Hello, and welcome to Behold Lamb Presents. 00:00:39.87\00:00:42.07 I'm Chris Shelton, your host and we are so thankful 00:00:42.10\00:00:44.67 that you have tuned in 00:00:44.71\00:00:46.17 for another exciting Bible study 00:00:46.21\00:00:47.88 with Pastor Kenny Shelton today. 00:00:47.91\00:00:50.05 You know, today is the second message of 25. 00:00:50.08\00:00:53.82 Twenty five that we're going to be covering. 00:00:53.85\00:00:56.35 Twenty five Bible studies that are in accompaniment 00:00:56.38\00:01:00.49 to this sharing God's love Bible study guide. 00:01:00.52\00:01:04.53 And today, we're going to talk about defeating loneliness, 00:01:04.56\00:01:08.10 defeat loneliness. 00:01:08.13\00:01:10.00 Does the Bible have anything to say about 00:01:10.03\00:01:12.30 defeating loneliness? 00:01:12.33\00:01:14.00 Is it full of Bible verses that might help us, 00:01:14.04\00:01:17.24 that might give us hope and strength? 00:01:17.27\00:01:19.47 You know, I've cheated a little bit, I've read ahead, 00:01:19.51\00:01:22.31 and I know that there are. 00:01:22.34\00:01:23.68 So I hope you'll stay tuned 'cause we live in a world. 00:01:23.71\00:01:26.95 In fact, I was listening to a sermon earlier today, 00:01:26.98\00:01:29.85 and they were quoting Spirit of Prophecy 00:01:29.88\00:01:32.59 and talking about how this is the enemy's territory. 00:01:32.62\00:01:36.36 And it's no wonder 00:01:36.39\00:01:37.79 so many people are battling loneliness 00:01:37.83\00:01:40.86 when He claims this world as His seed and His authority. 00:01:40.90\00:01:45.50 So I hope you'll stay tuned. 00:01:45.53\00:01:47.20 And I hope you'll be blessed as we talk about 00:01:47.24\00:01:50.21 how to defeat loneliness today. 00:01:50.24\00:01:52.44 But before we open, I just want to share 00:01:52.47\00:01:54.34 one verse of scripture from it with you 00:01:54.38\00:01:57.01 and it's found in 1 Peter 5:7, it says, 00:01:57.05\00:02:01.15 "Casting all your care upon Him because He careth for you." 00:02:01.18\00:02:06.39 Brothers or sisters, friends, our Lord cares, 00:02:06.42\00:02:08.99 He loves you so very much. 00:02:09.02\00:02:11.09 So I hope you'll stay tuned. 00:02:11.13\00:02:12.73 But before we hear from Pastor Kenny, 00:02:12.76\00:02:14.76 we're going to go to the 3ABN Worship Center, 00:02:14.80\00:02:17.57 and we're going to listen to a song that's entitled 00:02:17.60\00:02:20.04 "Springs of Living Water." 00:02:20.07\00:02:22.07 And it is sung by my sister-in-law, Tammy Chance. 00:02:22.10\00:02:25.77 I thirsted in the barren land of sin and shame 00:02:38.09\00:02:42.52 Nothing satisfying there I found 00:02:42.56\00:02:46.53 But to the blessed cross of Christ one day I came 00:02:46.56\00:02:50.73 Where springs of living water did abound 00:02:50.77\00:02:55.14 Drinking at the springs of living water 00:02:55.17\00:02:59.44 Happy now am I, my soul they satisfy 00:02:59.47\00:03:03.45 I'm drinking at the springs of living water 00:03:03.48\00:03:07.75 What a wonderful and bountiful supply 00:03:07.78\00:03:14.06 O sinner, won't you come today to Calvary 00:03:14.09\00:03:18.29 A fountain there is flowing deep and wide 00:03:18.33\00:03:22.63 The Savior now invites you to the water free 00:03:22.66\00:03:26.94 Where thirsting spirits can be satisfied 00:03:26.97\00:03:31.31 Drinking at the springs of living water 00:03:31.34\00:03:35.61 Happy now am I, my soul they satisfy 00:03:35.64\00:03:39.65 I'm drinking at the springs of living water 00:03:39.68\00:03:43.82 What a wonderful and bountiful supply 00:03:43.85\00:03:48.26 Drinking at the springs of living water 00:03:48.29\00:03:52.59 Happy now am I, my soul they satisfy 00:03:52.63\00:03:56.63 I'm drinking at the springs of living water 00:03:56.67\00:04:00.77 What a wonderful and bountiful supply 00:04:00.80\00:04:05.24 Drinking at the springs of living water 00:04:05.27\00:04:09.31 What a wonderful and bountiful supply 00:04:09.34\00:04:13.52 What a wonderful and bountiful supply 00:04:13.55\00:04:17.79 What a wonderful and bountiful supply 00:04:17.82\00:04:23.39 Thanks for joining us once again 00:04:29.46\00:04:30.80 here at Behold the Lamb. 00:04:30.83\00:04:32.33 You've already heard just what the subject matter. 00:04:32.37\00:04:34.84 So we're going to be talking about loneliness. 00:04:34.87\00:04:37.21 It's something that affects many, many people. 00:04:37.24\00:04:40.48 The Bible has the answers, 00:04:40.51\00:04:42.04 and we need to go to the Word of God 00:04:42.08\00:04:43.91 to find those answers. 00:04:43.95\00:04:45.28 So we're glad that you've tuned in today. 00:04:45.31\00:04:46.65 Take a pencil, paper, pen, 00:04:46.68\00:04:48.48 write down some of these passage things 00:04:48.52\00:04:50.29 that we discussed. 00:04:50.32\00:04:51.65 That way you can go back with them 00:04:51.69\00:04:53.02 or you can always certainly call in, 00:04:53.05\00:04:54.66 get your DVD or CD and share it with a friend. 00:04:54.69\00:04:58.86 Oh, this is very... I think it's a vital subject. 00:04:58.89\00:05:01.76 In the day that we live in, 00:05:01.80\00:05:03.16 there's a lot of people that's going through 00:05:03.20\00:05:04.60 a lot of stress, a lot of strain. 00:05:04.63\00:05:06.47 And a lot of people feel isolated and lonely. 00:05:06.50\00:05:09.00 We'll look at that subject as we go along here today. 00:05:09.04\00:05:11.84 But again, we're glad that you're joining with us. 00:05:11.87\00:05:13.54 But usual before we get into the Word of God, 00:05:13.58\00:05:15.64 before we read 00:05:15.68\00:05:17.01 the beautiful passage of scripture here, 00:05:17.05\00:05:19.25 we're going to kneel and have prayer. 00:05:19.28\00:05:20.62 So I invite you at home and those who are with us, 00:05:20.65\00:05:22.92 if you'd like to kneel with me that we can pray together. 00:05:22.95\00:05:24.89 Let's pray, shall we? 00:05:24.92\00:05:27.82 Merciful Father, in heaven, 00:05:27.86\00:05:29.19 we thank You for the privilege of prayer. 00:05:29.22\00:05:30.56 We thank You now 00:05:30.59\00:05:31.93 that we can call upon the sweet Holy Spirit, 00:05:31.96\00:05:33.93 the Spirit will come and to fill our hearts 00:05:33.96\00:05:35.86 and our minds with the love of Jesus. 00:05:35.90\00:05:38.10 We just thank You for loving us today. 00:05:38.13\00:05:40.27 We thank You for each viewer and listener we pray 00:05:40.30\00:05:43.20 and for those that are here, 00:05:43.24\00:05:44.57 we just asked a special blessing 00:05:44.61\00:05:45.94 upon each and every one. 00:05:45.97\00:05:47.31 May we be drawn closer to Jesus, 00:05:47.34\00:05:49.28 may we fall in love with Jesus in the very, very special way 00:05:49.31\00:05:52.31 and let that relationship continue to grow and grow 00:05:52.35\00:05:54.75 until Jesus shall come. 00:05:54.78\00:05:57.19 Bless us now we pray to this end. 00:05:57.22\00:05:59.22 And we've turn everything over to You, 00:05:59.25\00:06:00.86 in Jesus' name we pray, amen. 00:06:00.89\00:06:02.99 Again, the subject is defeat loneliness. 00:06:07.96\00:06:10.67 How do you defeat loneliness? 00:06:10.70\00:06:13.34 If I asked you the question, 00:06:13.37\00:06:14.80 and you don't have to raise your hand. 00:06:14.84\00:06:16.74 But if I asked, as there ever been a time 00:06:16.77\00:06:18.84 in your life that you've been lonely? 00:06:18.87\00:06:21.68 Has there ever been a time that you felt lonely? 00:06:21.71\00:06:24.98 You know, is there ever been a time 00:06:25.01\00:06:26.35 that situations and circumstances 00:06:26.38\00:06:28.85 that you felt like there was no one, 00:06:28.88\00:06:30.45 you had no friends, 00:06:30.49\00:06:31.89 there was no one you could count on, 00:06:31.92\00:06:33.49 there's no one that you could call upon. 00:06:33.52\00:06:35.99 You know, and there's millions of people like that today. 00:06:36.02\00:06:39.43 But I thank God we have the answers in His Word. 00:06:39.46\00:06:43.57 If we follow, now remember, 00:06:43.60\00:06:45.23 all these answers in the Word of God, 00:06:45.27\00:06:46.87 if we do not follow the counsel of God, 00:06:46.90\00:06:49.20 it's not going to work. 00:06:49.24\00:06:50.74 God always has the answers 00:06:50.77\00:06:52.11 and they're always the right answers. 00:06:52.14\00:06:54.71 There's a story told and this takes place 00:06:54.74\00:06:57.28 in the summer of 1881. 00:06:57.31\00:06:59.71 This is a long time ago, the summer of 1881. 00:06:59.75\00:07:03.02 There was a gentleman had been delighting the party 00:07:03.05\00:07:06.32 as he was singing some gospel songs, 00:07:06.35\00:07:09.12 as he was singing his songs in rendition as it were, 00:07:09.16\00:07:12.76 some familiar tunes, 00:07:12.79\00:07:14.13 and people were singing along with him, 00:07:14.16\00:07:16.00 and they were having just a good wonderful time. 00:07:16.03\00:07:18.73 And the song was "Jesus, lover of my soul." 00:07:18.77\00:07:24.04 I don't know if any of you know that one 00:07:24.07\00:07:26.11 "Jesus, lover of my soul," but the words are beautiful, 00:07:26.14\00:07:30.55 it draws you close to Jesus. 00:07:30.58\00:07:33.15 This is an interesting song this man was singing, 00:07:33.18\00:07:35.95 and there was an interesting person 00:07:35.98\00:07:38.22 who was there listening to that song. 00:07:38.25\00:07:40.96 And when he had finished singing that song, 00:07:40.99\00:07:43.12 another man came up, 00:07:43.16\00:07:44.49 and approached him and he began to talk to him. 00:07:44.53\00:07:47.86 And he began to say, you know, were you in the war of late, 00:07:47.90\00:07:52.60 the last war that we had, which would be the 1863, 00:07:52.63\00:07:56.87 which is about 18 years previous. 00:07:56.91\00:07:59.34 Did you fight in that war? 00:07:59.37\00:08:01.01 He heard him sing, heard him sing that song. 00:08:01.04\00:08:03.95 And so he steps in out of the shadows and he said, 00:08:03.98\00:08:06.38 "Were you in that war?" 00:08:06.41\00:08:08.15 The man said, "Yes, I was in that war. 00:08:08.18\00:08:11.45 Yes, sir, I fought under General Grant." 00:08:11.49\00:08:14.82 The man said, "I too fought in the war, 00:08:14.86\00:08:17.16 but I was your enemy. 00:08:17.19\00:08:19.33 I fought on the opposite side. 00:08:19.36\00:08:22.03 And, you know, I remember, I came near, 00:08:22.06\00:08:25.00 almost 18 years ago, I came very near to you." 00:08:25.03\00:08:29.27 The man wondered, "How did he know 18 years ago 00:08:29.30\00:08:31.84 we were fighting on different sides. 