(MUSIC) 00:00:00.36\00:00:48.13 >>WELCOME TO SACRAMENTO CENTRAL SEVENTH DAY ADVENTIST CHURCH. 00:00:48.13\00:00:51.90 WHEREVER YOU ARE, AND HOWEVER YOU'RE JOINING US, 00:00:51.90\00:00:54.93 WE WELCOME YOU TODAY. AND, ACTUALLY, WE HAVE A WARM 00:00:54.93\00:00:59.50 WELCOME FOR YOU BECAUSE IN SACRAMENTO TODAY IT'LL BE 95 00:00:59.50\00:01:04.06 DEGREES - VERY HOT. I THINK THAT TRANSLATES TO MAYBE 00:01:04.06\00:01:07.66 35 DEGREES CELSIUS. SO NO MATTER THE SEASON WHERE 00:01:07.66\00:01:11.86 YOU ARE, WITH SONG AND SERVICE THIS MORNING, WE WELCOME YOU 00:01:11.86\00:01:15.73 WITH OPEN ARMS. SO LET'S SING. I HOPE YOU HAVE YOUR HYMNALS. 00:01:15.73\00:01:20.10 OUR FIRST SONG THIS MORNING IS HYMN #469 - 00:01:20.10\00:01:23.06 'LEANING ON THE EVERLASTING ARMS'. 00:01:23.06\00:01:26.20 NOW TODAY WE FOUND OUT THAT WE HAVE GOTTEN REQUESTS FROM 00:01:26.20\00:01:29.23 97 COUNTRIES, AMEN? THIS IS WONDERFUL. 00:01:29.23\00:01:35.43 SO, 'LEANING ON THE EVERLASTING ARMS' THIS MORNING COMES AS A 00:01:35.43\00:01:38.66 REQUEST FROM CANADA - ROSE IN CANADA, MANFRED IN GERMANY, 00:01:38.66\00:01:49.40 MANY, MANY, MANY OTHER PEOPLE - MPROBABLY A PART OF THOSE 00:01:49.40\00:01:52.56 97 COUNTRIES. SO THIS MORNING WE'LL SING THE FIRST, SECOND 00:01:52.56\00:01:57.13 AND THIRD STANZAS - 'LEANING ON THE EVERLASTING ARMS'. 00:01:57.13\00:02:00.96 (MUSIC) 00:02:00.96\00:02:01.93 >>AMEN. NOW, IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO BE THE 98TH COUNTRY, SEND US 00:04:01.56\00:04:07.26 A NOTE AT 'WWW.SACCENTRAL.ORG' - 'SACCENTRAL.ORG' - IF YOU CLICK 00:04:07.26\00:04:15.80 ON THE 'CONTACT US' LINK AND SEND IN ANY HYMN - OLD OR NEW - 00:04:15.80\00:04:21.33 FROM OUR HYMNAL, WE'LL BE HAPPY TO HEAR FROM YOU. OUR NEXT SONG, 00:04:21.33\00:04:25.93 IF YOU'VE BEEN WITH US ANYWHERE WITHIN THE PAST YEAR IS NUMBER 00:04:25.93\00:04:32.43 69 - WE'RE MOVING OUR WAY THROUGH THE HYMNAL AND 00:04:32.43\00:04:35.70 WE'RE ALREADY ON 69. THIS IS A VERY LOVELY SIMPLE 00:04:35.70\00:04:41.56 AMERICAN NEGRO SPIRITUAL AND IT READS JUST LIKE A PRAYER. 00:04:41.56\00:04:46.70 NOW THIS WEEK - THIS PAST WEEK - COMMEMORATED MARTIN LUTHER 00:04:46.70\00:04:50.63 KING'S MARCH ON WASHINGTON. IT WAS THE FIFTIETH ANNIVERSARY 00:04:50.63\00:04:54.70 AND - WITH HIS 'I HAVE A DREAM' SPEECH - AND WE'VE COME SO FAR 00:04:54.70\00:04:59.56 SINCE THE CIVIL RIGHTS ERA, BUT WE STILL HAVE SO FAR TO GO. 00:04:59.56\00:05:03.63 AND I CAN JUST IMAGINE THE FREEDOM FIGHTERS FIFTY YEARS AGO 00:05:03.63\00:05:08.46 SINGING THIS SONG ASKING FOR STRENGTH, ASKING FOR PEACE ON 00:05:08.46\00:05:13.23 THEIR MARCH TO FREEDOM. AND AS I WAS READING IT THIS 00:05:13.23\00:05:17.63 MORNING, IT PARALLELS OUR WALK WITH GOD. 00:05:17.63\00:05:22.93 I IMAGINE US SINGING THIS SONG - AS WE SING THIS SONG THIS 00:05:22.93\00:05:25.90 MORNING, THINK OF HOW MUCH - HOW FAR YOU'VE COME IN YOUR WALK, 00:05:25.90\00:05:32.36 BUT HOW FAR WE HAVE TO GO UNTIL JESUS COMES AGAIN. 00:05:32.36\00:05:36.30 SO LET'S SING HYMN #69 - WE'LL SING ALL FOUR STANZAS. 00:05:36.30\00:05:42.36 (MUSIC) 00:05:42.36\00:05:43.10 >>AMEN. LET'S PRAY. DEAR HEAVENLY FATHER, WE ASK 00:07:26.06\00:07:32.00 THAT YOU MAKE US MORE HUMBLE. WE ASK THAT YOU MAKE US MORE 00:07:32.00\00:07:37.80 LOVING, MORE FAITHFUL, MORE LIKE YOU. 00:07:37.80\00:07:43.26 THROUGH DEATH AND DISASTER AND CONFUSION AND CRAZINESS IN THIS 00:07:43.26\00:07:46.60 WORLD, SOMETIMES WE FORGET THAT WE DO HAVE YOU AND THAT WE DO 00:07:46.60\00:07:49.96 HAVE A HOPE THAT WE COULD HOLD ON TO AND ACTIVELY PRAY FOR 00:07:49.96\00:07:55.00 UNTIL YOU COME AGAIN. SO AS WE STUDY AND WORSHIP TODAY 00:07:55.00\00:08:02.53 AND AS WE STUDY IN WORSHIP THROUGHOUT THE WEEK, LORD, WE 00:08:02.53\00:08:05.86 ASK TO ALWAYS GIVE US A STILL SMALL VOICE TELLING US TO TURN 00:08:05.86\00:08:11.16 THE OTHER CHEEK. WE ASK THAT YOU FILL OUR LIPS 00:08:11.16\00:08:14.50 WITH PRAISE AND TO THANK YOU WHEN YOU GIVE US A LITTLE BIT 00:08:14.50\00:08:18.70 MORE DESIRE TO BE HUMBLE AND WE JUST THANK YOU. 00:08:18.70\00:08:25.40 WE ADORE YOU AND WE LOVE YOU FOR ALL OF THE BLESSINGS THAT YOU 00:08:25.40\00:08:28.90 HAVE GIVEN US AND WILL GIVE US. IN JESUS' NAME WE PRAY, AMEN. 00:08:28.90\00:08:37.86 >>GOOD MORNING. WHAT A BEAUTIFUL MORNING. 00:08:37.86\00:08:40.90 THANK YOU ALL FOR BEING HERE TO WORSHIP AND PRAISE GOD. 00:08:40.90\00:08:44.20 BEAUTIFUL DAY, BEAUTIFUL TIME TO BE ALIVE. GOD IS GOOD, RIGHT? 00:08:44.20\00:08:48.26 WE HAVE A SPECIAL OFFER TO SHARE WITH YOU, #723 AND YOU WILL KNOW 00:08:48.26\00:08:54.93 BEFORE THIS LESSON'S OVER THAT THIS IS A GOOD BOOK THAT WE ALL 00:08:54.93\00:08:58.00 SHOULD HAVE BECAUSE IT IS ENTITLED 00:08:58.00\00:09:00.93 'HOLY SPIRIT: THE NEED'. WE'LL DEFINITELY UNDERSTAND 00:09:00.93\00:09:05.33 BEFORE THE LESSON'S OVER THAT WE ALL NEED MORE OF THE HOLY SPIRIT 00:09:05.33\00:09:09.36 IN OUR LIVES, THAT'S FOR SURE. NOW, WE'RE MOVING RIGHT ALONG. 00:09:09.36\00:09:13.96 WE'RE ON #12 OF THIS QUARTER AND IT'S ENTITLED 'REFORMATION: 00:09:13.96\00:09:17.96 HEALING BROKEN RELATIONSHIPS'. LET US READ - IF YOU WOULD JOIN 00:09:17.96\00:09:23.80 ME PLEASE - OUR MEMORY TEXT FOUND IN ROMANS 5:10 THERE IN 00:09:23.80\00:09:28.36 YOUR QUARTERLY. READY? "FOR IF WHEN WE WERE ENEMIES WE 00:09:28.36\00:09:34.70 WERE RECONCILED TO GOD THROUGH THE DEATH OF HIS SON, MUCH MORE, 00:09:34.70\00:09:40.26 HAVING BEEN RECONCILED, WE SHALL BE SAVED BY HIS LIFE." 00:09:40.26\00:09:45.96 SO, IF THERE'S EVER A LESSON AND IT IS PRACTICAL, IT IS THIS ONE. 00:09:45.96\00:09:51.40 I HEARD SOMEONE RECENTLY COMPLAINING ABOUT - THIS WAS IN 00:09:51.40\00:09:55.50 ANOTHER CHURCH A LONG WAYS AWAY FROM HERE - BUT THEY WERE 00:09:55.50\00:09:58.03 COMPLAINING ABOUT, 'OH, I JUST NEVER HEARD ANY MESSAGES THAT 00:09:58.03\00:10:01.23 WERE REAL PRACTICAL FOR EVERY DAY LIVING.' 00:10:01.23\00:10:03.63 WELL, BELIEVE ME, THIS IS A PRACTICAL LESSON FOR EVERY DAY 00:10:03.63\00:10:07.83 LIVING WHEN WE TALK ABOUT BROKEN RELATIONSHIPS. 00:10:07.83\00:10:12.00 MAYBE THERE ISN'T A MORE RELEVANT TOPIC WITHIN THE CHURCH 00:10:12.00\00:10:15.63 THAN THIS ONE, FOR WHO AMONG US HAVE NOT EXPERIENCED A BROKEN 00:10:15.63\00:10:25.80 WE SHOULD NOT BE SURPRISED BECAUSE, JUST LIKE OUR MEMORY 00:10:25.80\00:10:28.46 TEXT REMINDS US THIS MORNING, THAT MANKIND IS IN NEED OF BEING 00:10:28.46\00:10:33.33 RECONCILED TO GOD BECAUSE WE HAVE THIS BROKEN RELATIONSHIP 00:10:33.33\00:10:36.83 WITH GOD - IT ALL STARTED 6,000 YEARS AGO OR SO. 00:10:36.83\00:10:41.30 AND IT SAYS WE NEED TO BE RECONCILED TO HIM BECAUSE WE ARE 00:10:41.30\00:10:48.00 HIS ENEMIES. THAT SOUNDS AWFUL, DOESN'T IT? 00:10:48.00\00:10:51.73 YOU ARE AN ENEMY TO GOD? 00:10:51.73\00:10:53.76 WELL, MOST OF US PROBABLY DON'T THINK WE'RE ENEMIES TO GOD. 00:10:53.76\00:10:56.06 WHAT MAKES A PERSON AN ENEMY TO GOD? 00:10:56.06\00:10:59.30 WELL, IT COMES BECAUSE OF DISOBEDIENCE. 00:10:59.30\00:11:02.06 IF WE'RE NOT FOR SOMETHING WE'RE AGAINST IT, RIGHT? 00:11:02.06\00:11:05.06 IF WE'RE NOT FOR THE TOTAL WORD OF GOD, SOMEHOW WE'RE AGAINST 00:11:05.06\00:11:08.46 IT, THAT DOES MAKE US ENEMIES AND ADAM AND EVE GOT THE BALL 00:11:08.46\00:11:13.06 ROLLING BACK THERE IN THE GARDEN OF EDEN WHEN THEY DISOBEYED AND 00:11:13.06\00:11:17.10 THEY FOUND THEMSELVES IN NEED OF RECONCILIATION. 00:11:17.10\00:11:21.53 WHEN THEY DISOBEYED THEY HID FROM GOD. 00:11:21.53\00:11:25.10 AND YOU KNOW HOW THEY HID FROM GOD, RIGHT? 00:11:25.10\00:11:27.43 THEY WENT AND FOUND SOME FIG LEAVES. 00:11:27.43\00:11:29.03 NOW, HAVE ANY OF YOU EVER PICKED FIGS? 00:11:29.03\00:11:31.66 THEY'RE - THE LEAVES ON A FIG TREE ARE ABOUT THE ITCHIEST 00:11:31.66\00:11:35.56 THINGS YOU CAN THINK OF. THEY KEEP YOUR ARMS ITCHING FOR 00:11:35.56\00:11:38.83 A LONG TIME. THAT MUST HAVE BEEN AN AWFUL 00:11:38.83\00:11:40.76 THING TO TRY AND HIDE BEHIND FIG LEAVES. 