I'm so glad you could
join us for today's program.
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My name is Dale Lemon and
I Pastor the Adventist church
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in Battle Creek Michigan.
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Today we are going to be looking
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more at the ten
promises that God has given us.
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Ten fantastic promises.
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I think you will
really be surprised as you
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understand where
these promises are found.
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But first let us have a
word of prayer, Father in heaven
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Thank you that we can be
together now to understand
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your word better.
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Please send Your
Spirit to bless this time.
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In the homes where
many are viewing and right
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here as I share.
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Use me that Your own
words will come through and
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hearts will be
changed. In Jesus name, Amen!
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Well the ten promises that we
have in mind are usually called
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the Ten Commandments and
many people think of them more
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as a source of guilt than they
do as something to rejoice in.
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But that only because they
haven't understood God's reason
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for giving those Ten
Commandments or ten promises.
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Because, in fact, as we look at
them and realize that they are
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far beyond our moral ability.
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Then we look to Jesus and
we see that He has already
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full filled all ten of
those wonderful promises
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for us and is ready to
write them in our hearts.
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That is such a blessing.
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To come to that understanding
changes our whole attitude.
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So the gospel is actually
promised in the Ten Commandments
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Why did God give His laws?
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Was it just because He
wanted to show who was boss?
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He wanted to say I Am the boss
and everybody needs to know it?
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So these are the rules and you
better obey them! No Not at all.
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If you have looked carefully
at the Ten Commandments, you
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notice that they are all
written for our happiness.
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They all are intimately
connected with our own
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being as humans.
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In other words, those who
don't receive the grace of
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God to obey those commandments,
to live that kind of life,
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cannot possibly be happy.
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But those who do
receive God's grace
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to live in harmony with
those commandments will be happy
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because our very natures
are created in such a way
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that we cannot possibly
have a good life if we separate
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ourselves from God's
will and the commandments.
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So it was not God's
desire to be boss, but it was
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because He loved us that He
made rules for our happiness.
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Now folks, you and I
have all had experiences,
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especially if you are a parent.
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You may remember taking your
two year old the grocery store.
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Two year old, of course,
like to get into everything.
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They know what they
want and what they like.
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If you go by a long counter with
lots of candy, bags of candy
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candy bars and so forth.
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Your two year old may
begin to pick these things up.
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May begin to say in
his/her childish way
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I want this.
This is what I want.
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Now you are the
parent, you have wisdom.
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And so you realize that a
two year old can't handle very
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much sweets and if you let them
have too many they will get sick
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So in your
parental wisdom you say
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No, not this time.
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We won't be able
to buy that this time!
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Of course the two year old
looks at the parental rule as a
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negative thing.
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My mom or my dad just
doesn't want me to have fun.
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My mom or dad doesn't
want me to have what I want.
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Their restricting my desires.
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He doesn't
understand that you are making
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your ruling out of love in fact
your only motivation is that
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your concerned
about his well-being.
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And so that is
what God has to face.
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It has to be really hard being
God because He has to constantly
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try to keep us out of trouble,
which means He's making rules.
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At the same time
convincing us that He loves us
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and is
interested in our happiness.
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But we think our happiness
requires us to do something
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that He knows
would only hurt us,
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that puts Him
in a hard position.
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But as we get more mature
and grow and trust Him more,
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experience more of life, we more
understand that everything God
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has commanded is really love.
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It is an expression of His
protective, parental love for us
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We have the same
experiences with teenagers.
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Of course they are quiet
a little more advanced than
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the two year old in
knowing what is good for them.
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Although they try
hard to forget it.
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They often will not
appreciate our rules.
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The teenager will wonder
why I have to be in by 10 PM.
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Why do you have to know
where I am all the time?
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Why do you have to know
whom I am with all the time?
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But good parents must
make such rules in order to
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be responsible for
their young people.
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And so God is
responsible with us.
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He is not arbitrary, He's
not bossy, He's not dogmatic.
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The rules He makes are simply
inherent in our very being
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as the necessities for
our happiness and well-being.
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He is, of course,
the perfect parent
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He loves to be
called our Father.
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It's really His
favorite name because it implies
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that He's caring for us even
though He has to be the boss.