00:08:31.87\00:08:33.48 How would you know? 00:08:33.51\00:08:34.84 How did you know, you came near to me?" 00:08:34.88\00:08:36.51 These things were going rampant in his mind. 00:08:36.54\00:08:39.51 He said, "If I'm not mistaken," 00:08:39.55\00:08:41.25 the gentleman said as he came up. 00:08:41.28\00:08:42.95 "You were walking guard duty 18 years ago. 00:08:42.98\00:08:45.52 In fact, 00:08:45.55\00:08:46.89 tonight's the anniversary of that." 00:08:46.92\00:08:48.82 How he remembered. This was the enemy talking. 00:08:48.86\00:08:51.99 The man said, "Yes, that's about right. 00:08:52.03\00:08:54.36 Yes, I was on guard duty that night, I remember." 00:08:54.40\00:08:57.80 He said, "And I noticed," he said, 00:08:57.83\00:08:59.17 "I was sent out to kill you. 00:08:59.20\00:09:02.30 That was my job, the moon was full, 00:09:02.34\00:09:06.27 I could see you walking 00:09:06.31\00:09:08.18 up and down the path of your guard duty." 00:09:08.21\00:09:12.25 And then he said, "I looked, and I was sure, 00:09:12.28\00:09:15.52 I was sent out because I was the best shot. 00:09:15.55\00:09:18.42 I could shoot anything and hit everything. 00:09:18.45\00:09:20.82 And I took my gun and I aimed at right at your heart, 00:09:20.86\00:09:24.56 right at your heart. 00:09:24.59\00:09:25.93 And then I heard 00:09:25.96\00:09:27.66 something you were singing came out 00:09:27.70\00:09:30.37 and part of the words were cover my defenseless head 00:09:30.40\00:09:35.07 with the shadow of thy wing." 00:09:35.10\00:09:37.27 Part of that song, "cover..." 00:09:37.31\00:09:39.44 Notice this 00:09:39.47\00:09:40.81 "my defenseless head with the shadow of thy wing." 00:09:40.84\00:09:44.45 He said, "I tried to pull the trigger 00:09:44.48\00:09:46.18 and I could not do it. 00:09:46.21\00:09:48.98 My job was to kill you that night and then attack, 00:09:49.02\00:09:52.32 we couldn't do it." 00:09:52.35\00:09:53.69 He said, "My friend, your prayer was answered. 00:09:53.72\00:09:56.96 All I could do was to put the gun away and I left." 00:09:56.99\00:10:01.36 Very interesting. "I felt sure." 00:10:01.40\00:10:04.37 He said, "I felt sure as you were singing that song. 00:10:04.40\00:10:08.47 And I know as I heard those words, 00:10:08.50\00:10:10.57 the Holy Spirit impressed me to spare your life." 00:10:10.61\00:10:13.98 You know how interesting that is 00:10:14.01\00:10:15.48 when you think about it. 00:10:15.51\00:10:16.85 And naturally, as this man heard it, 00:10:16.88\00:10:18.48 the singer heard it, 00:10:18.51\00:10:19.85 he grasp the hand of his so called enemy. 00:10:19.88\00:10:23.39 He said, "Thank you, sir. 00:10:23.42\00:10:25.02 Thank you that you didn't pull that trigger." 00:10:25.05\00:10:28.16 He said, "I remember the night very well. 00:10:28.19\00:10:31.13 I remember very well because it was a night 00:10:31.16\00:10:33.53 he said I was feeling..." 00:10:33.56\00:10:35.23 Notice, even as a soldier, 00:10:35.26\00:10:37.93 he was feeling depressed and he was feeling lonely. 00:10:37.97\00:10:41.97 He felt like there was no one else alive 00:10:42.00\00:10:43.87 on the face of the planet 00:10:43.91\00:10:45.24 that knew what he was going through, 00:10:45.27\00:10:47.44 because he knew as he walked that guard duty, 00:10:47.48\00:10:50.08 that he would be a target for the enemy 00:10:50.11\00:10:52.21 because they said there's enemies out there. 00:10:52.25\00:10:55.32 So he said, I was depressed and I was 00:10:55.35\00:10:57.82 had this feeling of loneliness 00:10:57.85\00:10:59.95 that I can't tell you, but I still tried to do my job. 00:10:59.99\00:11:03.12 I knew my post was in great danger. 00:11:03.16\00:11:06.59 And all I could think about was home. 00:11:06.63\00:11:08.50 All I could think about was my family. 00:11:08.53\00:11:10.57 All I could think about was my friends 00:11:10.60\00:11:12.90 and trying to get home. 00:11:12.93\00:11:14.90 And I was so discouraged, and I felt so alone. 00:11:14.94\00:11:19.67 But then I began to think of what the Bible has said 00:11:19.71\00:11:22.68 that God cares for us. 00:11:22.71\00:11:25.45 He cares for us, as He cares for that sparrow 00:11:25.48\00:11:28.38 than He cared much more for me. 00:11:28.42\00:11:31.35 After all, we are made in His image. 00:11:31.39\00:11:33.32 And he said, "Somehow, 00:11:33.36\00:11:34.69 that little sparrow and the human being, 00:11:34.72\00:11:36.73 I gained confidence, and I gained trust, 00:11:36.76\00:11:39.69 and I claimed the promises of God." 00:11:39.73\00:11:42.33 And he said, "No longer did my heart 00:11:42.36\00:11:43.97 feel lonely anymore. 00:11:44.00\00:11:45.60 Something took control of me." 00:11:45.63\00:11:47.97 As I said, "God, I thank You. 00:11:48.00\00:11:50.14 I thank You that You care for us. 00:11:50.17\00:11:52.17 And that Your watchful eye has always on us 00:11:52.21\00:11:55.08 as You watch the sparrow, 00:11:55.11\00:11:56.44 I know You're watching over me." 00:11:56.48\00:11:58.75 Here was two different men with two different backgrounds 00:11:58.78\00:12:04.49 as it worked, even in the same country, 00:12:04.52\00:12:06.99 but it was divisioned 00:12:07.02\00:12:08.36 between the North and the South. 00:12:08.39\00:12:10.76 And they were supposedly bitter enemies. 00:12:10.79\00:12:13.83 The nation almost came down that you talk about here 00:12:13.86\00:12:18.33 the peace that they wanted and they were fighting for, 00:12:18.37\00:12:21.14 they thought for a while there would be no peace. 00:12:21.17\00:12:24.61 But after the war, there was unity 00:12:24.64\00:12:27.31 and the country came together in nearly every area, 00:12:27.34\00:12:30.61 education, power, race, everything you can think about. 00:12:30.65\00:12:34.22 And you know what? 00:12:34.25\00:12:35.58 And he said, "You know the song that touched my life, 00:12:35.62\00:12:38.29 Jesus, lover of my soul. 00:12:38.32\00:12:40.86 This song saved a brother's life." 00:12:40.89\00:12:44.86 That very song he said, "You know what? 00:12:44.89\00:12:47.66 I was pressed to pull that trigger, 00:12:47.70\00:12:51.20 but the common love 00:12:51.23\00:12:52.57 for my fellowman constrained me. 00:12:52.60\00:12:54.84 Certainly the Holy Spirit did that. 00:12:54.87\00:12:57.07 There would be assassin turned and walked away." 00:12:57.11\00:13:01.24 Well, you know, the men of God in these ages 00:13:01.28\00:13:04.71 have found their comfort. 00:13:04.75\00:13:07.22 They found their comfort in Jesus Christ. 00:13:07.25\00:13:09.02 There's no doubt about it. 00:13:09.05\00:13:10.62 And indeed, I know He has the answers 00:13:10.65\00:13:13.19 to every problem that we may have. 00:13:13.22\00:13:16.42 Doesn't matter what it is, God has the answer, 00:13:16.46\00:13:19.29 whether you're on the battlefield, 00:13:19.33\00:13:20.66 and you're lonely, and you're depressed, 00:13:20.70\00:13:22.03 and you're anxious, and you want to just get home, 00:13:22.06\00:13:24.20 and you feel like there's no one else out there. 00:13:24.23\00:13:26.10 God is there. 00:13:26.13\00:13:28.04 And there if He began to sing and to hum that song, 00:13:28.07\00:13:32.47 we may find in Christ, 00:13:32.51\00:13:34.81 those who might be lonely today, 00:13:34.84\00:13:36.31 we could find in Christ all that we need. 00:13:36.34\00:13:39.11 Companionship and fellowship, 00:13:39.15\00:13:41.75 if we have the right relationship with Him. 00:13:41.78\00:13:44.12 There's no need to be lonely 00:13:44.15\00:13:46.55 because all of heaven is with us. 00:13:46.59\00:13:49.12 But you know, we have to develop this thing 00:13:49.16\00:13:51.09 called communication. 00:13:51.13\00:13:53.03 Communication with heaven. 00:13:53.06\00:13:54.60 Communication with one another. 00:13:54.63\00:13:57.00 Or maybe we might be gripped 00:13:57.03\00:13:59.43 with this feeling of loneliness and insecurity. 00:13:59.47\00:14:03.74 How do we defeat loneliness? 00:14:03.77\00:14:06.88 Now, it's interesting subject matter. 00:14:06.91\00:14:09.24 It really is. 00:14:09.28\00:14:10.61 You know, and I've asked at the beginning does, 00:14:10.65\00:14:12.51 you know, has anyone ever felt lonely? 00:14:12.55\00:14:13.88 I think probably every one of us here at some time, 00:14:13.92\00:14:16.75 at some point, we felt lonely. 00:14:16.79\00:14:19.55 We felt all alone, even though we knew down deep 00:14:19.59\00:14:22.32 that we were not alone. 00:14:22.36\00:14:24.56 We knew somebody was there, we knew somebody care, 00:14:24.59\00:14:27.40 but yet down deep it's like, 00:14:27.43\00:14:30.03 "Oh, no one cares. I feel so lonely." 00:14:30.07\00:14:34.04 How did that really make you feel about yourself? 00:14:34.07\00:14:36.50 How did it make you feel about your neighbors, 00:14:36.54\00:14:38.57 or your friends, or other people of the world 00:14:38.61\00:14:41.24 when you really sat down and begin to think about it? 00:14:41.28\00:14:44.01 A definition of lonely is kind of, you know, 00:14:44.05\00:14:47.42 I think it's pretty simple and straight. 00:14:47.45\00:14:49.48 Lonely simply means I'm lonesome. 00:14:49.52\00:14:51.92 There's a lot of songs 00:14:51.95\00:14:53.29 that have been written in the past, 00:14:53.32\00:14:54.66 are you lonesome, you say tonight, are lonesome. 00:14:54.69\00:14:59.76 And so it means they may be without friends 00:14:59.79\00:15:02.66 having a cause for a lonely feeling, 00:15:02.70\00:15:05.50 something calls this feeling to creep up 00:15:05.53\00:15:08.80 in and on us that we begin to feel alone. 00:15:08.84\00:15:12.74 We begin too long for friends. 00:15:12.77\00:15:15.74 We long for someone to say something to us, 00:15:15.78\00:15:19.31 and there was no one there. 00:15:19.35\00:15:22.25 We found ourselves alone. 00:15:22.28\00:15:24.35 And that simply means apart from anything or anybody else. 00:15:24.39\00:15:29.59 They say the loneliest feeling is you feel you're all alone. 00:15:29.62\00:15:34.60 Lonely, the fear of being lonely, 00:15:34.63\00:15:38.00 there's people who fear of being alone, 00:15:38.03\00:15:39.37 they're not lonely, 00:15:39.40\00:15:40.74 but they fear that someday they might be. 00:15:40.77\00:15:42.74 And so God's Word has the answers with that. 00:15:42.77\00:15:44.87 It's a real, mental, and a physical problem 00:15:44.91\00:15:48.98 that really needs to be addressed. 00:15:49.01\00:15:51.08 Remember, it's a what? 00:15:51.11\00:15:52.98 Mental and physical 00:15:53.01\00:15:56.12 because if we get that in our mind, 00:15:56.15\00:15:57.95 it affects us physically, our well being, 00:15:57.99\00:16:00.69 the way we approach the world, the way that we live, 00:16:00.72\00:16:03.46 the way we deal with one another. 00:16:03.49\00:16:05.83 You know, that's why we're finding a lot of people 00:16:05.86\00:16:08.53 who do things that they really shouldn't be doing. 