#S076 - “A No Win
Situation” (Part 1)
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I won't invite you
to go with me quickly.
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And your Bibles to
the Book of Genesis.
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The Book of Genesis. Chapter 39.
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And I'll actually pick
it up here at verse number
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seven, Genesis Chapter 39.
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And together we'll
look at verse number seven.
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Let me ask
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the question,
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has anybody in this room
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ever been tempted before
anybody ever been tempted?
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Okay. Yeah.
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So so today, from the word
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we want to give
you some instruction,
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especially as you begin
this new semester, both young
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and aged, on how we can manage
the temptations of this life.
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Because one of the
things you're going to find
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is that you don't
outgrow temptation.
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You can't out pray temptation.
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You never out age temptation.
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You simply get the strength from
God to refuse and resist it.
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Can you say amen?
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And so having said
that, let's go to Genesis 39
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and we'll look together it
verse number seven for context.
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Joseph, the son of
Jacob, has been betrayed
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by his brothers,
sold into slavery.
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He works in the home
of a man named Potter,
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and God gives him
great success there.
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And then we'll pick it up here,
Genesis 39 and verse seven.
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When you get there,
just say, Pastor, I'm here.
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Genesis 39 and verse seven,
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the Bible says, and it
came to pass after these things
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that his masters wife cast
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longing eyes on Joseph.
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And she said, Live with me.
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But he refused and said
to his master's wife, Look,
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my master does not know
what is with me in the house.
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And he has committed that
to all that he has to my hand
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there is no one
greater in this house than I.
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Nor has he kept
back anything from me
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but you because
you are his wife.
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How then can I do this great
wickedness and sin against who?
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So the trespass is not just
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against Potter for
the nation of Israel.
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He realizes that this
is a trespass against God.
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And so it was, as he
spoke to Joseph day by day,
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that he did not heed her to
lie with her or to be with her.
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But it happened about this time
when Joseph went into the house
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to do his work, and none of
the men of the house was inside
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that she caught
him by his garment
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saying, Lie with me.
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But he left his
garment in her hand
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and fled and ran outside.
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And so it was when she saw
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that he left his
garment in her hand
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and fled outside, that she
called the men of her house
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and spoke to them, saying, See,
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he has brought in to
us a Hebrew to mark us.
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And he came into
me to lie with me
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and I cried out with a
loud voice, I need you to know
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Karen's didn't just
be born in recent years.
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You had some Karen's
all the way back in Egypt,
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and the
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Bible says, and it
happened when he heard that.
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I lifted up my
voice and cried out
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that he left his garment with
me and fled and went outside.
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So she kept his garment with
her until his master came home.
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Then she spoke to him with words
like these, say, the Hebrew
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servant whom you brought
to us came in to mock me.
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So it happened as I
lifted my voice and cried out
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that he left his garment
with me and fled outside.
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And so it was when
his master heard the words
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which his wife spoke to him
saying, Your servant did to me
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after this manner
that his anger was aroused.
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Then Joseph's master
put him into the prison,
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a place where the
king's prisoners were confined,
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and he was there in the prison.
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But thank God, the
Lord was with Joseph
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and showed him
mercy and gave him a
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in the sight of the
keeper of the prison
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and the keeper of the
prison committed to Joseph
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saying all the prisoners
who were in the prisoner
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and whatever they did
there, it was his doing
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today states for
just a little while
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I want to talk to
you under the subject.
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A no win situation,
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a no win situation.
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Let us pray together.
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Father,
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would you grant me full might
to be able to preach your word?
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And Lord, would you
give those of all ages
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the strength of
mind and the resolve
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to not just
receive it and affirm it,
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but to live it in
between the Sabbaths?
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So, Lord, I'm
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praying that your spirit
would not just sit upon me.
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Lord, let your
spirit set upon the service.
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Would you hide me in
the shadows of the cross
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that Jesus alone might be?
