Welcome to Faith Chapel, I'm Tom Waters with 00:00:31.26\00:00:34.33 Restoration International and I'm excited today, 00:00:34.34\00:00:37.56 we're gonna be talking about something that 00:00:37.57\00:00:39.99 effects every one of us especially if we are 00:00:40.00\00:00:44.63 striving in the Christian experience. 00:00:44.64\00:00:47.40 We're gonna talk about the greatest battle that 00:00:47.93\00:00:49.99 we face as Christians, the greatest battle. 00:00:50.00\00:00:54.77 The one that every one of us deals with, 00:00:55.25\00:00:57.28 if we're honest about serving out Lord 00:00:57.91\00:01:00.09 and Savior. Our greatest battle, 00:01:00.10\00:01:02.90 the battle that every man must face, 00:01:03.91\00:01:08.03 the greatest battle ever fought by man, 00:01:08.34\00:01:11.01 is the surrender of self to the will of God, 00:01:12.10\00:01:16.69 that is our greatest battle. I want you think 00:01:17.78\00:01:20.35 about this for a moment, our greatest battle 00:01:20.36\00:01:23.89 is not self. Our greatest battle is the surrender 00:01:23.90\00:01:29.58 of self to the will of God, you know there 00:01:29.59\00:01:33.44 is an old favorite hymn, and in that hymn it says: 00:01:33.45\00:01:37.56 Have thine own way, Lord! Have thine own way! 00:01:38.73\00:01:43.25 Thou art the potter, I am the clay. Now, 00:01:44.54\00:01:49.94 that's a very classic picture, potter and the 00:01:49.95\00:01:55.15 clay and where do we fit in this verse of the song. 00:01:55.16\00:02:00.27 God is the potter and we are the clay. 00:02:00.86\00:02:03.88 And of course we would naturally agree with that, 00:02:04.76\00:02:07.92 that's the position we would wanna be in as 00:02:08.57\00:02:10.38 Christians. But the difficulty is that 00:02:10.39\00:02:14.00 we may start the day and I hope that's where 00:02:14.01\00:02:17.22 we start the day choosing of the master that 00:02:17.23\00:02:20.65 we're going to serve. Chose you this day whom 00:02:20.66\00:02:23.14 you will serve, as for me and my house we will 00:02:23.15\00:02:25.97 serve the Lord. That's where we need to be 00:02:25.98\00:02:28.21 starting everyday in our greatest battle. 00:02:28.22\00:02:31.66 The reality of it is that for many of us I know 00:02:32.60\00:02:35.84 for myself for many years as a, as a striving 00:02:35.85\00:02:39.58 professing Christian. That the first place that 00:02:40.45\00:02:43.36 I met the battle was in the morning, because 00:02:43.37\00:02:47.22 I didn't feel like getting up. Now, 00:02:48.30\00:02:50.39 who is the potter and who is the clay? 00:02:51.74\00:02:53.81 My God is calling to me, my son he's calling 00:02:54.70\00:02:59.57 to me and he's asking me to get up. 00:02:59.58\00:03:01.88 He's asking me to do something that he can't do 00:03:02.69\00:03:05.72 for me and that is to make a choice, 00:03:05.73\00:03:07.83 now my battle is, will I chose to surrender 00:03:07.84\00:03:14.16 my self, my tired self, will I chose to surrender 00:03:14.17\00:03:18.92 myself to the will of my heavenly Father 00:03:18.93\00:03:22.32 that he might do for me when I cannot 00:03:22.33\00:03:25.42 do for myself? That's the greatest battle 00:03:25.43\00:03:27.62 if we wanna start at right at the beginning 00:03:28.10\00:03:29.56 of the day, but the difficulty is if we start 00:03:29.57\00:03:33.09 the battle in the right place and we connect our 00:03:33.10\00:03:36.38 weakness with his strength at the beginning 00:03:36.39\00:03:38.78 of the day is that it, is the battle over. 00:03:38.79\00:03:41.92 The rest of the day we've made all of our choices, 00:03:42.52\00:03:44.76 one choice in the morning takes us all through 00:03:44.77\00:03:46.91 the day. Absolutely not, because our greatest 00:03:46.92\00:03:50.71 battle, each one of us faces it over and over. 00:03:50.72\00:03:55.32 And when do we face it? Well, we face it when 00:03:56.19\00:03:59.85 we get into our day we face it when self wants 00:03:59.86\00:04:03.73 to do it my way. When we say no thank you 00:04:03.74\00:04:07.36 very much I wanna handle this myself, 00:04:07.37\00:04:09.32 I will take this into my own hands Lord. 00:04:09.33\00:04:11.50 Now, do we say it that way? Rarely. 