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How to Prepare A Meaningful Sermon Parts 3-5

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00:05 All right, let's make our way to session three
00:07 and here we're going to learn how to construct the sermon,
00:10 or how to actually develop it and write it
00:14 because at this point, you've chosen your subject,
00:17 you've chosen your passage, and you've taken
00:19 a few hours to use your study tools,
00:21 and you've written about
00:23 two or three or four pages of notes.
00:25 Now you're ready to start writing the sermon.
00:28 And to do it, we're going to divide it
00:30 into four simple parts.
00:32 It always makes it easier when you take a big job,
00:35 and you divide it into smaller parts,
00:38 one section at a time.
00:41 Probably the introduction
00:43 and the appeal are the two most important
00:46 parts of the sermon.
00:48 And a sermon is more than information
00:51 is to draw a decision out of people.
00:55 You can take time to talk about
00:57 what is a tax collector anywhere?
00:59 Why is the tax collector considered to be immoral?
01:01 You would have to look that
01:03 up in the commentary and other parts.
01:05 And it would tell you that
01:06 tax collectors were looked at as enemies,
01:09 because they collected money for Rome.
01:12 And they took your money and gave it to Rome,
01:15 and usually charged you two times more,
01:18 and they kept part of it for themselves.
01:20 That's how they got rich.
01:22 They didn't care if people wouldn't like them.
01:24 They didn't care
01:26 if they were going to be ostracized
01:27 by their own race, it was a way to get rich quick.
01:31 And, since tax collectors were mostly men,
01:35 who had a lot of money,
01:37 these were the kind of guys
01:38 who hung around themselves
01:40 and had some very interesting parties to go to.
01:43 And you can be reading between the lines,
01:45 if you know what I mean.
01:46 That's what tax collectors were.
01:49 That's why they're lumped in with sinners,
01:51 and publicans, and prostitutes, etc.
01:54 And so Jesus goes to one of these gatherings
01:58 and that went directly against everything
02:02 in the culture that He lived in.
02:05 It says the Pharisees criticized Him for it.
02:08 Describe what that conversation took place.
02:10 What was the Pharisees mindset towards tax collectors?
02:14 Why did they have a problem with Jesus going there?
02:17 And then talk about Jesus' response.
02:19 You remember what His response was?
02:21 In Luke 5:31.
02:24 I want to read it to you
02:25 because this would be a key point,
02:26 if you were doing a sermon on this.
02:28 You would bring this out in the body of the sermon.
02:31 Luke 5:32, this what Jesus says,
02:35 "Jesus answered and said to them,
02:38 'Those who are well have no need of a physician,
02:42 but those who are sick,
02:45 I have not come to call the righteous,
02:48 but sinners, to repentance."
02:52 That tells you where Jesus' focus was
02:54 and where He spent most of His time.
02:56 Not with the righteous, but with sinners.
03:01 And you could use that to talk about
03:03 what is the job of the church today.
03:06 There is so much in that passage.
03:09 That will be the body of the sermon.
03:11 If you go farther and go to the end,
03:13 in section three, where it says conclusion,
03:16 this is where I bring out two basic lessons.
03:19 Number one, Christ calls us to seek
03:22 and to save the lost just like He did.
03:25 And number two,
03:27 a challenging one for some of us.
03:30 Christ actually wants us
03:31 to build friendships with people
03:35 who don't know Jesus.
03:38 And see that'll kind of get your talk into the area
03:40 of how do we balance this part
03:41 where Proverbs says, you know, be careful
03:44 who you hang around.
03:45 But Jesus says, "I want you to go rub shoulders
03:48 with people who don't know Me,
03:50 I want you to be an influence upon them."
03:52 And it gives you opportunity to talk about, you know,
03:54 what's the balance there?
03:56 What has God called His church to do?
03:59 To isolate themselves inside the four walls?
04:02 Or to actually make a difference
04:03 in the community with people
04:05 who don't really understand who Jesus is?
04:08 So those are the two lessons,
04:10 it gave me a chance to impress those lessons
04:13 upon the heart.
04:14 And then finally comes the appeal.
04:18 And the appeal section,
04:19 this is where I ask people to make a commitment and say,
04:22 "Lord Jesus, I'm willing to be Your missionary.
04:26 And if there is a Matthew somewhere in my world, Lord,
04:30 I'm asking you to bring him across my path this week."
04:33 If you want to tell God you're available for service,
04:36 I invite you to come forward as we sing our closing song.
04:39 That was the appeal and I actually wanted people
04:41 to come forward in an altar call to say,
04:44 "Lord, if You can use me this week.
04:46 If You want to bring someone
04:48 who doesn't know You across my path,
04:50 I just want You to know, God,
04:51 I'm not perfect, but I am available."
04:54 And people came forward during that altar call.
04:57 I appealed for them to make some type of decision.
05:02 Does that make sense?
05:04 I mean, when they say, I'm available for service,
05:05 Lord, is that a decision?
05:07 It most certainly is.
05:09 It would have done me no good to preach that sermon
05:12 without making an appeal.
05:14 Because all I would have done is given them information.
05:18 And a sermon, especially one by God's remnant in the last days
05:23 should never be just about information.
05:26 It should be influencing people
05:28 to take an action and to make a decision.
05:32 Why? Because Jesus is coming soon.
05:35 That's the heart of our message.
05:38 Amen. All right, now let's do this.
05:41 Here's the summary again,
05:43 the introduction, finding something lost,
05:46 a story of something lost.
05:48 The body, describing Luke 5:27-32 in detail.
05:53 The conclusion, God calls us to build friendships
05:56 with the lost and the appeal was,
05:59 asking people to make a commitment
06:02 to be a missionary for Jesus.
06:05 Those are the four parts of that sermon.
06:08 If you will follow that in writing it,
06:11 it will make it so much more easy.
06:14 Now, I'm not suggesting
06:15 that preparing a sermon is always easy.
06:17 There will be times when it might be
06:19 rather frustrating because you know,
06:20 the mind just goes blank.
06:22 But when you boil it down to those four things,
06:24 and you understand how they connect,
06:26 it makes perfect sense.
06:30 Now, before we end this session,
06:33 I want to talk about what a topical sermon is,
06:36 because depending on your personality,
06:39 maybe expository sermons don't work for you.
06:42 Now, do you remember
06:43 what I said an expository sermon is?
06:46 That's where you take only one passage,
06:49 one large passage or story, and that's your entire focus.
06:54 And you bring all the lessons out of it,
06:55 you expose the lessons in one passage, okay?
07:00 A topical sermon is a little bit different.
07:03 And if you take a look at your sheet here,
07:06 there's an outline
07:07 where it talks about topical sermon.
07:09 And I want to share with you what the difference is on this.
07:12 A topical sermon has the same four parts,
07:15 except you're choosing a topic.
07:19 And you're going to three
07:20 or four different texts in the Bible,
07:23 and bringing out the lessons that are in it.
07:26 You're not choosing just one large passage
07:28 or one large story,
07:30 you're going to three or four smaller texts in the Bible.
