(MUSIC) 00:00:00.36\00:00:15.81 >>GOOD MORNING. YOU MAY HAVE NOTICED 00:00:15.81\00:00:20.05 WE'VE GOT THE PROPS OF THE TEN COMMANDMENTS HERE ON 00:00:20.05\00:00:24.02 THE PLATFORM AND THAT'S BECAUSE WE'RE RIGHT NOW IN 00:00:24.02\00:00:26.12 THE VERY MIDDLE OF A SERIES OF PRESENTATIONS DEALING WITH 00:00:26.12\00:00:30.03 THE WORDS THAT GOD SPOKE WITH HIS OWN MOUTH AND HE 00:00:30.03\00:00:33.76 WROTE WITH HIS OWN FINGER. THE LORD DID SOMETHING NEW. 00:00:33.76\00:00:37.20 HE DID SOMETHING EXTRAORDINARY WHEN HE GAVE THE 00:00:37.20\00:00:39.50 TEN COMMANDMENTS BECAUSE IT IS A PERFECT EXPRESSION OF HIS WILL 00:00:39.50\00:00:44.01 FOR MAN. AND SO WE'RE CONTINUING WITH 00:00:44.01\00:00:46.88 OUR SERIES TALKING ABOUT THESE 'LAWS OF LOVE AND LIBERTY' AND 00:00:46.88\00:00:51.11 TODAY, IN PARTICULAR, WE ARE ON COMMANDMENT NUMBER 7. 00:00:51.11\00:00:56.95 SOME OF YOU, IF YOU KNOW YOUR BIBLES AND IF YOU LEARNED 00:00:56.95\00:00:59.35 THIS GROWING UP AND GOING TO CHURCH YOU KNOW WHAT THAT IS. 00:00:59.35\00:01:02.62 IT'S ONLY FIVE WORDS. NOW SOMETIMES PEOPLE LEAVE ONE 00:01:02.62\00:01:06.13 OF THOSE WORDS OUT - "THOU SHALL NOT COMMIT ADULTERY." 00:01:06.13\00:01:12.23 YOU KNOW, IT'S POSSIBLE TO BE DISTRACTED TO DEATH. 00:01:12.23\00:01:18.77 THAT'S RIGHT. I UNDERSTAND, EVERY YEAR, 00:01:18.77\00:01:22.98 THAT AROUND NORTH AMERICA AND PROBABLY MANY PARTS OF THE 00:01:22.98\00:01:25.48 WORLD, THAT THE CASUALTY OF DEER SPIKES. 00:01:25.48\00:01:31.22 JUST IN ILLINOIS, FOR INSTANCE, THEY REPORT MORE THAN 00:01:31.22\00:01:34.22 17,000 DEER DIE EACH YEAR AFTER BEING STRUCK BY MOTORISTS IN 00:01:34.22\00:01:38.89 CARS. MOST OF THE TIME IT'S IN THE FALL. DO YOU KNOW WHY? 00:01:38.89\00:01:45.30 THAT'S WHEN THE BUCKS ARE GOING THROUGH THE RUT SEASON. 00:01:45.30\00:01:49.60 THEY ARE PREOCCUPIED WITH MATING AND BECAUSE OF THAT 00:01:49.60\00:01:54.24 PREOCCUPATION AND THEY BECOME SO CONCERNED ABOUT THEIR 00:01:54.24\00:01:57.35 TERRITORY AND THEY CAN BECOME SO CONCERNED ABOUT OTHER BUCKS, 00:01:57.35\00:02:02.62 THEY'LL GET ENGAGED IN EITHER FIGHTING ANOTHER BUCK OR 00:02:02.62\00:02:06.22 FOLLOWING A DOE AND THEY DON'T EVEN CARE IF A SEMI'S COMING 00:02:06.22\00:02:09.29 DOWN THE ROAD. AND THEY GET TO WHERE THEY 00:02:09.29\00:02:11.96 ARE DISTRACTED TO DEATH. UNFORTUNATELY THIS PROBLEM 00:02:11.96\00:02:15.90 DOES NOT JUST HAPPEN WITH DEER AND IT DOESN'T JUST 00:02:15.90\00:02:20.14 HAPPEN WITH BUCKS. IT HAPPENS WITH 00:02:20.14\00:02:22.64 HUMAN BUCKS AND DOES. THEY CAN BECOME SO PREOCCUPIED 00:02:22.64\00:02:28.48 WITH THE OPPOSITE SEX THAT IT BECOMES SPIRITUALLY FATAL. 00:02:28.48\00:02:34.28 AND YOU CAN FIND THE RECORD OF THIS IN THE BIBLE. 00:02:34.28\00:02:38.59 OF COURSE, THE COMMAND - EXODUS 20:14, "THOU SHALL NOT 00:02:38.59\00:02:42.69 COMMIT ADULTERY." AND IT'S APPROPRIATE FOR US TO HAVE A 00:02:42.69\00:02:47.13 DEFINITION FOR THAT. NOW, THIS IS A DELICATE 00:02:47.13\00:02:49.20 SERMON FOR ME TO SHARE BECAUSE IT'S IN THE BIBLE AND THE 00:02:49.20\00:02:51.77 SUBJECT IS ALL THROUGH THE BIBLE BUT, OF COURSE, WE HAVE YOUNG 00:02:51.77\00:02:54.57 MEMBERS THAT ARE HERE TODAY. I REMEMBER ONE TIME THAT A 00:02:54.57\00:02:58.47 FATHER WAS COMING HOME FROM CHURCH AND A PASTOR HAD JUST 00:02:58.47\00:03:00.88 PREACHED ABOUT 'THOU SHALT NOT COMMIT ADULTERY' AND THE 00:03:00.88\00:03:04.88 6-YEAR-OLD BOY, ON HIS WAY HOME, HE SAID, 'NOW DAD, EXACTLY 00:03:04.88\00:03:08.75 WHAT DOES IT MEAN 'THOU SHALL NOT COMMIT AGRICULTURE'? 00:03:08.75\00:03:14.52 AND THE FATHER DIDN'T WANT TO GO INTO TOO MUCH DETAIL AND HE 00:03:14.52\00:03:16.89 TOLD HIS SON, 'IT MEANS YOU'RE NOT SUPPOSED TO BE PLOWING 00:03:16.89\00:03:19.19 IN ANOTHER MAN'S FIELD'. AND THAT SEEMED TO 00:03:19.19\00:03:22.10 SATISFY EVERYBODY. SO I'LL DO MY BEST TO BE 00:03:22.10\00:03:28.14 DELICATE BUT SOME PLACES I'LL HAVE TO BE VERY PLAIN. YOU KNOW, 00:03:28.14\00:03:30.81 LET'S FACE IT, FRIENDS, THE KIDS TODAY KNOW A LOT MORE THAN 00:03:30.81\00:03:34.78 THEY DID ONE OR TWO GENERATIONS AGO BECAUSE IT'S EVERYWHERE. 00:03:34.78\00:03:40.15 AND SO, WHAT IS ADULTERY? DEFINITION - AND THERE'S A 00:03:40.15\00:03:47.22 DISTINCTION BETWEEN THE WORDS 'ADULTERY' AND 00:03:47.22\00:03:49.42 'FORNICATION', THEY BOTH FALL UNDER THE SEVENTH COMMANDMENT. 00:03:49.42\00:03:52.06 ADULTERY IS A VOLUNTARY SEXUAL INTIMACY BETWEEN A 00:03:52.06\00:03:55.73 MARRIED PERSON AND A PARTNER OTHER THAN THE LAWFUL SPOUSE. 00:03:55.73\00:04:01.04 WHEREAS FORNICATION IS SEXUAL INTERCOURSE BETWEEN PARTNERS 00:04:01.04\00:04:04.47 WHO ARE NOT MARRIED TO EACH OTHER. 00:04:04.47\00:04:07.18 AND BOTH ARE CLEARLY FORBIDDEN IN THE BIBLE. 00:04:07.18\00:04:10.51 YOU CAN FIND, FOR INSTANCE, IN GALATIANS 5:19, "NOW THE 00:04:10.51\00:04:13.82 WORKS OF THE FLESH ARE EVIDENT, WHICH ARE ADULTERY, FORNICATION" 00:04:13.82\00:04:18.55 - RIGHT THERE HE MAKES A DISTINCTION, DOESN'T HE? 00:04:18.55\00:04:20.66 - "ADULTERY, FORNICATION, UNCLEANNESS, 00:04:20.66\00:04:22.66 LEWDNESS," - AND THAT'S TALKING ABOUT OBSCENE BEHAVIOR - DIRTY 00:04:22.66\00:04:26.26 JOKES IS LEWD BEHAVIOR." 1 CORINTHIANS 6, VERSES 9 AND 10, 00:04:26.26\00:04:32.40 "DO YOU NOT KNOW THAT THE UNRIGHTEOUS WILL NOT INHERIT 00:04:32.40\00:04:35.10 THE KINGDOM OF GOD? DO NOT BE DECEIVED. 00:04:35.10\00:04:38.37 NEITHER FORNICATORS, NOR IDOLATERS, NOR ADULTERERS, 00:04:38.37\00:04:41.98 NOR HOMOSEXUALS, NOR SODOMITES...WILL INHERIT THE 00:04:41.98\00:04:45.15 KINGDOM OF GOD." - AND I WANT TO INCLUDE SO THAT PEOPLE DON'T 00:04:45.15\00:04:48.82 LOSE HOPE - "AND SUCH WERE SOME OF YOU." - PAUL WRITES TO THE 00:04:48.82\00:04:53.15 CORINTHIAN CHURCH. THEY HAD ALL KINDS OF PROBLEMS THERE. 00:04:53.15\00:04:56.59 NOT ONLY WITH HOMOSEXUALITY BUT WITH FORNICATION, WITH ADULTERY 00:04:56.59\00:05:00.40 - AND THEN PAUL GOES ON TO SAY, "AND SUCH WERE" - PAST TENSE - 00:05:00.40\00:05:05.00 'YOU. BUT YOU'VE BEEN WASHED, YOU'VE BEEN SANCTIFIED, YOU'VE 00:05:05.00\00:05:08.30 BEEN CLEANSED THROUGH POWER OF GOD.' AND SO AS WE TALK ABOUT 00:05:08.30\00:05:12.57 THIS SUBJECT - AS WITH THE OTHER SINS - YOU KNOW, WHEN WE TALK 00:05:12.57\00:05:15.68 ABOUT THE TEN COMMANDMENTS, NONE OF THEM ARE CALLED THE 00:05:15.68\00:05:17.58 UNPARDONABLE SIN. BUT THEY ARE CALLED SIN AND 00:05:17.58\00:05:23.15 SIN IS DEADLY IF IT IS NOT REPENTED OF AND FORSAKEN. 00:05:23.15\00:05:27.89 JESUS CAME TO SAVE US NOT IN OUR SINS BUT THE ANGEL SAID HE 00:05:27.89\00:05:30.93 CAME TO SAVE US FROM OUR SINS AND THIS IS ONE OF THOSE SINS - 00:05:30.93\00:05:36.73 ADULTERY. PROVERBS 6, VERSE 32, "WHOEVER 00:05:36.73\00:05:40.54 COMMITS ADULTERY WITH A WOMAN LACKS UNDERSTANDING; HE 00:05:40.54\00:05:43.91 WHO DOES SO DESTROYS HIS OWN SOUL." IT NOT ONLY HAS SOMETIMES 00:05:43.91\00:05:50.41 PHYSICAL RAMIFICATIONS AND SOCIAL RAMIFICATIONS, 00:05:50.41\00:05:53.21 IT DEFINITELY HAS SPIRITUAL RAMIFICATIONS. 00:05:53.21\00:05:57.82 THE PRODIGAL SON, WHEN HE LEFT HIS FATHER HE WASTED HIS 00:05:57.82\00:06:00.69 SUBSTANCE AMONG HARLOTS. ONE OF THE THINGS THAT OFTEN IS 00:06:00.69\00:06:03.96 PART AND PARCEL FROM DRIFTING FROM GOD IS MORAL DRIFT. 00:06:03.96\00:06:09.76 AND, YOU KNOW, MEN AND WOMEN IN THE BIBLE - THERE'S A PRETTY 00:06:09.76\00:06:14.57 SORDID HISTORY - YOU'VE GOT THE WISEST MAN WHO EVER LIVED - 00:06:14.57\00:06:18.17 WHAT WAS HIS NAME? ASIDE FROM JESUS. 00:06:18.17\00:06:21.18 SOLOMON, RIGHT? WHAT ENDED UP HAPPENING TO HIM? 00:06:21.18\00:06:26.21 HE LOVED MANY WOMEN AND THEY DREW HIS HEART AWAY. 00:06:26.21\00:06:30.35 HE GOT INTO TROUBLE. STRONGEST MAN WHO EVER 00:06:30.35\00:06:32.82 LIVED - WHAT WAS HIS NAME? (SAMPSON) GOD GAVE HIM 00:06:32.82\00:06:36.56 SUPERNATURAL STRENGTH AND HE COULD KILL A THOUSAND 00:06:36.56\00:06:39.83 PHILISTINES WITH THE JAWBONE OF A DONKEY AND YET HE 00:06:39.83\00:06:43.16 WAS OVERCOME BY ONE SEDUCTRESS. WHAT WAS HER NAME? 00:06:43.16\00:06:48.14 EVERYONE KNOWS DELILAH'S NAME, RIGHT? 00:06:48.14\00:06:50.44 ANYONE OUT HERE NAME THEIR DAUGHTER DELILAH? OR JEZEBEL? 00:06:50.44\00:06:54.18 NO ONE EVER PICKS THOSE NAMES FOR SOME REASON. 00:06:54.18\00:06:59.61 AND THEN DAVID, A MAN AFTER GOD'S OWN HEART. 00:06:59.61\00:07:02.82 AND IT WASN'T JUST DAVID, IT WAS DAVID AND WHAT'S HER NAME? 00:07:02.82\00:07:06.09 BATHSHEBA. YOU'VE GOT A HISTORY ALL THROUGH THE BIBLE OF THESE 00:07:06.09\00:07:09.69 THINGS AND YOU FIND IT IN THE NEW TESTAMENT AS WELL. 00:07:09.69\00:07:16.87 MARRIAGE IS A PERFECT PLAN FOR GOD. IT'S HIS ORIGINAL PLAN. 00:07:16.87\00:07:23.17 IN THE BEGINNING GOD SAID IT WAS NOT APPROPRIATE - AND THIS 00:07:23.17\00:07:26.34 IS IN GENESIS CHAPTER 2, VERSE 18, "...NOT GOOD THAT MAN SHOULD 00:07:26.34\00:07:29.18 BE ALONE." AND THAT'S SPEAKING ABOUT MANKIND. 00:07:29.18\00:07:32.28 MAN IS COMPLETE WHEN YOU HAVE A MAN AND A WOMAN. 00:07:32.28\00:07:36.69 MEN AND WOMEN ARE VERY DIFFERENT - CONTRADICTORY TO THE 00:07:36.69\00:07:39.99 SOCIAL NONSENSE WE'RE BEING TOLD THROUGH MEDIA - THAT 00:07:39.99\00:07:43.32 THERE'S ONLY A FEW LITTLE PLUMBING DIFFERENCES. 00:07:43.32\00:07:45.59 MEN AND WOMEN ARE VERY DIFFERENT. 