00:11:40.76\00:11:43.26 SO ANYTIME WE TRY TO HIDE FROM PROBLEMS OR WITH GOD ESPECIALLY, 00:11:43.26\00:11:48.66 THERE'S ALWAYS SOME UNPLEASANT RESULTS. 00:11:48.66\00:11:51.16 CAMOUFLAGE - YOU KNOW ALL THE ARMIES IN THE WORLD WEAR A 00:11:51.16\00:11:54.83 CAMOUFLAGED MATERIAL OR CLOTHING. WHY? 00:11:54.83\00:11:59.96 BECAUSE THEY WANT TO HIDE FROM THE ENEMY. 00:11:59.96\00:12:01.70 THAT'S WHAT ADAM AND EVE TRIED TO DO WITH GOD. 00:12:01.70\00:12:09.13 MANKIND WHEN WE DO SOMETHING WRONG. 00:12:09.13\00:12:10.96 WE SOMETIMES WANT TO HIDE FROM GOD. 00:12:10.96\00:12:13.16 BUT DOES THAT WORK? YOU CAN'T HIDE FROM GOD, CAN WE? 00:12:13.16\00:12:16.56 BUT EVEN IN THE BEST POSSIBLE CONDITIONS, SUCH AS - THE LESSON 00:12:16.56\00:12:21.76 POINTS OUT - RIGHT AFTER THE AMAZING EXPERIENCE AT PENTECOST 00:12:21.76\00:12:26.03 - AND WAS THAT AN AMAZING EXPERIENCE? 00:12:26.03\00:12:27.90 I MEAN PENTECOST WAS ONE OF THE MOST - MOST LIVE EXPERIENCE OF 00:12:27.90\00:12:35.10 GOD'S PRESENCE AMONG HIS PEOPLE FOR THEY HAD BEEN PRAYING FOR 00:12:35.10\00:12:40.13 DAYS AND POURING OUT THEIR HEARTS TO GOD, COMING INTO UNITY 00:12:40.13\00:12:45.40 - AND THEY EXPERIENCED A UNITY THAT THEY HAD NEVER EXPERIENCED 00:12:45.40\00:12:48.83 BEFORE - THESE BELIEVERS - AND GOD'S SPIRIT WAS POURED OUT UPON 00:12:48.83\00:12:52.56 THEM AND THOUSANDS WERE BEING CONVERTED TO THE GOSPEL. 00:12:52.56\00:12:58.80 BUT THEN, STRAINED RELATIONSHIPS VERY SOON DEVELOPED. 00:12:58.80\00:13:07.40 IMAGINE THAT. SUCH AN EXPERIENCE THAT THEY 00:13:07.40\00:13:10.60 WERE HAVING AND BEFORE LONG THEY WERE HAVING PROBLEMS WITH EACH 00:13:10.60\00:13:14.60 OTHER IN SOME WAY OR ANOTHER. SO WE NEED NOT BE SURPRISED IF 00:13:14.60\00:13:19.83 THIS HAPPENS IN THE CHURCH FROM TIME TO TIME. 00:13:19.83\00:13:22.50 WE MAY DESPERATELY TRY TO AVOID IT BUT THERE IS A MASTER ENEMY 00:13:22.50\00:13:25.83 THAT IS AT WORK FULL TIME - 24 HOURS A DAY 7 DAYS A WEEK TRYING 00:13:25.83\00:13:30.00 TO BRING BROKEN RELATIONSHIPS WITH GOD'S PEOPLE. 00:13:30.00\00:13:33.20 DO YOU BELIEVE THAT? 00:13:33.20\00:13:34.56 ALL THE TIME - WORKING HARD AT IT - BECAUSE IF HE KNOWS HE CAN 00:13:34.56\00:13:37.53 DO THAT, HE'S GOING TO HAVE SOME GOOD SUCCESS IN OTHER AREAS. 00:13:37.53\00:13:41.36 NOW BEFORE WE GET INTO OUR LESSON THIS MORNING, THE THOUGHT 00:13:41.36\00:13:45.00 STRUCK ME AND I BELIEVE THERE IS ONE PASSAGE OF SCRIPTURE THAT IF 00:13:45.00\00:13:48.43 EACH OF US APPLIED FULLY TO OURSELVES, STRAINED 00:13:48.43\00:13:54.06 RELATIONSHIPS MIGHT NOT TAKE PLACE. 00:13:54.06\00:13:56.96 NOW YOU MIGHT BE THINKING OF A TEXT THAT WOULD APPLY TO WHAT I 00:13:56.96\00:13:59.43 JUST SAID AND THERE'S PROBABLY SEVERAL, BUT THE ONE THAT I AM 00:13:59.43\00:14:02.86 THINKING OF IS FOUND IN PHILIPPIANS 2:3, WHERE IT SAYS 00:14:02.86\00:14:06.16 THIS: "LET NOTHING BE DONE THROUGH STRIFE OR VAINGLORY; 00:14:06.16\00:14:11.40 BUT IN LOWLINESS OF MIND LET EACH ESTEEM OTHERS 00:14:11.40\00:14:15.90 BETTER THAN THEMSELVES." WHEW, THAT'S A HARD SAYING. 00:14:15.90\00:14:21.20 HOW CAN YOU ESTEEM SOMEBODY BETTER THAN YOU WHEN YOU KNOW 00:14:21.20\00:14:24.50 THEY'RE DOING SOMETHING THAT YOU DON'T EVER DO? 00:14:24.50\00:14:29.03 WELL, ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS STOP AND THINK YOU DO SOME THINGS 00:14:29.03\00:14:31.76 MAYBE THAT THEY DON'T DO, RIGHT? WE ALL FALL SHORT. 00:14:31.76\00:14:35.00 WE ALL ARE SINNERS. NOW THERE ARE TIMES WHEN WE HAVE 00:14:35.00\00:14:37.50 TO ADDRESS ISSUES, FOR SURE. OF COURSE, THERE ARE THOSE WHO 00:14:37.50\00:14:41.36 HAVE A DISTORTED PICTURE OF THIS KIND OF TEXT, THINKING TO 00:14:41.36\00:14:45.36 THEMSELVES, 'I AM WORSE THAN DIRT. 00:14:45.36\00:14:48.80 I NEED TO EAT WORMS. I AM SO LOWLY' - THAT'S A 00:14:48.80\00:14:52.90 DISTORTED PERVERSION OF THIS TEXT. 00:14:52.90\00:14:57.36 THE REAL CONCEPT OF ESTEEMING OTHERS BETTER THAN OURSELVES IS 00:14:57.36\00:15:02.73 BECAUSE OF THE RELATIONSHIP WITH CHRIST CAN OFTEN SWAY TOO FAR 00:15:02.73\00:15:05.43 FROM THEIR STRIVING TO THINKING THEY ARE DOING BETTER THAN 00:15:05.43\00:15:08.83 OTHERS BECAUSE YOU KNOW AS WELL AS I DO IT IS SO EASY TO SEE THE 00:15:08.83\00:15:12.60 FAULTS IN OTHER PEOPLE, RIGHT? IT'S VERY EASY. 00:15:12.60\00:15:16.36 IT'S EASIER TO SEE THOSE FAULTS THAN SOMETIMES IN OURSELVES. 00:15:16.36\00:15:19.96 AND WHEN WE SEE THESE GLARING FAULTS, ISN'T IT HARD TO THINK 00:15:19.96\00:15:23.43 THAT YOU ARE BETTER THAN THEY ARE? EASY, ISN'T IT? SURE. 00:15:23.43\00:15:29.20 BUT THAT'S NOT WHAT WE SHOULD DO. 00:15:29.20\00:15:30.90 SO, MOST STRAINED RELATIONSHIPS START BECAUSE - THEY START TO 00:15:30.90\00:15:38.96 FEEL THE STRAIN BECAUSE ONE OR BOTH PARTIES FEEL BETTER THAN 00:15:38.96\00:15:42.80 THE OTHER. WELL, THE LESSON MENTIONED THAT 00:15:42.80\00:15:45.86 THE FOCUS OF THE WEEK WOULD BE ON RESTORING RELATIONSHIPS. 00:15:45.86\00:15:49.63 BEFORE WE CAN RESTORE RELATIONSHIPS, WE HAVE TO 00:15:49.63\00:15:51.73 UNDERSTAND WHY RELATIONSHIPS BREAK DOWN, WHAT IS THE CAUSE OF 00:15:51.73\00:15:57.36 IT SOMETIMES? AND THIS KIND OF THING. 00:15:57.36\00:16:00.80 SO WE'LL FIND OUT AS WE GO THROUGH THE LESSON. 00:16:00.80\00:16:03.00 SUNDAY'S IS ENTITLED 'FROM FRACTURED TO FRIENDSHIP' AND THE 00:16:03.00\00:16:06.30 EXAMPLE OF THE STRIFE THAT EXISTED BETWEEN PAUL AND 00:16:06.30\00:16:09.53 BARNABAS IS GIVEN. 00:16:09.53\00:16:11.13 THE STRIFE CAME ABOUT BECAUSE THERE WAS A YOUNG MAN WORKING 00:16:11.13\00:16:14.63 WITH THEM, HIS NAME WAS MARK OR JOHN MARK, AND HE KIND OF LEFT 00:16:14.63\00:16:19.33 THEM IN THE LURCH AND PAUL DIDN'T APPRECIATE THAT. 00:16:19.33\00:16:23.93 YOU KIND OF GET THE IDEA THAT PAUL WAS A NO NONSENSE KIND OF 00:16:23.93\00:16:27.13 GUY, DON'T YOU, AS YOU READ HIS WRITINGS? 00:16:27.13\00:16:29.33 NO NONSENSE TYPE OF GUY AND IF THIS YOUNG MAN CAN'T DO BETTER 00:16:29.33\00:16:34.80 THAN THAT, WE DON'T HAVE ANY ROOM FOR HIM IN THE MINISTRY AND 00:16:34.80\00:16:39.56 SO PAUL AND BARNABAS KIND OF SPLIT UP - SPLIT THEIR WAYS - 00:16:39.56\00:16:44.50 AND BARNABAS, EVIDENTLY, HE COULD SEE SOMETHING IN THIS 00:16:44.50\00:16:48.63 YOUNG MAN HE WASN'T GOING TO GIVE UP ON. NOW THE STORY HAS 00:16:48.63\00:16:52.26 A HAPPY ENDING, BUT WHAT MADE IT THIS WAY? 00:16:52.26\00:16:56.23 WHAT MADE IT WAS - THE HAPPY ENDING - BECAUSE MARK, 00:16:56.23\00:16:59.13 EVIDENTLY, OVER TIME PROVED HIMSELF AS A WORTHY DEDICATED 00:16:59.13\00:17:05.56 WORKER FOR GOD AND PAUL WAS ABLE THEN, FINALLY, TO SEE THAT. 00:17:05.56\00:17:10.30 AND SO PAUL AND BARNABAS PATCHED UP THEIR - THEY RECONCILED THEIR 00:17:10.30\00:17:14.86 RELATIONSHIP AND THEY WENT ON TO WORK WITH EACH OTHER. 00:17:14.86\00:17:18.46 BUT WHAT IF IT HADN'T BECOME SO APPARENT TO PAUL THAT THIS WAS 00:17:18.46\00:17:20.86 THE CASE? WOULD THE DIFFERENCE OF FEELINGS 00:17:20.86\00:17:23.70 BETWEEN PAUL AND BARNABAS PROBABLY CONTINUE TO EXIST? 00:17:23.70\00:17:26.86 WE DON'T KNOW, BUT LIKELY. SO, ONE THING WE CAN BEGIN TO 00:17:26.86\00:17:32.83 SAY THIS MORNING IS TO BRING RECONCILIATION BETWEEN TWO 00:17:32.83\00:17:37.40 PEOPLE, RIGHTING SOME KIND - MAKING RIGHT SOME KIND OF 00:17:37.40\00:17:41.86 SHORTCOMINGS WOULD BE A GOOD PLACE TO BEGIN. 00:17:41.86\00:17:45.56 IF YOU KNOW THERE'S SOMETHING WRONG, LET'S MAKE IT RIGHT AND 00:17:45.56\00:17:49.36 THEN MAYBE WE'LL BE ABLE TO GET SOMEPLACE AND THE ISSUE OF THE 00:17:49.36\00:17:54.13 STRIFE WAS MARK AND PAUL'S OPINION OF HIM NOT BEING 00:17:54.13\00:17:58.06 DEPENDABLE. NOW, AT LEAST ONE OF THE PARTIES 00:17:58.06\00:18:01.23 IN THIS STRIFE HAD TO BE WILLING TO ADDRESS THE ISSUE AND WORK 00:18:01.23\00:18:04.16 WITH IT, WHICH I GIVE MORE CREDIT TO BARNABAS IN THIS AREA 00:18:04.16\00:18:08.90 THAN I DO PAUL. BUT BARNABAS WAS WILLING TO KEEP 00:18:08.90\00:18:12.20 WORKING WITH JOHN MARK. MAYBE HE KNEW HIM BETTER THAN 00:18:12.20\00:18:15.46 PAUL DID, I DON'T KNOW, BUT HE KEPT - HE HAD THE WILLINGNESS TO 00:18:15.46\00:18:18.56 CONTINUE TO WORK WITH THIS YOUNG MAN. 00:18:18.56\00:18:21.50 I THINK, PROBABLY - THERE IS PROBABLY IN ALL OF US A LITTLE 00:18:21.50\00:18:26.76 BIT OF THIS NO NONSENSE KIND OF ATTITUDE. 