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See, that Christ alone
might be heard, and at the end
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of our time together,
let Jesus only be praised.
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Praise blesses.
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To this end
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we ask in the wonderful
name of Jesus, our Lord,
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let them that
believe, say together, amen.
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And a man. You may be seated
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in the House of the Lord
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again, talking to you
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under the subject.
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A no win situation.
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When asked if we could
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come on in
quickly or exit quickly
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so as not to
disrupt our neighbors again,
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talking to you under
the subject, a no win
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situation.
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You know, friends, one of
the things I've come to believe
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is that as a Christian,
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you cannot have flexible ethics.
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We should be flexible
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in our preferences,
but we should be rigid
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in our convictions
and in our principles
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so that I should
never come to the conclusion
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about the right thing based upon
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the situations
that touch my life.
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And the reason we sometimes
have this drifting morality
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is because we find
ourselves in real time
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trying to decide the right thing
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while circumstances
emerge when the truth
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is that your understanding
of right ought to be pre
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decided and pre
arranged and pre determined.
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And the why of this
dialog is because at times
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we look at the Scriptures
as if it was a Hollywood script
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where good triumphs over bad
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and righteousness
always beats evil.
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But how many of us
know that every now and then
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God allows His
people to encounter
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what looks like
a no win situation?
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You see, a no win
situation is where
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there is a cost for doing
right and there is a consequence
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for doing wrong.
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It is where there is
a penalty for integrity
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and there is a cost
for canceling integrity.
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And there will be times
where the winning situation
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is hard to see.
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In other words, there
will be days where electing not
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to work on the
Sabbath may cost you your job,
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while working on the Sabbath,
might cost you your peace.
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We're sometimes
taking the high road
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with your ex may
embolden their behavior,
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but putting them on
blast may harm your kids.
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There will be times
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where not going to the
party may cost you your friends,
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but going may
actually put you in danger.
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There are times where
neglecting the advances
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of your superior
may stifle your career.
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While placating those advances
may embolden their advances,
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they're going to be times
where dissolving the marriage
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will feel like it is pointless
while remaining in the marriage.
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It causes many
horrors and health.
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Has anybody ever been in what
looks like a no win situation?
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And the brief word to
somebody today is this
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is that when there is a
penalty for both good and wrong,
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always side with the
penalty of righteousness.
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In other words, it is
a matter of disappointing
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man or disappointing
God always let a man
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get upset with you
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and the truth is that when there
is a penalty on both sides,
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you've got to side with
the penalty of righteousness.
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Are you here with me today?
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In other words, the penalty
of righteousness is passing,
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but the penalty of
wickedness is permanent.
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The cost of integrity
could move you forward,
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but the cost of canceling
it keeps you in circles.
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And the thing I want
to say to somebody today,
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when you can't see which
way is the winning situation,
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just find out
where God is standing.
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In other words, don't look just
for the most favorable outcome.
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Recognize that the favor
of God is all over your life.
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And when you don't know where to
stand, just stand next to God.
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Are you all with me today?
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If I had this happen
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just a little while ago,
I was in a hotel this summer
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and while I was there
I was by the local pool
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and when I was there there was
a family with their little girl.
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The mom was on
the edge sunbathing.
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The dad was in
the deep in swimming,
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and the little girl was in the
middle on her flotation device.
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And as she began to drift there
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toward the deep end of
the pool, she got out of her
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flotation device and
began to swim around.
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And while she was
swimming, the floating device
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went into the
deep end of the pool
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and she got to a place
where she could not stand up
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in the pool.
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And so she was badly able
to keep her head above water.
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And she began to
cry out to her mom.
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And her mom said,
come back to the edge.
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And she said,
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The edge is too far to get to
that sand to go to the device.
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But she was afraid
to go to the deep end.
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In other words, it
looked like a no win
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because she didn't have
the strength to get to the edge
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and she was afraid
to go in the deep end.
