Hi, I'm Pastor
Floyd Bresee and I've been
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thinking, it seems to
me there'd be a lot more
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Christians if
Christians were a lot more
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Christ like.
Let's pray about it,
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Loving Father, in
this time we spend together
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today please teach us
something that will help
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us become more Christ
like Christians. We pray
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in Jesus name, amen.
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Our focus today
will be on a four letter
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word TIME, we're
going to talk about the
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use of our time,
please open your Bible to
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Ephesians and chapter
5, I'll be using the new
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international
version. You heard of the song
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that says some
enchanted evening,
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you may see a
stranger, you may see a
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stranger across a crowded room.
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They have met, but
their eyes just did.
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They exchange
smiles as spark leaps clear
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across the room,
pluses quicken, love at
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first sight.
Beautiful, romantic, sells
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millions of magazines
and thousands of novels
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and hundreds of
television programs.
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Its just one
problem, it doesn't quite so.
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People in the Lord
suppose to know say
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there is no such thing
as love at first sight,
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that it can be an attraction at
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first sight. You
have seen someone that
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conforms to your
ideal to the image that
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you intend to fall in love with.
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Attraction can
be instantaneous but
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love takes time.
You hold your new born
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baby in your arms,
you look down on God's
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precious gift to you
and you reach your finger
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down and her
chubby little hand grasps
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your finger and you
say to yourself, we'll
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always be close, we'll
always be best friends.
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Not automatically
so, not unless you spend
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time together
because love takes time.
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You have some mountain
top spiritual experience;
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maybe it was that
your baptism or a revival
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meeting perhaps something that
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you viewed on
3ABN and you say oh!
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Now I got it I
will always love Jesus.
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Not necessarily
so, now please make no
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mistake about it we
can be saved in a moment
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but love takes time and
that's our lesson today.
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Love takes time,
there are no shortcuts,
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no exceptions, it
always takes time.
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And I want to apply
this principle to three
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relationships. Your
relationship with your
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spouse, with your
child and with your Lord.
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Let's start off with
the spouse. Your love
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relationship with
your spouse will grow only
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if you spend time
together. There are
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over a million
U.S. couples who divorce
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every year and
millions more are emotionally
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separated then they
just staying together
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out of some kind of
necessity or loyalty
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but love isn't
working. We would prevent this
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problem if we
would just take Ephesians
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5:25 seriously.
Husbands, love your
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wives just as
Christ loved the church and
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gave himself up for
it. Just as Christ loved
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the church and how did
Christ love the church.
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Christ shows his
love for his church by
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taking time, time
to come down here and
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redeem her, time
to intercede for her
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presently in the
heavenly couch time to
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forgive her sins, time
to build those mansions
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that the Bible
promises, time to come back
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a second time and
take his church home
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that where I'm
Jesus said there he may be
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also. So, if we love
our spouses the way Jesus
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loves the church
we'll spend time.
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All kinds of time,
time talking together,
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we get so busy
that we never sit down
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and just talk. Not
about bills or about people
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or about problems,
do you ever sit down
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and talk about the
state of the union.
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Your spouse's
self esteem desperately
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needs to know
that you think she is
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worth listening to. A
wife who wants to talk
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and a husband who
will not listen there
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is not going to
be a very close love
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connection. I want
to speak for a moment
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to you fellow clams
we blame us men mostly
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for this are refusing
to open up and talk to
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our loved ones.
Its not a sign of macho
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strength, most
likely its either a sign of
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indifference we
don't really care or fear.
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If we really open
up our feeling, open up
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our emotions, if
we're really vulnerable even
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with our spouses
maybe they would make fun of
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us and they
wouldn't understand and they
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wouldn't love
us as much anymore.
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And those of you
who may be married to
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a clam, remember a
clam shuts up because
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it needs to protect
its soft insides and it
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maybe that your
clam as soon as he really
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learns that you can be
trusted with his inmost
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feelings may be he
would choose to be open
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if he just knew
that opening up would be
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understood,
appreciating and he would
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not be hurt. But
clams really understand we
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know ourselves only as
an outcome of disclosing
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ourselves to
another person and she keep
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it all inside and
never let it out, never
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share your deepest
needs and problems and
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wishes and hurts.
You'll never totally
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know yourself, we
learn to know ourselves
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best by sharing
ourselves with another
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person, so much for the clams.
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I would like to
talk a little bit to the
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magpies. We bribes
the ladies most for this,
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please magpies,
those who talk, talk, talk,
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talk, talking
together includes listening.
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The truth is that
magpies produce clams.
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Fibber McGee said,
Mollie and I had words
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but I never go to
use mine. Spend time
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talking together and
your relationship with
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your spouse will
grow if you spend time
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working together.