00:07:45.59\00:07:47.56 WE'RE DIFFERENT IN THE WAY WE THINK. 00:07:47.56\00:07:48.76 WE'RE DIFFERENT IN OUR TEMPERAMENTS AND A NUMBER OF 00:07:48.76\00:07:52.60 WAYS PHYSIOLOGICALLY - IT'S NOT JUST THE CHROMOSOMES - AND 00:07:52.60\00:07:56.84 THE WAY OUR BRAINS WORK ARE VERY DIFFERENT. 00:07:56.84\00:08:00.61 AND IN ORDER FOR MAN TO BE COMPLETE IN THE IMAGE OF GOD, 00:08:00.61\00:08:05.35 IT IS A MAN AND A WOMAN MAKE A FAMILY. I HEARD SOMEONE JUST 00:08:05.35\00:08:09.92 RECENTLY SAY, 'WELL THERE'S NOTHING IN THE COMMANDMENT ABOUT 00:08:09.92\00:08:13.09 ADULTERY THAT SAYS THAT A MAN MUST MARRY A WOMAN. 00:08:13.09\00:08:17.36 I SAID, 'NO, THAT'S IN THE COMMANDMENT IMMEDIATELY BEFORE 00:08:17.36\00:08:19.89 THAT - OR AT LEAST COMMANDMENT FIVE - WHEN IT SAYS 00:08:19.89\00:08:21.93 'HONOR YOUR FATHER AND MOTHER' - GOD'S ESTABLISHED WHAT THE - THE 00:08:21.93\00:08:25.07 APPROPRIATE COMBINATION IS SUPPOSED TO BE, AMEN? 00:08:25.07\00:08:28.80 BUT ONCE THAT MARRIAGE HAS HAPPENED, IT IS NOT TO BE 00:08:28.80\00:08:32.67 VIOLATED. IT'S PART OF GOD'S PERFECT PLAN. 00:08:32.67\00:08:36.85 THE BIBLE TELLS US, IN GENESIS 2:24, "THEREFORE A MAN 00:08:36.85\00:08:40.08 SHALL LEAVE HIS FATHER AND MOTHER AND BE JOINED" - OR 00:08:40.08\00:08:43.22 CLEAVE - "TO HIS WIFE," - THAT MEANS BE GLUED UNTO HIS WIFE - 00:08:43.22\00:08:47.72 "AND THEY SHALL BECOME ONE FLESH." NOT ONLY DO THEY BECOME 00:08:47.72\00:08:51.46 ONE IN PURPOSE, BUT THEN THROUGH THEIR ACT OF LOVE THEY ARE GIVEN 00:08:51.46\00:08:58.33 THE INCREDIBLE DIVINE PRIVILEGE AND RESPONSIBILITY OF 00:08:58.33\00:09:03.30 PROCREATING IN THEIR OWN IMAGE AND IN THEIR CHILDREN THEY ARE 00:09:03.30\00:09:08.31 ONE. YOU ARE THE RESULT OF THE 00:09:08.31\00:09:11.88 ONENESS OF YOUR FATHER AND YOUR MOTHER. 00:09:11.88\00:09:13.85 EVERYBODY HERE - YOU MAY NOT HAVE MET THEM. 00:09:13.85\00:09:15.85 YOU MIGHT HAVE BEEN ADOPTED BUT YOU HAD A FATHER AND A MOTHER. 00:09:15.85\00:09:19.32 IT'S THE COMBINATION OF THOSE CHROMOSOMES THAT MADE 00:09:19.32\00:09:22.22 YOU UNIQUE. AND THIS WAS GOD'S 00:09:22.22\00:09:25.13 DESIGN FOR THE FAMILY. NOW MARRIAGE IS NOT SOMETHING 00:09:25.13\00:09:27.56 THAT GOD CREATED - THIS INSTITUTION OF MARRIAGE IS 00:09:27.56\00:09:30.07 NOT SOMETHING GOD INVENTED TO COPE WITH SIN. 00:09:30.07\00:09:33.23 KEEP IN MIND, MARRIAGE WAS PART OF GOD'S PERFECT PLAN. 00:09:33.23\00:09:37.11 IT HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH REDEMPTION. 00:09:37.11\00:09:39.54 IT WAS A SACRED ORDINANCE OF GOD WHEN WE HAD A PERFECT WORLD 00:09:39.54\00:09:44.95 AND IT IS STILL PART OF HIS PERFECT PLAN. 00:09:44.95\00:09:50.02 MARRIAGE DOESN'T HAVE TO DO WITH BEING SAVED BECAUSE MAN HAD 00:09:50.02\00:09:52.55 NOT FALLEN YET WHEN GOD INTRODUCED MARRIAGE. 00:09:52.55\00:09:56.22 IT'S SOMETHING THAT IS HOLY BECAUSE IT EXISTED BEFORE 00:09:56.22\00:09:59.49 THERE WAS EVEN SIN IN THE WORLD. 00:09:59.49\00:10:02.16 AND WHEN WE'RE INVITED TO PARTICIPATE IN MARRIAGE AND 00:10:02.16\00:10:04.57 WE MAKE THESE COVENANTS - IT'S NOT JUST A PROMISE, IT'S A 00:10:04.57\00:10:07.04 COVENANT WITH ANOTHER PERSON BEFORE WITNESSES IN THE PRESENCE 00:10:07.04\00:10:11.17 OF GOD. WHILE I'M ON THE SUBJECT OF 00:10:11.17\00:10:14.48 MARRIAGE CEREMONIES, YOU WANT TO HEAR AN INTERESTING STORY? 00:10:14.48\00:10:18.08 THE MOST MARRIED MAN IN THE WORLD - YUGOSLAVIA - A LADY 00:10:18.08\00:10:25.79 WAS TELLING HER COUSIN, ALSO A FEMALE, THAT SHE WAS GETTING 00:10:25.79\00:10:31.86 MARRIED. SHE TOLD HER VERY QUIETLY, 00:10:31.86\00:10:34.10 SHE SAID, 'I'M SORRY I CAN'T INVITE YOU. 00:10:34.10\00:10:36.70 I'M MARRYING A MAN WHO'S EXTREMELY TIMID. HE IS VERY SHY. 00:10:36.70\00:10:42.54 HE IS SUCH A PRIVATE MAN, BUT HE LOVES ME AND WE'RE 00:10:42.54\00:10:45.51 GETTING MARRIED IN A PRIVATE CEREMONY. 00:10:45.51\00:10:47.74 I JUST WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW.' WELL, HER COUSIN BECAME 00:10:47.74\00:10:50.71 SUSPICIOUS AND SHE FOUND OUT WHERE IT WAS AND SHE WAITED 00:10:50.71\00:10:53.11 OUTSIDE AND WHEN HER COUSIN CAME OUT FROM THE WEDDING SHE 00:10:53.11\00:10:57.89 GOT A GOOD LOOK AND, SURE ENOUGH, IT WAS HER HUSBAND - 00:10:57.89\00:11:02.69 ALONG WITH 48 OTHERS THAT HE HAD MARRIED AROUND THE COUNTRY. 00:11:02.69\00:11:07.40 HE TOLD THEM ALL, 'I'M VERY SHY.' AND HE WAS A 00:11:07.40\00:11:11.57 TRAVELING SALESMAN. AND, EVIDENTLY, HE MADE A 00:11:11.57\00:11:13.17 LOT OF MONEY BECAUSE HE WAS SUPPORTING THEM ALL. 00:11:13.17\00:11:17.07 AND HE JUST KEPT GETTING ON TRAINS AND PLANES AND GOING 00:11:17.07\00:11:18.97 FROM TOWN TO TOWN AND HE HAD A WIFE IN EVERY TOWN - 50 OF THEM. 00:11:18.97\00:11:23.04 HE WAS FINALLY ARRESTED AND PUT IN JAIL - 00:11:23.04\00:11:25.51 AND HE SEEMED VERY HAPPY WHEN HE WAS IN JAIL. 00:11:25.51\00:11:28.82 MATTER OF FACT HE SAID, 'PLEASE DON'T LET ME OUT.' 00:11:28.82\00:11:33.22 BECAUSE HE WAS MORE AFRAID OF WHAT WAS GOING TO HAPPEN TO 00:11:33.22\00:11:35.22 HIM NOW THAT THE TRUTH WAS OUT AMONG HIS 50 WIVES. 00:11:35.22\00:11:41.16 BUT THAT SORT OF IS INDICATIVE OF WHAT IS HAPPENING 00:11:41.16\00:11:44.30 IN OUR CULTURE. NOW THAT RECORD, SINCE I FIRST 00:11:44.30\00:11:47.34 SAW THIS AMAZING FACT, MAY HAVE BEEN BROKEN ALREADY. 00:11:47.34\00:11:51.24 WE'VE GOT SOME PEOPLE IN HOLLYWOOD THAT ARE WELL ON 00:11:51.24\00:11:52.87 THEIR WAY TO BREAK THE RECORD. BUT THAT'S NOT GOD'S PLAN. 00:11:52.87\00:11:57.58 GOD'S PLAN WAS THAT MARRIAGE WAS TO BE A PERMANENT 00:11:57.58\00:12:01.45 INSTITUTION. THERE ARE CASES WHERE IT'S 00:12:01.45\00:12:05.09 APPROPRIATE TO REMARRY AND THERE ARE EVEN CASES WHERE 00:12:05.09\00:12:08.92 BIBLICALLY IT'S APPROPRIATE TO DIVORCE. 00:12:08.92\00:12:10.96 MATTER OF FACT, ONE OF THE MOST COMMON QUESTIONS WE GET ON 00:12:10.96\00:12:14.13 BIBLE ANSWERS LIVE - WE HAVE TO BE VERY CAREFUL WHEN WE DO THIS 00:12:14.13\00:12:16.83 RADIO QUESTION PROGRAM WHERE WE INVITE PEOPLE TO CALL IN 00:12:16.83\00:12:20.17 THEIR BIBLE QUESTIONS. AS SOON AS WE GET A QUESTION 00:12:20.17\00:12:22.77 ABOUT MARRIAGE AND ADULTERY AND REMARRIAGE, ALL THE PHONES 00:12:22.77\00:12:27.78 BEGIN TO LIGHT UP WITH THAT QUESTION AND ALL OF A SUDDEN OUR 00:12:27.78\00:12:30.38 BIBLE ANSWER PROGRAM TURNS INTO A MARRIAGE COUNSELING PROGRAM. 00:12:30.38\00:12:33.92 AND SO, WE HAVE TO START REMINDING PEOPLE, YOU 00:12:33.92\00:12:35.82 KNOW, WE DON'T WANT TO MAKE THIS THE ONLY FOCUS. 00:12:35.82\00:12:38.05 BUT WE HAD SO MANY QUESTIONS THAT A LITTLE MORE 00:12:38.05\00:12:40.22 THAN A YEAR AGO I WROTE A BOOK SO THAT WE COULD SEND IT TO 00:12:40.22\00:12:42.76 PEOPLE BECAUSE SO MANY PEOPLE - A LOT OF THESE ARE CHRISTIANS. 00:12:42.76\00:12:45.73 I WISH I COULD TELL YOU THE STATISTICS AMONG CHRISTIANS 00:12:45.73\00:12:48.70 ARE REAL DIFFERENT FROM THE WORLD BUT THEY'RE NOT. 00:12:48.70\00:12:52.43 IT IS TRUE THAT AMONG CHRISTIANS THAT REGULARLY ATTEND 00:12:52.43\00:12:58.94 CHURCH, THERE IS A LOWER - PRAISE GOD - DIVORCE RATE. 00:12:58.94\00:13:02.71 BUT THE PEOPLE WHO DO THE SURVEYS, THEY DON'T ASK THAT 00:13:02.71\00:13:04.51 QUESTION, THEY ASK THE QUESTION ABOUT 00:13:04.51\00:13:05.95 'DO YOU CLAIM TO BE A CHRISTIAN?' 00:13:05.95\00:13:07.08 AND THEN THEY START LOOKING AT THE STATISTICS AND THEN 00:13:07.08\00:13:09.28 THEY FIND THAT THE RATE FOR DIVORCE, WHICH IS ABOUT 48% OF 00:13:09.28\00:13:12.79 FIRST MARRIAGES AROUND NORTH AMERICA IS JUST ABOUT AS BAD IN 00:13:12.79\00:13:16.89 THE CHURCH AS IT IS IN THE WORLD. THAT'S REALLY SAD WHEN 00:13:16.89\00:13:20.53 YOU THINK ABOUT IT. IT'S ONLY SLIGHTLY BETTER AMONG 00:13:20.53\00:13:23.23 THOSE WHO REGULARLY ATTEND CHURCH. 00:13:23.23\00:13:26.33 SO I WROTE A BOOK ON THIS, IT'S CALLED 'THE BIBLE ON 00:13:26.33\00:13:29.30 MARRIAGE, DIVORCE, AND REMARRIAGE' AND SO WE MADE IT SO 00:13:29.30\00:13:32.34 WE COULD SEND IT OUT TO PEOPLE BECAUSE WE HAD SO MANY 00:13:32.34\00:13:35.04 QUESTIONS. IT'S A COMPLICATED SUBJECT TOO. 00:13:35.04\00:13:38.05 WHAT ARE THE APPROPRIATE GROUNDS FOR DIVORCE? 00:13:38.05\00:13:41.22 AND IF YOU DO NOT HAVE APPROPRIATE BIBLICAL 00:13:41.22\00:13:43.15 GROUNDS, JESUS SAID IT'S ADULTERY. 00:13:43.15\00:13:46.42 WELL, WE'LL GET INTO THAT. I'M GETTING AHEAD 00:13:46.42\00:13:48.36 OF MYSELF NOW. SO, GOD HAS MADE MARRIAGE AS 00:13:48.36\00:13:52.89 PART OF HIS PERFECT PLAN AND HE HAS CREATED US WITH A DESIRE 00:13:52.89\00:13:58.40 FOR THE OPPOSITE SEX, PARTLY TO PROCREATE. 00:13:58.40\00:14:03.07 YOU KNOW, IF IT WASN'T FOR THAT SEXUAL DESIRE, VIRTUALLY NONE 00:14:03.07\00:14:06.04 OF US WOULD BE HERE. ISN'T THAT RIGHT? 00:14:06.04\00:14:09.51 AND IF IT WASN'T FOR HUNGER, YOU PROBABLY WOULDN'T BE HERE 00:14:09.51\00:14:11.91 ALSO. GOD GAVE YOU THE DESIRE TO 00:14:11.91\00:14:14.22 HUNGER FOR FOOD OR YOU WOULD EVENTUALLY DIE OUT. 00:14:14.22\00:14:17.72 AND HE ALSO PLANTED WITHIN US THIS HEALTHY, HOLY DESIRE 00:14:17.72\00:14:22.22 FOR SEX THAT, GOVERNED BY A SANCTIFIED MIND, IS A 00:14:22.22\00:14:26.39 GOOD THING. SEX IS NOT SOMETHING 00:14:26.39\00:14:28.26 THE DEVIL INVENTED. BUT WE'VE GOT TO BE CAREFUL 00:14:28.26\00:14:30.63 TO NOT COMMUNICATE THAT. SEX IS A BEAUTIFUL THING. 