Hi there kids I am so glad to see you today. 00:00:01.98\00:00:04.29 Welcome to grandma's kitchen and I have some of my other 00:00:04.32\00:00:08.53 favorite granddaughters here and we decided that since 00:00:08.56\00:00:12.26 it's a rainy day we should do something fun inside. 00:00:12.29\00:00:15.95 And what did that fun thing decide to be? 00:00:15.99\00:00:18.92 Kristen what are we doing? - A tea party! 00:00:18.95\00:00:21.50 A tea party does that sound like fun? - yeah! 00:00:21.53\00:00:24.04 And who did we invite? - Our grandmas! 00:00:24.07\00:00:28.52 Our grandmas they're our special guests, so what we want to do 00:00:28.55\00:00:33.23 today is learn a little bit about manners and etiquette. 00:00:33.26\00:00:37.90 Do you know that word etiquette? 00:00:37.94\00:00:39.74 Well I'll give you a definition for that word. 00:00:39.77\00:00:42.03 It's just when you are having guests and you want to be 00:00:42.06\00:00:45.80 on your best behavior you want to treat them just right. 00:00:45.83\00:00:49.38 There is a little saying you can remember and it says, 00:00:49.42\00:00:54.01 true courtesy is to do and say the kindest thing in the 00:00:54.05\00:00:58.55 kindest way, and that is another way of saying that you 00:00:58.59\00:01:02.44 want to think about your guests and what they need and 00:01:02.47\00:01:06.29 how to make them happy. 00:01:06.32\00:01:08.17 You guys I know you all have grandma, right? 00:01:08.20\00:01:10.75 You've been practicing making your grandmas happy for years. 00:01:10.79\00:01:14.15 Haven't you Rachel. 00:01:14.18\00:01:15.35 So we have been cooking up a storm as you can see. 00:01:15.39\00:01:18.56 Look at all the good stuff. Kristen tell us what you have 00:01:18.60\00:01:21.28 on that side - I've got fruit salad. - yeah. 00:01:21.31\00:01:24.60 It looks good and what is in it? - blueberries, melons, 00:01:24.64\00:01:28.74 and grapes. - grapes absolutely. 00:01:28.77\00:01:31.36 And Rachel you have been stirring up something over here. 00:01:31.39\00:01:34.36 What is that? - sandwich spread. - good, we are going 00:01:34.39\00:01:37.33 to have little sandwiches. 00:01:37.36\00:01:38.98 And faith what have you got over there for dessert? 00:01:39.01\00:01:41.76 Look at those, what is in there? We call those crumpets. 00:01:41.80\00:01:46.84 They're just little tarts with raspberry and lemon and 00:01:46.87\00:01:51.88 other things, we have lots of goodies today. 00:01:51.91\00:01:54.00 So are we girls ready to go to work? - yes, yes. 00:02:15.87\00:02:19.41 So let me get you some knives what we ought to do first I 00:02:19.44\00:02:22.74 think is we will start making sandwiches, 00:02:22.77\00:02:25.65 does that sound good to you? 00:02:25.69\00:02:28.69 Does that look good? 00:02:38.30\00:02:43.57 ¤ 00:02:43.60\00:02:44.57 Oh one more! 00:03:16.82\00:03:18.28 Oh Excellent, Excellent 00:03:23.23\00:03:25.93 So they passed the taste test. Alright! 00:03:27.82\00:03:30.36 Beautiful, remember we need 8 flower vases. 00:03:40.53\00:03:44.30 I think this one's ready. 00:03:48.19\00:03:50.48 Just set it aside will make some more. 00:03:52.45\00:03:53.74 Faith do you want to do something? -Yes! 00:03:53.77\00:03:55.03 Grandma could you help me? - sure I can help you. 00:04:07.44\00:04:12.24 Well we are finally at the table and our guests are here. 00:04:13.94\00:04:16.85 Let me introduce you to the other grandmas we have. 00:04:16.88\00:04:19.30 We have grandma Herriot, and grandma Ellen Ann, and this 00:04:19.34\00:04:25.88 is my own mother and she is a grandma somebody, 00:04:25.92\00:04:28.91 this is Helen, and this is Faith's grandmother, Virginia. 