#S064 - Prayer Changes More Than Things (Part2) 00:00:06.23\00:00:12.54 Welcome to The Breath of Life 00:00:19.98\00:00:21.55 Television Ministries broadcast with Pastor Debleaire Snell. 00:00:21.55\00:00:25.62 In today's episode, 00:00:25.62\00:00:26.92 Pastor Snell will continue part two of the powerful message 00:00:26.92\00:00:31.13 titled Prayer Changes More Than Things. 00:00:31.16\00:00:34.76 Now let's go deeper into the word of God. 00:00:34.96\00:00:38.13 the Bible lets us know that when he first started 00:00:38.20\00:00:41.04 the praying that Nehemiah was a weeping, angry heaving 00:00:41.04\00:00:45.61 bucket of tears that his soul was disquieted with in him 00:00:45.71\00:00:50.48 when he found out that the walls 00:00:50.58\00:00:52.51 had been broken down and that the gates 00:00:52.51\00:00:54.52 had been burned with fire. 00:00:54.52\00:00:56.45 But he literally says that as he prays, his faith 00:00:56.45\00:01:00.16 begins to swell, his courage begins to increase that. Mr. 00:01:00.16\00:01:04.93 Long petition forms in his mind. 00:01:04.93\00:01:07.40 In other words, man, we waiting for strength 00:01:07.40\00:01:09.73 to get into the secret place. 00:01:09.73\00:01:11.77 But I need you to know when you go into the secret. 00:01:11.77\00:01:16.50 Do I have seven or 00:01:16.57\00:01:17.67 eight folk that's ever going weak into the secret place? 00:01:17.77\00:01:21.51 You didn't have strength when you went in, 00:01:21.58\00:01:23.98 but man had something on you that when you came out, 00:01:23.98\00:01:28.38 it caused the forces of hell to fall back off 00:01:28.65\00:01:32.89 a child of God. 00:01:32.89\00:01:37.96 And see, the reason this is critical 00:01:38.03\00:01:39.76 is because Nehemiah does not go into the prayer closet 00:01:39.76\00:01:43.16 man with this rotund faith and these huge convictions. 00:01:43.30\00:01:47.37 I need you to get that there is a process 00:01:47.54\00:01:49.64 that takes place 00:01:49.64\00:01:50.64 that the more he prays, the more his courage begins 00:01:50.71\00:01:54.24 to develop, the more his strength is maintained. 00:01:54.24\00:01:57.35 See, I need somebody to understand that strength 00:01:57.48\00:02:01.08 is not a prerequisite for prayer. 00:02:01.15\00:02:04.15 Strength, the result of prayer. 00:02:04.25\00:02:07.26 See, we've created unwittingly this faulty narrative 00:02:07.42\00:02:10.36 that says, Man, only the strong have the ability to pray. 00:02:10.36\00:02:14.20 But the reason somebody gets strong is not 00:02:14.36\00:02:17.03 because they had the ability before they prayed, 00:02:17.03\00:02:19.67 but they got the ability. 00:02:19.67\00:02:20.87 Once they begin the habit of calling on the name of the Lord. 00:02:20.87\00:02:26.51 See, see some of us, our problem is we try to preach, 00:02:26.61\00:02:29.58 treat prayer like some people treat going to the gym. 00:02:29.58\00:02:34.88 You know how like sometimes you don't really 00:02:34.98\00:02:36.52 want to go in the gym 00:02:36.52\00:02:38.25 because you see all these people already in great shape. 00:02:38.25\00:02:41.86 And so there's almost a part of you 00:02:41.92\00:02:43.29 that says, I need to get in shape 00:02:43.29\00:02:45.26 just so I can go to the gym. 00:02:45.26\00:02:47.46 But you don't get in shape to go to the gym. 00:02:47.46\00:02:50.27 You get in shape by going to the gym. 00:02:50.27\00:02:53.10 And the reason those are in the gym are in shape. 00:02:53.10\00:02:56.07 It's because they go, Tell me, tell y'all not hear me. 00:02:56.17\00:02:58.44 Like, in other words, you don't get strong to go to God. 00:02:58.44\00:03:02.94 You get strong by going to God. 00:03:03.01\00:03:05.95 He is your strength and your portion. 00:03:05.95\00:03:12.32 And see, I want to talk to that soul today 00:03:12.42\00:03:14.09 that feels like you're too weak to pray, 00:03:14.09\00:03:16.06 that you're too meager to be able 00:03:16.06\00:03:19.23 to pray that you don't have. 00:03:19.23\00:03:20.63 The courage to be able to pray. 00:03:20.63\00:03:22.63 I need somebody to understand 00:03:22.63\00:03:24.43 that you've got to get to a place 00:03:24.43\00:03:25.90 where you pray in a principled fashion. 