Hello friends, grab your Bible and a friend 00:00:01.98\00:00:03.09 and sit back as we explore God's 00:00:03.12\00:00:04.81 word together on this edition of House Calls. 00:00:04.84\00:00:07.48 It's great to have you here with us 00:00:22.61\00:00:23.78 again on another edition of House Calls 00:00:23.81\00:00:26.09 my name is Pastor John Stanton and 00:00:26.12\00:00:28.08 I am C.A. Murray and it's great again 00:00:28.11\00:00:30.05 to be able to open up the word 00:00:30.08\00:00:32.02 of the God to study its pages and to be 00:00:32.05\00:00:34.71 encouraged by that drawing closer 00:00:34.74\00:00:36.84 to our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ 00:00:36.87\00:00:38.43 which we need to do in this difficult 00:00:38.46\00:00:40.64 times. And Pastor Murray it's great to 00:00:40.67\00:00:42.82 have you here in the studio with 00:00:42.85\00:00:43.95 us yet again. I'm happy to be here, 00:00:43.98\00:00:46.17 I apologize for cutting you off, 00:00:46.20\00:00:48.00 but I like bumping you over to the 00:00:48.03\00:00:49.58 host chair and sitting in a fill in seat, 00:00:49.61\00:00:51.84 I don't get a chance to study the word 00:00:51.87\00:00:53.48 of God with you enough and I always 00:00:53.51\00:00:54.77 enjoy it when it's necessary, 00:00:54.80\00:00:56.15 praise the Lord and thank you 00:00:56.18\00:00:57.20 and me too it's always a blessing 00:00:57.23\00:00:58.20 to have you here. And we just got 00:00:58.21\00:01:01.05 off the heels of a program that 00:01:01.08\00:01:02.86 I think was desperately needed 00:01:02.89\00:01:04.00 where we needed to be encouraged, 00:01:04.03\00:01:05.37 oh! Yes, during very difficult financial 00:01:05.40\00:01:07.90 times and economic times, 00:01:07.93\00:01:09.76 a couple with all the disasters 00:01:09.79\00:01:12.75 and the things we see going on 00:01:12.78\00:01:13.75 around us here as well, but it's a time 00:01:13.78\00:01:15.94 that we need to really have some 00:01:15.97\00:01:17.01 encouragement and I believe that 00:01:17.04\00:01:18.22 program was an encouragement 00:01:18.25\00:01:19.36 to hopefully many of our viewers as 00:01:19.39\00:01:21.51 it was to me as well. Yeah, yeah, 00:01:21.54\00:01:23.31 as we were talking just a little bit, 00:01:23.34\00:01:24.57 certainly well you're a pastor you can 00:01:24.60\00:01:26.77 see the effects of the economic downturn. 00:01:26.80\00:01:29.20 We're in a bit of slide now but 00:01:29.23\00:01:32.27 these are the times as we mentioned 00:01:32.30\00:01:34.83 before test our metal and test 00:01:34.86\00:01:36.91 our resolve in Jesus Christ. 00:01:36.94\00:01:39.42 If you are a person who puts a lot 00:01:39.45\00:01:43.19 of faith in your stocks, your bonds, 00:01:43.22\00:01:45.16 securities then your faith has been 00:01:45.19\00:01:47.37 thoroughly shaken, but if your 00:01:47.40\00:01:49.85 faith is in Jesus Christ has not moved, 00:01:49.88\00:01:52.69 Christ has not changed, he is the 00:01:52.72\00:01:54.07 same yesterday, today and forever. 00:01:54.10\00:01:55.53 So, your faith is as solid as it ever 00:01:55.56\00:01:58.22 was and it really is a question of where 00:01:58.25\00:02:00.46 is your hope, where is your trust, 00:02:00.49\00:02:01.66 where are you putting your resources 00:02:01.69\00:02:05.34 dare I say, in earth or in heaven and 00:02:05.37\00:02:07.94 I say if you're banking in heaven then 00:02:07.97\00:02:09.80 you're fine because everything is 00:02:09.83\00:02:11.14 secure and there is no run on the bank. Amen. 00:02:11.17\00:02:13.72 You know and the peace that we talked 00:02:13.75\00:02:15.64 about having you know with Jesus 00:02:15.67\00:02:17.13 is as we're yoked with him, 00:02:17.16\00:02:18.82 as we're together with him. Yes, 00:02:18.85\00:02:20.64 and so what I thought we could do on 00:02:20.67\00:02:22.10 this program is take a look at seven steps 00:02:22.13\00:02:24.90 that we can take to draw closer to Jesus 00:02:26.12\00:02:28.70 to have a closer relationship with Jesus. 00:02:28.73\00:02:31.09 Yeah, and so that's what we would 00:02:31.12\00:02:32.33 like to talk a bit on our program here today 00:02:32.36\00:02:33.96 but before we do that we always go 00:02:33.99\00:02:35.41 into our question and answer period, 00:02:35.44\00:02:37.36 although before that we always go 00:02:37.39\00:02:39.79 to the Lord in prayer. So, Pastor Murray 00:02:39.82\00:02:42.03 would you lead us there first. 00:02:42.06\00:02:43.03 Be happy to do so. Gracious Father, 00:02:43.04\00:02:45.10 again we thank you for this opportunity 00:02:45.13\00:02:47.22 to talk about our best friend Christ Jesus. 00:02:47.25\00:02:50.15 We thank you for the promise that 00:02:50.18\00:02:52.08 when the name of Jesus is lifted up, 00:02:52.11\00:02:55.08 when Christ is lifted he will draw all men, 00:02:55.11\00:02:58.17 all women, all boys, all girls unto himself 00:02:58.20\00:03:00.80 that he is the great healer, 00:03:00.83\00:03:03.33 the great sustainer, the great provider 00:03:03.36\00:03:06.32 and so we rest in you, we trust you Lord 00:03:06.35\00:03:09.12 and we ask you now to bless our setting 00:03:09.15\00:03:11.72 here as we open the word of God and 00:03:11.75\00:03:13.96 see what your will is for our lives. 00:03:13.99\00:03:16.38 We thank you dear Father in 00:03:16.41\00:03:17.79 Jesus name. Amen. Amen. 00:03:17.82\00:03:19.53 Well, it's time for our, your questions 00:03:21.05\00:03:23.09 hopefully our descent answers, 00:03:23.12\00:03:25.59 we try to do the best of course 00:03:25.62\00:03:27.55 you can't go wrong when you say 00:03:27.58\00:03:29.34 the word of God and look there 00:03:29.37\00:03:30.45 for answers, but we want to encourage 00:03:30.48\00:03:32.15 you to continue to sending your 00:03:32.18\00:03:33.29 programs to House Calls and the 00:03:33.32\00:03:35.85 email address is @3abn.org 00:03:35.88\00:03:39.17 so that housecalls@3abn.org 00:03:39.20\00:03:43.38 feel free to send in your questions there, 00:03:43.41\00:03:44.80 very important and they've been 00:03:44.83\00:03:46.05 very good. So, we appreciate you 00:03:46.08\00:03:47.80 doing that. If you like to send them 00:03:47.83\00:03:49.07 in by regular mail, you can feel free 00:03:49.10\00:03:50.98 to do that as well. But we have 00:03:51.01\00:03:53.50 some good questions here today and 00:03:53.53\00:03:55.20 Pastor Murray, maybe you got one 00:03:55.23\00:03:56.64 and you get started off with. Well, 00:03:56.67\00:03:58.50 we've got a question from Mark and 00:03:58.53\00:04:02.50 Mark is writing from Minnesota, 00:04:02.53\00:04:07.26 White Bear, White Bear Lake, Minnesota. 00:04:07.29\00:04:09.43 It's kind of a long question, so I'm gonna 00:04:09.46\00:04:11.92 try to digest it just a little bit pastor John. 00:04:11.95\00:04:14.35 He evidently or at some time ago in his life, 00:04:14.38\00:04:18.10 he had shot a crow and he shot it 00:04:19.86\00:04:23.75 an air riffle didn't kill it. It was 00:04:23.78\00:04:26.72 wounded, he had wounded it and 00:04:26.75\00:04:28.31 of course he had to then end its life 00:04:28.34\00:04:30.09 because he had wounded it. 00:04:30.12\00:04:31.39 He's very, very said and I think I'm 00:04:33.36\00:04:35.31 listening to this that this has left a sort 00:04:35.34\00:04:37.12 of everlasting impression. Now, he is 00:04:37.15\00:04:39.51 an adult, he has two feral cats either, 00:04:39.54\00:04:41.63 you know cats are kind of just hanging 00:04:41.66\00:04:43.06 around a little bit. He says through the 00:04:43.09\00:04:45.15 indifference and ignorance of mankind 00:04:45.18\00:04:47.12 they have to be destroyed, I guess 00:04:47.15\00:04:48.47 they got to be put down or euthanized 00:04:48.50\00:04:50.40 as we say. And he is really, really sad 00:04:50.43\00:04:54.80 about that, yet he says the spirit 00:04:54.83\00:04:58.03 assured me I am not a killer, 00:04:58.06\00:04:59.03 I don't like animals to suffer, 00:04:59.04\00:05:00.39 trapping animals seems wrong. 00:05:00.42\00:05:02.79 God loves all his creatures, 00:05:05.22\00:05:06.42 I guess he just wants some help and 00:05:07.90\00:05:08.98 comfort because he doesn't like to see 00:05:09.01\00:05:10.35 anybody suffer yeah including animals. 00:05:10.38\00:05:12.67 And I understand that I was not 00:05:13.58\00:05:16.50 a big animal person, but through 00:05:16.53\00:05:19.24 the insistence of my wife we now 00:05:19.27\00:05:20.68 have three cats. Three black cats, 00:05:20.71\00:05:25.33 gorgeous long, silky black and 00:05:25.36\00:05:27.41 one of them just died just a 00:05:27.44\00:05:28.51 couple of weeks ago, of course they're 00:05:28.54\00:05:30.53 Spanish, so we, one of the cats has 00:05:30.56\00:05:33.25 an African name that I gave it, 00:05:33.28\00:05:34.51 one has a Spanish name and one has 00:05:34.54\00:05:36.36 a American name because of our 00:05:36.39\00:05:37.64 grandson named, so we have Ohora, 00:05:37.67\00:05:38.95 the African name, we have Coco 00:05:38.98\00:05:41.46 which is a Spanish cat and. 00:05:41.49\00:05:43.09 No, I'm sorry Pepe is the Spanish cat 00:05:43.12\00:05:45.15 and we have Coco which is the 00:05:45.18\00:05:46.69 English cat. And we found Ohora 00:05:46.72\00:05:49.36 dead and these animals have a way 00:05:49.39\00:05:51.04 of working their way kind of into your 00:05:51.07\00:05:52.47 soul a little bit more, it was not my 00:05:52.50\00:05:54.14 intention to get so chummy with these 00:05:54.17\00:05:56.19 cats, but I feed them they sit on my 00:05:56.22\00:05:58.02 lap and the whole deal. And so, I know 00:05:58.05\00:06:01.60 what it's like when you lose, 00:06:01.63\00:06:03.61 sometime ago Shelley Quinn who 00:06:03.64\00:06:05.58 works here at 3ABN you know her well, 00:06:05.61\00:06:07.11 lost one of her dogs and it really, 00:06:07.14\00:06:09.07 really upset her having that dog 00:06:09.10\00:06:11.64 maybe 16 years, it really upset her, 00:06:11.67\00:06:13.81 and another couple Stevens might 00:06:13.84\00:06:15.24 have lost their dog a number of years 00:06:15.27\00:06:17.16 and their dog had to be euthanized, 00:06:17.19\00:06:18.99 he had arthritis, he was in great 00:06:19.02\00:06:21.23 pain and it was unfair and cruel to 00:06:21.26\00:06:23.65 the dog, to have a dog just, 00:06:23.68\00:06:25.28 he couldn't walk, he couldn't function 00:06:25.31\00:06:27.51 and they had to just you know 00:06:27.54\00:06:29.02 end its life. So I can understand, 00:06:29.05\00:06:32.01 I can understand that, having said so, 00:06:32.04\00:06:34.19 Christ did not die to save animals, 00:06:34.22\00:06:36.53 he died to save human beings. 