00:04:12.21\00:04:14.60 What generally happens is when someone or 00:04:15.76\00:04:18.94 some circumstance crosses our will? 00:04:18.95\00:04:21.44 When something doesn't go my way, 00:04:22.57\00:04:24.13 the self begins to rise in us and every one of 00:04:25.79\00:04:28.73 us knows what that feels like. And it's then that 00:04:28.74\00:04:31.90 we're in our greatest battle and it's then at 00:04:31.95\00:04:35.67 that moment that we have a choice to make. 00:04:35.68\00:04:37.91 Our greatest battle in that moment of time, 00:04:38.81\00:04:41.57 when someone cuts us off in traffic, 00:04:42.17\00:04:44.38 when my wife misunderstands me, 00:04:44.99\00:04:47.34 when my child isn't doing quick enough the thing 00:04:47.92\00:04:51.76 I want them to do. It's in that moment when 00:04:51.77\00:04:54.73 self begins to rise that we are in our 00:04:54.74\00:04:57.99 greatest battle. The question is who will win, 00:04:58.00\00:05:00.62 will self win the battle, will God win the battle 00:05:02.10\00:05:07.30 working in me to willing to do of his good pleasure, 00:05:07.31\00:05:10.26 it's at that moment and at that moment the 00:05:10.27\00:05:12.92 choice is mine, the choice is yours. 00:05:12.93\00:05:15.67 Who will win the battle? If I justify myself and 00:05:16.40\00:05:20.94 these are the two basic reactions that each 00:05:20.95\00:05:24.00 of us has, now there maybe more, 00:05:24.01\00:05:25.92 many more variations. But I tell you the two 00:05:26.59\00:05:28.56 basic reactions as I looked at my own 00:05:28.57\00:05:32.55 experience for many years and how I was 00:05:32.56\00:05:34.31 failing in the Christian walk. 00:05:34.32\00:05:36.52 The two basic reactions that I had and 00:05:37.56\00:05:39.98 as I've talked to people all over the world, the 00:05:39.99\00:05:42.07 first is this, when self begins to rise these 00:05:44.07\00:05:48.89 circumstances, these feelings, 00:05:48.90\00:05:51.10 these are mine and now I'm going to justify why 00:05:51.67\00:05:56.09 I wanna honk my horn at the person that cuts 00:05:56.10\00:05:59.28 me off. I wanna justify why I'm irritated when 00:05:59.29\00:06:03.84 they cut me off, I wanna justify the words 00:06:03.85\00:06:06.88 that I wanna speak to my wife when she 00:06:06.89\00:06:08.82 misunderstands me. I wanna justify why I need 00:06:08.83\00:06:12.22 to tell my child in the wrong tone of voice. 00:06:12.23\00:06:15.73 That self reaction wants to be justified. 00:06:17.36\00:06:20.15 And if we justify self and we carry through 00:06:20.78\00:06:24.24 the very actions that self wants to carry through, 00:06:24.25\00:06:27.76 we then find ourselves in remorse saying as 00:06:27.77\00:06:31.88 I said many, many times in my experience. 00:06:31.89\00:06:34.33 Why did I do that, I'm not gonna do that, 00:06:35.46\00:06:37.09 I'm tired of doing that and then we move to the 00:06:37.10\00:06:39.80 other side and I know many sincere people have 00:06:39.81\00:06:42.20 experienced the other side, the other basic 00:06:42.21\00:06:44.74 reaction is that when self is crossed 00:06:44.75\00:06:47.69 we say I'm not gonna go there this time, 00:06:47.70\00:06:49.92 I'm not gonna do it, I'm not gonna let myself 00:06:50.61\00:06:53.36 get angry this time, I'm not gonna do this 00:06:53.37\00:06:56.60 if it kills me. And so we try to pull ourselves 00:06:56.61\00:07:01.93 up by our bootstraps, we try to do it in our 00:07:01.94\00:07:05.35 own strength because we know what the 00:07:05.36\00:07:06.88 verses say, we know that if we wanna be in the 00:07:06.89\00:07:09.88 kingdom of heaven. We can't live like devils 00:07:09.89\00:07:12.71 down here, we know all these things, 00:07:12.72\00:07:15.91 but we still lack the power and so I would 00:07:17.14\00:07:20.33 think you know I've got strong will power 00:07:20.34\00:07:22.99 and I'm not gonna let this happen, 00:07:23.00\00:07:24.06 I'll make a new years resolution and this time 00:07:24.07\00:07:26.00 you know I thank God that he does not allow us 00:07:28.09\00:07:31.91 to do it in our own strength. 