00:16:08.56\00:16:10.70 You'll find that they started out 00:16:10.73\00:16:12.40 as they were very lonely. 00:16:12.43\00:16:14.14 They had no friends, 00:16:14.17\00:16:15.64 they had no one they could talk to, 00:16:15.67\00:16:17.57 they had no one they could counsel with, 00:16:17.61\00:16:20.71 they didn't read the Word of God, 00:16:20.74\00:16:22.21 they didn't go for the answers can be found. 00:16:22.24\00:16:24.91 And so they continue, it went from bad to worse. 00:16:24.95\00:16:28.52 But you know what? 00:16:28.55\00:16:29.88 God made man to enjoy the company of others. 00:16:29.92\00:16:34.86 Think about this. 00:16:34.89\00:16:36.22 God made man to enjoy the company of others. 00:16:36.26\00:16:39.39 And you read that in Genesis 2:18, 00:16:39.43\00:16:42.36 because it says there, 00:16:42.40\00:16:43.77 "And the Lord God said, it is not good," 00:16:43.80\00:16:46.13 notice, "that man should," do what, 00:16:46.17\00:16:48.07 "should be alone." God said what? 00:16:48.10\00:16:50.31 It's not good that man should be alone. 00:16:50.34\00:16:53.48 Notice that. 00:16:53.51\00:16:55.11 "I will make him a helpmeet for him." 00:16:55.14\00:16:59.08 God recognized, do you think it caught Him by surprise? 00:16:59.11\00:17:02.82 I'm realizing, He made Adam 00:17:02.85\00:17:04.19 and He made all these other things, 00:17:04.22\00:17:05.55 you know, then all of a sudden, He come and says, 00:17:05.59\00:17:06.92 "Well, I need to make man. 00:17:06.96\00:17:08.29 He's the only one that doesn't have a helpmate," 00:17:08.32\00:17:10.33 Didn't catch God by surprise. 00:17:10.36\00:17:11.69 He knew it was going to happen. He understood. 00:17:11.73\00:17:13.90 He said, "I'm going to make a helpmeet for him. 00:17:13.93\00:17:16.36 It's not good that he's alone." 00:17:16.40\00:17:19.27 A helpmeet here is simply means a helper. 00:17:19.30\00:17:23.71 I'm going to make someone for him that will support him, 00:17:23.74\00:17:27.98 did you get it? 00:17:28.01\00:17:29.34 And we realize if anybody in the world needs 00:17:29.38\00:17:31.41 some support lot of time, it's the men, 00:17:31.45\00:17:33.85 they need a good woman to support them, 00:17:33.88\00:17:36.65 to encourage them, and to strengthen them. 00:17:36.69\00:17:39.35 And so God knew that so He said, 00:17:39.39\00:17:41.32 "She is going to be the helper. 00:17:41.36\00:17:43.66 She's going to be the supporter." 00:17:43.69\00:17:45.76 Patriarchs and Prophets, the book that I love, 00:17:45.79\00:17:48.56 page 46 says it like this. 00:17:48.60\00:17:50.67 When it says, "He's going to make a helpmeet for him. 00:17:50.70\00:17:53.40 It means a helper corresponding to him. 00:17:53.44\00:17:57.84 A helper, one who is fitted to be his companion." 00:17:57.87\00:18:02.71 I like that, God said, "I'm going to do what? 00:18:02.74\00:18:04.91 "I'm going to make..." 00:18:04.95\00:18:06.72 He's going to create someone that would be fitted 00:18:06.75\00:18:10.35 for the companionship of the man, 00:18:10.39\00:18:12.25 they would fit together, 00:18:12.29\00:18:14.02 and they would be one together. 00:18:14.06\00:18:17.16 Notice that, they would be one together in love, 00:18:17.19\00:18:19.46 they'll be one together in sympathy. 00:18:19.49\00:18:22.16 That'd be one together. 00:18:22.20\00:18:23.53 She would be part of man's what the Bible said. 00:18:23.57\00:18:26.43 See, this goes back, God says, "He's going to need somebody. 00:18:26.47\00:18:30.51 He's going to be lonely if he doesn't have somebody." 00:18:30.54\00:18:32.84 Yeah, he had the world, did he not, 00:18:32.87\00:18:34.38 he had all the animals, he had everything in the world, 00:18:34.41\00:18:36.41 but he didn't have the companion. 00:18:36.44\00:18:38.48 And so God said, "I'm going to have one, 00:18:38.51\00:18:40.58 she a part of man, she is his second half." 00:18:40.62\00:18:45.62 Kind of interesting there. 00:18:45.65\00:18:48.09 This would simply show the close connection 00:18:48.12\00:18:50.99 that's supposed to be 00:18:51.03\00:18:52.36 between the union and the affection, 00:18:52.39\00:18:54.66 the attachment that should exist 00:18:54.70\00:18:57.03 in the relationship between man and woman. 00:18:57.07\00:19:00.44 God knew that man needed that companionship. 00:19:00.47\00:19:05.47 He needed to love and to be loved. 00:19:05.51\00:19:09.11 Little babies die 00:19:09.14\00:19:10.68 for the lack of somebody to love them. 00:19:10.71\00:19:13.28 They can be fed, they can be nourished, 00:19:13.31\00:19:15.08 they can be, but unless their health rocked, 00:19:15.12\00:19:18.52 health close, love, saying to, 00:19:18.55\00:19:20.52 prayed with, whatever, many of them die. 00:19:20.56\00:19:24.53 Very interesting, because that's God made them. 00:19:24.56\00:19:27.53 Man becomes lonely 00:19:27.56\00:19:29.66 if there's not other people around. 00:19:29.70\00:19:31.80 He just becomes lonely. 00:19:31.83\00:19:33.80 He may not be able to explain it 00:19:33.84\00:19:35.24 because I wasn't alive wanted to be just be alone. 00:19:35.27\00:19:38.61 But, you know, you don't want that 00:19:38.64\00:19:39.97 for a long period of time. 00:19:40.01\00:19:42.08 What if you were the only one that was alive on this planet? 00:19:42.11\00:19:44.91 Oh, you say, "Oh, Lord, it's good. 00:19:44.95\00:19:46.28 I can go here and get this and go get out there." 00:19:46.31\00:19:48.32 It wouldn't work. It would not work. 00:19:48.35\00:19:51.15 You may not last very long 00:19:51.19\00:19:52.59 as long as you think that you might. 00:19:52.62\00:19:55.06 Loneliness is a horrible, horrible thing. 00:19:55.09\00:19:57.76 God has answers for us and I'm thankful for that. 00:19:57.79\00:20:01.03 In fact, there's one psychiatrist, Dr. Kramer, 00:20:01.06\00:20:04.87 notice this, he's been specializing for over 30 years 00:20:04.90\00:20:09.04 about treating depressed and lonely people. 00:20:09.07\00:20:13.21 Here's what he says about it. 00:20:13.24\00:20:14.74 After 30 years of experience, he says, "The human being, 00:20:14.78\00:20:18.91 the human being is the only species 00:20:18.95\00:20:22.02 that can't survive alone." 00:20:22.05\00:20:25.12 After 30 years of study, he said, "The human being, 00:20:25.15\00:20:27.72 the only species that cannot survive alone. 00:20:27.76\00:20:31.49 The human being needs another human being." 00:20:31.53\00:20:35.50 Notice that. 00:20:35.53\00:20:36.87 Otherwise, here's what he put, he said, 00:20:36.90\00:20:38.23 "Otherwise, they're just dead." 00:20:38.27\00:20:41.70 Interesting, sound like experience. 00:20:41.74\00:20:44.87 Lot of occasions to examine a lot of different people. 00:20:44.91\00:20:49.81 So he says this. 00:20:49.84\00:20:51.31 And I think this would help all of us today. 00:20:51.35\00:20:54.02 When you're thinking about someone that's lonely, 00:20:54.05\00:20:55.92 how to defeat loneliness is here's what he suggest. 00:20:55.95\00:20:59.52 See if it might work for you or maybe would have worked 00:20:59.55\00:21:02.76 at one point in your life. 00:21:02.79\00:21:04.19 Notice, he says, you know what? 00:21:04.23\00:21:05.69 "A telephone call 00:21:05.73\00:21:07.40 to a depressed person can save a life." 00:21:07.43\00:21:10.83 A telephone call just to say, "Hi, we're thinking about you," 00:21:10.87\00:21:14.34 might save that person's life. 00:21:14.37\00:21:16.47 Many times they've had a gun to their head. 00:21:16.50\00:21:18.27 Many times they're thinking suicide 00:21:18.31\00:21:19.91 and that call prevented it from happening. 00:21:19.94\00:21:23.18 He said, "Also an occasional word 00:21:23.21\00:21:25.88 or just a 10 minute visit can save a life. 00:21:25.91\00:21:31.25 And the bottom line, he says, you know what? 00:21:31.29\00:21:32.85 The old saying says, 00:21:32.89\00:21:34.22 you can't buy love, you can't buy it. 00:21:34.26\00:21:37.99 But if 10 minute conversation, a phone call, a little card, 00:21:38.03\00:21:43.60 a word the Bible says in what? 00:21:43.63\00:21:45.37 In due season can help someone going through this. 00:21:45.40\00:21:48.17 The Bible says in 1 Peter. 00:21:48.20\00:21:49.64 You have your Bible, 1 Peter 5:7, 00:21:49.67\00:21:52.84 one of my favorite passages. 00:21:52.87\00:21:55.54 It's a short couple little lines, 00:21:55.58\00:21:57.55 but notice how powerful these words are. 00:21:57.58\00:22:00.55 1 Peter 5:7 says, notice this, it tells us, "Casting all..." 00:22:00.58\00:22:05.05 You finish it with me. 00:22:05.09\00:22:06.42 "Casting all your care upon him, 00:22:06.45\00:22:09.52 for he careth for you." 00:22:09.56\00:22:11.73 What does the Bible say, "Okay, we're lonely. 00:22:11.76\00:22:14.26 We're a little bit depressed 00:22:14.30\00:22:15.63 where things are not going our way. 00:22:15.66\00:22:17.07 We've lost loved ones. 00:22:17.10\00:22:18.43 We're not sure 00:22:18.47\00:22:19.80 how we're going to get by in the future. 00:22:19.83\00:22:21.54 And we're just feeling really bad." 00:22:21.57\00:22:23.67 Jesus says, "Here, I'm going to be able to help you 00:22:23.71\00:22:26.54 because you can't carry these burdens by yourself." 00:22:26.57\00:22:30.01 These things are too heavy for you to do. 00:22:30.05\00:22:32.01 So, Kenny, what I want you to do is cast all, 00:22:32.05\00:22:35.12 not part of it, but all your cares. 00:22:35.15\00:22:38.02 And you know what cares is, 00:22:38.05\00:22:39.45 it's translated there in the Greek. 00:22:39.49\00:22:41.62 It says, "All your distractions..." 00:22:41.66\00:22:43.93 Somebody listen. 00:22:43.96\00:22:45.46 "Cast all your," what? 00:22:45.49\00:22:47.53 "Your distractions." 00:22:47.56\00:22:48.96 See a lot of things in the world, 00:22:49.00\00:22:50.33 they're distractions, they take us away, 00:22:50.37\00:22:52.87 keep us from focusing 00:22:52.90\00:22:54.24 on what we should be focusing on. 00:22:54.27\00:22:55.84 They're distractions. 00:22:55.87\00:22:57.31 They take us away but He said, "Cast all of your distractions, 00:22:57.34\00:23:00.98 your cares upon me, for I care for you." 00:23:01.01\00:23:05.28 How beautiful that is. 00:23:05.31\00:23:07.05 He wants us to do that. 00:23:07.08\00:23:08.68 What is this passage really tell us here 00:23:08.72\00:23:11.02 about those who are fighting the battle of loneliness? 00:23:11.05\00:23:17.03 It says that, "We can whatever our anxieties, 00:23:17.06\00:23:20.03 whatever our problems, whatever so easily beset us, 00:23:20.06\00:23:24.60 our troubles, it seem like every day when you get up, 00:23:24.63\00:23:28.37 you're confronted with a new set of troubles." 