00:14:30.63\00:14:35.87 WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT IT - HOW TWO PEOPLE COME TOGETHER 00:14:35.87\00:14:39.07 THROUGH AN ACT OF LOVE AND EMBRACE AND THEY ARE ABLE TO 00:14:39.07\00:14:43.75 REPRODUCE ANOTHER PERSON. IT'S A BEAUTIFUL THING IN THE 00:14:43.75\00:14:48.62 CONTEXT THAT GOD HAS DESIGNED. BUT THE DEVIL HAS SUCCEEDED IN 00:14:48.62\00:14:52.25 MAKING IT UGLY AND DIRTY AND HE CAN - THE DEVIL CAN WARP 00:14:52.25\00:14:56.32 AND PERVERT EVERYTHING THAT GOD MAKES. 00:14:56.32\00:14:58.93 CAN A PERSON HAVE A PERVERTED APPETITE FOR FOOD? 00:14:58.93\00:15:01.80 YEAH. CAN A PERSON BE A GLUTTON? 00:15:01.80\00:15:04.43 SAME THING WITH THE DESIRES FOR SEX. 00:15:04.43\00:15:07.17 EVERYTHING GOOD THAT GOD HAS MADE THE DEVIL HAS SOUGHT TO 00:15:07.17\00:15:09.47 CORRUPT, INCLUDING MARRIAGE AND THAT INSTITUTION AND THOSE 00:15:09.47\00:15:13.94 DESIRES. BUT THOSE DESIRES MUST BE 00:15:13.94\00:15:16.04 RESTRAINED, JUST AS WITH THE DESIRES FOR FOOD. 00:15:16.04\00:15:19.31 IF THEY'RE NOT, THERE ARE CONSEQUENCES FOR THAT. 00:15:19.31\00:15:22.55 THE BIBLE TELLS US IN HEBREWS 13:4, "MARRIAGE IS 00:15:22.55\00:15:26.82 HONORABLE AMONG ALL, AND THE BED UNDEFILED; BUT FORNICATORS 00:15:26.82\00:15:31.93 AND ADULTERERS GOD WILL JUDGE." GENESIS 2:18, "AND THE 00:15:31.93\00:15:37.07 LORD GOD SAID, 'IT IS NOT GOOD THAT MAN SHOULD BE ALONE" - 00:15:37.07\00:15:39.30 I READ THAT TO YOU ALREADY. 1 CORINTHIANS 7:9 - IT SAYS 00:15:39.30\00:15:43.17 THAT IF A PERSON "CANNOT EXERCISE SELF-CONTROL, 00:15:43.17\00:15:46.78 LET THEM MARRY. FOR IT IS BETTER TO MARRY THAN 00:15:46.78\00:15:48.78 TO BURN WITH PASSION." YOU KNOW, I'VE GOT A 00:15:48.78\00:15:51.81 QUOTE HERE FROM C.S. LEWIS - WHILE I DON'T AGREE 00:15:51.81\00:15:54.85 WITH HIM ON EVERYTHING, HE WAS A BRILLIANT CHRISTIAN THEOLOGIAN. 00:15:54.85\00:15:59.09 HE SAYS, 'EITHER MARRIAGE WITH COMPLETE FAITHFULNESS TO 00:15:59.09\00:16:01.66 YOUR PARTNER OR TOTAL ABSTINENCE. 00:16:01.66\00:16:03.76 THOSE ARE THE ONLY OPTIONS FOR THE BELIEVER.' EITHER 00:16:03.76\00:16:07.13 MARRIAGE WITH COMPLETE FAITHFULNESS TO YOUR 00:16:07.13\00:16:10.33 PARTNER WHO, BY THE WAY, SHOULD BE OF THE OPPOSITE SEX, OR TOTAL 00:16:10.33\00:16:16.07 ABSTINENCE. AND, YOU KNOW, IT'S BEING PUT 00:16:16.07\00:16:19.24 FORTH TO OUR SOCIETY THAT IF A PERSON HAS A DESIRE FOR 00:16:19.24\00:16:23.81 SOMEONE OF THE SAME SEX, GOD MUST HAVE MADE THEM THAT WAY SO 00:16:23.81\00:16:26.25 THEY SHOULD GO AHEAD AND FULFILL IT. AND THAT IS A MYTH. 00:16:26.25\00:16:30.85 I JUST GOT A STUDY THAT DON MACKINTOSH SENT ME YESTERDAY 00:16:30.85\00:16:34.89 WHERE THEY TOOK TWINS THAT YOUNG MOTHERS THAT WERE UNWED 00:16:34.89\00:16:40.56 PUT UP FOR ADOPTION AND SOMETIMES THE ADOPTION AGENCY 00:16:40.56\00:16:42.76 DID NOT ADOPT OUT BOTH TWINS TO THE SAME FAMILY - IDENTICAL 00:16:42.76\00:16:45.50 TWINS - AND YEARS LATER - 20 YEARS LATER - THEY DID FOLLOW-UP 00:16:45.50\00:16:50.01 AND THEY SURVEYED AND THEY FOUND OUT THAT THE SAME NUMBER - THE 00:16:50.01\00:16:53.11 SAME PERCENTAGE OF THEM CHOSE OR IDENTIFIED THEMSELVES AS 00:16:53.11\00:16:58.25 BEING HOMOSEXUAL BUT HAD NEVER HAD ANYTHING TO DO WITH THEIR 00:16:58.25\00:17:00.95 IDENTICAL TWIN. SO IT HAD TO DO WITH WHAT 00:17:00.95\00:17:03.45 FAMILY AND ENVIRONMENT THEY GREW UP IN AND IT MIGHT HAVE 00:17:03.45\00:17:08.42 BEEN INFLUENCED SOMEWHAT BY TEMPERAMENT. EVERYONE'S GOT 00:17:08.42\00:17:10.83 DIFFERENT TEMPERAMENTS AND SOME TEMPERAMENTS ARE MORE PRONE 00:17:10.83\00:17:13.09 TO THAT, BUT THERE'S NOTHING PHYSIOLOGICAL. 00:17:13.09\00:17:17.07 SO IF A PERSON, BECAUSE OF NOT HAVING THE RIGHT INFLUENCES 00:17:17.07\00:17:21.80 AT THAT CRITICAL TIME IN THEIR LIFE, IF THEY GROW UP AND 00:17:21.80\00:17:24.87 THEY DON'T HAVE THE RIGHT IDENTITY FOR THEIR FATHER OR 00:17:24.87\00:17:27.08 THEIR MOTHER TO BOND WITH, THEY CAN GET SOME STRANGE DESIRES. 00:17:27.08\00:17:32.21 BUT IF YOU'RE A CHRISTIAN AND YOUR DESIRES DO NOT MATCH UP 00:17:32.21\00:17:35.25 WITH THE BIBLE, YOUR OPTION IS PRAY THAT GOD WILL GIVE YOU 00:17:35.25\00:17:40.06 SELF-CONTROL BECAUSE - YOU KNOW THE BIBLE SAYS WE ARE NOT 00:17:40.06\00:17:42.76 TO BE CONTROLLED BY THE FLESH BUT BY THE SPIRIT. 00:17:42.76\00:17:46.09 AND YOU CAN'T BE MAKING EXCUSES, 'WELL, I'M SINGLE. 00:17:46.09\00:17:49.40 GOD DOESN'T EXPECT ME TO JUST BE ABSTINENT AND SO I'M JUST 00:17:49.40\00:17:53.40 GOING TO GO OUT AND HIRE A PROSTITUTE - MALE OR FEMALE.' 00:17:53.40\00:17:56.14 I MEAN, THAT'S WHERE THAT LOGIC WILL TAKE YOU. 00:17:56.14\00:18:00.31 GOD EXPECTS US TO USE SELF-CONTROL. 00:18:00.31\00:18:03.48 DID JESUS? DO YOU THINK THAT JESUS WASN'T 00:18:03.48\00:18:06.95 TEMPTED IN ALL POINTS AS WE ARE? THE BIBLE SAYS HE WAS BUT HE 00:18:06.95\00:18:10.92 LIVED A HOLY LIFE AND SO CAN WE. WHEN YOU'RE A CHRISTIAN 00:18:10.92\00:18:14.59 OLD THINGS PASS AWAY. ALL THINGS ARE MADE NEW. 00:18:14.59\00:18:16.93 NOW, I'M TAKING THIS LITTLE RABBIT TRAIL TO JUST 00:18:16.93\00:18:18.96 REINFORCE THE PRINCIPLE THAT EVERYBODY THAT IS HUMAN IS GOING 00:18:18.96\00:18:24.23 TO BE TEMPTED AND THE DEVIL IS EVEN GOING TO TEMPT PEOPLE 00:18:24.23\00:18:27.67 WITHIN GOOD CHRISTIAN MARRIAGES TO THINK THINGS THEY 00:18:27.67\00:18:29.87 SHOULDN'T THINK. DON'T FALL FOR THE IDEA THAT 00:18:29.87\00:18:33.27 YOU ARE A VICTIM AND YOU ARE HELPLESS AND YOU 00:18:33.27\00:18:35.08 CAN'T MAKE CHOICES. EVERYBODY CAN MAKE CHOICES. 00:18:35.08\00:18:39.18 PEOPLE WHO FALL INTO ADULTERY USUALLY HAVE MADE A 00:18:39.18\00:18:42.25 SERIES OF CHOICES. THEY ARE FIRST USUALLY STEPPING 00:18:42.25\00:18:47.52 OVER THE LINE TO BECOMING TOO FRIENDLY OR TOO FAMILIAR. 00:18:47.52\00:18:50.86 VERY RARELY DOES IT HAPPEN JUST SUDDENLY UNEXPECTEDLY. 00:18:50.86\00:18:55.23 PEOPLE LITTLE BY LITTLE START OPENING THE DOOR TO A 00:18:55.23\00:18:57.63 FORBIDDEN RELATIONSHIP AND THEY START MAKING FRIENDS WITH THE 00:18:57.63\00:19:01.50 OPPOSITE SEX WHILE THEY'RE MARRIED AND THEY START BECOMING 00:19:01.50\00:19:06.57 INTIMATE AND SHARING INTIMATE DETAILS AND THEY SAY, 'OH, BUT 00:19:06.57\00:19:10.15 YOU KNOW, HE JUST MAKES ME FEEL SO GOOD. 00:19:10.15\00:19:12.01 THEN I GO HOME AND MY HUSBAND IS SO CRABBY AND MEAN 00:19:12.01\00:19:15.12 AND UNAPPRECIATIVE AND THIS PERSON IS SO NICE AND...' THE 00:19:15.12\00:19:18.22 DEVIL WILL START GETTING YOU TO MAKE THESE COMPARISONS 00:19:18.22\00:19:20.89 AND EXCUSES AND YOU COULD EVEN CONVINCE YOURSELF, 'YOU KNOW, 00:19:20.89\00:19:25.09 I THINK THE LORD IS LEADING ME IN THIS. 00:19:25.09\00:19:28.30 I KNOW THE BIBLE SAYS ONE THING, BUT IN MY SPIRIT.' 00:19:28.30\00:19:31.83 PEOPLE CONFUSE A LOT OF THINGS FOR THE SPIRIT. 00:19:31.83\00:19:34.74 YOU CAN - TOO MUCH PIZZA CAN MAKE YOU THINK THE SPIRIT 00:19:34.74\00:19:36.97 IS LEADING YOU AND JUST - SO, YOU KNOW, IF IT'S NOT IN THE 00:19:36.97\00:19:41.01 WORD, FRIENDS, DON'T FALL FOR THAT. 00:19:41.01\00:19:43.41 GOD'S SPIRIT IS NEVER GOING TO LEAD CONTRARY TO GOD'S WORD. 00:19:43.41\00:19:48.75 'AND WHENEVER I GO TO WORK SHE LOOKS SO NICE. 00:19:48.75\00:19:53.19 BUT IN THE MORNING MY WIFE'S GOT CURLERS IN HER HAIR AND 00:19:53.19\00:19:55.92 PASTY STUFF ON HER FACE AND HER BREATH SMELLS STRANGE. 00:19:55.92\00:20:01.06 BUT WHEN I SEE THIS CO-WORKER SHE ALWAYS SMELLS LIKE 00:20:01.06\00:20:04.30 PERFUME.' AND YOU KNOW WHAT TYPICALLY HAPPENS IS IF SOMEONE 00:20:04.30\00:20:09.37 MAKES THAT TRAGIC MISTAKE OF VIOLATING THEIR MARRIAGE AND 00:20:09.37\00:20:11.81 THEY DIVORCE THEIR WIFE AND THEY RUN OFF WITH THE SECRETARY, THEY 00:20:11.81\00:20:15.61 FIND OUT THAT SHE'S GOT CURLERS AND BAD BREATH TOO. 00:20:15.61\00:20:20.65 AND WHERE THIS MAN MAY HAVE BEEN JUST A MONSTER TO BE 00:20:20.65\00:20:26.52 MARRIED TO IN CATEGORY A, B, AND C, SHE FINDS MR. WONDERFUL OVER 00:20:26.52\00:20:31.43 HERE AND IN A, B, AND C HE IS JUST PERFECT AND SO THEY LEAVE 00:20:31.43\00:20:36.10 HUSBAND AND GO WITH NEW PROSPECT AND THEN A YEAR OR TWO 00:20:36.10\00:20:40.54 LATER THEY DIDN'T REALIZE THAT IN CATEGORY G, F, AND H THIS GUY 00:20:40.54\00:20:45.51 WAS A MONSTER. AND SHE STARTS LOOKING BACK 00:20:45.51\00:20:48.31 AT HER OLD HUSBAND SAYING, 'YOU KNOW, HE WAS PRETTY GOOD 00:20:48.31\00:20:50.15 ABOUT THOSE OTHER THINGS.' THE LORD HAS A STRANGE WAY OF 00:20:50.15\00:20:54.78 PAIRING US UP WITH PEOPLE THAT HE HAS DESIGNED TO HELP 00:20:54.78\00:20:58.95 SANCTIFY US IN THE CATEGORIES WHERE WE NEED HELP. 00:20:58.95\00:21:04.63 YOU KNOW, ONE OF THE WAYS WE LEARN HOW TO BE CHRISTIANS IS 00:21:04.63\00:21:07.03 THROUGH LOVING THE LORD AND LOVING EACH OTHER. 00:21:07.03\00:21:10.10 THE BIBLE SAYS YOU'VE GOT TO LOVE THE LORD AND LOVE 00:21:10.10\00:21:11.60 YOUR NEIGHBOR. WHO COULD BE MORE - A 00:21:11.60\00:21:14.34 CLOSER NEIGHBOR THAN YOUR SPOUSE? 00:21:14.34\00:21:17.11 HOW CAN YOU SAY YOU LOVE GOD WHO YOU CAN'T SEE WHEN YOU CAN'T 00:21:17.11\00:21:20.41 LOVE YOUR SPOUSE THAT YOU'VE MADE A COVENANT WITH? 00:21:20.41\00:21:24.98 AND IF THE BIBLE TELLS US TO LOVE OUR ENEMIES THEN WHAT 00:21:24.98\00:21:27.45 EXCUSE DO YOU HAVE FOR NOT LOVING YOUR SPOUSE? 