Hello and welcome to Behold the Lamb Presents. 00:00:39.20\00:00:41.80 I'm Chris Shelton, your host, 00:00:41.84\00:00:43.81 and once again we're so thankful and grateful 00:00:43.84\00:00:46.68 that you have chosen to study with us. 00:00:46.71\00:00:49.01 Today, we're going to look at lesson four 00:00:49.04\00:00:51.98 in this wonderful study guide 00:00:52.01\00:00:54.32 written by Brother Richard Bland, 00:00:54.35\00:00:55.98 "Sharing God's Love: What the Bible Says." 00:00:56.02\00:00:59.42 And today's lesson is entitled "Living with Loss." 00:00:59.45\00:01:03.56 Living with loss, 00:01:03.59\00:01:04.93 you know, in this world we're born basically to die. 00:01:04.96\00:01:09.63 So there's always going to be lost. 00:01:09.66\00:01:11.20 We're always dealing with some kind of hurtful situation. 00:01:11.23\00:01:14.74 But as we see the closing scenes 00:01:14.77\00:01:17.94 of this world history come about, 00:01:17.97\00:01:20.41 we're seeing more and more disasters, 00:01:20.44\00:01:22.61 we're seeing terrorists common 00:01:22.64\00:01:24.75 and lives being taken as never before, 00:01:24.78\00:01:27.52 and there's more and more people 00:01:27.55\00:01:29.52 that are having to deal with this issue, 00:01:29.55\00:01:32.12 the issue of living with loss. 00:01:32.15\00:01:34.92 And it can be a very painful one. 00:01:34.96\00:01:37.09 So we want to go with Pastor Kenny 00:01:37.13\00:01:39.06 and see what the Bible has to say, 00:01:39.09\00:01:41.46 and what the Lord has laid upon his heart. 00:01:41.50\00:01:43.73 But before we do that, 00:01:43.77\00:01:45.20 I'm going to share just one Bible passage. 00:01:45.23\00:01:47.40 And this Bible passage is found in Psalms, it's 147:3. 00:01:47.44\00:01:53.41 And it reads, "He healeth the broken heart, 00:01:53.44\00:01:57.18 and bindeth up their wounds." 00:01:57.21\00:02:00.08 Brothers and sisters, 00:02:00.12\00:02:01.45 I believe God has answers for every dilemma 00:02:01.48\00:02:04.15 that we experience in this life. 00:02:04.19\00:02:05.85 So I pray that you'll stay tuned, 00:02:05.89\00:02:07.76 and study, and be blessed with us. 00:02:07.79\00:02:10.33 Thank you for joining us today here at Behold the Lamb. 00:02:10.36\00:02:12.63 We're very grateful and thankful 00:02:12.66\00:02:14.33 that you have chosen to spend some time with us 00:02:14.36\00:02:16.46 and study of the Word of God. 00:02:16.50\00:02:18.53 We look forward to this time being in your home 00:02:18.57\00:02:20.44 and we pray that you're looking forward 00:02:20.47\00:02:21.80 to spending some time with us here in the Word. 00:02:21.84\00:02:24.17 We're going to be looking at a wonderful subject 00:02:24.21\00:02:25.71 that you've already heard about in the introduction 00:02:25.74\00:02:28.38 about living with loss. 00:02:28.41\00:02:30.38 You know, how do people learn to live with loss? 00:02:30.41\00:02:33.68 Is there some kind of secret 00:02:33.72\00:02:35.85 because every one of us will go through it. 00:02:35.88\00:02:37.49 So today, we're going to look into God's Word, 00:02:37.52\00:02:39.59 and I'm sure it's going to be an encouragement, 00:02:39.62\00:02:41.06 strength to us, 00:02:41.09\00:02:42.42 since it's something that we hate to say it, 00:02:42.46\00:02:44.79 but we have to face it. 00:02:44.83\00:02:46.80 So today, as we look at this most important subject, 00:02:46.83\00:02:50.03 especially the hour in which we live, 00:02:50.07\00:02:51.70 we're going to ask God's blessing upon it. 00:02:51.73\00:02:53.27 I'm going to kneel and pray. 00:02:53.30\00:02:54.64 If you'd like to kneel with me, 00:02:54.67\00:02:56.00 those of you home sometime you can't. 00:02:56.04\00:02:57.37 So maybe you may be driving down the road, 00:02:57.41\00:02:58.74 whatever you might be listening, 00:02:58.77\00:03:00.11 but you can pray with me. 00:03:00.14\00:03:01.48 So let's lift our hearts to God, 00:03:01.51\00:03:02.84 shall we as we pray together. 00:03:02.88\00:03:04.21 Loving God in heaven, we thank You 00:03:07.28\00:03:08.82 for Your many blessings that You give to us. 00:03:08.85\00:03:11.55 We thank You for the promise 00:03:11.59\00:03:13.15 two or three are gathered together, 00:03:13.19\00:03:14.52 You'd be in our midst, 00:03:14.56\00:03:15.89 You promised to give us word in due seasons. 00:03:15.92\00:03:18.66 Today, we ask that Your Holy Spirit now 00:03:18.69\00:03:20.50 will come near each of our hearts and minds, 00:03:20.53\00:03:22.50 illuminate these beautiful truths 00:03:22.53\00:03:24.73 that we may be able to look 00:03:24.77\00:03:26.10 and be able to comprehend the things 00:03:26.13\00:03:27.80 that are going on in the world 00:03:27.84\00:03:29.17 and how they may affect each and every one of us. 00:03:29.20\00:03:32.17 And so we will know where to turn to, 00:03:32.21\00:03:34.14 we know that You have the answers, 00:03:34.18\00:03:35.78 lest now we pray everyone who's tuned in, 00:03:35.81\00:03:38.55 everyone who's listening, 00:03:38.58\00:03:40.02 each one here we pray in a special way 00:03:40.05\00:03:41.78 the Spirit of the Living God. 00:03:41.82\00:03:43.49 And will come alive in each and every one of us, 00:03:43.52\00:03:45.45 may we know that we've been with Jesus 00:03:45.49\00:03:46.86 in my prayer today, 00:03:46.89\00:03:48.22 in His name we pray and for His sake, amen. 00:03:48.26\00:03:50.26 Again, always our encouragement always is 00:03:53.50\00:03:55.13 make sure you have pencil and paper, 00:03:55.16\00:03:56.77 you have pencil and paper, you can jot these things down 00:03:56.80\00:03:59.90 because you'll notice 00:03:59.93\00:04:01.37 today our time is a little bit shorter than normal. 00:04:01.40\00:04:03.71 So we'll move as quickly as we can. 00:04:03.74\00:04:05.91 But try to, you know, go through the things 00:04:05.94\00:04:08.28 that's necessary as it's kind of building blocks 00:04:08.31\00:04:10.91 so that we can learn what the Word of God says. 00:04:10.95\00:04:13.21 I'm going to invite you to take your Bible. 00:04:13.25\00:04:16.18 This is very, very important 00:04:16.22\00:04:17.55 because when you talk about loss, 00:04:17.59\00:04:19.95 the one thing that first came across my mind 00:04:19.99\00:04:22.26 and I think would come across your mind also 00:04:22.29\00:04:24.36 is in the Book of Job. 00:04:24.39\00:04:26.29 Job suffered what? Loss. 00:04:26.33\00:04:29.16 And a lot of loss. 00:04:29.20\00:04:30.53 And so if we just look at it quickly today 00:04:30.57\00:04:32.23 and not spend a lot of time on it. 00:04:32.27\00:04:33.87 But I'm going to read several verses 00:04:33.90\00:04:35.54 I think it's imperative. 00:04:35.57\00:04:37.37 Since our subject is living with loss, 00:04:37.41\00:04:40.24 let's look and approach it the way that Job did. 00:04:40.28\00:04:43.51 You know, there's a lot of message 00:04:43.55\00:04:45.05 that have been spoken on this subject. 00:04:45.08\00:04:46.61 But let's just notice, Job Chapter 1, Job Chapter 1, 00:04:46.65\00:04:51.35 I'm going to start reading with verse 13. 00:04:51.39\00:04:54.16 And a lot of verses we could read 00:04:54.19\00:04:55.56 but we're going to do with 13 and onward 00:04:55.59\00:04:57.79 because this shows what happened to Job 00:04:57.83\00:05:01.36 in just evidently a matter of moments. 00:05:01.40\00:05:04.83 Sometime we have one little thing, 00:05:04.87\00:05:06.80 we hit our thumb with a hammer or stump our toe 00:05:06.84\00:05:09.97 and we're ready to give up, 00:05:10.01\00:05:12.41 you know, throw our religion out 00:05:12.44\00:05:13.98 and just go our different ways. 00:05:14.01\00:05:15.74 But look what this man went through 00:05:15.78\00:05:17.58 and let's examine 00:05:17.61\00:05:19.15 and we pray that it will help us. 00:05:19.18\00:05:20.98 So in Job Chapter 1 beginning with verse 13. 00:05:21.02\00:05:25.25 Here's what the Bible says, the Bible says, 00:05:25.29\00:05:26.99 "And there was a day 00:05:27.02\00:05:28.79 when his sons and his daughters 00:05:28.82\00:05:30.36 were eating and drinking and wine 00:05:30.39\00:05:33.46 in their eldest brother's house." 00:05:33.50\00:05:36.36 I might just mention here quickly, 00:05:36.40\00:05:38.23 I think maybe his sons and daughters 00:05:38.27\00:05:39.97 did this quite often. 00:05:40.00\00:05:41.67 I'm just going to throw that out to you, 00:05:41.70\00:05:43.04 you can throw it back if you want to. 00:05:43.07\00:05:45.11 Because later on we won't have chance to read it. 00:05:45.14\00:05:47.54 But Job as he knew that they were eating and drinking, 00:05:47.58\00:05:50.88 and nothing wrong with just eating and drinking, 00:05:50.91\00:05:52.38 but maybe a little celebrating going on, 00:05:52.41\00:05:54.05 maybe a little too much. 00:05:54.08\00:05:55.88 But what happened was Job was making sacrifices for them. 00:05:55.92\00:06:00.42 He said, just in case they sinned, 00:06:00.46\00:06:03.09 there was something that was going on. 00:06:03.12\00:06:04.89 And so he was making some sacrifices 00:06:04.93\00:06:06.73 and asking God to forgive them 00:06:06.76\00:06:08.46 and to get them on the right path. 00:06:08.50\00:06:10.40 So there they were eating and drinking 00:06:10.43\00:06:12.30 in their eldest son's home. 00:06:12.33\00:06:13.67 Now notice what happened, 00:06:13.70\00:06:15.54 "Then there came a messenger unto Job." 00:06:15.57\00:06:19.27 And notice, this messenger, 00:06:19.31\00:06:20.64 "He said, 'The oxen were plowing, 00:06:20.68\00:06:23.38 and they asses feeding beside them.'" 00:06:23.41\00:06:26.01 So you had some oxen very valuable, 00:06:26.05\00:06:30.19 you had some like donkeys then 00:06:30.22\00:06:32.85 and there was 500, he had 500 oxen, 00:06:32.89\00:06:37.66 he had 500 donkeys. 00:06:37.69\00:06:40.60 And notice what this man said, 00:06:40.63\00:06:42.33 "They were feeding and all of a sudden, 00:06:42.36\00:06:43.87 verse 15," and the Sabeans or the..." 00:06:43.90\00:06:47.34 These here could be descendants of Kush. 00:06:47.37\00:06:50.94 These could have been descendants, 00:06:50.97\00:06:52.31 a tribe they came down on them. 00:06:52.34\00:06:54.74 Notice what happened, 00:06:54.78\00:06:56.11 "Fell on them, and took them away, 00:06:56.14\00:06:57.95 yea, they have slain the servants 00:06:57.98\00:06:59.98 with the edge of the sword, 00:07:00.02\00:07:01.98 and I only am escaped alone to tell thee." 00:07:02.02\00:07:06.76 Interesting here if it... 00:07:06.79\00:07:08.12 Do we believe that the enemy was the one behind this? 00:07:08.16\00:07:11.03 Absolutely, but notice 00:07:11.06\00:07:12.63 even the enemy left one person alive 00:07:12.66\00:07:16.53 so that he could tell the bad news, 00:07:16.56\00:07:18.70 he wanted to go into detail of what happened, 00:07:18.73\00:07:21.00 he wanted to know 00:07:21.04\00:07:22.37 because not only was Job wealthy in material things, 00:07:22.40\00:07:24.91 but also in servants or people who worked with him, 00:07:24.94\00:07:27.61 his household was huge. 00:07:27.64\00:07:29.64 One of the richest man 00:07:29.68\00:07:31.01 as it were at that point in time. 00:07:31.05\00:07:32.55 And so the enemy let one live 00:07:32.58\00:07:35.45 so he could run back and tell Job, 00:07:35.48\00:07:37.35 he said, "Man, you just lost 500 oxen. 00:07:37.39\00:07:40.26 You just lost 500 donkeys. 