07:35 In fact, just to make sure you understand this,
07:36 let me ask you, typically,
07:39 when we do evangelistic meetings,
07:40 what kind of sermons are they,
07:42 expository sermons or topical sermons?
07:46 You're right, they're topical.
07:47 We take one topic,
07:48 and we go to many different texts in the Bible
07:51 to bring the lessons out.
07:53 Whichever one you're comfortable with,
07:55 is going to depend on your personality,
07:58 you know, and maybe how God leads you.
08:00 I prefer expository sermons.
08:02 I think they're easier to preach.
08:04 And I think it's simpler
08:06 to bring the lessons out of them.
08:07 So 11 am on Sabbath mornings,
08:09 I almost always preach expository sermons.
08:12 The only exception is evangelistic series,
08:14 that's when I go to topical sermons.
08:18 So in case you are more drawn to a topical sermon,
08:21 let's take a few minutes and go through
08:23 what a topical sermon may look like, okay?
08:27 We're going to use the same four parts.
08:29 You're still going to have an introduction,
08:31 and it's going to be a story or something
08:33 that introduces your subject,
08:35 that's still the exact same thing.
08:38 Then comes the body of the sermon.
08:39 Here's where it's going to be a little bit different.
08:42 In a topical sermon,
08:44 you have to use your study tools,
08:47 and find at least three texts that talk about that subject.
08:53 You look up the first text,
08:55 you describe what's in it, what's going on.
08:58 Then talk about the lesson it teaches.
09:00 You have the people look up the second text
09:02 to do the same thing,
09:03 describe what's happening in the text,
09:06 and bring out the lesson it teaches for today.
09:09 You go to the third text, do the same thing.
09:12 And if you have a fourth one, you do it again.
09:15 That's what a topical sermon is.
09:17 Conclusion, same thing.
09:19 You're simply going to summarise the lessons
09:22 that were learned from the texts.
09:24 And the appeal, you're going to invite
09:25 the congregation to make some sort of decision
09:29 based on the lessons that they learned.
09:32 Does that make sense? Yes or no?
09:34 Okay. Let's actually do one.
09:36 Okay, in the sheet, the very last sermon
09:39 that you have is a topical sermon.
09:43 So let's make this real.
09:45 It's the one that says the Christian's TV Guide,
09:48 do you have that one?
09:50 Put your papers up if we all have one
09:52 that says the Christian's TV Guide, okay.
09:55 This was a sermon I actually did
09:57 when I was in my late teens or 20's.
10:00 This was a sermon about making choices
10:03 of what we put before our eyes.
10:06 So I divided this out into four sections
10:09 and you will be able to see the difference.
10:12 The introduction to this sermon was a story of Johnny
10:16 coming into the house and accidentally seeing
10:19 his parents watching something inappropriate on TV.
10:24 And so that story is actually a good one
10:27 to introduce this topic.
10:29 Then we went to the body of the sermon.
10:32 And in the body of the sermon,
10:33 there were three main texts that I chose.
10:36 The first one was Psalm 101:2-4.
10:41 In fact, if we had time,
10:42 I'd have you look up each one of these texts.
10:45 Psalm 101 is where David said that I will walk in my house
10:50 with a perfect heart, I will not put evil things
10:54 before my eyes.
10:56 So I talked about the text.
10:58 What was happening and brought out the lesson?
11:02 Then I went to the second text,
11:04 which ended up being Matthew 15.
11:06 And actually under Psalm 101,
11:08 I did a little survey of how it talks about,
11:11 what goes on in primetime television.
11:13 You know, 10 incidences of violence per hour,
11:16 10 incidences of illicit sex per hour,
11:19 8 incidences of profanity per hour.
11:22 And when we constantly put that before us,
11:25 it will affect us.
11:27 And it will come out in our life,
11:30 whether we want to believe it or not.
11:32 So those are some of the things that came out of that text.
11:35 The second text, if you turn the page,
11:37 was Matthew 15:18-20.
11:40 And this is where Jesus talked about that
11:43 what goes into your heart will eventually
11:47 come out in your life in some way.
11:51 And so we would talk about
11:52 what's going on in that passage,
11:54 bring a few of the lessons out of it.
11:57 The third and last text was Philippians 4:8.
12:00 You know what Philippians 4:8 says?
12:04 Make a guess, starts with the word whatsoever.
12:09 "Whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are good
12:13 and lovely and have good report,
12:15 think on these things."
12:16 So we use that text,
12:18 describe why Paul wrote it
12:20 and focused on the lesson that God says,
12:23 "We need to put into our heart and mind things
12:25 that are good and are edifying and are positive."
12:30 And then I included some questions for people
12:33 to think about such as, what message is this program
12:37 or movie sending me?
12:39 Is it promoting sin or promoting morals?
12:43 Would I let my children watch it?
12:47 And if you wouldn't, should you be watching it?
12:49 And then the real kicker, number four,
12:53 would I watch it with Jesus by my side.
12:57 Is it keeping me, and even if it is good,
13:00 is it keeping me from spending time with Jesus.
13:04 Those are all things to consider.
13:07 And then the conclusion of the sermon
13:09 was basically reviewing and reinforcing the lessons
13:13 that came out of those texts
13:15 and maybe summarise them a little bit.
13:17 And then, lastly making the appeal.
13:20 And in the appeal, this is where I invite people
13:23 to evaluate their viewing habits,
13:26 and choose to make right choices
13:28 of what they put before their eyes.
13:30 And the appeal simply went something like this.
13:32 Now, I don't know it by memory
13:34 because it's been a long time since I preached this one,
13:36 where you might say, "Lord Jesus,
13:39 I'm asking You to speak to me
13:41 about what I put before my eyes.
13:44 Show me if there's anything I'm doing that needs to change.
13:48 Help me to make good decisions
13:50 about what I allow into my heart."
13:53 If you want to give God permission to speak to you
13:56 about what you're putting inside your heart.
13:59 If you're willing to say,
14:00 "Lord, if I need to make changes,
14:02 show me what they are.
14:03 I want to be involved in things
14:05 that are holy and honoring to You."
14:07 Would you raise your hand as we have our closing prayer?
14:11 Is that asking people to make a decision?
14:13 It is.
14:14 They're deciding to evaluate,
14:16 or maybe reevaluate their viewing habits.
14:19 And really, the truth is, we all can relate to that.
14:23 Because how many of us have ever watched something,
14:26 and then later on thought, you know,
14:30 that probably wasn't a good idea.
14:32 I've done things as a teenager,
14:34 I wish I had not done or watched.
14:37 And you know, things you put
14:38 before your eyes, they stay there.
14:42 It's not easy to get out of your mind.
14:44 It's only by the power of God that little by little
14:47 as we grow closer to Him,
14:49 He kind of etches away the things
14:51 that we wish we hadn't put there.
14:54 Fortunately, God is merciful, and God is also powerful.
14:57 Amen.
14:58 Oh now, I'm getting to preaching there.
15:00 So those are the four sections of a sermon, utilize them,
15:06 it will be much easier to preach.
15:14 Okay, welcome back.