00:07:31.92\00:07:33.96 We can't do it and he knows that, 00:07:33.97\00:07:35.58 the devil sometimes lays off when we try to do 00:07:36.57\00:07:38.43 it on our own strength, when we try to, 00:07:38.44\00:07:39.84 to grit our teeth and I'm gonna do it as if 00:07:40.52\00:07:43.02 he kills me. And the devil sometimes backs off 00:07:43.03\00:07:45.91 and makes us think we're doing pretty good 00:07:45.92\00:07:48.20 and then all of a sudden he just comes along 00:07:48.21\00:07:50.71 and kicks our feet rid off from under us. 00:07:50.72\00:07:52.64 I tell you friends today what a joy it is to know 00:07:53.94\00:07:56.98 where lies the victory in our greatest battle. 00:07:58.11\00:08:00.80 And I wanna tell you today I understand 00:08:01.81\00:08:04.37 is something that it took me years to understand 00:08:04.38\00:08:07.55 that when we face temptation, 00:08:08.44\00:08:10.23 when we face our greatest battle we needn't 00:08:10.24\00:08:13.40 go first to our justifications, we needn't 00:08:13.41\00:08:15.53 go to our living it in our own strength 00:08:16.15\00:08:21.43 what we need to go to the very first choice 00:08:21.44\00:08:26.02 in temptation. The very first place we need 00:08:26.03\00:08:29.67 to go when we face our greatest battle 00:08:29.68\00:08:31.80 is to submit ourselves under our heavenly Father. 00:08:32.21\00:08:36.75 Now if we've done that at the beginning of the day 00:08:36.76\00:08:38.59 and if we're maintaining that through the day 00:08:38.60\00:08:41.38 then when that temptation comes all it is, 00:08:42.05\00:08:44.93 is a reconfirmation of that commitment 00:08:45.87\00:08:49.37 to God to stay connected to his divine power. 00:08:49.38\00:08:52.35 But when that temptation and self begins 00:08:52.92\00:08:55.18 to rise we have that choice and that choice 00:08:55.19\00:08:58.37 must first be to either maintain that connection 00:08:59.22\00:09:02.92 with God, that power outside of ourselves 00:09:02.93\00:09:05.78 or get reconnected to that power. 00:09:06.41\00:09:09.01 Because without maintaining or getting 00:09:09.56\00:09:11.59 reconnected we will not have the power and 00:09:11.60\00:09:14.91 we will end up justifying self, 00:09:14.92\00:09:16.54 losing our way or we will end up 00:09:17.11\00:09:19.17 trying to do it on our own strength. 00:09:19.18\00:09:20.67 When we try to do it on our own strength, 00:09:21.54\00:09:23.54 what happens to us? When we try to do it 00:09:24.21\00:09:27.27 my way it never works and this is what 00:09:27.92\00:09:31.08 I began to see. Now, I want you to turn 00:09:31.09\00:09:33.64 with me, there's a very precious verse in James, 00:09:33.65\00:09:36.76 get your Bibles, open with me to James. 00:09:36.77\00:09:38.89 We're gonna be looking there at the, 00:09:39.47\00:09:40.77 the 4th chapter of James and we're gonna 00:09:41.31\00:09:43.56 be looking first at verse 7, it says there. 00:09:43.57\00:09:47.44 Submit yourselves therefore to God. 00:09:48.61\00:09:51.16 Now, notice this the first thing it says is submit 00:09:51.92\00:09:54.03 yourself to God, Then resist the devil, 00:09:54.04\00:09:57.74 and he will what? Then he will flee from you. 00:09:58.40\00:10:02.55 Now this is very important, I missed this even 00:10:04.31\00:10:08.64 though I knew this for many years. 00:10:08.65\00:10:12.27 I actually had this scripture memorized, 00:10:12.98\00:10:15.54 but here's what I was missing. 00:10:15.55\00:10:17.91 When temptation would come and if I rationalized 00:10:19.03\00:10:23.81 and justified myself, was I submitting to God? 00:10:23.82\00:10:26.44 No, I was justifying self, lost my way, 00:10:26.45\00:10:29.41 the devil had me. Well, if I recognized that 00:10:30.19\00:10:34.02 I didn't want to do that, I didn't wanna justify 00:10:34.03\00:10:36.36 myself and I wanted to do God's will, 00:10:36.37\00:10:39.37 I try to do it in my own strength and so what 00:10:40.59\00:10:42.53 I did is I tried hard to resist the devil. 