before to gain hope. 00:25:18.00\00:25:21.36 That there is something that they can do. 00:25:21.40\00:25:24.04 There is a way to look at life. 00:25:24.07\00:25:25.68 There is a way of looking at yourself and looking at your 00:25:25.72\00:25:29.50 relationship to everything to all that is created 00:25:29.54\00:25:32.98 that allows you to look what's a better tomorrow. 00:25:33.02\00:25:36.39 That hope is actually based on nothing less than Jesus Christ. 00:25:36.42\00:25:42.01 And people have to discover that don't they? 00:25:42.05\00:25:44.77 They have to discover that. 00:25:44.81\00:25:45.78 In my view you don't force this on somebody. 00:25:45.79\00:25:49.65 You don't push it, you don't shove it down their throats. 00:25:49.69\00:25:51.67 Actually they come to the point of saying, "Yes, I understand 00:25:51.70\00:25:55.90 there is something to life, there is something bigger 00:25:55.93\00:25:57.95 than me. " 00:25:57.98\00:25:59.05 Now, when this happens and their world view changes, the 00:25:59.08\00:26:03.75 world view pushes the will, changes the values. 00:26:03.79\00:26:07.97 The person is now able to do the things that they thought 00:26:08.00\00:26:11.62 they couldn't do before. 00:26:11.65\00:26:12.62 They are willing to confront their culture and take other 00:26:12.63\00:26:16.83 things from their culture and hold onto those that are health 00:26:16.86\00:26:21.09 enhancing and reject and put aside the things that are not 00:26:21.13\00:26:25.32 health enhancing. 00:26:25.36\00:26:26.65 This in turn will change their habits. 00:26:26.69\00:26:29.18 They find almost effortlessly - almost - that they are now more 00:26:29.21\00:26:34.94 inclined to do what they thought they should have done 00:26:34.97\00:26:37.76 because it's the right. 00:26:37.80\00:26:39.11 They do the right thing for the right reason. 00:26:39.14\00:26:41.97 And this ultimately will reflect in what happens 00:26:42.00\00:26:44.80 to their total health. 00:26:44.83\00:26:46.08 It would be a complete switching of the iceberg. 00:26:46.11\00:26:48.98 That's correct because as you start with the bottom 00:26:49.01\00:26:51.81 this becomes the root and the health that you experience, 00:26:51.84\00:26:55.69 the total health you experience, now that becomes the fruit. 00:26:55.72\00:26:58.64 And that's what we need, fruitful lives. 00:26:58.67\00:27:01.42 That's right. 00:27:01.45\00:27:02.54 Completely repositioned. 00:27:02.58\00:27:03.77 That's what you've dedicated your life to. 00:27:03.81\00:27:05.27 Yes. 00:27:05.30\00:27:06.39 You know as I study the story of Christ and how He related 00:27:06.43\00:27:09.85 to His apostles and disciples that's really how He dedicated 00:27:09.88\00:27:13.27 His life to as well. 00:27:13.31\00:27:15.10 And in that story in Luke where He was with the disciples 00:27:15.14\00:27:18.36 and remember how they were all discouraged and depressed 00:27:18.39\00:27:21.58 and this whole thing turned around. 00:27:21.62\00:27:23.61 They didn't know who He was. 00:27:23.64\00:27:25.39 And then it was like He came to them as a cardiologist 00:27:25.42\00:27:28.84 and said, "Let Me open the Word to you" and defibrillated them. 00:27:28.87\00:27:32.29 They started being happy and they turned the world 00:27:32.33\00:27:33.83 upside down - completely turned around. 00:27:33.87\00:27:37.06 We hope as a result of today's program you'll go out there 00:27:37.10\00:27:40.38 seize the day - turn the world upside down and 00:27:40.41\00:27:42.62 you can address the real issues at the base of the 00:27:42.66\00:27:44.80 mountain so that everything else makes sense, give meaning, 00:27:44.84\00:27:47.94 purpose, and hope. 00:27:47.98\00:27:48.95 If you would like to contact us about this program 00:27:48.96\00:27:51.24 or about the Lifestyle Center of America 00:27:51.27\00:27:53.23 we hope that you do call us. 00:27:53.27\00:27:54.39 We hope that as a result you will have health 00:27:54.42\00:27:56.79 that lasts for a lifetime. 00:27:56.82\00:27:59.73