The pioneer family was
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forced your
family to work together.
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They had to work
together that has been
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a great deal of
time working together
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in order to survive,
together they attended
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the animals, together
they went to the fields
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and together they dug
in the garden and they
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planted and they
weed, an they watered and
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they picked in a
can. Anybody remember
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getting blisters
from opening peas.
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No it's different,
most mornings he goes north
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and she goes south
and one of the kids goes
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east and the
other goes west and life
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allows very little
time together. One solution,
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try working
together when you're at home,
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bath with the kids
together, do the yard
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work together, wash
the dishes together,
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make the bed
together. My father was of a
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generation that
didn't much believe in
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house work. I was
so optical about him
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late in life he
decided, he became a true
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evangelist for the
fact no one should make
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a double bed alone, its
simple is not efficient.
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Work together, work
together especially on
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a tough task, paint
the house and when the job
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is finished and you
got paint in your hair
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and on your hands
and on your cloths and
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hopefully some on
the house. You stand back
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when you have
successfully completed
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together a difficult
task and its wonderfully
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binding. We're
too busy to spend time
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together listen
working together at home
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doesn't take any
extra time, all that because
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its work that has
to be done anyway.
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Try working together,
your relationship with
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your spouse will
grow if you spend time
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playing together.
Before you were married
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probably virtually
all of your time together
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were spent
playing, having fun together
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and soon as we're
married we just get too
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busy and surrounded
by life. No wonder brides
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become so quickly
disillusion. Well as she
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married you to be a
sweetheart not to be
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a housekeeper. Play
together, find something
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you enjoy or just
having fun together.
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Play is very
flattering choice because we
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show what we, we
really like most by what
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we do when we don't
have to do anything.
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When we have a chance to choose
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somethings are
forced upon us our work
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and our choice but
spare time how do you
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spend the how, I will
flatter your spouse if
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you prefer to
spend some time just
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playing
together. And by all means
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spend some time
praying together.
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Try this when you
have your family worship
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turn to your
spouse, what can I pray for,
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for you today, spend
time praying together.
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Young people tend
to think that marriage
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begins with a
prince kissing an angel and
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ends with a bald
man sitting across
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the kitchen
table from a fat woman.
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Such skeptics fail to
understand two things,
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number one there
are many bald princes
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and slightly
overweight angels and secondly
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if they've spent
time together they share
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a closeness that
those hairy princes and
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skinny angels
cannot comprehend. Please
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don't become
disillusion with marriage.
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A Christian
marriage, people who believe
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in love, who believe
in love with all their
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hearts should just
keep getting better
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and better and
better in their love
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relationship with
their spouse. Because if your
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love won't work at
home it won't work anywhere,
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but love takes time.
There are no shortcuts,
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there is no exception,
love always takes time.
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Now lets talk
about your relationship
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with your child. Your
love relationship with
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your child will grow
only if you spend time
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together. Turn with
me if you will to the
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book of Mark and Mark
the tenth chapter notice
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with me verses 13 and
14, People were bringing
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little children to
Jesus to have him touch them,
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but the disciples
rebuked them. When
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Jesus saw this, he
was indignant. He said
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to them, "Let the
little children come to me,
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and do not hinder
them, for the kingdom
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of God belongs
to such as these."
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Parents you got to
spend time with your
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child if you're
not going hinder them.
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Jesus said the
worse thing that we could
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do is to hinder a
child. Are you hindering
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your child's coming to Jesus?
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Parents are
models, you heard the song
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cat in the cradle
the boy comes to his
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father says, dad
let's do something together
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and the father says
yes, yes later on son
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later on and again
the boy comes, and again
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the boy comes, and
again and again father
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says later on.
Then one day the father
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grows old and the
son grows up and father
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comes to the
son and he says lets
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do something
together and the son says,
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sure later on dad,
later on. It's a frightening
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thing about parenting,
children are more likely
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to become what we
are then what we want
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them to be. Now
there's modeling which parents
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do takes time,
proverb says that a child left
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to himself disgraces
his parent. And if your
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child is pattering
more after the terminator
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than after dad, may
be its because he has
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seen more of the
former then the later.
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They asked 300
seventh and eighth grade boys
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to keep record for
two weeks of how much time
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their dad spent
along with them and when
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all the statistics
were in, the average father
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in this group spent
seven and half minutes
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per week with
his son, take time.
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Take time to tell
your child what God has
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done for you. Deuteronomy and
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the 6th chapter and verses 5-9,
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Deuteronomy, 6th
chapter and verses 5-9,
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Love the Lord, your
God with all your heart
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and with all your
soul and with all your
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strength. 6 These
commandments that I
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give you today are
to be on your hearts.