00:23:28.40\00:23:31.37 The world is confronting troubles 00:23:31.41\00:23:33.48 every day that we get up. 00:23:33.51\00:23:36.01 They're talking war, 00:23:36.04\00:23:38.48 they're talking about retaliation, 00:23:38.51\00:23:41.18 they're talking about when they have war, 00:23:41.22\00:23:42.92 whoever declares war on us 00:23:42.95\00:23:45.15 we're going to make it short, and simple, 00:23:45.19\00:23:47.66 and put an end to it rather quickly. 00:23:47.69\00:23:49.26 They're talking about using big things 00:23:49.29\00:23:52.96 with the least amount of deaths. 00:23:52.99\00:23:55.50 Certainly talking about to civilians. 00:23:55.53\00:23:58.63 That's the top, but remember 00:23:58.67\00:24:00.40 there's wars and rumors of wars. 00:24:00.44\00:24:02.90 And so it drives a person kind of into a shell. 00:24:02.94\00:24:06.51 But God says like this, "Take everything that you have. 00:24:06.54\00:24:10.28 No matter what it is. It's too heavy for you." 00:24:10.31\00:24:13.15 And I want you to notice this, that He said cast it, 00:24:13.18\00:24:15.45 and another word is spread it. 00:24:15.48\00:24:16.99 Spread those things out. 00:24:17.02\00:24:19.42 Every one of those, spread it out before me. 00:24:19.45\00:24:23.29 I have an answer, see that's good news. 00:24:23.32\00:24:25.86 I have an answer for everyone that you spread out here. 00:24:25.89\00:24:30.40 And you say, "Well, I've been wounded so bad. 00:24:30.43\00:24:32.67 My best friend has wounded me. 00:24:32.70\00:24:35.04 It made me feel lonely. I've been withdrawing." 00:24:35.07\00:24:37.74 You know, God can take care of that for you. 00:24:37.77\00:24:41.18 You say, "I'm sick. I have a disease." 00:24:41.21\00:24:43.01 God can heal. Can He not? 00:24:43.04\00:24:44.55 Absolutely. 00:24:44.58\00:24:46.11 You say, "I'm dead, I'm weak, and I'm struggling. 00:24:46.15\00:24:48.05 I don't know if I can get by." 00:24:48.08\00:24:49.42 God is your strength that's what the Bible says. 00:24:49.45\00:24:52.09 A lot of times we look too much to our self rather than to Him. 00:24:52.12\00:24:56.73 Some say, "I'm just tempted. 00:24:56.76\00:24:58.09 Every time I turn around, I'm just tempted to do this. 00:24:58.13\00:25:00.10 I'm tempted to do that." 00:25:00.13\00:25:01.56 Do we not believe that He can give us the victory? 00:25:01.60\00:25:04.83 See, all of these things I'm talking about here 00:25:04.87\00:25:06.43 can drive us into a little shell. 00:25:06.47\00:25:09.07 That we isolate ourselves from others 00:25:09.10\00:25:10.87 and then we do become lonely. 00:25:10.91\00:25:12.77 We become depressed. 00:25:12.81\00:25:14.91 And God says, "No, what I want you to do 00:25:14.94\00:25:16.95 is cast them all out before me. 00:25:16.98\00:25:18.45 Spread them out here, I'll do something for you." 00:25:18.48\00:25:20.12 Why? 00:25:20.15\00:25:21.48 Because my Bible says in Psalms 117, 00:25:21.52\00:25:23.85 notice how it says, 147:3. 00:25:23.89\00:25:27.72 Psalms 147:3. 00:25:27.76\00:25:30.29 Notice these words, how powerful. 00:25:30.33\00:25:33.53 "Why do I spread these out for Him? 00:25:33.56\00:25:35.46 Why cannot throw anything and everything out before Him? 00:25:35.50\00:25:38.63 Because He says, 00:25:38.67\00:25:40.00 "He healeth the broken in heart, 00:25:40.04\00:25:42.90 and He bindeth up their wounds." 00:25:42.94\00:25:46.14 How wonderful that is. What does He do? 00:25:46.17\00:25:48.41 He healeth those who are broken in heart. 00:25:48.44\00:25:52.35 We say something like my heart's broken. 00:25:52.38\00:25:55.18 And it can be broken in a lot of different ways 00:25:55.22\00:25:57.59 in this life. 00:25:57.62\00:25:58.99 And most of the time 00:25:59.02\00:26:00.36 it's people who break other people's hearts, 00:26:00.39\00:26:03.12 and they're not telling the truth 00:26:03.16\00:26:04.49 or not doing the right thing. 00:26:04.53\00:26:05.86 But Jesus says, "I know when your heart's broken. 00:26:05.89\00:26:08.26 I know when you're feeling bad. 00:26:08.30\00:26:09.63 I know when you're sad. 00:26:09.66\00:26:11.00 I know when you're lonely." 00:26:11.03\00:26:12.37 But He said, "I want you to... 00:26:12.40\00:26:13.74 I'm the one that heals them." 00:26:13.77\00:26:15.64 You can go to psychiatrist if you want to. 00:26:15.67\00:26:17.81 He doesn't do any healing. 00:26:17.84\00:26:19.37 He might give you a few thoughts and things to do 00:26:19.41\00:26:22.61 that might be good within themselves. 00:26:22.64\00:26:24.48 But the healer, the great healer 00:26:24.51\00:26:26.45 is Jesus Christ. 00:26:26.48\00:26:27.82 Notice this, "He bindeth up their wounds 00:26:27.85\00:26:30.39 because they've been torn apart. 00:26:30.42\00:26:32.85 They've been ripped open by life, by family, 00:26:32.89\00:26:36.83 and by friends, and it's just too much." 00:26:36.86\00:26:39.63 But He said, "I can heal those things." 00:26:39.66\00:26:41.63 How can God do this? 00:26:41.66\00:26:43.00 How can He just do it? 00:26:43.03\00:26:44.37 Well, another Bible passage tells us this in Psalms 147:5, 00:26:44.40\00:26:49.24 it says, "Great is our Lord." 00:26:49.27\00:26:52.77 That started out, great is what? 00:26:52.81\00:26:55.31 "Great is our Lord and of great power," 00:26:55.34\00:26:58.05 notice, "his understanding is infinite." 00:26:58.08\00:27:02.55 How can He do it? Because He's powerful. 00:27:02.58\00:27:05.09 He can do it. Why? 00:27:05.12\00:27:06.45 Because He knows everything. 00:27:06.49\00:27:07.82 It's infinite, 00:27:07.86\00:27:09.19 nothing catches Him by surprise. 00:27:09.22\00:27:10.56 He understands everything that you're going through. 00:27:10.59\00:27:12.89 Instead of setbacks like, 00:27:12.93\00:27:14.26 "Nobody understand me, nobody understand me." 00:27:14.30\00:27:19.83 Remember, I think was Jeremy many, many years ago, 00:27:19.87\00:27:22.17 which is like seven or eight years old. 00:27:22.20\00:27:24.17 And he said to his grandpa one time, he said, 00:27:24.21\00:27:27.88 he was wanting to go somewhere and do something. 00:27:27.91\00:27:30.48 And he knew how to butter, maybe he still does. 00:27:30.51\00:27:33.82 Hope he sees this, still knows how to do it. 00:27:33.85\00:27:38.45 But he wanted to get his way on something, you see. 00:27:38.49\00:27:41.39 And so he began to explain why he wanted to go, 00:27:41.42\00:27:44.13 and what he wanted to do, 00:27:44.16\00:27:45.73 and grandpa is kind of shaking his head like, 00:27:45.76\00:27:47.10 "Well, you better not, you know, mom and dad, 00:27:47.13\00:27:49.86 they may not like that, whatever." 00:27:49.90\00:27:52.83 He said, "Grandpa, I'm coming to you 00:27:52.87\00:27:54.50 because you're the only one that understands me." 00:27:54.54\00:27:57.97 Somebody not with me. 00:27:58.01\00:28:00.98 You know what, he got to go. 00:28:01.01\00:28:02.78 You're the only one that really understands me. 00:28:02.81\00:28:06.08 It's nice to have someone who really understands you. 00:28:06.11\00:28:08.18 We can go to God. 00:28:08.22\00:28:09.55 It's not a joke as we can go to Him and say, 00:28:09.58\00:28:11.65 "You're really the only one who really understands me. 00:28:11.69\00:28:14.39 You're the one that knows all about. 00:28:14.42\00:28:15.99 And You're the one 00:28:16.02\00:28:17.36 that I can cast these things at Your feet. 00:28:17.39\00:28:18.76 You have all understanding, You have all wisdom, 00:28:18.79\00:28:21.66 it's infinite." 00:28:21.70\00:28:23.67 So He has the answers. 00:28:23.70\00:28:26.80 I'm very grateful and thankful 00:28:26.84\00:28:28.17 that we are not just left alone, aren't you? 00:28:28.20\00:28:31.37 See, a lot of time people say, "You know, we live in a world, 00:28:31.41\00:28:33.27 right, God just winds us up and just lets us go wild. 00:28:33.31\00:28:36.24 As it were, just go to be run down." 00:28:36.28\00:28:38.48 You know, no, not at all. 00:28:38.51\00:28:39.85 God just didn't put us out, He created us, 00:28:39.88\00:28:41.32 put us out there and just let us go do 00:28:41.35\00:28:43.08 all whatever we want to do when we want to do it. 00:28:43.12\00:28:45.52 Yeah, we have that choice. But God doesn't do it. 00:28:45.55\00:28:48.19 He has a watchful eye on us 00:28:48.22\00:28:50.56 because He knows sooner or later 00:28:50.59\00:28:52.86 if we do our own thing 00:28:52.89\00:28:54.23 that the enemy's going to conquer us. 00:28:54.26\00:28:56.36 And He doesn't want the enemy to conquer us. 00:28:56.40\00:28:58.93 You know, Jesus would say, "This is how you do it." 00:28:58.97\00:29:01.57 He said it was in Matthew 11. 00:29:01.60\00:29:03.24 He says, "Take my yoke," what? "Upon you. 00:29:03.27\00:29:06.37 Take my yoke upon you and learn of me." 00:29:06.41\00:29:11.28 He says, "You're not going to get in trouble, 00:29:11.31\00:29:12.95 and you're not going to be lonely. 00:29:12.98\00:29:14.32 You're not going to get down and out if you yoke up with me, 00:29:14.35\00:29:17.55 because I'm your strength, 00:29:17.59\00:29:18.95 I'm the one that's going to help you 00:29:18.99\00:29:20.42 when you can't pull I'm going to pull for you. 00:29:20.46\00:29:22.66 But when you're giving an effort, 00:29:22.69\00:29:24.03 I'm going to do more than that. 00:29:24.06\00:29:25.96 You take a step, I'll take two." 00:29:25.99\00:29:28.20 What a wonderful Savior that we have. 00:29:28.23\00:29:30.87 When you think Joshua 1:9. 00:29:30.90\00:29:33.84 Notice what it says here. 00:29:33.87\00:29:35.77 And if you study the life of Joshua, well, 00:29:35.80\00:29:38.61 you certainly find some encouragement 00:29:38.64\00:29:40.14 and some strength. 00:29:40.18\00:29:41.51 And then sometime we feel where I read it 00:29:41.54\00:29:43.11 and I feel a little bit embarrassed for some time 00:29:43.14\00:29:44.81 not doing what Joshua did. 00:29:44.85\00:29:46.78 You know Joshua was the man like us, but still yet, 00:29:46.82\00:29:50.69 when he was confronted 00:29:50.72\00:29:52.05 and the peace and the power of God 00:29:52.09\00:29:53.72 was inside of him, 00:29:53.76\00:29:55.09 he did great things for the Savior. 00:29:55.12\00:29:56.99 Joshua 1:9 says, 00:29:57.03\00:29:58.36 here's what we find something else 00:29:58.39\00:29:59.73 that's going to help us to defeat loneliness. 00:29:59.76\00:30:01.86 It's sort of promise. 00:30:01.90\00:30:03.23 It says, "Have not I commanded thee? 00:30:03.26\00:30:06.03 Be," what, you remember? 00:30:06.07\00:30:07.84 "Be strong and," what, "good courage. 00:30:07.87\00:30:11.27 Be not afraid, neither be thou dismayed for the Lord thy God 00:30:11.31\00:30:15.14 is with the whithersoever thou goest." 00:30:15.18\00:30:18.08 Notice those words in there. 