00:06:36.56\00:06:37.81 I think when we, when we fall in love 00:06:37.84\00:06:39.95 with Jesus a certain kindness come 00:06:39.98\00:06:41.87 into our lives pastor for all creatures 00:06:41.90\00:06:44.15 you know. So you don't want to 00:06:44.18\00:06:46.28 unnecessarily hurt creatures I'm not a 00:06:46.31\00:06:48.93 hunter you know. I just don't, 00:06:48.96\00:06:52.56 that's just not me but by the same token 00:06:52.59\00:06:55.81 there are some science that's done on 00:06:55.84\00:06:58.03 laboratory animals that could not be, 00:06:58.06\00:06:59.66 we could not be helped as human 00:06:59.69\00:07:01.61 unless these kinds of experiments were done. 00:07:01.64\00:07:04.05 So it's tough place to kind of be, 00:07:04.08\00:07:06.93 this fellow says I'm a vegetarian, 00:07:06.96\00:07:09.03 well praise the Lord he don't eat meat so, 00:07:09.06\00:07:11.35 meat so he doesn't he's not responsible for that, 00:07:11.38\00:07:13.20 but Christ died to save, died to save 00:07:14.36\00:07:16.35 you and me and luckily, I say luckily, 00:07:16.38\00:07:20.24 thank God one day there is coming 00:07:20.27\00:07:21.74 when the lion will lay down with the lamb, 00:07:21.77\00:07:25.93 there will be no more hunting of animals, 00:07:25.96\00:07:28.05 there will be no more destruction, 00:07:28.08\00:07:29.28 there will be no more death at all. 00:07:29.31\00:07:30.66 And I think perhaps it would be comforting 00:07:30.69\00:07:32.83 for us to focus on that day. 00:07:32.86\00:07:34.71 Because as long as we are in this 00:07:34.74\00:07:37.28 temple we are on this earth there is 00:07:37.31\00:07:39.07 gonna be death, there is gonna be killing, 00:07:39.10\00:07:40.49 there is gonna be cruelty to animals and 00:07:40.52\00:07:42.23 man to man, humans to humans, 00:07:42.26\00:07:44.38 which is a bad thing. God does indeed love 00:07:44.41\00:07:47.41 all of his creatures but he sent his son 00:07:47.44\00:07:49.55 to die for us and for that we can be 00:07:49.58\00:07:52.23 grateful and thankful. Yeah, and the 00:07:52.26\00:07:55.11 issue really here with this man is that, 00:07:55.14\00:07:57.50 you know you not killing a soul that 00:07:58.39\00:07:59.94 Jesus died for when the animals put down, 00:07:59.97\00:08:02.79 precisely and in many respects your, 00:08:02.82\00:08:05.05 it's an act of mercy for these animals 00:08:05.08\00:08:08.31 that are really suffering and having a 00:08:08.34\00:08:09.76 difficult time and so well he may not 00:08:09.79\00:08:12.39 feel like he can do that, he can bring 00:08:12.42\00:08:14.67 himself to do that there are some who, 00:08:14.70\00:08:16.21 who understand this and maybe 00:08:16.24\00:08:19.26 have a little more resistance to, 00:08:19.29\00:08:20.42 resilience when it comes to putting 00:08:20.45\00:08:22.19 an animal down and they can, 00:08:22.22\00:08:23.19 they may not like you and enjoy it, 00:08:23.20\00:08:24.82 but they understand the merciful 00:08:24.85\00:08:25.82 aspect of that, better than maybe 00:08:25.83\00:08:27.01 he would. So, there are those who 00:08:27.04\00:08:28.78 can help to do that as we know 00:08:28.81\00:08:30.05 many of us who have just you know 00:08:30.08\00:08:32.51 we had to put a young dog, not a young 00:08:32.54\00:08:35.97 dog but an older dog down when 00:08:36.00\00:08:37.22 I was young. And he was, he was 00:08:37.25\00:08:40.46 with us for 17, 18 years, and you know 00:08:40.49\00:08:43.24 your animal grows on you that way. 00:08:43.27\00:08:44.93 Oh! Sure, and anyway so we took 00:08:44.96\00:08:47.32 the animal, the dog to the vet and 00:08:47.35\00:08:50.53 he just give him a shot and he 00:08:50.56\00:08:51.87 just fell a sleep. There was no pain, 00:08:51.90\00:08:53.22 no suffering going on, it's probably 00:08:53.25\00:08:54.98 the most humane way to do that 00:08:55.01\00:08:55.98 and probably in this case that's 00:08:55.99\00:08:57.74 similar to what we'll hear. Yeah, 00:08:57.77\00:09:00.00 you can take heart and that it's 00:09:00.48\00:09:01.45 not cruel, I have a question here from 00:09:01.46\00:09:05.21 Debbie and it says here she was 00:09:05.24\00:09:08.99 reading Pastor Lomacang's article 00:09:09.02\00:09:11.38 in 3ABN, and world called to Hell 00:09:11.41\00:09:13.80 and back and in that article it says 00:09:13.83\00:09:17.42 that there is quote about from 00:09:17.45\00:09:20.13 Revelation 29 and 10 that: 00:09:20.16\00:09:22.43 The fire devoured them, and they will 00:09:22.46\00:09:24.90 be tormented or will be tormented 00:09:24.93\00:09:26.39 day and night forever and ever. 00:09:26.42\00:09:27.71 And she says she always had a problem 00:09:27.74\00:09:29.96 with that try to connect that with 00:09:29.99\00:09:31.60 other scriptures that says that you 00:09:31.63\00:09:34.13 know your soul doesn't live forever 00:09:34.16\00:09:36.18 and how could you go on existing 00:09:36.21\00:09:38.17 forever if in fact this you know 00:09:38.20\00:09:41.35 it's not true. And so anyway, 00:09:41.38\00:09:45.25 so she's saying here, help me 00:09:45.28\00:09:47.27 understand this, help me to reconcile this, 00:09:47.30\00:09:48.95 how do we get to a point where we 00:09:48.98\00:09:51.05 can on one hand the scriptures which says 00:09:51.08\00:09:53.53 that the fire will burn them up, 00:09:53.56\00:09:56.06 neither lead them, neither root or branch, 00:09:56.09\00:09:58.28 and at the same time it says that 00:09:58.31\00:10:00.38 they'll be tormented day and night 00:10:00.41\00:10:01.55 forever and ever. And so let's, let's 00:10:01.58\00:10:04.70 take a look at that text here just 00:10:04.73\00:10:05.99 briefly Revelation 20 verse 9 00:10:06.02\00:10:08.81 and 10 and then lets talk about it. 00:10:08.84\00:10:10.84 I won't spend a lot of time on that 00:10:10.87\00:10:14.06 because there are many, many texts 00:10:14.09\00:10:17.62 involved we can do a whole study, 00:10:17.65\00:10:19.12 a whole program and you've done shows 00:10:19.15\00:10:20.12 on this before with Pastor John, 00:10:20.13\00:10:21.41 so you've touched on this in the past. 00:10:21.44\00:10:24.27 But Revelation 20 verse 9 and 10 says: 00:10:25.01\00:10:27.17 They went up on the breadth of the 00:10:27.20\00:10:28.47 earth and surrounded the camp of the 00:10:28.50\00:10:29.63 saints and the beloved city. 00:10:29.66\00:10:31.53 And this is the, the wicked who are 00:10:31.56\00:10:33.79 about to attach the city now and it says: 00:10:33.82\00:10:36.37 Fire came down from God out of heaven 00:10:36.40\00:10:39.35 and devoured them. And it says: 00:10:39.38\00:10:41.57 The devil, who deceived them, 00:10:41.60\00:10:42.73 was cast into the lake of fire and 00:10:42.76\00:10:44.38 brimstone where the beast and 00:10:44.41\00:10:45.95 the false prophet are. And they will be 00:10:45.98\00:10:47.40 tormented day and night forever and ever. 00:10:47.43\00:10:50.33 One of the things about the language, 00:10:51.31\00:10:54.71 Greek language where they're Aramaic 00:10:54.74\00:10:57.68 as well as when you go back, even Hebrew, 00:10:57.71\00:10:59.68 the language has a lot of personality 00:11:01.36\00:11:04.99 to it. Yes, okay and it's much more 00:11:05.02\00:11:07.72 than the words we use in English, 00:11:07.75\00:11:09.30 a word descriptive of something and it just 00:11:09.33\00:11:11.49 really breathe life into it, you know 00:11:11.52\00:11:13.73 Spanish and obviously when you're 00:11:13.76\00:11:15.63 talking about things in Spanish and 00:11:15.66\00:11:17.81 using words in Spanish, it's female, 00:11:17.84\00:11:19.61 it's male. It's got some identity more then, 00:11:19.64\00:11:22.16 yes, just being a word and it goes 00:11:22.19\00:11:25.31 a long way back when that these 00:11:25.34\00:11:28.18 languages really had a strong 00:11:28.21\00:11:30.37 personality and in this context 00:11:30.40\00:11:33.55 you're talking about a people 00:11:33.58\00:11:34.86 who are going to be thrown into the fire, 00:11:34.89\00:11:36.89 this lake of fire. Who are mortal, 00:11:36.92\00:11:40.40 they're not immortal because First 00:11:40.43\00:11:42.75 Corinthians 15 tells us at the end of that: 00:11:42.78\00:11:44.52 Those that receive immortality, 00:11:44.55\00:11:46.24 right are those who are in Christ whom 00:11:46.27\00:11:49.23 he has comeback to raise them from the 00:11:49.26\00:11:50.80 dead also those who are alive and 00:11:50.83\00:11:52.17 remain here waiting for him First 00:11:52.20\00:11:53.43 Thessalonians 4: That they all receive 00:11:53.46\00:11:55.87 immortality, yes, but the wicked do not, 00:11:55.90\00:11:59.95 the wicked are on the earth, they have, 00:11:59.98\00:12:03.45 they have died because the brightness 00:12:03.48\00:12:06.07 of Christ coming. They've been 00:12:06.10\00:12:07.44 therefore a thousand years, 00:12:07.47\00:12:08.56 they've been resurrected, they're 00:12:08.59\00:12:09.56 still mortal beings but they've been 00:12:09.57\00:12:11.15 resurrected for that last judgment hour. 00:12:11.18\00:12:13.04 Yes, and so we picked that up here 00:12:13.07\00:12:15.17 and so when the terminology is used 00:12:15.20\00:12:17.52 that they will be burned by this 00:12:17.55\00:12:19.76 fire day and night, forever and ever. 00:12:19.79\00:12:22.50 Those words are pertaining to their 00:12:23.33\00:12:25.75 mortal state, so the forever and 00:12:25.78\00:12:28.57 ever as long as they live. So, when we 00:12:28.60\00:12:34.10 look at this judgment obviously we know 00:12:34.13\00:12:35.74 scripture tells us that some sins are 00:12:35.77\00:12:38.32 more heinous than others. God will not 00:12:38.35\00:12:41.19 punish and burn I believe for a longest 00:12:41.22\00:12:45.90 in the period of time, someone who 00:12:45.93\00:12:47.60 really hasn't done a lot of harm to others 00:12:47.63\00:12:49.24 on this earth whether they may have steal, 00:12:49.27\00:12:51.49 they may have lied, they may have done 00:12:51.52\00:12:52.70 some things, they don't want Christ, 00:12:52.73\00:12:54.21 they don't wanna live forever in Heaven 00:12:54.24\00:12:55.45 with him, but their life really isn't 00:12:55.48\00:12:58.22 a life of a murderer or someone who 00:12:58.25\00:13:00.95 has really done harm to many of those 00:13:00.98\00:13:02.99 who during the time they've lived and so 00:13:03.02\00:13:05.19 God will not just keep them alive to cause 00:13:05.22\00:13:07.58 them to burn and suffer for a long 00:13:07.61\00:13:08.74 period of time. But there maybe some 00:13:08.77\00:13:10.07 that we could think of in history of time, 00:13:10.10\00:13:12.15 yes deserve a form punishment 00:13:12.18\00:13:14.77 that is painful, that is vengeance 00:13:14.80\00:13:18.22 that God takes out upon them for the 00:13:18.25\00:13:20.64 acts and the works that they have done. 00:13:20.67\00:13:22.43 And in that case I think we're finding 00:13:22.46\00:13:24.50 here in this text telling us that 00:13:24.53\00:13:26.89 there are some who will burn in 00:13:26.92\00:13:28.32 that fire for a period of time until 00:13:28.35\00:13:30.91 God sees fit to let the immortality 00:13:30.94\00:13:32.87 how that fire consume them and 00:13:32.90\00:13:35.81 burned them up which, you go to 00:13:35.84\00:13:37.38 Malachi which chapter is that? 00:13:37.41\00:13:39.72 Malachi 3 where it talks about 00:13:39.75\00:13:41.29 that it will burn, the fire will bring 00:13:41.32\00:13:42.36 them up, leave them neither root 00:13:42.39\00:13:43.81 nor branch. Right, they be gone, 00:13:43.84\00:13:45.17 it actually is the same, correct. 00:13:45.20\00:13:46.52 And so to reconcile these two which 00:13:46.55\00:13:48.79 you have just to know is that he's 00:13:48.82\00:13:50.23 speaking of mortal beings yes. 00:13:50.26\00:13:52.08 Mortal beings who do not have 00:13:52.11\00:13:53.54 immortality they can't be alive forever, 00:13:53.57\00:13:56.54 if you don't define it that way 00:13:56.57\00:13:58.64 here's the other confusing part too, 00:13:58.67\00:13:59.93 if you don't define it that way pastor. 00:13:59.96\00:14:01.92 You're actually saying that God 00:14:01.95\00:14:04.46 is a tormentor or torturer, 00:14:04.49\00:14:08.10 that he is one who is like unto those 00:14:08.13\00:14:12.47 who we see today. Who might capture 00:14:12.50\00:14:15.50 somebody in a warfare, in some 00:14:15.53\00:14:17.19 kind of a war or something and keep 00:14:17.22\00:14:18.44 them alive to torture them to get 00:14:18.47\00:14:19.81 stuff out of them and we view 00:14:19.84\00:14:22.12 that very, very immorally yes. 00:14:22.15\00:14:25.90 We would be calling God a murderer, 00:14:27.07\00:14:28.66 a torturer and God is not that, 00:14:28.69\00:14:30.31 so it's not pertaining. We're not 00:14:30.34\00:14:32.82 speaking of God in that context, 00:14:32.85\00:14:34.40 we're talking about a God who is 00:14:34.43\00:14:35.94 allowing vengeance to occur. 00:14:35.97\00:14:36.98 People are receiving their just rewards, 00:14:37.01\00:14:39.53 yes and then they will die, right. 