00:21:27.45\00:21:31.02 IS THAT STRAIGHT ENOUGH? SO CHRISTIANS WHO BELIEVE THE 00:21:31.02\00:21:34.59 WORD - YOU MAKE A COVENANT WITH SOMEONE - NOW, THERE ARE 00:21:34.59\00:21:36.96 GROUNDS - AND I'LL TALK ABOUT THAT IN JUST A MOMENT. 00:21:36.96\00:21:39.16 THERE ARE REASONS WHERE YOU WOULD WANT TO MAYBE SEPARATE 00:21:39.16\00:21:43.90 AND EVEN DIVORCE, BUT THAT IS A VERY RARE EXCEPTION. 00:21:43.90\00:21:49.80 YOU KNOW, IN 1623 THERE WAS A BIBLE THAT WAS RECALLED AND 00:21:49.80\00:22:00.65 THE PEOPLE WHO HAD PRINTED 1,000 OF THESE BIBLES - A PRINTING 00:22:00.65\00:22:03.55 COMPANY CALLED BAKER AND LUCAS - THEY LOST THEIR BUSINESS AND 00:22:03.55\00:22:07.16 THEY WERE FINED AN ENTIRE LIFE'S WAGES ALL BECAUSE THEY 00:22:07.16\00:22:12.29 HAD MADE A THREE-LETTER TYPO IN THE BIBLE. 00:22:12.29\00:22:16.73 THE KING WAS EXTREMELY HARSH WITH THEM. 00:22:16.73\00:22:19.23 THE WHOLE BIBLE WAS GREAT - ONE WORD WITH THREE LETTERS WAS 00:22:19.23\00:22:24.37 LEFT OUT AND THEY LOST THEIR BUSINESS AND ALL THE BIBLES WERE 00:22:24.37\00:22:28.58 GATHERED AND BURNED AND IT BECAME KNOWN AS THE WICKED 00:22:28.58\00:22:30.68 BIBLE. DO YOU KNOW WHY? YOU KNOW WHAT WORDS 00:22:30.68\00:22:33.95 THEY LEFT OUT? IT WAS THE WORD 'NOT'. 00:22:33.95\00:22:37.52 THEY LEFT THE WORD 'NOT' OUT OF THE SEVENTH COMMANDMENT. 00:22:37.52\00:22:40.72 'THOU SHALT NOT COMMIT ADULTERY.' AND IT SAID IN 00:22:40.72\00:22:43.46 THE ORIGINAL, 'THOU SHALT' - THERE'S A COPY - YOU NOTICE IT'S 00:22:43.46\00:22:46.33 - THEY USED THE OLD ENGLISH 'S' THERE IT LOOKED LIKE AN 'F'. 00:22:46.33\00:22:50.20 'THOU SHALT COMMIT ADULTERY' IS WHAT THAT BIBLE SAID. 00:22:50.20\00:22:55.47 AND THE WAY OUR CULTURE'S ACTING I'M WONDERING WHAT BIBLE 00:22:55.47\00:22:57.54 THEY'RE READING. THERE'S ONLY ELEVEN OF THESE 00:22:57.54\00:23:00.94 BIBLES STILL LEFT IN EXISTENCE AND THEY'RE VERY VALUABLE. 00:23:00.94\00:23:04.35 THEY CALL THEM THE WICKED BIBLES. 00:23:04.35\00:23:06.58 SOME PEOPLE, THE WAY THEY READ IT, YOU WONDER. 00:23:06.58\00:23:09.85 WE HAVE A DILEMMA OF DIVORCE IN OUR CULTURE. 00:23:09.85\00:23:13.69 IT'S RAMPANT. NOW, THERE ARE BIBLE GROUNDS FOR 00:23:13.69\00:23:16.56 DIVORCE. WHAT DOES JESUS SAY? 00:23:16.56\00:23:18.43 IF YOU HAVE YOUR BIBLES GO TO MATTHEW 19, VERSE 9, "AND I 00:23:18.43\00:23:24.00 SAY TO YOU, WHOEVER DIVORCES HIS WIFE, EXCEPT FOR SEXUAL 00:23:24.00\00:23:27.60 IMMORALITY, AND MARRIES ANOTHER, COMMITS ADULTERY;" 00:23:27.60\00:23:31.17 AND THE BIBLE SAYS THOU SHALT NOT COMMIT ADULTERY. 00:23:31.17\00:23:34.48 NOW, AT THE TIME OF CHRIST - BY THE TIME OF JESUS, THE 00:23:34.48\00:23:40.55 SADDUCEES AND THE PHARISEES HAD SORT OF MODIFIED THE LAW OF GOD 00:23:40.55\00:23:44.15 SO THAT THEY HAD ALL THESE TALMUDIC LAWS WHERE YOU COULD 00:23:44.15\00:23:49.46 DIVORCE YOUR WIFE FOR BURNING DINNER. 00:23:49.46\00:23:52.19 I MEAN, THEY HAD JUST AWFUL RIDICULOUS REASONS. 00:23:52.19\00:23:56.03 AND WHEN JESUS SAID TO THE DISCIPLES, 'YOU'RE NOT 00:23:56.03\00:23:58.37 TO DIVORCE FOR ANY REASON' EXCEPT WHERE HE TALKS ABOUT 00:23:58.37\00:24:02.60 FOR FORNICATION, THEY WERE SHOCKED. 00:24:02.60\00:24:06.04 THEY SAID, 'WELL MAYBE IT'S BETTER NOT TO MARRY. 00:24:06.04\00:24:07.88 BOY, THAT'S A REALLY IRON-CLAD COVENANT. 00:24:07.88\00:24:09.88 WE HAD NO IDEA.' BECAUSE THEY HAD ALSO BEEN INFLUENCED BY THE 00:24:09.88\00:24:14.45 GRECO-ROMAN CULTURE AND THEY HAD ALL THESE DIFFERENT WAYS THAT 00:24:14.45\00:24:18.25 YOU COULD DIVORCE AND GOD SAID FROM THE BEGINNING IT WAS NOT 00:24:18.25\00:24:22.29 SO. 'LET NOT MAN PUT ASUNDER WHAT GOD HAS JOINED TOGETHER. 00:24:22.29\00:24:27.50 AND I KNOW, EVEN AS I SPEAK ABOUT THIS, A LOT OF PEOPLE 00:24:27.50\00:24:30.73 HERE YOU'VE - STATISTICALLY 40 PERCENT OF EVEN 00:24:30.73\00:24:35.94 PRACTICING CHRISTIANS THAT ARE OF MARRIAGEABLE AGE OR HAVE 00:24:35.94\00:24:40.11 BEEN MARRIED HAVE EXPERIENCED THAT. 00:24:40.11\00:24:41.98 AND SO, WE'RE NOT HERE TO CONDEMN, WE'RE HERE TO TELL 00:24:41.98\00:24:44.91 YOU WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS AND THAT WE'RE TO BE CHRISTIANS. 00:24:44.91\00:24:48.48 THE BIBLICAL GROUNDS FOR DIVORCE - AND, BY THE WAY, IF 00:24:48.48\00:24:51.52 THERE HAS BEEN MARITAL INFIDELITY - IF THERE HAS BEEN 00:24:51.52\00:24:55.09 SEXUAL INFIDELITY IN A MARRIAGE - IT DOESN'T MEAN YOU HAVE TO 00:24:55.09\00:24:59.29 GET DIVORCED. THERE CAN STILL BE 00:24:59.29\00:25:01.93 FORGIVENESS AND HEALING. HAVE YOU READ THE BOOK OF HOSEA? 00:25:01.93\00:25:06.47 OR EVEN AFTER HIS WIFE WAS UNFAITHFUL - AND, BY THE 00:25:06.47\00:25:08.54 WAY, WE'RE THE BRIDE OF CHRIST - THE CHURCH - AND HAS THE CHURCH 00:25:08.54\00:25:12.34 BEEN UNFAITHFUL? LOOK AT THE HISTORY OF ISRAEL. 00:25:12.34\00:25:14.84 SO OFTEN THEY WENT AFTER OTHER GODS AND HE WOULD FORGIVE 00:25:14.84\00:25:16.95 THEM AND BRING THEM BACK AGAIN. AND SO CAN - CAN EVEN THIS BE 00:25:16.95\00:25:21.28 HEALED AND THIS BE FORGIVEN? YES IT CAN. 00:25:21.28\00:25:24.92 AND SO YOU LOOK HERE IN MALACHI CHAPTER 2, VERSE 16, "'FOR 00:25:24.92\00:25:29.69 THE LORD GOD OF ISRAEL SAYS THAT HE HATES DIVORCE, FOR IT 00:25:29.69\00:25:33.60 COVERS ONE'S GARMENT WITH VIOLENCE,' SAYS THE LORD OF 00:25:33.60\00:25:36.67 HOSTS." NOW, GOD TOLD ABRAHAM TO GET DIVORCED. 00:25:36.67\00:25:43.71 BUT THAT'S BECAUSE HE HAD TOO MANY WIVES, DIDN'T HE? 00:25:43.71\00:25:48.24 THE REASONS FOR REMARRIAGE, BIBLICALLY, IS IF YOUR 00:25:48.24\00:25:52.18 SPOUSE HAS DIED - PAUL TALKS ABOUT THAT - IF YOU - IF THE 00:25:52.18\00:25:58.82 MARRIAGE COVENANT HAS BEEN VIOLATED THROUGH ADULTERY AND IF 00:25:58.82\00:26:02.99 THERE'S ANY HOPE OF RECONCILIATION - IF THERE'S ANY 00:26:02.99\00:26:06.39 REDEEMABLE QUALITIES, THE BEST THING THAT YOU CAN DO AS A 00:26:06.39\00:26:09.10 CHRISTIAN IS SAVE THE MARRIAGE. STARTING OVER IS TOUGH AND 00:26:09.10\00:26:15.00 SOMETIMES YOU MIGHT HAVE GROUNDS FOR SEPARATION AND 00:26:15.00\00:26:17.74 WE'LL TALK ABOUT THAT IN JUST A MOMENT. 00:26:17.74\00:26:20.68 1 CORINTHIANS CHAPTER 7 - THERE IS A UNIQUE SITUATION. 00:26:20.68\00:26:24.35 IT TALKS ABOUT THAT IF THERE IS A BELIEVER WHO IS MARRIED TO 00:26:24.35\00:26:28.58 AN UNBELIEVER AND THEY'RE WILLING TO STAY TOGETHER, PAUL 00:26:28.58\00:26:31.25 SAYS BY ALL MEANS STAY TOGETHER - EVEN IF YOU'VE GOT AN 00:26:31.25\00:26:33.52 UNBELIEVER WHO'S MARRIED TO A BELIEVER - BUT HE'S TALKING 00:26:33.52\00:26:35.76 ABOUT WHEN CHRISTIANITY WAS SPREADING AMONG THE PAGANS AND 00:26:35.76\00:26:39.19 YOU'VE GOT TWO PAGANS WHO ARE MARRIED - PAGANS - BOTH MARRIED 00:26:39.19\00:26:41.60 - BOTH PAGANS. ONE OF THEM FINDS OUT ABOUT JESUS AND THEY DIDN'T 00:26:41.60\00:26:48.20 KNOW AND THEIR NON-BELIEVING PARTNER SAYS, 'LOOK, I DON'T 00:26:48.20\00:26:53.17 WANT TO BE A CHRISTIAN. I DIDN'T MARRY A CHRISTIAN. 00:26:53.17\00:26:55.21 IF YOU'RE GOING TO CHANGE I'M LEAVING.' IF THEY'RE 00:26:55.21\00:26:57.48 ABANDONED UNDER THOSE CIRCUMSTANCES WHERE TWO 00:26:57.48\00:26:59.78 UNBELIEVERS CAME, THEN THAT BELIEVER IS FREE TO 00:26:59.78\00:27:03.59 REMARRY. SEE WHAT HE'S TALKING ABOUT THERE? 00:27:03.59\00:27:06.79 TYPICALLY, AT THAT POINT, THEIR EX-SPOUSE IS REMARRIED 00:27:06.79\00:27:09.59 ANYWAY, WHICH GIVES THEM THE ADULTERY CLAUSE, AS YOU SAY. 00:27:09.59\00:27:14.83 IF I CAN BE VERY FRANK WITH YOU - YOU KNOW WHAT I'VE 00:27:14.83\00:27:17.23 SEEN AMONG CHRISTIANS SOMETIMES? 00:27:17.23\00:27:20.10 YOU GET TWO CHRISTIANS, THEY LOVE THE LORD, THEY WANT TO 00:27:20.10\00:27:22.20 COME TO CHURCH BUT THEY JUST FIGURE IT'S INTOLERABLE LIVING 00:27:22.20\00:27:24.57 WITH EACH OTHER BUT NEITHER OF THEM HAS COMMITTED ADULTERY OR 00:27:24.57\00:27:26.88 HAS BIBLICAL GROUNDS FOR DIVORCE SO WHAT THEY'LL DO IS THEY'LL 00:27:26.88\00:27:30.38 DIVORCE ANYWAY AND THEN THEY PLAY THE WAITING GAME. 00:27:30.38\00:27:34.38 THEY WAIT FOR THE OTHER ONE TO COMMIT ADULTERY SO THEY'RE 00:27:34.38\00:27:36.28 THEN FREE TO START COURTING AND GET MARRIED. 00:27:36.28\00:27:39.55 ANY OF YOU EVER SEEN THAT HAPPEN BEFORE? 00:27:39.55\00:27:43.26 IT'S LIKE THEY'RE READY TO HIRE A PRIVATE EYE AND FOLLOW 00:27:43.26\00:27:45.66 THEIR EX-SPOUSE AROUND TO JUST SEE, 'HAVE THEY MESSED UP YET?' 00:27:45.66\00:27:50.97 PROBING - IS THAT HOW JESUS WOULD DO IT? NO. 00:27:50.97\00:27:54.64 YOU KNOW, UNDER THOSE CIRCUMSTANCES THE BIBLE 00:27:54.64\00:27:57.07 SAYS YOU ARE NOT FREE TO REMARRY. 00:27:57.07\00:27:58.74 NOW THAT MIGHT SEEM HARSH - AND IF YOU DO IT'S CALLED ADULTERY 00:27:58.74\00:28:02.74 - THAT MIGHT SEEM HARSH - 'DOESN'T THE LORD WANT ME TO BE 00:28:02.74\00:28:04.98 HAPPY?' NO, HE WANTS YOU TO BE HOLY. 00:28:04.98\00:28:08.22 THE BEST WAY FOR YOU TO FIND REAL HAPPINESS IS TO FIRST 00:28:08.22\00:28:10.75 MAKE UP YOUR MIND THAT GOD IS CALLING YOU TO HOLINESS. 