00:30:18.11\00:30:20.32 One way to defeat the loneliness 00:30:20.35\00:30:22.12 is what God says, 00:30:22.15\00:30:23.49 notice this, "Have not I commanded thee, 00:30:23.52\00:30:25.89 be strong, be of good courage?" 00:30:25.92\00:30:28.52 Well, I'm embarrassed if I'm not of good courage, 00:30:28.56\00:30:31.19 because there's no reason I shouldn't be a good courage. 00:30:31.23\00:30:32.76 Why? 00:30:32.79\00:30:34.13 Because God wants to be with me. 00:30:34.16\00:30:35.66 He wants me to have His courage, 00:30:35.70\00:30:37.27 not my courage, but His courage. 00:30:37.30\00:30:39.00 He wants me have His strength, not my strength. 00:30:39.03\00:30:41.80 Everything is for us. 00:30:41.84\00:30:43.30 He's doing for us. 00:30:43.34\00:30:44.67 He said, "Don't be afraid. 00:30:44.71\00:30:46.37 In the Word of God, said, 00:30:46.41\00:30:47.74 "Don't be afraid how men going to look at. 00:30:47.78\00:30:49.11 Don't be afraid what men say they're going to do. 00:30:49.14\00:30:51.21 Nothing can happen to you unless God approves of it. 00:30:51.25\00:30:54.22 You're in good hands. 00:30:54.25\00:30:55.58 You're in the hand of your Father 00:30:55.62\00:30:57.29 who again has that watchful eye on you, and He cares for you, 00:30:57.32\00:31:00.66 when maybe the world doesn't care." 00:31:00.69\00:31:04.23 He said, "Don't be dismayed. 00:31:04.26\00:31:06.63 You know, I'm going to be with you wherever you go." 00:31:06.66\00:31:09.23 Now, I count that as a what? 00:31:09.26\00:31:11.43 Promise? 00:31:11.47\00:31:12.93 That is a promise I'm going to be with. 00:31:12.97\00:31:15.04 We've got to get in our head. 00:31:15.07\00:31:16.50 We know those things, we've memorized it. 00:31:16.54\00:31:18.67 But when we go down 00:31:18.71\00:31:20.04 in that valley of the shadow of death, 00:31:20.08\00:31:21.58 as it were, when we're down in the valley experience, 00:31:21.61\00:31:24.51 when nothing seems to be going right, 00:31:24.55\00:31:26.31 we forget that God says, "I'm going to be with you. 00:31:26.35\00:31:29.38 Wherever you go, I'll be there. 00:31:29.42\00:31:32.19 Whatever happens I've been there before. 00:31:32.22\00:31:34.72 That has happened in my life. 00:31:34.76\00:31:36.22 I know what it takes, 00:31:36.26\00:31:37.59 and I'll give you that victory." 00:31:37.63\00:31:39.29 See, this is a beautiful thing as you think 00:31:39.33\00:31:41.13 scripture really comes alive to us. 00:31:41.16\00:31:43.47 That word strong says something to me, it says strong. 00:31:43.50\00:31:47.04 He command us to be strong and you'll say now, 00:31:47.07\00:31:50.07 "What does He mean to be strong? 00:31:50.11\00:31:51.84 Who is He talking about to be strong?" 00:31:51.87\00:31:53.78 Well, Psalms 24:8 says this, 00:31:53.81\00:31:57.75 "Who is the King of glory?" 00:31:57.78\00:32:00.98 But who is what? 00:32:01.02\00:32:02.62 The King of glory? 00:32:02.65\00:32:05.45 And notice what the Bible said here. 00:32:05.49\00:32:07.36 "The Lord strong and mighty, the Lord mighty in battle." 00:32:07.39\00:32:12.56 So this is beautiful. 00:32:12.59\00:32:13.93 When you think about here, He said, 00:32:13.96\00:32:15.53 "I want you to be strong." 00:32:15.56\00:32:17.37 Where do we get our strength? 00:32:17.40\00:32:18.73 It's from the King of glory. Why? 00:32:18.77\00:32:20.30 Because He's strong, because He's mighty, 00:32:20.34\00:32:22.54 because He's mighty strong in battle. 00:32:22.57\00:32:25.27 You know what I think about strong in battle is what? 00:32:25.31\00:32:27.68 When we're battling against the enemy. 00:32:27.71\00:32:31.08 We can't defeat the enemy on our own. 00:32:31.11\00:32:33.72 He's too much for us. 00:32:33.75\00:32:35.68 Think about how he was created and the power that he had, 00:32:35.72\00:32:38.35 and he's still powerful, too much for us. 00:32:38.39\00:32:40.69 And you know what? 00:32:40.72\00:32:42.06 The devil likes for us to do is tell one another... 00:32:42.09\00:32:43.49 Well, let's not talk about the devil's power. 00:32:43.53\00:32:47.83 Think about, many times, let's not talk. 00:32:47.86\00:32:49.60 And I understand 00:32:49.63\00:32:50.97 we're not trying to give praise. 00:32:51.00\00:32:52.33 He didn't get that power until God gave it to him, 00:32:52.37\00:32:54.27 you see, 00:32:54.30\00:32:55.64 but we have to realize that he is, 00:32:55.67\00:32:58.41 and he's too much, he's not a match for us. 00:32:58.44\00:33:01.61 Easily we're put out of our existence 00:33:01.64\00:33:03.08 if it were not for God. 00:33:03.11\00:33:04.61 That means He's watching you every day 00:33:04.65\00:33:06.51 because if He were not what would happen? 00:33:06.55\00:33:08.52 You'd be put out of your existence 00:33:08.55\00:33:10.49 just to meet, and I would be too. 00:33:10.52\00:33:12.25 But God has been watching over you all of your life, 00:33:12.29\00:33:15.02 every day of your life. 00:33:15.06\00:33:16.93 He said, "I'm going to be your strength. 00:33:16.96\00:33:18.43 I'm mighty in battle." Why? 00:33:18.46\00:33:20.40 Because He said, why? He's never lost the battle. 00:33:20.43\00:33:22.80 He's never lost a fight with the devil. 00:33:22.83\00:33:25.17 Think about it. 00:33:25.20\00:33:26.53 Any battle that Lord ever went into, 00:33:26.57\00:33:28.17 He won it every time, hands down. 00:33:28.20\00:33:31.94 And so He's never going to lose one. 00:33:31.97\00:33:34.21 So He said, "Let me fight it for you." 00:33:34.24\00:33:36.24 We don't need to be fighting our own battles, 00:33:36.28\00:33:37.61 God will do it. 00:33:37.65\00:33:39.21 I'll be with you wherever you go. 00:33:39.25\00:33:41.15 Hebrews 13:5, beautiful passage of scripture. 00:33:41.18\00:33:45.02 And this is one everybody has memorized. 00:33:45.05\00:33:46.96 I'm sure time and time again, Hebrews 13:5. 00:33:46.99\00:33:49.56 He said, "I will never," what? 00:33:49.59\00:33:51.39 "Leave thee, nor... 00:33:51.43\00:33:54.60 I'll never leave thee or forsake thee." 00:33:54.63\00:33:57.90 I mean, how many times have we... 00:33:57.93\00:33:59.40 Don't raise your hand, 00:33:59.43\00:34:00.77 but how many have had claimed that promise? 00:34:00.80\00:34:04.11 Has there been something in your life that you say... 00:34:04.14\00:34:07.41 But it seems like I've been forsaken. 00:34:07.44\00:34:10.28 It seemed like they've turned on me. 00:34:10.31\00:34:12.61 It seemed like they said bad things. 00:34:12.65\00:34:15.12 It seems like, it seems like, it seems like 00:34:15.15\00:34:17.59 but God says what? 00:34:17.62\00:34:18.99 "I'm not going to leave you, nor am I going to forsake you." 00:34:19.02\00:34:23.63 We might leave Him. 00:34:23.66\00:34:25.56 But He says what? "I will never leave you." 00:34:25.59\00:34:28.26 This should help us in this stage 00:34:28.30\00:34:30.00 that our mind maybe in to think that we're just lonely, 00:34:30.03\00:34:32.77 we're out here on a corner somewhere by ourselves. 00:34:32.80\00:34:34.70 He said, "Even though you're over there, 00:34:34.74\00:34:36.37 I know where you're at. 00:34:36.40\00:34:37.77 And I want to help you." 00:34:37.81\00:34:39.57 Think about that word for just a moment with me, 00:34:39.61\00:34:41.94 the word forsake. 00:34:41.98\00:34:44.48 Remember, "I'll never leave you and I will not," what? 00:34:44.51\00:34:47.22 "Forsake you." 00:34:47.25\00:34:49.68 When you look at that word there in the Greek, it says, 00:34:49.72\00:34:52.79 "Kenny, I will never abandon you." 00:34:52.82\00:34:57.59 There's been babies, children, that's been abandoned. 00:34:57.63\00:35:03.53 Life was given to them. 00:35:03.57\00:35:04.90 And then, you know, a few hours 00:35:04.93\00:35:07.44 they're in a dumpster somewhere. 00:35:07.47\00:35:12.01 They understand that as they get older, 00:35:12.04\00:35:14.01 and maybe they're told a story 00:35:14.04\00:35:15.48 and they have that feeling of abandonment. 00:35:15.51\00:35:18.28 God says, "They might do it. 00:35:18.31\00:35:19.71 The mother may do it, 00:35:19.75\00:35:21.08 but I will never abandon you, Kenny." 00:35:21.12\00:35:23.49 That's just such an encouragement 00:35:23.52\00:35:25.09 today to me. 00:35:25.12\00:35:27.46 Another word for that is desert you. 00:35:27.49\00:35:31.99 "I'll never desert you." 00:35:32.03\00:35:34.36 Same thing as leave. 00:35:34.40\00:35:35.73 "I'll never desert you." 00:35:35.76\00:35:37.57 'Cause people will say, 00:35:37.60\00:35:38.93 "Yeah, but you know, our family, 00:35:38.97\00:35:40.30 our husband, he deserted us, he left us." 00:35:40.34\00:35:44.31 And it's real. 00:35:44.34\00:35:45.81 And that plays a part in the middle, 00:35:45.84\00:35:47.81 you know, that all through life. 00:35:47.84\00:35:49.94 And how we look at life, and how we look at others, 00:35:49.98\00:35:51.91 and how we judge the world and other people in the world. 00:35:51.95\00:35:54.45 But Jesus says, "I'm not going to desert you. 00:35:54.48\00:35:58.75 I'm not going to abandon you." 00:35:58.79\00:36:00.66 In other words, 00:36:00.69\00:36:02.02 "I will not leave you helpless," 00:36:02.06\00:36:03.99 because He knows that we are what? 00:36:04.03\00:36:05.76 We're helpless. We're helpless without Him. 00:36:05.79\00:36:08.23 So those who are feeling lonely 00:36:08.26\00:36:09.60 and those who want to get the victory over, 00:36:09.63\00:36:11.17 just don't think bad about it. 00:36:11.20\00:36:12.57 But what? 00:36:12.60\00:36:13.94 He said, "I understand, you're helpless." 00:36:13.97\00:36:15.44 We are helpless without Christ. 00:36:15.47\00:36:17.61 "I'm not going to leave you helpless. 00:36:17.64\00:36:19.61 Oh, Kenny, I'm not going to leave you behind." 00:36:19.64\00:36:22.34 You know, lot of times in school, 00:36:22.38\00:36:23.71 or so and so is left behind. 00:36:23.75\00:36:25.21 Well, they can't come up and graduate 00:36:25.25\00:36:26.82 'cause they're left behind. 00:36:26.85\00:36:28.42 You know, and the Savior says, "Well, no man left behind." 00:36:28.45\00:36:31.79 You know, these are things we have in this world. 00:36:31.82\00:36:34.36 But Jesus said in with the promise 00:36:34.39\00:36:36.39 that we were talking about the guarantee 00:36:36.42\00:36:37.83 of the children's story here. 00:36:37.86\00:36:39.53 This is better guarantee. 00:36:39.56\00:36:41.20 He says, "I'm not going to leave you behind. 00:36:41.23\00:36:43.73 You may have been behind in all of these things 00:36:43.77\00:36:45.37 and people have been talking that you've been left behind, 00:36:45.40\00:36:47.54 but I will never leave you behind. 00:36:47.57\00:36:50.04 I will not leave you in a strait place." 00:36:50.07\00:36:53.21 How many times you ever heard, "Man I'm in a strait place." 