00:10:42.54\00:10:47.24 Because I knew if I could resist him, 00:10:48.10\00:10:49.38 he's gonna flee from me. The problem is I missed 00:10:49.73\00:10:52.76 the very important part of this text that I needed 00:10:52.77\00:10:55.87 to first submit myself to God and I tell you when 00:10:55.88\00:10:59.69 we first submit that means surrender ourselves 00:10:59.70\00:11:02.46 to God. When I first do that I have never lost 00:11:02.47\00:11:06.54 a battle is because the Lord shall fight for you. 00:11:06.55\00:11:10.19 And ye shall hold your peace, that is the promise 00:11:10.81\00:11:13.42 of the Lord. If we are surrendered, 00:11:13.43\00:11:16.11 if we first submit to God it is the strength 00:11:16.12\00:11:18.60 of God that conquers the temptation, 00:11:18.61\00:11:21.87 working out his will in us, to will and to do of 00:11:21.88\00:11:25.81 his good pleasure. It's us that makes the choice, 00:11:25.82\00:11:28.72 it's us that makes the choice to connect to God, 00:11:29.89\00:11:32.27 it's us to make the choice to submit, 00:11:32.82\00:11:34.50 to surrender to God. It is God that works in us 00:11:34.51\00:11:37.54 as we make the choice to resist the devil, 00:11:37.55\00:11:40.18 to resist the temptation and he will flee from us. 00:11:40.82\00:11:44.21 Now, it's interesting, if you have your Bibles 00:11:44.93\00:11:46.83 there continue on with verse 8, 00:11:46.84\00:11:50.11 I like verse 8 because it really is a continuation 00:11:51.02\00:11:54.77 of verse 7 it saying in a different way. 00:11:55.48\00:11:57.36 Draw nigh to God, and he will what? 00:11:57.37\00:11:59.78 Draw night to you that are the emphasis to 00:12:00.44\00:12:02.92 that verse. That I wanna focus on for a moment. 00:12:02.93\00:12:06.02 If we will, in verse 7 submit, in verse 8 draw 00:12:06.98\00:12:12.79 nigh, notice that in both of those God is asking us 00:12:12.80\00:12:16.27 to do something to get close to him in 00:12:16.28\00:12:19.69 order to overcome temptation. 00:12:19.70\00:12:22.15 The beautiful part of this is that as God sees 00:12:23.84\00:12:27.30 our weakness, he gives us two verses that 00:12:27.31\00:12:31.70 say the same thing because he knows the 00:12:31.71\00:12:33.71 dullness of our minds. That's whats I love about 00:12:33.72\00:12:36.25 the gospels, Jesus didn't just write one gospel, 00:12:36.26\00:12:39.89 he let us have four different gospels. 00:12:40.65\00:12:42.96 And he wanted to show us in so many different 00:12:44.01\00:12:46.80 ways how to reach our hearts and to show 00:12:46.81\00:12:50.06 himself to us. So, we didn't miss it, 00:12:50.07\00:12:51.90 so in verse 7 he says submit yourselves, 00:12:52.72\00:12:55.33 surrender yourselves, in verse 8 he says draw nigh. 00:12:56.26\00:12:59.39 If we draw night to God, he promises that when 00:12:59.95\00:13:03.26 we make that choice that he's gonna draw 00:13:03.27\00:13:05.46 nigh to us. The result is we are going to win 00:13:05.47\00:13:08.81 the greatest battle that we face and that battle 00:13:09.84\00:13:12.78 is the surrender of self to the will of God. 00:13:12.79\00:13:15.34 I wanna share an illustration with you, 00:13:16.14\00:13:17.49 I was on an airplane, I had completed an seminar. 00:13:18.62\00:13:21.17 A weekend of meetings in the church, 00:13:21.90\00:13:23.84 it was Sunday in morning. Now, 00:13:25.41\00:13:28.62 usually in my family or my wife in a portion 00:13:28.63\00:13:32.28 of my family because our ministry is a 00:13:32.29\00:13:34.33 family ministry we often travel together. 00:13:34.34\00:13:36.28 But this one particular weekend I was by myself, 00:13:36.29\00:13:39.26 Sunday morning I was exhausted and I was 00:13:40.79\00:13:44.55 sitting there, it was in Dallas. 00:13:44.56\00:13:46.80 Before I was sitting on the airplane 00:13:47.72\00:13:48.88 I was sitting on the side of the airplane 00:13:49.92\00:13:52.18 had three seats. I was sitting by the window; 00:13:52.19\00:13:55.29 there was vacant seat in the middle. 