00:28:10.75\00:28:15.09 AND, YOU KNOW, AT SOME POINT, IF THE CHURCH IS NOT GOING TO BE 00:28:15.09\00:28:18.69 THE PLACE WHERE GOD SAYS 'HERE IS THE LINE OF WHAT'S 00:28:18.69\00:28:21.16 APPROPRIATE AND THIS IS A COVENANT AND IT'S IMPORTANT 00:28:21.16\00:28:24.57 AND IT MEANS SOMETHING.' THEN WHERE IN OUR CULTURE CAN WE 00:28:24.57\00:28:27.80 LOOK? TELL ME. IF IT'S NOT GOING TO HAPPEN IN 00:28:27.80\00:28:30.74 A CHURCH WHERE YOU'RE GOING TO DRAW A LINE AND SAY 00:28:30.74\00:28:32.51 'MARRIAGE IS SACRED. IT IS HOLY. 00:28:32.51\00:28:34.58 IT IS TO BE PRESERVED EVEN IF IT MEANS AT THE INCONVENIENCE 00:28:34.58\00:28:38.98 OF SOME, THIS INSTITUTION MUST BE CAREFULLY GUARDED.' IF NOT AT 00:28:38.98\00:28:42.75 THE CHURCH, THEN WHERE? WHERE ARE WE GOING TO GO? 00:28:42.75\00:28:45.52 TELEVISION? WHERE ONE GUY'S GOT FOUR WIVES? 00:28:45.52\00:28:49.86 WHERE ARE WE GOING TO GO TO EXALT MARRIAGE TO THE HOLY 00:28:49.86\00:28:53.26 PLACE WHERE IT BELONGS? IT'S HERE, ISN'T IT? IT'S IN GOD'S 00:28:53.26\00:28:58.07 WORD. IT'S IN THE CHURCH. AND SO THIS IS THE IDEAL. 00:28:58.07\00:29:04.07 NOW MARRIAGE IS NOT JUST - ADULTERY IS NOT JUST SOMETHING 00:29:04.07\00:29:07.81 THAT IS REVEALED IN AN ACTION. JESUS ALSO TEACHES US THAT 00:29:07.81\00:29:12.68 ADULTERY CAN HAPPEN IN AN ATTITUDE, RIGHT? 00:29:12.68\00:29:16.35 MATTHEW CHAPTER 5, VERSE 27, "YOU HAVE HEARD THAT IT WAS 00:29:16.35\00:29:19.19 SAID TO THOSE OF OLD, 'YOU SHALL NOT COMMIT ADULTERY.'" - WHEN HE 00:29:19.19\00:29:22.39 SAYS 'THOSE OF OLD' HE'S ACTUALLY QUOTING HIMSELF IN THE 00:29:22.39\00:29:24.89 TEN COMMANDMENTS - "BUT I SAY TO YOU THAT WHOEVER LOOKS AT A 00:29:24.89\00:29:28.70 WOMAN TO LUST FOR HER HAS ALREADY COMMITTED ADULTERY 00:29:28.70\00:29:31.57 WITH HER IN HIS HEART." NOW, IF A PERSON THINKS A LUSTFUL 00:29:31.57\00:29:38.84 THOUGHT AND IF YOU CAN PROVE YOUR SPOUSE HAS THOUGHT A 00:29:38.84\00:29:42.48 LUSTFUL THOUGHT - AND SINCE JESUS SAYS THEY'VE 00:29:42.48\00:29:45.08 COMMITTED ADULTERY IN THEIR HEART, DO YOU NOW HAVE GROUNDS 00:29:45.08\00:29:47.12 FOR DIVORCE? WHAT DO YOU SAY? 00:29:47.12\00:29:51.45 DO YOU WANT TO ANSWER? ANYONE VENTURE? BOLD ENOUGH? 00:29:51.45\00:29:54.32 NO, BECAUSE THERE IS A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A THOUGHT 00:29:54.32\00:29:56.99 AND AN ACT. THINK ABOUT THIS FOR A MINUTE. 00:29:56.99\00:30:02.63 IF YOU THINK ABOUT MURDER CAN YOU BE EXECUTED ACCORDING TO 00:30:02.63\00:30:08.37 OUR GOVERNMENT? NO. 00:30:08.37\00:30:11.04 BECAUSE A PERSON THINKS A MURDEROUS THOUGHT DOESN'T MEAN 00:30:11.04\00:30:13.58 THEY ARE A MURDERER AND THEY'RE GOING TO BE PROSECUTED 00:30:13.58\00:30:15.51 AS A MURDERER BECAUSE THEY THINK A THOUGHT. 00:30:15.51\00:30:17.45 NOW, IF YOU CONSPIRE - IF YOU GET THE TOOLS AND THE 00:30:17.45\00:30:19.55 WEAPONS AND YOU'RE GOING TO PLAN IT - YES, THAT'S A DIFFERENT 00:30:19.55\00:30:21.72 STORY - BUT THINKING A THOUGHT IS NOT THE SAME AS DOING IT. 00:30:21.72\00:30:25.29 AND I'VE HAD SOME PEOPLE WHO'VE SAID TO ME, 'PASTOR DOUG, 00:30:25.29\00:30:28.16 I MAY AS WELL GO AHEAD AND DO IT BECAUSE I'M THINKING ABOUT IT 00:30:28.16\00:30:31.46 AND JESUS SAID IF YOU THINK ABOUT IT IT'S THE SAME 00:30:31.46\00:30:33.43 THING.' NO, HE DOESN'T SAY IT'S THE SAME THING. 00:30:33.43\00:30:36.10 HE'S TRYING TO SHOW YOU THAT HE NOT ONLY WANTS US TO KEEP THE 00:30:36.10\00:30:38.93 SEVENTH COMMANDMENT AND NOT LITERALLY COMMIT ADULTERY OR 00:30:38.93\00:30:41.64 FORNICATION, HE'S TRYING TO TELL US 'I WANT YOU TO DO IT IN 00:30:41.64\00:30:44.74 YOUR HEART AS WELL' BECAUSE IF YOU'RE KEEPING THE COMMANDMENT 00:30:44.74\00:30:48.21 IN YOUR HEART YOU WILL KEEP IT IN YOUR MARRIAGE. 00:30:48.21\00:30:52.08 AND I WANT TO REMIND EVERYBODY, ESPECIALLY OUR YOUNG 00:30:52.08\00:30:54.55 PEOPLE OR ANY SINGLES HERE, THE SEVENTH COMMANDMENT IS NOT JUST 00:30:54.55\00:30:57.82 FOR MARRIED COUPLES. THE SEVENTH COMMANDMENT IS FOR 00:30:57.82\00:31:00.59 EVERYBODY BECAUSE THAT COVERS THE SUBJECT OF FORNICATION AND 00:31:00.59\00:31:05.83 THAT'S ANY KIND OF SEXUAL ACTIVITY OUTSIDE OF MARRIAGE. 00:31:05.83\00:31:10.37 AND SO, WE'RE ALL CALLED TO HOLINESS. 00:31:10.37\00:31:13.44 HE SAYS, 'BLESSED ARE THE PURE IN HEART, THEY WILL SEE 00:31:13.44\00:31:15.30 GOD.' HE WANTS US TO BE PURE IN OUR HEARTS. 00:31:15.30\00:31:17.81 SO JESUS WASN'T SAYING, 'WELL, YOU'RE THINKING IT, YOU 00:31:17.81\00:31:19.61 MAY AS WELL DO IT.' HE'S SAYING, 'IF YOU'LL BE SAVED IN YOUR 00:31:19.61\00:31:22.44 HEART - IF YOU LET ME RECREATE YOUR HEART YOU WON'T HAVE TO 00:31:22.44\00:31:25.55 WORRY ABOUT THE LETTER OF THE LAW BECAUSE YOU'LL BE KEEPING 00:31:25.55\00:31:28.42 THE SPIRIT OF THE LAW. YOU'LL AUTOMATICALLY KEEP THE LETTER OF 00:31:28.42\00:31:31.35 THE LAW WHEN YOU KEEP THE SPIRIT.' ISN'T THAT RIGHT? 00:31:31.35\00:31:35.79 DON'T YOU HAVE TO FIRST THINK IT IN YOUR HEART BEFORE YOU ACT 00:31:35.79\00:31:37.33 IT OUT? AND SO, THEY ARE DIFFERENT. 00:31:37.33\00:31:42.26 NOW WITH THAT IN MIND, I HAVE BEEN ASKED BEFORE, IF A 00:31:42.26\00:31:46.97 PERSON IS GUILTY OF PORNOGRAPHY IS THAT GROUNDS FOR DIVORCE? 00:31:46.97\00:31:52.34 LET ME GIVE YOU A FEW STATISTICS. 00:31:52.34\00:31:58.81 IN THE U.S. - AMONG U.S. ADULTS - AND THIS IS - I'VE 00:31:58.81\00:32:02.08 GOT A VARIETY OF SURVEYS HERE, ONE FROM PSYCHOLOGY TODAY 00:32:02.08\00:32:06.42 - 40 MILLION PEOPLE VISIT PORNOGRAPHIC WEBSITES. 00:32:06.42\00:32:11.23 WELL, THERE'S ONLY 300 MILLION IN THE COUNTRY SO FIGURE 00:32:11.23\00:32:13.19 THAT OUT. ADULTS ADMITTING TO INTERNET 00:32:13.19\00:32:16.83 SEXUAL ADDICTION - 10 PERCENT. 00:32:16.83\00:32:20.80 ADULTS VISITING PORNOGRAPHIC SITES - 72 PERCENT 00:32:20.80\00:32:24.74 OF MALES SAY THEY HAVE - THAT DOESN'T MEAN ON A REGULAR BASIS, 00:32:24.74\00:32:27.81 BUT THEY HAVE - 28 PERCENT OF FEMALES. MEN ADMITTING TO 00:32:27.81\00:32:32.65 ACCESSING PORNOGRAPHY AT WORK - 20 PERCENT. 00:32:32.65\00:32:38.42 CHRISTIANS - AND EVEN IN CHRISTIAN COLLEGES - I SAW 00:32:38.42\00:32:40.56 ONE SURVEY THAT AMONG CHRISTIAN COLLEGE STUDENTS 78 00:32:40.56\00:32:44.63 PERCENT OF CHRISTIAN COLLEGE MEN ADMIT TO HAVE VISITED 00:32:44.63\00:32:50.67 PORNOGRAPHIC SITES ONCE A MONTH - MANY TIMES ON CAMPUS - 00:32:50.67\00:32:55.10 CHRISTIAN CAMPUS EQUIPMENT. CHRISTIANS WHO SAID PORNOGRAPHY 00:32:55.10\00:33:02.54 IS A MAJOR PROBLEM IN THEIR HOME - CHRISTIANS - 47 PERCENT. 00:33:02.54\00:33:08.32 SO IS THIS RELEVANT? NEVER BEFORE HAS MENTAL 00:33:08.32\00:33:14.46 ADULTERY BEEN MORE ACCESSIBLE THAN IN THE CHURCH 00:33:14.46\00:33:18.03 AND THE WORLD TODAY. IT'S NOT JUST ON THE INTERNET 00:33:18.03\00:33:21.66 ON THE HOME COMPUTER. IT'S ON THE SMART PHONE. 00:33:21.66\00:33:25.07 IT'S EVERYWHERE - IT'S ON THE IPAD OR IPOD OR ALL OF 00:33:25.07\00:33:29.00 THAT STUFF. NOW, IF A SPOUSE IS GUILTY OF THIS IS THAT GROUNDS 00:33:29.00\00:33:37.31 FOR DIVORCE? NO, YOU NEED COUNSELING. 00:33:37.31\00:33:41.18 YOU NEED PRAYER. IS IT A SIN? ABSOLUTELY. I SHOULD ADD, IF A 00:33:41.18\00:33:46.65 SPOUSE IS LOOKING AT PORNOGRAPHY THAT INVOLVES CHILDREN THAT 00:33:46.65\00:33:50.69 MIGHT BE GROUNDS FOR SEPARATION. NOW YOU UNDERSTAND THERE'S A 00:33:50.69\00:33:53.96 DIFFERENCE BETWEEN SEPARATION AND DIVORCE. 00:33:53.96\00:33:56.20 BUT IF THERE'S A CHANCE THAT THE CHILDREN IN THE FAMILY ARE 00:33:56.20\00:33:58.47 AT RISK BECAUSE OF SPOUSE - TYPICALLY A MAN - WOULD BE 00:33:58.47\00:34:02.57 LOOKING AT THESE THINGS, YOU MIGHT WANT TO TALK TO YOUR 00:34:02.57\00:34:05.97 PASTOR AND GET SOME COUNSELING. THEY COULD BE AT RISK. 00:34:05.97\00:34:11.65 BUT THE OTHER EXTREME IS WHERE A WIFE SAYS, 'I FOUND A 00:34:11.65\00:34:16.69 'PLAYBOY' MAGAZINE UNDER MY HUSBAND'S MATTRESS. 00:34:16.69\00:34:20.96 I'M GETTING AN ATTORNEY AND FILING FOR DIVORCE.' 00:34:20.96\00:34:24.03 I DON'T THINK YOU'VE GOT GROUNDS FOR THAT. 00:34:24.03\00:34:26.49 I THINK YOU NEED TO TALK ABOUT THOSE THINGS. 00:34:26.49\00:34:28.10 AND, BY THE WAY, IT HAPPENS WITH BOTH MEN AND WOMEN. 00:34:28.10\00:34:31.17 WHEN A MAN COMES HOME AND HE SEES THAT HIS WIFE IS 00:34:31.17\00:34:34.87 WATCHING TWO PEOPLE FLOP AROUND IN BED DURING SOME DAYTIME 00:34:34.87\00:34:37.57 PROGRAM, IS SHE THINKING ADULTEROUS THOUGHTS? 00:34:37.57\00:34:42.94 IS THAT GROUNDS FOR DIVORCE? SOAP OPERAS? 00:34:42.94\00:34:46.65 SEE, YOU'VE GOT TO BE CAREFUL HOW YOU DRAW THESE 00:34:46.65\00:34:50.69 THINGS OUT. IS IT SIN? YEAH. 00:34:50.69\00:34:53.72 BOY, YOU GET REAL QUIET AT TIMES LIKE THIS. 00:34:53.72\00:34:58.09 WHICH TELLS ME THAT I'M HITTING A NERVE. 00:34:58.09\00:35:02.96 AND IF THINKING IT IS A SIN - I TALKED ABOUT THIS LAST WEEK 00:35:02.96\00:35:08.44 WHEN WE TALKED ABOUT MURDER - THEN WHAT ABOUT WHEN WE 00:35:08.44\00:35:12.81 DELIBERATELY CHOOSE TO BE ENTERTAINED BY IT? 00:35:12.81\00:35:18.08 PORNOGRAPHY, LOVE NOVELS, ON TELEVISION, VICARIOUSLY 00:35:18.08\00:35:21.88 SINNING - SOME PEOPLE SAY, 'I WOULD NEVER DO IT.' 00:35:21.88\00:35:26.42 BUT THEY'RE ENTERTAINED BY DOING IT. 00:35:26.42\00:35:29.62 THEY GO AND THEY WATCH PROGRAMS OR RENT DVDS AND VIDEOS 00:35:29.62\00:35:33.56 THAT THEY KNOW RIGHT FROM THE OUTSET THEY'RE RATED 'R' AND 00:35:33.56\00:35:36.26 THEY'RE GOING TO BE FULL OF THAT KIND OF ACTIVITY. 