00:18:26.76\00:18:29.96 IF SOMETHING IS RIGHT, LET'S MAKE SURE THAT IT'S RIGHT AND SO 00:18:29.96\00:18:33.56 FORTH AND LET'S DON'T HAVE ANY NONSENSE AND SO FORTH AND IT 00:18:33.56\00:18:36.63 EXISTS IN ALL OF US AND SOMETIMES WE CAN SHOW SIGNS OF 00:18:36.63\00:18:41.20 INTOLERANCE IF WE'RE NOT CAREFUL. 00:18:41.20\00:18:43.40 I KNOW I'VE BEEN THERE BEFORE AND IT CAN BE HUMBLING. 00:18:43.40\00:18:47.16 YOU KNOW, THIS SONG WE JUST SANG - I'M ALWAYS A LITTLE BIT 00:18:47.16\00:18:50.96 RELUCTANT TO SING 'LORD, MAKE ME HOLY - HUMBLE', I MEAN OR 00:18:50.96\00:18:55.23 'HUMBLE ME O LORD'. GOD HAS WAYS OF HUMBLING US, 00:18:55.23\00:18:58.16 BELIEVE ME. I DON'T EVEN HAVE TO 00:18:58.16\00:19:01.86 PRAY ABOUT IT. GOD HAS WAYS OF DOING THAT, BUT 00:19:01.86\00:19:04.00 YES WE SHOULD BE HUMBLE. WE SHOULD PROBABLY PRAY ABOUT 00:19:04.00\00:19:06.70 IT, I SUPPOSE, BUT GOD CAN DO THAT. 00:19:06.70\00:19:10.60 IF YOU HAVE A STRAINED RELATIONSHIP AND YOU ARE WILLING 00:19:10.60\00:19:13.63 TO REALLY EXAMINE YOURSELF AND ASK GOD TO HELP YOU TO DO THIS 00:19:13.63\00:19:18.20 SO THAT YOU WOULD BE ABLE TO SEE IF THERE'S ANY PART OF THE 00:19:18.20\00:19:21.63 PROBLEM THAT YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR, THEN THAT IS A HUGE POINT. 00:19:21.63\00:19:26.83 BUT PROBABLY, MOST OFTEN IN STRAINED RELATIONSHIPS, YOU KNOW 00:19:26.83\00:19:30.26 HOW IT GOES: 'I'M RIGHT, THE OTHER PERSON'S WRONG. 00:19:30.26\00:19:34.56 I KNOW IT. I KNOW YOU'RE WRONG. I KNOW SHE'S WRONG. 00:19:34.56\00:19:37.63 IT'S JUST THE WAY IT IS.' NOW EVEN IF ONE PERSON IS MORE 00:19:37.63\00:19:42.53 TO BLAME THAN THE OTHER, WHICH I SAY, AGAIN, THIS CASE PROBABLY 00:19:42.53\00:19:46.96 HAD TO BE PAUL. THANK GOD FOR BARNABAS. 00:19:46.96\00:19:49.50 HE DIDN'T DEEPEN THE STRIFE, BARNABAS DIDN'T DEEPEN THE 00:19:49.50\00:19:53.26 STRIFE BY ARGUING OVER THE MATTER, BUT WORKED WITH THE 00:19:53.26\00:19:56.73 SOURCE OF THE PROBLEM THAT BROUGHT ABOUT THE CHANGES 00:19:56.73\00:19:59.30 THAT WERE NECESSARY. I WANT TO BE QUICK TO POINT OUT 00:19:59.30\00:20:02.23 THAT THIS WASN'T A PROBLEM AS SERIOUS AS SOME BECOME IN THE 00:20:02.23\00:20:06.46 CHURCH. SOME PROBLEMS GET MUCH BIGGER 00:20:06.46\00:20:10.26 THAN THIS AND OVER ISSUES OF MORALITY AND DOING THINGS RIGHT 00:20:10.26\00:20:13.66 VERSUS DOING THINGS WRONG. YOU KNOW, OUR SENIOR PASTOR 00:20:13.66\00:20:17.23 PREACHED A SERMON ONE DAY AND THIS CHURCH PROBABLY BROUGHT 00:20:17.23\00:20:20.26 MORE DISAFFECTION TO HIM THAN ANY OTHER SERMON. 00:20:20.26\00:20:23.16 HE COULD HAVE PREACHED FOR THE REST OF HIS LIFE AND NEVER 00:20:23.16\00:20:25.56 PREACHED ON THAT SUBJECT. HE COULD HAVE FOUND LOTS OF 00:20:25.56\00:20:29.16 THINGS TO PREACH ABOUT OTHER THAN THAT SUBJECT, BUT HE HAD 00:20:29.16\00:20:34.43 THE CONVICTION FROM GOD TO PREACH THE TRUTH ABOUT THAT 00:20:34.43\00:20:36.80 SUBJECT. EVEN THOUGH IT MIGHT MAKE SOME 00:20:36.80\00:20:39.33 PEOPLE UPSET, RIGHT? NOW PREACHERS SHOULDN'T BE IN 00:20:39.33\00:20:43.13 THIS WORK TO BE PART OF A - YOU KNOW, JUST TO BE LIKED BY 00:20:43.13\00:20:48.86 EVERYBODY. IT'S NOT JUST SOME CONTEST TO BE LOVED BY 00:20:48.86\00:20:52.40 EVERYBODY. SO, SOMETIMES, WHEN YOU HAVE TO DRESS WRONG, 00:20:52.40\00:20:55.63 IT BRINGS YOU AN ENEMY. THAT'S JUST THE WAY IT GOES. 00:20:55.63\00:20:59.06 I'VE BEEN IN THOSE KINDS OF SITUATIONS BEFORE AND I'VE TRIED 00:20:59.06\00:21:02.06 TO TAKE THE LOW ROAD, EVEN APOLOGIZING, YOU KNOW, THE BEST 00:21:02.06\00:21:06.46 I CAN BUT, YOU KNOW, SOMETIMES WHEN SOMEBODY IS REALLY OUT TO 00:21:06.46\00:21:11.53 ACCUSE YOU AND REBELLIOUSLY CAUSE PROBLEMS BY CONTINUING TO 00:21:11.53\00:21:16.50 DO SOMETHING WRONG, THERE'S NOT MUCH YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT. 00:21:16.50\00:21:19.26 BUT THAT WAS NOT THIS SITUATION. PAUL AND BARNABAS HAD A SIMPLE 00:21:19.26\00:21:23.00 DISAGREEMENT OVER THIS YOUNG MAN. 00:21:23.00\00:21:27.10 RECONCILIATION, THOUGH, IS STILL THE GOAL IN ALL OF BROKEN 00:21:27.10\00:21:31.80 RELATIONSHIPS. WOULD YOU AGREE TO THAT? 00:21:31.80\00:21:34.36 RECONCILIATION. NOW, BEFORE WE GO TO MONDAY, I 00:21:34.36\00:21:37.33 WANT TO SHARE ANOTHER EXAMPLE FROM THE BIBLE TO SHOW A 00:21:37.33\00:21:40.36 DIFFERENCE BECAUSE NOT ALL PROBLEMS ARE THE SAME, WE KNOW. 00:21:40.36\00:21:46.20 I'M TALKING ABOUT A RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN ISAAC AND REBEKAH. 00:21:46.20\00:21:50.70 REMEMBER THAT RELATIONSHIP? THERE MIGHT NOT BE A MORE 00:21:50.70\00:21:54.26 ROMANTIC STORY IN ALL THE BIBLE THAN ISAAC AND REBEKAH. 00:21:54.26\00:21:59.76 THINK ABOUT IT, ISAAC WAS A YOUNG MAN THAT WAS WILLING TO 00:21:59.76\00:22:03.50 ALLOW HIS FATHER TO SACRIFICE HIM BECAUSE GOD SAID SO. 00:22:03.50\00:22:08.53 THAT'S HOW WILLING AND LOVING AND HOW MUCH HE WAS DEDICATED 00:22:08.53\00:22:12.83 TO GOD. NOW, IT CAME TIME FOR HIM TO 00:22:12.83\00:22:16.06 THINK ABOUT MARRIAGE AND ABRAHAM, HIS FATHER, SAID, 00:22:16.06\00:22:18.50 'I DON'T WANT HIM JUST MARRYING ANY OLD LADY, I WANT SOMEBODY 00:22:18.50\00:22:21.46 SPECIAL FOR HIM THAT WILL BELIEVE IN THE GOD OF HEAVEN. 00:22:21.46\00:22:24.43 SO HE SENT HIS SERVANT TO HIS HOMELAND TO FIND - SEE IF HE 00:22:24.43\00:22:28.90 COULD FIND A MARRIAGE PARTNER FOR HIS SON. 00:22:28.90\00:22:33.60 WHAT A TASK TO GIVE A SERVANT, BUT HE WENT ON IT. 00:22:33.60\00:22:36.36 AND WE KNOW THE STORY. IT WAS A REMARKABLE STORY. 00:22:36.36\00:22:39.46 HE FOUND REBEKAH. REBEKAH WAS A WONDERFUL 00:22:39.46\00:22:42.73 YOUNG LADY. THINK ABOUT HER SITUATION. 00:22:42.73\00:22:45.66 HERE SHE WAS, SHE HEARD THE STORY, SHE SAW THE HAND OF GOD 00:22:45.66\00:22:49.30 LEADING AND GUIDING AND, 'YES, I WILL LEAVE MY FAMILY, MOST 00:22:49.30\00:22:55.76 LIKELY FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE - NEVER SEE THEM AGAIN - TO MARRY 00:22:55.76\00:23:00.63 THIS MAN I HAVE NEVER SEEN BEFORE.' 00:23:00.63\00:23:04.26 SUPPOSE HE LOOKED LIKE A TOAD. NO, HE DIDN'T - HE DIDN'T. 00:23:04.26\00:23:08.10 BUT THIS WAS GOD'S LEADING AND SHE WAS WILLING TO GO WITH THE 00:23:08.10\00:23:11.53 SERVANT TO BE MARRIED TO THIS MAN CALLED ISAAC. 00:23:11.53\00:23:17.53 NOW I RECOUNT ALL THAT TO HELP US REALIZE HOW COMMITTED AND 00:23:17.53\00:23:22.10 DEDICATED THESE TWO YOUNG PEOPLE WERE - AMAZINGLY SO. 00:23:22.10\00:23:25.96 AND LISTEN TO PART OF THE STORY ONE COULD SAY WAS MORE THAN AN 00:23:25.96\00:23:29.90 AMAZING ROMANTIC NOVEL. GENESIS 24, STARTING WITH VERSE 63. 00:23:29.90\00:23:34.96 GENESIS 24, VERSE 63 SAYS, "AND ISAAC WENT OUT TO MEDITATE IN 00:23:34.96\00:23:41.40 THE FIELD AT THE EVENTIDE; AND HE LIFTED HIS EYES, AND SAW, 00:23:41.40\00:23:46.00 AND, BEHOLD, THE CAMELS WERE COMING. 00:23:46.00\00:23:48.23 AND REBEKAH LIFTED UP HER EYES, AND WHEN SHE SAW ISAAC, SHE 00:23:48.23\00:23:52.50 LIGHTED OFF THE CAMEL." JUST THINK OF THAT. 00:23:52.50\00:23:54.23 IF THIS WAS A MOVIE, THE MUSIC WOULD CHANGE, IT WOULD BE MORE 00:23:54.23\00:23:57.26 EXCITING AND THE CAMERAS WOULD PAN OUT AND PAN IN AND, OH BOY, 00:23:57.26\00:24:02.16 MAYBE EVEN GO DOWN IN SLOW MOTION WATCHING THESE TWO YOUNG 00:24:02.16\00:24:04.96 PEOPLE COME TOWARDS EACH OTHER - WHEW. 00:24:04.96\00:24:07.56 THEN IT GOES ON TO SAY, "FOR SHE HAD SAID UNTO THE SERVANT, 'WHAT 00:24:07.56\00:24:13.86 AND THE SERVANT SAID, 'IT IS MY MASTER:' THEREFORE SHE TOOK A 00:24:13.86\00:24:17.43 VEIL AND COVERED HERSELF. AND THE SERVANT TOLD ISAAC ALL 00:24:17.43\00:24:21.23 THINGS THAT HE HAD DONE. AND ISAAC BROUGHT HER INTO HIS 00:24:21.23\00:24:24.73 MOTHER SARAH'S TENT, AND TOOK REBEKAH, AND SHE BECAME HIS 00:24:24.73\00:24:28.60 WIFE; AND HE LOVED HER: AND ISAAC WAS COMFORTED AFTER HIS 00:24:28.60\00:24:32.93 MOTHER'S DEATH." DID GOD EVER BRING THESE TWO 00:24:32.93\00:24:37.76 PEOPLE TOGETHER? DO YOU BELIEVE THAT? 00:24:37.76\00:24:39.80 GOD BROUGHT THESE TWO PEOPLE INTO A FANTASTICALLY WONDERFUL 00:24:39.80\00:24:44.90 RELATIONSHIP, BOTH DEDICATED TO GOD ABSOLUTELY, UNTIL, 00:24:44.90\00:24:52.60 UNTIL THEY HAD CHILDREN. OH, AND SO MANY PEOPLE HEARING 00:24:52.60\00:25:00.20 THAT CAN RELATE. BOY, THINGS WERE REALLY 00:25:00.20\00:25:03.10 DIFFERENT AFTER WE GOT SOME CHILDREN. 