15:16 We're about to begin session four.
15:18 And we're going to talk about
15:19 the principles of public speaking.
15:22 Now, this really is an essential part
15:24 of any seminar on how to preach,
15:28 because you can have the best sermon on paper,
15:31 you have taken maybe hours to study a passage,
15:35 to look at the different study tools
15:37 to write out your notes and actually constructed
15:40 into a sermon with four parts
15:43 that has everything, lessons and a wonderful appeal.
15:47 But if I am lackadaisical, and I don't put some effort
15:51 into how I choose to present it,
15:54 then much of what I've done is for naught.
15:57 Doesn't mean you have to be
15:58 a perfectly smooth charismatic preacher,
16:01 but there are some simple principles
16:03 of public speaking that all of us can follow.
16:06 They can be followed in church.
16:08 And even people in the business world
16:09 when they're making a presentation.
16:11 They follow some of the same principles,
16:14 but we're simply going to apply it
16:16 to the work of the Lord.
16:17 Amen?
16:18 So some of these you will already no doubt
16:20 have heard of,
16:21 and some of these,
16:23 you will probably be able to say,
16:24 "Oh, I've seen people
16:25 who have violated that principle,
16:27 because I have probably violated all of them
16:29 myself at some point."
16:31 So let's go through a few of them.
16:34 The first one is very obvious,
16:37 but sometimes it's the most obvious things that we neglect.
16:40 And so by far, number one,
16:42 spend time praying over your message.
16:46 Amen?
16:48 I don't care how much time you've put in preparation.
16:52 The thing that's going to move people's hearts
16:54 is not all the fancy words you think you might use.
16:58 What's going to cause them to make a decision
16:59 is not even those four parts of the sermon.
17:03 It's not going to be all those wonderful study tools
17:05 that you used.
17:07 The only thing that's going to reach
17:08 someone's heart is if the Holy Spirit is present.
17:12 And I have given myself
17:14 over to him to be used in all my imperfection
17:18 and in all of my weakness.
17:20 See, that's why sometimes God uses lay people,
17:23 maybe even more than pastors,
17:26 because sometimes we pastors can get
17:28 a little lackadaisical thinking,
17:29 well, we've been to seminary,
17:31 I've heard many classes on preaching,
17:33 I know how to do this.
17:34 And maybe at times,
17:36 we fall into the trap of thinking
17:37 we have less of a need for the Holy Spirit.
17:41 Whereas maybe the lay person who doesn't have that training,
17:44 they recognize that need perhaps more than we do,
17:48 and that can actually be a very good thing,
17:51 because the person
17:52 who gets in the pulpit and thinks that
17:54 they have it all together, and that their charisma
17:58 and their style is going to make a difference,
18:00 is going to be sadly disappointed.
18:02 They may be entertaining people on the outside.
18:06 But the purpose of a sermon is to reach the heart
18:09 so people can make tangible decisions.
18:12 Does that make sense? So that's why it's important.
18:15 I need to spend time praying over my message
18:18 and asking God to please use me
18:21 that maybe I need to say
18:22 what I never thought of writing down.
18:24 Or maybe I need to skip
18:26 something that I wrote down that I thought was pretty good.
18:29 Let the Holy Spirit guide pray over your message.
18:34 That's by far number one.
18:37 Principle number two,
18:39 adequately prepare for your message.
18:43 Okay, that means
18:44 whether you're writing your sermon out word for word,
18:46 or whether you're just making a long,
18:49 detailed outline,
18:50 that's more according to your personality.
18:53 I usually do long outlines and that's more
18:57 because of a character flaw I have
19:00 and that is patience.
19:02 I lack patience naturally.
19:04 I have a feeling I'm not the only one.
19:06 So to discipline myself to sit down
19:09 and write it out word for word, that's not always easy for me.
19:12 So I would rather make a long outline.
19:15 But what I have discovered,
19:17 the times where I have forced myself
19:19 to write it out word for word,
19:21 I remember it so much better, to the point
19:23 where I don't even need my notes,
19:26 because since I've written it out,
19:27 I've processed it up here a lot more.
19:30 But that's going to be more up to you
19:32 whether you want an outline,
19:33 or whether you want it word for word,
19:34 but here's the point, you must prepare.
19:38 Don't take the Lord's words out of context,
19:42 where Jesus says when you're brought
19:43 before kings and council, etc,
19:46 that don't worry
19:47 or think what you should say beforehand
19:49 'cause the Holy Spirit will bring it to you.
19:52 That is not in the context of preaching a sermon.
19:55 That is in the context of things
19:57 that happen unexpectedly and all of a sudden
19:59 you find yourself in front of a king
20:02 or a council or maybe someone in your workplace.
20:04 Yes, the Holy Spirit will bring the words,
20:07 but he will only bring the words,
20:09 providing you have put those words in your heart
20:11 from studying His word to begin with.
20:13 Amen?
20:14 So that doesn't mean that
20:16 I should take that text and say,
20:18 "Well, I'm just going to stand up front
20:20 with a blank sheet of paper
20:22 and whatever the Holy Spirit gives me to say,
20:24 I'm going to say."
20:26 That is a recipe for disaster.
20:29 And I know that some people might disagree with that.
20:32 Now, it's a little bit different
20:33 if I just find out on Friday night
20:37 that the preacher got sick,
20:38 and I'm supposed to preach the next day.
20:40 Yeah, then I better claim that promise.
20:42 But it's a whole different story
20:44 if I've known for three weeks that I'm going to preach,
20:46 and I just put other things ahead of that as a priority.
20:50 And I willfully and purposely get up unprepared,
20:53 that promise does not apply to me.
20:56 I hope that make sense.
20:58 So when you have opportunity, adequately prepare.
21:02 When there are last minute emergencies,
21:04 yes, the Holy Spirit is always going to guide you.
21:08 And, of course, He'll guide you even when you prepare.
21:12 Principle number three,
21:14 don't read your sermon.
21:18 Speak from the heart.
21:21 What the temptation will be, especially if you wrote it out,
21:24 is to have your sermon up here, put it on the pulpit,
21:28 and you're afraid to veer away from it.
21:30 And you're going to look down
21:31 and you're gonna just keep you know, just keep reading it.
21:34 Jesus had been traveling through the cities
21:36 of Galilee teaching and healing.
21:38 He was spending a lot of personal time
21:40 with people in the synagogues,
21:42 and in their homes and by the seashore.
21:45 And many people were being
21:46 affected by His life and ministry.
21:48 One of the people who had been affected
21:50 by Jesus was a tax collector named Matthew.
21:54 Do I have your attention there?
21:56 Probably not 'cause you're going to be
21:58 gone in about five minutes
21:59 because I'm not making eye contact with you.
22:02 My focus isn't on you.
22:04 Everything about me is looking downward.
22:07 My eyes are tied to my paper, okay?
22:11 This is why you adequately prepare.
22:13 This is why you take notes and use your study tools,
22:16 this is why you write the sermon out.
22:17 So it's up here and you don't have
22:19 to constantly be looking down.