00:13:55.96\00:13:57.95 And then there was a nicely dressed gentlemen 00:13:58.53\00:14:01.38 sitting in the aisle seat. As I was sitting there 00:14:01.39\00:14:05.13 waiting for the plane to prepare for take off, 00:14:05.14\00:14:09.10 I was just relaxing and I saw the in-flight magazine 00:14:10.21\00:14:13.78 in the seat pocket the seat ahead of me. 00:14:15.14\00:14:17.26 And as I was reaching for that in-flight magazine, 00:14:18.85\00:14:22.49 the Lord called to me. No, audible voice that still 00:14:23.65\00:14:28.45 small voice, the Lord called to me in quietness 00:14:28.46\00:14:33.93 of that moment. And as I was reaching 00:14:33.94\00:14:35.94 for the in-flight magazine, the Lord called to me 00:14:35.95\00:14:38.76 to take out my Bible. Now, I'm gonna be very honest 00:14:39.59\00:14:42.41 with you, because this is how our greatest battle 00:14:42.42\00:14:44.14 works and this is why I'm using this illustration. 00:14:44.15\00:14:45.98 This is real life and this is how it works for 00:14:46.73\00:14:49.14 everyone who struggles with being a real living 00:14:49.15\00:14:52.66 Christian. And that moment all I wanted to do was 00:14:52.67\00:14:56.78 relax, is there anything wrong with relaxing? 00:14:56.79\00:14:59.46 No, the Lord wants us to come apart and rest, 00:15:00.39\00:15:02.97 but I will tell you what the Lord does not want. 00:15:03.62\00:15:05.91 He does not want us to relax or hold upon 00:15:05.92\00:15:09.94 divine power and there I was reaching for the 00:15:09.95\00:15:13.68 in-flight magazine and the Lord said take out 00:15:13.69\00:15:16.65 your Bible and I began to argue with the Lord 00:15:16.66\00:15:18.73 like we often do. I began to justify that 00:15:18.74\00:15:22.00 I was tired, Lord, I'm tired. The Lord it's been 00:15:22.01\00:15:25.55 a long weekend, my mind is so weird. 00:15:25.56\00:15:28.13 I just wanna relax. The Lord brought this 00:15:28.14\00:15:32.59 thought to me, I don't need to hear your excuses, 00:15:32.60\00:15:37.29 what I need to know is my son. 00:15:38.61\00:15:40.49 Will you give me your heart? Immediately that 00:15:42.16\00:15:46.40 brought that verse to my mind, 00:15:46.41\00:15:48.11 my son give me that heart. 00:15:49.57\00:15:50.96 Proverbs the 23rd chapter and the 26th verse: 00:15:50.97\00:15:55.36 "My son, give me thine heart, 00:15:56.75\00:15:59.21 now the question is are we really willing when 00:16:00.40\00:16:06.00 we wanna do my way, are we really willing 00:16:06.01\00:16:09.30 to give him? This is to submit yourselves 00:16:09.31\00:16:11.95 therefore, this is the surrender in this moment. 00:16:11.96\00:16:15.83 It's not whether we're willing to do it at the 00:16:15.84\00:16:17.34 beginning of the day, right now my son are you 00:16:17.35\00:16:19.97 willing to give me your heart in these 00:16:19.98\00:16:23.68 circumstances. You see God doesn't need our 00:16:23.69\00:16:25.62 excuses, God doesn't need to know all of why 00:16:25.63\00:16:30.09 we're tired, he knows all these things. 00:16:30.70\00:16:32.23 Yes, we can tell him, he loves to hear but 00:16:32.82\00:16:35.12 he doesn't want us to excuse not staying 00:16:35.13\00:16:38.42 in his will. God was calling me to stay in his 00:16:38.43\00:16:42.30 present will, so there is my greatest battle. 00:16:42.31\00:16:47.19 The greatest battle that you face, 00:16:47.88\00:16:49.15 the greatest battle that I face everyday 00:16:49.77\00:16:52.16 often moment by moment is will I go my way 00:16:52.17\00:16:55.43 or will I yield to the potter who says, 00:16:56.28\00:16:58.18 I am the potter you are the clay. 00:16:58.71\00:17:01.20 Will the clay strive with the potter; 00:17:01.75\00:17:04.84 will we strive with our maker? Oh! 00:17:06.16\00:17:08.60 We often do and there I was in my 00:17:08.61\00:17:10.43 greatest battle and I sat therefore you know 00:17:10.44\00:17:13.62 this happened in split seconds. 00:17:13.63\00:17:15.51 And I'm thankful to say when the Lord called 00:17:16.39\00:17:18.03 to my heart and reminded me that all he needed 00:17:18.04\00:17:20.86 was my heart and not my excuses. 00:17:20.87\00:17:22.42 I, re-surrendered myself and I took out my Bible. 00:17:23.08\00:17:27.58 And I said Lord what do you want me to do? 00:17:28.55\00:17:29.67 And I opened my Bible and it fell open to 00:17:30.35\00:17:32.23 Ecclesiastes the third chapter. 