00:36:53.24\00:36:56.51 See, all these definitions really are words 00:36:56.54\00:36:58.51 that we use today. 00:36:58.55\00:36:59.88 I've heard people say, "I'm in a strait place." 00:36:59.91\00:37:03.65 They can't seem to go any other place, 00:37:03.69\00:37:05.02 I'm in a strait place, 00:37:05.05\00:37:06.39 I'm in difficult position right here. 00:37:06.42\00:37:08.26 But Jesus says, "I know that you're in a strait place. 00:37:08.29\00:37:11.69 I know you're in a difficult situation. 00:37:11.73\00:37:13.70 I know how you're feeling inside, 00:37:13.73\00:37:15.40 but I will not leave you in that place 00:37:15.43\00:37:17.87 if you'll let me help. 00:37:17.90\00:37:20.00 If you'll just let me help, be strong." 00:37:20.04\00:37:23.74 And then He says, "Be of good courage." 00:37:23.77\00:37:26.88 I like that word, be of good courage. 00:37:26.91\00:37:29.74 You know, Psalms 31:24 just simply says, 00:37:29.78\00:37:32.81 "Be of good courage, 00:37:32.85\00:37:34.68 and he will strengthen your heart." 00:37:34.72\00:37:37.35 So there's a promise in that verse. 00:37:37.39\00:37:39.82 Do you see that promise in the verse? 00:37:39.85\00:37:41.62 But first of all, He says what, "Be of good courage," 00:37:41.66\00:37:44.59 and then what will He do? 00:37:44.63\00:37:46.70 Then He's going to strengthen you, 00:37:46.73\00:37:48.06 He can't strengthen if you're not of good courage." 00:37:48.10\00:37:50.70 Conditional these promises that He makes to us, 00:37:50.73\00:37:53.34 be of good courage. 00:37:53.37\00:37:55.54 Courage here has to do with being a conqueror. 00:37:55.57\00:37:59.94 Be a conqueror for Me, 00:37:59.97\00:38:02.44 maintain your relationship with Me, 00:38:02.48\00:38:04.88 be good courage, or be strong for Me, 00:38:04.91\00:38:08.35 prevail with Me. 00:38:08.38\00:38:10.75 And then what? 00:38:10.79\00:38:12.12 Then I shall strengthen your heart. 00:38:12.15\00:38:14.16 Joshua 10:25 another passage of scripture 00:38:14.19\00:38:17.96 that I think is real blessing for us. 00:38:17.99\00:38:20.03 "Joshua said unto them." 00:38:20.06\00:38:22.00 I like what Joshua's, he said, "Fear not, nor be dismayed, 00:38:22.03\00:38:26.74 be strong and be of good courage." 00:38:26.77\00:38:29.47 How often we need that in this world for someone 00:38:29.50\00:38:32.47 when we're a little bit weak, and we're a little bit faulty, 00:38:32.51\00:38:35.94 and we're a little bit frail some time 00:38:35.98\00:38:37.65 and things not been going our way. 00:38:37.68\00:38:39.15 If someone would just say, "Hey, don't fear, don't worry. 00:38:39.18\00:38:44.35 Don't fear." 00:38:44.39\00:38:47.26 And they will tell you what you already know. 00:38:47.29\00:38:49.32 But you still needed to hear it again. 00:38:49.36\00:38:51.76 God's going to bless you. 00:38:51.79\00:38:53.13 God's going to help you. 00:38:53.16\00:38:55.33 I can remember that growing up that I got so sick and tired 00:38:55.36\00:38:58.23 of hearing it from my dad many, many times, 00:38:58.27\00:39:00.70 but I'm grateful and thankful now 00:39:00.74\00:39:02.94 as I've grown older, I realized it, he would say, 00:39:02.97\00:39:05.21 "Boy, it could be just some foolishness of the world. 00:39:05.24\00:39:08.14 We're not gonna be able to get to our baseball game on time." 00:39:08.18\00:39:10.71 Well, he always say, "Get on your bike and ride it, 00:39:10.75\00:39:12.41 you know, to whatever, you know. 00:39:12.45\00:39:14.25 Well, this is not going to work out." 00:39:14.28\00:39:16.15 He'll say, "Son, Son, oh, 00:39:16.18\00:39:17.82 have I not oft taken you under my wing." 00:39:17.85\00:39:21.52 Fear not, Kenny, have I not oft taken you under my wing?" 00:39:21.56\00:39:25.23 I said, "No, Dad, come on now, 00:39:25.26\00:39:26.59 I need more than under the wing business, 00:39:26.63\00:39:27.96 you know, I need..." 00:39:28.00\00:39:29.86 But see we understand it better. 00:39:29.90\00:39:31.67 It is a confirmation always, 00:39:31.70\00:39:34.60 "Don't fear that it's going to be all right." 00:39:34.64\00:39:38.44 Have I not often," in other words, 00:39:38.47\00:39:39.81 "Has He not always been there? 00:39:39.84\00:39:41.18 Has He's not always got us there, 00:39:41.21\00:39:42.54 has He not always been..." 00:39:42.58\00:39:43.91 Yes. 00:39:43.95\00:39:45.28 And so it was an encouragement, 00:39:45.31\00:39:46.92 "Have I not oft taken you under my wing. 00:39:46.95\00:39:49.65 Be of good courage. 00:39:49.68\00:39:51.02 Fear not. Don't be dismayed." 00:39:51.05\00:39:52.75 The problem we get into loneliness 00:39:52.79\00:39:54.52 and all these other things that going on in the world 00:39:54.56\00:39:57.03 is because we get discouraged. 00:39:57.06\00:39:59.63 We get dismayed. 00:39:59.66\00:40:01.20 We've lost our faith. 00:40:01.23\00:40:02.56 We've lost our strength. 00:40:02.60\00:40:03.93 We've lost our connection with Christ. 00:40:03.97\00:40:07.07 Even in the bad times we can still be strong in Him. 00:40:07.10\00:40:10.97 You may, by the grace of God, we can defeat loneliness. 00:40:11.01\00:40:15.78 It can be defeated, but it's based... 00:40:15.81\00:40:18.81 Notice but, we can defeat loneliness, 00:40:18.85\00:40:21.42 but it's based on our relationship with Christ. 00:40:21.45\00:40:26.32 It's based on what? 00:40:26.35\00:40:28.59 Our relationship with Christ. 00:40:28.62\00:40:31.09 See, it's difficult. You say, "Well, how?" 00:40:31.13\00:40:33.09 It's difficult to be lonely 00:40:33.13\00:40:34.96 when you're working for your fellow man. 00:40:35.00\00:40:37.50 It's difficult to be lonely 00:40:37.53\00:40:38.93 when you're working for Jesus Christ. 00:40:38.97\00:40:40.57 You're in His service. 00:40:40.60\00:40:42.04 It's difficult when you're praying 00:40:42.07\00:40:43.67 for someone else to be really lonely 00:40:43.71\00:40:45.61 at that time, for sure, because you're praying, 00:40:45.64\00:40:47.94 you're lifting them up because they have issues 00:40:47.98\00:40:50.48 and you care for them. 00:40:50.51\00:40:52.35 Being busy in the cause of Christ. 00:40:52.38\00:40:55.25 This is a way to defeat loneliness 00:40:55.28\00:40:57.75 is to work for the salvation of others. 00:40:57.79\00:41:00.86 I think every person here has found that to be true 00:41:00.89\00:41:03.86 when you were feeling down, 00:41:03.89\00:41:05.23 when you were feeling a little bit low, 00:41:05.26\00:41:06.83 and then you went to do something for someone else. 00:41:06.86\00:41:09.50 You didn't feel like it at the time, maybe yourself, 00:41:09.53\00:41:11.60 but you did it. 00:41:11.63\00:41:12.97 And while you were helping them, it was helping you. 00:41:13.00\00:41:16.00 See, when you're loving and caring for others, 00:41:16.04\00:41:19.94 God is loving and caring for you at the very same time. 00:41:19.97\00:41:24.51 He's meeting your needs right then right there 00:41:24.55\00:41:27.42 because you're meeting someone else's, 00:41:27.45\00:41:29.08 you're working for them. 00:41:29.12\00:41:31.02 Oh, that's good news. 00:41:31.05\00:41:32.85 You know, another way to the deal with loneness, 00:41:32.89\00:41:34.82 lot of different ways. 00:41:34.86\00:41:36.19 But we're looking at more biblical ways 00:41:36.22\00:41:37.56 of dealing with loneliness and sadness is number one. 00:41:37.59\00:41:40.63 And this is I think, 00:41:40.66\00:41:42.00 probably paramount is number one. 00:41:42.03\00:41:43.53 Admit that you are. 00:41:43.57\00:41:46.40 Nothing can be changed until you finally just come up, 00:41:46.43\00:41:48.90 "Well, I'm not lonely..." 00:41:48.94\00:41:50.87 I said one guy one time when he said, "Lonely." 00:41:50.91\00:41:52.84 I said about being lonely, whatever. 00:41:52.87\00:41:54.28 And I think 00:41:54.31\00:41:55.64 this is probably true in his life. 00:41:55.68\00:41:57.15 He said, "You know what? 00:41:57.18\00:41:58.51 I'm too busy to be lonely." 00:41:58.55\00:42:01.15 I'm too, what? 00:42:01.18\00:42:02.68 I'm too busy to be lonely. That makes sense. 00:42:02.72\00:42:07.09 'Cause usually when we're not busy 00:42:07.12\00:42:08.79 that we have all these reoccurring, 00:42:08.82\00:42:10.59 how the enemy comes in, he said, "I'm too busy. 00:42:10.63\00:42:12.89 I never get lonely 'cause I'm busy all the time." 00:42:12.93\00:42:16.23 Interesting thought. 00:42:16.26\00:42:18.77 Admit though that it exists and don't try to cover it up, 00:42:18.80\00:42:22.64 it's okay to say, "You know, I feel a little bit lonely." 00:42:22.67\00:42:26.57 I don't know why or maybe it's because 00:42:26.61\00:42:28.24 of loss of something or whatever 00:42:28.28\00:42:29.64 and we have that feeling and there we're by our self. 00:42:29.68\00:42:33.01 There's a story of a man. 00:42:33.05\00:42:35.88 It's again not going to cover it up. 00:42:35.92\00:42:37.52 It's story about a man who went to see his doctor. 00:42:37.55\00:42:40.86 And after all, he looked in the mirror, 00:42:40.89\00:42:42.69 he looked bad. 00:42:42.72\00:42:44.13 He needed to go see a doctor. 00:42:44.16\00:42:46.09 Things were just not right with him. 00:42:46.13\00:42:48.66 And as soon as he saw the doctor, he said, 00:42:48.70\00:42:53.00 doctor looked and said, "Oh, my, you look sick." 00:42:53.03\00:42:55.10 Well, that doesn't help you. 00:42:55.14\00:42:58.77 The doctor looks at you and says, 00:42:58.81\00:43:00.18 "No test. You look sick?" 00:43:00.21\00:43:02.18 Well, then I get sick. 00:43:02.21\00:43:04.31 They said, "You're not well, you're sick. 00:43:04.35\00:43:06.68 You come the... 00:43:06.72\00:43:08.05 What's the problem? 00:43:08.08\00:43:09.42 Are you sick?" 00:43:09.45\00:43:10.79 And the man said, "Yes. 00:43:10.82\00:43:12.15 Yes, Doctor, I am sick." 00:43:12.19\00:43:13.96 He said, "What's your sickness?" 00:43:13.99\00:43:15.66 He said, "I'm sick of everything. 00:43:15.69\00:43:17.03 That's what I'm sick of. I'm sick of life. 00:43:17.06\00:43:18.69 I'm sick of life in general. 00:43:18.73\00:43:20.86 I'm depressed. I'm lonely all the time. 00:43:20.90\00:43:23.97 And I'm never happy. 00:43:24.00\00:43:26.94 I'm never happy. 00:43:26.97\00:43:28.30 It's been years going on this way. 00:43:28.34\00:43:30.01 I don't know what happiness is. 00:43:30.04\00:43:31.61 I see other people, it looks like they're happy. 00:43:31.64\00:43:34.54 I want that happiness. 00:43:34.58\00:43:36.64 Some people have peace. They seem to have peace. 00:43:36.68\00:43:38.48 I don't seem to have that peace. 00:43:38.51\00:43:40.45 I'm just depressed and lonely all the time. 00:43:40.48\00:43:42.85 And I tell you right now, 00:43:42.88\00:43:44.22 if you can't help me while I'm here. 00:43:44.25\00:43:45.59 If you don't have a word to help me, 00:43:45.62\00:43:47.12 I'm gonna kill myself soon as I leave." 