22:22 And then that doesn't mean
22:23 if there is a point you really want to make,
22:25 and you've written out a quote in a certain way.
22:28 Well, certainly, you know,
22:29 you can read that from your paper.
22:31 But what you're not going to do
22:32 is spend 30 minutes of the sermon,
22:34 just simply reading what you wrote.
22:38 Speak from the heart.
22:40 Oh but Pastor Dave, I won't say it the same way
22:42 I put it on paper, it doesn't matter.
22:44 Because if you don't say
22:46 it the same way you put on paper,
22:48 guess who's the only one that's going to know that?
22:51 You, maybe your spouse.
22:53 The people on the congregation aren't going to know that
22:56 'cause they don't know what's on your paper.
22:59 So maybe you didn't say it perfectly.
23:01 Does that mean God can't use it?
23:03 Certainly not.
23:05 I would much rather hear someone speak from their heart,
23:09 even if they fumble a little bit
23:11 than I would someone reading from a paper
23:14 who is using all these upper echelon eloquent words,
23:18 but really doesn't seem to be into what they're saying.
23:21 You understand?
23:23 Speak from your heart.
23:25 Don't just read from a paper
23:27 'cause I would bet even in the secular work world
23:30 when someone's making a presentation,
23:32 if they're just reading the paper,
23:35 they're going to lose your attention fairly quickly.
23:38 Let it be from the heart.
23:41 Also be passionate about your message.
23:43 Now when I say be passionate,
23:45 I'm not talking about entertaining
23:48 and doing crazy things from the pulpit.
23:51 I don't know if you've ever turned on
23:52 a Christian television station.
23:54 And you've seen what really looks like
23:56 total entertainment, you know from the pulpit,
23:58 I've seen that at times, you know,
24:00 where you know in certain cultures
24:02 it may be the organ's playing
24:04 and ramping it up while the preacher's
24:05 trying to make a point.
24:07 And it almost seems like the person is screaming
24:09 or out of control.
24:11 I'm not talking about that. Okay?
24:14 What passion is, you're excited about
24:16 what you have to say.
24:18 You believe it, you know it's important.
24:21 You want people to hear and understand it.
24:24 You want to be passionate
24:25 about whatever God has laid on your heart.
24:29 And people have different levels of passion.
24:31 For some people the way I am right now
24:33 that's about as passionate as they get and that's okay.
24:36 You know, for others or sometimes
24:37 I may raise my voice and walk around the pulpit,
24:40 particularly when I go to African-American churches.
24:42 I really like that
24:44 because they're a little bit more expressive
24:45 so I know I can, you know, I can really get into it.
24:49 Whereas my Caucasian friends might can't quite understand me
24:53 if I get a little bit too passionate.
24:55 You know, but this is not talking
24:56 about entertaining.
24:58 It is talking about believing
25:00 and showing some spiritual enthusiasm
25:04 about what you're sharing.
25:06 I mean, you can apply that to a personal conversation.
25:09 When you have a one on one conversation with someone,
25:11 do you listen to the person more who shows enthusiasm,
25:15 or the person who just speaks in a monotone tone
25:18 and really doesn't make eye contact with you
25:20 and really doesn't seem to be at all excited about
25:22 what they're talking about?
25:24 Who's going to get your attention more?
25:26 Be passionate, as passionate
25:28 as your personality will allow you to be.
25:31 Another one is that keep it simple
25:34 and easy to understand.
25:36 A sermon is not about trying to impress people
25:40 with the vocabulary that you think
25:42 that you have attained.
25:44 I mean, have you ever heard a sermon
25:46 where you know what the person said
25:48 sounded real good and sounded real educated.
25:51 You just don't know what in the world he said.
25:53 You don't know what he was talking about.
25:55 Because he used, you know,
25:57 15 syllable words that maybe Webster
25:59 doesn't even have in the dictionary.
26:01 That's not the point of it.
26:03 If people don't understand what you're saying,
26:06 and I'm just going to be blunt, it's worthless.
26:09 People have to understand a sermon.
26:12 You say, "What about the really educated person
26:14 in the church?"
26:16 You know what?
26:17 If they are sincere,
26:19 a simple sermon will reach the children,
26:22 and it can reach the adults.
26:24 And as long as our heart is open,
26:26 it can reach the highly educated.
26:28 Because what it really comes down to,
26:31 is the heart of the listener open to God's word,
26:34 and is the heart of the speaker open to being used.
26:38 There's no need for me to use difficult language
26:41 and try to come up with words
26:42 that most people are not familiar with.
26:45 That frustrates people.
26:47 And not only that, if you keep using words
26:49 they don't understand,
26:51 they're going to turn you off
26:52 at some point because they figure,
26:54 I don't know what this guy is saying,
26:55 and I can't relate to him.
26:57 So you know the old acronym kiss, K-I-S-S.
27:01 Keep it simple, stupid.
27:04 But I wouldn't use the word you know, stupid.
27:06 Find another word for that. This one is so important.
27:11 Be positive and do what? Smile.
27:15 In fact, I would go so far as to suggest,
27:19 if it is physically impossible
27:20 for your facial muscles to smile, don't preach.
27:25 Find another ministry to be involved in, okay?
27:28 Smiling and being positive is so essential.
27:33 I remember when I was pastoring in Pennsylvania,
27:36 there was an elder
27:37 who was willing to go visiting with me,
27:40 but he always made me nervous.
27:41 Now he was a good soul.
27:43 He was always willing to visit and it was hard
27:45 to get people to go visit him.
27:47 But the problem was because of his personality,
27:50 he would never smile.
27:53 And so you'd be in this house,
27:55 having a pretty serious conversation with people,
27:58 you know, people pouring out their heart, you know,
28:00 and the elder's just sitting there
28:03 with no expression, you know, whatsoever.
28:06 And, boy, it just made me nervous.
28:07 I felt like I had to, you know, counteract that.
28:10 It's the same for preaching up front.
28:13 People respond much better if you're being positive.
28:18 That doesn't mean that
28:20 you don't say challenging things.
28:22 That doesn't mean you may never step
28:24 on someone's toe.
28:26 But when someone comes at you
28:28 with a negative, degrading attitude,
28:32 where it feels like
28:33 they're beating you over the head,
28:35 you're going to turn them off.
28:37 And to be honest with you, even like with my personality,
28:40 I'm German so I can say this.
28:42 We're kind of stubborn people, even in our marriage.
28:45 Marquita knows that if she approaches me
28:46 the wrong way with the wrong attitude,
28:48 I'm not going to listen to her
28:50 even if I know she's right and vice versa.
28:53 And don't look at me strange, you're all married,
28:55 you know what that's all about.
28:57 So same way in preaching.
28:59 The information may be great,
29:01 you may have been making a wonderful point.
29:03 But if you can't smile,
29:05 it's going to turn some people off.
29:06 If you have to say some challenging things,
29:09 do it in a loving way, in a loving manner.
29:12 And if you've got to use some negative examples,
29:16 it's usually best to use yourself
29:19 rather than someone else.