00:25:03.10\00:25:05.00 MAYBE NOT SO WHEN THEY WERE BABIES, BUT BY THE TIME THEY 00:25:05.00\00:25:07.36 BECAME TEENAGERS, THINGS CHANGED IN OUR HOME AND EVEN IN OUR 00:25:07.36\00:25:11.90 RELATIONSHIP AS HUSBAND AND WIFE. 00:25:11.90\00:25:14.26 CHILDREN DO BRING SOME CHANGES, DO THEY NOT? 00:25:14.26\00:25:17.80 AND IN THIS HOME, IT BROUGHT SOME CHANGES. 00:25:17.80\00:25:22.53 GENESIS CHAPTER 25, VERSES 27 AND 28 GIVES US AN IDEA OF SOME 00:25:22.53\00:25:27.46 OF THE STRAIN THAT WOULD BE BROUGHT UPON THIS MARRIAGE 00:25:27.46\00:25:30.53 RELATIONSHIP. LISTEN, "AND THE BOYS GREW: AND 00:25:30.53\00:25:33.60 ESAU WAS A CUNNING HUNTER, A MAN OF THE FIELD; AND JACOB WAS A 00:25:33.60\00:25:37.50 PLAIN MAN, DWELLING IN TENTS. AND ISAAC LOVED ESAU, BECAUSE HE 00:25:37.50\00:25:42.36 DID EAT OF HIS VENISON: BUT REBEKAH LOVED JACOB." 00:25:42.36\00:25:47.76 TENSION OVER WHO WAS THE PRIVILEGED CHILD AND WHO WOULD 00:25:47.76\00:25:52.06 GET THE BIRTHRIGHT, BELIEVE ME, BROUGHT SOME TENSIONS TO THIS 00:25:52.06\00:25:59.13 RELATIONSHIP - THIS WONDERFULLY FINE CHRISTIAN, DEVOTED COUPLE 00:25:59.13\00:26:05.03 HAD SOME PROBLEMS OVER THAT ISSUE, LET ME TELL YOU. 00:26:05.03\00:26:09.16 AND HERE IS ONE - HERE IS THE THING - SO MUCH DIFFERENT THAN 00:26:09.16\00:26:13.26 THE RELATIONSHIP WE WERE TALKING ABOUT BETWEEN PAUL AND BARNABAS. 00:26:13.26\00:26:16.83 IN THIS RELATIONSHIP, YOU CAN'T JUST GO OFF - YOU'RE NOT 00:26:16.83\00:26:21.46 SUPPOSED TO ANYWAY - GO OFF IN THIS DIRECTION WHILE THE OTHER 00:26:21.46\00:26:24.76 ONE GOES OFF IN THAT DIRECTION CONTINUING TO LIVE YOUR LIVES 00:26:24.76\00:26:28.13 LIKE PAUL AND BARNABAS DID. NO, IN A MARRIAGE, YOU HAVE 00:26:28.13\00:26:31.23 COMMITTED TO BE TOGETHER THROUGH THICK AND THIN - 00:26:31.23\00:26:36.03 FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE. SO YOU'RE JUST NOT SUPPOSED TO 00:26:36.03\00:26:40.60 RUN AWAY WHICH, UNFORTUNATELY IS HAPPENING QUITE OFTEN THESE 00:26:40.60\00:26:45.26 DAYS, BUT YOU'RE NOT SUPPOSED TO. SO IN A MARRIAGE 00:26:45.26\00:26:49.40 RELATIONSHIP YOU HAVE TO HAVE THE MIND SET THAT WHEN - 00:26:49.40\00:26:54.53 AND THEY WILL - WHEN PROBLEMS COME UP - THEY WILL, RIGHT? 00:26:54.53\00:27:00.23 THEY WILL - I KNOW, I'VE BEEN MARRIED 45 YEARS. 00:27:00.23\00:27:03.56 WE SURVIVED THEM ALL, THANK GOD, BUT THEY WILL COME UP. 00:27:03.56\00:27:07.83 RECONCILIATION IS THE NAME OF THE GAME, RIGHT? ABSOLUTELY. 00:27:07.83\00:27:12.36 IF IT ISN'T THE MAIN NAME OF THE GAME, THEN YOU WILL FIND WHAT 00:27:12.36\00:27:15.56 MANY MARRIED COUPLES ARE DOING - BAILING OUT - GOING THEIR 00:27:15.56\00:27:18.96 OPPOSITE DIRECTIONS. NOW, EVIDENTLY, ISAAC AND REBEKAH 00:27:18.96\00:27:23.76 FOUND ENOUGH RECONCILIATION TO LAST A LIFETIME, BECAUSE WE 00:27:23.76\00:27:28.30 DIDN'T FIND THEM PARTING, YOU KNOW, IN THEIR RELATIONSHIP. 00:27:28.30\00:27:33.53 THEY STAYED TOGETHER. SO PRAISE GOD THEY DID. 00:27:33.53\00:27:36.90 IN ALL RELATIONSHIPS WE SHOULD BE COMMITTED TO RECONCILIATION 00:27:36.90\00:27:40.23 IF THE NEED ARISES, ESPECIALLY IN A MARRIAGE. 00:27:40.23\00:27:44.50 THE APOSTLE PAUL WOULD HAVE US CONSIDER, IN THE BOOK OF 00:27:44.50\00:27:47.06 EPHESIANS, WHERE HE SAYS, 'BE YE ANGRY' - YOU KNOW, YOU CAN BE 00:27:47.06\00:27:51.03 ANGRY - 'BUT SIN NOT. LET NOT THE SUN GO DOWN UPON 00:27:51.03\00:27:54.13 YOUR WRATH.' AND HOW MANY YOUNG COUPLES - OR 00:27:54.13\00:27:57.63 COUPLES OF ANY AGE - HAVE BEEN TOLD BY A COUNSELOR, 'WHENEVER 00:27:57.63\00:28:01.83 YOU HAVE PROBLEMS DON'T LET THE SUN GO DOWN ON YOUR WRATH? 00:28:01.83\00:28:06.00 HERE'S WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS.' THAT'S A PERFECT IDEAL. 00:28:06.00\00:28:09.96 PAUL WOULD ALWAYS GIVE US THE IDEAL, BUT I CAN ASSURE YOU THAT 00:28:09.96\00:28:13.43 WON'T WORK IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE SOME OF US ARE 00:28:13.43\00:28:17.23 NOT JUST MADE THAT WAY. 00:28:17.23\00:28:18.60 IN SOME MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIPS, FOR EXAMPLE, MAYBE IT'S THE MAN, 00:28:18.60\00:28:23.20 MAYBE IT'S THE WOMAN, THE MAN SAYS, 'YEAH, THAT'S WHAT I WANT. 00:28:23.20\00:28:25.53 I WANT TO GET THIS SETTLED BEFORE WE GO TO BED TONIGHT.' 00:28:25.53\00:28:28.80 AND THE WIFE MIGHT SAY, 'THAT'S NOT HOW I WORK. 00:28:28.80\00:28:32.96 I NEED TO LET THIS STEW A LITTLE BIT. 00:28:32.96\00:28:34.73 I NEED TO THINK ABOUT THIS. THEN WE CAN TALK AGAIN. 00:28:34.73\00:28:38.16 SO, YEAH, IT'S AN IDEAL MAYBE WE SHOULD ALL SHOOT FOR, BUT IT 00:28:38.16\00:28:41.33 DOESN'T ALWAYS WORK THAT WAY AND SO THERE'S ALWAYS MANY DIFFERENT 00:28:41.33\00:28:44.46 WAYS TO TRY TO APPROACH RECONCILIATION. 00:28:44.46\00:28:48.56 WELL, WE NEED TO MOVE ON TO MONDAY - 'FROM SLAVE TO SON'. 00:28:48.56\00:28:52.83 THE TITLE, ITSELF, THROWS OUT A SIGNIFICANT CHALLENGE, 00:28:52.83\00:28:56.00 DOESN'T IT? SLAVE - JUST THE WORD SLAVE - 00:28:56.00\00:28:59.43 IS SLAVERY A GOOD THING? SLAVERY IS A BAD THING. 00:28:59.43\00:29:04.03 NEVER SHOULD BE - NOBODY SHOULD EVER BE A SLAVE. 00:29:04.03\00:29:07.23 WE ARE ALL SLAVES TO SIN. THE BIBLE TELLS US THAT. 00:29:07.23\00:29:11.23 BUT WE CAN BE SET FREE FROM THAT, WE ALSO ARE TOLD. 00:29:11.23\00:29:15.06 SO NOBODY SHOULD BE A SLAVE IN THE WAY WE THINK ABOUT SLAVERY. 00:29:15.06\00:29:18.93 AND THE STORY ON MONDAY, OF COURSE, IS ONE OF ONESIMUS WHO 00:29:18.93\00:29:23.13 WAS A RUNAWAY SLAVE WHO MET PAUL. AND THIS RUNAWAY SLAVE 00:29:23.13\00:29:29.10 RAN AWAY FROM A MAN BY THE NAME OF PHILEMON, WHO PAUL ALSO KNEW. 00:29:29.10\00:29:34.56 SO PAUL GAVE HIM INSTRUCTIONS TO PHILEMON HOW HE SHOULD TREAT 00:29:34.56\00:29:37.80 THIS MAN AND HE SHOULDN'T TREAT THEM THE WAY MOST PEOPLE TREATED 00:29:37.80\00:29:40.86 SLAVES BACK IN THOSE DAYS, VERY ROUGH AND AWFUL. 00:29:40.86\00:29:44.36 HE TOLD HIM HE SHOULD TREAT HIM AS AN EQUAL. 00:29:44.36\00:29:47.53 NOW THAT WAS - THAT WAS AN AMAZING THING. 00:29:47.53\00:29:50.56 AND, PROBABLY, THE MOST IMPORTANT LESSON WE COULD GET 00:29:50.56\00:29:53.00 OUT OF THIS PARTICULAR PART OF THE LESSON IS HOW PAUL 00:29:53.00\00:29:57.60 APPROACHED PHILEMON OVER THIS SERIOUS, SERIOUS ISSUE. 00:29:57.60\00:30:01.76 WOULD WE ALL AGREE THAT SLAVERY IS A SERIOUS ISSUE? 00:30:01.76\00:30:05.66 SURE IT IS. SO HE DIDN'T COME OUT AND SAY, 00:30:05.66\00:30:08.23 'SLAVERY IS AWFUL. HOW COULD YOU EVEN THINK OF SUCH 00:30:08.23\00:30:12.43 A THING?' NO, HE DID IT MUCH DIFFERENT 00:30:12.43\00:30:14.63 THAN THAT AND IT BROUGHT ABOUT THE RIGHT RESULTS. 00:30:14.63\00:30:18.76 HE WORKED AS KINDLY AND LOVINGLY AS HE COULD WITH PHILEMON AND 00:30:18.76\00:30:22.33 PHILEMON, EVIDENTLY, WAS A GOOD CHRISTIAN MAN. 00:30:22.33\00:30:25.00 HE ACCEPTED PAUL'S ADMONITION AND THERE WAS RECONCILIATION. 00:30:25.00\00:30:28.93 THIS SLAVE THEN BECAME LIKE A SON TO THIS MASTER. 00:30:28.93\00:30:34.40 IT'S ALMOST AN OVERWHELMING EMOTION TO WANT TO SET SOMEONE 00:30:34.40\00:30:38.00 STRAIGHT ON AN ISSUE, BUT THAT ISN'T HOW PAUL APPROACHED IT. 00:30:38.00\00:30:45.53 FROM SLAVE TO SON IS A HUGE CONCEPT BECAUSE OF WHERE WE ALL 00:30:45.53\00:30:48.90 FIND OURSELVES AS SLAVES. NOW I KNOW TO BE CALLED - I KNOW 00:30:48.90\00:30:55.13 THERE WERE SO-CALLED SLAVE OWNERS IN THAT TIME THAT WERE 00:30:55.13\00:30:58.20 GOOD PEOPLE AND THEY ACTUALLY TREATED THEIR SLAVES KINDLY AND 00:30:58.20\00:31:04.16 - LIKE THE CENTURION. HE MUST HAVE BEEN A WONDERFUL 00:31:04.16\00:31:07.93 MAN BECAUSE HE WANTED JESUS TO COME HEAL HIS SLAVE - HIS 00:31:07.93\00:31:13.70 SERVANT - AND HE EVEN SAID, 'YOU KNOW, I'M NOT EVEN WORTHY 00:31:13.70\00:31:20.56 ENOUGH, JESUS, FOR YOU TO COME INTO MY HOUSE BUT JUST SPEAK THE 00:31:20.56\00:31:23.86 WORD AND MY SERVANT WILL BE HEALED.' 