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Of course He is the only
one who could be the boss.
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He is the only One
that has the wisdom.
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He made us. He knows
exactly what we need.
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Only He could know what is
possibly in our best interest.
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Well as we have
discussed the Commandments we
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have seen them as promises.
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Good parents of course
even in their rules are
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really making promises,
are they not to their children?
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They are saying follow
this rule for your health.
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You'll have good
health all of your life.
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Follow this rule
you'll have a long life.
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Follow this rule you
will have good relationships.
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You'll have a happy marriage.
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Follow this rule and you
will develop spiritually.
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You will have
peace in your heart.
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So every good rule in a way
is a promise of a happy future.
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So it is easy to see
that God's Ten Commandments
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are ten promises
for a happy future.
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The neat thing is though,
they are promises in and of
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themselves, that is they are
not something we promised to do
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for God, but each
rule is something God
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has promised to do for us.
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It's not just that if we
keep them we have hope for happy
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ever after.
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Its more that if we allow Jesus
to give us these principles in
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our heart, then of
course we have eternal joy.
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Each of them is a promise of
God's work of grace in our lives
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Looking at them one by one we
find ourselves now at Ex. 20:13
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The sixth commandment.
It's a very brief one isn't it?
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Let's read it.
You shall not murder.
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I think probably most
people regard this as the
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easiest commandment to keep.
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Most people hate violence,
I was never inclined to
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to murder anyone.
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I may have broken all
the other commandments
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but I am sure I never
broken that commandment.
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because I have
never killed anybody.
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And yet in our
wicked, wicked world
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killing people, unfortunately,
is not that rare is it?
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Many people that seem
to be law-abiding citizens
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suddenly, in a fit of
anger will kill or in,
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or in depression.
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Millions, or course, are being
killed before they are born
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for the
convenience of the parents.
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There are dictators who
are murdering thousands their
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own countrymen. Millions even.
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Every few years that happens.
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We have wars of genocide in
which neighbors just rise up
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slaughter their neighbors
and steal all their possessions.
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These things have
happened and we wonder
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is it true ordinary
people have a killing
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instinct within themselves?
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Recently we were horrified
by stories in all the papers
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of the mother, this just seems
so unthinkable, mother of five
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children, who apparently
grew very depressed and felt
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that she could not
take care of her children.
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Somehow, we assume she had
some kind of psychosis going
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on there because she apparently
felt the best thing she could
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do was to put her children
to death, five little children.
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According to the story,
her after her husband went
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away to work, she took the
children, one by one into the
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bathroom where she held them
under the water in the bathtub
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until they were drowned.
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Imagine a mother watching
her own children struggle
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fight for
breath until they died.
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Unthinkable. Where
this does horrible evil,
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come from?
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Obviously the human heart
is capable of things we would
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hardly imagine.
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The father, when he found
out, was horrified and shocked
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because there had
been no indication that
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this might take place.
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She had been a faithful mother.
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We all need to look in
our own hearts and see what
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might really be there.
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Sometimes we brag about the
fact I may have told a few lies
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but I have never killed anyone.
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Sometimes we think of
five or six of the commandments
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that we think we have kept.
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Well I don't steal.
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I've been pretty good
to my parents you know.
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So forth. Oh Folks
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When we really look carefully
at God's law we discover
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that these have to be promises.
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Because none of them are
capable of obedience by us
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in our normal condition.
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In fact we find that we
have violated all of them.
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According to Jesus' teaching
even on this commandment
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about murder, we are all murders
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That's hard to imagine isn't it?
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Lets see how that can be.
Matthew 5 where we have Jesus
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great long sermon on the mount.
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It gives us an explanation of
spiritual character of God's law
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It helps us to see why
we can't achieve even one
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principle of it
in our own strength.
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Let's look at the verses
together from Matthew 5:21-22.
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So here we see Jesus
re-interpreting this commandment
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Thou salt not murder
and showing that even anger
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now He says anger without a
cause, I want you to remember
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the Bible, the apostle Paul,
Ephesians tells us that we are
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not to be angry past the sunset,
if we are then we have sinned.
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So we know what it means to
be angry without a cause is to
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it means to hold on to
our anger until it becomes
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resentment and hatred.