00:04:28.95\00:04:34.54 Didn't the girls do a nice job? - they worked hard. 00:04:34.58\00:04:38.04 Well I think we are ready to have our blessing and taste 00:04:38.07\00:04:43.02 all the goodies that the girls have prepared. 00:04:43.05\00:04:45.85 So Kristen would you mind offering the blessing 00:04:45.89\00:04:48.65 for us to today please? 00:04:48.69\00:04:50.45 Dear Father, thank you for this food we are about to eat. 00:04:50.48\00:04:54.09 Amen. - Amen. Oh finally. 00:04:54.12\00:04:59.26 ēGroup talking to each other.Ń 00:05:09.44\00:05:16.30 Oh what a delicious dinner we've had. 00:05:38.50\00:05:41.32 The girls did an outstanding job and our grandmas have 00:05:41.35\00:05:44.62 been wonderful, but you know there is more to come? 00:05:44.65\00:05:47.71 I invited one of my grandsons, Timmy to come and play 00:05:47.75\00:05:52.16 his harp for us so I think we should leave these 00:05:52.20\00:05:55.59 dirty dishes here and all right and we will meet 00:05:55.63\00:05:58.99 you in the parlor kids. Come on! 00:05:59.02\00:06:00.65 Hi Timmy, would you introduce yourself to 00:06:00.69\00:06:05.29 all the grandmas here? 00:06:05.32\00:06:07.58 My name is Timmy Kosaka and I'm from Auburn Washington. 00:06:07.61\00:06:10.56 I will be playing for you some songs on my harp. 00:06:10.60\00:06:13.88 Ah, thank you so much. 00:06:13.92\00:06:15.87 How long have you been playing the harp? 00:06:15.91\00:06:17.64 I've been playing for five years. 00:06:17.67\00:06:19.25 How old are you now? - I'm 10- wonderful. 00:06:19.28\00:06:22.12 Take it away Timmy. Entertain us! 00:06:22.15\00:06:24.51 (Playing harp) 00:06:35.41\00:06:40.68 Wonderful, Timmy thank you so much for coming down. 00:07:43.69\00:07:47.23 We enjoyed you so much. - thank you for having me. 00:07:47.27\00:07:50.74 Oh you are welcome. Boys and girls I would like for you 00:07:50.78\00:07:54.99 to take down my address to drop me a note, or tell me 00:07:55.03\00:07:58.50 about anything at all that is going on in your life. 00:07:58.54\00:08:01.98 You know I love the letters you send. 00:08:02.01\00:08:04.10 So if you've got your paper and pencil ready, get ready 00:08:04.13\00:08:07.66 to jot it down and I'll be back in just a moment. 00:08:07.69\00:08:09.63 So here it is: 00:08:09.66\00:08:11.48 hey kids Graham Joyce would love to hear from you 00:08:13.28\00:08:15.82 so why not sit down and write her a letter? 00:08:15.85\00:08:18.39 Like every grandma she loves to get pictures, 00:08:18.43\00:08:20.93 drawings or anything you could sent her. 00:08:20.96\00:08:24.00 Just write to: 00:08:24.04\00:08:28.35 So what are you waiting for? Write her today. 00:08:36.80\00:08:39.33 Oh that was such a fun time we had. 00:08:43.04\00:08:45.46 I hope it maybe gave you an idea or two about how 00:08:45.49\00:08:48.28 you might want to do something special for your own 00:08:48.32\00:08:51.50 grandma, if you have one, or how about doing it for 00:08:51.54\00:08:54.68 somebody else you want to make feel 00:08:54.72\00:08:57.37 especially appreciated. 