00:31:23.86\00:31:26.50 JESUS HEALED HIM BECAUSE HE WAS A GOOD MAN. 00:31:26.50\00:31:29.16 HE TURNED THIS MAN AROUND TO THE PEOPLE WHO WERE LISTENING - THE 00:31:29.16\00:31:32.43 JEWISH PEOPLE - AND SAID, 'I HAVE NOT FOUND SUCH GREAT FAITH 00:31:32.43\00:31:35.60 - NO NOT IN ALL OF ISRAEL.' AND OOOH, THAT'S GOT TO STING A 00:31:35.60\00:31:38.86 LITTLE BIT OF YOU'RE AN ISRAELITE, BECAUSE YOU PRIDE 00:31:38.86\00:31:41.60 YOURSELF IN HAVING FAITH IN GOD, BUT THERE WERE SLAVE OWNERS THAT 00:31:41.60\00:31:47.33 ACTED MUCH LIKE THE CENTURION - SOME OF THEM - A FEW OF THEM, 00:31:47.33\00:31:51.16 PROBABLY. MUCH LIKE A GOOD EMPLOYER TREATS 00:31:51.16\00:31:55.63 THEIR EMPLOYEES. NOT ONLY WITH KINDNESS, BUT 00:31:55.63\00:31:58.53 SOMETIMES EVEN WITH LOVE. A LOT OF EMPLOYERS LOVE THEIR 00:31:58.53\00:32:02.26 EMPLOYEES. BUT BEING A SLAVE IN THE TRUEST 00:32:02.26\00:32:06.43 SENSE OF THE NEGATIVE ASPECT OF IT IS AN AWFUL PLIGHT FOR MOST 00:32:06.43\00:32:09.96 PEOPLE FINDING THEMSELVES IN THAT PREDICAMENT. 00:32:09.96\00:32:13.10 THERE PROBABLY ISN'T A PERSON WHO HASN'T HEARD THE STORY AT 00:32:13.10\00:32:15.96 ONE TIME OR ANOTHER - PROBABLY THE MOST FAMILIAR SLAVE STORY 00:32:15.96\00:32:20.16 WITHIN THE CHRISTIAN CIRCLE BUT IT'S WORTH REPEATING AGAIN THIS 00:32:20.16\00:32:23.23 MORNING BECAUSE OF ONE ASPECT TO IT. 00:32:23.23\00:32:27.06 THIS PARTICULAR YOUNG SLAVE WAS BROUGHT TO THE AUCTION BLOCK AND 00:32:27.06\00:32:32.06 HE WAS A YOUNG MAN IN THE FULL VIGOR OF MANHOOD AND STOUT AND 00:32:32.06\00:32:39.33 STRONG - MUSCLES BULGING ALL OVER AND SO THE AUCTIONEER KNEW 00:32:39.33\00:32:42.66 HE WOULD GET A GOOD PRICE OUT OF THIS YOUNG MAN. 00:32:42.66\00:32:46.46 AND SO THE BIDDING BEGAN - IT WAS VERY ACTIVE - MANY PEOPLE 00:32:46.46\00:32:49.53 BIDDING AND BIDDING AND WANTING TO BUY THIS SLAVE. 00:32:49.53\00:32:54.30 THIS SLAVE HAD A LOOK ON HIS FACE OF SUCH ANGER AND 'I DON'T 00:32:54.30\00:32:59.46 CARE WHO GETS ME. THEY'RE NOT GOING TO GET 00:32:59.46\00:33:01.60 ANYTHING OUT OF ME. I DON'T CARE HOW MUCH THEY 00:33:01.60\00:33:03.80 WHIP ME.' THAT'S THE LOOK HE HAD ON HIS 00:33:03.80\00:33:05.30 FACE AND, FINALLY, THE GAVEL COMES DOWN. 00:33:05.30\00:33:09.40 SOMEBODY HAS BID THE HIGHEST PRICE FOR THIS SLAVE. 00:33:09.40\00:33:14.20 AND HE COMES FORWARD, AS THE SLAVE BELIEVES, TO GATHER HIM 00:33:14.20\00:33:19.06 AND TAKE HIM HOME AND HE BELLIGERENTLY SAYS, 00:33:19.06\00:33:21.66 'YOU CAN TAKE ME AWAY, YOU CAN WHIP ME, YOU 00:33:21.66\00:33:24.13 CAN BEAT ME BUT I WILL NEVER DO ANYTHING FOR YOU. 00:33:24.13\00:33:26.33 I WILL NOT BE YOUR SLAVE. I WILL NOT DO ANYTHING FOR YOU. 00:33:26.33\00:33:29.63 I WILL NOT BE YOUR SLAVE.' AND THE MAN SAID TO THE SLAVE, 00:33:29.63\00:33:33.06 HE SAID, 'I BOUGHT YOU NOT TO BE MY SLAVE, BUT I BOUGHT YOU TO 00:33:33.06\00:33:37.56 SET YOU FREE.' AND THE SLAVE COULDN'T BELIEVE 00:33:37.56\00:33:41.56 HIS EARS AND THE MAN HAD TO SAY IT AGAIN, 'I BOUGHT YOU NOT TO 00:33:41.56\00:33:46.46 BE MY SLAVE BUT I BOUGHT YOU TO SET YOU FREE.' 00:33:46.46\00:33:49.96 AND AT THAT THE SLAVE FELL DOWN AT THE MAN'S FEET AND SAID, 00:33:49.96\00:33:53.63 'I WILL SERVE YOU FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE.' 'I WILL SERVE YOU 00:33:53.63\00:33:57.46 FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE BECAUSE YOU SET ME FREE. 00:33:57.46\00:34:00.30 YOU'RE TREATING ME WITH SUCH LOVE AND KINDNESS AND 00:34:00.30\00:34:02.43 COMPASSION.' THAT'S HOW GOD TREATS US, 00:34:02.43\00:34:05.50 ISN'T IT? AMEN. 00:34:05.50\00:34:08.13 AND AS HE TREATS US THAT WAY, HE DOESN'T SET US FREE TO GO OUT 00:34:08.13\00:34:12.26 AND DO OUR OWN THING THE WAY WE WANT TO DO OUR THING, BUT WE 00:34:12.26\00:34:16.36 HAVE A RESPONSIBILITY TO SERVE THE ONE WHO SET US FREE. 00:34:16.36\00:34:19.40 ISN'T THAT RIGHT? YES WE DO. 00:34:19.40\00:34:22.50 SLAVE TO SON - WHAT A CONCEPT. FROM SLAVE TO SON. 00:34:22.50\00:34:25.20 THAT'S WHERE WE ALL ARE, WE'RE SLAVES. 00:34:25.20\00:34:27.03 BUT, NO, BECAUSE OF JESUS CHRIST WE ARE SONS OF GOD. 00:34:27.03\00:34:31.20 WHEW, THAT'S PRETTY AMAZING, ISN'T IT? 00:34:31.20\00:34:35.00 SO PAUL WAS TELLING HIS FRIEND PHILEMON THAT ONESIMUS WAS NOW 00:34:35.00\00:34:38.36 TO BE CONSIDERED HIS SON AND HE, EVIDENTLY, UNDERSTOOD EXACTLY 00:34:38.36\00:34:44.10 EVERYTHING PAUL TOLD HIM. CAN YOU IMAGINE, IN THE 00:34:44.10\00:34:47.63 RESURRECTION, WHAT IT'S GOING TO BE LIKE FOR THE - FOR ONESIMUS 00:34:47.63\00:34:53.93 AND PHILEMON AND THEIR FAMILIES AS THEY COME UP OUT OF THOSE 00:34:53.93\00:34:56.56 GRAVES AND THEY SEE EACH OTHER, WHAT JOY THERE'S GOING TO BE? 00:34:56.56\00:35:00.10 WHAT JOY THERE'S GOING TO BE THAT PHILEMON TOOK THE 00:35:00.10\00:35:03.33 ADMONITION - TREATED THIS MAN LIKE A SON AND THEY ARE BOTH 00:35:03.33\00:35:06.76 CHRISTIAN BROTHERS IN CHRIST. ISN'T THAT WONDERFUL? 00:35:06.76\00:35:11.46 THE CONCEPT OF BEING TRANSFORMED FROM SLAVE TO SON SHOULD BE A 00:35:11.46\00:35:15.56 CONSTANT REMINDER TO US WHERE WE HAVE COME FROM AND WHERE WE 00:35:15.56\00:35:19.36 WOULD STILL BE IF IT WERE NOT FOR OUR ELDER BROTHER 00:35:19.36\00:35:23.40 JESUS CHRIST. WELL, LET US MOVE ON TO 00:35:23.40\00:35:25.63 TUESDAY'S LESSON ENTITLED 'FROM COMPARISON TO COMPLIMENT'. 00:35:25.63\00:35:30.16 SOME EXAMPLES ARE GIVEN IN THE BOOK OF 1 CORINTHIANS. 00:35:30.16\00:35:33.56 NOW, TONGUE IN CHEEK, CORINTHIANS WOULD HAVE BEEN SUCH 00:35:33.56\00:35:37.76 A SPLENDID CHURCH TO BE A PASTOR OF. 00:35:37.76\00:35:40.80 TONGUE IN CHEEK BECAUSE IT SEEMS LIKE THE CHURCH OF CORINTH HAD A 00:35:40.80\00:35:44.56 LOT OF DIFFERENT KINDS OF PROBLEMS. 00:35:44.56\00:35:46.90 ONE OF THE PROBLEMS THAT AROSE WAS 'WHO'S GOING TO GET THE 00:35:46.90\00:35:49.53 CREDIT FOR THESE SOULS COMING IN?' OR 'WHO WAS MORE IMPORTANT, 00:35:49.53\00:35:53.10 THE ONE SOWING THE SEED OR REAPING THE HARVEST OR 00:35:53.10\00:35:56.83 WHATEVER?' AND PAUL HAD TO SET THEM STRAIGHT. 00:35:56.83\00:35:59.50 'NEITHER IS HE THAT PLANTETH ANYTHING, NEITHER IS HE THAT 00:35:59.50\00:36:03.33 WATERETH BUT GOD THAT GIVETH' - GOD GIVES THE INCREASE. 00:36:03.33\00:36:07.76 'NOW HE THAT PLANTETH AND HE THAT WATERETH ARE ONE AND EVERY 00:36:07.76\00:36:11.50 MAN SHALL RECEIVE HIS OWN REWARD ACCORDING TO HIS OWN LABOR.' 00:36:11.50\00:36:18.06 WOULD HAPPEN - WOULDN'T HAPPEN OR COULD BE SOLVED IF WE JUST 00:36:18.06\00:36:21.86 REALLY FOCUSED UPON GOD REMEMBERING THAT HE IS THE ONE 00:36:21.86\00:36:24.70 BEHIND ALL GOOD THINGS. NONE OF US ARE BETTER 00:36:24.70\00:36:27.50 THAN THE OTHER. NOW IT HAPPENS NOW AND THEN THAT 00:36:27.50\00:36:31.80 - RIGHT HERE IN THIS CHURCH - SOMETIMES ONE OF US PASTORS IS 00:36:31.80\00:36:36.60 WORKING WITH AN INDIVIDUAL CLEARING HIM OR HER FOR BAPTISM. 00:36:36.60\00:36:41.33 AND I'VE HAD PEOPLE SAY, AT THE END OF IT, WHEN THEY'RE REALLY 00:36:41.33\00:36:44.30 GETTING READY TO BE BAPTIZED AND THEY KIND OF ASK THE QUESTION 00:36:44.30\00:36:47.76 VERY HESITANTLY, 'WOULD IT BE ALRIGHT IF I ASKED PASTOR SO AND 00:36:47.76\00:36:53.06 SO TO BAPTIZE ME?' SURE IT'S ALRIGHT. 00:36:53.06\00:36:57.20 NONE OF US PASTORS CARE WHO BAPTIZES ANYBODY. 00:36:57.20\00:37:00.10 ALL WE DO IS REJOICE OVER ANYBODY THAT'S BAPTIZED. 00:37:00.10\00:37:03.83 THAT PROBLEM DOES NOT EXIST HERE. 00:37:03.83\00:37:05.56 EVIDENTLY, THAT PROBLEM DID EXIST IN THE CHURCH OF 00:37:05.56\00:37:07.90 CORINTH - 'WHO'S GOING TO GET THE GLORY? 00:37:07.90\00:37:10.30 WHO'S GOING TO GET THE CREDIT?' WHATEVER, WHATEVER - NO, THAT 00:37:10.30\00:37:14.10 SHOULD NEVER FIND ANY PLACE IN GOD'S CHURCH, RIGHT? 