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But because that was already
swimming in the deep end,
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inherently, she
swam in the deep end
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just to get to
where her daddy was,
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and can also just
sense that when you can't see
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help on the shore and
the water is too deep,
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even if your daddy
is in the deep end,
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I just need you to
find out where daddy is
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and swim toward him.
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Because in Jesus,
you find your help.
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Are you hearing me today?
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Thanks.
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And so go with me
back to Genesis 39
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as we unpack the
word of the living God.
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Genesis 39 And I
want you to look together
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with me at
verse six, Genesis 39.
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In verse six, when
you say, Pastor, I'm here,
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the Bible says
thus he left all that
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he had in Joseph's hand,
and he did not know what he had
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except for the
bread which he ate.
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Now the Bible says
that Joseph was handsome
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in form and
appearance, and it came to pass.
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What after these
things that his master's
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wife cast
longing eyes on Joseph.
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And she said, lie
with me now understand.
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Today, friends,
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there are four brief principles
I want to espouse to you today.
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But the first
thing this story teaches
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is that your natural
gifts make you noticeable,
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but it is your spiritual gifts
that make you irresistible.
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Let me say it again
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that it is your natural
gifts that make you noticeable,
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but it is your spiritual gifts
that make you irresistible.
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Now, to be clear, Saints,
that the Scripture essentially
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gives us the macro of the
event, but it doesn't give us
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every detail that leads
to this particular occasion.
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Now, when you look
at Genesis 39, remember
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that Joseph has been killing
it in the house of Potter
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for in fact, God has
given him the Midas touch
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so that everything
he touches gets blessed.
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In other words, every
assignment he oversees prospers.
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Every objective he has
goes to the next level.
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And the Bible says, Notice
it that after these things
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that Potter for his wife,
casts longing eyes upon him.
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In other words, the
implication is that she
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doesn't just see him one day
physically and have to have him.
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There is a
progression that takes place.
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In other words, the
Bible says that she cast
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longing eyes upon him.
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In fact,
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that word cast in the Hebrew
is a very strange construct.
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It literally means
to lift up your eyes
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or to lift up one's hair.
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In fact, what it
literally implies
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is that there is a lifting
of the veil from her eyes
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so that she changes the
way that she sees Joseph.
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Over time, she begins to look
upon him in a different way.
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In other words, his good
looks make him noticeable,
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but it is his character
that makes him irresistible.
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You see, understand
that if this attraction
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was just physical,
there were a thousand
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brothers in Egypt
that would scratch this.
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It's that Potter
for his wife has.
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But a part of this attraction
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is that he isn't
just good looking.
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There is something about Joseph
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that is unquantifiable
that draws her into him.
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In other words, Joseph's success
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is actually an aphrodisiac,
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and his innocence has
a way of drawing her in.
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When Joseph talks,
he just makes sense
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and his wisdom
is causing arousal.
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And understand that Joseph's
anointing is so powerful
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that Joseph becomes sexy
even to a woman who is wicked
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and understand that there is
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an unconscious chemistry
that begins to build over time.
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Because she begins to see
Joseph not just as a slave
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or a houseboy, but
she sees him as someone
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that is worthy of her
company and companionship.
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So much so that she
puts him on the same plane
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with the heads of state
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and means of power
in the land of Egypt.
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And you know how it is
with attraction that most time
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it starts out unconscious
or involuntary so that it first
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she just finds herself
unconsciously checking her hair.
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Whenever Joseph
walks into a room.
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After a while,
whenever she hugs Joseph,
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she lingers to
inhale his cologne.
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After a while,
she creates encounters
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just to be in Joseph's company.
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But now this attraction develops
into a broil, where it goes
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from an unconscious attraction
to an outright demand.
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And understand young people.
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The larger idea is this that his
natural gifts get him noticed.
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But it is who he is
that makes him irresistible.
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And let me just
say this to be clear,
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that there is nothing
wrong with having swag.