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It is okay to have a little
flare of anger when we see a
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wrong thing happen.
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There are things in this world
that are worth getting angry
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about, but to hold on to
that and to be hateful and to be
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resentful and desire vengeance
against the other person
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that is wrong isn't it?
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And when we do that,
Jesus says that we are
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in violation of
the sixth commandment.
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How can that be?
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I think it is because it is
natural to wish that person dead
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Whom we really hate, we
wish they would just disappear
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Sometimes don't we?
Have you ever been there?
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Well I hope you haven't.
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But this is
certainly an important thing to
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ponder in our hearts.
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I want you to understand
our own liability to this
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commandment so that you
can appreciate Christ's promise
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in full filling
it in our hearts.
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We often have excessive anger.
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And excessive anger, of course,
is the first cause of murder.
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Also we sometimes
lose respect for people.
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We say we don't hate them.
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But we just don't
have any respect for them.
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I want to point out to you
friends, that is the same as
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calling someone a fool
according to the scripture here.
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And Jesus says that those
people who call people fools
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are also in danger of hell fire.
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Remember that when we lose
respect for people we are not
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being Christ-like because
Christ respects everyone.
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You say wait a minute the Bible
says He doesn't respect anybody.
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Yeah but that is Old English,
it just means He doesn't favor
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anyone over anybody else.
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But He respects everyone,
He respects doesn't He?
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He gives you free
choice, He listens to your
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prayers, He does not seek
to distance Himself from you,
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He listens to your thinking
even though your thinking is
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so immature and unwise.
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And He reasons with you, He
says come let us reason together
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Jesus and the
Father respect you.
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Even though you have done
a lot of things which would
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deserve to be disrespected.
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He respects you.
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And He asks us to
respect each other also.
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And if we don't do
that we are in violation
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again of the sixth commandment.
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Well I found myself
in violation of that
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commandment one time.
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In fact, of
course, several times.
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But one really
serious occasion, in my life.
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It came home to me.
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I know the Lord allowed
this to happen to me because He
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wanted me to learn
something and to grow.
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I had a colleague
that I worked with.
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And you know when in ministry
and when you have someone
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you work closely with, in
ministry it is a special bond.
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You feel that person
is a real ally, and a real
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brother or sister in Christ.
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In this instance I
certainly felt that way.
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The work we did
together came out so well.
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We often prayed together.
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We often did various programs
together and I felt really
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bonded to this person.
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Then one day I discovered.
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To my complete amazement.
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That this person
was really my enemy.
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That this person
was jealous of me.
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And had been undermining me,
with my friends and with others
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I was trying to minister to.
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That this person had been
like Absalom at the gates.
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Turning people away
from me and trying to gather
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other people to himself.
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I found that this
person had tried to damage
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my relationship at
home, and to hurt my marriage.
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I found that this person had
also tried to damage my career,
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by spreading tales
about me to my superiors.
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I was shocked.
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I was horrified.
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I was devastated.
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I felt betrayed.
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I felt absolutely abused
because this had been a person
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that I thought was a
real brother In Christ.
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Well, of course, I supposed
I had some right to a little
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bit of anger, but then
the sun went down and I was
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suppose to forgive, Jesus
says forgive or your Father
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can't forgive you.
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He says for us to pray
forgive our debts as we
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forgive our debtors.
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But I would not forgive.
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I was angry, I
went to bed angry.
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I woke up the next day angry.
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In fact my anger
was increasing and my
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resentment kept increasing.
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And I became so angry and
it went on week after week.
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This thought of anger would
plague my thoughts whenever
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wasn't really busy
doing something else.
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When I was just driving
in my car, or wake up in the
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middle of the night.
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I would think about this
person and how angry I was.
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In fact I became aware of my
anger had become totally hateful
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I truly became aware
that I was violating the sixth
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commandment because I
really began to desire
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this person's death.
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I thought they desired
the worse possible vengeance.
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I had even worked up a scenario
in my mind where this person
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would be on the road and
run into a huge tanker truck.
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All the fuel would spill
out and it would be a terrible
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confrontation in
which this person would be
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completely vaporized.
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Boy was I angry.