00:37:14.10\00:37:17.13 I DON'T THINK IT EVER WILL HERE, AT LEAST I KNOW, WITH THE STAFF 00:37:17.13\00:37:19.96 THAT WE HAVE TODAY, THAT'S FOR SURE. 00:37:19.96\00:37:21.83 NOW THE LESSON MAKES A STATEMENT. 00:37:21.83\00:37:23.26 GOD CALLS US TO COOPERATION, NOT COMPETITION. 00:37:23.26\00:37:27.63 I HAVE TALKED WITH SO MANY MARRIED COUPLES THAT HAVE 00:37:27.63\00:37:31.80 PROBLEMS AND I TELL THEM, IF YOU WOULD JUST STOP AND DO ONE 00:37:31.80\00:37:37.96 THING: STOP COMPETING WITH EACH OTHER. 00:37:37.96\00:37:41.76 YOU DIDN'T GET MARRIED TO COMPETE WITH EACH OTHER, YOU GOT 00:37:41.76\00:37:44.40 MARRIED TO COMPLIMENT ONE ANOTHER. STOP COMPETING. 00:37:44.40\00:37:48.06 'OH, HE SPENDS MORE MONEY THAN I DO.' OR 'SHE SPENDS MORE MONEY 00:37:48.06\00:37:53.06 THAN I DO.' OR 'HE DOESN'T DO ENOUGH AROUND THE HOUSE.' 00:37:53.06\00:37:55.63 AND THEY'RE COMPETING FOR THIS AND THAT AND EVERYTHING ELSE AND 00:37:55.63\00:37:58.73 BEFORE LONG IT'S JUST A TOTAL WORLD OF COMPETITION. 00:37:58.73\00:38:02.23 THAT'S NOT WHAT RELATIONSHIPS ARE ALL ABOUT. RELATIONSHIPS 00:38:02.23\00:38:06.10 WOULD DO WELL TO TAKE PRESIDENT KENNEDY'S REMARK - REMEMBER? - 00:38:06.10\00:38:09.86 TO HEART, 'ASK NOT WHAT YOUR COUNTRY' OR 'ASK NOT WHAT YOUR 00:38:09.86\00:38:13.43 FELLOW CITIZEN' OR 'ASK NOT WHAT YOUR MATE CAN DO FOR YOU BUT 00:38:13.43\00:38:16.36 WHAT YOU CAN DO FOR THIS RELATIONSHIP.' 00:38:16.36\00:38:19.96 NOT SO MUCH WHAT THAT RELATIONSHIP CAN DO FOR ME. 00:38:19.96\00:38:23.46 THAT'S WHEN YOU HAVE - BEGIN TO HAVE TROUBLE. 00:38:23.46\00:38:26.20 ANOTHER IMPORTANT STATEMENT IS BROUGHT OUT IN THE LESSON ON 00:38:26.20\00:38:28.40 TUESDAY, 'ALL COMPARISONS WITH OTHERS ARE UNWISE BECAUSE THEY 00:38:28.40\00:38:32.63 WILL MAKE US EITHER FEEL DISCOURAGED OR ARROGANT. 00:38:32.63\00:38:38.00 NOW, IF I - SOMEBODY WANTED TO COMPARE ME, AS A GOLFER, WITH 00:38:38.00\00:38:42.66 TIGER WOODS, THAT WOULD BE TOTALLY DISCOURAGING FOR ME. 00:38:42.66\00:38:45.86 WOULDN'T EVEN COMPARE. IF SOMEBODY WANTED TO COMPARE ME 00:38:45.86\00:38:49.43 WITH SOMEBODY, MAYBE SOMEBODY THAT WAS ILLITERATE - 'WELL, AT 00:38:49.43\00:38:53.50 LEAST I CAN READ AND WRITE.' MAYBE IT WOULD BE - MAYBE I 00:38:53.50\00:38:56.80 WOULD TEND TO FEEL A LITTLE BIT SUPERIOR, WHICH SHOULDN'T BE 00:38:56.80\00:39:00.60 BECAUSE THAT PERSON MAYBE THAT CAN'T READ OR WRITE CAN DO A 00:39:00.60\00:39:03.36 THOUSAND THINGS BETTER THAN I CAN, RIGHT? 00:39:03.36\00:39:05.86 SO THAT'S WHAT WE NEED TO KEEP IN MIND. 00:39:05.86\00:39:07.50 THESE KIND OF THINGS ABOUT EACH OTHER. NEVER COMPARE OURSELVES. 00:39:07.50\00:39:14.40 COMPARING OURSELVES TO CHRIST IS BAD AND GOOD, IN A SENSE. 00:39:14.40\00:39:20.30 FIRST OF ALL, AS WE COMPARE OURSELVES TO CHRIST WE WILL COME 00:39:20.30\00:39:23.30 UP EXTREMELY SHORT, BUT AS WE COME UP SHORT, WE ALSO 00:39:23.30\00:39:27.00 UNDERSTAND THAT WE CAN BE COVERED WITH HIS RIGHTEOUSNESS 00:39:27.00\00:39:32.03 AND THEN WE DON'T COME UP SHORT ANYMORE. 00:39:32.03\00:39:34.30 WE COME UP JUST LIKE HE IS. 00:39:34.30\00:39:36.20 WHEN GOD LOOKS AT US, HE SEES HIS SON IF WE'RE COVERED WITH 00:39:36.20\00:39:39.53 HIS RIGHTEOUSNESS. YOU SEE WHAT I MEAN? 00:39:39.53\00:39:42.43 WE ARE ALL LOWDOWN, FILTHY, DIRTY SINNERS COMPARED TO 00:39:42.43\00:39:45.80 CHRIST, BUT WITH CHRIST AS OUR SAVIOR, WHEN HIS FATHER SEES US 00:39:45.80\00:39:49.43 HE SEES CHRIST AND COVERED WITH HIS RIGHTEOUSNESS. 00:39:49.43\00:39:52.73 SO HOW DOES THIS CONCEPT HELP US WITH HUMAN RELATIONSHIPS? 00:39:52.73\00:39:55.73 IF WE SEE IN THAT PERSON THAT WE MIGHT BE HAVING SOME TROUBLE 00:39:55.73\00:39:59.30 WITH - THE SAME CONCEPT - I BELIEVE RECONCILIATION COULD 00:39:59.30\00:40:03.76 HAPPEN. BY THAT I MEAN WE SEE THE 00:40:03.76\00:40:07.06 DEFECTS - YES, WE COMPARE OURSELVES TO CHRIST. 00:40:07.06\00:40:10.23 WE KNOW WE HAVE DEFECTS TOO, BUT WHEN WE BOTH WOULD COMPARE 00:40:10.23\00:40:14.46 OURSELVES TO CHRIST AND SEE OUR NEED OF BEING COVERED WITH HIS 00:40:14.46\00:40:18.43 RIGHTEOUSNESS - THEN WE BOTH COULD LOOK ALIKE AGAIN, COVERED 00:40:18.43\00:40:22.23 WITH HIS RIGHTEOUSNESS. IF BOTH PARTIES WOULD COME TO 00:40:22.23\00:40:24.96 JESUS AND BE COVERED WITH HIS RIGHTEOUSNESS AND LOOK UPON THE 00:40:24.96\00:40:28.03 OTHER AS A PERSON COVERED WITH CHRIST'S RIGHTEOUSNESS, THEN WE 00:40:28.03\00:40:31.30 REALLY WOULD BE GETTING SOMEWHERE, WOULDN'T WE? 00:40:31.30\00:40:35.83 WOULD THAT MEAN THAT ALL TROUBLES WOULD DISSIPATE 00:40:35.83\00:40:37.80 IMMEDIATELY? NO, THERE'S STILL SOME THINGS TO 00:40:37.80\00:40:39.70 WORK THROUGH FOR SURE. ALL STRAINED RELATIONSHIPS COULD 00:40:39.70\00:40:43.66 BE HEALED IF - MAYBE JUST YIELDING TO THIS CONCEPT. 00:40:43.66\00:40:49.56 NOW WE NEED TO KEEP MOVING ON. I DON'T KNOW IF THIS HAS EVER 00:40:49.56\00:40:53.00 HAPPENED TO YOU - 1 CORINTHIANS CHAPTER 10, VERSE 12 SAYS, 00:40:53.00\00:40:58.56 "WHEREFORE LET HIM THAT THINKETH HE STANDETH TAKE HEED LEST HE 00:40:58.56\00:41:02.80 FALL." REMEMBER THAT TEXT? 00:41:02.80\00:41:05.80 IF YOU THINK YOU'RE STANDING, BE CAREFUL BECAUSE YOU MIGHT FALL. 00:41:05.80\00:41:10.00 NOW I DON'T KNOW IF THIS HAS HAPPENED TO YOU, BUT I KNOW THAT 00:41:10.00\00:41:13.40 IF I EVER ALLOWED MYSELF TO FALL INTO THE PIT OF JUDGING OTHERS - 00:41:13.40\00:41:18.13 JUST PURE JUDGING - WHEN IT'S JUST JUDGING. 00:41:18.13\00:41:21.70 MAYBE THERE'S SOME ISSUES WHERE YOU KNOW THE FACTS AND YOU HAVE 00:41:21.70\00:41:24.73 TO ADDRESS THEM - THAT'S A DIFFERENT ISSUE - BUT IF YOU'RE 00:41:24.73\00:41:33.10 JSOMETHING YOURSELF - MAYBE INT THE SAME AREA OR SOMETHING 00:41:33.10\00:41:39.13 COMPLETELY DIFFERENT - AND YOU REALIZE, 'WOW, THAT WAS SURE 00:41:39.13\00:41:42.90 STUPID OF ME TO JUDGE THAT PERSON BECAUSE I'M JUST A SINNER 00:41:42.90\00:41:45.26 MYSELF. SO JUDGING IS WAY OUT OF BOUNDS. YOU CAN'T DO THAT. 00:41:45.26\00:41:52.93 AND WE NEED TO REALLY TAKE THIS TEXT TO HEART. 00:41:52.93\00:41:56.50 'IF YOU THINK YOU'RE STANDING, TAKE HEED OR YOU WILL PROBABLY 00:41:56.50\00:42:00.76 FALL.' WEDNESDAY - WE MOVE ON - ENTITLED 'FROM FRICTION TO 00:42:00.76\00:42:04.63 FORGIVENESS' AND THIS DAY STARTS OUT WITH SOME VERY PERTINENT 00:42:04.63\00:42:08.53 QUESTIONS I THINK WE NEED TO ADDRESS, TOO. 00:42:08.53\00:42:11.90 FIRST OF ALL, THE QUESTION 'WHAT IS FORGIVENESS?' 00:42:11.90\00:42:14.53 WELL, IF YOU LOOK TO WEBSTER, THE WORD FORGIVENESS SIMPLY 00:42:14.53\00:42:19.56 MEANS 'TO PARDON' OR 'INCLINATION TO FORGIVE OR 00:42:19.56\00:42:22.10 PARDON.' TO LOOK AT THE WORDS 'TO 00:42:22.10\00:42:24.03 FORGIVE' IS A LITTLE BIT MORE APPLICABLE FOR IT SAYS, 'TO GIVE 00:42:24.03\00:42:26.63 UP RESENTMENT AGAINST OR THE DESIRE TO PUNISH' OR 'TO STOP 00:42:26.63\00:42:32.73 BEING ANGRY WITH; TO GIVE UP ALL CLAIM TO PUNISH OR EXACT PENALTY 00:42:32.73\00:42:38.80 FOR AN OFFENSE; TO CANCEL OR REMIT A DEBT'. 00:42:38.80\00:42:42.63 NOW THAT SOUNDS LIKE SO MUCH MORE THAN JUST SAYING, 'WELL, 00:42:42.63\00:42:45.70 I'M WILLING TO FORGIVE SOMEBODY. I'M WILLING TO FORGIVE THEM.' 00:42:45.70\00:42:48.96 ARE YOU REALLY? ARE YOU WILLING TO 00:42:48.96\00:42:50.93 FORGIVE THEM? ARE YOU WILLING TO GIVE UP ALL 00:42:50.93\00:42:53.06 RESENTMENT AGAINST OR THE DESIRE TO SEE THEM PUNISHED THE WAY YOU 00:42:53.06\00:42:57.06 THINK THEY SHOULD BE PUNISHED FOR WHAT THEY ARE DOING? 00:42:57.06\00:43:00.20 OH, ARE YOU READY TO GIVE UP ALL ANGER WITH THAT PERSON? 00:43:00.20\00:43:04.86 WELL, IF YOU ARE THEN YOU - YES, YOU ARE WILLING TO FORGIVE. 00:43:04.86\00:43:09.30 NEXT QUESTION SAYS, 'DOES FORGIVENESS JUSTIFY THE BEHAVIOR 00:43:09.30\00:43:11.93 OF SOMEONE WHO HAS HORRIBLY WRONGED US?' 00:43:11.93\00:43:15.50 HUH, WELL THAT'S AN INTERESTING QUESTION. 