00:14:39.56\00:14:41.44 And perish forever and not to be 00:14:41.47\00:14:43.08 around anymore, very true and two 00:14:43.11\00:14:44.09 things you don't wanna do John as 00:14:44.12\00:14:45.32 you well know you don't wanna 00:14:45.35\00:14:46.35 develop doctrinal premises from the 00:14:46.38\00:14:48.52 book of Revelation alone, it is a book that 00:14:48.55\00:14:50.81 uses types and symbols and pictures 00:14:50.84\00:14:54.23 and imagery. So, if you see something 00:14:54.26\00:14:56.64 that is somewhat puzzling in Revelation, 00:14:56.67\00:14:59.17 you need to check out that same 00:14:59.20\00:15:01.01 doctrine in several other places 00:15:01.04\00:15:03.03 to try to get a true picture, right, 00:15:03.06\00:15:06.11 of what Revelation is saying because 00:15:06.14\00:15:08.18 in Revelation, particularly in this 00:15:08.21\00:15:09.44 instance states a fact that they will 00:15:09.47\00:15:12.12 devoured and then it sort of oh what's 00:15:12.15\00:15:15.84 the word I can use, it sort of elaborates 00:15:15.87\00:15:17.60 on that using the imagery again in the 00:15:17.63\00:15:21.35 next verse but your doctrinal 00:15:21.38\00:15:23.18 premises say that, fire came down 00:15:23.21\00:15:25.00 from heaven and devoured them. 00:15:25.03\00:15:26.63 Now that statement is boisterous 00:15:26.66\00:15:28.32 in several other places in the word 00:15:28.35\00:15:30.22 of God where as the next statement is not. 00:15:30.25\00:15:31.74 So take the one that has the 00:15:31.77\00:15:33.69 substantial Biblical backing in other places 00:15:33.72\00:15:36.94 as opposed to the flaw we stated, 00:15:36.97\00:15:39.17 which is kind of an elaboration 00:15:39.20\00:15:40.51 on the fact that's stated in that 00:15:40.54\00:15:42.59 first place. I mentioned too even the 00:15:42.62\00:15:45.71 book of Jude here you go, Jude 7: 00:15:45.74\00:15:48.47 Sodom and Gomorrah were destroyed 00:15:48.50\00:15:50.31 with eternal fire is the fire still 00:15:50.34\00:15:52.99 burning now? No, but the effects 00:15:53.02\00:15:54.57 of it were eternal, that's right and 00:15:54.60\00:15:57.11 that is backed up several other places 00:15:57.14\00:15:59.11 in the word of God so we're looking 00:15:59.14\00:16:00.23 at the weight of biblical evidence, 00:16:00.26\00:16:01.74 the weight of biblical evidence is on 00:16:01.77\00:16:03.93 destruction that God will leave them 00:16:03.96\00:16:05.41 neither root not branch as we alluded to, 00:16:05.44\00:16:07.75 that they will destroyed not burning 00:16:07.78\00:16:09.50 forever which really is a bad picture 00:16:09.53\00:16:11.58 of the loving God that we serve, 00:16:11.61\00:16:13.50 yeah it doesn't, it's not in harmony 00:16:13.53\00:16:16.00 with the loving aspect of God, 00:16:16.03\00:16:17.48 precisely, rest of scripture, yeah. 00:16:17.51\00:16:19.31 And also I think this text is talking 00:16:19.34\00:16:21.66 about tormenting them, it's really what 00:16:21.69\00:16:23.32 it's saying is they will suffer a 00:16:23.35\00:16:25.22 judgment of God. I mean this is the 00:16:26.87\00:16:28.47 executive judgment of God, 00:16:28.50\00:16:30.06 they will experience some kind of pain 00:16:30.09\00:16:31.84 and torture, but don't take that, 00:16:31.87\00:16:35.27 that it's gonna exist forever. 00:16:35.30\00:16:36.57 Because that's not in harmony with 00:16:36.60\00:16:38.54 the character of God, the effect will 00:16:38.57\00:16:40.22 be eternal, not the extent. 00:16:40.25\00:16:42.36 Once it's done, it will never 00:16:43.71\00:16:45.08 comeback again, that makes it eternally 00:16:45.11\00:16:46.47 gone but it won't take eternity 00:16:46.50\00:16:48.31 for it to go. Amen, yes, Amen. So, 00:16:48.34\00:16:51.96 what else do we have as far as a 00:16:51.99\00:16:53.54 question there for today. 00:16:53.57\00:16:54.54 We have a question coming from Jamaica, 00:16:54.55\00:16:58.01 Jamaica West Indies it concerns 00:16:58.99\00:17:01.41 chapter 14 the book of Romans 00:17:01.44\00:17:03.10 and the writer wants to know 00:17:03.13\00:17:06.20 I think his name is Frances, Frances 00:17:06.23\00:17:08.52 wants to know is this chapter saying 00:17:08.55\00:17:12.17 that the Sabbath is no longer 00:17:12.20\00:17:13.59 important and that any meat 00:17:13.62\00:17:16.88 can be eating, so eaten rather saying 00:17:16.91\00:17:19.44 that God has already stated that 00:17:19.47\00:17:20.85 some are for consumption while 00:17:20.88\00:17:22.48 others for cleaning up others. 00:17:22.51\00:17:23.99 So basically she wants to know is this 00:17:24.02\00:17:27.47 sort of pulling the pigs off from 00:17:27.50\00:17:28.85 under the Sabbath and opening it up, 00:17:28.88\00:17:30.93 opening it up for us to eat all the 00:17:30.96\00:17:33.63 meats or any kind of meat that we want to? 00:17:33.66\00:17:35.88 Interesting, yeah. Well, let's go to 00:17:35.91\00:17:37.22 Romans 14 then and see what 00:17:37.25\00:17:39.40 we find here, in fact as I get there, 00:17:39.43\00:17:42.15 I'm looking at the title and you 00:17:42.18\00:17:45.74 know Bibles sometimes had titles sections, 00:17:45.77\00:17:47.76 mine says principles of Christian liberty, 00:17:47.79\00:17:50.08 the next one after that, the rest of 00:17:50.11\00:17:52.94 actually Romans 15 gets into practices 00:17:52.97\00:17:55.47 of Christian liberty so we're gonna 00:17:55.50\00:17:57.11 see some principles here or maybe 00:17:57.14\00:17:58.47 we can just read through this okay 00:17:58.50\00:17:59.90 and kind of take a look at what this 00:17:59.93\00:18:01.43 is actually telling us and so we can 00:18:01.46\00:18:04.19 start with verse 1 I'll read a few 00:18:04.22\00:18:05.96 verses and then maybe you can 00:18:05.99\00:18:07.03 read a few, it says in verse 1: 00:18:07.06\00:18:09.00 Receive one who is weak in the faith, 00:18:09.03\00:18:11.39 but not to dispute over doubtful things. 00:18:11.42\00:18:14.60 So, immediately right there, right, 00:18:14.63\00:18:17.18 Paul is talking about disputing over things 00:18:17.21\00:18:19.65 that really are issues that are 00:18:19.68\00:18:23.30 not doctrinal issues, right. 00:18:23.33\00:18:24.81 They are just kind of these doubtful things, 00:18:24.84\00:18:26.20 things that are in doubt, you know 00:18:26.23\00:18:28.77 I would say that more simple way 00:18:28.80\00:18:29.96 of explain that is why, why should Christians 00:18:29.99\00:18:32.86 fight over the date that Jesus is 00:18:32.89\00:18:34.87 coming back? Yes, yeah, does it mater, 00:18:34.90\00:18:37.20 no, no just be prepared, I mean Jesus 00:18:37.23\00:18:39.63 is coming soon, precisely. 00:18:39.66\00:18:40.63 But we shouldn't fight over 00:18:40.64\00:18:41.63 and all the things that are gonna 00:18:41.66\00:18:42.86 surround it on that either you know 00:18:42.89\00:18:44.00 surrounded. Now, this is really important 00:18:44.03\00:18:45.12 John, doubtful things because it's 00:18:45.15\00:18:46.55 sets one of the contacts that this 00:18:46.58\00:18:48.61 whole thing falls into, because there 00:18:48.64\00:18:50.41 are a couple things that people assume 00:18:50.44\00:18:52.22 that are not under doubt, they are not 00:18:52.25\00:18:54.45 doubtful, never have been, 00:18:54.48\00:18:55.89 never will be, so it's sets a context right 00:18:55.92\00:18:57.87 you know lot off the bat, right 00:18:57.90\00:18:59.06 there yes. So, we're not talking about 00:18:59.09\00:19:00.98 things that are, that are not in dispute, 00:19:01.01\00:19:03.20 yes. Okay, we're talking about things 00:19:03.23\00:19:04.57 that they're fighting over here, 00:19:04.60\00:19:06.06 let's go a little further. Verse 2: 00:19:06.09\00:19:09.38 For one believes he may eat all things, 00:19:09.41\00:19:11.68 but he who is weak eats only vegetables. 00:19:11.71\00:19:14.92 Let not him who eats despise him 00:19:14.95\00:19:17.87 who does not eat, and let not him 00:19:17.90\00:19:19.89 who does not eat judge him who eats; 00:19:19.92\00:19:22.34 for God has received him. But I mean 00:19:22.37\00:19:26.71 clearly right there you begin to think 00:19:26.74\00:19:27.98 of or try to apply this, give it some 00:19:28.01\00:19:31.03 context of what they're talking about. 00:19:31.06\00:19:32.34 And eating and not eating to me 00:19:32.37\00:19:36.88 that smells fasting, yeah I mean I'm 00:19:36.91\00:19:39.66 hearing fasting, people are fighting about 00:19:39.69\00:19:41.45 how you should fast here? 00:19:41.48\00:19:43.23 Which some people still do today 00:19:43.26\00:19:45.21 by the way you know well you know drink, 00:19:45.24\00:19:47.06 I only drink water yeah. 00:19:47.09\00:19:48.25 Or some people well I eat fruit, 00:19:48.28\00:19:50.50 it's a fruit fast or I don't know 00:19:50.53\00:19:52.04 whatever they, they determine 00:19:52.07\00:19:53.25 but this is going on back then. 00:19:53.28\00:19:54.40 The reason we run into problems 00:19:56.12\00:19:58.17 with this Pastor John is because people 00:19:58.20\00:20:01.04 read this and make a lot of assumptions. 00:20:01.07\00:20:02.91 They're assuming and you'll see further 00:20:02.94\00:20:05.53 on with some assumptions are 00:20:05.56\00:20:06.96 made we're thinking he must be 00:20:06.99\00:20:08.73 talking about this. When the Bible 00:20:08.76\00:20:10.57 doesn't state that he's talking 00:20:10.60\00:20:12.23 about that, that's right and to make 00:20:12.26\00:20:13.42 those assumptions kind of gets 00:20:13.45\00:20:14.46 you into some theological hard water 00:20:14.49\00:20:15.81 because you can built some premises 00:20:15.84\00:20:17.04 on this text that are really on 00:20:17.07\00:20:19.65 shaky ground. That's right, 00:20:19.68\00:20:20.85 well why don't you read on here, okay, 00:20:20.88\00:20:22.22 we're at 4. I'm in verse 4: 00:20:22.25\00:20:23.68 Who are you to judge another's servant? 00:20:24.60\00:20:26.54 To his own master he stands or falls. 00:20:27.35\00:20:30.90 Indeed, he will be made to stand, 00:20:30.93\00:20:33.60 for God is able to make him stand. 00:20:33.63\00:20:35.92 One person esteems one day above 00:20:35.95\00:20:38.78 another; another esteems every 00:20:38.81\00:20:40.76 day alike. Let each be fully convinced 00:20:40.79\00:20:43.49 in his own mind. He who observes 00:20:43.52\00:20:46.60 the day, observes it to the Lord; 00:20:46.63\00:20:48.06 and he who does not observe the day, 00:20:48.09\00:20:50.00 to the Lord he does not observe it. 00:20:50.03\00:20:52.13 He who eats, eats to the Lord, for he gives 00:20:52.16\00:20:55.73 God thanks; and he who does not eat 00:20:55.76\00:20:58.78 to the Lord he does not eat, 00:20:58.81\00:21:01.29 and gives God thanks. Okay, yeah now 00:21:01.32\00:21:05.44 what is being said, you know it's clearly 00:21:05.47\00:21:10.96 fasting just doesn't involve eating, 00:21:10.99\00:21:13.68 it involved back then what day you 00:21:13.71\00:21:16.38 fasted on. Right, yeah, yeah and so 00:21:16.41\00:21:20.29 that's what we're getting into here and 00:21:20.32\00:21:21.96 notice one thing is completely absent. 00:21:21.99\00:21:24.25 Let's just state this first of all yeah, 00:21:24.28\00:21:25.81 the Sabbath is completely absent 00:21:25.84\00:21:27.66 from this text. I'm glad you beat me there, 00:21:27.69\00:21:29.38 because what I was alluding to when 00:21:29.41\00:21:32.87 we talked about doubtful things. 00:21:32.90\00:21:34.08 The Sabbath is not under 00:21:34.11\00:21:35.59 discussion here, yeah the Sabbath was 00:21:35.62\00:21:37.15 not doubtful. This is a Pauline letter. 00:21:37.18\00:21:40.06 So we're not dealing with the Sabbath, 00:21:40.09\00:21:41.52 people assume when it says a day. 00:21:41.55\00:21:43.75 They're talking about the Sabbath, 00:21:43.78\00:21:45.41 but this is not because people 00:21:45.44\00:21:46.87 today do dispute, precisely Sabbath 00:21:46.90\00:21:48.77 issue. Yeah, but Paul is not disputing it, 00:21:48.80\00:21:50.64 Paul's not, because it's not under 00:21:50.67\00:21:51.64 disputation here. So, to read Sabbath 00:21:51.65\00:21:54.00 into that is to read something 00:21:54.03\00:21:55.26 into the text which is not there, 00:21:55.29\00:21:56.85 not talking about the Sabbath. 