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Sounds really embarrassing
now as I remember that.
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Not at all Christian.
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The Lord reminded me
that He had forgiven me
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of so many abuses.
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He had forgiven
me so wonderfully.
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He told me you have
to forgive this person.
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He reminded me to of
all His forgiveness of me
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wouldn't do me any
good unless I would turn
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around and forgive also.
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There are many
scriptures that teach that.
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Don't forget that precious
beatitude from the sermon on
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the mount, blessed
are the merciful for they
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shall obtain mercy.
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So I was driving in my
car one day and I had lost my
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appetite and was beginning
to get an ulcer, I was so upset.
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I was going down
the road and thinking
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these terrible,
terrible thoughts
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The Spirit of God convicted
me right there on the road.
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You must forgive and I
said Okay Lord I agree.
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I want to, I am ready
to, but I do know how.
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I can't seem to, I've already
tried but I can't seem to let go
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of my anger.
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That is where the Lord reminded
me that He had kept this
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commandment for me.
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He had certainly
faced the anger himself.
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He had, as they nailed
Him to the cross, He had said
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Father, forgive them, as
they nailed Him to the cross.
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But then He was there
to forgive, wasn't He?
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that was the whole point of the
cross, He was there to forgive.
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Sins passed, sins
present, and even sins future.
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It was all covered there.
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He knows how to forgive.
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As I remembered
that, I thought okay.
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Certainly if you could
forgive everyone, everyone.
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Hitler, Paul Pot,
surely you can help me
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forgive my enemy.
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So right there in my
car, driving west bound, in
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Los Angels California,
I said Okay Lord help me
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and help me now.
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I choose to give up my hatred.
00:20:35.94\00:20:38.73
I choose to give up
my feelings of vengeance.
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I choose to stop condemning
this person and leave the
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judgment with You.
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I choose to forgive.
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Please give me that grace.
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And you know what?
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instantly I had peace in my
heart and all my anger was gone.
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I love to tell this
story because so realistic.
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Your going to say, What's
realistic about that, I prayed
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lots of times
and nothing happened.
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Oh yes, every time you
pray for God's blessings
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some thing happens.
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The problem is,
what happened to me
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My peace, and my freedom
from that anger, resentment
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lasted for five minutes.
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Then all my
anger came back again.
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But I was so glad that happened,
because that is realistic.
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God does answer your prayer.
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When you pray for victory,
He gives you victory right now.
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But that victory
doesn't always last.
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In fact it almost never does.
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Because God wants
you to pray again.
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Well I realized that.
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And I said, You know
that was the best five minutes
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I've had in three months.
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I said, Lord if You could
give me five minutes that good
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You did once You
can do it for me again.
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And so I asked Him again,
I said, Lord would you please
00:21:46.68\00:21:49.83
give me the power to
forgive my enemy again.
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I choose to let go,
and once again perfect
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peace came upon me.
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And this time it
lasted for ten minutes.
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But you know I was
so grateful because
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ten minutes was an improvement.
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And instead of being
discouraged, I said Lord
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You did it twice,
You can do it again.
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And I prayed again.
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I believe that we
gain almost every victory,
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in the Christian
life, in that very way.
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Sometimes people pray
once and instantly they are
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instantly they are
transformed and never
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have that temptation again.
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But most cases
we pray repeatedly.
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And repeatedly the
Lord give us the victory.
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And as we continue to
pray, it becomes a strength
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of character to us
to depend upon God.
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in that area of our lives.
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I want you to know that
it took two weeks of praying
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repeatedly for the
victory in that area.
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Before it became permanent.
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I was never angry or resentful
towards that person again.
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But folks, it was
only because Jesus had kept
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the promise already
in the commandments.
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He had kept the
promise in His human life.
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He was born under the law.
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That is what it
says in Galatians.
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He was born truly under
the condemnation of the law.
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He was truly born to
carry the weight of all our sins
00:22:59.74\00:23:02.82
upon His back, and
because He was born under
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the law and kept the
law so perfectly for us.
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We may look at
the law as a promise.
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Instead of as a
terrible condemnation.
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When they nailed
Him to the cross.
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He said Father forgive them.
00:23:16.88\00:23:20.65
He could of said you fools.