29:20 Unless it's somebody anonymous, who lives 5000 miles away,
29:24 don't use somebody in your own church
29:26 or in your own city.
29:28 And one of the reasons that would be important is,
29:31 I know when I've spoken at workers' meetings,
29:34 people seem to relate a lot more
29:38 when you're willing to be transparent,
29:40 and share your own failures.
29:43 They relate to that more than someone standing up front
29:46 talking about all their successes.
29:48 Now, there's nothing wrong with talking about
29:50 some success as an example,
29:52 but be willing to be transparent
29:54 and talk about your failures
29:56 so that people can relate to you.
29:59 Now I'm not saying, you know,
30:00 pour out super secret things from the pulpit.
30:03 There's some things only between you and God.
30:07 But those things that are appropriate,
30:09 be willing to be transparent, be positive and smile.
30:13 It communicates a lot.
30:16 The other thing and this is not on the screen.
30:19 Don't lean over the pulpit you know,
30:21 like this and look like you're relaxing, you know,
30:24 like a Roman God on the couch or something, you know,
30:27 feeding yourself grapes, you, you know,
30:29 stand erect and speak to people.
30:32 You know, sometimes people go like this,
30:34 but that's a far cry from, you know, being like this,
30:38 that communicates
30:39 that you're not really interested
30:41 in what you're saying.
30:43 Another thing to remember,
30:45 and this is a pet peeve of mine,
30:47 I cannot stand to see people do this.
30:50 Do not apologize for your sermon.
30:54 Have you ever seen somebody get up and say,
30:57 "Well, folks, I'm going to try here,
30:59 but my week was pretty busy, and I didn't do my best.
31:02 So thank you for putting up with me.
31:04 Hopefully this sermon, you'll be able to get
31:06 something out of it."
31:07 Now, as soon as they have said that,
31:09 what have they communicated to you?
31:13 This sermon isn't worth listening to.
31:15 This is inferior.
31:17 So if you don't listen and fall asleep,
31:18 I can understand that, don't worry about it.
31:21 If someone started their sermon that way,
31:24 I'm probably gone.
31:25 They've already told me, this isn't important.
31:28 So even if you're not feeling confident,
31:30 you don't have to tell people that.
31:33 Even if you got called on Friday night at midnight
31:36 and found out the guest speaker is sick,
31:39 or couldn't make it because of a tornado warning
31:41 or something,
31:43 you don't have to tell the congregation that.
31:45 Just get up and do your best.
31:49 Don't apologize right from the beginning
31:52 and start off on a negative note.
31:55 I remember one preacher taught me that,
31:57 I don't remember who it was, but I've never forgotten it.
32:00 Now that makes sense. Could you say amen to that?
32:03 Never apologize.
32:05 If God has called you to do something,
32:07 and circumstances met,
32:09 you couldn't spend as much time in it.
32:10 You don't have to tell the audience that.
32:13 Sometimes God, not sometimes God will take our weakness.
32:17 And He can make it a strength
32:19 only by His glory and His power.
32:22 Another thing is make eye contact with people.
32:26 Don't, you know, look around,
32:27 up at the ceiling and down or just, you know,
32:29 be looking at your paper, look at people!
32:32 Make a connection with them.
32:34 So that even though
32:35 you're talking to a whole congregation,
32:37 it feels a little bit more personal
32:38 when you look at them.
32:40 Now I'm not saying stare at one person the whole time.
32:42 And that's going to make them nervous.
32:44 They're going to think, you know,
32:45 you're preaching right at them.
32:47 But you know, look at this side and look at this side,
32:49 and look at this side.
32:51 And sometimes you got to be aware of that
32:53 because people have told me and Marquita has told me,
32:56 I tend to look to the right,
32:59 a lot more than I do the left because I'm right handed.
33:02 And so they've said
33:03 you're neglecting the left side.
33:05 I've actually had people
33:06 listening to the sermon say that.
33:08 So don't think they don't notice
33:09 because they do.
33:11 So make eye contact with people.
33:14 In fact, that actually helps to keep them awake
33:16 when you do that, because if they know that
33:18 you're looking around,
33:20 they are less likely to fall asleep.
33:24 There was one church I had when I was first a pastor.
33:29 And there was an elder who almost always fell asleep
33:32 during my sermons every Sabbath,
33:34 and it really irritated me.
33:37 And I'd be standing up front, I'd be seen him falling asleep,
33:39 and I would let it distract me
33:41 to the point where it was bothering me.
33:43 You know, and I would think, you know, I'm not Mark Finley,
33:47 but I know I'm not that boring.
33:49 You know, and I just wanted to, you know, do that.
33:53 But he worked at a hospital and sometimes probably late
33:57 I had to understand that.
33:58 But if there are people that fall asleep,
34:01 don't take it personally 'cause I'm going to tell you,
34:03 that will happen in every congregation.
34:07 Human nature wants to focus on it,
34:10 because it's kind of like a dig,
34:12 you know, at our sermon,
34:13 it's a dig on whether we're a good speaker,
34:15 that's how we take it.
34:16 That's how I took it.
34:18 You know, when I was first in ministry.
34:19 Don't focus on the person falling asleep,
34:22 focus on the other 95%
34:23 who are listening to your sermon
34:25 and looking for something positive.
34:29 In fact, what I have learned is,
34:32 even those people that look like they're sleeping,
34:35 they might not actually be sleeping.
34:38 They're actually listening intently,
34:40 they just don't want you to know it.
34:44 I'm serious when I say that.
34:46 So don't focus on those who aren't paying attention
34:48 because for every person that's not,
34:50 there's 10 other people that are.
34:53 Also, keep your sermon short and to the point.
34:57 Now, we'll ignore the fact that we're doing this
34:59 three hour seminar all in one shot,
35:01 but keep it short into the point.
35:04 Even in, I've heard in colleges today
35:06 they're teaching young ministers,
35:08 you know, 20 minutes or less.
35:10 But that's probably never going to work for me
35:11 because I'm an evangelist.
35:13 So 20 minutes ain't gonna happen.
35:14 But you know, you don't have to go an hour
35:17 if you can say it all in 30 minutes.
35:20 The only exception to that is probably going to be
35:23 evangelistic sermons.
35:24 You know why that is?
35:26 Most evangelistic sermons are how long?
35:29 They're about an hour. And you know why?
35:32 It's because the people who are coming are coming
35:35 from other places, other cultures.
35:37 They haven't heard these things before,
35:39 and they're excited about it.
35:41 They could stay all night many times
35:43 that they will say because Daniel and Revelation
35:45 and all these truths are new to them.
35:47 The people who get bored after 20 minutes
35:49 I hate to say are usually the church members
35:52 because they think that they've heard this all before.
35:55 So this doesn't apply
35:56 to evangelistic meetings necessarily,
35:59 but for 11 am Sabbath morning or whenever it is.
36:02 Keep it short, to the point.
36:04 If you can say it in 30 minutes,
36:06 you don't have to stretch it for an hour.
36:10 Now here are some ways to get your audience involved.
36:13 And you've probably seen me do this today.