00:43:47.16\00:43:50.99 Do you have any suggestions? 00:43:51.03\00:43:52.69 Well, see it's real. 00:43:52.73\00:43:54.06 We have to realize even though it's real 00:43:54.10\00:43:56.53 that people began to feel this way. 00:43:56.56\00:43:58.20 Doctor said immediately, "Yes, yes, yes, I do. 00:43:58.23\00:44:00.94 Relax. 00:44:00.97\00:44:02.30 I have something I'd like for you to try. 00:44:02.34\00:44:05.71 What you need to do is start to go around some nice people, 00:44:05.74\00:44:10.51 maybe get into conversation, and talk with it, 00:44:10.55\00:44:13.21 visit a little bit, you know, 00:44:13.25\00:44:15.98 maybe get a smile or two or laugh, 00:44:16.02\00:44:19.02 change whatever has made you feel this way, 00:44:19.05\00:44:21.66 but change the situations or circumstances 00:44:21.69\00:44:24.06 and the people that you deal with. 00:44:24.09\00:44:26.29 And maybe that will help you just a little." 00:44:26.33\00:44:28.46 He said, "I've got something else," 00:44:28.50\00:44:29.83 the doctor said. 00:44:29.86\00:44:31.20 And the man said, "What? 00:44:31.23\00:44:32.57 What, is there's something else?" 00:44:32.60\00:44:33.94 He said, "Yeah, listen, 00:44:33.97\00:44:35.30 what I like for you to do is interesting." 00:44:35.34\00:44:38.87 He said, "I like for you to go to the circus tonight." 00:44:38.91\00:44:41.98 Man said, "What?" 00:44:42.01\00:44:43.85 "I like for you to go to the circus." 00:44:43.88\00:44:47.08 "What am I going to do in circus? 00:44:47.12\00:44:48.45 You know, I didn't want to see 00:44:48.48\00:44:49.82 animals jumping around and so on." 00:44:49.85\00:44:51.45 He said, "No, I tell you go to circus tonight. 00:44:51.49\00:44:54.16 You're going to see and you'll see the funniest man 00:44:54.19\00:44:57.49 that has ever lived. 00:44:57.53\00:45:00.96 And his name is Otis, 00:45:01.00\00:45:03.00 I've been there and I've seen that act several times. 00:45:03.03\00:45:06.53 And when you're not feeling just well, 00:45:06.57\00:45:08.50 he will just make you laugh and laugh. 00:45:08.54\00:45:10.51 And when you leave the place, you will feel a lot better." 00:45:10.54\00:45:12.91 Maybe that's really all that you need 00:45:12.94\00:45:14.74 is a change and a few laughs 00:45:14.78\00:45:16.34 and to see that life can be a little lighter. 00:45:16.38\00:45:18.51 And so would you go, just, you know, you'll see him, 00:45:18.55\00:45:21.48 he's the world's funniest man and he puts on a clown act. 00:45:21.52\00:45:25.95 You'll love it. He said, "Oh." 00:45:25.99\00:45:27.79 He said, "He'll cure you. 00:45:27.82\00:45:29.16 I guarantee, he'll cure you. 00:45:29.19\00:45:31.19 You won't leave the same man." 00:45:31.23\00:45:34.46 Man had a blank look on his face. 00:45:34.50\00:45:36.50 And he said, "What?" 00:45:36.53\00:45:39.83 He said, "Doc, don't jest with me. 00:45:39.87\00:45:44.57 Don't try to be funny with me. 00:45:44.61\00:45:46.61 It won't work. 00:45:46.64\00:45:48.24 You know why it won't work?" 00:45:48.28\00:45:50.18 And doc said, "No. Why won't it work?" 00:45:50.21\00:45:51.58 He said, "Because I am that clown Otis." 00:45:51.61\00:45:56.52 He'd been putting on the face 00:45:56.55\00:45:59.75 to be happy, pretending, 00:45:59.79\00:46:03.66 and he's the world's miserable's man. 00:46:03.69\00:46:07.03 Lonely, he made others fall out of their seat. 00:46:07.06\00:46:10.70 But there was nothing that clicked with him. 00:46:10.73\00:46:12.37 He needed some help. 00:46:12.40\00:46:14.47 I am that clown. 00:46:14.50\00:46:18.01 I am Otis. 00:46:18.04\00:46:21.54 Song says put on that happy face. 00:46:21.58\00:46:24.35 It's not always easy to put on a happy face 00:46:24.38\00:46:26.21 when you're not happy. 00:46:26.25\00:46:28.05 The cover up. 00:46:28.08\00:46:29.42 Why not let it be real? 00:46:29.45\00:46:31.29 Why not let it come to Jesus? 00:46:31.32\00:46:32.65 Let Him do the healing. 00:46:32.69\00:46:35.49 That's why Jesus says again, "Kenny, all of us, 00:46:35.52\00:46:38.23 come unto me, all ye that heavy laden, 00:46:38.26\00:46:40.56 and I will give you," what? 00:46:40.60\00:46:42.50 "Heavy laden I will give you rest," 00:46:42.53\00:46:44.17 Matthew 11:28. 00:46:44.20\00:46:46.40 Jesus is still the answer. 00:46:46.43\00:46:50.11 The clown may have been a temporary thing. 00:46:50.14\00:46:51.87 It did not work and didn't might work 00:46:51.91\00:46:53.74 for others but that's it. 00:46:53.78\00:46:55.44 Jesus is the lasting answer. 00:46:55.48\00:46:57.68 Lamentations 3:22-26. 00:46:57.71\00:47:01.18 It says, it's by the Lord, list these words, 00:47:01.22\00:47:03.72 "It is of the Lord's mercies that we are not consumed, 00:47:03.75\00:47:07.32 because his compassions fail not." 00:47:07.36\00:47:10.69 See how can we be down and out when we realize 00:47:10.73\00:47:13.43 when we read these passages of scripture 00:47:13.46\00:47:15.80 that God tells us, number one, 00:47:15.83\00:47:17.30 "It's only by His mercy, Kenny that you're not consumed. 00:47:17.33\00:47:20.47 You're only here by God's mercy. 00:47:20.50\00:47:22.50 But you are here, 00:47:22.54\00:47:23.87 and you've been here a long time, 00:47:23.91\00:47:25.34 and you continue to be because God is merciful. 00:47:25.37\00:47:28.31 If you live, and you love, and you want to serve Him," 00:47:28.34\00:47:30.88 It only says, "We're not consumed 00:47:30.91\00:47:32.98 because His compassions fail not." 00:47:33.01\00:47:35.25 Aren't you glad that we serve a compassionate Savior, 00:47:35.28\00:47:38.22 one that really cares for us? 00:47:38.25\00:47:39.59 Verse 23 says, notice, 00:47:39.62\00:47:41.49 "These mercies are new every morning, 00:47:41.52\00:47:44.66 great is thy faithfulness." 00:47:44.69\00:47:47.53 Say, I need these new revelations every morning. 00:47:47.56\00:47:52.03 I need this mercy every day of my life. 00:47:52.07\00:47:55.60 I need it renewed. 00:47:55.64\00:47:57.21 I needed every morning and you know what? 00:47:57.24\00:47:59.61 He is faithful is what the Bible said 00:47:59.64\00:48:01.91 to make sure He gives it to us." 00:48:01.94\00:48:03.28 Verse 24 says, 00:48:03.31\00:48:05.28 "The Lord is my portion, saith if my soul, 00:48:05.31\00:48:08.55 therefore will I hope Him." 00:48:08.58\00:48:10.89 We need a portion. He's my portion. 00:48:10.92\00:48:13.29 He is the portion that I need, not a portion of the world, 00:48:13.32\00:48:15.92 portion of this, and a portion that. 00:48:15.96\00:48:17.73 Lord is my portion and because He is my portion, 00:48:17.76\00:48:20.80 the Bible said, "I can hope in Him." 00:48:20.83\00:48:23.37 Verse 25, "The Lord is good unto them that wait for him, 00:48:23.40\00:48:27.77 to the soul that seeketh him." 00:48:27.80\00:48:30.44 The Lord is what? 00:48:30.47\00:48:31.81 He's good to them. 00:48:31.84\00:48:33.41 And if you're waiting for Him 00:48:33.44\00:48:34.94 and notice the soul that seeketh for Him. 00:48:34.98\00:48:37.78 Verse 26, "It is good that a man should both hope 00:48:37.81\00:48:41.42 and quietly wait for the salvation of the Lord." 00:48:41.45\00:48:45.32 You know what power are in those verses 00:48:45.35\00:48:49.39 when you read and it's simply builds up the power 00:48:49.42\00:48:52.09 in the name of Jesus Christ 00:48:52.13\00:48:53.93 and gives us hope and encouragement 00:48:53.96\00:48:55.80 to come out of some of this stuff 00:48:55.83\00:48:57.27 that we might find ourselves getting into. 00:48:57.30\00:49:00.24 You know, think about Jeremiah, Jeremiah the prophet. 00:49:00.27\00:49:04.37 You know, he passed through 00:49:04.41\00:49:06.07 a lot of experiences in his youth, 00:49:06.11\00:49:08.21 and certainly a lot more in manhood, 00:49:08.24\00:49:10.58 in later years of his ministry 00:49:10.61\00:49:12.58 they taught him a lot of lessons 00:49:12.61\00:49:14.92 as what you've went through in life 00:49:14.95\00:49:16.58 teaches us some lessons and there should be lessons 00:49:16.62\00:49:18.39 that we learn in the way that we keep. 00:49:18.42\00:49:20.69 But one of the lessons Jeremiah wrote down in the scripture 00:49:20.72\00:49:23.16 with Jeremiah 10:23. 00:49:23.19\00:49:25.79 He said, "The way of man is not in himself, 00:49:25.83\00:49:29.80 it is not in man that walketh to direct his steps." 00:49:29.83\00:49:32.80 Man shouldn't try to direct his own steps, 00:49:32.83\00:49:35.60 he's going to get himself in trouble. 00:49:35.64\00:49:38.34 He need something outside of himself. 00:49:38.37\00:49:40.78 Sometimes we look to ourselves and this is this, and that... 00:49:40.81\00:49:43.35 God said, "No, you need something outside yourself. 00:49:43.38\00:49:45.41 You need to bring me in." 00:49:45.45\00:49:47.25 We called to go through tribulation. 00:49:47.28\00:49:49.58 Jeremiah was called to go through 00:49:49.62\00:49:50.99 heavy duty tribulation. 00:49:51.02\00:49:52.92 He went through the loneliness. 00:49:52.95\00:49:54.42 He went through the sorrow. 00:49:54.46\00:49:56.73 But, you know, what he would do? 00:49:56.76\00:49:58.09 He began to do this, 00:49:58.13\00:49:59.46 this will help you if you're lonely. 00:49:59.49\00:50:00.83 He began to call, recall the providence 00:50:00.86\00:50:03.10 of how God had worked in His past. 00:50:03.13\00:50:06.13 So you can do that every day of your life 00:50:06.17\00:50:07.80 because you have what? 00:50:07.84\00:50:09.17 You have seen how God has worked 00:50:09.20\00:50:10.61 over, and over, and over, and over, 00:50:10.64\00:50:12.77 year in and year out, 00:50:12.81\00:50:14.74 when it seemed like there was no hope. 00:50:14.78\00:50:16.64 But the providence of God was bright. 00:50:16.68\00:50:19.45 And yet you look back and say, "He did it back here." 00:50:19.48\00:50:22.08 And so when Jeremiah said, "He did it here," 00:50:22.12\00:50:24.25 and I know but He did it here. 00:50:24.29\00:50:25.69 I know He'll do it here in the future." 00:50:25.72\00:50:28.12 See, that gives us encouragement and hope. 00:50:28.16\00:50:32.39 God blessed me in the past 00:50:32.43\00:50:34.16 and He's going to bless me in the future. 00:50:34.20\00:50:37.57 His compassion, the Bible said, "Does what?" 00:50:37.60\00:50:39.93 It fails not. 00:50:39.97\00:50:42.10 We must remember the greatest example... 00:50:42.14\00:50:44.27 We've little over five minutes left. 00:50:44.31\00:50:45.64 But notice the greatest example if you say, "Well, you know, 00:50:45.67\00:50:49.28 no one's been as, you know, in bad shape as I am. 00:50:49.31\00:50:51.51 No one's been any lonelier than I have been." 00:50:51.55\00:50:54.18 You know, I want you to remember your Lord 00:50:54.22\00:50:55.88 and your Savior today, Jesus Christ. 