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7 Impress them on
your children. Talk
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about them when you
sit at home when you
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walk along the
road, when you lie
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down and when you
get up. 8 Tie them as
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symbols on your
hands and bind them on your
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foreheads. 9 Write
them on the door frames
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of your houses
and on your gates.
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What does this
mean, on your hands
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by what you do show
how Christ love effects,
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what you do and
forehead how the love
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of Christ and your
relationship to Him
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changes and
effects how you think.
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That door frames
and the gates our text
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mentions create a
loving God fearing
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home environment.
Take time to forgive them
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mistakes, you know
well the story of the
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Prodigal Son which
is recorded in Luke
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the 15th chapter,
notice with me the 20th verse,
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speaking now of the
Prodigal, So he got up
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and went to his
father. "But while he was still
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a long way off,
his father saw him and
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was filled with
compassion for him;
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he ran to his
son, threw his arms
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around him and kissed him.
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No wonder the boy
came home, because
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he was led by a
compassion father.
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If you have a
prodigal son or daughter be
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sure they know
that they'll be received
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with compassion.
May be they have drugged
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the family name through the mud,
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maybe they bring home
habits you don't approve
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of but you can
still have compassion.
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And if you have
trouble having compassion
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for a rebelling
child remember how much
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compassion Christ had
for you when he forgave
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you of your sins.
But a warning to young
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parents take time
early in life. One mother
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said I wish I'll
half as wonderful as my
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daughter thought I
was when she was small
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and half as stupid as
she thinks I'm now that
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she is in her
teens. Well father was
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dashing out the door
on his way to the car
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in the driveway he was
in a hurry but here was
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his son over his with
his ball glove on and he
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was throwing the
ball into his hand and,
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meaning to be a good
father, the boy dashed
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over patted his son
and he said I love you son,
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boy replied, dad, I
don't want you to love
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me I want you to
play ball with me and
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if we don't spend
time with our children they
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have a like to
question if we love them.
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Your love relationship
with your child will
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grow only if you
take time. Now let's
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talk about our relationship with
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Christ, your relationship with
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Christ will grow
only if you spend time
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together. Being a
Christian is somewhat
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like riding a bicycle
in either you move forward
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or you fall off. Have
you ever tried to ride
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a bicycle without
its moving, virtually
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impossible you
got to move forward to
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keep it going and
we got to move forward
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in our Christian
experience to keep
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it going and the way
we forward is by spending
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time with Christ.
I suggest it's very
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important that we
learn to love Him by
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spending time with
Him and not just doing
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things for Him.
Remember the fast relating
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story in Luke the
10th chapter, Jesus
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and his disciples
were visiting Mary and
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Martha in their
home and Martha was
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real busy serving
and Mary just sat there
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at the feet of
Jesus. Martha said to Jesus
00:20:16.80\00:20:19.27
tell Mary to get here
and help me, Jesus said
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Martha, Mary has
children what is better.
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Jesus was teaching
us that there is a time
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for sitting and
there is a time for serving
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but the time for
sitting should always come
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before the time
for serving. Never sit
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out to do the
work of the Lord until
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you have spent time
with the Lord of the work.
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We must spend time
with him daily, if you
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eat only once a
week eventually you
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starved to death
and Jesus promised I'm
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with you always, He
longs to spend all of
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His time with us.
How much time do you
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spend with him between weekends?
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Now how do we go
about spending time with
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Christ? Well by
a meaningful daily
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devotional life,
now everybody has to
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approach their
private time with Jesus in
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a different way but
there are three short
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weapons that we should remember.
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Three parts to
successful devotional
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experience, one is
to lead, secondly to
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apply and thirdly
to pray. You begin with
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reading a Bible is
the best, you find the
00:21:40.85\00:21:44.56
Bible boring try
a new version, start
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with the gospel
of John. Concentrate
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on the life with
Jesus, Matthew 5,6 and 7
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they are sermon on
the mount. So, after
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you have began to
read now apply, notice
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Jeremiah the 15
chapter and the 16th verse,
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Jeremiah 15:16,
When your words came,
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I ate them; they
were my joy and my heart's
00:22:13.43\00:22:18.50
delight, now
whatever does that mean, when
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we eat something we
internalize it and what
00:22:24.98\00:22:29.13
Jeremiah is saying as
it when we internalize God
00:22:29.14\00:22:32.60
speaking to us then
our worship become a joy
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and if you haven't
been enjoying your worship
00:22:35.92\00:22:38.07
you not been internalizing it.