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There's nothing wrong
with having a good physique.
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There's nothing wrong
with having a wardrobe.
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That is not me.
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But be clear that what you have
naturally makes you noticeable.
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But it is who you are
that makes you irresistible.
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In other words,
your physical gifts
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may give you a
good first impression,
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but it is your character that
gives you a lasting impression.
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And I want somebody to
understand that this doesn't
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just show up in
your romantic exchanges.
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It's actually true for
every area of your life.
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In other words, it
is your natural gifts
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that may make you
noticeable to an employer,
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but it is your competence
that makes you irresistible
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to the employer.
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You are human.
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That network may get
your foot in the door,
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but it is the favor of God
that keeps you in the door.
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It may be natural gas that
give a good first impression,
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but it is
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the character of Christ
that gives you grace over time.
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You are not here with me yet.
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In other words, it
is that dude in the gym
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that gets the
good first impression.
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But it is the brother
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on Dean's list that
has a lasting impression.
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In other words, it may
be the guy that works out
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that gets the girl
freshman year, but it is the man
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with work ethic
that has her senior year.
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In other words, this it may
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be thirst trap pictures
that get him in your team,
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but it is your character
that gets him on one knee.
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Not here. Me yet.
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Oh. In other words,
it may be being a Delta
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or a Kappa that
gets the door open,
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but it is serving
the Alpha and Omega
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that gets you
serving before keys.
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And what I'm
saying to somebody today
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is don't deal
from the outside in,
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but you got to
build from the inside out.
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Do I have a witness that it
is the anointing that breaks
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the yoke?
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It is the anointing
that breaks the tie.
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It is the Holy Ghost
that puts you over the top.
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And don't just
focus on the natural.
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You got to make investments
in the spiritual level
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with me today church
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and so friends, as we
unpack this thing today.
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The second thing I need
somebody to get is never worsen
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a bad situation
through bad selection.
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No, no, no, no.
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Let me say it. We all hear it.
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Never worsen a bad situation
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by making bad selections.
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Not now.
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What somebody needs
to get is not if it's not
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bad situations that destroy you.
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It's the bad selections
you make in the situation
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that destroy you.
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In other words, a bad situation
may put you to the edge,
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but it is poor selections
that puts you over the edge.
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And young
people hear me on this.
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You should never let
your selections mirror
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your situation.
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In fact, the
worse your situation,
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the better your
selections need to be.
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In other words,
when you find yourself
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in a pinch, you've got to
avoid what I call embracing
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might as well syndrome.
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In other words, what
might as well syndrome is,
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is when you have a bunch
of bad things break your way
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and you get discouraged,
it's because of the bad things
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you say, I might as well
do a bad mistake or selection.
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So let me give you an
example of this job's wife
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had might as well
syndrome and other words
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remember that Joe now
has lost all of his money.
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He has lost all of his career.
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He has lost all of his kids.
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And Job's wife,
as he is sick, says
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you might as well
just curse God and die.
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Abraham and Sarah
might as well syndrome.
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Because they
were both up in number
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and none of their
machinery was working
00:21:18.07\00:21:20.04
and God was taking
too long to repair that.
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They said, we might as well form
00:21:23.51\00:21:26.51
a threesome with
our handmade Hagar.
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Remember that Judas had
a might as well syndrome
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when he realized that he could
not undo what had been done
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and they would not give
him not take the money back.
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Essentially, instead
of repenting, he said, I
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might as well just kill myself.
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Instead of repenting
and turning to the Lord.
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It was bad selection
that worsened the situation.
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And see friends, I
need you to see this
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in the life of the story of
Joseph, because understand that
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Joseph's life
has been nothing but
00:22:02.15\00:22:05.15
one of concentrated traumas.
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Do you all remember now
that because of the favor
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he had with his father,
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he experiences the
rejection of his brothers?
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You realize that he has survived
the assassination attempt
00:22:18.67\00:22:21.60
of his own flesh and blood.