00:23:20.68\00:23:22.89
You're killing your Messiah.
00:23:22.92\00:23:25.31
He could of said, Don't
you realize you are killing the
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only person who
really loves you?
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But He had no
condemnation for them.
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He simply said, Father they
don't know what they are doing.
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He could of said, you
should crucify Satan not me.
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He's the enemy.
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But no He didn't.
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He bore it all.
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He didn't complain.
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He had no self pity.
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He didn't say, What
are you doing to me.
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He refused to condemn even
those where crucifying Him.
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He won the victory over hate.
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Therefore He won the victory
over killing, over murder.
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The Bible says,
you shall not murder.
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And yet many of us have thought
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Thoughts of bloody murder.
00:24:14.61\00:24:17.29
The Lord wants to
deliver us from those.
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In fact, we have a
scripture right here that
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I want to share with
you from Matthew 5:44
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Love your enemies,
that is not possible.
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Unless we have Jesus
doing it for us, in us.
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But that what
we're call to isn't it?
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Not only then is this
a commandment not to do
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something bad to others,
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but it's a
commandment to promote life,
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to encourage others,
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to strengthen them,
to give them more energy.
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Not to take it away.
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Do good to your enemies.
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I don't know about you,
but I'm not capable of keeping
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that
commandment, as a commandment.
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Only if it is a promise
is there any hope for me.
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Thank God it is a promise.
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His covenant has
been kept in Christ Jesus
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So the natural attitude
of all those who have this
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commandment
written in their heart.
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Will be to forgive
those who do them wrong.
00:25:35.38\00:25:39.23
To forgive
fathers who have abused.
00:25:39.26\00:25:43.00
To forgive mothers
who have neglected.
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To forgive siblings
who have been selfish.
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Who have taken
more than their share.
00:25:50.42\00:25:52.67
To forgive even God, well
He hasn't done anything wrong.
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but sometimes think He has.
00:25:58.82\00:25:59.82
And to forgive even
God for allowing the trials
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to come into
our lives, to do so.
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To let God take
away all resentment
00:26:08.24\00:26:11.42
from our lives.
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Oh folks we have
to let Him do it.
00:26:13.42\00:26:14.62
Don't you know that
when we really want to
00:26:14.65\00:26:17.54
kill somebody else,
it ends up killing us.
00:26:17.57\00:26:20.19
The anger and
resentment that we carry
00:26:20.23\00:26:22.64
ends up stealing
the life from us.
00:26:22.68\00:26:25.02
Weakening our immune
systems and making vulnerable
00:26:25.06\00:26:28.52
to every sort of illness.
00:26:28.55\00:26:29.89
Jesus not only doesn't
want us to kill anybody else,
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He doesn't want
us to kill ourselves.
00:26:32.85\00:26:34.39
And by hanging on to anger
and resentment we are dying
00:26:34.42\00:26:39.03
we are dying emotionally.
00:26:39.06\00:26:40.46
In our inability to
really trust people.
00:26:40.49\00:26:44.38
And we are dying physically
00:26:44.41\00:26:47.07
as this inner turmoil eats
away at our inner vitality.
00:26:47.10\00:26:52.69
It makes us vulnerable.
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So Jesus has delivered us
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From the violation of
the sixth commandment.
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By His perfect obedience.
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He has done that.
00:27:04.21\00:27:05.54
And since Jesus has
kept the commandment for you
00:27:05.57\00:27:09.12
you can now turn to Him
and say now Lord I believe
00:27:09.15\00:27:12.95
That all the anger,
resentment, malice in my heart
00:27:12.98\00:27:19.47
has already been
nailed to Your cross.
00:27:19.50\00:27:22.80
I believe that when You
said, Father forgive them
00:27:22.83\00:27:28.66
You were saying that for me.
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I believe that those words
are the very words that You
00:27:31.48\00:27:36.18
will put into my
mouth, as I claim your grace
00:27:36.21\00:27:40.26
in relationship of
those who have wronged me.
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Thank you so much
Lord for forgiving
00:27:44.37\00:27:50.06
and for planting your
commandment of forgiveness
00:27:50.10\00:27:53.34
in my heart today.
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