00:17:32.24\00:17:35.18 And I began to read, that I hadn't read there 00:17:36.21\00:17:37.67 and it's, to everything there is a season you 00:17:38.39\00:17:40.10 know the verses and the plane began to take off 00:17:40.11\00:17:45.55 on the runway. And as we were going up through 00:17:46.17\00:17:49.28 the clouds within moments we were in one of the 00:17:49.29\00:17:52.37 most violent thunderstorms I have 00:17:52.38\00:17:54.75 ever been in my life. The plane, a big plane, 00:17:54.76\00:17:58.98 it was buffed, it was racked, was tossed. 00:17:58.99\00:18:01.74 And I tell you before we had been off the ground 00:18:02.52\00:18:07.02 for less then three minutes, suddenly out my 00:18:07.55\00:18:11.47 window, out the left side of the aircraft, 00:18:12.24\00:18:13.48 I was sitting so I could look right down the 00:18:13.49\00:18:16.53 leading edge of the wing. Suddenly there was 00:18:16.54\00:18:20.43 a flag there, fire lightning struck the wing 00:18:20.44\00:18:25.48 of the airplane. And rolled into a huge ball of fire, 00:18:25.49\00:18:29.63 now I wish for a moment you could have been 00:18:30.27\00:18:33.44 on that airplane with me and heard the sounds 00:18:33.45\00:18:36.90 of dignified people. Sounds that you wouldn't 00:18:36.91\00:18:41.31 expect from some people, but that plane came alive 00:18:41.32\00:18:44.24 with very interesting sounds and quickly 00:18:44.25\00:18:47.30 there after the captain came out and he said 00:18:47.31\00:18:50.05 this is your captain. He said we've just had 00:18:50.06\00:18:52.86 a direct strike from lightning, 00:18:52.87\00:18:54.26 everything is okay, but it always curls my skin 00:18:54.87\00:18:58.42 he said. I tell you it curled a lot of people's 00:18:58.43\00:19:01.43 skin that morning on that flight. But I wanna tell 00:19:02.00\00:19:05.05 you that I had chosen by faith to be in the will 00:19:06.04\00:19:08.82 of my heavenly Father. I'd chosen to not reach 00:19:09.44\00:19:13.30 for the in-flight magazine, does that mean that 00:19:13.31\00:19:14.74 I don't ever read an in-flight magazine? 00:19:15.10\00:19:16.46 No, that's not the point, the point is this, 00:19:16.47\00:19:18.72 in that moment of time God wanted me to reach 00:19:19.38\00:19:21.80 for my Bible. He had something else in mind and 00:19:22.37\00:19:25.95 very shortly after the captain went off the air 00:19:25.96\00:19:27.82 the man who was sitting in the aisle seat turned 00:19:28.46\00:19:32.69 to me and he said I noticed that you're 00:19:32.70\00:19:36.20 reading in Ecclesiastes the third chapter when 00:19:36.21\00:19:38.71 the lightening hit the plane. Wow, 00:19:38.72\00:19:40.92 very observant, he said I also noticed that you did 00:19:40.93\00:19:44.26 not have the kind of reaction that so many 00:19:44.27\00:19:46.65 people had on this airplane. He said, 00:19:46.66\00:19:49.73 tell me about it, tell me about what is making 00:19:49.74\00:19:53.89 the difference in your life right now? 00:19:53.90\00:19:56.73 Oh! What an opportunity for the next 20 00:19:57.90\00:20:00.05 or 25 minutes, God gave me an opportunity to 00:20:00.06\00:20:03.32 share this simple gospel of Jesus Christ and how 00:20:03.33\00:20:07.20 it works in the individual connection with God 00:20:07.21\00:20:11.03 in our greatest battle and then he asked me, 00:20:11.04\00:20:14.13 how does it work in your marriage? 00:20:14.14\00:20:15.54 And I began to share with him that it works 00:20:16.85\00:20:19.18 first in our marriage because as we connect 00:20:19.19\00:20:21.51 ourselves with God and we experience real 00:20:21.52\00:20:23.44 power that our wife will be the first one that 00:20:23.45\00:20:26.48 will be the recipient of that good news, 00:20:26.49\00:20:28.71 that we're experiencing. And he said, 00:20:29.29\00:20:31.28 and how does it work in parenting situations and, 00:20:31.29\00:20:33.96 we just talked for 20 or 25 minutes and 00:20:34.89\00:20:37.71 then the Lord gave me the opportunity to ask him 00:20:37.72\00:20:41.16 a question. I said so what you do? 00:20:41.17\00:20:44.68 He said I'm Associate Professor of Marriage 00:20:46.79\00:20:49.46 and the Family at Brigham Young University. 