00:22:22.27\00:22:23.94
He has been put into
a pit and left to die.
00:22:23.97\00:22:27.58
He has been sold into slavery
and a land that is not his own.
00:22:28.81\00:22:32.78
And understand that
these are not minor offenses.
00:22:33.88\00:22:36.85
These are actually view
00:22:37.42\00:22:38.65
shaping occurrences
that have the capacity
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to change him into
something that he is not.
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And see, friends,
00:22:46.29\00:22:47.40
this is what happens when
there is mounting difficulties.
00:22:47.46\00:22:51.17
There is always a bit to what?
00:22:51.87\00:22:54.24
Whatever experience
creates some relief or escape
00:22:54.27\00:22:58.71
from the troubles
that I am actually facing.
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And the reason I'm
saying this about Joseph
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is because if anybody,
from a human standpoint,
00:23:06.25\00:23:09.82
had a right to look at
what is happened in their life
00:23:10.95\00:23:14.42
and to evaluate
everything that went wrong,
00:23:15.42\00:23:18.06
if anybody had a
right to say, But God,
00:23:18.96\00:23:21.70
I might as well
smash Potter for his wife.
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It was Joseph.
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Are you hearing me today?
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And he might as well.
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Syndrome is a reaction
to a difficult circumstance
00:23:30.84\00:23:35.81
that informs our selection.
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In other words, it is
when we are romantically lonely
00:23:39.38\00:23:42.58
and we don't see any prospects
00:23:43.65\00:23:45.65
on the horizon and you
don't see nobody in church.
00:23:45.69\00:23:49.46
And so you say, I might as
well date outside of the faith.
00:23:50.63\00:23:53.90
It is where money is tight
00:23:54.73\00:23:56.83
and doors are closing
and you don't see your way.
00:23:56.87\00:24:00.50
And you say, I
might as well take my last
00:24:01.44\00:24:03.44
hundred dollar
bill to the casino.
00:24:03.47\00:24:05.51
It is in that place
where discouragement
00:24:06.44\00:24:09.61
is multiplied
and sorrows are many.
00:24:09.64\00:24:13.08
And you sit literally
at the bar stool and say,
00:24:14.05\00:24:16.48
I might as well get
wasted on a plaster.
00:24:16.52\00:24:19.52
It is where
00:24:19.92\00:24:21.12
students you've waited till
the last moment for the paper
00:24:21.16\00:24:24.26
and you feel like if you
don't, I'm going to fail.
00:24:25.29\00:24:27.30
So I might as well let GPT
write this term paper for me.
00:24:28.43\00:24:31.80
In other words, it
is literally couples
00:24:32.67\00:24:34.50
that scenario
where you're saying
00:24:35.34\00:24:36.54
he ain't giving me no attention
and she ain't giving me none.
00:24:36.57\00:24:40.51
So I might as well
step outside of my marriage
00:24:41.54\00:24:44.21
and it is where we
allow a difficult circumstance
00:24:45.21\00:24:49.25
to be multiplied.
00:24:49.75\00:24:51.32
But the desperation
of our selection and see
00:24:51.35\00:24:54.76
what makes my this well
syndrome powerful is the belief
00:24:54.79\00:25:00.06
that it can't get any
worse than what it is.
00:25:01.03\00:25:03.47
And see this is the
word to somebody today,
00:25:04.37\00:25:07.10
because you are about
00:25:07.67\00:25:08.77
to make a decision
that says, I might as well.
00:25:08.80\00:25:12.81
It can't get any worse.
00:25:13.38\00:25:15.01
I need somebody to know.
00:25:15.04\00:25:16.71
It can always get
worse than what it is.
00:25:16.75\00:25:20.08
See, I know you to know
that you may think that you hit
00:25:21.22\00:25:23.79
rock bottom, but the truth
is, you can always go deeper.
00:25:23.82\00:25:28.26
That hole can always get wider.