00:08:57.41\00:08:59.42 It is a very good thing to show appreciation to people 00:08:59.45\00:09:03.22 we love and it is an extra blessed thing to show respect 00:09:03.25\00:09:06.98 and appreciation to somebody who might be lonely, 00:09:07.02\00:09:09.64 tired or sad. 00:09:09.68\00:09:11.79 Another word we might use to describe tea parties and such 00:09:11.83\00:09:16.22 is hospitality, that just means a friendly and generous 00:09:16.26\00:09:20.61 reception of guests, visitors, or strangers. 00:09:20.65\00:09:23.32 It is so much fun to be hospitable, and making tea 00:09:23.35\00:09:27.19 is just one way to do it. 00:09:27.22\00:09:29.04 Right now I am experimenting with making tea from 00:09:29.08\00:09:33.24 plants I have in my own yard. 00:09:33.28\00:09:34.84 Out in the garden I have two kinds of mint. 00:09:34.87\00:09:37.24 They make my favorite kind of tea, one variety is 00:09:37.28\00:09:41.64 peppermint and the other is spearmint. 00:09:41.68\00:09:44.03 It's hard to choose, I think they are both delicious. 00:09:44.06\00:09:47.02 Ummmm, Hey, you know mint grows pretty easily, why don't you 00:09:47.05\00:09:52.96 ask your mom if you can grow some in a pot or in 00:09:53.00\00:09:55.50 a corner of the garden? 00:09:55.53\00:09:57.89 Just go to a garden store and ask where they have 00:09:57.93\00:10:00.43 all the herbs, it will be right there with parsley 00:10:00.46\00:10:02.92 and the other stuff. 00:10:02.96\00:10:04.34 They are sold in little pots already growing so all 00:10:04.38\00:10:07.46 you have to do is plant them in the ground or in a 00:10:07.49\00:10:10.54 bigger pot with more room. 00:10:10.57\00:10:12.07 In fact if you have the room it might be really fun to 00:10:12.10\00:10:16.24 grow a whole herb garden. 00:10:16.27\00:10:18.02 You will have a blast with all the pungent aromas and 00:10:18.06\00:10:21.59 flavors and your mom will love having fresh herbs to 00:10:21.62\00:10:25.12 make your favorite food. 00:10:25.15\00:10:26.93 You can make an herb garden in a basket or a flower pot. 00:10:26.96\00:10:31.19 Just pick out two or three or four of your favorite herbs 00:10:31.23\00:10:35.34 and fill a flower pot about halfway full of potting mix. 00:10:35.37\00:10:39.23 Then take your plants out of their plastic containers. 00:10:39.27\00:10:43.09 See they look like this can you see that? 00:10:43.13\00:10:45.34 And pop them right into the pot. 00:10:45.38\00:10:48.42 Then you fill the pot up the rest away with more soil and 00:10:48.46\00:10:51.75 wall la you have an herb garden. 00:10:51.79\00:10:55.13 It is really fun to take a leaf from each of the different 00:10:55.17\00:10:57.81 plants and rub them between your fingers. 00:10:57.85\00:11:01.10 Ummmm let out their aroma and you can see which ones 00:11:01.14\00:11:05.71 you like best. Ummmm, anyway I usually make mint tea, 00:11:05.74\00:11:09.48 but today I have decided to try something different. 00:11:09.51\00:11:13.21 I'm just starting to make some Clover tea. 00:11:13.25\00:11:15.92 I have never tried this before but you know the Clover 00:11:15.96\00:11:19.66 smells so good growing along the road and I thought it 00:11:19.70\00:11:23.37 would be fun to see what it tastes like. 00:11:23.40\00:11:25.19 So I just picked some blossoms and washed them off and 00:11:25.23\00:11:28.65 dunked them in hot water. 00:11:28.68\00:11:30.64 After they've been in there for a few minutes to get 00:11:30.67\00:11:32.95 the flavor out, but it looks like it might be tea 00:11:32.98\00:11:35.22 to me in any minute. Ummmm. 