36:16 Getting your audience involved, keeps them awake,
36:20 interacts with them,
36:21 keeps them from falling to sleep,
36:23 you can ask them to raise your hand,
36:24 kind of like I did today.
36:26 You know, how many of you
36:27 have ever been to another country?
36:28 Could you raise your hand some of you, you know,
36:30 raised your hand there.
36:31 You can ask them to finish a sentence you know,
36:34 in your sermon that something well known.
36:36 Invite them to look up the texts with you.
36:39 When you're reading the text,
36:41 invite them to fill in some of the blanks,
36:44 so it encourages them to follow along, you know,
36:47 for God so loved the world or, you know,
36:51 whatever you're reading, let them fill in the bank,
36:54 keeps them interactive,
36:56 and it's okay to ask them questions.
36:59 Now you may not hear what they say,
37:01 but there will be some people who respond.
37:03 And you want that because you know,
37:05 they're listening and believe me,
37:08 when a speaker knows
37:10 his congregation is into it, it really energizes him or her.
37:16 I have been in churches
37:18 where you could hear a pin drop.
37:21 And no matter what I did or said,
37:24 they would not respond.
37:27 And frankly, that makes me nervous.
37:29 Because I wonder well, what's going on here?
37:32 So when your congregation's into it,
37:35 not only will it help them, it will help you.
37:38 Now, some congregations,
37:39 you're going to have to coax them
37:40 a little bit to get into it.
37:42 If their culture is one of being quiet,
37:44 they're not going to be used to this.
37:46 Now, this is going to depend a lot on ethnicity as well.
37:49 If you go to a predominantly African-American church,
37:52 you don't have to coax them to get involved.
37:54 They're already going to be involved.
37:56 If you go to a Spanish church, for the most part,
37:58 you don't have to coax them, you know, to get involved,
38:01 and also some parts of the Caribbean.
38:03 But every church is different.
38:05 If they seem quiet,
38:07 you're going to have to do things
38:08 like what's on the screen there.
38:10 Or you can invite them to say amen.
38:13 You know, you've heard me make a point and say,
38:15 "Can somebody say amen tonight?"
38:17 People will say amen, you know,
38:19 "Can I get a witness in the house?"
38:20 That's more an African, you know,
38:22 African-American term.
38:23 Now, you're not want to do,
38:25 you don't want to do that every minute.
38:26 You know, can you say amen,
38:27 can you say amen, can you say amen.
38:29 That gets old after a while,
38:30 but at certain points in the sermon,
38:32 follow some of these things, get them involved,
38:35 don't be afraid to ask questions.
38:38 You will love an interactive audience.
38:43 Finally, at the end, make a strong appeal.
38:48 And what I mean is that don't be timid.
38:52 Don't make the appeal.
38:53 Well, if maybe there's somebody here
38:56 this morning who is, you know,
38:58 might possibly think, you know,
39:00 giving their life to Jesus or maybe might want to make a,
39:04 you know, commitment to Him.
39:06 I wonder if you just might raise your hand at this point.
39:09 Or maybe you consider coming forward
39:11 during the closing song.
39:13 Does that sound like a strong appeal?
39:16 No.
39:17 Talk like you expect people to make a decision.
39:21 The great preacher, Charles Finney, a student,
39:25 a young preacher once asked him and said,
39:27 "Pastor Finney, I don't get decisions
39:30 on a lot of my sermons in meetings.
39:33 How is it that you get so many decisions
39:35 when you preach?"
39:37 And Pastor Finney looked at him and said,
39:39 "Young man, you don't expect to get decisions
39:43 every time you preach, do you?"
39:47 And the students said, the young preacher said,
39:49 "Well, no, I don't expect people
39:51 to make decisions every time."
39:54 And the pastor said, "That's your problem.
39:56 You don't expect people to make decisions
39:59 every time you preach."
40:02 Go with an expectancy, if you've prayed that
40:06 there's one person that will be affected,
40:09 trust God to do it.
40:11 Make a strong appeal, do not be timid.
40:16 Martin Luther King Jr. did this and he was a preacher as well.
40:20 Even during the Civil Rights Movement,
40:22 he made strong appeals, even though the subjects
40:25 he talked about at his time were sensitive subjects.
40:30 We're working for God. Make that strong appeal.
40:34 Don't be ashamed on what you're talking about.
40:38 Let me share a couple quotes with you
40:39 before we end this particular session.
40:42 In the Desire of Ages, page 250, it says,
40:46 "There is no limit to the usefulness of one,
40:49 who putting self aside makes room
40:52 for the working of the Holy Spirit
40:54 upon his heart
40:56 and lives a life holy consecrated to God."
41:01 Doesn't matter whether you're man, woman, child,
41:05 the promise says, the person who puts self aside,
41:09 regardless of whether they've been to seminary,
41:12 regardless of what the educational attainments
41:14 have been, if they put self aside,
41:17 there is no limit to the usefulness
41:22 of how God can use that person.
41:29 All right, let's go to session number five.
41:32 And we're going to talk about the different types of appeals
41:35 that you can make
41:36 when you're presenting a sermon.
41:39 So let's look at a few of these options.
41:42 The first option is one that's very easy to do.
41:46 Most people have seen this, that's the raising of hands
41:49 or asking people to stand
41:51 and that's a very general appeal.
41:53 Most people can do it pretty comfortably.
41:56 And if you're working with a church
41:58 or maybe you're doing an evangelistic series,
42:00 this is a good one to start with to get people comfortable
42:04 with making a decision.
42:06 Because usually if you say to a congregation,
42:09 "If you would like to say, Lord Jesus,
42:11 I want You to come one day soon and save me in Your kingdom.
42:15 Would you like to raise your hand
42:16 as we pray?"
42:18 How many people are going to raise their hand?
42:20 Almost everybody.
42:21 And even if someone doesn't want to,
42:23 or if you're asking them to stand a lot of people,
42:27 oh, I don't want to look like a pagan.
42:28 I guess I better stand up, you know,
42:31 but God knows who are standing for genuine reasons.
42:35 And it's still an appeal.
42:37 It's still asking people to make a decision.
42:40 Now, that's an easy one to use.
42:42 You might want to start with that.
42:45 Another option, one that is not used very often,
42:49 maybe a time of silent prayer in the pew.
42:53 Now that's a general appeal and that can be used more
42:58 when you're asking people to make a private decision,
43:01 or you're talking about sensitive subjects.
43:05 Like for example, suppose you preached
43:07 a sermon on forgiveness.
43:10 How do you think it would work to make an appeal,
43:13 or an altar call that would go something like this?
43:17 "Today, you've heard
43:19 what God's Word has said about being
43:21 willing to humble our hearts and to forgive others.
43:24 And maybe there's someone here today
43:26 where you've had hardness in your heart for years,
43:29 you held something against someone
43:30 who's hurt you and done you wrong.
43:33 And today, you would like to say,
43:34 'Lord Jesus, I'm asking you to take this bitterness,
43:37 take this hatred out of my heart,
43:39 and teach me to forgive.
43:40 I don't want to give the devil a foothold anymore.'"