00:35:36.26\00:35:39.60 SO MANY OF THE SEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS ON 00:35:39.60\00:35:41.50 TELEVISION AND IN THE MOVIES ARE ADULTEROUS RELATIONSHIPS BETWEEN 00:35:41.50\00:35:44.14 TWO PEOPLE THAT ARE NOT MARRIED - AND LET'S FACE IT, IN THE 00:35:44.14\00:35:47.91 WORLD PEOPLE TREAT SEX LIKE SHAKING HANDS. 00:35:47.91\00:35:50.81 THAT'S NOT THE WAY IT IS WITH CHRIST. 00:35:50.81\00:35:53.05 THE BIBLE HASN'T CHANGED. YES, OUR CULTURE HAS CHANGED, 00:35:53.05\00:35:55.82 BUT THE TRUTH HAS NOT CHANGED. JESUS SAID, 'I AM THE LORD I 00:35:55.82\00:35:59.32 DO NOT CHANGE.' WHAT NEEDS CHANGING IS WE DO. 00:35:59.32\00:36:03.53 GOD'S CHURCH NEEDS TO START BEING A LIGHT ON A HILL 00:36:03.53\00:36:05.76 AND SHOWING THE WORLD WHAT HOLINESS LOOKS LIKE. 00:36:05.76\00:36:09.26 AND THAT MEANS IN OUR LIVES AND IN OUR HOMES AND IN 00:36:09.26\00:36:13.44 OUR MARRIAGES. PETER, DESCRIBING HIS AGE 00:36:13.44\00:36:17.44 AND IT'S NOT MUCH DIFFERENT FROM OURS. 00:36:17.44\00:36:19.14 PETER - 2 PETER CHAPTER 2, VERSE 14, "HAVING EYES FULL OF 00:36:19.14\00:36:22.71 ADULTERY AND THAT CANNOT CEASE FROM SIN, ENTICING 00:36:22.71\00:36:26.38 UNSTABLE SOULS." - YOU NOTICE IT STARTS WITH A LOOK AND THAT 00:36:26.38\00:36:32.02 LINGERING LOOK - DID IT GET DAVID IN TROUBLE? 00:36:32.02\00:36:35.56 PROVERBS 9:17, "STOLEN WATER IS SWEET, AND BREAD EATEN IN 00:36:35.56\00:36:39.86 SECRET IS PLEASANT." PEOPLE THINK, 'WELL, IT WAS A SECRET 00:36:39.86\00:36:42.96 RENDEZVOUS. NO ONE WILL KNOW.' SOLOMON GOES 00:36:42.96\00:36:46.40 ON TO SAY, "BUT HE DOES NOT KNOW THAT THE DEAD ARE THERE, THAT 00:36:46.40\00:36:49.80 HER GUESTS" - SPEAKING OF A HARLOT - "ARE IN THE DEPTHS OF 00:36:49.80\00:36:52.41 HELL." SOME OF YOU REMEMBER THEY PUT UP SOME TRAFFIC METERS HERE 00:36:52.41\00:37:00.85 IN TOWN, TO TAKE PICTURES WHEN YOU VIOLATE THE RED LIGHT. 00:37:00.85\00:37:04.69 AND WHEN THEY FIRST PUT THEM UP, THEY PUT THEM UP AND THEN 00:37:04.69\00:37:08.82 THEY TOOK THEM DOWN - OR THEY TURNED SOME OF THEM OFF - AND 00:37:08.82\00:37:13.19 THE REASON WAS BECAUSE THEY WERE SNAPPING PICTURES OF PEOPLE 00:37:13.19\00:37:16.10 RUNNING RED LIGHTS AND SOMEONE WOULD SAY, 'I DIDN'T DO 00:37:16.10\00:37:19.37 THAT AND THEY'D SAY, 'WELL, HERE'S THE PHOTOGRAPH.' AND 00:37:19.37\00:37:24.17 THEY'D SEND THE PHOTOGRAPH AND IT HAS THE TIME - 11 AT NIGHT - 00:37:24.17\00:37:29.44 IT TAKES A PICTURE AND THERE'S A MAN IN THE CAR WITH A WOMAN 00:37:29.44\00:37:32.15 THAT'S NOT HIS WIFE. AND SO THEY WERE SUING FOR 00:37:32.15\00:37:35.92 INVASION OF PRIVACY BECAUSE IT WAS CAUSING SOME PROBLEMS 00:37:35.92\00:37:39.02 FOR SOME PEOPLE BECAUSE THESE TRAFFIC PHOTOS WERE 00:37:39.02\00:37:43.06 PICTURING THEM IN CARS - PLACES THEY WEREN'T SUPPOSED TO BE WITH 00:37:43.06\00:37:45.69 PEOPLE THEY WEREN'T SUPPOSED TO BE WITH. 00:37:45.69\00:37:49.50 I DON'T KNOW HOW THEY'RE DEALING WITH THAT. 00:37:49.50\00:37:50.47 MAYBE THEY'RE BLURRING OUT HALF THE PICTURE. 00:37:50.47\00:37:53.97 I JUST COVER MY LICENSE PLATE - IT SEEMS TO WORK. 00:37:53.97\00:38:00.38 NOT REALLY! YOU CAN ALL RUN OUT TO 00:38:00.38\00:38:02.78 THE PARKING LOT AND JUST AFTER CHURCH - NOW YOU'RE GOING 00:38:02.78\00:38:05.15 TO WANT TO CHECK PASTOR DOUG'S CAR. 00:38:05.15\00:38:11.25 ADULTERY DOES NOT BEGIN BELOW THE BELT. 00:38:11.25\00:38:16.76 ADULTERY BEGINS ABOVE THE NECK. IT STARTS IN THE MIND. 00:38:16.76\00:38:22.83 IF WE KEEP OUR MINDS FIXED ON THOSE THINGS THAT ARE GOOD 00:38:22.83\00:38:26.84 AND IF WE MAKE A COVENANT WITH OUR EYES, AS JOB SAYS, CAN KEEP 00:38:26.84\00:38:31.17 US OUT OF A LOT OF TROUBLE. YOU LOOK, FOR INSTANCE, IN JOB 00:38:31.17\00:38:34.08 31, VERSE 1, - 'LOOK AWAY AND LIVE.' -- - HE SAYS, "I HAVE 00:38:34.08\00:38:38.65 MADE A COVENANT WITH MY EYES; WHY THEN SHOULD I LOOK 00:38:38.65\00:38:41.08 UPON A YOUNG WOMAN?" WE'VE GOT TO LEARN HOW TO 00:38:41.08\00:38:44.02 BOUNCE OUR EYES WHEN YOU SEE SOMETHING THAT'S NOT RIGHT. 00:38:44.02\00:38:48.79 DID JOSEPH - YOU KNOW, I LOVE THE STORY OF JOSEPH. 00:38:48.79\00:38:50.89 HE'S ONE OF THE HEROES IN THE BIBLE, NOT JUST BECAUSE OF 00:38:50.89\00:38:54.10 HIS FORGIVENESS BUT JOSEPH IS ONE OF THE RARE EXCEPTIONS YOU 00:38:54.10\00:38:57.17 FIND IN THE BIBLE OF A GODLY MAN WHO SAID 'NO' TO A TEMPTATION 00:38:57.17\00:39:01.60 THAT WOULD HAVE BEEN VERY DIFFICULT FOR MOST PEOPLE. 00:39:01.60\00:39:04.44 HE SAID, 'NO, HOW CAN I SIN AGAINST GOD?' 00:39:04.44\00:39:06.51 HIS LOVE WAS SO STRONG FOR GOD HE SAID, 'I CAN'T DO THIS 00:39:06.51\00:39:08.81 THING.' HE SAID 'NO' TO ADULTERY. 00:39:08.81\00:39:11.45 SO WHENEVER WE THINK, 'OH, WE'RE ALL HUMAN.' I REMEMBER 00:39:11.45\00:39:13.85 HEARING ONE WOMAN SAY, 'ANY MAN COULD BE HAD' - ANY MAN COULD BE 00:39:13.85\00:39:18.55 HAD - AND I WAS INSULTED BY THAT BECAUSE I DON'T BELIEVE THAT'S 00:39:18.55\00:39:21.16 TRUE. I THINK THAT WHEN PEOPLE HAVE 00:39:21.16\00:39:23.99 GOD'S SPIRIT THAT WE CAN LIVE LIVES OF INTEGRITY. 00:39:23.99\00:39:27.76 PROVERBS CHAPTER 4, VERSE 25, "LET YOUR EYES LOOK STRAIGHT 00:39:27.76\00:39:32.13 AHEAD, AND YOUR EYELIDS LOOK RIGHT BEFORE YOU." 00:39:32.13\00:39:34.44 HE'S TALKING ABOUT WHEN YOU'RE TEMPTED. 00:39:34.44\00:39:36.20 PSALMS 101, VERSE 3, "I WILL SET NOTHING WICKED BEFORE MY 00:39:36.20\00:39:41.01 EYES; I HATE THE WORK OF THOSE WHO FALL AWAY; IT SHALL NOT 00:39:41.01\00:39:44.31 CLING TO ME." AND THEN SOLOMON ALSO SAID - PROVERBS 5:15, 00:39:44.31\00:39:48.58 "DRINK WATER FROM YOUR OWN CISTERN AND RUNNING WATER FROM 00:39:48.58\00:39:52.12 YOUR OWN WELL...LET THEM BE YOUR OWN AND NOT FOR STRANGERS WITH 00:39:52.12\00:39:56.29 YOU." NOW, YOU KNOW, IT'S WONDERFUL IF YOU'VE GOT A SPRING 00:39:56.29\00:39:59.86 IN YOUR BACKYARD AND YOU'VE GOT YOUR OWN WELL AND YOU CAN DRINK 00:39:59.86\00:40:01.76 ALL THE WATER YOU WANT FROM YOUR OWN WELL - THAT'D BE SUCH A 00:40:01.76\00:40:03.87 BLESSING. WITHIN MARRIAGE THAT 00:40:03.87\00:40:07.74 INTIMACY IS A BLESSING. MATTER OF FACT, IN THE BIBLE 00:40:07.74\00:40:12.11 IT'S COMMANDED THAT THE COUPLES COME TOGETHER. 00:40:12.11\00:40:15.18 SO MUCH OF THE MARRIAGE COUNSELING THAT HAPPENS 00:40:15.18\00:40:18.31 IS ALMOST NEVER BECAUSE THE COUPLES ARE HAVING TOO MUCH SEX. 00:40:18.31\00:40:22.32 IT'S BECAUSE THEY'RE NOT HAVING ENOUGH. 00:40:22.32\00:40:24.99 IF THE TRUTH BE KNOWN, NINE TIMES OUT OF TEN - THAT'S A 00:40:24.99\00:40:28.96 PROBLEM. AND SO, WITHIN MARRIAGE IT'S A WONDERFUL THING. 00:40:28.96\00:40:33.40 BUT OUTSIDE OF MARRIAGE, WITH SOMEONE THAT IS NOT YOUR 00:40:33.40\00:40:36.70 SPOUSE, THAT'S WHERE IT'S A PROBLEM. 00:40:36.70\00:40:40.74 DRINK WATER FROM YOUR OWN CISTERN. 00:40:40.74\00:40:43.94 PAUL SAYS TO TIMOTHY - 2 TIMOTHY 2:22 - THAT'S EASY TO 00:40:43.94\00:40:47.44 REMEMBER - 2:22 - "FLEE ALSO YOUTHFUL LUSTS;" - FLEE YOUTHFUL 00:40:47.44\00:40:54.45 LUSTS - NOW, YOU KNOW, IT'S ESPECIALLY HARD WHEN YOU'RE 00:40:54.45\00:40:57.32 YOUNG, AMEN? AND WHEN YOUR BODY GOES 00:40:57.32\00:40:59.42 THROUGH THAT TRANSITION WHERE YOU'RE GOING FROM CHILD TO 00:40:59.42\00:41:04.49 HAVING THE ADULT DESIRES, IT CAN BE VERY DISTRACTING. 00:41:04.49\00:41:10.20 IT CAN SEEM LIKE THE ONLY PURPOSE IN LIFE. 00:41:10.20\00:41:13.77 YOU START TO FEEL LIKE A SALMON WHERE YOU'RE PURPOSE IS 00:41:13.77\00:41:17.14 TO SPAWN AND THEN DIE. AND IT SEEMS LIKE - AND, YOU KNOW, MY 00:41:17.14\00:41:23.38 ANSWER FOR THAT WOULD BE - TO THE YOUNG PEOPLE - 'HANG ON. 00:41:23.38\00:41:27.55 SETTLE DOWN. JUST RELAX. YOU'LL SURVIVE. 00:41:27.55\00:41:31.65 IT IS NOT THE MOST IMPORTANT THING. AND LIFE WILL GO ON. 00:41:31.65\00:41:35.99 GOD'S GOT ANOTHER PURPOSE FOR YOUR EXISTENCE AND YOU CAN 00:41:35.99\00:41:41.16 BE HOLY.' THE BIBLE SAYS 'FLEE YOUTHFUL LUSTS'. 00:41:41.16\00:41:43.90 THE BIBLE SAYS FLEE TEMPTATION AS WELL, AMEN? 00:41:43.90\00:41:48.67 LOOK AWAY AND LIVE. PHILIPPIANS 4:8, "FINALLY 00:41:48.67\00:41:51.34 BRETHREN," - HOW DO YOU DO IT? - 00:41:51.34\00:41:52.44 "WHATEVER THINGS ARE TRUE, WHATEVER THINGS ARE NOBLE, 00:41:52.44\00:41:55.78 WHATEVER THINGS ARE JUST, WHATEVER THINGS ARE PURE, 00:41:55.78\00:41:58.48 WHATEVER THINGS ARE LOVELY, WHATEVER THINGS ARE OF 00:41:58.48\00:42:00.85 GOOD REPORT, IF THERE IS ANY VIRTUE AND IF THERE IS ANYTHING 00:42:00.85\00:42:03.55 PRAISEWORTHY - MEDITATE ON THESE THINGS." IF YOUR MIND IS 00:42:03.55\00:42:06.96 SO FULL OF MEDITATING ON THAT WHICH IS PURE, GOOD, NOBLE, AND 00:42:06.96\00:42:09.59 LOVELY, OF GOOD REPORT, YOU'RE GOING TO FIND YOU'RE NOT SO 00:42:09.59\00:42:13.29 DISTRACTED BY THOSE THINGS THAT ARE FORBIDDEN. 00:42:13.29\00:42:16.36 FILL YOUR MIND WITH THAT WHICH IS GOOD. 00:42:16.36\00:42:19.10 OVERCOME EVIL WITH GOOD. NOW, HAVING SAID ALL THIS, 00:42:19.10\00:42:24.34 I THINK IT'S PRETTY CLEAR WHAT ADULTERY IS 00:42:24.34\00:42:26.14 AND THAT IT'S A SIN. I WANT TO ALSO MAKE IT CLEAR 00:42:26.14\00:42:29.41 IT IS NOT THE UNPARDONABLE SIN. HAVE YOU EVER WONDERED - AND 00:42:29.41\00:42:35.68 EVEN DIVORCE AND REMARRIAGE WITHOUT BIBLICAL GROUNDS - THE 00:42:35.68\00:42:40.99 BIBLE DOES NOT CALL THAT THE UNPARDONABLE SIN. 00:42:40.99\00:42:43.93 AFTER DAVID SINNED WITH BATHSHEBA, WAS THAT A 00:42:43.93\00:42:46.23 FORBIDDEN ADULTEROUS RELATIONSHIP? 