00:43:15.50\00:43:19.33 DOES IT JUSTIFY THEIR ACT? WELL, WE SAY, 'IF THEY CONFESS 00:43:19.33\00:43:23.83 THEIR SINS, JESUS IS WILLING AND JUST TO FORGIVE THEM THEIR SINS 00:43:23.83\00:43:28.06 AND THEY STAND THEN JUSTIFIED IN THE SIGHT OF GOD.' 00:43:28.06\00:43:31.80 WELL, THAT SOUNDS LIKE, 'OKAY, THEY'RE JUSTIFIED.' 00:43:31.80\00:43:35.40 BUT THAT DOESN'T MEAN THEIR ACT IS JUSTIFIED, RIGHT? 00:43:35.40\00:43:39.46 THEIR ACT IS WRONG - IT ALWAYS IS WRONG - AND NEVER WILL BE 00:43:39.46\00:43:42.73 RIGHT. YOU CAN'T DO ANYTHING TO GO UNDO 00:43:42.73\00:43:45.93 SOMETHING THAT'S BEEN DONE SO DRASTICALLY WRONG - YOU CAN'T 00:43:45.93\00:43:49.10 MAKE IT RIGHT. YOU CAN'T UNDO IT, I SHOULD SAY. 00:43:49.10\00:43:52.33 YOU CAN MAKE THINGS RIGHT BETWEEN YOU AND THE PARTY YOU 00:43:52.33\00:43:54.10 DID IT TO, BUT IT WON'T MAKE THE ACT RIGHT. 00:43:54.10\00:43:56.73 SO, NO, IT'LL NEVER JUSTIFY THE ACT, BUT THE PERSON COMMITTING 00:43:56.73\00:44:01.46 THE ACT CAN BE JUSTIFIED. DOES THAT MAKE SENSE? YES. 00:44:01.46\00:44:06.70 THE NEXT QUESTION IS ALSO AN INTERESTING ONE. 00:44:06.70\00:44:09.10 IS MY FORGIVENESS DEPENDENT ON THE OFFENDER'S REPENTANCE? 00:44:09.10\00:44:16.46 IF THAT WERE SO, THEN FORGIVENESS MAY NEVER BE OFFERED 00:44:16.46\00:44:19.23 IN SOME CASES. WHAT DID CHRIST PRAY AS HE WAS 00:44:19.23\00:44:22.76 BEING NAILED TO THE CROSS? 'FATHER, FORGIVE THEM FOR THEY 00:44:22.76\00:44:26.96 KNOW NOT WHAT THEY DO.' WAS THAT CARTE BLANCHE 00:44:26.96\00:44:30.13 FORGIVENESS FOR EVERYBODY DESPITE WHAT THEY DID? 00:44:30.13\00:44:33.66 NO, IT WAS A FULL AND COMPLETE WILLINGNESS TO FORGIVE EVERYBODY 00:44:33.66\00:44:38.80 THAT WAS NAILING HIM TO THE CROSS THAT WOULD ACCEPT THAT 00:44:38.80\00:44:42.86 FORGIVENESS. DID ALL THE PEOPLE THAT WERE 00:44:42.86\00:44:45.93 THERE AT THE CROSS TURN TO CHRIST AND ASK HIM FOR 00:44:45.93\00:44:50.50 FORGIVENESS AND RECEIVE HIS FORGIVENESS? 00:44:50.50\00:44:59.33 NIN ONE SENSE, THE ACT OF, FORGIVENESS NEVER HAPPENS IF THE 00:44:59.33\00:45:02.60 OFFENDER DOESN'T ACT UPON IT, RIGHT? 00:45:02.60\00:45:05.10 BUT IN ANOTHER SENSE, WE AS CHRISTIANS SHOULD BE EVER ON THE 00:45:05.10\00:45:08.70 STAND BY - WE SHOULD BE EVER ON THE STAND BY WILLING TO FORGIVE, 00:45:08.70\00:45:12.86 RIGHT? OR ALREADY HAVING FORGIVEN THAT 00:45:12.86\00:45:15.56 PERSON IN OUR HEART, WHETHER THEY WANT TO BE FORGIVEN OR NOT. 00:45:15.56\00:45:21.13 THINK OF THE TEXT THAT WE ARE ALL VERY FAMILIAR WITH, 1 JOHN 00:45:21.13\00:45:25.36 1:9, "IF WE CONFESS OUR SINS HE IS FAITHFUL AND JUST TO FORGIVE 00:45:25.36\00:45:32.03 US OUR SINS AND TO CLEANSE US FROM ALL UNRIGHTEOUSNESS', 00:45:32.03\00:45:35.63 RIGHT? AND THERE'S A HUGE, BIG, LITTLE WORD THERE - 00:45:35.63\00:45:39.40 THE BIG LITTLE WORD 'IF'. EVERYTHING HINGES UPON 00:45:39.40\00:45:44.70 THAT WORD. IF WE CONFESS HE IS FAITHFUL AND JUST. 00:45:44.70\00:45:50.86 THE TRANSACTION OF FORGIVENESS IS NEVER FULLY COMPLETE UNTIL WE 00:45:50.86\00:45:56.16 COOPERATE FULLY WITH THE PRINCIPLES OF FORGIVENESS, 00:45:56.16\00:45:59.53 RIGHT? OKAY, THANK YOU VERY MUCH. 00:45:59.53\00:46:03.63 LET'S SAY YOU STOLE A HUNDRED DOLLARS FROM ME. 00:46:03.63\00:46:07.06 I WOULDN'T BE VERY HAPPY. I WOULD BE DOWNHEARTED. 00:46:07.06\00:46:12.10 BUT IF YOU APOLOGIZED - OKAY, I FORGIVE YOU. 00:46:12.10\00:46:17.20 IF YOU GAVE ME BACK THE HUNDRED DOLLARS THAT'D EVEN BE BETTER, 00:46:17.20\00:46:20.56 BUT IF YOU DIDN'T GIVE ME THE HUNDRED DOLLARS, COULD I STILL 00:46:20.56\00:46:25.00 FORGIVE YOU? YES. WOULD THE ACT OF TAKING MY MONEY 00:46:25.00\00:46:30.76 EVER BE RIGHT? NO, BUT YOU CAN BE FORGIVEN 00:46:30.76\00:46:35.16 WHETHER YOU'RE ABLE TO PAY IT BACK OR NOT. 00:46:35.16\00:46:36.86 WE'RE NOT ABLE TO PAY BACK GOD FOR ALL THE WRONG WE'VE DONE. 00:46:36.86\00:46:40.43 THERE'S NO WAY YOU CAN PAY GOD BACK FOR ALL THE WRONG YOU'VE 00:46:40.43\00:46:43.70 DONE - FOR ALL THE WRONG I'VE DONE - NO WAY. 00:46:43.70\00:46:47.00 SO I ACCEPT HIS FORGIVENESS AND THANK HIM WHOLEHEARTEDLY SO 00:46:47.00\00:46:52.00 DEEPLY, THAT HE IS WILLING TO FORGIVE. 00:46:52.00\00:46:57.16 AND SINCE THIS LESSON IS ABOUT RECONCILIATION, WE CAN SEE HOW 00:46:57.16\00:47:00.96 IMPORTANT THE ASPECT OF FORGIVENESS IS. 00:47:00.96\00:47:04.23 WHAT IS THE PROBLEM OF NOT BEING WILLING TO FORGIVE SOMEONE? 00:47:04.23\00:47:08.63 LET ME ASK THIS QUESTION TO HELP US UNDERSTAND THE SERIOUSNESS OF 00:47:08.63\00:47:11.23 IT. WILL GOD FORGIVE US IF WE ARE 00:47:11.23\00:47:13.53 UNWILLING TO FORGIVE SOMEONE ELSE? 00:47:13.53\00:47:16.56 AND IF WE WILL NOT FORGIVE - IF HE WILL NOT FORGIVE US, WHAT IS 00:47:16.56\00:47:20.30 OUR ETERNAL DESTINY? IF GOD WON'T FORGIVE US BECAUSE 00:47:20.30\00:47:24.76 WE WON'T FORGIVE SOMEBODY ELSE, WHERE DOES THAT LEAVE US? 00:47:24.76\00:47:28.36 THAT'S LEAVES US OUT IN THE DARK, RIGHT? 00:47:28.36\00:47:30.66 ETERNAL DESTRUCTION. SO HOW IMPORTANT IS THE 00:47:30.66\00:47:33.00 WILLINGNESS TO FORGIVE SOMEBODY ELSE? IT'S TOTALLY IMPORTANT 00:47:33.00\00:47:36.90 AND IF YOU DON'T FEEL LIKE IT, THEN THAT'S 00:47:36.90\00:47:39.83 WHY I SAY THIS LITTLE BOOKLET THAT YOU NEED TO SEND FOR SHOWS 00:47:39.83\00:47:43.20 US WE NEED A POWER OUT AND ABOVE AND BEYOND OURSELVES - THE HOLY 00:47:43.20\00:47:47.83 SPIRIT - TO HELP US TO HAVE THOSE FEELINGS OF FORGIVENESS. 00:47:47.83\00:47:52.80 YEAH, THERE'S SOME THINGS THAT IT'S MIGHTY HARD TO FORGIVE. 00:47:52.80\00:47:56.70 I KNOW PEOPLE - I HAVE KNOWN PEOPLE THROUGH THE YEARS THAT 00:47:56.70\00:48:00.36 THEY HAVE STRUGGLED WITH FORGIVENESS FOR SOMEBODY ALL THE 00:48:00.36\00:48:03.53 DAYS OF THEIR LIFE AND THEY LIVED A VERY BITTER AND 00:48:03.53\00:48:06.70 MISERABLE LIFE AND THEY DIED A VERY BITTER AND MISERABLE DEATH 00:48:06.70\00:48:13.30 ALL BECAUSE THEY WEREN'T WILLING TO FORGIVE. 00:48:13.30\00:48:17.26 AND IN YOUR OWN HUMANITY, YES IT IS HARD AND SOMETIMES 00:48:17.26\00:48:25.23 WE CAN DO ALL THINGS, RIGHT? 00:48:25.23\00:48:28.06 YOU CAN EVEN FORGIVE SOMEBODY THAT KILLS ONE OF YOUR MOST 00:48:28.06\00:48:32.20 BELOVED FRIENDS OR FAMILY MEMBERS OR SOME OF THE MOST 00:48:32.20\00:48:36.50 SERIOUS OFFENSES IN THE WORLD PEOPLE HAVE FORGIVEN THEM 00:48:36.50\00:48:39.93 BECAUSE OF GOD LIVING IN THEIR HEARTS. 00:48:39.93\00:48:43.90 AND THAT'S WHY WE NEED THE HOLY SPIRIT. 00:48:43.90\00:48:47.53 I'VE HAD PEOPLE TELL ME THERE'S SOMEONE IN THEIR LIFE THEY JUST 00:48:47.53\00:48:50.80 CANNOT FORGIVE AND I SHUDDER WHEN I HEAR THAT. 00:48:50.80\00:48:53.40 DON'T YOU REALIZE WHAT YOU ARE SAYING ABOUT YOUR OWN ETERNAL 00:48:53.40\00:48:57.16 DESTINY? YOU CANNOT FORGIVE SOMEBODY? 00:48:57.16\00:49:00.53 THEN GO TO YOUR KNEES UNTIL YOU CAN FORGIVE THAT SOMEBODY. 00:49:00.53\00:49:04.60 THAT'S WHAT THIS LESSON IS ALL ABOUT TODAY. 00:49:04.60\00:49:06.93 NOW, IN ONE SENSE, IT'S AN HONEST APPROACH, 'I CAN'T 00:49:06.93\00:49:08.93 FORGIVE THEM. I JUST CAN'T FORGIVE THEM. 00:49:08.93\00:49:11.96 I CAN'T FORGIVE THEM.' THAT'S AN HONEST APPROACH - 00:49:11.96\00:49:14.90 THAT'S THE FIRST STEP - BUT DON'T STAY IN THAT STEP BECAUSE 00:49:14.90\00:49:18.10 YOU'LL FOREVER BE A BITTER, MISERABLE PERSON. 00:49:18.10\00:49:20.96 GO TO STEP TWO - 'JESUS, HELP ME. 00:49:20.96\00:49:24.83 GIVE ME A NEW HEART IN THIS ONE AREA WITH THIS ONE PERSON - THIS 00:49:24.83\00:49:27.96 ONE BROKEN RELATIONSHIP. GIVE ME THE HEART OF JESUS.' 00:49:27.96\00:49:32.50 AND WILL HE ANSWER THAT PRAYER? 00:49:32.50\00:49:34.70 HE'S ANSWERED IT IN THOUSANDS AND MILLIONS OF PEOPLE. 00:49:34.70\00:49:37.70 HE'LL ANSWER IT IN YOUR LIFE AND OURS TOO. NOW, WE GO TO 00:49:37.70\00:49:46.03 THURSDAY'S LESSON ENTITLED 'FROM RANCOR TO RESTORATION'. 00:49:46.03\00:49:51.53 AND, OF COURSE, FOR ALL OF YOU WHO READ THE LESSON THIS WEEK, 00:49:51.53\00:49:54.16 YOU REALIZE THAT THE PASSAGE OF SCRIPTURE THAT IS BEING 00:49:54.16\00:49:59.23 REFERENCED IN THIS DAY'S LESSON IS MATTHEW 18. 