00:07:40.29\00:07:42.12 And all of the servants who were out there, 00:07:42.16\00:07:44.16 your workers, maybe part of your household. 00:07:44.19\00:07:46.80 They're all gone, I'm the only one left." 00:07:46.83\00:07:51.03 Well, that would startle some of us here, want to say, 00:07:51.07\00:07:53.60 we start counting right quick with our calculator. 00:07:53.64\00:07:56.44 Whoo, my that's so much ahead of all this right here. 00:07:56.47\00:07:59.07 But all of a sudden he didn't have time 00:07:59.11\00:08:00.44 to even do that. 00:08:00.48\00:08:01.81 He didn't have time for even soak into his brain 00:08:01.84\00:08:03.88 because you'll notice what happened. 00:08:03.91\00:08:05.61 Verse 16, "While he was yet," what? 00:08:05.65\00:08:08.52 "While he was yet speaking there came another, 00:08:08.55\00:08:11.45 and said, The fire of God is fallen from," where? 00:08:11.49\00:08:15.29 "From heaven, hath burned up the sheep, 00:08:15.32\00:08:18.53 and the servants, 00:08:18.56\00:08:20.63 consumed them, and I only am escaped to tell thee." 00:08:20.66\00:08:24.13 Once again a disaster and what? 00:08:24.17\00:08:26.33 Only one left, the enemy lead off of him 00:08:26.37\00:08:29.20 so he could go back and try to crush Job. 00:08:29.24\00:08:33.21 Remember, the sheep now, there was 7,000 sheep 00:08:33.24\00:08:38.41 that were destroyed just like that 00:08:38.45\00:08:40.85 and it doesn't say how many human beings 00:08:40.88\00:08:43.92 and so one right on top of the other, verse 17. 00:08:43.95\00:08:47.56 And notice, "While this man was still speaking 00:08:47.59\00:08:50.89 there came," what?" 00:08:50.93\00:08:53.03 There came another, and said, "The Chaldeans made out, 00:08:53.06\00:08:57.80 notice it says, three bands, and fell upon the camels," 00:08:57.83\00:09:01.90 which were 3,000 camels, notice, 00:09:01.94\00:09:05.41 "and have carried them away, yea, and slain," 00:09:05.44\00:09:07.48 here again what, the servants, everybody was there, 00:09:07.51\00:09:11.18 "with the edge of the sword, and I'm the only one he said 00:09:11.21\00:09:13.62 that has come along to tell you escaped." 00:09:13.65\00:09:16.25 Now notice in verse 18, "While he was yet speaking..." 00:09:16.28\00:09:20.62 Now that seemed to be enough, doesn't it? 00:09:20.66\00:09:22.56 Right then and there way too much. 00:09:22.59\00:09:24.39 Now he said, "While he was yet speaking, 00:09:24.43\00:09:25.86 there came also another one, and said, oh, oh, 00:09:25.89\00:09:29.93 notice how it progressively it seemed to get worse. 00:09:29.96\00:09:32.53 It said, "Thy son, and thy daughters 00:09:32.57\00:09:34.77 were eating and drinking." 00:09:34.80\00:09:36.57 And remember, he had what? 00:09:36.60\00:09:38.74 He had seven sons and three daughters, 00:09:38.77\00:09:42.64 ten children. 00:09:42.68\00:09:45.91 And so the enemy wasn't happy 00:09:45.95\00:09:47.28 with just taking the animals and the servants, 00:09:47.32\00:09:49.52 he went right as close as he could get to Job. 00:09:49.55\00:09:52.12 And there's a reason we'll look at that 00:09:52.15\00:09:53.49 he didn't get to Job. 00:09:53.52\00:09:54.86 But notice, the Bible said, 00:09:54.89\00:09:56.22 "Thy sons and daughters were eating and drinking wine 00:09:56.26\00:09:58.09 in thy elders brother's house. 00:09:58.13\00:09:59.53 And, behold, there came a great wind 00:09:59.56\00:10:01.33 from the wilderness, 00:10:01.36\00:10:03.10 and smote the four corners of the house, 00:10:03.13\00:10:06.10 and it fell upon the young men, and they are dead, 00:10:06.13\00:10:09.77 and I am escaped alone to tell thee." 00:10:09.80\00:10:13.74 Four calamities right on the neck of the other 00:10:13.78\00:10:16.88 before you could get the words out 00:10:16.91\00:10:18.58 something else happened to Job. 00:10:18.61\00:10:21.95 And then the bottom line or the straw would be, 00:10:21.98\00:10:25.05 you've lost seven sons, and three daughters, 00:10:25.09\00:10:28.49 ten children at the same moment, 00:10:28.52\00:10:30.89 plus your everything 00:10:30.93\00:10:32.39 you've worked for all your life. 00:10:32.43\00:10:34.03 Everything was gone, the bank account was drained. 00:10:34.06\00:10:37.17 We're talking about here living with loss. 00:10:37.20\00:10:38.97 This man had some severe loss. 00:10:39.00\00:10:41.67 But notice, notice what the Bible said there 00:10:41.70\00:10:44.21 in verse 20. 00:10:44.24\00:10:46.41 Soon as Job heard this, 00:10:46.44\00:10:47.94 I guess he rolled over and said, 00:10:47.98\00:10:49.31 "I've had enough, I'm going to curse God." 00:10:49.34\00:10:51.21 No, look what the Bible said. 00:10:51.25\00:10:53.38 "Then Job arose, and he rent his mantle, 00:10:53.42\00:10:56.48 he shaved his head, fell down on the ground." 00:10:56.52\00:10:59.45 And what did do? 00:10:59.49\00:11:00.89 The Bible says, "He worshiped, 00:11:00.92\00:11:04.13 'And said, Naked came I out of my mother's womb, 00:11:04.16\00:11:07.23 and naked shall I return thither: 00:11:07.26\00:11:09.66 And the Lord gave, and the Lord hath taken away, 00:11:09.70\00:11:12.50 blessed be the name of the Lord." 00:11:12.53\00:11:15.00 Talking about learning to live or living with loss. 00:11:15.04\00:11:19.41 He said, "I came in with nothing, 00:11:19.44\00:11:21.04 and I'm going to go out with nothing. 00:11:21.08\00:11:22.84 And I say that to each one of you. 00:11:22.88\00:11:24.58 Everyone that's in hearing or viewing is you may come in, 00:11:24.61\00:11:27.32 you come in the world, right? 00:11:27.35\00:11:28.68 You come in naked, you don't have anything really, 00:11:28.72\00:11:30.62 you may work all your life, you've accumulated a lot, 00:11:30.65\00:11:33.02 but when you leave, 00:11:33.05\00:11:34.39 you're going to leave with nothing. 00:11:34.42\00:11:35.76 You're not going to have anything, 00:11:35.79\00:11:37.13 you can't take it with you, 00:11:37.16\00:11:38.49 all you take with you is certainly is your character. 00:11:38.53\00:11:40.06 And man what a character we see here, 00:11:40.10\00:11:42.50 a character that was been developed over the years 00:11:42.53\00:11:45.20 of his relationship with God. 00:11:45.23\00:11:47.67 Notice that and he said, notice what he said here, 00:11:47.70\00:11:50.41 "In all this Job sinned," what? 00:11:50.44\00:11:55.11 Nor charged God foolishly." 00:11:55.14\00:12:00.78 Think about it. 00:12:00.82\00:12:02.15 He just didn't get carried away and said, 00:12:02.18\00:12:03.65 "Well, this is the way God's going to do me, 00:12:03.69\00:12:05.19 then I'm just not going to have anything 00:12:05.22\00:12:06.65 to do with Him." 00:12:06.69\00:12:08.12 He didn't do that at all. 00:12:08.16\00:12:09.86 I came in with nothing, 00:12:09.89\00:12:11.23 I'm going to go out with nothing. 00:12:11.26\00:12:13.13 And blessed be the name of God. 00:12:13.16\00:12:16.10 Very interesting words 00:12:16.13\00:12:17.83 that which he had to offer there. 00:12:17.87\00:12:19.83 Now notice, you say, okay, there was a loss, 00:12:19.87\00:12:22.37 oh, indescribable, 00:12:22.40\00:12:23.97 most of us couldn't describe it. 00:12:24.01\00:12:25.34 We would have a very difficult time, 00:12:25.37\00:12:26.98 God forbid, to be one child 00:12:27.01\00:12:28.88 and with our grandma, or a mother, 00:12:28.91\00:12:30.65 or dad whatever it might be, our wife, our companion, 00:12:30.68\00:12:33.01 it seems to too big a burden to bear. 00:12:33.05\00:12:37.35 But here all of this at once, turn with me, 00:12:37.39\00:12:39.79 you're there in Job just to Chapter 6 00:12:39.82\00:12:41.66 just quickly four verses I want you to look on. 00:12:41.69\00:12:44.26 Tell me here as we read it that Job was not hurting. 00:12:44.29\00:12:48.00 Tell me he was not experiencing this thing called loss. 00:12:48.03\00:12:51.70 Notice, Job 6:1 reading on. 00:12:51.73\00:12:56.37 He said, "Oh that my grief were thoroughly weighed." 00:12:56.40\00:13:00.38 He's wanting can you weigh... 00:13:00.41\00:13:03.01 Think about it, can you weigh it? 00:13:03.04\00:13:04.55 Can it be weighed out? 00:13:04.58\00:13:06.41 I don't know. 00:13:06.45\00:13:07.78 Notice, "Thoroughly weighed, 00:13:07.82\00:13:09.32 and my calamity laid in the balances thereof. 00:13:09.35\00:13:13.79 For now..." 00:13:13.82\00:13:15.16 Notice this, "For now it would be heavier 00:13:15.19\00:13:18.59 than the sand of the sea: 00:13:18.63\00:13:22.36 therefore my words are swallowed up. 00:13:22.40\00:13:27.50 For the arrows of the Almighty are within me, 00:13:27.54\00:13:30.77 the poison whereof drinketh up my spirit," 00:13:30.81\00:13:34.48 notice, "the terrors of God do set themselves 00:13:34.51\00:13:37.85 in array against me." 00:13:37.88\00:13:39.98 Is it possible that he was hurting, 00:13:40.02\00:13:44.22 experiencing loss, if my grief could be weighed? 00:13:44.25\00:13:49.89 Have you ever been through some time like that, 00:13:49.92\00:13:51.96 that you're wondering, that you're hurting so bad, 00:13:51.99\00:13:54.00 you'd say, "If I could just weigh out my grief?" 00:13:54.03\00:13:56.63 I just put it on a scale and I try to weigh, 00:13:56.67\00:13:58.43 you know, how heavy would it be? 00:13:58.47\00:13:59.80 How could he go through this? 00:14:02.87\00:14:06.27 He said, "It's heavier than the sand of the sea." 00:14:06.31\00:14:12.01 More than he could almost possibly take 00:14:12.05\00:14:16.72 living with loss. 00:14:16.75\00:14:19.39 The Book of Ecclesiastes 3:6, 00:14:19.42\00:14:24.49 there's always wisdom 00:14:24.53\00:14:25.86 as we look in the Book of Ecclesiastes. 00:14:25.89\00:14:28.50 And it simply says here that a... 00:14:28.53\00:14:30.30 "It's a time to get..." 00:14:30.33\00:14:31.93 That means there's a time to gather 00:14:31.97\00:14:34.94 and there is a time to lose. 00:14:34.97\00:14:37.77 Simply put the beginning of that verse. 00:14:37.81\00:14:39.81 There's a time that we get in life. 00:14:39.84\00:14:41.98 There's a time that we gather in life, 00:14:42.01\00:14:43.91 but there also comes a time in life that we lose. 00:14:43.95\00:14:48.02 That's exactly what Job had said, wasn't it? 00:14:48.05\00:14:49.78 It's time that he had come in with nothing yet, 00:14:49.82\00:14:51.55 but he had lot 00:14:51.59\00:14:52.92 and then all of a sudden it's taken away. 00:14:52.95\00:14:55.32 Now, what does it mean to lose something? 00:14:55.36\00:14:58.73 I mean, that's kind of maybe silly question you think about, 00:14:58.76\00:15:01.60 but what does it mean to lose something? 