00:21:56.88\00:21:58.35 He's talking about the day you 00:21:58.38\00:21:59.91 choose to fast or the day I choose 00:21:59.94\00:22:01.59 to fast, remember the issue is eating 00:22:01.62\00:22:03.38 or not eating. Again an assumption 00:22:03.41\00:22:06.00 is made while we're talking about meat. 00:22:06.03\00:22:07.33 No, that's not stated here it's about 00:22:07.36\00:22:09.92 eating or not eating, so we make 00:22:09.95\00:22:12.63 a mistake when we read things 00:22:12.66\00:22:13.94 into this text and kind me gets 00:22:13.97\00:22:15.18 us into theological trouble and when 00:22:15.21\00:22:17.02 we do that. You know I may say as a 00:22:17.05\00:22:18.70 pastor that you know to congregation 00:22:18.73\00:22:21.14 some Sabbath, that next week 00:22:21.17\00:22:23.82 we're gonna have a couple days 00:22:23.85\00:22:25.55 of fasting. Because we really need 00:22:25.58\00:22:27.22 to draw close to the Lord we have 00:22:27.25\00:22:28.52 these issues that we're facing as a 00:22:28.55\00:22:29.61 church and I invite you to enter 00:22:29.64\00:22:32.48 into a fasting time, a fasting period 00:22:32.51\00:22:34.47 for a couple days with me next week. 00:22:34.50\00:22:35.68 And we get to those days and some 00:22:36.85\00:22:38.87 choose to fast and some don't choose 00:22:38.90\00:22:41.48 to fast right and then after that there 00:22:41.51\00:22:44.42 is all this discussion, this argument 00:22:44.45\00:22:45.96 about how so and so didn't eat or 00:22:45.99\00:22:48.61 didn't fast on that day. Yeah and then 00:22:48.64\00:22:50.53 there's arguments about well this person 00:22:50.56\00:22:52.21 fasted but you know what they actually 00:22:52.24\00:22:53.64 ate vegetables and things or fruit 00:22:53.67\00:22:56.40 while their fast was going on that 00:22:56.43\00:22:58.07 really wasn't a fast. Yeah, then you 00:22:58.10\00:22:59.61 have this big discussion about 00:22:59.64\00:23:00.66 you know did they do it right or not. 00:23:00.69\00:23:02.10 That's what's going on here, 00:23:02.13\00:23:03.90 it's going on here right. 00:23:03.93\00:23:05.22 That is to bring it to a common you 00:23:05.25\00:23:06.64 know day kind of a scenario, so this 00:23:06.67\00:23:09.44 very you know it is so easy to get 00:23:09.47\00:23:11.95 this confused with a discussion over 00:23:11.98\00:23:14.68 what day you chose to worship 00:23:14.71\00:23:16.84 or honor as the day of that is sacred 00:23:16.87\00:23:19.84 and holy, the Sabbath day. Yeah, 00:23:19.87\00:23:21.16 and when it's clearing talking here 00:23:21.19\00:23:23.25 about that, yes this has nothing 00:23:23.28\00:23:24.34 to do with the day you choose to worship, 00:23:24.37\00:23:25.73 it's all about the day you choose 00:23:25.76\00:23:27.59 to fast and if you're gonna fast 00:23:27.62\00:23:29.59 on a Tuesday you've respect for 00:23:29.62\00:23:30.75 that day, then I'm not to hold you 00:23:30.78\00:23:34.10 in contempt for the day you've chosen 00:23:34.13\00:23:36.81 to fast, it's an eat non-eat question, 00:23:36.84\00:23:39.21 not a meat non-meat question, 00:23:39.24\00:23:41.08 nor is it a Sabbath non-Sabbath question. 00:23:41.11\00:23:43.13 There you go yeah and if you 00:23:43.16\00:23:44.24 go a little further too you read 00:23:44.27\00:23:45.94 down here it talks about in verse 13: 00:23:45.97\00:23:52.56 Therefore let us not judge one another 00:23:52.59\00:23:54.62 anymore, but rather resolve this, 00:23:54.65\00:23:56.18 not to put a stumbling block or a 00:23:56.21\00:23:58.26 cause to fall in our brother's way. 00:23:58.29\00:24:00.06 You remember these aren't just one 00:24:01.07\00:24:02.78 principle, these are principles, 00:24:02.81\00:24:04.40 he's covering here and he seems 00:24:04.43\00:24:06.41 to shift gears because from 00:24:06.44\00:24:08.72 transitioning from 13 to 14 it says 00:24:08.75\00:24:10.73 there in 14: I know and I'm convinced 00:24:10.76\00:24:12.44 by the Lord Jesus that there is 00:24:12.47\00:24:13.75 nothing unclean of itself; 00:24:13.78\00:24:15.27 but to him who considers anything 00:24:16.11\00:24:17.33 to be unclean, to him it is unclean. 00:24:17.36\00:24:19.51 And it's talk about food all of the sudden, 00:24:19.54\00:24:22.01 now this is, gets into the not eating 00:24:22.04\00:24:23.55 or eating its the types of food, right. 00:24:23.58\00:24:25.41 So he shifts gears a little bit here. 00:24:25.44\00:24:27.45 And you almost start to think and 00:24:27.48\00:24:31.41 here's where you can read into 00:24:31.44\00:24:32.41 it too again, that okay now he's making 00:24:32.42\00:24:34.35 everything fair game for food. Yeah, 00:24:34.38\00:24:37.32 but again that's not in doubt back then, 00:24:37.35\00:24:39.93 right, they had a clear understanding 00:24:39.96\00:24:42.13 of what was clean and what was 00:24:42.16\00:24:43.29 not clean, that had been given them 00:24:43.32\00:24:45.36 way back after creation and after 00:24:45.39\00:24:48.04 the fall of course with Noah where 00:24:48.07\00:24:50.13 he's separate the clean from the 00:24:50.16\00:24:51.28 unclean there so. This isn't a debate 00:24:51.31\00:24:53.55 about what you can eat as far as 00:24:53.58\00:24:55.65 clean and unclean, the clean and 00:24:55.68\00:24:57.87 unclean is not defined as to what you're 00:24:57.90\00:25:00.02 reading its how that meat has been prepared. 00:25:00.05\00:25:03.05 And if you have any questions about the 00:25:04.43\00:25:06.35 validity of what I just said, just look up 00:25:06.38\00:25:09.71 First Corinthians chapter 8 and 00:25:09.74\00:25:11.68 chapter 10, because Paul starts 00:25:11.71\00:25:15.32 with the same words, they shouldn't 00:25:15.35\00:25:16.74 judge each other and don't to put a 00:25:16.77\00:25:18.70 stumbling block in front of their brother 00:25:18.73\00:25:20.68 and then he goes on to find what 00:25:20.71\00:25:22.58 that's about and that is about food 00:25:22.61\00:25:24.60 offered to idols, to idols right, right. 00:25:24.63\00:25:26.98 Not about the food you're talking about, 00:25:27.01\00:25:31.01 the actual food itself. Whether it would 00:25:31.04\00:25:32.59 be swine or whether it would be a clean 00:25:32.62\00:25:35.45 food like beef or something, yeah. 00:25:35.48\00:25:36.64 If you look at Paul's history. 00:25:36.67\00:25:37.90 Paul was by his own admission, 00:25:37.93\00:25:40.52 Pharisee of a Pharisee. Sabbath was not 00:25:40.55\00:25:43.04 an issue for Paul, unclean and clean 00:25:43.07\00:25:45.29 meat is not an issue for Paul. 00:25:45.32\00:25:46.57 The only issue there in that day 00:25:46.60\00:25:49.00 was you know you had these idols, 00:25:49.03\00:25:50.87 you have this statue, you had people 00:25:50.90\00:25:53.60 offering meat to that statue 00:25:53.63\00:25:55.07 which is there for a day or two then 00:25:55.10\00:25:56.40 they taken it back out and sell it and 00:25:56.43\00:25:57.96 then people would say well we're 00:25:57.99\00:25:59.32 not gonna eat that, it was offered 00:25:59.35\00:26:00.32 to that statue. But the question 00:26:00.33\00:26:02.85 is that statue is not a live thing, 00:26:02.88\00:26:04.77 it's nothing, it's nothing, we don't 00:26:04.80\00:26:06.92 even believe in that statue so the 00:26:06.95\00:26:08.21 fact that that steak sat in front 00:26:08.24\00:26:09.77 of that statue for two days means 00:26:09.80\00:26:11.44 nothing to that state because the 00:26:11.47\00:26:12.77 statue is just that, it's a statue yeah. 00:26:12.80\00:26:14.37 It's like putting the steak in front of a 00:26:14.40\00:26:17.39 door post, it means nothing. So why would 00:26:17.42\00:26:19.50 you have anything bad against that steak 00:26:19.53\00:26:23.25 because the statue means nothing, 00:26:23.28\00:26:24.81 so really to reject that meat actually 00:26:24.84\00:26:27.62 gives that statue more worth than it is, right, 00:26:27.65\00:26:30.10 and right. It's not worth anything, 00:26:30.13\00:26:31.10 so you buy it at a cut rate price and 00:26:31.11\00:26:33.48 there was some who said we shouldn't 00:26:33.51\00:26:35.11 touch that meat at all 'cause it's offered 00:26:35.14\00:26:36.35 to that idol, others said it makes no 00:26:36.38\00:26:38.61 difference I'm gonna eat anyway and 00:26:38.64\00:26:40.04 he was saying do not let this become 00:26:40.07\00:26:41.70 an error of condemnation, step away 00:26:41.73\00:26:43.84 from that because that shouldn't divide 00:26:43.87\00:26:46.18 us as Christians as people of God, 00:26:46.21\00:26:47.92 so let's not let that become an issue 00:26:47.95\00:26:49.35 that was the only issue not whether 00:26:49.38\00:26:51.26 Sabbath should be kept or unclean 00:26:51.29\00:26:53.80 meat should be eaten. Yeah, yeah 00:26:53.83\00:26:55.50 and when you get down to it, 00:26:55.53\00:26:56.56 if someone considers something 00:26:56.59\00:26:58.31 to be unclean because of an idol 00:26:58.34\00:27:00.59 and they've worshiped idols all their lives 00:27:00.62\00:27:02.50 and is an issue for them Paul's not 00:27:02.53\00:27:04.04 even saying go ahead you're at 00:27:04.07\00:27:05.05 liberality to eat he's saying it was 00:27:05.08\00:27:06.39 gonna be stumbling block to them right. 00:27:06.42\00:27:08.06 Don't force them to eat that food, 00:27:08.09\00:27:09.96 precisely right, don't argue and then 00:27:09.99\00:27:12.94 those who are eating it, for those who 00:27:12.97\00:27:14.53 don't think they should eat it, 00:27:14.56\00:27:15.72 don't accuse them of doing something 00:27:15.75\00:27:17.39 wrong either because they're at liberality 00:27:17.42\00:27:18.75 to eat whatever because that's not 00:27:18.78\00:27:20.07 an idol to them, it's nothing 00:27:20.10\00:27:21.07 yeah, yeah, yeah. And so when 00:27:21.08\00:27:22.33 he's saying here, you know to him 00:27:22.36\00:27:24.00 who's considering something clean or 00:27:24.03\00:27:25.85 unclean that's the issue, there maybe 00:27:25.88\00:27:28.25 a history of someone who has worshiped 00:27:28.28\00:27:30.54 idols and then to others idols are 00:27:30.57\00:27:32.28 nothing and so that's really the issue, 00:27:32.31\00:27:33.64 not can we eat swine or pig or can 00:27:33.67\00:27:38.28 you know should we just be sticking 00:27:38.31\00:27:39.73 with you know the clean meats beef and 00:27:39.76\00:27:41.34 chicken and so forth and so on, 00:27:41.37\00:27:42.79 precisely yeah. And we have a parallel 00:27:42.82\00:27:44.57 today I mean one of that touchy 00:27:44.60\00:27:45.84 issues even the short is music 00:27:45.87\00:27:47.91 when I was listening to two people talk 00:27:47.94\00:27:50.39 about some music the other day and 00:27:50.42\00:27:51.44 one was listening to a song and we're 00:27:51.47\00:27:53.75 being blessed by it and the other 00:27:53.78\00:27:55.31 person said that song reminds me of 00:27:55.34\00:27:57.50 something I used to do and every time 00:27:57.53\00:28:01.06 I hear that song it takes me back to 00:28:01.09\00:28:02.37 an activity I used to engage in that 00:28:02.40\00:28:03.83 which I no longer engage in as a 00:28:03.86\00:28:05.17 Christian, I cannot do that anymore, 00:28:05.20\00:28:06.54 well the other person didn't, initial person 00:28:06.57\00:28:09.46 didn't have that baggage so they had, 00:28:09.49\00:28:11.77 they had no connection between that 00:28:11.80\00:28:13.09 song and that other activity. 00:28:13.12\00:28:14.56 So they were blessed by it were 00:28:14.59\00:28:16.10 as person be connected that song 00:28:16.13\00:28:18.23 to a certain activity and we used 00:28:18.26\00:28:20.35 to smoke dope to that song so you know 00:28:20.38\00:28:22.07 to a song that sounded like that. 00:28:22.10\00:28:23.27 So, they decided I'll listen to it without 00:28:23.30\00:28:26.63 you know maybe headphone it doesn't 00:28:26.66\00:28:28.95 hear you because it takes you a place 00:28:28.98\00:28:30.12 you don't wanna go but I never smoke 00:28:30.15\00:28:31.65 dope so I don't have that connection 00:28:31.68\00:28:33.08 with that kind of song and that's 00:28:33.11\00:28:34.15 kind of what's being said, don't judge 00:28:34.18\00:28:35.93 each other, some people are weak, 00:28:35.96\00:28:37.30 certain things take them to a place 00:28:37.33\00:28:38.76 they don't wanna go. So, let's not 00:28:38.79\00:28:40.44 do anything that will enter somebody 00:28:40.47\00:28:42.39 else's Christian experience. 