00:25:28.96\00:25:31.23
The consequences
can always be greater.
00:25:32.13\00:25:34.63
And you've got to be careful
00:25:34.66\00:25:36.50
not to let your
selection worsen your situation.
00:25:36.53\00:25:41.30
Because remember,
Church, God has promised that
00:25:42.47\00:25:45.21
he'll never place more on you
than what you are able to bear.
00:25:45.24\00:25:49.58
In other words, it is not
the situation that kills you.
00:25:50.78\00:25:53.75
It is the selection you
make that overtakes you.
00:25:54.82\00:25:57.49
And other words,
00:25:57.92\00:25:59.02
notice that Joseph has
survived his brother's betrayal.
00:25:59.05\00:26:02.29
He has survived
the slavery in Egypt.
00:26:03.19\00:26:05.56
He has survived his
assignments upon offer.
00:26:06.49\00:26:08.86
But the one thing he
can't survive is the consequence
00:26:10.00\00:26:13.13
of laying down
with that man's wife.
00:26:13.17\00:26:15.60
And see.
00:26:16.67\00:26:17.14
One of the things
00:26:17.17\00:26:18.34
I want to say to somebody
who finds themselves in a jam,
00:26:18.37\00:26:21.41
who finds themself in a
tough situation, you've got to
00:26:22.51\00:26:25.05
pray, Lord, earnestly,
will you guide my selection?
00:26:25.08\00:26:28.98
Lord, would you
please guide my decision?
00:26:29.92\00:26:32.35
Because God is saying
00:26:32.92\00:26:34.02
that I can change
the situation instantly.
00:26:34.06\00:26:37.59
But what lengthens the
trial of the selections
00:26:38.63\00:26:41.66
you make while you
are in the situation?
00:26:41.70\00:26:44.97
In other words, friends of mine,
00:26:45.77\00:26:46.94
I need to say to somebody who
is in a difficult circumstance,
00:26:46.97\00:26:49.74
when you got to
make some selections,
00:26:50.61\00:26:51.77
you got to be careful about
what friends you listen to.
00:26:51.81\00:26:54.71
Okay.
00:26:56.01\00:26:56.81
Yeah. Know,
actually brand new today.
00:26:56.85\00:26:58.11
In fact, one of the
worst things that can happen
00:26:58.15\00:27:00.72
is for you to be
in a bad situation
00:27:01.48\00:27:04.25
with a bunch of friends
00:27:04.82\00:27:05.95
giving you advice that
ain't never worked out for them.
00:27:05.99\00:27:09.32
In other words, I
need you to hear me.
00:27:10.23\00:27:12.16
If you're in a bad
financial situation,
00:27:13.06\00:27:15.06
don't take no advice from
people borrowing money from you.
00:27:16.23\00:27:18.23
I hear me today.
00:27:18.27\00:27:19.87
In other words, if
you're in an academic crisis,
00:27:19.90\00:27:22.67
don't get mentored
00:27:22.70\00:27:24.11
by somebody that's worse
off in school than you are
00:27:24.14\00:27:27.54
when you find your
marriage in trouble,
00:27:28.48\00:27:30.41
the worst thing you can do
00:27:31.05\00:27:32.18
is get advice from somebody
who has never been married
00:27:32.21\00:27:35.88
or somebody that
has already lost.
00:27:36.72\00:27:38.59
Are yall hearing
00:27:38.62\00:27:39.82
what I'm saying today? Thank you
for joining us for The Breath
00:27:39.85\00:27:43.09
of Life Television
Ministries broadcast with Pastor
00:27:43.12\00:27:46.66
Debleaire Snell.
00:27:46.70\00:27:47.93
We hope and pray
00:27:47.96\00:27:49.03
that you have been blessed
by this powerful message.
00:27:49.06\00:27:52.27
Join us next week for
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00:27:53.27\00:27:56.00
“A No Win Situation.”You
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