00:50:55.92\00:51:00.86 There was never a lonelier person. 00:51:00.89\00:51:03.56 There was never an individual 00:51:03.59\00:51:04.93 that was more misunderstood than Jesus. 00:51:04.96\00:51:09.10 His family didn't even understand Him. 00:51:09.13\00:51:12.67 They didn't understand His mission. 00:51:12.70\00:51:14.04 Let me just read that Desire of Ages, page 111. 00:51:14.07\00:51:17.11 Notice what the Bible says. 00:51:17.14\00:51:20.01 It might almost makes you weak when you think about it. 00:51:20.04\00:51:22.74 King of kings and Lord of lords, 00:51:22.78\00:51:25.81 then He takes off His kingly robes 00:51:25.85\00:51:27.85 and He comes down here as a man. 00:51:27.88\00:51:32.52 And what He had to endure and what He put up with. 00:51:32.55\00:51:36.12 But notice He knew there in advance. 00:51:36.16\00:51:38.06 But notice no one up on earth had understood Him. 00:51:38.09\00:51:42.83 Desire of Ages says, 00:51:42.86\00:51:44.20 "No one on this earth understood Jesus." 00:51:44.23\00:51:46.70 We're always looking for somebody. 00:51:46.74\00:51:48.07 "Well, he understand me." 00:51:48.10\00:51:50.64 You need to know where I'm coming from. 00:51:50.67\00:51:52.01 You ever heard that? Yeah. 00:51:52.04\00:51:55.14 No one knows. 00:51:55.18\00:51:56.51 No one understood Him, Jesus. 00:51:56.54\00:52:00.65 During His ministry, He must still walk alone, 00:52:00.68\00:52:05.52 throughout His life, 00:52:05.55\00:52:06.96 His mother and His brothers did not comprehend His mission. 00:52:06.99\00:52:12.66 Even His disciples did not understand Him. 00:52:12.69\00:52:18.03 His life on earth... 00:52:18.07\00:52:19.57 Listen, church, His life on earth 00:52:19.60\00:52:21.74 must be spent in solitude. 00:52:21.77\00:52:25.07 Alone He must tread the path. 00:52:25.11\00:52:28.18 Alone He must bear the burden. 00:52:28.21\00:52:31.51 There's nothing more alone. 00:52:31.55\00:52:32.88 No one can go through that. 00:52:32.91\00:52:34.35 So if you're feeling a little bit bad today in life, 00:52:34.38\00:52:37.35 maybe frowned on you somewhat, 00:52:37.39\00:52:40.59 think about our Lord and Savior. 00:52:40.62\00:52:42.76 Knowing this in advance still came down here 00:52:42.79\00:52:46.43 because there are times we realize in our life 00:52:46.46\00:52:48.96 that someone's pat is on the back. 00:52:49.00\00:52:50.73 There's times that someone's encouraged you. 00:52:50.77\00:52:52.97 There's times that you've had joy. 00:52:53.00\00:52:54.34 There's times that people say, 00:52:54.37\00:52:55.70 "Oh, I understand where you're coming from." 00:52:55.74\00:52:57.81 You've had understanding people. 00:52:57.84\00:52:59.17 You've had people say, "Oh, let me pray with you. 00:52:59.21\00:53:01.04 Let me pray for you." 00:53:01.08\00:53:02.41 Here, but Jesus said, "No one understood Him. 00:53:02.44\00:53:05.18 Alone He must travel the path. 00:53:05.21\00:53:07.02 Alone He must bear the burden." 00:53:07.05\00:53:09.18 A life of solitude. 00:53:09.22\00:53:10.69 You know, mother didn't understand Him. 00:53:10.72\00:53:12.35 Brother and sister didn't understand Him. 00:53:12.39\00:53:14.42 Disciples didn't understand Him. 00:53:14.46\00:53:16.12 And how could they not when He was with them, 00:53:16.16\00:53:17.89 and did all that He did, and how He prayed with them, 00:53:17.93\00:53:20.40 and how He loved them, and how He encouraged them, 00:53:20.43\00:53:23.43 how He was a strength, how He never failed them, 00:53:23.47\00:53:26.67 how He never went around and say, 00:53:26.70\00:53:28.04 "Man, I'm just down and out for today. 00:53:28.07\00:53:29.47 I can't do my work." 00:53:29.50\00:53:32.27 He rose up a great day you know, before the sunrise, 00:53:32.31\00:53:35.91 and He began to get his strength from His Father 00:53:35.94\00:53:38.18 for the day's activity. 00:53:38.21\00:53:40.12 We got time maybe for one more little remedy 00:53:40.15\00:53:41.65 for loneliness found in 4 Testimonies 5:79. 00:53:41.68\00:53:45.32 I'm not going to get very far here, 00:53:45.35\00:53:46.86 but it's all right. 00:53:46.89\00:53:48.22 Notice, 45:79 says this, 00:53:48.26\00:53:51.99 "Many are suffering from the maladies of the soul 00:53:52.03\00:53:55.46 far more than from diseases of the body, 00:53:55.50\00:53:58.83 and they will find no relief, 00:53:58.87\00:54:02.10 no relief until they shall come to Christ, 00:54:02.14\00:54:05.91 the wellspring of life, complaints of weariness, 00:54:05.94\00:54:11.21 loneliness, 00:54:11.25\00:54:12.98 dissatisfaction will then cease. 00:54:13.01\00:54:17.32 Satisfy..." 00:54:17.35\00:54:18.69 Notice this, "Satisfying joy's will give you vigor 00:54:18.72\00:54:22.16 to the mind, and health, and vital energy to the body." 00:54:22.19\00:54:27.10 How wonderful that is to say, 00:54:27.13\00:54:29.03 "You know, you might be going through here, 00:54:29.06\00:54:30.87 but this is a real diseases of the body, 00:54:30.90\00:54:33.30 a disease of the mind is worth disease in the body, 00:54:33.34\00:54:35.80 and they'll never be any cure for that 00:54:35.84\00:54:37.67 until we come to Christ." 00:54:37.71\00:54:40.91 And when you come to Christ 00:54:40.94\00:54:43.14 and you really make a commitment to Christ, 00:54:43.18\00:54:46.25 you will see there'll be days 00:54:46.28\00:54:47.62 that maybe you'll be a little lonely, 00:54:47.65\00:54:48.98 the days you're little despair, 00:54:49.02\00:54:50.35 but you won't stay in that position. 00:54:50.39\00:54:52.52 Quickly as he's talking about these, 00:54:52.55\00:54:54.09 and going over in your mind, 00:54:54.12\00:54:55.46 the Holy Spirit will come to you, 00:54:55.49\00:54:56.86 and then we can rejoice and be exceedingly glad. 00:54:56.89\00:54:59.59 We rejoice because we have a redeemer. 00:54:59.63\00:55:02.13 We rejoice because we had someone 00:55:02.16\00:55:03.67 who paid the penalty for our sin. 00:55:03.70\00:55:05.60 We rejoice because someone said. 00:55:05.63\00:55:07.10 "I paid the price." 00:55:07.14\00:55:08.47 We rejoice because He says, 00:55:08.50\00:55:09.84 "My arms are open, come unto me, 00:55:09.87\00:55:11.37 oh, you that are heavy laden," please remember that. 00:55:11.41\00:55:13.51 We rejoice and we're exceeding glad. 00:55:13.54\00:55:15.58 He tells me up front, you're just like what we do. 00:55:15.61\00:55:18.81 We're just here for a moment, then we're gone. 00:55:18.85\00:55:20.35 We're like the grass, we're here and then we're gone. 00:55:20.38\00:55:22.32 And then the judgment, and then eternity, 00:55:22.35\00:55:24.35 I prepared a way for you. 00:55:24.39\00:55:26.02 Don't be lonely in this life because I'll never leave you 00:55:26.05\00:55:29.16 and I'll never forsake you. 00:55:29.19\00:55:31.46 John 14, "If you love me, He says, keep My commandments. 00:55:31.49\00:55:36.06 If you love Me, keep My command." 00:55:36.10\00:55:37.77 There's condition and then He says, 00:55:37.80\00:55:39.33 "Condition is and then I will pray to the Father, 00:55:39.37\00:55:43.07 I will pray to the Father. 00:55:43.10\00:55:44.94 If you want to get rid of that lonely feeling, 00:55:44.97\00:55:47.04 I'm going to encourage you. 00:55:47.08\00:55:48.41 Right now just have a quick closing prayer with me 00:55:48.44\00:55:51.11 and commit, scatter these things 00:55:51.15\00:55:53.65 before the Savior 00:55:53.68\00:55:55.02 and He's willing to take those things from you. 00:55:55.05\00:55:56.52 Let's pray, shall we? 00:55:56.55\00:55:59.72 Merciful Father in heaven, 00:55:59.75\00:56:01.09 we thank You for your precious word. 00:56:01.12\00:56:02.46 We thank You that you're always there. 00:56:02.49\00:56:04.49 Thankful that You've said that we could come into You 00:56:04.53\00:56:06.06 and scatter all these cares and perplexities before You. 00:56:06.09\00:56:08.90 You promised to hear and You've promised to answer. 00:56:08.93\00:56:11.50 Lord, we pray that You will take 00:56:11.53\00:56:12.87 those who are going through difficult situation right now 00:56:12.90\00:56:14.74 in loneness accept You in their heart and life 00:56:14.77\00:56:16.67 and that will be changed. 00:56:16.71\00:56:18.04 Thank You and I praise You in Jesus' name, amen. 00:56:18.07\00:56:21.54 Hello, and welcome back, friends. 00:56:21.58\00:56:23.51 I pray that that message has been a message of hope 00:56:23.55\00:56:26.88 that it has given you some arsenal 00:56:26.92\00:56:28.95 that you could take your Bible now, 00:56:28.98\00:56:30.99 look up these Bible promises, 00:56:31.02\00:56:32.82 and you can claim them as your very own. 00:56:32.85\00:56:35.42 How to defeat loneliness? 00:56:35.46\00:56:37.53 You know, God is a God of victory. 00:56:37.56\00:56:39.79 He's a God of hope. He's a God of power. 00:56:39.83\00:56:41.96 And He wants to instill all of that in you. 00:56:42.00\00:56:45.10 In closing, let me share one Bible passage, 00:56:45.13\00:56:47.67 this is 2 Timothy1:7. 00:56:47.70\00:56:51.24 And it reads, 00:56:51.27\00:56:52.61 "For God hath not given us the spirit of fear, 00:56:52.64\00:56:55.21 but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind." 00:56:55.24\00:56:59.31 Brothers and sisters, friends, 00:56:59.35\00:57:00.68 He wants you to have a sound mind. 00:57:00.72\00:57:02.65 He wants that loneliness to dissipate. 00:57:02.68\00:57:05.79 He wants to come in and fill you with His love 00:57:05.82\00:57:08.89 and give you a sound mind so that you can go forth. 00:57:08.92\00:57:12.26 And if you would like to add this message 00:57:12.29\00:57:14.46 to your video library 00:57:14.50\00:57:17.33 that you would like to be able to listen to it 00:57:17.37\00:57:19.40 time and time again, 00:57:19.43\00:57:20.77 we pray that you'll contact us here. 00:57:20.80\00:57:22.77 You may contact us at Behold the Lamb Ministries, 00:57:22.80\00:57:25.91 you can call us here in the United States, 00:57:25.94\00:57:27.71 we're on Central Time, 00:57:27.74\00:57:29.58 and that is 618-942-5044 00:57:29.61\00:57:33.82 or you may write us at Behold the Lamb Ministries, 00:57:33.85\00:57:36.95 PO Box 2030 Herrin, Illinois 62948. 00:57:36.99\00:57:41.59 Visit us on the web 00:57:41.62\00:57:42.96 at www. BeholdTheLambMinistries.com. 00:57:42.99\00:57:47.00 And you may also send me an email 00:57:47.03\00:57:49.06 at BeholdTheLambMinistries @yahoo.com. 00:57:49.10\00:57:53.03 Until next time, friends, 00:57:53.07\00:57:54.40 may our precious, precious Lord 00:57:54.44\00:57:56.94 continue to richly bless you and yours. 00:57:56.97\00:58:00.31