00:42:46.23\00:42:49.10 YES IT WAS. IN EVERY WAY. 00:42:49.10\00:42:50.27 CONNECTED WITH MURDER. DID DAVID SUFFER? 00:42:50.27\00:42:54.47 DID BATHSHEBA SUFFER? DAVID LOST FOUR OF HIS SONS. 00:42:54.47\00:42:59.71 THE LORD DIRECTLY, IN THE PROPHECY OF NATHAN, 00:42:59.71\00:43:01.58 CONNECTED THE LOSS OF FOUR CHILDREN WITH HIS ACTION. 00:43:01.58\00:43:07.18 SO, DO YOU THINK DAVID THOUGHT IT WAS WORTH IT? 00:43:07.18\00:43:10.75 SOMETIMES PEOPLE FALL INTO ADULTEROUS RELATIONSHIPS 00:43:10.75\00:43:12.85 AND THEY DON'T REALIZE WHAT THE CONSEQUENCES ARE GOING TO 00:43:12.85\00:43:15.26 BE. A LOT OF KIDS HAVE BEEN PERMANENTLY SCARRED BECAUSE 00:43:15.26\00:43:20.83 OF THE DECISION THAT THEIR PARENTS MADE - A VERY SELFISH 00:43:20.83\00:43:24.27 DECISION USUALLY. WHEN PEOPLE COMMIT ADULTERY, 00:43:24.27\00:43:27.54 WHO ARE THEY THINKING ABOUT? GOD AND HIS GLORY 00:43:27.54\00:43:29.84 OR THEMSELVES? DAVID SUFFERED. NOW, HERE'S A QUESTION: DID GOD 00:43:29.84\00:43:35.18 FORGIVE DAVID AND BATHSHEBA? THE CHILD - THE FIRST CHILD 00:43:35.18\00:43:40.58 THAT WAS A RESULT OF THEIR FORBIDDEN RELATIONSHIP WHILE 00:43:40.58\00:43:43.49 SHE WAS STILL MARRIED TO URIAH - THAT BABY DIED. 00:43:43.49\00:43:47.69 AND AFTER DAVID REPENTED, GOD FORGAVE DAVID, HE FORGAVE 00:43:47.69\00:43:51.16 BATHSHEBA AND THE BIBLE SAYS - FIRST IT CALLS BATHSHEBA 00:43:51.16\00:43:54.73 URIAH'S WIFE, THEN IT SAYS 'DAVID COMFORTED HIS WIFE, 00:43:54.73\00:43:59.23 BATHSHEBA' AND GAVE THEM ANOTHER CHILD. 00:43:59.23\00:44:02.37 HIS NAME WAS SOLOMON. DID GOD FORGIVE THEM? 00:44:02.37\00:44:06.37 YEAH, AND SO THAT'S WHY SOLOMON COULD WRITE WHAT HE WROTE 00:44:06.37\00:44:09.28 ABOUT IT, BECAUSE HE KNEW GROWING UP IN THAT HOME. 00:44:09.28\00:44:13.78 WHAT ABOUT THE WOMAN AT THE TEMPLE? 00:44:13.78\00:44:16.28 JOHN 8:38 - SCRIBES BROUGHT THIS WOMAN CAUGHT IN THE ACT OF 00:44:16.28\00:44:20.49 ADULTERY - SHE WAS GUILTY. 00:44:20.49\00:44:23.86 ACCORDING TO THE LAW SHE SHOULD BE STONED. 00:44:23.86\00:44:25.56 ACCORDING TO THE LAW THE MAN SHOULD BE STONED TOO. 00:44:25.56\00:44:28.13 AND I'VE ALWAYS WONDERED HOW IN THE WORLD WAS IT THAT THEY 00:44:28.13\00:44:29.83 WERE ABLE TO CATCH HER IN THE ACT AND NOT THE MAN? 00:44:29.83\00:44:33.00 THAT'S PRETTY STRANGE. AND, EVIDENTLY, SHE WAS SET UP. 00:44:33.00\00:44:39.97 MANY THINK THIS MAY HAVE BEEN MARY MAGDALENE'S FIRST 00:44:39.97\00:44:42.18 ENCOUNTER WITH JESUS - AND I CAN GIVE YOU MY OTHER ARGUMENTS FOR 00:44:42.18\00:44:45.05 THAT LATER, BUT THEY ALL STOOD AROUND READY TO EXECUTE HER. 00:44:45.05\00:44:52.15 HE SAID, "HE WHO IS WITHOUT SIN AMONG YOU, LET HIM CAST THE 00:44:52.15\00:44:53.59 FIRST STONE." YOU KNOW ONE REASON THAT ADULTERY IS SO 00:44:53.59\00:44:57.29 RAMPANT IN THE CHURCH IS BECAUSE OF THIS STORY AND NO ONE WANTS 00:44:57.29\00:45:01.06 TO EVER DEAL WITH ADULTERY IN A CHURCH - ON THE CHURCH BOARD - 00:45:01.06\00:45:04.93 NO ONE WANTS TO - I SHOULDN'T SAY NO ONE - VERY FEW PEOPLE ARE 00:45:04.93\00:45:07.00 WILLING TO ADDRESS THOSE THINGS BECAUSE IT'S SO PREVALENT. 00:45:07.00\00:45:10.17 WE ALL QUOTE THE SCRIPTURE, 'HE WHO IS WITHOUT SIN LET THEM 00:45:10.17\00:45:13.61 CAST THE FIRST STONE' AND PEOPLE TAKE THAT TO MEAN THAT WE'RE NOT 00:45:13.61\00:45:16.68 SUPPOSED TO DEAL WITH IT AT ALL SO WE'RE ALL KIND OF 00:45:16.68\00:45:19.45 AMBIVALENT ABOUT SOMETHING THAT GOD'S VERY CLEAR ABOUT. 00:45:19.45\00:45:23.55 WHEN JESUS SAID 'HE THAT IS WITHOUT SIN LET HIM CAST THE 00:45:23.55\00:45:26.55 FIRST STONE' - THEY WERE GOING TO KILL MARY! 00:45:26.55\00:45:29.19 THEY WERE GOING TO EXECUTE THIS WOMAN! 00:45:29.19\00:45:32.39 AND WHEN HER ACCUSERS LEFT HE SAID, "WOMAN, WHERE ARE THOSE 00:45:32.39\00:45:35.90 ACCUSERS OF YOURS? HAS NO ONE CONDEMNED YOU?" 00:45:35.90\00:45:38.00 SHE SAID, "NO ONE, LORD." HE SAID, "NEITHER DO I 00:45:38.00\00:45:40.94 CONDEMN YOU." NOW, WAS JESUS SAYING THAT ADULTERY IS OKAY I'M 00:45:40.94\00:45:44.34 NOT GOING TO CONDEMN IT ANYMORE? 00:45:44.34\00:45:46.24 SOME PEOPLE HAVE READ IT THAT WAY. 00:45:46.24\00:45:48.94 WHENEVER SOMEONE IN THE CHURCH FALLS INTO ADULTERY, 00:45:48.94\00:45:50.58 INSTEAD OF THERE BEING ANY KIND OF CENSURE OR COUNSELING THEY 00:45:50.58\00:45:54.75 JUST SAY, 'WELL, JESUS SAID 'I DON'T CONDEMN' SO GO AND FREELY 00:45:54.75\00:45:58.32 SIN.' IS THAT WHAT HE SAID? 00:45:58.32\00:45:59.85 NO, HE SAID, 'I DO NOT CONDEMN YOU; GO AND SIN NO 00:45:59.85\00:46:03.22 MORE.' YOU KNOW WHY HE COULD SAY 'I DON'T CONDEMN YOU'? 00:46:03.22\00:46:06.03 BECAUSE HE WAS GOING TO TAKE HER DEATH PENALTY. 00:46:06.03\00:46:09.16 IS THE PENALTY FOR SIN STILL DEATH? 00:46:09.16\00:46:11.93 IS THE PENALTY FOR BREAKING THE SEVENTH COMMANDMENT STILL 00:46:11.93\00:46:14.60 SIN? AND SO IS IT STILL DEATH? 00:46:14.60\00:46:18.34 AND SO HOW COULD JESUS TELL MARY YOU'RE FREE TO GO? 00:46:18.34\00:46:21.08 BECAUSE HE WAS GOING TO TAKE HER DEATH PENALTY. 00:46:21.08\00:46:24.01 THAT'S WHY HE TOLD HER 'GO AND SIN NO MORE.' HE CALLED IT A 00:46:24.01\00:46:28.08 SIN AND HE SAID, 'STOP IT!' I'LL FORGIVE YOU. DON'T DO IT 00:46:28.08\00:46:32.82 ANYMORE BECAUSE I'LL DIE FOR YOU.' OR THE WOMAN AT THE WELL. 00:46:32.82\00:46:40.16 HOW COULD JESUS REVEAL TO HER THAT HE WAS THE MESSIAH? 00:46:40.16\00:46:43.97 HE SAID, 'GO CALL YOUR HUSBAND.' 'I'M NOT 00:46:43.97\00:46:46.90 MARRIED.' 'AH, YOU'RE RIGHT. SEMANTICS. 00:46:46.90\00:46:51.47 YOU'VE BEEN MARRIED FIVE TIMES AND THE GUY YOU'RE LIVING 00:46:51.47\00:46:53.21 WITH NOW YOU'RE NOT TECHNICALLY MARRIED TO.' 00:46:53.21\00:46:56.48 HER MOUTH FELL OPEN. 'SIR, I PERCEIVE THAT 00:46:56.48\00:46:59.45 YOU'RE A PROPHET. LET'S ARGUE ABOUT SOMETHING 00:46:59.45\00:47:02.58 OTHER THAN MY MARITAL HISTORY. 00:47:02.58\00:47:05.52 LET'S TALK ABOUT WHERE IS THE BEST PLACE TO GO TO CHURCH. 00:47:05.52\00:47:08.09 SHOULD WE GO IN JERUSALEM OR MOUNT GERIZIM?' 00:47:08.09\00:47:10.39 SHE USED THE DIVERSIONARY TACTIC. 00:47:10.39\00:47:14.93 JESUS KNEW ALL ABOUT HER - THAT'S WHY SHE WAS AT THE WELL 00:47:14.93\00:47:18.50 BY HERSELF - SHE HAD QUITE A REPUTATION. 00:47:18.50\00:47:22.24 CAN YOU IMAGINE THE WOMEN TALKING IN SAMARIA - IN 00:47:22.24\00:47:24.74 THAT TOWN - THE WELL OF SYCHAR - ABOUT THAT WOMAN WHO HAD FIVE 00:47:24.74\00:47:30.28 HUSBANDS AND NOW SHE'S JUST GIVEN UP ON MARRIAGE - 00:47:30.28\00:47:32.45 SHE'S LIVING WITH A GUY SHE NOT MARRIED WITH. 00:47:32.45\00:47:35.12 WHY WOULD JESUS TAKE TIME TO REVEAL TO HER HE'S THE 00:47:35.12\00:47:37.85 MESSIAH EXCEPT - I'VE GOT A THEORY - THAT IT WAS POSSIBLE 00:47:37.85\00:47:43.26 FOR HER TO BE FORGIVEN. WHAT DO YOU THINK? 00:47:43.26\00:47:47.10 WHAT ABOUT A PERSON WHO COMES OUT OF THE WORLD THAT'S 00:47:47.10\00:47:49.33 BEEN MARRIED HALF A DOZEN TIMES? TWO TIMES? ONE TIME? 00:47:49.33\00:47:54.10 THEY CAME OUT OF THE WORLD, THEY WERE NOT CHRISTIANS AND 00:47:54.10\00:47:55.57 THEY BECOME A CHRISTIAN. CAN THEY NEVER GET MARRIED? 00:47:55.57\00:47:58.54 NO, I THINK THAT YOU CAN'T UNSCRAMBLE SCRAMBLED EGGS. 00:47:58.54\00:48:02.84 WHEN PEOPLE COME TO THE LORD AND THEY'RE BORN AGAIN, HE GIVES 00:48:02.84\00:48:04.55 THEM A FRESH START. AND AFTER THEY'VE COME TO THE 00:48:04.55\00:48:07.22 LORD AND THEY'VE BEEN CONVERTED AND THEY'RE BORN AGAIN, OLD 00:48:07.22\00:48:10.42 THINGS ARE PASSED AWAY, ALL THINGS ARE MADE NEW, I BELIEVE 00:48:10.42\00:48:13.15 THAT IF THEY FIND A CHRISTIAN SPOUSE THEN PRAISE THE LORD. 00:48:13.15\00:48:17.29 IF THEY WANT TO REMAIN SINGLE PRAISE THE LORD. 00:48:17.29\00:48:19.46 GOD'LL BLESS EITHER ONE. DOES THAT MAKE SENSE? 00:48:19.46\00:48:23.87 BUT ISN'T IT INTERESTING THAT BOTH MARY MAGDALENE WAS THE 00:48:23.87\00:48:27.90 FIRST ONE TO PROCLAIM THE RISEN LORD AND THE WOMAN AT THE 00:48:27.90\00:48:31.17 WELL WAS THE FIRST ONE TO PROCLAIM HIM AMONG THE GENTILES. 00:48:31.17\00:48:35.01 SO IT IS SOMETHING THAT GOD CAN FORGIVE, BUT GOD IS ALSO 00:48:35.01\00:48:39.25 TELLING US HE STILL WANTS US TO OBEY. 00:48:39.25\00:48:42.58 ADULTERY IS STILL A SIN. HE IS NOT RECOMMENDING THAT WE 00:48:42.58\00:48:45.92 DO A LITTLE LESS OF IT, HE'S SAYING, 'THOU SHALT NOT 00:48:45.92\00:48:51.69 COMMIT ADULTERY.' THIS IS THE WILL OF GOD. 00:48:51.69\00:48:55.43 HE WANTS US TO BE A HOLY PEOPLE AND HE WANTS US NOT TO 00:48:55.43\00:48:58.70 COMMIT ADULTERY ON HIM BECAUSE, ULTIMATELY, HUSBANDS 00:48:58.70\00:49:03.74 ARE TO LOVE THEIR WIVES AS CHRIST LOVES THE CHURCH AND YOU, 00:49:03.74\00:49:06.41 AS PART OF THE CHURCH, HE LOVES YOU AS A BRIDEGROOM. 00:49:06.41\00:49:08.41 WOULD YOU WANT TO BREAK HIS HEART? 00:49:08.41\00:49:10.48 ANY TIME ANYBODY FLIRTS WITH THE IDEA OF COMMITTING ADULTERY 00:49:10.48\00:49:14.22 ON THEIR SPOUSE THEY'RE GOING TO BE COMMITTING ADULTERY ALSO ON 00:49:14.22\00:49:16.89 THE LORD AND ON THEIR FAMILY AND ON SOCIETY. 