00:49:59.23\00:50:04.40 ALLIF YOU HAVE A PROBLEM GO TOOF MATTMATTHEW 18.HT? 00:50:08.46\00:50:11.06 I'VE SEEN MATTHEW 18 USED MARVELOUSLY AND WONDERFULLY TO 00:50:11.06\00:50:16.50 BRING ABOUT RECONCILIATION. I HAVE SEEN MATTHEW 18 DISTORTED 00:50:16.50\00:50:22.46 AND SO MISERABLY REPRESENTED AND NOT USED CORRECTLY AND IT ALWAYS 00:50:22.46\00:50:28.30 BRINGS THE OPPOSITE RESULT. SO WE NEED TO APPLY IT - WE NEED 00:50:28.30\00:50:33.23 TO APPLY IT IN THE RIGHT WAY. LET'S TURN TO MATTHEW 18, IF YOU 00:50:33.23\00:50:36.00 WOULD, THIS MORNING. MATTHEW 18, VERSE 15 SAYS, 00:50:36.00\00:50:39.60 "MOREOVER IF THY BROTHER SHALL TRESPASS AGAINST THEE, GO AND 00:50:39.60\00:50:43.46 TELL HIM HIS FAULT BETWEEN THEE AND HIM ALONE; IF HE SHALL HEAR 00:50:43.46\00:50:46.86 THEE, THOU HAST GAINED THY BROTHER. 00:50:46.86\00:50:49.20 BUT IF HE WILL NOT HEAR THEE, THEN TAKE WITH THEE ONE OR TWO 00:50:49.20\00:50:52.63 MORE, THAT IN THE MOUTH OF TWO OR THREE WITNESSES EVERY WORD 00:50:52.63\00:50:56.73 MAY BE ESTABLISHED. AND IF HE SHALL NEGLECT TO HEAR 00:50:56.73\00:50:59.80 THEM, TELL IT UNTO THE CHURCH; BUT IF HE NEGLECT TO HEAR THE 00:50:59.80\00:51:02.70 CHURCH, LET HIM BE UNTO THEE AS AN HEATHEN MAN AND A PUBLICAN." 00:51:02.70\00:51:09.00 WHY NOT TAKE A SERIOUS PROBLEM DIRECTLY TO THE CHURCH? 00:51:09.00\00:51:13.66 WELL, IT'S BETTER TO CONFINE IT TO THE SMALLEST NUMBER OF PEOPLE 00:51:13.66\00:51:19.43 POSSIBLE AND IF RECONCILIATION TAKES PLACE IN THAT FIRST STEP, 00:51:19.43\00:51:25.00 WHOA, PRAISE GOD. NOBODY ELSE NEEDS TO WORRY 00:51:25.00\00:51:27.80 ABOUT IT. THEY DON'T EVEN HAVE TO KNOW 00:51:27.80\00:51:29.56 ABOUT IT. RECONCILIATION TOOK PLACE. 00:51:29.56\00:51:31.33 PRAISE GOD. IF YOU HAVE TO GO TO THE SECOND 00:51:31.33\00:51:33.70 STEP - TAKE SOMEBODY WITH YOU - PRAISE GOD IF IT'S SETTLED THERE 00:51:33.70\00:51:38.86 BECAUSE BY THE TIME, IF YOU HAVE TO TAKE IT TO THE CHURCH, IT'S 00:51:38.86\00:51:43.16 LIKE OPENING UP A BIG CAN OF WORMS AND NOBODY LIKES THAT. 00:51:43.16\00:51:50.00 IN FACT, THERE'S A LOT OF PEOPLE IN GOD'S CHURCH THAT DON'T EVEN 00:51:50.00\00:51:53.23 LIKE TO DISCUSS THE CONCEPT OF CHURCH DISCIPLINE. THEY DON'T 00:51:53.23\00:51:58.63 EVEN LIKE TO TALK ABOUT IT. 'WE SHOULDN'T DISCIPLINE 00:51:58.63\00:52:01.50 ANYBODY UNLESS - DON'T EVEN APPROACH THAT SUBJECT. 00:52:01.50\00:52:05.60 LET EVERYBODY BE TO THEMSELVES DOING WHAT THEY WANT TO, HOW 00:52:05.60\00:52:09.33 THEY WANT TO, WHEN THEY WANT TO, WHERE THEY WANT TO, ETC, ETC.' 00:52:09.33\00:52:13.03 YOU KNOW, THE CHURCH HAS MORE OF A RESPONSIBILITY THAN THAT. 00:52:13.03\00:52:16.30 AND IT'S NOT PLEASANT - IT NEVER IS. 00:52:16.30\00:52:21.60 IF SOMEBODY THINKS IT'S PLEASANT THEN, PROBABLY, THEY NEED A 00:52:21.60\00:52:25.03 LITTLE ATTITUDE CHANGE ANYWAY, I GUESS. 00:52:25.03\00:52:29.06 BUT - NOW IN THE END, WHEN EVERYTHING IS WRAPPED UP AND 00:52:29.06\00:52:35.86 JESUS COMES BACK AGAIN AND WE ALL GO TO HEAVEN FOR THAT 00:52:35.86\00:52:39.70 THOUSAND YEARS, WE GET TO LOOK AT THE BOOKS, RIGHT? 00:52:39.70\00:52:43.10 WE SEE WHY UNCLE GEORGE DIDN'T MAKE IT, EVEN THOUGH UNCLE 00:52:43.10\00:52:45.46 GEORGE PROFESSED TO BE A CHRISTIAN, PROFESSED TO BELIEVE 00:52:45.46\00:52:49.56 IN THE THREE ANGELS' MESSAGE. UNCLE GEORGE, THE RECORDS 00:52:49.56\00:52:54.33 REVEAL, HAD SOME REAL PROBLEMS GOING ON IN HIS LIFE AND THAT'S 00:52:54.33\00:53:00.53 WHY HE CAN'T BE HERE. SO, AT THE END OF THE THOUSAND 00:53:00.53\00:53:05.50 YEARS, JESUS, THE ANGELS, AND ALL THE SAINTS COME BACK DOWN 00:53:05.50\00:53:12.06 OUT OF THE SKY WITH THE HOLY CITY AND THE WICKED ARE ALL 00:53:12.06\00:53:16.83 RAISED TO LIFE. UNCLE GEORGE IS AMONG THEM AND 00:53:16.83\00:53:21.50 HE'S GOING TO HAVE TO BE DESTROYED BUT ALL OF GOD'S 00:53:21.50\00:53:26.03 PEOPLE AND ANYBODY THAT KNEW UNCLE GEORGE, NOW KNOW EXACTLY 00:53:26.03\00:53:30.76 WHY THIS IS GOING TO HAPPEN THIS WAY. 00:53:30.76\00:53:34.03 THERE WILL BE NO QUESTIONS. ALL QUESTIONS WILL BE ANSWERED. 00:53:34.03\00:53:38.80 AND WHEN THAT FIRE COMES DOWN OUT OF HEAVEN AND DESTROYS SIN 00:53:38.80\00:53:45.36 AND SINNERS ONCE AND FOR ALL, WHAT DOES GOD CALL THIS? 00:53:45.36\00:53:52.36 HE CALLS IT HIS STRANGE ACT. WHY IS IT STRANGE? 00:53:52.36\00:53:58.90 BECAUSE EVERYTHING ABOUT GOD IS CREATIVE, NOT DESTRUCTIVE. 00:53:58.90\00:54:05.90 EVERYTHING ABOUT GOD IS BUILDING UP - MAKING BETTER, NOT 00:54:05.90\00:54:09.20 DESTROYING AND MAKING THINGS BAD AND DESTROYING SINNERS IS BAD. 00:54:09.20\00:54:15.80 BUT HE WILL DO IT BECAUSE HE HAS TO. 00:54:15.80\00:54:18.33 IT'S LIKE HAVING A HUNDRED COWS AND NINETY-NINE OF THEM HAVE THE 00:54:18.33\00:54:23.96 MAD COW DISEASE - YOU BETTER GET RID OF THEM, RIGHT? 00:54:23.96\00:54:27.33 OR IT'S JUST GOING TO KEEP SPREADING AND SPREADING AND 00:54:27.33\00:54:29.10 SPREADING. THAT'S WHAT GOD IS GOING TO DO 00:54:29.10\00:54:31.03 WITH THE SIN PROBLEM, TAKE CARE OF IT ONCE AND FOR ALL. 00:54:31.03\00:54:33.00 SO HE CALLS IT HIS 'STRANGE ACT' AND IF ANY OF US ENJOY THIS 00:54:33.00\00:54:36.93 CONCEPT OF 'LET'S DISCIPLINE SOMEBODY BECAUSE THEY'RE JUST SO 00:54:36.93\00:54:40.76 TERRIBLE' AND 'LET'S GET HIM KICKED OUT OF THE CHURCH' AND, 00:54:40.76\00:54:42.96 'LET'S DO THIS.' IT SHOULD BE KIND OF A STRANGE 00:54:42.96\00:54:46.76 ACT TO US TOO BECAUSE WHAT ARE WE CALLED TO BE? 00:54:46.76\00:54:49.83 WE'RE CALLED TO BE FISHER'S OF MEN. 00:54:49.83\00:54:52.06 WE'RE CALLED TO BRING PEOPLE IN. WE DON'T LIKE TO KICK PEOPLE OUT 00:54:52.06\00:54:55.50 AND IF WE DO, WE'D BETTER HAVE AN ATTITUDE ADJUSTMENT, AS I 00:54:55.50\00:54:58.63 MENTIONED. WE HAVE TO DO IT SOMETIMES BUT 00:54:58.63\00:55:01.66 IT'S NOT WHAT WE RELISH IN AND ENJOY, BUT LET'S HAVE THIS BE A 00:55:01.66\00:55:08.93 STRANGE PHENOMENA OR STRANGE ACT TO US LIKEWISE. 00:55:08.93\00:55:12.70 AND I LIKE THE COMMENTS TOWARDS THE BOTTOM OF THURSDAY WHEN IT 00:55:12.70\00:55:17.50 TALKS ABOUT AN ISSUE THAT HAS TO BE TAKEN TO THE CHURCH. 00:55:17.50\00:55:21.16 YOU PROBABLY READ THIS TOO. IT SAYS THERE ON THE BOTTOM OF 00:55:21.16\00:55:24.40 THURSDAY'S LESSON, 'THE APPROPRIATE PLACE TO BRING THE 00:55:24.40\00:55:27.80 ISSUE, IF THE FIRST TWO STEPS HAVE NOT HELPED TO RECONCILE THE 00:55:27.80\00:55:32.00 TWO PARTIES, IS THE CHURCH BOARD.' 00:55:32.00\00:55:36.33 THEN, THE NEXT SENTENCE IS THE ONE I LIKE. 00:55:36.33\00:55:38.90 'AGAIN, CHRIST'S PURPOSE IS RECONCILIATION, IT IS NOT TO 00:55:38.90\00:55:44.23 BLAME ONE PARTY AND EXONERATE THE OTHER.' 00:55:44.23\00:55:50.10 HAVE YOU EVER SEEN THAT? PEOPLE FIGHTING AND THEY WANT TO 00:55:50.10\00:55:54.46 TAKE IT TO THE BOARD AND THEY WANT TO TAKE IT TO THE BOARD 00:55:54.46\00:55:58.53 BECAUSE THEY WANT TO BE EXONERATED AND THEY WANT TO MAKE 00:55:58.53\00:56:01.16 SURE EVERYBODY ELSE SEES THAT THAT PERSON IS THE ONE TO BLAME. 00:56:01.16\00:56:04.90 THAT'S NOT THE PURPOSE TO TAKING IT TO THE CHURCH. 00:56:04.90\00:56:08.20 TAKING IT TO THE CHURCH, FIRST OF ALL, SHOULD BE REMEDIAL. 00:56:08.20\00:56:12.86 TRY TO REMEDY THE PROBLEM, WHATEVER THE PROBLEM IS, LET'S 00:56:12.86\00:56:15.66 TRY TO BRING RECONCILIATION TO THE PROBLEM - TO THE PARTIES IN 00:56:15.66\00:56:19.06 THE PROBLEM. LET'S BRING RECONCILIATION TO US AND GOD, 00:56:19.06\00:56:22.60 TO US AND OUR FELLOW MAN. RECONCILIATION, RECONCILIATION, 00:56:22.60\00:56:26.03 RECONCILIATION - THAT SHOULD BE OUR BYWORD, RIGHT? 00:56:26.03\00:56:29.56 IT'S WHAT GOD HAS DONE FOR US - RECONCILED US TO HIM. 00:56:29.56\00:56:33.43 LET US BE RECONCILED, BY HIS GRACE, BY HIS PRESENCE AND HIS 00:56:33.43\00:56:38.46 POWER, LET US BE RECONCILED TO EACH OTHER. 00:56:38.46\00:56:42.63 NOW, THIS MORNING, I WANT TO REMIND YOU AGAIN THAT THE FREE 00:56:42.63\00:56:45.73 OFFER IS ENTITLED, 'HOLY SPIRIT: THE NEED' - 'HOLY SPIRIT THE 00:56:45.73\00:56:54.06 NEED' - OFFER #723, AND ALL YOU HAVE TO DO TO GET THAT LITTLE 00:56:54.06\00:56:59.86 BOOKLET IS TO CALL 1-866-STUDY-MORE OR 00:56:59.86\00:57:05.53 1-866-788-3966. 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