43:43 If you'd like to make that decision today and say,
43:46 "Lord, take the hatred out of my heart.
43:48 I'd like to invite you to come forward
43:50 as we sing our closing song."
43:52 How well you think that's going to work out?
43:54 How many people you think are going to come forward?
43:57 Probably nobody.
43:59 The only place that may work
44:00 is if you were talking in a conference
44:04 where people have learned not to forgive,
44:06 and everybody's in the same boat.
44:08 But you could do something like this.
44:12 "Maybe in your heart, you're struggling
44:14 because there's someone that's hurt you.
44:17 There's someone that's just devastated your life.
44:20 And you found it very hard to forgive.
44:23 You found that that bitterness has been affecting you.
44:26 And today, you just want to say,
44:27 Lord, please help me to forgive, please,
44:30 by Your power help me to let go.
44:34 Just now I want to invite
44:35 the organist to play just for a minute
44:37 or two and just where you are,
44:38 I would invite you to bow your heads
44:40 and talk to God about what you've heard today.
44:42 And if God brings someone's name to your mind,
44:45 if you're struggling with someone,
44:47 talk to God about it.
44:48 And in the quietness, ask Him, what He would have you to do.
44:54 That would probably be more appropriate.
44:56 Are you asking to make a decision?
44:59 You are and it's an important decision.
45:01 The difference here is you may not know about the decision
45:03 that they're making.
45:05 But the speaker doesn't have
45:06 to know about every single decision
45:08 if it involves very private things.
45:11 That's not one that we use very often,
45:14 but it is available.
45:16 Another one is the altar call.
45:19 Now, that's a big step of action.
45:21 Because that means getting out of your seat, standing up,
45:25 walking up front,
45:27 while people are looking at you.
45:29 That is harder to do for some people.
45:32 But it really deepens a person's decision.
45:35 Because to be able to take that action
45:38 on a decision that's being made in the heart
45:41 strengthens it.
45:43 In fact, I like it because
45:45 sometimes when folks see others coming forward,
45:49 it plants a seed in their heart,
45:51 and it encourages them to do the same thing.
45:54 Now the temptation that will happen here is this
45:57 'cause it's happened to me many a time.
46:01 The first thought that will go through our mind is,
46:04 what if nobody comes forward?
46:07 What if no one comes forward on the call
46:09 and I stand up here by myself looking like a fool?
46:12 I don't want to look like that. I've done that.
46:16 When I was afraid that people might not come forward.
46:19 And I didn't want to look bad.
46:21 I didn't make the call when I sensed God's Spirit
46:24 telling me that I should.
46:27 And what was the entire reason?
46:29 The entire reason was self
46:31 'cause I worried about how I was going to look.
46:35 And I can assure you
46:36 one of the worst feelings in the world
46:39 is to know that
46:40 you should have made a call and you didn't.
46:43 That feels 10 times worse than
46:46 making a call and no one comes forward.
46:49 Especially when someone comes after you afterwards and says,
46:53 "I wish you would have made a call
46:54 because I was ready to come forward."
46:57 You feel about that small.
46:59 I would rather make a call and have no one come forward
47:04 than to not make one,
47:05 and someone missed an opportunity.
47:09 Now, I'll tell you what I do on an altar call that
47:11 might make it a little easier for you.
47:13 There's a reason I do it this way.
47:15 Did you notice this morning at 11 am
47:17 when I made the call,
47:19 I invited people to come forward
47:22 while we were singing the closing song.
47:26 You know why I did it that way.
47:29 You don't have to do it this way,
47:30 but this is why I do.
47:31 Number one, it makes me more comfortable.
47:33 Because they're already standing up
47:36 to sing the closing song.
47:37 So when they're standing up, right,
47:39 there is half the battle.
47:41 The other reason is, it gives me a chance
47:43 to step down where they are and meet them.
47:47 And I don't have to figure out what else to say.
47:50 We're singing the closing song.
47:52 So I don't have to talk
47:53 for another five minutes trying to say
47:55 the same thing in different words,
47:57 because you know, you've seen some preachers
47:59 and in some cultures, it's perfectly fine.
48:02 They'll come down, and they'll make an appeal
48:04 for another 20 minutes.
48:05 And they'll keep talking until you do come forward.
48:08 Now, you know in other cultures that's fine.
48:11 Usually in the Caucasian culture,
48:13 they don't particularly appreciate that.
48:15 So I like to do it during the closing song
48:18 so I don't have to think of other things to say,
48:20 I can simply come down,
48:22 pray silently and watch as God works.
48:25 That's what makes me comfortable,
48:27 you might find that it works for you as well.
48:32 Decision cards.
48:34 Decision cards is also a major step of action,
48:38 because it gives people a chance to fill out a card
48:41 who may not come forward in a public call,
48:44 so it's a little bit more private.
48:46 And so you're able to take a card
48:50 and review it with your audience
48:52 or your congregation.
48:54 But when you do that, make sure that you explain
48:58 what you want them to do with the card.
49:01 Where are they supposed to hand it in?
49:03 Are they going to be deacons at the door?
49:05 Is there a box in the lobby?
49:07 Or deacons going to come down the aisle and collect it?
49:10 Do you have a box up front
49:12 where you want to invite them to come forward
49:13 during the closing song and hand it
49:15 and be clear of what you want them
49:18 to do with that decision card.
49:20 If you choose to make your own decision card,
49:24 then it might look something like this.
49:26 Each line has a purpose.
49:29 The first line is simply asking the question.
49:33 Is this clear to you?
49:35 It's making an intellectual decision
49:37 because people don't make choices
49:39 about things that are unclear to them.
49:42 So the first line is, is this clear?
49:44 The second line is you're asking them
49:46 to take a half a step in the decision
49:49 maybe like a baby step.
49:51 The third line is asking for the full commitment.
49:55 The fourth line is where
49:57 they're requesting extra material
49:59 or they would like a personal visit to ask.
50:03 So it might look like this on a Sabbath card,
50:05 the first part?
50:07 Is it clear to me?
50:08 Or it is clear to me that
50:10 the seventh day Sabbath is an important Bible truth?
50:13 You're asking, is it clear?
50:15 Is it intellectually clear in their minds?
50:17 That's just simply, you know, asking them that.
50:21 The second one, you're asking for a half a step.
50:24 I choose that I want to follow Jesus in my life,
50:27 you're not asking them to keep the Sabbath.
50:29 I want to follow Jesus in my life,
50:30 that's half step.
50:31 The third line, I choose to follow Jesus
50:34 by honoring His seventh day Sabbath,
50:37 that's where you asked for the full commitment.
50:39 And then number four, I have some questions
50:42 and I would like a personal visit.
50:44 This is where people have a chance to say,
50:47 I didn't quite understand it, but I'd like to talk about it.
50:50 And so when people hand cards in,
50:53 this is a sacred trust.
50:55 Always follow up on decision cards
50:59 that had been handed in.
51:00 People fill them out for a reason.
51:03 And if you wait two weeks,
51:06 the conviction might be gone.