00:28:42.42\00:28:43.59 And those are great principles 00:28:43.62\00:28:45.07 that Paul needed to share with 00:28:45.10\00:28:46.56 the Church, precisely. When you got 00:28:46.59\00:28:47.90 a church that's got two cultures 00:28:47.93\00:28:49.43 merging will have it's core arguments 00:28:49.46\00:28:52.47 and debates and fights over 00:28:52.50\00:28:54.28 what's proper and what's not proper 00:28:54.31\00:28:55.84 and that's, we find that from 00:28:55.87\00:28:57.46 Romans through the rest of Paul's letters, 00:28:57.49\00:29:00.44 he's trying to keep them from 00:29:00.47\00:29:02.40 fighting over things that they shouldn't 00:29:02.43\00:29:04.03 be finding about and it tends to be 00:29:04.06\00:29:05.57 over traditional stuff. Traditions, 00:29:05.60\00:29:07.85 but they're not fighting over the 00:29:07.88\00:29:09.61 things that are not in doubt yeah, 00:29:09.64\00:29:11.03 clear doctrines. Doctrines of the 00:29:11.06\00:29:13.55 fourth commandment, the Seventh-Day 00:29:13.58\00:29:14.99 is the Sabbath, everybody knows 00:29:15.02\00:29:16.19 that right. I always say that the 00:29:16.22\00:29:18.24 reason why you know this isn't here 00:29:18.27\00:29:19.81 is 'cause if you look at Acts. 00:29:19.84\00:29:21.64 The Acts of the church what they did, 00:29:21.67\00:29:23.41 Acts has two words, two days spoken 00:29:24.69\00:29:27.42 of in them, one's called the Sabbath, 00:29:27.45\00:29:29.07 the other's called the first day. 00:29:29.10\00:29:30.25 That's all you need to know, precisely, 00:29:30.28\00:29:32.01 the first day is not the Sabbath, because 00:29:32.04\00:29:33.33 it's not called the Sabbath, right. 00:29:33.36\00:29:34.47 Which means that's the most simplest way. 00:29:34.50\00:29:37.64 We argue about, yeah, well the first 00:29:37.67\00:29:39.81 day must have been a Sabbath 00:29:39.84\00:29:40.95 gathering so now. Why are we even 00:29:40.98\00:29:43.93 getting there because the Sabbath is 00:29:43.96\00:29:45.91 spoken of there, always called Sabbath, 00:29:45.94\00:29:47.63 yes and it's called Sabbath this is the 00:29:47.66\00:29:49.28 Seventh-Day, the other is called the first day 00:29:49.31\00:29:51.33 who cares if there is a meeting, 00:29:51.36\00:29:52.33 it's called the first day, right, anyway so. 00:29:52.34\00:29:54.94 Sorry that just a, well we're not 00:29:56.17\00:29:59.17 gonna jump on that soap box and 00:29:59.20\00:30:00.61 you know it's just, it's the preacher in you. 00:30:00.64\00:30:03.19 Alright, well you know what we have a fun program 00:30:03.22\00:30:06.35 here to talk about because it's a program 00:30:06.38\00:30:08.05 that I hope will draw all of us closer 00:30:08.08\00:30:10.39 to our Lord and savior Jesus Christ 00:30:10.42\00:30:12.89 and in the tough times that we're living in 00:30:12.92\00:30:14.87 Pastor Murray we all need a closer relationship 00:30:14.90\00:30:17.73 with Jesus oh we do. And you know I 00:30:17.76\00:30:20.34 spend sometime as I was preparing for a message 00:30:20.37\00:30:23.38 on this subject I spend sometime on the Internet, 00:30:23.41\00:30:25.93 I spend sometime in some books 00:30:25.96\00:30:27.20 and I did some research on relationships at large. 00:30:27.23\00:30:31.55 Just you know how we improve relationships 00:30:31.58\00:30:33.95 with our family, with our friends, 00:30:33.98\00:30:35.07 with our spouse and other things. 00:30:35.10\00:30:36.07 And I found essentially seven basic ways 00:30:36.08\00:30:40.87 in which relationships improve, 00:30:40.90\00:30:42.86 that they draw people closer together 00:30:42.89\00:30:45.47 and this can be varying kinds of relationships. 00:30:45.50\00:30:48.06 But I believe that there is a spiritual application 00:30:48.09\00:30:50.23 in those principles, building relationships 00:30:50.26\00:30:54.51 that we can learn from when it comes to Jesus Christ 00:30:54.54\00:30:57.61 and having a closer relationship with him yeah. 00:30:57.64\00:30:59.89 And so what we're gonna talk about in 00:30:59.92\00:31:01.42 in these seven steps to a closer relationships 00:31:01.45\00:31:03.80 with Jesus are things that we can do that, 00:31:03.83\00:31:07.39 that we can do in our every day life 00:31:07.42\00:31:09.50 with our relationships around us. 00:31:09.53\00:31:11.38 But that we can also apply to our relationship 00:31:11.41\00:31:13.94 with Jesus to build a strong relationship 00:31:13.97\00:31:16.51 you know Pastor Murray I think one of that 00:31:16.66\00:31:19.15 the big issues that we have a difficult times 00:31:19.18\00:31:22.50 that we face and the anxiety we get not 00:31:22.53\00:31:26.15 having that peace is because our relationship 00:31:26.18\00:31:28.93 with Jesus tends to be up and down. 00:31:28.96\00:31:32.10 We've all had these strong times, 00:31:33.17\00:31:35.94 we can't be moved we're in our faith and sometimes 00:31:35.97\00:31:38.93 we're in the middle of trouble when that happens. 00:31:38.96\00:31:41.61 But we have these strong times 00:31:42.35\00:31:43.54 and all of a sudden, it's like something hits us 00:31:43.57\00:31:46.85 or maybe we get really busy and I'm a pastor 00:31:46.88\00:31:49.58 you know I'm studying the Bible everyday 00:31:49.61\00:31:50.84 anyway so I don't need my personal devotions, 00:31:50.87\00:31:52.54 I write out and do my stuff I've got to do 00:31:52.76\00:31:54.22 I mean you're at 3ABN sure you have people 00:31:54.25\00:31:56.86 experiencing that here. 00:31:56.89\00:31:57.86 Well, I work for God everyday so, 00:31:57.87\00:31:59.16 yeah, yeah the personal times sometime isn't there 00:31:59.19\00:32:01.69 and all of a sudden we find ourselves feeling little dry 00:32:01.72\00:32:05.12 and you know and we start praying you know Lord 00:32:05.15\00:32:08.90 where's that fire that you had lit in me 00:32:08.93\00:32:10.78 at one time at one time so I just pray today 00:32:10.81\00:32:14.06 that as we talk about some of these, 00:32:14.09\00:32:15.29 taking these steps to draw closer to Jesus 00:32:15.32\00:32:18.23 and have that stronger relationship. 00:32:18.26\00:32:19.73 That you be able to apply some of these 00:32:19.76\00:32:21.80 and get that strength yes, yes and defeat off 00:32:21.83\00:32:24.75 that abiding in Christ and that time with Christ 00:32:24.78\00:32:26.38 that we all need to spend to build the relationship 00:32:26.41\00:32:30.16 that we all want. 00:32:30.19\00:32:31.16 You know it's a matter of building and maintaining, 00:32:31.17\00:32:33.47 I don't know if it's tougher to get clean or to stay clean. 00:32:33.50\00:32:36.68 And anyone who's had a young child 00:32:36.71\00:32:38.45 who they cleaned up and told them don't go near this, 00:32:38.48\00:32:41.29 where I said to my grandson just the other day, 00:32:41.32\00:32:43.48 cleaned him up we're gonna take him 00:32:43.51\00:32:45.12 some place and turn you back 00:32:45.15\00:32:46.71 and he's into the jelly you know so we got him 00:32:46.74\00:32:49.01 clean but he couldn't stay clean. 00:32:49.04\00:32:50.56 And as Christian it's, it's, it's, it's work to establish 00:32:51.59\00:32:55.47 a relationship but then it's equal work to maintain 00:32:55.50\00:32:58.57 the relationship and that's the same way in marriages 00:32:58.60\00:33:00.14 you know you' establish relationship 00:33:00.17\00:33:01.63 then you've got to maintain the relationship. 00:33:01.66\00:33:03.22 And so it's two sides of the same coin really and so this, 00:33:03.25\00:33:06.13 this is building it and also maintaining it, 00:33:06.16\00:33:08.60 yeah you know. And the brand of Christianity 00:33:08.63\00:33:11.11 we see today often it focuses so much on the, 00:33:11.14\00:33:15.04 first of all having the relationship, 00:33:15.07\00:33:18.89 just getting in the relationship. 00:33:18.92\00:33:19.96 But we don't see a lot of emphasis on maintaining 00:33:19.99\00:33:22.12 the relationship yeah. 00:33:22.15\00:33:23.80 And we've almost taken that whole aspect out 00:33:23.83\00:33:28.36 that important, very important sanctification aspect out. 00:33:28.39\00:33:31.23 Yes, because we say well once you're saved, 00:33:31.26\00:33:32.86 you're always saved it's not a big deal. 00:33:32.89\00:33:34.31 So you know once I've got Jesus, 00:33:34.34\00:33:35.67 I've always got Jesus. 00:33:35.70\00:33:36.67 Yeah, and then there's no work at the relationship, 00:33:36.68\00:33:39.76 what if I told Rochelle the day after we were married 00:33:39.79\00:33:42.68 hey you know is Grey getting married to you, 00:33:42.71\00:33:44.57 if you need me call my home and my parents 00:33:44.60\00:33:48.23 will find out where I am and you know if I'm 00:33:48.26\00:33:50.77 busy or something. 00:33:50.80\00:33:51.77 You know I'll make an appointment 00:33:51.78\00:33:53.06 I'll come down and we'll see each other 00:33:53.09\00:33:54.17 and I mean is that a relationship 00:33:54.23\00:33:56.53 I mean is that working at a relationship 00:33:56.56\00:33:57.95 I think that wouldn't last very long 00:33:57.98\00:34:00.00 yeah that's how we started I probably 00:34:00.03\00:34:01.34 shouldn't do this, but I heard this really cute 00:34:01.37\00:34:02.80 story years ago a pastor told me this wife 00:34:02.83\00:34:05.56 took her husband to divorce court. 00:34:05.59\00:34:07.25 And the judge said why are you getting a divorce, 00:34:07.28\00:34:09.71 well she said well my husband hadn't told me 00:34:09.74\00:34:11.84 he love me for twenty five years, 00:34:11.87\00:34:13.27 you know we married twenty five years 00:34:13.74\00:34:15.11 he had never said it, and the husband said 00:34:15.14\00:34:16.48 well I told her, 00:34:16.51\00:34:17.59 I loved her forever when we got married. 00:34:17.62\00:34:20.26 And I figured that she gonna understand 00:34:20.29\00:34:22.70 that if I change my mind, 00:34:22.73\00:34:23.70 I'll let her know you know so she was supposed 00:34:23.71\00:34:26.16 to go off that first statement 00:34:26.19\00:34:27.24 and life doesn' work like that 00:34:27.27\00:34:28.69 in on earth, or in Heaven. 00:34:28.72\00:34:30.12 You know you've got to maintained 00:34:30.15\00:34:31.58 and you've got to keep affirming that 00:34:31.61\00:34:33.43 you're in love with Christ. 00:34:33.46\00:34:34.48 So these statements will get you to Christ 00:34:34.51\00:34:37.24 well then you've got to stay with him, 00:34:37.27\00:34:39.37 you've got to abide, you see that same thing 00:34:39.40\00:34:40.84 from John 5 you've got to abide in him very, 00:34:40.87\00:34:42.84 very much so. So, let's take a look at some, 00:34:42.87\00:34:45.45 some principles and we have some scriptures 00:34:45.48\00:34:46.50 here as well by no means they're meant 00:34:46.53\00:34:48.89 to be exhaust, you know exhausting the word 00:34:48.92\00:34:50.97 and in applying to each step that we talk 00:34:51.00\00:34:53.73 about here but I have just one text here 00:34:53.76\00:34:55.98 identified underneath each step 00:34:56.01\00:34:57.94 and we'll talk about this as we get along, 00:34:57.97\00:34:59.56 so seven steps to a closer relationship with Jesus. 00:34:59.59\00:35:02.69 Step one, know what you want, 00:35:02.72\00:35:05.38 know what you want out of the relationship 00:35:05.41\00:35:08.28 you know this is key it's something 00:35:08.82\00:35:10.38 I think we also often don't spend a lot of time with, 00:35:10.41\00:35:12.44 but see as I was getting ready for a revival series 00:35:12.47\00:35:17.54 here recently for my church. 00:35:17.57\00:35:18.75 I felt very impressed about something that 00:35:18.78\00:35:21.38 I'd never done before and usually don't start off 00:35:21.41\00:35:24.11 a revival series this way but God impressed me 00:35:24.14\00:35:28.30 talk about heaven, now I don't I've never had 00:35:28.33\00:35:33.14 a revival series where we spend the first night talking 00:35:33.17\00:35:35.81 about heaven yeah. 00:35:35.84\00:35:36.81 But the first day we spend as a church going 00:35:36.82\00:35:39.82 through our trip to heaven, 00:35:39.85\00:35:42.26 seeing our family and our friends, 00:35:42.29\00:35:44.47 meeting them again. 