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You haven't been
applying it directly
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to your life as you
live it. Worship cannot
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be measured by the
clock, it cannot be
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measured by the
page, read until a light
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comes on, read until
you feel the Holy Spirit
00:22:49.44\00:22:51.87
is speaking you
name. Here is something
00:22:51.88\00:22:53.81
that'll work for
me here is something
00:22:53.82\00:22:55.42
that applies to my
life, don't worry so much
00:22:55.43\00:22:58.82
about the clock,
don't worry so much about
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reading by the yard
or finishing a certain
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amount of reading.
Its reading until the
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Holy Spirit speaks
and so we read and then
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we apply. And
thirdly pray, and in your
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prayer whatever
else you pray include
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four things, I'm
a sinner, I'm sorry,
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I'm yours and I'm
available. I'm a sinner,
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I'm sorry, I'm
yours and I'm available.
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Where can you use
me today, actually
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taking time saves
time. You say I'm too busy,
00:23:44.16\00:23:51.17
taking time to be with
the Lord, time for your
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daily devotions
saves time. Thought I was
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splitting work, he
had a terrible lot of work
00:23:59.18\00:24:03.06
that had to be done
and he was cutting wood
00:24:03.07\00:24:06.07
with a gold axe, a
neighbor came along
00:24:06.08\00:24:08.21
and said why don't
you stop and sharpen
00:24:08.22\00:24:10.46
your axe to which the
man said I hardly have
00:24:10.47\00:24:13.95
time to get all the
wood cut as it is much less
00:24:13.96\00:24:16.40
take time to sharpen
an axe. But by sharpening
00:24:16.41\00:24:19.68
the axe the work
would have gotten done
00:24:19.69\00:24:22.77
sooner, by
sharpening our relationship
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with God and with
our world and our service
00:24:25.81\00:24:29.20
for our master by
taking time in private
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devotions the less
of the day goes sharper.
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So, love takes time,
love with your spouse,
00:24:37.31\00:24:44.19
love with your
child, love with your Lord.
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Love takes time. The
air force academy has
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a most interesting
tradition. Their mascot
00:24:55.53\00:24:57.74
is a falcon and
they have this tradition
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when they have a football game.
00:25:00.89\00:25:02.55
The handler brings
the falcon out on his arm
00:25:02.56\00:25:08.40
and he removes the
hood and the falcon blinks
00:25:08.41\00:25:13.67
for a little bit
and the handler releases
00:25:13.68\00:25:16.99
him and he spread
those great wings and
00:25:17.00\00:25:20.05
he begins to fly
higher and higher soaring
00:25:20.06\00:25:23.70
higher and higher
until he becomes just
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a spec in the blue.
And then the handler
00:25:25.93\00:25:31.49
begins to throw
around in a circle the rover
00:25:32.19\00:25:37.08
on the end of a
thong and that's the signal
00:25:37.09\00:25:40.08
for the falcon to
return, he folds his
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winds and he
plummets at 200 miles an hour
00:25:43.98\00:25:46.85
and is recaptured.
But why, why does he
00:25:47.16\00:25:53.21
come back, he was
free, he was in his own
00:25:53.22\00:25:56.70
element its
because of his relationship
00:25:56.71\00:26:00.39
with its handler.
And that handler must
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spend time with him
every single day to miss
00:26:03.80\00:26:07.85
one day can undo
months of work. That's the way
00:26:07.86\00:26:13.55
it is in our
relationship with our
00:26:13.56\00:26:15.44
Lord, it requires
time together, daily time
00:26:15.45\00:26:21.28
together. Love
takes time there are no
00:26:21.29\00:26:25.71
shortcuts, there
are no exceptions
00:26:25.72\00:26:28.54
love always
take time. Lets pray.
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Loving Father,
may we each resolve
00:26:34.05\00:26:38.69
today never to
miss a day spending time
00:26:38.70\00:26:43.24
with our spouse,
with our child, with our
00:26:43.25\00:26:47.33
Lord. And as we
spend this moment
00:26:47.34\00:26:50.56
with you just now
fill us I pray with your
00:26:50.57\00:26:53.54
love and send us out to
our world to love others
00:26:53.55\00:26:58.42
as You have loved us we pray,
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in Jesus name,
amen. So love takes time,
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there are no shortcuts
there are no exceptions.
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Are you a little
bit behind in the amount
00:27:17.65\00:27:20.70
of time you spend
with your family with your
00:27:20.71\00:27:24.28
Lord. Won't you
make a new beginning and
00:27:24.29\00:27:28.70
make a resolution just
now. By the grace of God
00:27:28.71\00:27:33.51
I'm going to spend
some time with my family,
00:27:33.52\00:27:37.62
I'm going to spend
time with my Lord and I'm
00:27:37.63\00:27:40.43
going to do it on
a regular basis. Love
00:27:40.44\00:27:45.35
takes time,
there are no shortcuts,
00:27:45.36\00:27:48.53
there are no exceptions.
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Love always takes time.
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