00:15:01.63\00:15:03.93 You know, Paul made it very clear 00:15:03.97\00:15:06.33 in Philippians 3:8, 00:15:06.37\00:15:09.17 he said, "I have suffered the loss of all things." 00:15:09.20\00:15:14.48 I mean, that's quite a statement to me. 00:15:14.51\00:15:17.81 Man of God says, 00:15:17.85\00:15:19.18 "I have suffered all the loss of all things." 00:15:19.21\00:15:23.65 Is anyone here... 00:15:23.69\00:15:25.99 Has anyone ever lost something? 00:15:26.02\00:15:29.02 Everyday I'm losing something, I don't know about you, 00:15:29.06\00:15:32.93 whether you misplace that or whatever. 00:15:32.96\00:15:34.66 But we're in a kind of constant searching mode 00:15:34.70\00:15:38.00 anymore around here. 00:15:38.03\00:15:39.37 We're always looking for something, 00:15:39.40\00:15:41.27 we've lost something, we've misplaced something. 00:15:41.30\00:15:44.57 And the lost can be devastating. 00:15:44.61\00:15:48.84 Then there are different kinds of loss. 00:15:48.88\00:15:51.55 For example, someone runs in and said, "I've lost my keys." 00:15:51.58\00:15:56.48 Anybody whoever lost their keys? 00:15:56.52\00:15:57.85 Oh, yeah. 00:15:57.89\00:16:00.42 I think they have a deal now, right? 00:16:00.46\00:16:01.96 That you can, if you lose your keys or something, 00:16:01.99\00:16:03.46 you can push, and make some noise or something, 00:16:03.49\00:16:05.69 let you know where they're at. 00:16:05.73\00:16:07.06 That's good thing. 00:16:07.10\00:16:08.70 But you could say, "I lost my keys." 00:16:08.73\00:16:10.77 And it could be a temporary loss 00:16:10.80\00:16:13.34 or it could be a permanent loss. 00:16:13.37\00:16:15.24 You may never find them again, but they're just keys. 00:16:15.27\00:16:19.57 And in the case of the keys, 00:16:19.61\00:16:21.64 there may come a time that you find them 00:16:21.68\00:16:24.75 and then everything is returned back to normal. 00:16:24.78\00:16:28.12 But there's certain kind of loss 00:16:28.15\00:16:29.48 that never returns back to normal. 00:16:29.52\00:16:34.36 Certainly things can change. 00:16:34.39\00:16:37.13 Few more examples just quickly to talk about loss. 00:16:37.16\00:16:40.10 A person can lose their temper. 00:16:40.13\00:16:43.33 It'd be nice if you lost your temper 00:16:43.37\00:16:45.43 that you'd lose it to extent you'd never find it again. 00:16:45.47\00:16:48.84 Somebody... Well, I lost of all you guys. 00:16:48.87\00:16:53.68 Wouldn't that be nice? 00:16:53.71\00:16:55.04 Well, I lost my temper 00:16:55.08\00:16:57.01 and I hope I never find it again. 00:16:57.05\00:16:59.15 Usually you means you just lost your temperament, 00:16:59.18\00:17:01.05 isn't that right for a second, 00:17:01.08\00:17:02.65 if you're not careful, a lot will come back. 00:17:02.68\00:17:04.12 But that could be one kind of loss. 00:17:04.15\00:17:06.19 And lot of times, I heard somebody say, 00:17:06.22\00:17:07.76 "Have you lost your mind?" 00:17:07.79\00:17:09.72 Have you ever heard that? 00:17:09.76\00:17:11.09 They said that to me a few times? 00:17:11.13\00:17:12.59 Have you lost your mind? 00:17:12.63\00:17:13.96 Most often I'd say, "Yes, that right?" 00:17:14.00\00:17:16.70 Some people get so panic over. We lost the game. 00:17:16.73\00:17:20.30 We lost the game. 00:17:20.34\00:17:22.30 It's like the world had come to an end. 00:17:22.34\00:17:25.44 Some come home at night 00:17:25.47\00:17:26.81 and they have a little pink slip. 00:17:26.84\00:17:28.18 They say, "Oh, honey, I've lost my job." 00:17:28.21\00:17:30.38 There's different kinds of loss and affects us differently. 00:17:30.41\00:17:35.42 You know, some of us can lose time or waste time, 00:17:35.45\00:17:39.95 but it's still a loss. 00:17:39.99\00:17:41.92 But then we have the bottom line, 00:17:41.96\00:17:43.29 you might say the loss of life. 00:17:43.32\00:17:46.86 The loss of life, how do you replace that? 00:17:46.90\00:17:49.96 But again, any kind of loss can be damaging, 00:17:50.00\00:17:53.40 it can be hurtful, it can be lasting. 00:17:53.44\00:17:58.24 How do we deal with it as God's children? 00:17:58.27\00:18:00.64 There must be a way to deal with this thing called loss. 00:18:00.68\00:18:03.61 No one wants something that you love to be lost 00:18:03.65\00:18:07.18 or separated from. 00:18:07.22\00:18:08.75 It can affect every area of your life. 00:18:12.09\00:18:14.56 And that means mentally, physically, spiritually, 00:18:14.59\00:18:16.83 and financially. 00:18:16.86\00:18:18.43 Because many people say, "I've lost it all, 00:18:18.46\00:18:20.23 everything I've worked for, my 401k, whatever it might be, 00:18:20.26\00:18:24.63 my savings." 00:18:24.67\00:18:26.00 There are millions who got up, 00:18:26.03\00:18:27.37 you know, a few years ago that had money in the bank, 00:18:27.40\00:18:30.61 million dollars and more in their savings, 00:18:30.64\00:18:32.84 and it was gone overnight. 00:18:32.87\00:18:35.11 Everything that mom and dad had worked for and grown old. 00:18:35.14\00:18:38.51 And that's all that they were counting on. 00:18:38.55\00:18:40.12 It was gone, it was lost. They couldn't get it back. 00:18:40.15\00:18:44.35 It affected them in a lot of different ways. 00:18:44.39\00:18:46.62 Some committed suicide, 00:18:46.65\00:18:49.16 others were never the same again, 00:18:49.19\00:18:51.36 or others who were 75 and 80 years old, 00:18:51.39\00:18:53.80 went to McDonald's or Walmart 00:18:53.83\00:18:57.57 to try to find a job so they can eat. 00:18:57.60\00:19:01.84 Was at work for years, and hoping to be able to retire 00:19:01.87\00:19:04.37 and have enough to live on. 00:19:04.41\00:19:06.17 Dealing with losses, something as I mentioned before 00:19:06.21\00:19:08.88 that we all must face in this life, 00:19:08.91\00:19:11.21 for one time or the other 00:19:11.25\00:19:12.58 we were going to have to face it. 00:19:12.61\00:19:13.95 So how do we deal with it? 00:19:13.98\00:19:15.32 How is it that we deal with loss? 00:19:15.35\00:19:18.22 Well, there are others, too many different ways, 00:19:18.25\00:19:19.92 but I'm going to suggest as I always do, 00:19:19.95\00:19:22.76 and you would do the same is we go to the Word of God. 00:19:22.79\00:19:25.89 And we find out how to deal with loss 00:19:25.93\00:19:28.26 because it's not easy. 00:19:28.30\00:19:30.37 It's a terrible, lonely situation 00:19:30.40\00:19:32.73 when we lose something that we care about, 00:19:32.77\00:19:35.00 and that we love. 00:19:35.04\00:19:36.77 Is there a way that we can something 00:19:36.81\00:19:38.14 we can find in the Word of God 00:19:38.17\00:19:39.64 that helps me to deal with loss? 00:19:39.67\00:19:41.84 Is there something in the Word of God 00:19:41.88\00:19:43.35 that can help me to cope, you see with loss. 00:19:43.38\00:19:46.72 Or is there something in the Word of God 00:19:46.75\00:19:49.15 that can help me to defeat loss, 00:19:49.18\00:19:51.95 completely reverse it. 00:19:51.99\00:19:54.46 How many here are familiar with Fanny Crosby? 00:19:54.49\00:19:59.23 She is what? 00:19:59.26\00:20:00.66 We talked about a little while ago. 00:20:00.70\00:20:02.06 She's a prolific songwriter, a blind young lady, 00:20:02.10\00:20:07.24 is written so many of our songs that we love 00:20:07.27\00:20:09.87 and that we grew up on, very gifted. 00:20:09.90\00:20:12.47 The Holy Spirit had to be working 00:20:12.51\00:20:13.91 through this young lady. 00:20:13.94\00:20:16.18 She was asked one time by, we know this name very well, 00:20:16.21\00:20:19.98 Dwight L. Moody. 00:20:20.02\00:20:21.78 She was asked by Dwight L. Moody said, 00:20:21.82\00:20:23.39 "Could you share some of your Christian experiences 00:20:23.42\00:20:27.26 with the group that they had there. 00:20:27.29\00:20:29.52 Share a little bit about your faith? 00:20:29.56\00:20:32.29 Share a little bit what keeps you going 00:20:32.33\00:20:34.60 through different kinds of experiences of life 00:20:34.63\00:20:37.47 and maybe some heartache." 00:20:37.50\00:20:40.64 She said, "You know, there is one hymn, 00:20:40.67\00:20:44.04 there's one hymn that I've written 00:20:44.07\00:20:46.81 that I've never published, 00:20:46.84\00:20:48.24 published many, many, many, many hymns, 00:20:48.28\00:20:50.28 but there's one hymn that I keep for myself 00:20:50.31\00:20:53.18 that I've never published. 00:20:53.21\00:20:55.65 And I call it my soul's poem. 00:20:55.68\00:20:59.85 This is my soul." 00:20:59.89\00:21:01.22 See, everybody is a little different, 00:21:01.26\00:21:02.62 and they have something that can help them 00:21:02.66\00:21:04.19 during their time of loss, 00:21:04.23\00:21:05.56 and said, "This is my soul's poem." 00:21:05.59\00:21:09.06 Sometime when I'm troubled, and sometime when I'm sad, 00:21:09.10\00:21:12.20 and once I'm going through a loss, 00:21:12.23\00:21:14.30 I bring this to my mind, 00:21:14.34\00:21:16.67 and I go over these words, it brings comfort to my heart. 00:21:16.71\00:21:21.78 It makes me happy when I've been sad, 00:21:21.81\00:21:24.41 just these words, 00:21:24.45\00:21:25.78 and then she began to recite it, 00:21:25.81\00:21:28.32 she began to... 00:21:28.35\00:21:29.68 And those who were there, she was reciting this, 00:21:29.72\00:21:32.62 tears fill the eyes of many who were there, 00:21:32.65\00:21:35.56 tears were streaming down the cheek 00:21:35.59\00:21:37.56 as she simply recited this song, 00:21:37.59\00:21:40.53 and some of you will know, and it starts out like this. 00:21:40.56\00:21:43.13 "Some day the silver cord will break, 00:21:43.16\00:21:47.47 and I no more and now shall sing. 00:21:47.50\00:21:51.61 But, O the joy when I shall awake 00:21:51.64\00:21:54.61 within the palace of the King. 00:21:54.64\00:21:57.78 And I shall see Him face to face, 00:21:57.81\00:22:01.72 and tell the story saved by grace." 00:22:01.75\00:22:06.35 What a beautiful song inspired that 00:22:06.39\00:22:09.66 she didn't want to publish at that time, 00:22:09.69\00:22:11.86 because that was her soul's poem. 00:22:11.89\00:22:15.06 And she could recite that and just think with me, 00:22:15.10\00:22:18.73 she was about 25 years of age, 00:22:18.77\00:22:21.50 just a young lady when this took place. 00:22:21.54\00:22:23.97 But at 25 years of age and blind young lady, 00:22:24.01\00:22:27.84 she realized in that song 00:22:27.88\00:22:30.38 that the first face that she would ever see 00:22:30.41\00:22:32.81 would be that of Jesus, 00:22:32.85\00:22:34.85 that gave her hope and gave her such encouragement. 00:22:34.88\00:22:38.69 The Bible encourages us, it's an encourager. 00:22:38.72\00:22:42.42 In the Book of Psalms 147:3. 00:22:42.46\00:22:47.53 Psalms 147:3, quickly, let's look at these verses. 00:22:47.56\00:22:50.93 Time's going by quickly. Notice what the Bible says. 00:22:50.97\00:22:53.84 Psalms what? 147:3. 00:22:53.87\00:22:56.60 Notice this, two lines, 00:22:56.64\00:22:58.24 "He healeth the broken in heart, 00:22:58.27\00:23:02.44 he bindeth up their wounds." 