00:35:44.50\00:35:45.47 Wow, what we do on the way to heaven 00:35:45.48\00:35:47.47 when we get to heaven, 00:35:47.50\00:35:48.47 what we see the time we spend with Jesus or angels, 00:35:48.48\00:35:51.59 the house. We spend time looking at our house, 00:35:51.62\00:35:53.98 yeah the city that we lived in, 00:35:54.01\00:35:55.90 we walked through the city, 00:35:55.93\00:35:56.90 we spend time coming back to the new earth. 00:35:56.91\00:36:00.13 Living eternally in our new earth building 00:36:00.16\00:36:03.19 our own house, yes, and yes. 00:36:03.22\00:36:04.19 And just I mean everybody was so inspired by that, 00:36:04.20\00:36:08.39 I think what I was trying to establish in that day, 00:36:08.42\00:36:12.21 on that day was we need to know what we want yes. 00:36:12.24\00:36:16.49 We want to be in heaven yes, yes we wanna live 00:36:16.52\00:36:19.37 with Jesus forever, we wanna experience the joys 00:36:19.40\00:36:21.86 of living forever so that what we see around us 00:36:21.89\00:36:25.12 here on this earth just mean nothing compared 00:36:25.15\00:36:28.20 to where we're going and 00:36:28.30\00:36:29.27 what we're gonna get, yeah. 00:36:29.28\00:36:30.25 Now, that's a different but it's a very valid prospective 00:36:30.26\00:36:33.35 to look at the ultimate goal first 00:36:33.38\00:36:35.68 where do we want to go then okay 00:36:35.71\00:36:38.86 what are we prepared to do to get 00:36:38.89\00:36:41.48 where we want to go. 00:36:41.51\00:36:42.48 Now that actually is very inspired, 00:36:42.49\00:36:45.62 because it looks at what do you want, 00:36:45.65\00:36:47.41 do you want a relationship with Christ? 00:36:47.44\00:36:48.74 Do you want to be with Christ forever? 00:36:48.77\00:36:50.24 This is what the ultimate goal is. 00:36:50.27\00:36:52.97 Now what do we're gonna do to make sure 00:36:53.00\00:36:55.32 that happens? Yeah, sure, 00:36:55.35\00:36:56.77 the text I had down here on that is Isaiah 1:18: 00:36:56.80\00:37:00.32 Come now and let us reason together 00:37:00.35\00:37:03.29 and you know the text I spring boarded off 00:37:03.86\00:37:06.33 of for this whole thing is you know I have not seen, 00:37:06.36\00:37:09.29 nor have you heard, yes what God has prepared 00:37:09.32\00:37:13.21 for those who love him and so as we come together 00:37:13.24\00:37:17.22 and reason with God I think part of what he's offering us 00:37:17.25\00:37:19.44 what he's trying to tell us is he said you just don't know 00:37:19.47\00:37:22.78 the plans and the things that I have for you, 00:37:22.81\00:37:25.08 yeah and here let's talk about this 00:37:25.11\00:37:26.79 because the things that you want in your life 00:37:26.82\00:37:28.45 they don't only mean anything I mean I love you, 00:37:28.48\00:37:30.92 I created you, I want you here with me in heaven 00:37:30.95\00:37:33.30 come on let's talk about how we can get you there. 00:37:33.33\00:37:36.66 And through that experience I think 00:37:36.82\00:37:38.96 we can begin to know what we want out of 00:37:38.99\00:37:41.22 this relationship and know also that the God 00:37:41.25\00:37:44.85 that we serve and the Jesus who we now 00:37:44.88\00:37:47.48 are beginning to know is someone who can give us 00:37:47.51\00:37:50.29 everything that we could ever dream of, 00:37:50.32\00:37:52.00 yeah praise God. It's wonderful 00:37:52.03\00:37:53.87 you know you say okay Lord you're gonna, 00:37:53.90\00:37:55.70 you give me heaven, no more death, 00:37:55.73\00:37:57.82 no more sorrow, no more pain, 00:37:57.85\00:37:59.38 no more tax collectors, no more doctors, 00:37:59.87\00:38:01.86 no more nurses, sounds pretty good. 00:38:01.89\00:38:05.15 How we're gonna get that? Yeah, 00:38:05.18\00:38:07.27 you know oh okay I admit I want that, 00:38:07.30\00:38:09.58 it's much better then what I have now. 00:38:09.89\00:38:12.14 I ache, I'm getting old, I got taxes, 00:38:12.17\00:38:14.18 I can't pay my bills, my car's falling apart, 00:38:14.21\00:38:16.80 my body's falling apart, my life is falling apart, 00:38:16.83\00:38:18.59 my job is falling apart, my finance is falling apart. 00:38:18.62\00:38:21.05 I don't want this, I want that how we're gonna get that? 00:38:21.08\00:38:23.97 And God says okay here is how you do, 00:38:24.00\00:38:25.84 here is where we start. 00:38:25.87\00:38:26.84 I think why it's one of the reasons well let's talk 00:38:26.87\00:38:28.87 to young people here for a just a minute. 00:38:28.90\00:38:30.22 When I was young I thought I was invincible, 00:38:30.25\00:38:32.23 oh yeah I mean I had everything I wanted, 00:38:32.26\00:38:35.31 I was young I didn't have the aches and pains, 00:38:35.34\00:38:37.64 I had girlfriends, I had sports you know 00:38:37.67\00:38:41.10 heaven to me wasn't as attractive back then. 00:38:41.13\00:38:45.26 But as you get older, sounds pretty, 00:38:45.29\00:38:48.38 pretty good, it looks real, real good right about now. 00:38:48.41\00:38:51.99 And I'm sure we look even better as we get closer, 00:38:52.02\00:38:54.61 but you know I think what I'm saying by that is. 00:38:54.64\00:38:58.03 You know look at the experience of those 00:38:58.06\00:39:01.44 who have come through, yes you know the younger ages 00:39:01.47\00:39:04.18 and they understand now how important heaven is 00:39:04.21\00:39:06.85 and how good it looks and know that you're not 00:39:06.88\00:39:09.13 gonna live forever on this earth yeah as it's giving to 00:39:09.16\00:39:13.34 you or it has the devil paints the picture 00:39:13.37\00:39:14.99 for you right now. 00:39:15.02\00:39:15.99 And so I want to encourage you know young people 00:39:16.33\00:39:17.80 out there just start here, know what you want, 00:39:17.83\00:39:21.40 do you really want just your 30, 40, 50, 60 more 00:39:21.43\00:39:25.32 years that you have in this earth or do you want 00:39:25.35\00:39:27.55 eternally to live with Jesus and live 00:39:27.58\00:39:30.82 a life forever and we're talking about billions, 00:39:30.85\00:39:33.69 billions, billions, billions of years forever 00:39:33.72\00:39:36.26 I mean there is no end, right, right, that's 00:39:36.29\00:39:38.26 what we're looking for. 00:39:38.29\00:39:39.35 You got to make this sacrifice, I mean in college 00:39:39.38\00:39:41.23 they would tell us you know you may not like 00:39:41.26\00:39:43.22 being a manner, like to study the word, 00:39:43.25\00:39:44.81 but if you wanna get the point B 00:39:44.84\00:39:46.34 you've got to start here with A. 00:39:46.37\00:39:48.19 If you want heaven there are some things 00:39:48.22\00:39:50.64 that you have to do and what's good 00:39:50.67\00:39:53.02 about it as you don't have to do them alone. 00:39:53.05\00:39:54.94 The same God who holds out the reward 00:39:55.47\00:39:58.57 also assist you and getting that reward 00:39:58.60\00:40:01.52 so you've got how to get there 00:40:01.55\00:40:03.90 and you've got help in getting there. 00:40:03.93\00:40:06.67 So, that it's not impossible in fact he makes it 00:40:06.70\00:40:10.48 very, very possible through the death 00:40:10.51\00:40:11.84 of his son, yeah Amen. 00:40:11.87\00:40:13.71 Very, very good, let's take a look at step number 2, 00:40:13.74\00:40:16.98 honesty and transparency in any relationship 00:40:17.58\00:40:21.60 we've got to be honest and transparent 00:40:21.63\00:40:23.92 with the person we're having relationship it 00:40:23.95\00:40:25.90 goes that way with God, you can't hide from God. 00:40:25.93\00:40:30.47 Very true you know and that's, 00:40:31.82\00:40:33.58 I guess that's stating a fact okay we can't hide 00:40:33.61\00:40:36.24 from God, we know that officially but how often 00:40:36.27\00:40:39.43 do we do that and how we live our lives 00:40:39.46\00:40:42.25 in that we hide our sin. 00:40:42.28\00:40:43.57 You know we hide who we really are, 00:40:43.60\00:40:45.46 you know we don't wanna come out 00:40:45.49\00:40:47.12 and be open and honest with God 00:40:47.15\00:40:48.69 and in the way even though we know that 00:40:48.72\00:40:50.45 God intuitively, we know that God knows us 00:40:50.48\00:40:52.98 better than we know ourselves. 00:40:53.01\00:40:54.93 We're not honest with him at times, 00:40:54.96\00:40:58.07 and there is a text from Psalm 32 verse 5 00:40:58.10\00:41:02.93 is that where you're heading to now? 00:41:02.96\00:41:04.37 Actually I was heading to somewhere else, 00:41:04.40\00:41:06.38 to another text but I can jump back. 00:41:06.41\00:41:08.97 Well, let me read this one and then you keep 00:41:09.00\00:41:10.30 going where you're headed okay, Psalm 32:5: 00:41:10.33\00:41:12.60 I acknowledged my sin to You, 00:41:12.63\00:41:14.53 and my iniquity I have not hidden. 00:41:14.56\00:41:17.75 I said I will confess my transgressions to the Lord, 00:41:17.78\00:41:21.11 And You forgave the iniquity of my sin. 00:41:21.14\00:41:23.77 And so here we find the Psalm is open, 00:41:24.51\00:41:27.70 honest, transparent with God, 00:41:27.73\00:41:29.69 he recognizes, he's sinful, 00:41:29.72\00:41:31.58 he's got things that he cannot hide from him 00:41:31.61\00:41:33.76 and he says basically I'm yours, 00:41:33.79\00:41:36.28 I'm gonna be honest with you, 00:41:36.31\00:41:37.30 I'm messed up, I need help, 00:41:37.33\00:41:39.01 please do something, not only forgive me 00:41:39.04\00:41:41.55 but I'm ready to take the next step 00:41:41.58\00:41:43.62 with you however you see fit. 00:41:43.65\00:41:45.27 It's powerful, this idea of transparency and 00:41:45.30\00:41:48.79 I was wondering when you put that down, 00:41:48.93\00:41:50.18 I saw it here, exactly what you had in mind. 00:41:50.21\00:41:52.61 But it is at First John 1:9 If we confess our sins, 00:41:52.64\00:41:55.79 you cannot hide them from God see might as well 00:41:55.82\00:41:58.64 open your hand and let him see what you're holding 00:41:58.67\00:42:00.47 you know be very transparent and so doing you free 00:42:00.50\00:42:05.17 yourself you know. You open yourself 00:42:05.20\00:42:07.13 and say Lord I know I'm a sinner, 00:42:07.16\00:42:08.54 I can't do this without you I see 00:42:08.57\00:42:10.96 what you want from me, but I can't even approach 00:42:10.99\00:42:13.53 that without your help, without your presence, 00:42:13.56\00:42:15.50 without your power, this is what I'm. 00:42:15.53\00:42:17.46 I'm not righteous, I'm not holy, I'm not good, 00:42:17.49\00:42:20.26 but I want to be what you want me to be. 00:42:20.29\00:42:23.09 Yeah, and if you start there then you're precisely 00:42:23.12\00:42:25.48 where God wants you, that's the starting 00:42:25.51\00:42:26.82 point that God wants you to be at, 00:42:26.85\00:42:28.05 well you say I'm nothing, you're everything 00:42:28.08\00:42:30.53 I become something when I take my nothingness 00:42:30.56\00:42:32.84 and give it to your there I say everything there 00:42:32.87\00:42:35.74 is a chance if I can coin that term when I unite, 00:42:35.77\00:42:38.09 when I lack with what you have 00:42:38.12\00:42:39.87 then I become sufficient Amen, yeah. 00:42:39.90\00:42:42.12 You know the other, the other true is that 00:42:42.15\00:42:43.93 you know often we can have our relationship with Jesus 00:42:43.96\00:42:46.44 and maybe have been living according to what his, 00:42:46.47\00:42:49.65 according to what the Bible tells us how to live 00:42:49.68\00:42:52.74 for a long, long time maybe throughout our life 00:42:52.77\00:42:55.14 we've been a good person. 