00:03:25.90\00:03:30.27 And when you pray in a principled way, 00:03:30.34\00:03:32.67 it means that I am going to summon a strength from within. 00:03:32.67\00:03:36.98 I'm not going to wait for a feeling that comes from without. 00:03:37.15\00:03:41.18 How many of us know that if you're waiting 00:03:41.25\00:03:43.55 on a feeling to start praying, 00:03:43.55\00:03:47.52 okay, I'm not going to keep it real. 00:03:47.59\00:03:48.96 Me today. 00:03:48.96\00:03:50.13 How many of us can keep it real and just say that 00:03:50.13\00:03:53.13 most days you don't feel like praying? 00:03:53.13\00:03:56.67 yeah, Y'all not going to be honest. 00:03:56.73\00:03:58.53 I care. 00:03:58.53\00:03:59.10 I'm gonna tell you, I'm the pastor and I can admit 00:03:59.60\00:04:01.34 that I don't wake up in the morning 00:04:01.34\00:04:03.41 and angels don't fill up my bedroom. 00:04:03.41\00:04:06.01 A light does not sign from heaven. 00:04:06.01\00:04:08.61 I do not hear angelic symphony 00:04:08.61\00:04:11.48 there days where I'm tempted to fall asleep when I pray. 00:04:11.48\00:04:14.65 There are some times when my mind wanders, when I pray. 00:04:14.85\00:04:17.89 But what I have to do as I have to grab my thoughts 00:04:18.05\00:04:21.82 and I have to secure my spirit 00:04:21.89\00:04:24.46 and I have to pray, pass my feelings. 00:04:24.46\00:04:27.66 I can't wait on those feelings. 00:04:27.73\00:04:30.50 I hear what I'm saying, friends. 00:04:30.50\00:04:32.77 So you got to pray regardless of the circumstance, 00:04:32.77\00:04:36.30 and you'll find strength in the secret. 00:04:36.47\00:04:40.51 And let me just say to somebody 00:04:40.58\00:04:41.78 who's still wrestling with this idea, 00:04:41.78\00:04:43.51 because you're saying, Man, I don't have strength to pray. 00:04:43.51\00:04:47.32 I don't have the mind to. Pray. 00:04:47.38\00:04:49.08 See, it's because you have a lone interpretation 00:04:49.08\00:04:51.95 of what strength looks like. 00:04:51.95\00:04:55.92 How many of us understand that the strength to pray 00:04:55.99\00:04:59.26 is found in the burden you carry? 00:04:59.33\00:05:05.00 See, you 00:05:05.10\00:05:05.73 thought the burden was taking away strength? 00:05:06.10\00:05:09.17 No, but your burden is actually the strength 00:05:09.27\00:05:12.41 that you need to settle in the secret 00:05:12.41\00:05:15.71 place and call on the name of the Lord. 00:05:15.71\00:05:18.71 In other words, the strength to pray for your kids 00:05:18.88\00:05:22.22 is in the burden you have for your kids. 00:05:22.45\00:05:25.79 The strength you pray for your marriage is in the burden 00:05:25.85\00:05:29.42 you have for your marriage, the strength to pray for Oakwood 00:05:29.42\00:05:33.73 is in the burden you have for all good. 00:05:33.90\00:05:36.87 The strength to pray for the sick is found in your burden 00:05:36.87\00:05:40.54 for the sick and. 00:05:40.54\00:05:41.94 Other words, 00:05:41.94\00:05:42.50 you don't have to wait for it to come like a cool breeze. 00:05:43.17\00:05:45.57 But wherever you have burdened 00:05:45.74\00:05:47.94 you find access to God in prayer. 00:05:47.94\00:05:50.55 In other words, your burden ought not push 00:05:50.55\00:05:53.01 you away from God. 00:05:53.01\00:05:54.35 They actually usher you to the throne. 00:05:54.35\00:05:58.42 Y'all hear what I'm saying, France And see. 00:05:58.49\00:06:01.09 This is why friends IV 00:06:01.09\00:06:01.89 need us to know that even when you don't feel it, 00:06:02.16\00:06:05.89 you got to pray. 00:06:05.96\00:06:07.76 When you don't see nothing happening, 00:06:07.76\00:06:10.57 you still got to pray. 00:06:10.57\00:06:12.07 When you don't see no momentum, you still got a call on 00:06:12.07\00:06:15.67 the name of the Lord. 00:06:15.67\00:06:16.94 Because, see, 00:06:16.94\00:06:17.37 I need you to know that when you don't, you forfeit 00:06:18.01\00:06:19.81 one of the most powerful promises. 