00:23:02.48\00:23:06.21 How powerful those words are. 00:23:06.25\00:23:10.15 But we have to reach out in faith and claim those 00:23:10.19\00:23:12.52 because He said it, 00:23:12.55\00:23:14.12 when you hurt, you've got to say, 00:23:14.16\00:23:15.62 "I'm hurting. 00:23:15.66\00:23:17.89 I'm broken. I need to be healed. 00:23:17.93\00:23:20.23 I need a touch from the Master." 00:23:20.26\00:23:22.86 Look at it closer, 00:23:22.90\00:23:24.23 just those words for just a moment. 00:23:24.27\00:23:26.00 It starts out, "He healeth..." 00:23:26.03\00:23:28.97 I thought how wonderful that is it. 00:23:29.00\00:23:30.87 You know what that means really in the Hebrew? 00:23:30.91\00:23:33.48 He's going to heal. He healeth positive. 00:23:33.51\00:23:36.78 He's going to heal. He's going to cure. 00:23:36.81\00:23:40.08 He's going to repair me. He's going to repair you. 00:23:40.12\00:23:45.55 He's going to make me healthful again. 00:23:45.59\00:23:49.29 These are words we need to hang on to. 00:23:49.32\00:23:51.83 He's going to repair. He's going to heal my defects. 00:23:51.86\00:23:56.16 And notice the other word and my hurts, 00:23:56.20\00:23:59.10 isn't that beautiful? 00:23:59.13\00:24:00.47 See, that's the promise in He healeth. 00:24:00.50\00:24:02.97 Then it goes in all these directions. 00:24:03.00\00:24:04.51 I'm going to heal you where you're hurt. 00:24:04.54\00:24:07.04 I'm going to heal those defects. 00:24:07.08\00:24:08.81 I'm going to heal that which is broken 00:24:08.84\00:24:11.08 that needs to be repaired, 00:24:11.11\00:24:12.48 because God doesn't want us to be in that kind of shape. 00:24:12.51\00:24:16.08 I'm going to cure you. 00:24:16.12\00:24:17.45 He says, "Therefore, He healeth the broken." 00:24:17.49\00:24:19.72 And notice that word in the Hebrew 00:24:19.75\00:24:21.76 where you studied just a little bit. 00:24:21.79\00:24:23.46 It talks about when broken, God's looking at us and said, 00:24:23.49\00:24:26.29 "Kenny, you're in pieces. 00:24:26.33\00:24:28.56 You're in pieces." 00:24:28.60\00:24:30.00 See it's different if you have something broken, 00:24:30.03\00:24:31.63 there's one or two little pieces. 00:24:31.67\00:24:33.10 But when you have piece of glass or something, 00:24:33.13\00:24:34.57 and it shattered, 00:24:34.60\00:24:36.20 they say there's a million pieces 00:24:36.24\00:24:37.57 laying out through there. 00:24:37.61\00:24:38.94 God understands that, but He said, 00:24:38.97\00:24:40.38 "I know that you're in pieces, but I can heal you. 00:24:40.41\00:24:44.88 I know, I'm going to help you 00:24:44.91\00:24:46.31 because I know you've been crushed." 00:24:46.35\00:24:49.18 If you've ever went through some kind of loss, 00:24:49.22\00:24:50.59 sometime you feel like there's a heavy weight on you 00:24:50.62\00:24:53.02 that you've been crushed. 00:24:53.05\00:24:54.39 Those who have lost loved ones very close to them. 00:24:54.42\00:24:56.62 You feel a crazy heart to even breathe some time. 00:24:56.66\00:25:00.20 You feel like you've been crushed, 00:25:00.23\00:25:01.56 you're in 1,000 pieces. 00:25:01.60\00:25:03.53 And God said, "I'm going to heal you 00:25:03.57\00:25:05.70 because you're broken. 00:25:05.73\00:25:07.17 I'm going to heal that." 00:25:07.20\00:25:08.54 Notice the next word is heart. That certainly is the mind. 00:25:08.57\00:25:11.94 God says, "I'm going to heal the inner man." 00:25:11.97\00:25:14.61 Because that's where, sometimes it doesn't show 00:25:14.64\00:25:16.01 so much on the outside, 00:25:16.04\00:25:17.68 but on the inside, that's where God is... 00:25:17.71\00:25:20.28 He could look right inside of man. 00:25:20.32\00:25:22.18 He sees that you're broken. 00:25:22.22\00:25:23.59 He sees you're in a 1,000 pieces. 00:25:23.62\00:25:25.62 He need, sees that you need to be repaired. 00:25:25.65\00:25:27.92 He sees you're going through some kind of sorrow 00:25:27.96\00:25:31.26 and heartache. 00:25:31.29\00:25:32.63 And he says, "You know what? 00:25:32.66\00:25:34.86 I realized that inside is your seat in your mind, 00:25:34.90\00:25:37.73 the seat of emotions." 00:25:37.77\00:25:39.63 And what you're going through. Why? 00:25:39.67\00:25:41.30 Because He's been there. 00:25:41.34\00:25:43.30 He says, "I'm going to work on the heart, 00:25:43.34\00:25:45.64 I'm going to work on the conscience. 00:25:45.67\00:25:47.84 I'm going to work on your understanding 00:25:47.88\00:25:50.58 to help you to get through this time of need." 00:25:50.61\00:25:52.68 And then He says, 00:25:52.71\00:25:54.05 "Now I understand all of these things." 00:25:54.08\00:25:55.68 Now, somebody, "Now I need to bind you." 00:25:55.72\00:25:59.75 You know, if you've ever broken arm or a leg or head anything, 00:25:59.79\00:26:02.79 you know what? 00:26:02.82\00:26:04.16 It's nice to have the thing reset. 00:26:04.19\00:26:06.49 You've got to have it reset 00:26:06.53\00:26:07.86 in order for it to be normal again. 00:26:07.90\00:26:09.96 And then it can even be, by the way, a broken leg or arm 00:26:10.00\00:26:12.73 can be stronger than it was before, 00:26:12.77\00:26:14.50 by the way it heals. 00:26:14.54\00:26:16.07 But if you have someone just to set it 00:26:16.10\00:26:17.91 and it's not bound properly, are you still with me? 00:26:17.94\00:26:22.41 If you don't bind it, or put it in a cast properly 00:26:22.44\00:26:24.98 and keep it in the position that needs to be in, 00:26:25.01\00:26:27.28 you're going to be in worse shape than you were 00:26:27.32\00:26:28.78 and you never heal right. 00:26:28.82\00:26:31.65 God said, "Now I know what you're going through. 00:26:31.69\00:26:33.59 Now I'm going to bind you." 00:26:33.62\00:26:35.82 Notice that, "I'm going to bandage you up 00:26:35.86\00:26:38.33 is what that word means. 00:26:38.36\00:26:39.69 I'm going to bandage you up. 00:26:39.73\00:26:41.43 I'm going to make some ties so that keeps you in place, 00:26:41.46\00:26:46.03 so that you heal better than you ever were before." 00:26:46.07\00:26:48.50 How wonderful that is. 00:26:48.54\00:26:49.94 I'm going to bind those wounds. 00:26:49.97\00:26:52.31 That simply means again in Hebrews, 00:26:52.34\00:26:54.14 "I'm going to bind your sorrow. 00:26:54.18\00:26:56.18 I'm going to bind your hurt. I'm going to bind your pain. 00:26:56.21\00:27:00.18 I'm going to bind your injury. 00:27:00.22\00:27:02.38 I'm going to bind that grief that you have. 00:27:02.42\00:27:04.99 And I'm going to turn it into joy." 00:27:05.02\00:27:06.99 That seems almost impossible. 00:27:07.02\00:27:08.46 I know, but God said it can happen, 00:27:08.49\00:27:09.89 and it can happen. 00:27:09.92\00:27:11.96 Desire of Ages, page 329 says this. 00:27:11.99\00:27:16.23 Desire of Ages, 329, 00:27:16.26\00:27:18.53 "Whatever your anxieties and your trial..." 00:27:18.57\00:27:21.54 So I'm appealing to each one, 00:27:21.57\00:27:24.27 "Whatever your anxieties and..." 00:27:24.31\00:27:27.34 Notice this, "And your trials, 00:27:27.38\00:27:29.41 spread out your case before the Lord." 00:27:29.44\00:27:32.88 Now it doesn't mean bring it to Him in a box, 00:27:32.91\00:27:34.62 and just leave it there, and leave the lid on it. 00:27:34.65\00:27:36.42 He said, "Spread it out 00:27:36.45\00:27:38.69 everything that you're going through." 00:27:38.72\00:27:40.22 He already knows it all. 00:27:40.26\00:27:41.62 But it's good for us to lay it out 00:27:41.66\00:27:43.53 and tell Him this is a way I feel. 00:27:43.56\00:27:46.19 He knows that it's good for you. 00:27:46.23\00:27:48.16 It's good for me to be able to tell it to Him. 00:27:48.20\00:27:51.23 Spread it out before the Lord. Notice this. 00:27:51.27\00:27:53.94 "Well, I've got a heavy burden God, 00:27:53.97\00:27:56.10 it's so heavy." 00:27:56.14\00:27:57.47 Notice what Desire of Ages says, "The heavier..." 00:27:57.51\00:28:00.81 So you think you have 00:28:00.84\00:28:02.18 the heaviest burden in the world. 00:28:02.21\00:28:03.55 Well, listen up, "The heavier your burden, 00:28:03.58\00:28:05.95 the more blessed the rest." 00:28:05.98\00:28:09.18 The heavier what? 00:28:09.22\00:28:10.55 Your burden, the more blessed your rest. 00:28:10.59\00:28:13.92 How beautiful that is in casting them up 00:28:13.96\00:28:16.79 on the burden bearer. 00:28:16.83\00:28:20.26 Is he not what? He's our burden bearer. 00:28:20.30\00:28:23.10 He doesn't want you to have to carry that burden. 00:28:23.13\00:28:25.63 He doesn't want to see you crying at night. 00:28:25.67\00:28:27.90 He doesn't want to see you torn apart. 00:28:27.94\00:28:29.80 He doesn't want to see you in a 1,000 pieces. 00:28:29.84\00:28:32.51 And He said, "Let me carry it for you. 00:28:32.54\00:28:34.74 But you're going to have to come, 00:28:34.78\00:28:36.11 you're going to have to ask. 00:28:36.14\00:28:37.58 Let me bind it up. 00:28:37.61\00:28:39.81 Let me fix it up for you 00:28:39.85\00:28:41.28 those who are going through loss." 00:28:41.32\00:28:44.09 In the Book of Romans 8:18-28. 00:28:44.12\00:28:48.79 Read all those when you can. 00:28:48.82\00:28:50.16 We're going to concentrate on three or four verses 00:28:50.19\00:28:51.53 because of our time we can't do it. 00:28:51.56\00:28:53.26 But notice these verses, Romans Chapter what? 00:28:53.29\00:28:55.83 Eight, we would read through 18-28, 00:28:55.86\00:28:58.83 verse 18 note through 28 says this, 00:28:58.87\00:29:01.57 "For I reckon that the sufferings of this present time 00:29:01.60\00:29:04.61 are not worthy to be compared 00:29:04.64\00:29:06.68 with the glory which shall be revealed in us." 00:29:06.71\00:29:10.68 Who's speaking here? 00:29:10.71\00:29:12.75 We say, "Paul." Notice what it's saying. 00:29:12.78\00:29:15.15 "For I reckon that 00:29:15.18\00:29:16.52 the sufferings of this present time." 00:29:16.55\00:29:18.82 It's almost like what we go through it. 00:29:18.85\00:29:20.46 It's really not worth talking or mentioning about worthy 00:29:20.49\00:29:23.39 to compared to the glory 00:29:23.43\00:29:25.13 that one day we're going to be able to see 00:29:25.16\00:29:27.76 with the heaven, right? 00:29:27.80\00:29:29.13 We look at the suffering and things 00:29:29.16\00:29:30.50 that we go through in this life. 00:29:30.53\00:29:31.87 It's not hardly worth looking at 00:29:31.90\00:29:33.23 because of what is before us. 00:29:33.27\00:29:35.37 So we need to be looking what's before us 00:29:35.40\00:29:37.31 rather than what is behind us, or over here to the side. 00:29:37.34\00:29:41.14 The glories that await you 00:29:41.18\00:29:42.81 because this is a temporary thing. 00:29:42.84\00:29:45.41 Notice what it goes on. 00:29:45.45\00:29:46.78 It says, verse 26, 00:29:46.82\00:29:48.15 "Likewise the Spirit also helped our infirmities." 00:29:48.18\00:29:51.75 Who helps us? The Spirit. Good. 00:29:51.79\00:29:54.86 "For we know not what we should... 