51:10 In fact, I see nothing wrong
51:12 with a church having decision cards in their pews.
51:15 And you can use them every Sabbath
51:16 as their general decision cards,
51:19 and they may kind of look like what you have on the screen,
51:22 where they're generic, and you ask,
51:25 the subject we studied today is clear to me.
51:28 I am choosing to follow Jesus in this matter.
51:31 I would like prayer concerning this matter.
51:34 There are some obstacles in my life
51:36 and I would like to talk to someone
51:38 or I would like to prepare for baptism.
51:40 That's a card you can use
51:41 with any subject that you study on
51:43 any Sabbath morning, if you choose to.
51:46 So if the speaker decides to make a call at the last minute,
51:49 he's already got those cards in the pews to be able to use.
51:54 And after all, shouldn't Sabbath morning
51:57 be like an evangelistic series in a sense,
52:00 where we ask people to make decisions.
52:05 Now let's start to wind it down
52:06 a little bit with these appeals.
52:09 When you make an appeal,
52:10 there's a few things to remember.
52:12 Number one, be specific.
52:15 People have to understand
52:17 what decision are you asking them to make?
52:20 You know, are you asking them to be baptized?
52:22 Or are you asking them
52:24 to recommit their lives to Jesus?
52:26 Or are you asking them to be faithful in tithe?
52:28 Or are you asking them to join the church?
52:31 Be specific, because if people don't know
52:33 what you're asking,
52:35 they're not going to make a decision.
52:38 Be positive in your appeal, not negative and belittling.
52:42 You say, "What do you mean by that?"
52:45 How do you think an appeal like this would go over?
52:47 Let's say you've preached a sermon on stewardship
52:49 and being faithful in tithe.
52:52 Maybe today as you've heard what Jesus said about
52:55 being faithful in our stewardship.
52:58 Maybe today you would like to say, Lord Jesus,
53:01 help me not to be selfish with my tithe anymore.
53:05 Lord, help me not to keep these things for myself
53:08 and to just pile up my material possessions,
53:10 Lord, lose my own eternal life,
53:12 Lord, help me to make better decisions.
53:15 If that's your desire today,
53:16 would you raise your hand as we pray?
53:19 How many responses do you think you're going to get?
53:22 Not many.
53:23 Because what you've done is you focused on the negative.
53:27 You always focus on the positive.
53:31 Today, as you've heard what Jesus has said about
53:34 stewardship that everything belongs to Him.
53:37 If you would like to say, Lord Jesus,
53:38 I acknowledge You as the owner of everything.
53:41 I acknowledge You as the Lord and leader in my life.
53:45 And, Lord, today I choose
53:47 that I want to return a faithful tithe and I ask you,
53:49 Lord, to help me to be faithful in all things.
53:52 If that's the desire of your heart,
53:54 would you raise your hands as we pray?
53:56 Is that appeal different? It is.
53:59 People make decisions by focusing on the positive,
54:03 not by being negative and belittling them.
54:06 Thirdly, make sure they understand
54:10 what do you wanting them to do
54:11 when they come forward or in this appeal?
54:14 Are they supposed to come up front?
54:16 When are they supposed to do this now
54:18 or during the closing song?
54:20 Are they supposed to go on this side,
54:22 or they just supposed to stand up?
54:23 Make sure you clearly explain
54:26 what it is you're wanting them to do.
54:29 And you will have to repeat the appeal two or three times.
54:33 Maybe not in the same words
54:34 because they might not have understood it the first time.
54:37 So be willing to repeat it so that it is clear.
54:42 I mean, if you're going to spend time
54:43 making a 30 minute sermon,
54:45 you might as well spend time being clear on the appeal
54:48 and on what you're asking them to be able to do.
54:53 So later on,
54:55 as you look through the packets,
54:56 you're going to see some examples of appeals
54:59 and you'll be able to look through them
55:01 and read through them.
55:02 And I'm just going to do one or two as an example
55:04 before we close here this morning.
55:08 Say that you were going to do
55:09 an appeal for the character of Jesus.
55:11 You've talked about the fruit of the Spirit,
55:13 and how we're to be like Christ.
55:15 So your appeal might go something like this,
55:19 as you see it on the screen, you might say,
55:23 "Would you like others to see the character of Jesus
55:25 in your life?
55:27 Would you like to be more patient
55:28 and kind with others?
55:30 This morning, if you would like to say,
55:33 Lord Jesus, make me more like you.
55:36 Create in me a loving heart, come into my life and, Lord,
55:40 just enable me to have the fruit
55:42 of the Spirit in my life.
55:44 If you'd like to ask Jesus to do this for you,
55:47 then I'd like to invite you to come forward
55:49 during our closing song and just stand with me
55:52 here at the altar.
55:54 By coming forward, you're not saying, Lord,
55:56 I'm perfect in this area.
55:58 You're simply saying, Jesus,
56:00 I'm asking You to make me like You.
56:03 If that's your desire,
56:05 join me here in front of the altar
56:08 when we start singing our closing song.
56:11 That can be the example of a simple appeal.
56:15 And one more, say you're doing an appeal
56:18 for being a witness to Jesus.
56:22 Your appeal may go like this.
56:23 And notice I've written it out for a reason.
56:25 You might say something like, God is looking for people
56:29 who are willing to say, "Here I am, Lord,
56:32 You can use me."
56:34 Would you like to be used by Jesus today
56:37 this week to be able to touch someone's heart?
56:40 Are you willing to tell God
56:42 that you are available for service?
56:45 This morning, if you can say, "Lord,
56:47 if there's someone in my life
56:49 who needs to know the love of Jesus
56:51 this week, then I'm giving You permission
56:53 to bring them across my path.
56:56 Lord, if You can use me, I'm available for service."
57:01 It could be someone in your family.
57:03 It could be someone in your workplace.
57:05 It might be someone at your school.
57:08 It might even be a total stranger.
57:10 But if you are ready to say, "Lord Jesus,
57:12 if someone needs Your love, here I am, Lord,
57:16 I give You permission to bring them across my path."
57:20 If that's your desire,
57:21 I invite you to raise your hand,
57:23 as we pray this morning, or in this appeal,
57:27 it says to stand as we pray.
57:29 So these are some examples you can look through that
57:32 in your notes.
57:33 And the thing that I would like to leave with you
57:36 is this final slide.
57:38 In order to get decisions, you must ask for that.
57:44 Don't just preach a sermon and assume people
57:47 will take that information and make a choice.
57:50 You have to appeal to their hearts.
57:53 The only way you get decisions is if you ask for that.
57:57 And if you write your appeal out
58:00 and you make it strongly and boldly.
58:03 You don't have to be perfect.
58:05 You don't have to say everything right.
58:07 But if you've given it over to God,
58:09 I can guarantee you,
58:10 there will be at least one person
58:12 in that congregation
58:15 whose heart and life has been positively affected
58:18 by your appeal,
58:20 even if they never come forward,
58:21 even if it's never visible to you,
58:24 someone's life will be positively changed.
58:28 So ask for the appeal, ask for decisions.


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