00:20:49.47\00:20:52.23 And I said praise the Lord, quietly, 00:20:53.80\00:20:55.65 praise the Lord that I did not do what self 00:20:57.02\00:21:02.31 wanted to do, not because of the in-flight magazine, 00:21:02.32\00:21:06.05 but because God had a bigger plan, 00:21:06.06\00:21:07.67 God had a soul there. And that man asked me 00:21:08.12\00:21:11.30 for all the things that our ministry produces 00:21:11.31\00:21:13.74 on the personal walk, asked for the things that 00:21:14.47\00:21:17.40 we produce on the marriage, on the family. 00:21:17.41\00:21:19.91 What an opportunity, I didn't know, 00:21:21.08\00:21:23.35 but I wanna tell you something today 00:21:24.25\00:21:25.46 very simply and very practically that if 00:21:26.61\00:21:28.68 I would have argued against God and self would 00:21:28.69\00:21:31.82 have won out and I got the in-flight magazine out, 00:21:31.83\00:21:35.11 I got my way and I left my Bible in my briefcase. 00:21:35.67\00:21:38.93 I tell you that opportunity would never 00:21:39.46\00:21:41.68 have happened for that man, because God wanted 00:21:41.69\00:21:46.78 to reach into that man's heart. Oh! Friends, 00:21:46.79\00:21:51.01 there is a bigger picture in the salvation of man 00:21:52.10\00:21:54.69 then just myself. There is a bigger picture, 00:21:55.35\00:21:58.39 God wants to reveal himself hurting humanity, 00:21:58.40\00:22:03.87 people that have needs. You have needs today, 00:22:04.41\00:22:08.83 just like I do, I know my need more day by day 00:22:09.52\00:22:14.16 because I recognize that without the Lord 00:22:14.17\00:22:17.29 regardless of what I've done yesterday, 00:22:17.87\00:22:19.28 regardless of how much good I might have done. 00:22:19.83\00:22:22.60 There was someone last week under the influence 00:22:23.71\00:22:28.13 and power of God that today is a new day. 00:22:28.14\00:22:30.98 And I need to meet the battles of today 00:22:31.67\00:22:33.91 in the strength of Jesus Christ that I cannot 00:22:34.79\00:22:38.20 fight those battles justifying myself and doing 00:22:38.21\00:22:40.92 what I wanna do. And I cannot win those battles, 00:22:40.93\00:22:44.44 by trying to do it in my own strength. 00:22:44.45\00:22:47.62 It's only as we give ourselves wholeheartedly, 00:22:48.75\00:22:52.47 you see for many years I didn't understand 00:22:54.00\00:22:57.33 my greatest battle. For many years 00:22:57.34\00:23:00.11 I thought that I had a strong will you see what 00:23:00.12\00:23:04.31 I came to understand is that will power and 00:23:04.32\00:23:08.49 divine power are very separate. 00:23:08.50\00:23:11.72 Many people that I've need confuse will power 00:23:12.27\00:23:15.11 with divine power, they think if they have strong 00:23:15.12\00:23:18.13 will power, if they have power to do what is right. 00:23:18.14\00:23:21.08 And I tell you will power is for one thing 00:23:21.65\00:23:25.39 only friends, for one thing, will 00:23:25.40\00:23:27.77 power is choice power. Will power is the power 00:23:28.53\00:23:34.47 that God gives to every man, woman and child, just 00:23:34.48\00:23:36.78 like he gives to every woman, man, child, 00:23:37.46\00:23:40.45 youth, a measure of faith will power is given 00:23:40.46\00:23:44.04 to make choices. And those choices either 00:23:45.05\00:23:48.22 connect our weakness to his enduring might 00:23:48.23\00:23:52.34 or those choices hold on to our selfishness and 00:23:53.10\00:23:56.67 we play out our sinful self to the hurt of the 00:23:56.68\00:24:01.07 cause of God and to the hurt of ourselves 00:24:01.08\00:24:03.38 and those that we love. So, will power 00:24:03.39\00:24:06.99 is choice power, will power is the choice 00:24:08.29\00:24:12.19 to connect us with God, it is not the power 00:24:12.20\00:24:16.95 to overcome sin. When I began to understand this, 00:24:16.96\00:24:20.40 I recognized this is the difference I've been 00:24:20.41\00:24:25.05 missing, when temptation comes instead 00:24:25.06\00:24:28.51 of thinking