00:29:54.89\00:29:57.76 Yeah, should pray as we ought: 00:29:57.79\00:30:00.60 but the Spirit itself maketh intercession for us 00:30:00.63\00:30:04.00 with groanings which cannot be uttered." 00:30:04.03\00:30:07.44 Notice, even groanings is a groan is a sigh. 00:30:07.47\00:30:11.74 It has to do with... 00:30:11.77\00:30:13.61 It really means standing even close to... 00:30:13.64\00:30:15.64 When you're praying, and you're in pain, 00:30:15.68\00:30:18.01 and you trying to get through, 00:30:18.05\00:30:20.02 that's when He's the closest to you. 00:30:20.05\00:30:21.75 He standing close by you. 00:30:21.78\00:30:24.12 It's a groaning, it's like grief. 00:30:24.15\00:30:27.19 You're grieving, He's grieving with you. 00:30:27.22\00:30:29.39 When you cry, He cries with you. 00:30:29.42\00:30:31.56 You see, this is how close our Savior is to us, 00:30:31.59\00:30:34.03 as our elder brother. 00:30:34.06\00:30:35.93 Groanings that cannot be uttered. 00:30:35.96\00:30:37.30 We'll look at those close in a minute, 27. 00:30:37.33\00:30:39.33 "He that searches the heart," 00:30:39.37\00:30:40.97 that we know one that search the heart, 00:30:41.00\00:30:43.24 "Yes, the one that searches the heart knoweth 00:30:43.27\00:30:45.61 what is the mind of the Spirit, 00:30:45.64\00:30:47.41 because he maketh intercession 00:30:47.44\00:30:49.68 for the saints according to the will of God." 00:30:49.71\00:30:52.41 I'm glad we have someone, right, 00:30:52.45\00:30:53.98 making intercession for us, 00:30:54.02\00:30:55.48 according to the will of God, and not my will. 00:30:55.52\00:30:58.42 We'll be ourselves in a big mess, wouldn't we? 00:30:58.45\00:31:00.39 We turn it over to God, verse 28, 00:31:00.42\00:31:02.06 this is the one that most are familiar with 00:31:02.09\00:31:04.76 is and we know that all things do what? 00:31:04.79\00:31:08.40 Work together for good them that love God, 00:31:08.43\00:31:11.67 and then who are called according to His purpose. 00:31:11.70\00:31:15.80 All things work together for good. 00:31:15.84\00:31:17.87 And you know what? That's not easy. 00:31:17.91\00:31:19.27 People say, "Oh, well, just all things work together 00:31:19.31\00:31:21.54 when someone's died, 00:31:21.58\00:31:22.91 and someone's lost, something..." 00:31:22.94\00:31:24.41 That's not as easy 00:31:24.45\00:31:25.91 as it is quoting in that scripture. 00:31:25.95\00:31:28.92 Think about it. 00:31:28.95\00:31:30.29 That takes faith to believe 00:31:30.32\00:31:32.25 what God has left for us to read, all things. 00:31:32.29\00:31:36.49 And it comes to the point we can't figure out 00:31:36.52\00:31:38.36 why it's happened. 00:31:38.39\00:31:39.83 But we know that God has a plan. 00:31:39.86\00:31:42.60 We can't see all the ins and the outs. 00:31:42.63\00:31:44.40 But we know that God has something to help us 00:31:44.43\00:31:46.87 along the way because He says, 00:31:46.90\00:31:48.94 "By faith, all things work together for good." 00:31:48.97\00:31:52.34 Well, how can good come out of this 00:31:52.37\00:31:53.91 that might be what would say, 00:31:53.94\00:31:55.28 "No, I don't know, but God says it will." 00:31:55.31\00:31:57.35 There's the difference, 00:31:57.38\00:31:58.71 I don't know how He's going to do it. 00:31:58.75\00:32:00.85 I'd like to know sometime 00:32:00.88\00:32:02.62 when things were getting down and out. 00:32:02.65\00:32:04.02 And you're just like, "Just speak to me, Lord. 00:32:04.05\00:32:07.32 Just tell me so I'll know." 00:32:07.36\00:32:10.89 But He says, "All things work together for good." 00:32:10.93\00:32:13.93 You see, Paul here in Romans 8, starting with 18, 00:32:13.96\00:32:17.93 Paul was speaking of something 00:32:17.97\00:32:19.30 that he knew was taking place in his own life. 00:32:19.33\00:32:22.74 He was talking about painful experiences and loss. 00:32:22.77\00:32:26.74 He knew that there was more to come. 00:32:26.78\00:32:28.54 Look what this man had been through. 00:32:28.58\00:32:30.95 See, for suffering loss and going through it, 00:32:30.98\00:32:32.98 we need to look at those who have went through it, 00:32:33.01\00:32:34.88 just like we looked at Job. 00:32:34.92\00:32:36.45 We'll talk about him a little more in a moment, 00:32:36.48\00:32:37.82 if we have time. 00:32:37.85\00:32:39.19 But notice Paul here realized, 00:32:39.22\00:32:40.56 he was going to what he'd been through was brutal. 00:32:40.59\00:32:42.82 But he had more brutal things to go through yet. 00:32:42.86\00:32:45.29 And the end result, he was going to have to die. 00:32:45.33\00:32:49.16 He was going to have to die. 00:32:49.20\00:32:51.40 But you know, how he looked at these things, 00:32:51.43\00:32:53.27 maybe it will help us. 00:32:53.30\00:32:55.00 He began to look to realize that 00:32:55.04\00:32:56.84 while we live on this earth is a short time. 00:32:56.87\00:33:00.18 It's a very short time, 00:33:00.21\00:33:01.54 if you really stop and think about. 00:33:01.58\00:33:02.91 Someone says, "Well, it seemed like 00:33:02.94\00:33:04.28 we've been here." 00:33:04.31\00:33:05.65 It passes rather quickly. 00:33:05.68\00:33:07.22 And so Paul begin to look at and say, 00:33:07.25\00:33:08.92 "This is just a season." 00:33:08.95\00:33:10.79 And so I have to look beyond what's happening right now 00:33:10.82\00:33:13.25 and to the realities of heaven. 00:33:13.29\00:33:16.86 His encouragement was based upon 00:33:16.89\00:33:18.79 as you read through the passage there. 00:33:18.83\00:33:21.73 His courage was based upon the second coming of Jesus. 00:33:21.76\00:33:26.40 Did you get it? 00:33:26.43\00:33:27.87 To encourage that, the encouragement that he took 00:33:27.90\00:33:30.27 from all of what he's going through 00:33:30.31\00:33:31.84 and what he's had to go through yet was based upon, 00:33:31.87\00:33:34.78 I know that Jesus is coming back, 00:33:34.81\00:33:37.18 the second coming. 00:33:37.21\00:33:39.18 And he began to think about Christ power, 00:33:39.21\00:33:42.38 Christ perfect character. 00:33:42.42\00:33:44.22 It was an encouragement to him. 00:33:44.25\00:33:46.65 As Titus 2:13 says, 00:33:46.69\00:33:48.46 "The second coming of Christ is our blessed hope." 00:33:48.49\00:33:52.46 See, if you don't have a blessed hope, 00:33:52.49\00:33:54.03 you're not gonna be able to make it through. 00:33:54.06\00:33:55.63 I'm not going to make it through. 00:33:55.66\00:33:57.00 If I don't see something 00:33:57.03\00:33:58.37 beyond what's going on right now, I'm in trouble. 00:33:58.40\00:34:01.00 If there's not something better 00:34:01.04\00:34:02.40 than what this world has to offer, I'm in trouble. 00:34:02.44\00:34:05.64 If there's something I need to reach out by faith 00:34:05.67\00:34:08.04 and grab a hold of it is the second coming of Jesus. 00:34:08.08\00:34:11.45 This world is soon to pass away. 00:34:11.48\00:34:13.45 Jesus is coming and He promises eternal lie. 00:34:13.48\00:34:16.92 These old things will be passed away. 00:34:16.95\00:34:19.92 How wonderful? What a promise that is? 00:34:19.95\00:34:22.72 And then Paul was looking and thinking in his mind, 00:34:22.76\00:34:25.43 and he said, "Oh, glory be to God," 00:34:25.46\00:34:28.26 because he realized there in, what? 00:34:28.30\00:34:30.13 1 John 3:2, he said, 00:34:30.17\00:34:31.80 "One day, one day I shall see Him as He is." 00:34:31.83\00:34:37.31 Do you long for that? 00:34:37.34\00:34:38.77 And when you're going through loss, 00:34:38.81\00:34:40.14 it encourage us one day, one day soon. 00:34:40.18\00:34:43.41 I'm not always going to feel the way I do right now today. 00:34:43.45\00:34:45.85 Right now I'm miserable 00:34:45.88\00:34:47.22 and things just not going right. 00:34:47.25\00:34:48.58 But I know what the Word says, 00:34:48.62\00:34:49.95 God helped me to make it through 00:34:49.98\00:34:51.32 for this moment and this day, 00:34:51.35\00:34:52.95 and it will get better in time as time goes by. 00:34:52.99\00:34:56.76 And I'm going to be able to see Him as He is. 00:34:56.79\00:35:00.43 He said, "I'm going to be able to have 00:35:00.46\00:35:01.80 a real revelation of Jesus Christ. 00:35:01.83\00:35:03.90 I'm going to have a real revelation 00:35:03.93\00:35:05.37 of the splendor, and the glory, 00:35:05.40\00:35:07.74 and the eternal realities of heaven." 00:35:07.77\00:35:10.11 Think about that. And the throne of God. 00:35:10.14\00:35:12.57 Read that in Acts 7:9. 00:35:12.61\00:35:14.88 Read that in the Book of Revelation 00:35:14.91\00:35:16.51 21:10 and 11, and 23, and 24, 00:35:16.54\00:35:21.82 where it's talking about the Holy City, 00:35:21.85\00:35:23.82 the New Jerusalem, 00:35:23.85\00:35:25.19 it's talking about the Lamb is going to be there, 00:35:25.22\00:35:28.22 and that the Lamb is the light of that city. 00:35:28.26\00:35:30.89 That gives you hope and encouragement. 00:35:30.93\00:35:32.93 Revelation 22:5, 00:35:32.96\00:35:34.30 "And there'll be no night there. 00:35:34.33\00:35:36.10 There's going to be no sorrow there. 00:35:36.13\00:35:37.47 There's not going to be anything shut away 00:35:37.50\00:35:38.83 from you or for me." 00:35:38.87\00:35:41.57 Paul makes it very, very clear in his writings 00:35:41.60\00:35:44.61 for those who are going through loss 00:35:44.64\00:35:46.74 that the only, the Christian... 00:35:46.78\00:35:48.31 Listen carefully, 00:35:48.34\00:35:49.68 "Only the Christian because of the Word of God 00:35:49.71\00:35:54.42 can explain the mysteries of suffering." 00:35:54.45\00:35:57.72 Did you get that? 00:35:57.75\00:36:00.09 Only the Christian can explain because of the Word of God, 00:36:00.12\00:36:04.63 the mysteries of suffering, sorrow and of loss. 00:36:04.66\00:36:09.06 You know, 1 Thessalonians 4:13 says, 00:36:09.10\00:36:11.43 "Remember, that you sorrow 00:36:11.47\00:36:12.90 not as others who have no hope." 00:36:12.93\00:36:15.60 We have sorrow, 00:36:15.64\00:36:16.97 but it's a different kind of sorrow 00:36:17.01\00:36:18.34 than those who don't know Christ, 00:36:18.37\00:36:20.04 those who have no hope. 00:36:20.08\00:36:21.74 Yes, it hurt. Yes, it's a mess. 00:36:21.78\00:36:23.88 No, we don't want to go through it. 00:36:23.91\00:36:26.31 But think about this. 00:36:26.35\00:36:27.68 We don't sorrow as those who have no hope. 00:36:27.72\00:36:30.82 We have hope that we will see our loved ones again. 00:36:30.85\00:36:33.69 We have hope that God can restore. 00:36:33.72\00:36:36.12 Things may be taken away for today, 00:36:36.16\00:36:37.69 and may be double replaced tomorrow. 00:36:37.73\00:36:40.23 We may have more than we ever had, 00:36:40.26\00:36:41.60 if that's what God wants. 00:36:41.63\00:36:42.96 Nothing's impossible with God. 00:36:43.00\00:36:45.73 You know, ever since the beginning, 00:36:45.77\00:36:48.00 ever since the man and then you had nature, 00:36:48.04\00:36:52.01 creation, 00:36:52.04\00:36:53.64 it's continually been suffering. 