00:49:16.89\00:49:20.06 IT'S NOT JUST ONE PERSON THAT'S GOING TO BE HURT. 00:49:20.06\00:49:24.73 DAVID, WHEN HE REPENTED OF HIS SIN IN PSALM 51, HE SAID, 00:49:24.73\00:49:29.26 'AGAINST THEE AND THEE ONLY HAVE I SINNED.' JOSEPH, WHEN HE 00:49:29.26\00:49:31.93 WAS TEMPTED TO COMMIT ADULTERY WITH POTIPHAR'S WIFE, HE SAID, 00:49:31.93\00:49:34.77 'HOW CAN I DO THIS WICKED THING AND SIN AGAINST GOD?' 00:49:34.77\00:49:38.74 AND SO THE BEST REASON TO KEEP THIS COMMANDMENT AND 00:49:38.74\00:49:41.08 EVERY COMMANDMENT IS BECAUSE JESUS LOVES US AND HE HAD TO DIE 00:49:41.08\00:49:45.68 TO SAVE US FROM OUR SINS. ISN'T THAT RIGHT? AND IT'S 00:49:45.68\00:49:50.69 THROUGH HIS SHED BLOOD THAT WE'RE GIVEN POWER TO LIVE HOLY 00:49:50.69\00:49:54.02 LIVES. WHEREVER YOU ARE IN YOUR EXPERIENCE IN YOUR LIFE - 00:49:54.02\00:49:58.33 WHETHER YOU'RE OLD ENOUGH TO BE MARRIED OR YOU'VE BEEN 00:49:58.33\00:50:00.36 MARRIED BEFORE OR DIVORCED AND MAYBE YOU HAVEN'T GOT BIBLICAL 00:50:00.36\00:50:02.96 GROUNDS - EVERYONE CAN COME TO THE LORD AS THEY ARE AND THANK 00:50:02.96\00:50:06.97 HIM FOR THE POWER OF THE BLOOD TO LIVE A NEW LIFE FROM HERE ON. 00:50:06.97\00:50:11.81 (MUSIC) 00:50:11.81\00:50:19.68 >>YOU'VE PROBABLY HEARD THE EXPRESSION BEFORE, 'IF YOU 00:50:19.68\00:50:21.62 DON'T LIKE THE WEATHER IN TEXAS, JUST WAIT; IT'LL CHANGE.' AND 00:50:21.62\00:50:25.39 YOU'VE ALSO HEARD, 'EVERYTHING IS BIGGER IN TEXAS - THE 00:50:25.39\00:50:27.99 RANCHES, THE BELT BUCKLES, THE COWBOY HATS...' BUT THE MOST 00:50:27.99\00:50:32.16 FAMOUS SLOGAN ABOUT TEXAS IS 'REMEMBER THE ALAMO!' 00:50:32.16\00:50:39.83 THE VIOLENT BATTLES AND BRAVERY OF ICONIC HEROES, HAVE BEEN THE 00:50:39.83\00:50:43.14 STUFF OF LEGENDS, THROUGHOUT WHICH ENTIRE CULTURES OFTEN DRAW 00:50:43.14\00:50:46.41 THEIR IDENITY AND PRIDE, EVEN LONG AFTER CENTURIES ARE PAST. 00:50:46.41\00:50:50.41 AND IN TEXAS, THE STORY OF THE ALAMO HAS BEEN A RALLYING CRY OF 00:50:50.41\00:50:53.75 TEXAS INDEPENDENCE FOR 200 YEARS. ONE REASON THAT TEXANS 00:50:53.75\00:50:58.05 LOVE TO BRAG THAT EVERYTHING IS BIGGER IN TEXAS IS, OF COURSE, 00:50:58.05\00:51:01.72 BECAUSE TEXAS IS THE LARGEST OF THE LOWER 48 U.S. STATES. 00:51:01.72\00:51:05.86 IT'S HARD TO BELIEVE THAT THIS MASSIVE STATE GOT ITS BEGINNING 00:51:05.86\00:51:09.26 IN A VERY SMALL CHRISTIAN MISSION DURING THE BATTLE OF THE 00:51:09.26\00:51:12.50 ALAMO. EVERY YEAR THIS FAMOUS MISSION MUSEUM RECEIVES OVER TWO 00:51:12.50\00:51:17.27 AND A HALF MILLION VISITORS FROM ALL PARTS OF THE PLANET, THAT 00:51:17.27\00:51:20.58 ARE EAGER TO GET A GOOD LOOK AT THIS LEGENDARY SITE. 00:51:20.58\00:51:24.51 THE ALAMO PLAYED A CRITICAL ROLE IN THE TEXAS REVOLUTION. 00:51:24.51\00:51:28.05 IN DECEMBER 1835, TEXANS AND TEJANO VOLUNTEERS BATTLED 00:51:28.05\00:51:32.42 MEXICAN TROOPS QUARTERED IN THE CITY, FORCING GENERAL MARTIN 00:51:32.42\00:51:35.52 PERFECTO DE COS TO SURRENDER. THE VICTORIOUS VOLUNTEERS 00:51:35.52\00:51:38.89 THEN OCCUPIED THE ALAMO AND STRENGTHENED ITS DEFENSES. 00:51:38.89\00:51:42.76 FAMOUS AMERICANS LIKE DAVY CROCKETT, JIM BOWIE, AND COLONEL 00:51:42.76\00:51:46.50 WILLIAM TRAVIS MADE THIS LOCATION - THIS ANCIENT MISSION 00:51:46.50\00:51:49.84 - THE BEACHHEAD - THE LAST STAND IN AN EPIC BATTLE TO WIN 00:51:49.84\00:51:53.91 INDEPENDENCE OF TEXAS FROM MEXICO. 00:51:53.91\00:51:57.38 ON FEBRUARY 23, 1836, THE ARRIVAL OF GENERAL ANTONIO LOPEZ 00:51:57.38\00:52:02.22 SANTA ANA NEARLY CAUGHT THEM BY SURPRISE. 00:52:02.22\00:52:05.52 UNDAUNTED, THE TEXANS AND TEJANOS PREPARED TO DEFEND THE 00:52:05.52\00:52:08.59 ALAMO. FOR THIS SMALL RAG-TAG GROUP OF 00:52:08.59\00:52:10.96 REBELS, THE YOUNGEST OF WHOM WAS ABOUT SIXTEEN AND THE OLDEST 00:52:10.96\00:52:13.96 SEVENTY-FIVE, WAS AGAINST THE WELL-TRAINED AND ORGANIZED 00:52:13.96\00:52:17.20 MEXICAN ARMY OF SIX THOUSAND-PLUS SOLDIERS. 00:52:17.20\00:52:20.50 IT WAS A FIERCE AND LOPSIDED BATTLE, YET THE SMALL FORCE OF 00:52:20.50\00:52:23.71 REBELS WAS ABLE TO REPEL THE TROOPS FOR THIRTEEN DAYS. 00:52:23.71\00:52:28.94 LEGEND HOLDS THAT WITH THE POSSIBILITY OF ADDITIONAL HELP 00:52:28.94\00:52:31.75 FADING, COLONEL TRAVIS DREW A LINE IN THE GROUND WITH A SWORD 00:52:31.75\00:52:35.55 AND ASKED ANY MAN WILLING TO STAY AND FIGHT TO STEP OVER THE 00:52:35.55\00:52:38.92 LINE. ALL EXCEPT ONE CROSSED OVER. 00:52:38.92\00:52:43.06 THE FINAL ASSAULT CAME BEFORE DAYBREAK. 00:52:43.06\00:52:45.29 IN THE MORNING OF MARCH 6, 1836, THE THIRTEENTH DAY OF THE SIEGE, 00:52:45.29\00:52:50.00 CANON AND SMALL ARMS FIRE FROM INSIDE THE ALAMO BEAT BACK 00:52:50.00\00:52:53.64 SEVERAL MEXICAN ATTACKS. REGROUPING, SANTA ANA'S SOLDIERS 00:52:53.64\00:52:57.74 SCALED THE WALLS AND RUSHED INTO THE COMPOUND. THE DESPERATE 00:52:57.74\00:53:01.64 STRUGGLE CONTINUED UNTIL THE DEFENDERS WERE OVERWHELMED. 00:53:01.64\00:53:05.08 BY SUNRISE, THE BATTLE HAD ENDED AND THE GARRISON WAS SLAIN. 00:53:05.08\00:53:09.38 YOU KNOW, HISTORIANS MAY DEBATE SOME OF THE DETAILS REGARDING 00:53:09.38\00:53:12.05 THE BATTLE OF THE ALAMO, BUT NONE OF THEM QUESTION THE 00:53:12.05\00:53:14.76 INCREDIBLE SACRIFICE THAT WAS MADE AND THE COURAGE THAT WAS 00:53:14.76\00:53:17.43 DISPLAYED DURING THAT INTENSE CONFLICT. THEY MADE THE ULTIMATE 00:53:17.43\00:53:21.76 SACRIFICE - GIVING THEIR LIVES - AND THIS IS WHY THE STORY OF THE 00:53:21.76\00:53:24.80 ALAMO IS SO INSPIRING AND SO ENCOURAGING, YOU KNOW? 00:53:24.80\00:53:28.87 AND THAT'S WHY THE BIBLE IS SO INSPIRING, FRIENDS, BECAUSE 00:53:28.87\00:53:31.11 SOMEONE WAS WILLING TO MAKE THE ULTIMATE SACRIFICE AND GIVE HIS 00:53:31.11\00:53:33.74 LIFE SO YOU COULD HAVE FREEDOM AND ETERNAL LIFE. 00:53:33.74\00:53:37.51 DON'T YOU THINK YOU COULD TRUST YOUR LIFE TO A FRIEND LIKE THAT, 00:53:37.51\00:53:40.42 THAT WOULD GIVE EVERYTHING? THE STORY OF THE GOSPEL IS A 00:53:40.42\00:53:43.12 STORY OF COURAGE AND HOPE. IT'S THE STORY OF GOD WHO WILL 00:53:43.12\00:53:45.82 NEVER LEAVE YOU WITHOUT DEFENSE AND SUPPORT. JESUS IS THE GOOD 00:53:45.82\00:53:49.99 NEWS AND THE GOSPEL IS A STORY WORTH REMEMBERING. (MUSIC) 00:53:49.99\00:54:13.58 >>AMAZING FACTS CHANGED LIVES. 00:54:13.58\00:54:22.42 >>WE WERE GOING TO CHURCH EVERY OTHER WEEK. 00:54:22.42\00:54:25.26 ABOUT 19 YEARS OLD THINGS REALLY START TO MAKE SENSE FOR ME. 00:54:25.26\00:54:28.13 I STARTED TO GO TO CHURCH FOR MYSELF. 00:54:28.13\00:54:30.03 AND THE PASTOR WANTED TO STUDY WITH ME. 00:54:30.03\00:54:33.37 WE CAME TO THE STUDY ABOUT BAPTISM. 00:54:33.37\00:54:36.60 I KIND OF JUST SHRUGGED, PUT MY HEAD DOWN, AND I SAID, 'I'M NOT 00:54:36.60\00:54:39.31 READY.' HE LOOKED ME IN THE EYE AND SAID, 'JASON, YOU'LL NEVER 00:54:39.31\00:54:44.75 MAKE YOURSELF READY, YOU KNOW? THIS IS JUST SOMETHING YOU HAVE 00:54:44.75\00:54:48.52 TO DO.' I PUT A LOT OF THINGS BEHIND ME - THE DRINKING AND 00:54:48.52\00:54:51.95 SMOKING - ALL THAT STUFF STOPPED. 00:54:51.95\00:54:53.86 ALL THROUGHOUT THE TIME WHEN I'D BEEN LEARNING ABOUT GOD, IT WAS 00:54:53.86\00:54:56.86 JUST ME AND GOD. IT COMES AROUND UP TO ABOUT 00:54:56.86\00:55:00.86 AUGUST AND I MEET THIS GIRL. ABOUT TWO YEARS INTO THE 00:55:00.86\00:55:05.17 RELATIONSHIP WE'RE TALKING ABOUT MARRIAGE AND EVERYTHING. 00:55:05.17\00:55:07.80 WE DIDN'T PRAY - WE DIDN'T STUDY TOGETHER. 00:55:07.80\00:55:12.01 WE WERE ARGUING A LOT, BUT WE WERE ENGAGED. 00:55:12.01\00:55:16.58 I STARTED DRINKING AGAIN AND IT WAS A SLOW, DOWNWARD SPIRAL AND 00:55:16.58\00:55:20.38 DIFFERENT THINGS AND MY DEVOTIONAL LIFE REALLY STARTED 00:55:20.38\00:55:23.12 WEASELING AWAY. WHEN WE BROKE UP IN 2008, IT WAS 00:55:23.12\00:55:26.25 HEAVY FOR ME BECAUSE, AGAIN, BEING WITH SOMEBODY FOR THAT 00:55:26.25\00:55:29.29 LONG, IT'S ALMOST LIKE A DIVORCE. 00:55:29.29\00:55:34.36 I STARTED TO FALL BACK AWAY EVEN MORE. 00:55:34.36\00:55:37.23 I REMEMBER LOOKING IN THE MIRROR, JUST LOOKING AT MYSELF 00:55:37.23\00:55:39.47 AND SAYING, 'WHAT ARE YOU DOING? 00:55:39.47\00:55:41.87 HOW CAN YOU DO THIS TO GOD WHO'S BROUGHT YOU SO FAR?' 00:55:41.87\00:55:46.44 AND, YOU KNOW, GOD REALLY HEARD MY CRY. 00:55:46.44\00:55:52.48 THERE WAS A TESTIMONY TELLING AT MY CHURCH AND THERE WAS A CALL 00:55:52.48\00:55:56.69 AND KIDS STARTED GETTING UP - A BUNCH OF HIGH SCHOOL KIDS 00:55:56.69\00:55:58.72 STARTED GETTING UP FOR CALLS OF BAPTISM. 00:55:58.72\00:56:00.82 I'M BACK DOING THE P.A. SYSTEM AT THIS TIME AND I FEEL 00:56:00.82\00:56:03.69 JUST LIKE THIS URGE - JUST MY HEART JUST STARTED RIPPING OUT 00:56:03.69\00:56:06.39 OF MY CHEST AND I JUST HAD THIS FEELING JUST TO GO UP. 00:56:06.39\00:56:11.13 I GET UP TO THE FRONT AND I MEET THE PASTOR IN OPEN ARMS. 00:56:11.13\00:56:17.11 I REALIZED THAT THERE'S SO MUCH MORE TO LIFE THAN JUST LIVING 00:56:17.11\00:56:19.87 LIFE FOR MYSELF AND, YOU KNOW, FALLING AWAY, IT'S NOT A 00:56:19.87\00:56:25.21 NECESSITY, BUT GOD CAN WORK THROUGH ANYTHING IN THE BAD TO 00:56:25.21\00:56:29.95 MAKE IT THE GOOD. THAT'S A PROMISE HE MAKES. 00:56:29.95\00:56:42.53 >>TOGETHER WE HAVE SPREAD THE GOSPEL MUCH FARTHER THAN EVER 00:56:42.53\00:56:46.43 BEFORE. THANK YOU FOR YOUR SUPPORT. 00:56:46.43\00:56:55.38 >>AMAZING FACTS, THROUGH YOUR FAITHFUL SUPPORT, HAS HAD A 00:56:55.38\00:56:58.68 MAJOR IMPACT ON SOME OF THE LARGEST NON-CHRISTIAN LOCATIONS 00:56:58.68\00:57:02.35 IN THE WORLD. 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