00:11:35.26\00:11:37.91 Hey, Did you know that God smiles from ear to ear when 00:11:37.94\00:11:41.64 you are hospitable? He really does. 00:11:41.68\00:11:44.45 The Bible even says that some people have entertained 00:11:44.48\00:11:48.00 angels when they thought they were just 00:11:48.03\00:11:50.39 being hospitable to someone. 00:11:50.42\00:11:52.60 And in another place it tells us you can not refresh 00:11:52.63\00:11:55.59 another person without getting some of it on you. 00:11:55.62\00:11:59.05 So it becomes a double blessing, one for them, 00:11:59.08\00:12:02.47 and one for you. 00:12:02.51\00:12:04.35 You know when we did our tea party it was pretty 00:12:04.39\00:12:07.69 fancy, but please don't think it has to be 00:12:07.72\00:12:09.66 like that all the time. 00:12:09.69\00:12:10.95 I just did it that way so I could spend the whole day 00:12:10.99\00:12:14.36 together in the kitchen having fun with my granddaughters. 00:12:14.39\00:12:17.29 If somebody stops by for just a few minutes, showing 00:12:17.32\00:12:20.68 hospitality just might mean giving them a glass of cool 00:12:20.72\00:12:24.35 water, or letting them rest in your favorite chair. 00:12:24.38\00:12:27.36 If somebody gets hurt on the playground, the best thing 00:12:27.40\00:12:30.63 to do might be to get help or if it is not too bad just 00:12:30.67\00:12:33.73 helping the other boy or girl get up again is hospitable. 00:12:33.76\00:12:36.79 The dictionary says the whole idea is 00:12:36.82\00:12:40.05 to be friendly and generous. 00:12:40.09\00:12:42.56 Remember what I told the girls at 00:12:42.59\00:12:45.63 the first of the program? 00:12:45.67\00:12:47.29 I said true courtesy is to do and say the kindest thing in 00:12:47.32\00:12:51.54 the kindest way. 00:12:51.57\00:12:53.72 See all of this kind of goes together, being kind and 00:12:53.76\00:12:56.33 courteous, hospitable, friendly and generous. 00:12:56.36\00:12:59.35 They are all just ways of saying the same thing. 00:12:59.38\00:13:03.01 Do unto others as you want them to do to you. 00:13:03.05\00:13:06.65 Hmmm, where have I heard that before? 00:13:06.68\00:13:10.65 Now here's another little secret you might not know about 00:13:10.68\00:13:14.91 me, in my ordinary everyday life sometimes I find it is 00:13:14.94\00:13:18.44 hard for me to witness for Jesus like I think I should. 00:13:18.47\00:13:22.24 But what I have discovered is this, God didn't make me 00:13:22.28\00:13:26.13 like any body else in He doesn't expect me to do my work 00:13:26.17\00:13:29.99 for Him just like anybody else either. 00:13:30.02\00:13:32.57 Whew that's a relief, so don't you waste your time trying 00:13:32.60\00:13:37.20 to shine for Jesus like somebody else does. 00:13:37.24\00:13:39.66 Just shine, God loves you just the way you are and I do 00:13:39.70\00:13:45.39 too and you can take that to the bank any day. 00:13:45.42\00:13:49.21 Now remember I love you so much, but Jesus loves you 00:13:49.25\00:13:52.93 even more and one of these days we are going to be 00:13:52.96\00:13:56.61 together for ever and ever and ever. 00:13:56.64\00:14:01.31 I'm a little teapot, short and stout. 00:14:02.39\00:14:06.56 Here is my handle, here is my spout. 00:14:06.60\00:14:10.87 When I get all steamed up, I will shout. 00:14:10.91\00:14:15.15 Tip me over and pour me out. 00:14:15.19\00:14:19.71