00:36:53.68\00:36:56.48 And we realize that suffering is going to continue 00:36:56.51\00:36:59.05 until Jesus comes back. 00:36:59.08\00:37:01.32 Because when the entrance of sin came, 00:37:01.35\00:37:03.65 everything began to suffer, everything began to die. 00:37:03.69\00:37:08.52 And so we realized 00:37:08.56\00:37:09.89 that will continue till Jesus come. 00:37:09.92\00:37:11.26 And we'll thank God 00:37:11.29\00:37:12.63 for the intercession of the Holy Spirit. 00:37:12.66\00:37:14.80 Isn't wonderful, thank God 00:37:14.83\00:37:16.33 for the intercession of that Holy Spirit 00:37:16.36\00:37:18.90 that helps to hold us together. 00:37:18.93\00:37:23.57 The Holy Spirit helps to hold us together. 00:37:23.61\00:37:26.74 This is what we need to be held together 00:37:26.78\00:37:28.98 when we're going in different directions 00:37:29.01\00:37:30.51 and we're not sure which way to go. 00:37:30.55\00:37:33.42 Paul doesn't say and never does he say in the Word 00:37:33.45\00:37:37.05 that the Spirit removes our infirmities, does he? 00:37:37.09\00:37:40.69 You know, sometime I like to say, 00:37:40.72\00:37:42.06 "Well, Lord, just take this away now, 00:37:42.09\00:37:43.43 I don't want to deal with it. 00:37:43.46\00:37:44.79 I don't want to have to go through this." 00:37:44.83\00:37:46.83 Certainly is anyone ever 00:37:46.86\00:37:48.20 kind of thought along those lines? 00:37:48.23\00:37:49.56 I don't need this now. 00:37:49.60\00:37:50.93 I don't need anything else. 00:37:50.97\00:37:52.30 I've heard people say, "I don't want anything else." 00:37:52.33\00:37:55.74 But nowhere in scripture does it say, 00:37:55.77\00:37:57.11 "He's going to take away the... 00:37:57.14\00:37:58.87 removes our infirmities." 00:37:58.91\00:38:00.24 But He helps us and gives us strength to overcome. 00:38:00.28\00:38:04.71 Gives us what we need to get through that valley. 00:38:04.75\00:38:08.45 And man, I'm telling you, 00:38:08.48\00:38:09.82 there's a lot of valleys out there. 00:38:09.85\00:38:11.39 But, you know, if you go through a valley 00:38:11.42\00:38:12.95 and I go through a valley is because God sees that 00:38:12.99\00:38:15.22 I need to go through that valley. 00:38:15.26\00:38:17.49 If heaven is going to be my home, 00:38:17.53\00:38:18.86 that's why I need to rejoice in that valley 00:38:18.89\00:38:21.23 as well as I rejoice on the mountaintop. 00:38:21.26\00:38:24.57 Paul goes on, he says, 00:38:24.60\00:38:25.93 "You know, you don't even know what we should pray for. 00:38:25.97\00:38:28.94 Used a word ought. 00:38:28.97\00:38:30.41 You know what you ought to pray for. 00:38:30.44\00:38:32.84 I always said as a little child, I said, 00:38:32.87\00:38:34.28 "We didn't forget praying then." 00:38:34.31\00:38:37.15 About seven or eight years ago, I forget praying. 00:38:37.18\00:38:38.91 I don't need to pray, 00:38:38.95\00:38:40.28 but I don't know what I need to pray for. 00:38:40.32\00:38:41.65 Why I pray? 00:38:41.68\00:38:43.05 None of you do stuff like that but me I know. 00:38:43.08\00:38:46.09 This phrase should be read. 00:38:46.12\00:38:48.22 We can read it like this 00:38:48.26\00:38:49.59 really in the original language. 00:38:49.62\00:38:50.96 This phrase says should be translated. 00:38:50.99\00:38:52.99 We don't know what we should pray. 00:38:53.03\00:38:56.46 And another is, we don't know how to pray. 00:38:56.50\00:38:59.83 See, said ought 00:38:59.87\00:39:01.94 'cause we don't know what ought, 00:39:01.97\00:39:03.30 but then what was it, come back 00:39:03.34\00:39:04.67 literally pray as it is necessary. 00:39:04.71\00:39:08.34 Pray as necessary. 00:39:08.38\00:39:10.55 Sometimes we don't know necessarily 00:39:10.58\00:39:12.05 because we were too selfish or self centered 00:39:12.08\00:39:15.65 because of our spiritual condition 00:39:15.68\00:39:17.42 we don't know how to pray or what to pray for 00:39:17.45\00:39:19.79 because we can't take self out of it. 00:39:19.82\00:39:22.02 We can't take all that selfishness out. 00:39:22.06\00:39:25.13 We don't know what's best for us. 00:39:25.16\00:39:27.13 But God does know that, the beginning and the end. 00:39:27.16\00:39:30.80 Therefore we have to submit to Matthew 26 tells us 39, 00:39:30.83\00:39:35.50 "Not as I will, but as thou wilt, 00:39:35.54\00:39:38.77 as an end result, suffering." 00:39:38.81\00:39:42.28 Yes, it's going to happen. 00:39:42.31\00:39:44.21 But we need to learn to pray. Why? 00:39:44.25\00:39:47.32 Bible said all things again, what? 00:39:47.35\00:39:49.38 Work together for good. 00:39:49.42\00:39:51.89 You can also translate that, 00:39:51.92\00:39:53.25 see if it makes a little easier to understand. 00:39:53.29\00:39:55.12 I don't know that it will 00:39:55.16\00:39:56.49 and God works all things for our good. 00:39:56.52\00:40:00.20 God does what? 00:40:00.23\00:40:01.56 He works all things for our good. 00:40:01.60\00:40:04.40 How many times have you heard it said, 00:40:04.43\00:40:05.97 "Nothing can touch the child of God, 00:40:06.00\00:40:08.74 except the Lord promises?" 00:40:08.77\00:40:10.11 Anybody ever heard that? 00:40:10.14\00:40:12.07 No, nobody can take, 00:40:12.11\00:40:13.44 nobody take you out of God's hand, right? 00:40:13.48\00:40:15.31 Nothing can touch the child of God 00:40:15.34\00:40:17.18 until you know the Lord gives permission to do so. 00:40:17.21\00:40:19.98 Where do we find that? 00:40:20.02\00:40:21.58 Well, you know, go to the Word of God. 00:40:21.62\00:40:23.22 We were looking in Job Chapter 1 quickly, 00:40:23.25\00:40:24.99 we'll only have five minutes or so left. 00:40:25.02\00:40:26.45 Notice, in the Book of Job, 00:40:26.49\00:40:27.99 we were looking about what Job went through, 00:40:28.02\00:40:30.46 and the loss, and the heartache, 00:40:30.49\00:40:32.79 and how he stayed true to his God. 00:40:32.83\00:40:35.16 You know, if you look at Job 1:12, you'll see this. 00:40:35.20\00:40:39.23 Notice, this you can know for sure 00:40:39.27\00:40:42.74 that nothing happens in your life, 00:40:42.77\00:40:44.74 unless God gets permission, is the way he dealt with Job. 00:40:44.77\00:40:48.28 I think Brother Mark brought that out, 00:40:48.31\00:40:49.81 as we were talking about, 00:40:49.84\00:40:51.18 even in the children's story here 00:40:51.21\00:40:52.71 that God's in control, isn't He? 00:40:52.75\00:40:55.05 He's still in control. 00:40:55.08\00:40:56.42 Notice this here, it says, "And the Lord said," Job 1:12, 00:40:56.45\00:40:59.79 "And the Lord said, "Unto Satan, behold, 00:40:59.82\00:41:03.16 all that he hath is in thy power." 00:41:03.19\00:41:07.10 Think about, all, he said Job, "All that he has, right? 00:41:07.13\00:41:10.27 All the Job has, he's telling to Satan is in your hand. 00:41:10.30\00:41:13.13 That's what power means in your hand. 00:41:13.17\00:41:15.34 Only up on him, put not forth thine hand." 00:41:15.37\00:41:18.57 So Satan went forth from the presence of the Lord. 00:41:18.61\00:41:22.58 So notice this, 00:41:22.61\00:41:23.95 Satan has to have permission to get to God saints. 00:41:23.98\00:41:28.58 Think about it. 00:41:28.62\00:41:29.95 He had to go, Satan had to go to God and say, 00:41:29.98\00:41:33.22 of course God threw Job's name out there to say, 00:41:33.25\00:41:35.79 "Okay, here's a righteous man, now you may go to him." 00:41:35.82\00:41:39.89 But notice what it says, as soon as God said go," 00:41:39.93\00:41:42.53 Satan jumped out right quick. 00:41:42.56\00:41:43.90 So I want to get him right now. 00:41:43.93\00:41:45.47 But notice in Job 2:6, again, this comes up. 00:41:45.50\00:41:49.74 And the Lord said unto Satan, 00:41:49.77\00:41:52.31 "Behold, He is in thine hand, but save his life." 00:41:52.34\00:41:57.68 Now, the saved right there simply means preserved. 00:41:57.71\00:42:02.12 Notice that, and the Lord said to Satan, behold, what? 00:42:02.15\00:42:05.55 He's in your hand. 00:42:05.59\00:42:07.22 Take Job, he's in your hand, but you cannot take his life. 00:42:07.26\00:42:11.66 God is still in control even in times of sorrow, 00:42:11.69\00:42:15.03 even in times of loss, God is still in control. 00:42:15.06\00:42:17.63 The devil can't do anything. 00:42:17.67\00:42:19.57 And certainly unless we step out on his ground, 00:42:19.60\00:42:21.30 then we're in trouble. 00:42:21.34\00:42:23.04 But when we are God's people, living for Him, 00:42:23.07\00:42:25.21 doing everything we know 00:42:25.24\00:42:26.57 by the grace of God and live for Him, 00:42:26.61\00:42:28.14 nothing happen, nothing touches the apple of His eye 00:42:28.18\00:42:31.08 until He gives permission. 00:42:31.11\00:42:32.45 Praise God for that. 00:42:32.48\00:42:34.62 Desire of Ages, page 471 says this, 00:42:34.65\00:42:38.05 "The history of Job 00:42:38.09\00:42:41.26 has been shown that suffering is inflicted by Satan, 00:42:41.29\00:42:46.29 and is overruled by God for the purpose of mercy." 00:42:46.33\00:42:50.30 God can overrule. 00:42:50.33\00:42:52.37 God can say that's enough. 00:42:52.40\00:42:54.07 God can say that's it. 00:42:54.10\00:42:56.40 If you're His child, or you His child today, 00:42:56.44\00:42:58.84 He certainly promised to help us 00:42:58.87\00:43:00.64 in our time of need. 00:43:00.68\00:43:02.41 We won't have time to finish everything, 00:43:02.44\00:43:03.78 but I noticed there was a lady 00:43:03.81\00:43:09.38 on her deathbed. 00:43:09.42\00:43:11.09 And there's three things word called, 00:43:11.12\00:43:15.89 and held in camp, well known songwriter, 00:43:15.92\00:43:20.36 again, the lover of the Word of God, 00:43:20.40\00:43:22.86 the day that she passed away, 00:43:22.90\00:43:24.83 she called in for the secretary, 00:43:24.87\00:43:26.70 one who worked with her 00:43:26.74\00:43:28.24 and said read the Word of God to me, 00:43:28.27\00:43:29.90 is precious during life has to be precious to the end. 00:43:29.94\00:43:32.67 Read Isaiah 42, 00:43:32.71\00:43:35.01 and the friend began to read it. 00:43:35.04\00:43:37.51 And as the friend begin to read Isaiah 42, 00:43:37.55\00:43:42.25 notice when she came to verse 6, 00:43:42.28\00:43:45.62 the woman said, "Stop." 00:43:45.65\00:43:47.16 Barely a whisper, "Stop." 00:43:47.19\00:43:49.69 It says there that the Lord have called the 00:43:49.72\00:43:52.66 in righteousness, 00:43:52.69\00:43:54.66 and will hold thine hand, and we'll keep thee... 00:43:54.70\00:44:00.64 She said in just a whisper, 00:44:00.67\00:44:03.54 "Called, held, and kept. 00:44:03.57\00:44:08.71 I can now rest in that promise." 00:44:08.74\00:44:12.91 And she died, she fell asleep. 