00:42:55.17\00:42:56.66 But we can almost get in this thing 00:42:56.91\00:42:58.97 where is not how bad we've been but 00:42:59.02\00:43:01.91 maybe we think we're so good yeah. 00:43:01.94\00:43:04.24 And then at the same time on that side 00:43:05.04\00:43:07.09 we're not honest with God either, 00:43:07.12\00:43:08.45 yeah, because you know if you say you've no sin 00:43:08.48\00:43:11.74 you're a lair. So, you know you can get to 00:43:11.77\00:43:16.39 that part of it too where you know 00:43:16.42\00:43:18.16 you're not being honest and transparent with God 00:43:18.19\00:43:19.70 thinking that you're all holy yeah 00:43:19.73\00:43:21.53 and you doing just fine yeah, 00:43:21.56\00:43:22.70 but if God were to really look at you 00:43:22.73\00:43:25.14 without the righteousness with Christ 00:43:25.17\00:43:26.44 you're in badshape. 00:43:26.47\00:43:27.94 You know, that's a very important point 00:43:27.97\00:43:30.05 because it is so easy for us deceive ourselves 00:43:30.08\00:43:32.27 if we look around us we will always find 00:43:33.08\00:43:35.61 ways that we're superior to those around us, 00:43:35.64\00:43:38.92 you know, you know you put on your, 00:43:38.95\00:43:41.74 brush your teeth come here, put on your suit, 00:43:41.77\00:43:43.88 you dress, you go to church on Sabbath morning 00:43:43.91\00:43:45.94 or whatever the other day and you say 00:43:45.97\00:43:48.25 you know what? I'm not so bad, yeah. 00:43:48.28\00:43:50.73 I haven't killed anybody, I don't drink, 00:43:50.76\00:43:52.05 I don't smoke, and I'm not Adolf Hitler. 00:43:52.08\00:43:53.69 You know, I'm not so bad and you can deceive 00:43:53.72\00:43:57.70 yourself into thinking that it is your righteousness 00:43:57.73\00:44:00.58 that commends you to God 00:44:00.61\00:44:02.12 and it does not the only thing that commends 00:44:02.15\00:44:03.96 you to God is your unrighteousness. 00:44:03.99\00:44:05.88 Yeah, in fact that you're so bad 00:44:05.91\00:44:08.03 and even when you say I'm not 00:44:08.06\00:44:09.66 so bad that's filthy rags you are that bad, 00:44:09.69\00:44:12.25 yeah and the starting point is saying Lord 00:44:12.28\00:44:14.46 I am undone and I need you and I cannot help to, 00:44:14.49\00:44:18.22 hope to serve you unless I have your spirit 00:44:18.25\00:44:20.44 and your power. You know sometimes 00:44:20.47\00:44:22.15 I catch a glimpse even as a pastor 00:44:22.18\00:44:24.05 and you probably have done this too, 00:44:24.08\00:44:25.81 you catch a glimpse of what you could be 00:44:25.84\00:44:27.56 without Christ, it's almost like God lets you 00:44:27.59\00:44:30.98 every once in while see a little bit of what you're 00:44:31.01\00:44:32.71 capable of without him. And so sometimes 00:44:32.74\00:44:36.00 I find where does that come from, 00:44:36.03\00:44:38.60 you know well, it maybe its anger 00:44:38.63\00:44:40.81 you know it just gets angry at the situation 00:44:40.84\00:44:42.27 I start you know talking about you know 00:44:42.30\00:44:44.73 man I just, this guy is just driving me crazy, 00:44:44.76\00:44:47.73 I can't stand with him which just leave 00:44:47.76\00:44:49.40 and Rochelle will say you know you need 00:44:49.43\00:44:52.41 to pray for him and I, I catch myself 00:44:52.44\00:44:54.80 right there I say you know why am I thinking 00:44:54.83\00:44:56.40 that way you know I shouldn't be capable of that, 00:44:56.43\00:44:59.47 aren't I righteous now, yeah. 00:44:59.50\00:45:00.86 But at any moment in time yeah without Christ 00:45:00.89\00:45:04.11 we're in bad shape. Just the other day coming 00:45:04.14\00:45:06.92 in from a long trip, coming in from Evansville airport, 00:45:06.95\00:45:09.03 someone cut me off under the parking lot 00:45:09.06\00:45:11.11 and missed me by a foot and never saw me, 00:45:11.14\00:45:14.70 just drove by and I caught myself what a, 00:45:14.73\00:45:18.62 and you know you don't even finish the sentence 00:45:20.61\00:45:22.72 because the Lord you know catches you. 00:45:22.75\00:45:24.40 But for the grace of God and you know 00:45:24.43\00:45:28.52 you do get this glimpse, I think the Lord allows 00:45:28.55\00:45:30.91 those kinds of things to happen so that 00:45:30.94\00:45:32.17 you remember just to stay in an attitude 00:45:32.20\00:45:35.46 of prayer but also that the need of Christ 00:45:35.49\00:45:38.99 is moment by moment it is constant 00:45:39.02\00:45:41.56 because at any second when you figure 00:45:41.59\00:45:43.28 I've got it made, I've got it done then 00:45:43.31\00:45:45.77 Satan will come along and show you that 00:45:45.80\00:45:47.79 you're undone and you don't have it 00:45:47.82\00:45:49.33 made and that you really, really need Jesus, 00:45:49.36\00:45:51.52 yeah, yeah. That's very, very true, 00:45:51.55\00:45:54.93 the third step here in the seven steps 00:45:54.96\00:45:57.25 is acceptance, is acceptance. 00:45:57.28\00:45:59.77 I have here Matthew 11:28: Come to Me, 00:45:59.80\00:46:02.95 all ye who labor and are heavy laden, 00:46:02.98\00:46:04.37 and I will give you rest. 00:46:04.57\00:46:05.54 Oh yes, Jesus makes no restrictions here, 00:46:05.55\00:46:07.47 he says also where you mention this text 00:46:07.50\00:46:09.38 I think in a earlier program that he will 00:46:09.41\00:46:11.31 in no ways cast anyone else who comes to him, 00:46:11.34\00:46:13.45 yes, yes. So, the objective here isn't that although 00:46:13.48\00:46:17.53 we acknowledge our sin, the objective isn't 00:46:17.56\00:46:19.62 to clean our sin up ourselves it is to, 00:46:19.65\00:46:23.41 to allow God to accept us for who we are. 00:46:23.44\00:46:27.37 But also to accept who we are, yes, 00:46:27.40\00:46:30.71 I accept myself as sinner but I also accept 00:46:30.74\00:46:33.43 that Jesus doesn't wanna leave me there 00:46:33.46\00:46:35.54 as a sinner the way that I am and so acceptance 00:46:35.57\00:46:38.48 is a big part of moving forward in our relationship. 00:46:38.51\00:46:42.35 Very, very true the Bible is a great balancing book, 00:46:42.38\00:46:45.22 it doesn't allow you to think too low of yourself 00:46:45.25\00:46:48.86 because you're been purchased by 00:46:48.89\00:46:50.30 the blood of Christ. 00:46:50.33\00:46:51.30 But it also doesn't allow you to think 00:46:51.31\00:46:53.16 too high of yourself because then you will think 00:46:53.19\00:46:55.66 that the victory is yours and not his. 00:46:55.69\00:46:57.80 Yeah, so it balances you, you know it keeps 00:46:57.83\00:47:00.19 you in balance and without knowing that Jesus 00:47:00.22\00:47:02.42 accepts us, if we stop at number 2 00:47:02.45\00:47:05.83 and then we get to 3 and we end we don't know 00:47:05.86\00:47:08.05 that he accepts us we can't go any further yeah, yeah. 00:47:08.08\00:47:10.50 So, acceptance isn't just myself accepting for me 00:47:10.53\00:47:13.52 who I am but its Jesus accepting me 00:47:13.55\00:47:15.12 for who I was yes. 00:47:15.15\00:47:16.70 Knowing that he can transform me too 00:47:16.73\00:47:18.75 so know this you know to draw closer to Christ 00:47:18.78\00:47:21.71 you've got to know that he does accept you 00:47:21.74\00:47:23.83 as you are right now. 00:47:23.86\00:47:24.83 And then of course moves you along that, 00:47:26.16\00:47:27.72 it keeps your courage up to know that 00:47:27.75\00:47:30.04 you haven't gone too far, you haven't done too much, 00:47:30.07\00:47:32.85 you're not too dirty, you're not too disgusting, 00:47:32.88\00:47:35.14 too foul for Christ to reach down, 00:47:35.17\00:47:37.05 you haven't gone so far that his hand cannot 00:47:37.08\00:47:38.70 reach down and draw you back, 00:47:38.73\00:47:41.10 and that's a comforting thing to know that 00:47:41.13\00:47:42.63 when you come he's right there with open arms. 00:47:42.66\00:47:44.72 Amen, yeah talk about number 4 here, 00:47:44.75\00:47:47.54 why don't you go ahead, communications. 00:47:47.57\00:47:49.12 Communication rather, to pray without ceasing, 00:47:49.15\00:47:53.90 it's a loaded one, but communication 00:47:53.93\00:47:59.56 is so important yeah. Oh it is, 00:47:59.59\00:48:01.29 it is two way to talk to him and then to listen 00:48:01.32\00:48:04.61 to him and then to follow what, where he leads. 00:48:04.64\00:48:07.25 You know, you have to communicate with Rochelle, 00:48:07.28\00:48:10.43 I have to communicate with Irma my wife. 00:48:10.46\00:48:13.64 And I say, you have to, you want to, 00:48:13.67\00:48:16.03 part of loving relationship, part of maintaining 00:48:16.06\00:48:18.32 the relationship is communication to talk through 00:48:18.35\00:48:21.03 the differences. It really harkens back 00:48:21.06\00:48:23.25 to a very first text, come let us reason together, 00:48:23.28\00:48:25.50 God is saying this I'm asking of you is, is reasonable, 00:48:25.53\00:48:29.41 it's our reasonable service. 00:48:29.44\00:48:31.12 You know, Romans 12:01, we are living sacrifices, 00:48:31.15\00:48:35.92 wholly accept what's a reasonable service, 00:48:35.95\00:48:38.51 it is not unreasonable for God to say to you 00:48:38.54\00:48:41.13 I made you, I created you, you are mine, 00:48:41.16\00:48:44.26 I've purchased you. Here is how I want you to 00:48:44.29\00:48:46.55 function and if you function this way 00:48:46.58\00:48:48.36 I have a reward for you and the reward is the 00:48:48.39\00:48:51.58 inevitable consequence of living the life that 00:48:51.61\00:48:54.40 I've asked you to live, if you live this way 00:48:54.43\00:48:56.09 this is what's gonna happen and I've died to make 00:48:56.12\00:48:58.65 sure that it happens. So if you follow me 00:48:58.68\00:49:00.95 I will lead you safely home. And if you think about 00:49:00.98\00:49:03.60 this four steps communication, 00:49:03.63\00:49:05.12 I would venture to say that anybody that has has friends. 00:49:05.15\00:49:09.55 The closest friends are the ones that they 00:49:09.58\00:49:12.39 communicate with the most; right it makes sense 00:49:12.42\00:49:15.36 oh yes so if we wanna make Jesus our best friend. 00:49:15.39\00:49:18.37 One that we depend upon, we need to pray 00:49:18.40\00:49:21.49 and communicate with him at all times, 00:49:21.52\00:49:23.39 it's something that happens constantly 00:49:23.42\00:49:26.23 and when it says prayer without ceasing, 00:49:26.26\00:49:27.67 we're not talking about getting on your knees 00:49:27.70\00:49:28.85 all day in prayer. As we know that some 00:49:28.88\00:49:31.19 have interpreted that to mean that in the past. 00:49:31.22\00:49:33.56 But it's a, it's an open line of communication 00:49:33.59\00:49:37.72 with God throughout our day, that no matter 00:49:37.75\00:49:39.91 what comes our way we're always immediately 00:49:39.94\00:49:42.41 our mind is going to you know the fact that Jesus 00:49:42.44\00:49:45.83 is very near. And we can talk with him 00:49:45.86\00:49:47.28 about what's going on in our life, 00:49:47.31\00:49:48.75 yeah, yeah, I think you point is well taken 00:49:48.78\00:49:51.18 the best friends are ones that we, 00:49:51.21\00:49:52.59 I've a very good friend I grew up with him, 00:49:52.62\00:49:53.97 his name is Holbrooke, he lives in Ohio. 00:49:54.00\00:49:55.94 I don't get to see him much and we talking 00:49:55.97\00:49:57.53 through email, you know we communicate 00:49:57.56\00:49:58.87 but we're not in each others company 00:49:58.90\00:50:00.83 and I miss that and I know there are things, 00:50:00.86\00:50:03.03 his kids are growing up, going to school, 00:50:03.06\00:50:04.37 I'm missing that kind of thing, 00:50:04.40\00:50:05.47 I got some friends back in New York 00:50:05.50\00:50:07.21 that I miss and we communicate 00:50:07.24\00:50:09.33 but it's not like being in each others 00:50:09.36\00:50:11.06 company all the time. And that's the way 00:50:11.09\00:50:13.51 it is with Jesus you can't, you can't be with 00:50:13.54\00:50:15.92 Christ from afar, Christ works better up-close 00:50:15.95\00:50:19.40 you know he wants to be close. 