about the temptation, 00:24:28.52\00:24:31.16 how good it looks, how good it smells, 00:24:31.17\00:24:33.07 how good it feels. Instead of focusing on all 00:24:33.08\00:24:36.73 those things like Eve did at the tree of the 00:24:36.74\00:24:39.37 knowledge of good and evil. She focused on all the 00:24:39.38\00:24:42.04 things that met her senses and she lost her focus 00:24:42.05\00:24:48.20 upon God. She lost her submission to God, 00:24:48.21\00:24:51.22 she lost being drawn nigh to God, 00:24:51.87\00:24:54.31 she began to question God, she began to 00:24:54.89\00:24:57.14 rationalize herself. And this is what we do 00:24:57.15\00:24:59.14 and so when temptation comes friends 00:25:00.25\00:25:01.95 I wanna encourage you that when it comes, 00:25:01.96\00:25:04.56 instead of focusing on what's in the refrigerator. 00:25:05.16\00:25:07.21 Instead of focusing now what I wanna say 00:25:07.70\00:25:09.64 to my wife when she doesn't agree with me, 00:25:09.65\00:25:11.52 instead of focusing upon the irritation that you're 00:25:11.53\00:25:14.83 starting to feel when someone cuts you off. 00:25:14.84\00:25:18.31 The first work that we have in our greatest 00:25:19.65\00:25:21.89 battle is to connect our weakness, 00:25:21.90\00:25:25.22 to make a choice, to use my will power, 00:25:25.96\00:25:28.77 to connect my weakness, to make a choice, 00:25:29.78\00:25:33.11 to say Lord if all you can say and I've said 00:25:33.73\00:25:36.13 it before. If all you can say is Lord, 00:25:36.14\00:25:39.18 save me and you connect your power, 00:25:39.77\00:25:43.62 you're weakened for your power to the 00:25:44.57\00:25:47.09 enduring power of Jesus Christ, 00:25:47.10\00:25:50.54 you will win in your greatest battle. 00:25:50.55\00:25:53.42 You will have power to rise above the difficulties 00:25:54.36\00:25:58.84 that we face day by day, our choice needs 00:25:59.67\00:26:04.81 to be first to connect with God. 00:26:04.82\00:26:07.76 As we connect with God the temptation begins to 00:26:08.71\00:26:12.43 lose it's strength, as we look at the temptation 00:26:12.44\00:26:16.81 it gets bigger it smells better, it looms larger. 00:26:16.82\00:26:20.03 But as we say Lord I submit myself to you, 00:26:20.60\00:26:24.48 Lord Keep me, keep my weakness, 00:26:25.05\00:26:27.16 keep my frailty. Lord, I give myself to you, 00:26:27.17\00:26:31.70 then we connect to his strength, 00:26:32.49\00:26:36.78 we need that strength to be victorious in our 00:26:37.67\00:26:41.14 greatest battle. And I wanted to take 00:26:41.15\00:26:43.84 a moment right now before we close, because 00:26:43.85\00:26:45.81 I feel such a need myself for the power, 00:26:45.82\00:26:49.75 the life changing power of God to win my 00:26:49.76\00:26:52.47 greatest battle. I want you to pray 00:26:52.48\00:26:53.94 with us right now, will you 00:26:53.95\00:26:55.64 bow with me where you are? 00:26:55.65\00:26:56.74 Father, we come to you because we know 00:26:57.65\00:26:59.32 that you have the strength and the power 00:26:59.33\00:27:01.86 and the mighty to give us the victory in our 00:27:01.87\00:27:04.60 greatest battle. And Lord, we give ourselves 00:27:04.61\00:27:08.03 to you that we use our power of choice to 00:27:08.04\00:27:10.60 connect our weakness with your strength. 00:27:10.61\00:27:12.84 That in the strength of Jesus Christ 00:27:13.65\00:27:15.01 we can win in our greatest battle against self, 00:27:15.02\00:27:17.72 that we will surrender self to your 00:27:17.73\00:27:19.22 will in Jesus name Amen. 00:27:19.23\00:27:22.60 You know I wanna encourage you today, that 00:27:25.02\00:27:26.46 you can be victorious, if you've never been 00:27:28.31\00:27:32.65 victorious before, if you've had a floundering 00:27:32.66\00:27:36.28 experience. Surrender yourself unconditionally 00:27:36.29\00:27:40.06 to Jesus Christ today and you will have the 00:27:40.07\00:27:44.18 power of God to win in your greatest battle. 00:27:44.19\00:27:47.43 You're greatest battle; you're greatest battle 00:27:48.18\00:27:51.05 will be the difference that Jesus can make. 00:27:51.06\00:27:54.68