00:44:12.95\00:44:15.68 How wonderful to say, 00:44:15.72\00:44:17.49 "He's called us, He's held us and He's going to keep us." 00:44:17.52\00:44:21.92 How wonderful our time of loss no matter what it is, you know, 00:44:21.96\00:44:26.49 God's promise that He's called us, 00:44:26.53\00:44:29.13 He's going to hold us, 00:44:29.16\00:44:30.60 and He's going to keep us in the palm of His hand. 00:44:30.63\00:44:34.17 You know, as we close the day, I want to pray for you, 00:44:34.20\00:44:36.44 I want you to be praying for us here 00:44:36.47\00:44:38.27 that the Holy Spirit of the Living God 00:44:38.31\00:44:39.74 will touch you, because some of you 00:44:39.77\00:44:41.11 are going through heartache, 00:44:41.14\00:44:42.48 you think you'll never get through, 00:44:42.51\00:44:43.85 but the Word of God here 00:44:43.88\00:44:45.21 just what little we touched on here, 00:44:45.25\00:44:46.58 it guarantees us 00:44:46.61\00:44:47.95 that He's going to see us through. 00:44:47.98\00:44:49.58 Would you like to pray one more time, 00:44:49.62\00:44:51.19 I'm going to kneel up here and just pray for you 00:44:51.22\00:44:53.69 as a Holy Spirit comes into your heart, 00:44:53.72\00:44:55.52 into your life that things begin to change. 00:44:55.56\00:44:57.69 Let's pray right now. Shall we together? 00:44:57.73\00:45:01.96 Merciful Father in heaven, we thank You again 00:45:02.00\00:45:03.87 for Your Word that's encouraged us, 00:45:03.90\00:45:06.17 even at a time of loss when our heart is broken, 00:45:06.20\00:45:08.27 we've been crushed, went into 1,000 pieces. 00:45:08.30\00:45:11.14 We say now, there's no way to get out of this mess, 00:45:11.17\00:45:13.78 You have 1,000 ways. 00:45:13.81\00:45:15.94 We realized that You can come 00:45:15.98\00:45:17.31 into our hearts, in our lives, in our mind, 00:45:17.35\00:45:18.81 You can change us, You can mold us, 00:45:18.85\00:45:20.68 and You can make us after Your image 00:45:20.72\00:45:23.59 that we can look and say, "Oh, lo, this is our God, 00:45:23.62\00:45:25.89 one of these days that He's coming back 00:45:25.92\00:45:28.26 where He's going to save us." 00:45:28.29\00:45:30.09 We pray that You'll keep this hope 00:45:30.13\00:45:31.46 instill in the hearts, and the minds 00:45:31.49\00:45:32.83 of those who are suffering loss right now. 00:45:32.86\00:45:35.26 I pray that they'll look to you and they'd be healed. 00:45:35.30\00:45:37.53 And as I look to You, 00:45:37.57\00:45:38.90 the author and finisher of our faith, 00:45:38.93\00:45:40.27 we know one day soon You're going to come 00:45:40.30\00:45:42.30 and You're going to take the faithful home. 00:45:42.34\00:45:43.77 Bless us we pray to that and give courage, strength, 00:45:43.81\00:45:45.91 and faith in Jesus name we pray and for His sake, amen. 00:45:45.94\00:45:49.64 Hello and welcome back. 00:45:49.68\00:45:51.41 Friends, I pray that the message of Pastor Kenny 00:45:51.45\00:45:54.18 just gave living with loss was something that gave you 00:45:54.22\00:45:58.72 encouragement and hope. 00:45:58.75\00:46:00.56 And isn't it awesome that today I have Pastor Kenny here. 00:46:00.59\00:46:04.86 We're going to talk a little bit more about 00:46:04.89\00:46:07.36 living with loss and some of the other messages 00:46:07.40\00:46:10.20 that are in this wonderful Bible study, 00:46:10.23\00:46:12.73 sharing God's Love: What the Bible has to say. 00:46:12.77\00:46:16.04 And I've been telling you each time we open this program 00:46:16.07\00:46:18.77 that it was written by Brother Richard Bland. 00:46:18.81\00:46:20.54 And Richard Bland is back here to visit with us today. 00:46:20.58\00:46:24.71 Brother Richard, there are people in this world 00:46:24.75\00:46:27.35 that even the loss of loved ones, 00:46:27.38\00:46:31.59 many times there's people 00:46:31.62\00:46:33.19 that aggrieve themselves to death 00:46:33.22\00:46:34.89 because they feel they have no hope. 00:46:34.92\00:46:37.53 So how important was it to get something like this 00:46:37.56\00:46:41.46 into their hands so we can give them hope. 00:46:41.50\00:46:43.93 It was so important that we took upon ourselves 00:46:43.97\00:46:47.50 after doing over 25 million of Bible lesson 00:46:47.54\00:46:50.91 to come up with something that everybody could use 00:46:50.94\00:46:54.08 and get them what 25 question that most people want to know. 00:46:54.11\00:46:58.81 And that's what we did. We went through many questions. 00:46:58.85\00:47:01.68 I mean, that the top 25 that people want to know. 00:47:01.72\00:47:04.45 For example, number one is stress. 00:47:04.49\00:47:06.15 Everybody has stress. 00:47:06.19\00:47:08.12 We put the answers in out of their Bible. 00:47:08.16\00:47:10.56 Every text is out of the Bible. 00:47:10.59\00:47:12.73 So what kind of Bible you have. 00:47:12.76\00:47:15.06 You can use this, it's designed for a Bible. 00:47:15.10\00:47:17.97 The Holy Bible, any kind of Bible 00:47:18.00\00:47:20.34 and that's the reason why 00:47:20.37\00:47:21.80 nobody's turning down and we haven't... 00:47:21.84\00:47:24.31 Right now in America, 00:47:24.34\00:47:25.67 125 million of those are printed. 00:47:25.71\00:47:27.54 So everybody can have one. 00:47:27.58\00:47:29.24 So you can't say you gonna be left out. 00:47:29.28\00:47:30.61 That's right. 00:47:30.65\00:47:31.98 And there's so many wonderful Bible promises. 00:47:32.01\00:47:33.85 When I started the program earlier, 00:47:33.88\00:47:36.35 I quoted actually 00:47:36.38\00:47:37.85 one of your first Bible passages 00:47:37.89\00:47:40.26 that you have on living with loss 00:47:40.29\00:47:42.42 and that was Psalms 147:3. 00:47:42.46\00:47:45.39 And everybody can claim this, 00:47:45.43\00:47:47.46 we claim this and I encourage you to claim this, 00:47:47.50\00:47:50.07 "He healeth the broken heart and bindeth up their wounds." 00:47:50.10\00:47:54.60 There are people that have tremendous wounds. 00:47:54.64\00:47:57.71 We've had disasters with earthquakes, 00:47:57.74\00:48:00.61 we've had hurricanes, we've had fires, 00:48:00.64\00:48:04.25 everything is record setting right now 00:48:04.28\00:48:06.68 because we're seeing the Bible being fulfilled. 00:48:06.72\00:48:08.88 These are the birth pains. 00:48:08.92\00:48:10.49 We're told it's going to draw worse, and worse, and worse. 00:48:10.52\00:48:13.46 We have terrorism on every corner. 00:48:13.49\00:48:15.99 So I think these messages, these lessons 00:48:16.02\00:48:19.53 they need to get out as fast as possible. 00:48:19.56\00:48:21.80 And, Brother Richard, you have another ministry too, 00:48:21.83\00:48:23.97 we're here from Behold the Lamb ministries, 00:48:24.00\00:48:25.67 but you have another ministry. 00:48:25.70\00:48:27.10 Tell us about your ministry? 00:48:27.14\00:48:28.47 Our ministry is United Prison Ministry, 00:48:28.50\00:48:30.41 and United Prison ministry, 00:48:30.44\00:48:31.94 we provide free material to every prison 00:48:31.97\00:48:34.64 in the United States and many foreign countries. 00:48:34.68\00:48:37.35 But let's speak about the United States we are. 00:48:37.38\00:48:39.88 In the United States, 00:48:39.91\00:48:41.45 we now have come up with a system 00:48:41.48\00:48:45.79 where not only the prisoners can learn the Word of God, 00:48:45.82\00:48:48.32 but their family members and they back home 00:48:48.36\00:48:50.66 because we found 00:48:50.69\00:48:52.03 when a prisoner get out of prison, 00:48:52.06\00:48:53.40 if you go back to the same environment, 00:48:53.43\00:48:54.86 in the year or two, he's back in prison. 00:48:54.90\00:48:57.07 So these lessons that you have in your hand are designed 00:48:57.10\00:49:00.34 for them and the family members to get it, 00:49:00.37\00:49:02.74 and we made it so economical 00:49:02.77\00:49:04.37 even though they costs $5 a piece. 00:49:04.41\00:49:07.94 We have designed in so that when they get them in bulk, 00:49:07.98\00:49:11.45 they can save money by even getting just $1 piece. 00:49:11.48\00:49:14.48 Amen. Can you imagine that? 00:49:14.52\00:49:15.85 Good. Yes, I can. 00:49:15.88\00:49:17.22 Twenty five Bible study, you know... 00:49:17.25\00:49:18.59 I can 'cause we bought some and we're giving them away. 00:49:18.62\00:49:22.02 I can really imagine that. Yeah. 00:49:22.06\00:49:24.16 And that's what we want everybody to do is looking for. 00:49:24.19\00:49:26.46 So if you have a doctor, if you have a business, 00:49:26.49\00:49:29.76 you need to get these and put in your office 00:49:29.80\00:49:32.07 for the purpose of letting your customers have this. 00:49:32.10\00:49:35.27 I was just telling them, 00:49:35.30\00:49:36.64 my personal dentist 00:49:36.67\00:49:38.01 who I didn't think was much of a Christian, 00:49:38.04\00:49:40.34 I hate to say that, 00:49:40.38\00:49:41.71 but I didn't know of any church affiliation that he had. 00:49:41.74\00:49:44.25 When he looked at these, he said, 00:49:44.28\00:49:45.61 "You know, I'm glad you put these in my office." 00:49:45.65\00:49:48.62 So much so we only gave him about a couple of hundred, 00:49:48.65\00:49:51.12 but he give me $1,250 down just last week 00:49:51.15\00:49:53.49 because he was so impressed. 00:49:53.52\00:49:54.86 Amen. Amen. 00:49:54.89\00:49:56.22 Now, on top of that another businessman 00:49:56.26\00:49:59.33 that I had never met before, 00:49:59.36\00:50:01.56 he was so impressed with these lessons here, 00:50:01.60\00:50:03.83 he said, you know one thing, he gave me a check, 00:50:03.87\00:50:06.27 you would not guess how much that was for? 00:50:06.30\00:50:08.17 Well? $10,000. 00:50:08.20\00:50:10.07 Praise the Lord. He sent me card. 00:50:10.11\00:50:11.44 I want people to know what this Word of God is. 00:50:11.47\00:50:14.98 So if you out there, you can call this number, 00:50:15.01\00:50:18.48 area code (205) 755-4744. 00:50:18.51\00:50:24.05 I'll repeat that again, 00:50:24.09\00:50:25.42 area code (205) 755-4744. 00:50:25.45\00:50:31.03 Or you can look it up 00:50:31.06\00:50:32.76 United Prison Ministry, UPMI.org. 00:50:32.79\00:50:36.03 Either way, or writers us, 00:50:36.06\00:50:38.13 PO Box 8, Verbena, Alabama 36091. 00:50:38.17\00:50:43.00 That's United Prison Ministry or UPMI, and you can get this 00:50:43.04\00:50:47.28 or you can contact Behold the Lamb, 00:50:47.31\00:50:49.71 they have the address here. 00:50:49.74\00:50:51.75 But make sure that you get it and share 00:50:51.78\00:50:54.12 because we found out this, if you want a blessing, 00:50:54.15\00:50:56.58 pass out the lesson. 00:50:56.62\00:50:57.95 Amen. If you want a blessing, what? 00:50:57.99\00:50:59.79 Pass out the lesson. 00:50:59.82\00:51:01.16 And if you care, you will share. 00:51:01.19\00:51:03.63 If you care about your neighbors, 00:51:03.66\00:51:05.73 if you care about your friends, 00:51:05.76\00:51:07.16 if you care about your children, 00:51:07.20\00:51:08.53 if you care about anybody in your family, 00:51:08.56\00:51:10.50 you will share these lessons with them. 00:51:10.53\00:51:12.90 Behold the Lamb. 00:51:12.93\00:51:14.27 That's why we have taken upon ourselves 00:51:14.30\00:51:16.50 to do each and every one of these 00:51:16.54\00:51:18.17 in a one hour Bible study with our viewing audience. 