00:50:19.43\00:50:20.44 I was saying something to somebody other day 00:50:20.47\00:50:21.94 when you're on route 57 you don't want to get 00:50:21.97\00:50:24.74 too closer to the car in front of you that's 00:50:24.81\00:50:26.35 a dangerous, but with Jesus you want to 00:50:26.38\00:50:28.43 bumper to bumper you know you want to get right 00:50:28.46\00:50:30.61 upon him so that when he turns left you go left, 00:50:30.64\00:50:32.08 when he goes right you go right, 00:50:32.11\00:50:33.34 you wanna be as close as you possibly can 00:50:33.37\00:50:35.38 and that's the safest way to be with Christ 00:50:35.41\00:50:37.30 yeah, yeah. Communication is so essential 00:50:37.33\00:50:39.80 in fact if you look at those, the different armor 00:50:39.83\00:50:41.73 you know people at six there is actually a seventh. 00:50:41.76\00:50:44.27 At the end it says and praying yes, 00:50:44.30\00:50:47.94 so you know if you're out in a battle field 00:50:47.97\00:50:51.08 and there wasn't someone with a radio communicating 00:50:51.11\00:50:53.13 with the commander as to where to go 00:50:53.16\00:50:54.31 and you have their contact, doesn't matter 00:50:54.34\00:50:56.25 what armor you have, you're sunk, oh yeah. 00:50:56.28\00:50:58.59 You've got to communicate yeah. 00:50:58.62\00:50:59.91 Number 5, trust then you moves to trust. 00:51:00.33\00:51:02.73 Notice we're getting closer and more intimate 00:51:02.76\00:51:06.19 with every step in our relationship with Jesus 00:51:06.22\00:51:08.51 it says in John 6:29 that Jesus answered 00:51:08.54\00:51:12.07 and said to them, This is the work of God, 00:51:12.10\00:51:14.04 that you believe in him, whom he sent, 00:51:14.07\00:51:16.63 he's not talking about that you acknowledge him 00:51:16.66\00:51:18.79 as God or the fact that he exists but that 00:51:18.82\00:51:22.99 you put your trust in him. 00:51:23.02\00:51:24.71 Now this is something that we know, 00:51:25.49\00:51:28.85 we hear it all the time, we got to have faith, 00:51:28.88\00:51:31.73 we know this. But how many times 00:51:31.76\00:51:34.01 when we're tested by something, 00:51:34.04\00:51:35.92 when we've trail, when we've a struggle 00:51:35.95\00:51:37.78 that we forgot to go to God first, 00:51:37.81\00:51:40.04 that we try to work things out 00:51:40.07\00:51:41.77 and figured things out ourselves to change 00:51:41.80\00:51:44.14 the circumstances of the trouble we're in. 00:51:44.17\00:51:46.19 And we're not trusting God to work it out 00:51:46.22\00:51:50.45 and I'm think 00:51:50.93\00:51:52.77 that's probably very applicable here to know 00:51:52.80\00:51:54.42 I have confidence that all things work together for good. 00:51:54.45\00:51:57.26 Precisely, precisely, when we think about trust, 00:51:57.29\00:52:00.23 John we're thinking about putting your weight 00:52:00.26\00:52:02.73 on someone you know leaning on someone. 00:52:02.76\00:52:04.70 God says put your weight on me, 00:52:04.73\00:52:06.81 trust me it's not enough to just say they trust 00:52:06.84\00:52:10.68 me but lean on me, put your weight on me. 00:52:10.71\00:52:12.31 We came in today and we sat in these chairs, 00:52:12.34\00:52:14.60 we assumed that they would hold us, 00:52:14.63\00:52:16.90 that we wouldn't end up on the floor, 00:52:16.93\00:52:18.36 we trusted the chairs to hold us. 00:52:18.39\00:52:20.10 Well, it's same with Jesus, put your weight on him, 00:52:20.13\00:52:23.00 rest in him, relax in him and assume 00:52:23.03\00:52:25.96 know that he will hold you, he's able to keep 00:52:25.99\00:52:29.07 that which you commit to him. 00:52:29.10\00:52:30.16 Even though struggles, even though the wind 00:52:30.19\00:52:31.98 we're talking about the storms blowing around, 00:52:32.01\00:52:33.48 oh yes, put your trust in him and you know 00:52:33.51\00:52:36.06 God operates his blessings, his miracles, 00:52:36.09\00:52:39.37 the things that he does for us. 00:52:39.40\00:52:40.70 Operate in the environment of faith, 00:52:40.73\00:52:42.96 very much so, so when you take away the trust, 00:52:42.99\00:52:45.53 when you take away your faith. 00:52:45.56\00:52:46.70 You don't put your faith in Christ; 00:52:46.73\00:52:48.26 there's no room for him to operate. 00:52:48.29\00:52:50.98 Yeah, you defraud him of a chance to bless you, 00:52:51.01\00:52:53.60 yeah because you're not stepping out in faith with him 00:52:53.63\00:52:55.88 yeah like several times healing is another thing, 00:52:55.91\00:52:58.32 he says according to your faith. 00:52:58.35\00:52:59.61 You know so according to how you exercise your faith 00:52:59.64\00:53:02.87 these blessings and these things comes. 00:53:02.90\00:53:04.48 So trust is something very important as the next step, 00:53:04.51\00:53:07.27 the fifth step in having a closer relationship 00:53:07.30\00:53:10.26 with Jesus. Now, number 6, we have two more, 00:53:10.29\00:53:12.38 number 6 time, time. Oh! Yes, spending time with Jesus, 00:53:12.41\00:53:16.95 now I'm not talking about communication here, 00:53:16.98\00:53:18.36 communication is different than time. 00:53:18.39\00:53:19.65 Communication is talking with him about you know 00:53:19.68\00:53:22.18 your needs and hearing his voice and 00:53:22.21\00:53:23.88 communicating with you. But spending time 00:53:23.91\00:53:26.32 with him is just practicing his presence, 00:53:26.35\00:53:28.38 knowing that he's here and just abiding 00:53:28.41\00:53:32.90 in his presence and that's the text I used, 00:53:32.93\00:53:34.72 do you have that one there John 15:4: 00:53:34.75\00:53:36.55 "Abide in Me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear 00:53:36.58\00:53:39.75 fruit of itself unless it abides in the vine, 00:53:39.78\00:53:42.61 neither can you unless you abide in Me." 00:53:42.64\00:53:46.40 Powerful and very simple, very linear, 00:53:46.88\00:53:47.85 we're gonna have to spend time together, 00:53:49.24\00:53:51.76 we're going to have to be in each others company, 00:53:51.79\00:53:54.38 we're going to have to communicate, 00:53:54.41\00:53:56.36 we will have to talk to you each other, 00:53:56.39\00:53:57.61 we will have listen to each other, 00:53:57.64\00:53:59.25 we will have act on those things which come out 00:53:59.28\00:54:02.16 of the dialogue and when we do that 00:54:02.19\00:54:04.36 we put in quality time and we're drawn 00:54:04.39\00:54:06.77 closer together. Know I can know you unless 00:54:06.80\00:54:08.92 I listen to you and speak to you I can't 00:54:08.95\00:54:12.11 know you through osmosis, I cannot know you 00:54:12.14\00:54:14.29 through just looking at you though 00:54:14.32\00:54:17.22 I can know something about you, right, 00:54:17.25\00:54:18.68 to know you I'm gonna have to talk to you 00:54:18.71\00:54:21.22 and you will have to talk to me, 00:54:21.25\00:54:22.30 we're gonna have to put in the hours necessary 00:54:22.33\00:54:24.92 to understand each other. Cannot do it any other way. 00:54:24.95\00:54:27.49 You really can't, the other aspect too 00:54:27.52\00:54:29.57 I think about sometimes as we often 00:54:29.60\00:54:31.59 separate our secular from our spiritual time. 00:54:31.62\00:54:34.26 You know we have this thing on your mind, 00:54:34.29\00:54:36.65 we can't, we compartmentalize or the Sabbath 00:54:36.68\00:54:38.79 is over or this time our worship is over 00:54:38.82\00:54:40.83 and so now let's move with the secular. 00:54:40.86\00:54:42.57 But God doesn't want us to say bye, right. 00:54:42.60\00:54:45.51 He wants us to say okay now Lord, 00:54:45.54\00:54:46.86 Jesus come with me into the next thing that I do 00:54:46.89\00:54:48.82 and that's the time all day that we spend, yeah, 00:54:48.85\00:54:51.80 yeah with God. No byes with God, 00:54:51.83\00:54:53.80 you're in his presence all the time 00:54:53.83\00:54:55.58 and even when you're doing secular activities 00:54:55.61\00:54:57.44 there is a God presence with you, 00:54:57.47\00:54:59.72 you're aware of it, you're communicating with him, 00:54:59.75\00:55:01.81 you're asking for strength and receiving strength 00:55:01.84\00:55:03.60 from him, so probably keep us from doing a lot 00:55:03.63\00:55:05.14 of things that we shouldn't do, precisely, exactly. 00:55:05.17\00:55:07.48 And the last one step number 7, love in action, 00:55:07.51\00:55:10.79 another way of saying this is service. 00:55:10.82\00:55:12.23 Okay, so love in our relationship 00:55:12.26\00:55:15.49 as we've got closer to him and we've been spending 00:55:15.52\00:55:17.81 doing these things to have a more intimate relationship 00:55:17.84\00:55:20.38 with Jesus, we get to this point where we've to 00:55:20.41\00:55:22.99 put something out now. We've to return the love, 00:55:23.02\00:55:25.76 we've to show our gratitude and express our love 00:55:25.79\00:55:28.21 for Jesus. And the Bible says, if you love me, 00:55:28.24\00:55:31.21 keep my commandments, there is a the response 00:55:31.24\00:55:33.77 to love is the doing and so when I say love 00:55:33.80\00:55:37.21 in action here's the seventh step I'm saying 00:55:37.24\00:55:39.37 you know our service is the way that we draw closer 00:55:39.40\00:55:42.00 to Jesus because we build a dependence 00:55:42.03\00:55:44.98 in everything we do on that relationship. 00:55:45.01\00:55:47.30 And of course the action comes as and only 00:55:47.33\00:55:50.38 as we have fallen in love with him, 00:55:50.41\00:55:52.39 any other kind of service, kind a defrauds him, 00:55:52.42\00:55:55.30 you don't wanna serve the Lord with 00:55:55.33\00:55:57.30 your fist clenched or because you feel 00:55:57.33\00:56:00.41 you're forced to, it must be a service that is, 00:56:00.44\00:56:02.73 is motivated by a loving relationship with the Lord. 00:56:02.76\00:56:06.13 And you know a lot of times we get ourselves 00:56:06.16\00:56:08.37 in trouble anyway, by serving the Lord 00:56:08.40\00:56:11.56 or trying to serve him without spending time 00:56:11.59\00:56:13.44 in these other six steps. 00:56:13.47\00:56:14.92 You know we don't spend the time with the Lord, 00:56:14.95\00:56:17.32 we don't time also involves in this word 00:56:17.35\00:56:19.52 by the way we didn't mention that, 00:56:19.55\00:56:20.61 but we don't talk to the Lord as we should 00:56:20.64\00:56:22.55 and pray and we don't realize that we need to be 00:56:22.58\00:56:25.33 open and transparent and then all of a sudden 00:56:25.36\00:56:27.57 you know we except that we can just go out 00:56:27.60\00:56:28.79 and serve being empty, yeah. 00:56:28.82\00:56:30.38 And we need the other steps before we can 00:56:30.41\00:56:33.47 serve him, but at the same time we need service 00:56:33.50\00:56:36.75 to cap off the other things to get closer to Jesus, yeah, 00:56:36.78\00:56:38.92 yeah. Trying to do it any other way, 00:56:38.95\00:56:41.47 makes you a miserable person and certainly 00:56:41.50\00:56:43.79 a miserable Christian. If you trying to serve 00:56:43.82\00:56:46.13 the Lord without talking with him, 00:56:46.16\00:56:47.31 without receiving Holy Spirit, without communicating 00:56:47.34\00:56:49.61 with him, without trusting him, 00:56:49.64\00:56:50.70 you're doing it because you're afraid 00:56:50.73\00:56:52.97 or because you're feeling forced to 00:56:53.00\00:56:54.72 or some other reason that falls short of a 00:56:54.75\00:56:57.35 loving relationship, it makes you 00:56:57.38\00:56:58.62 really a miserable person, makes it work 00:56:58.65\00:57:01.07 and legalism and not righteousness 00:57:01.10\00:57:03.91 and makes really heaven an impossible thing. 00:57:03.94\00:57:08.24 You just cannot do it without the spirit of God 00:57:08.27\00:57:10.99 in your life, that's right yeah. 00:57:11.02\00:57:12.44 You know friends, God's word says in John 17:3: 00:57:12.90\00:57:16.64 That this is eternal life: that they may know you, 00:57:16.67\00:57:19.88 the only true God, and Jesus Christ, 00:57:19.91\00:57:22.28 whom you have sent. Our objected to hear 00:57:22.31\00:57:24.49 today in giving you these seven steps 00:57:24.52\00:57:26.11 of a closer relationship with Jesus 00:57:26.14\00:57:28.19 is to know him better. May God bless you 00:57:28.22\00:57:30.44 as you put that into practice in your life today. 00:57:30.47\00:57:32.81