00:51:18.21\00:51:22.21 And, of course, we offer these as well. 00:51:22.24\00:51:24.58 You know, each program is offered for a love gift 00:51:24.61\00:51:27.02 of just $8 or more. 00:51:27.05\00:51:28.38 And when they call in, they're going to get 00:51:28.42\00:51:29.98 at least one of these for free. 00:51:30.02\00:51:31.55 So we have... 00:51:31.59\00:51:32.92 We've just determined we're going to give them away 00:51:32.95\00:51:34.29 for free. 00:51:34.32\00:51:35.66 But I love what you said 00:51:35.69\00:51:37.03 because we're both faith based ministry, 00:51:37.06\00:51:38.59 3ABN is a faith based ministry. 00:51:38.63\00:51:41.06 And as you partner up with any of these ministries, 00:51:41.10\00:51:44.13 you're partnering up with heaven. 00:51:44.17\00:51:45.80 You know that we're told that there'll be stars 00:51:45.83\00:51:47.74 in the crowns of those who just by support 00:51:47.77\00:51:51.57 are enabling those of us who are willing 00:51:51.61\00:51:55.41 to get these messages out 00:51:55.44\00:51:57.05 and into the hands of our friends and our loved ones. 00:51:57.08\00:51:59.75 And Pastor Kenny, you have been... 00:51:59.78\00:52:01.12 This was the fourth in a series of 25. 00:52:01.15\00:52:04.85 Yes. And this was living with loss. 00:52:04.89\00:52:06.72 We've already done stress management, 00:52:06.76\00:52:08.82 defeat loneliness, the healing of sorrow. 00:52:08.86\00:52:12.49 So, Pastor Kenny, why are these important? 00:52:12.53\00:52:14.76 Why should people want to know about living with loss? 00:52:14.80\00:52:18.37 Why would they want to know about how to quit smoking? 00:52:18.40\00:52:20.80 Successful parenting? 00:52:20.84\00:52:22.17 Why would they want to know as I turn the page 00:52:22.20\00:52:24.81 what happens to man after death? 00:52:24.84\00:52:27.28 Or where sin came from? 00:52:27.31\00:52:29.31 Or which day is the Lord day? 00:52:29.34\00:52:30.78 Why would people want to know that? 00:52:30.81\00:52:32.31 Why should they know that? 00:52:32.35\00:52:33.68 Yeah, well, you know, I think we're all in agreement 00:52:33.72\00:52:35.78 that we live in this hour of earth's history, 00:52:35.82\00:52:38.15 where all kind of things are happening in abundance. 00:52:38.19\00:52:41.69 And again, we have to deal with stress, 00:52:41.72\00:52:43.73 we have to deal with sorrow. 00:52:43.76\00:52:45.46 If we live in this world, we're going to deal 00:52:45.49\00:52:46.83 with the issues we were just talking about here. 00:52:46.86\00:52:49.16 And these are issues that kind of 00:52:49.20\00:52:51.27 reminds me like what Christ, 00:52:51.30\00:52:52.80 you know, somebody came asking for bread, or they needed help, 00:52:52.83\00:52:56.04 He helped them first, 00:52:56.07\00:52:57.41 and then He gave them the bread. 00:52:57.44\00:52:58.77 That's right. 00:52:58.81\00:53:00.14 So here, people, we knew, 00:53:00.18\00:53:01.71 there's meat of the Word out there, 00:53:01.74\00:53:03.14 we understand that there's truth in there. 00:53:03.18\00:53:05.11 But people are having to deal with sorrow and grief, 00:53:05.15\00:53:08.52 money issues, stress, suicide, 00:53:08.55\00:53:11.42 you know, all these things are on a hand. 00:53:11.45\00:53:13.59 And so these lessons help us to know how to deal with them 00:53:13.62\00:53:16.69 the way God says we need to deal with them. 00:53:16.73\00:53:19.36 Not how some man might say, but God says in His Word, 00:53:19.39\00:53:22.43 and if we deal with the way God says, 00:53:22.46\00:53:23.83 it's going to work out. 00:53:23.87\00:53:25.20 Amen. 00:53:25.23\00:53:26.57 You know, I have to jump in there 00:53:26.60\00:53:27.94 because you said, I know there's meat 00:53:27.97\00:53:29.30 of the Word out there. 00:53:29.34\00:53:30.67 And I know there's some difficult, 00:53:30.71\00:53:32.04 in fact, I've even asked you sometimes, 00:53:32.07\00:53:33.41 where'd you get that information? 00:53:33.44\00:53:34.78 And I know it came from the Holy Spirit. 00:53:34.81\00:53:36.75 You know, and in my mind, this is meat of the Word. 00:53:36.78\00:53:40.98 'Cause if we don't raise our children properly, 00:53:41.02\00:53:43.62 if our marriages are destroyed, 00:53:43.65\00:53:45.62 if we're destroying our body temple, 00:53:45.65\00:53:47.49 we're all going to be lost. 00:53:47.52\00:53:49.72 You know, you need to have all of these things. 00:53:49.76\00:53:52.46 And sometimes they're overlooked. 00:53:52.49\00:53:54.53 And these are the issues, these are the troubles, 00:53:54.56\00:53:57.80 the stress, the trials that we live by day by day. 00:53:57.83\00:54:02.34 You know, this is our family life, 00:54:02.37\00:54:03.97 how do we do it? 00:54:04.01\00:54:05.34 Is there hope? 00:54:05.37\00:54:06.71 You know, there's many people that have given... 00:54:06.74\00:54:08.08 I mean, think about the thousands 00:54:08.11\00:54:09.98 that we hear of young people, 00:54:10.01\00:54:12.01 young people, teenagers, 00:54:12.05\00:54:13.82 and early teens that are committing suicide. 00:54:13.85\00:54:16.92 They have no home, 00:54:16.95\00:54:18.69 they're not being raised in a Christian family. 00:54:18.72\00:54:21.06 These to me are still meat of the Word 00:54:21.09\00:54:23.79 and I think we need to get the videos, 00:54:23.83\00:54:25.89 we need to get the lessons, 00:54:25.93\00:54:28.10 and you can tell us this is interdenominational, 00:54:28.13\00:54:31.13 every faith can get it. 00:54:31.17\00:54:32.73 They can just look it up in their own Bible, 00:54:32.77\00:54:34.50 there are no commentaries, no man's insertions, 00:54:34.54\00:54:37.67 you didn't put anything 00:54:37.71\00:54:39.04 on what you thought that passage may. 00:54:39.07\00:54:40.81 You didn't even tell us 00:54:40.84\00:54:42.18 what Strong's Concordance meat as well. 00:54:42.21\00:54:44.81 You just let the Bible speak and of course, the Holy Spirit. 00:54:44.85\00:54:48.25 And I believe you encourage people in here 00:54:48.28\00:54:50.32 to pray for the Holy Spirit's guidance, right? 00:54:50.35\00:54:52.62 In fact we do. 00:54:52.65\00:54:53.99 In fact people have asked me, "So what do you think of this? 00:54:54.02\00:54:55.89 I say, "What do you mean I think?" 00:54:55.92\00:54:57.29 God will lead you and guide you. 00:54:57.33\00:54:58.66 In fact, He made you. 00:54:58.69\00:55:00.03 So He knows exactly what it takes for you 00:55:00.06\00:55:01.93 to understand His scripture. 00:55:01.96\00:55:04.00 And like I tell the people in prison, you know, 00:55:04.03\00:55:06.10 over 7 billion people in the world 00:55:06.13\00:55:08.10 and this thing 00:55:08.14\00:55:09.47 that little space on the thumb there, 00:55:09.50\00:55:11.51 is seven over seven billion different prints, 00:55:11.54\00:55:13.81 we got these who is dead, plus those who live now. 00:55:13.84\00:55:16.61 We can thank for bringing the people 00:55:16.64\00:55:17.98 who are already dead. 00:55:18.01\00:55:19.35 But God can do that 00:55:19.38\00:55:20.72 so if you want to know the answer, 00:55:20.75\00:55:22.08 you get on your knees and go to the Lamb of God, 00:55:22.12\00:55:24.75 and He will give you the answers 00:55:24.79\00:55:26.86 of what you're going to find out here. 00:55:26.89\00:55:29.12 In fact, back He said, "There are many stories 00:55:29.16\00:55:32.36 that you're going to need 00:55:32.39\00:55:34.00 because God has designed this for you." 00:55:34.03\00:55:35.66 Not only for you, for those whom you know, 00:55:35.70\00:55:38.17 and your family members. 00:55:38.20\00:55:39.53 That's right. 00:55:39.57\00:55:40.90 And you know if you want to have this hour message 00:55:40.94\00:55:43.91 of living with loss, 00:55:43.94\00:55:45.27 all you need to do is contact us here 00:55:45.31\00:55:47.21 at Behold the Lamb Ministries. 00:55:47.24\00:55:48.94 Our phone number is here 00:55:48.98\00:55:50.31 in the United States at Central Time 00:55:50.35\00:55:52.45 and it is area code (618) 942-5044 00:55:52.48\00:55:57.62 or you may send us an email and that is 00:55:57.65\00:56:00.82 BeholdTheLambMinistries @yahoo.com. 00:56:00.86\00:56:03.43 Or visit us on our website 00:56:03.46\00:56:05.16 www.Behold TheLambMinistries.com. 00:56:05.19\00:56:10.10 And, friends, if you want to have 00:56:10.13\00:56:12.40 just the message is going to be offered to you 00:56:12.43\00:56:15.07 for a love gift of $8 or more. 00:56:15.10\00:56:17.14 You can call in and even ask about our sharing price. 00:56:17.17\00:56:19.71 The ladies that answer the phone though 00:56:19.74\00:56:21.34 they'll be happy to tell you 00:56:21.38\00:56:22.71 what the sharing price is all about. 00:56:22.74\00:56:24.25 So if you want to get a group of 10 or 20 DVDs 00:56:24.28\00:56:27.45 and you want to have these Bible studies along with it, 00:56:27.48\00:56:31.29 just call, we'll give you whatever you need. 00:56:31.32\00:56:34.29 And I think this is a good witnessing tool, 00:56:34.32\00:56:36.69 both the DVD, the message, 00:56:36.73\00:56:38.76 and putting these 00:56:38.79\00:56:40.13 you can make these your own personal little ministry. 00:56:40.16\00:56:42.90 So call us, we'll give you 00:56:42.93\00:56:44.27 Brother Richard Bland's information again. 00:56:44.30\00:56:47.07 Or, Brother Richard, 00:56:47.10\00:56:48.44 why don't you just tell us one more time, 00:56:48.47\00:56:49.80 what is your phone number? 00:56:49.84\00:56:51.17 Okay, area code (205) in America, 00:56:51.21\00:56:53.74 (205) 755-4744. 00:56:53.78\00:56:57.85 And we're Central Time too. 00:56:57.88\00:56:59.55 That's (205) 755-4744. 00:56:59.58\00:57:04.55 And I want to also say this UPMI.org, 00:57:04.59\00:57:07.82 or you can put on contact UPMI.org. 00:57:07.86\00:57:12.33 Either way or go to our website UPMI.org. 00:57:12.36\00:57:16.97 Many things you will find out there. 00:57:17.00\00:57:18.53 And then too, I want to share this with you. 00:57:18.57\00:57:20.94 At the end of these studies here, 00:57:20.97\00:57:22.97 we have over 500 Bible texts of the stories 00:57:23.00\00:57:26.64 in the back of the Bible that you go to immediately. 00:57:26.68\00:57:29.54 In fact, I was talking to a lady just other day 00:57:29.58\00:57:31.61 who grew up a Christian, she said, 00:57:31.65\00:57:33.82 or parents rather, over 55 years old, she said, 00:57:33.85\00:57:36.55 "She loved this, got to keep this as a keepsake. 00:57:36.58\00:57:38.65 So any well-known stories about, 00:57:38.69\00:57:40.59 you can go to it quickly and it tell you 00:57:40.62\00:57:42.32 where's it's found without you going through 00:57:42.36\00:57:44.19 the 773,692 words to find, did you said amen? 00:57:44.23\00:57:48.16 That's right. 00:57:48.20\00:57:49.53 This is a power pack study guide. 00:57:49.56\00:57:52.23 It really is. 00:57:52.27\00:57:53.60 Don't put off tomorrow what you need to do today. 00:57:53.64\00:57:57.24 May our precious Lord continue to bless 00:57:57.27\00:57:59.94 each and every one of you. 00:57:59.97\00:58:01.31