00:06:19.81\00:06:21.64 And Philippians Chapter four when it says Be anxious 00:06:21.64\00:06:28.02 for nothing 00:06:28.12\00:06:29.95 but in everything, 00:06:29.95\00:06:32.59 make your Thanksgiving. 00:06:32.59\00:06:35.19 Let your request be made known unto God 00:06:35.19\00:06:39.26 and the peace 00:06:39.36\00:06:42.23 that passes all understand 00:06:42.23\00:06:45.53 will guard your heart and your mind through Christ. 00:06:45.63\00:06:49.50 Jesus wants this church. 00:06:49.50\00:06:51.87 I need you to realize that before God 00:06:51.87\00:06:55.51 things God changes you. 00:06:55.58\00:07:01.38 He changes your 00:07:01.45\00:07:02.75 disposition, He changes your spirit. 00:07:02.75\00:07:06.52 He replaces your distress with peace. 00:07:06.59\00:07:09.59 He your chaos with order 00:07:09.82\00:07:12.63 before he changes stuff outside of you. 00:07:12.63\00:07:16.46 He's got to make a change inside of you. 00:07:16.56\00:07:19.47 Now Notice what the promise is. 00:07:19.47\00:07:21.40 Because I need you to know that God takes a while 00:07:21.40\00:07:24.77 to change things. 00:07:24.77\00:07:28.28 But you know what can be changed? 00:07:28.34\00:07:30.28 As soon as you get off your knees, 00:07:30.28\00:07:33.62 your spirit can be changed, your soul can can be secured. 00:07:33.68\00:07:38.05 You can have the peace of God. 00:07:38.22\00:07:40.72 that the word says is so great 00:07:40.72\00:07:43.43 that it passes human understanding, 00:07:43.43\00:07:46.43 so that when you go through, you go through 00:07:46.43\00:07:49.26 and you don't respond like folks think you are to respond. 00:07:49.26\00:07:52.67 They thought you were going to be out of your mind. 00:07:52.77\00:07:55.74 They thought you wouldn't 00:07:55.74\00:07:56.87 make it through what you've gone through. 00:07:56.87\00:07:59.14 They anticipated your collapse and your demise. 00:07:59.14\00:08:02.58 But when they see you walking around 00:08:02.81\00:08:05.28 and your head is held high 00:08:05.28\00:08:07.32 and you're wrapped 00:08:07.32\00:08:08.05 tight in your mind and you're not a bucket of tears, 00:08:08.42\00:08:11.85 they can't explain it. 00:08:11.92\00:08:13.59 They think you're getting drunk. 00:08:13.59\00:08:15.29 That's your own Prozac. 00:08:15.29\00:08:17.03 That's in denial. 00:08:17.03\00:08:18.76 It's just the peace of God 00:08:18.76\00:08:23.26 that is securing me 00:08:23.33\00:08:26.80 in the face of adversity 00:08:26.87\00:08:31.31 and see something. 00:08:31.37\00:08:32.17 One of the things I say all the time. 00:08:32.24\00:08:33.88 I need you to understand that 00:08:33.88\00:08:35.08 prayer and peace play on the sea salt together. 00:08:35.08\00:08:39.81 yeah, I missed it. 00:08:39.88\00:08:41.02 So the Bible says the more I pray, 00:08:41.02\00:08:43.99 the more peace I'm going to have. 00:08:43.99\00:08:46.29 You'll know when you're on the seesaw. 00:08:46.29\00:08:47.86 When you mess down on one side, it raises up the other side. 00:08:47.86\00:08:52.26 So the deeper I go down in prayer, guess what? 00:08:52.33\00:08:55.56 The more my piece begins to increase. 00:08:55.56\00:08:58.83 So the more you go down. 00:08:58.90\00:09:00.87 y'all not hear me, the more your peace goes up. 00:09:00.87\00:09:04.34 But the more I stand up, the more my peace goes down. 00:09:04.44\00:09:09.08 And I'm looking for a church who's going to stay down 00:09:09.14\00:09:12.31 on your knees so that your peace can go up, 00:09:12.31\00:09:16.12 your strength can go up, your help can increase. 00:09:16.18\00:09:20.12 It's like the old song say, Is this hard to stumble 00:09:20.19\00:09:24.36 when you're on your knees? 00:09:24.46\00:09:27.40 And y'all hear me today, friends. 00:09:27.46\00:09:31.83 Second thing I want to say quickly 00:09:31.90\00:09:34.80 is that things should not change 00:09:34.80\00:09:38.14 faster than you do. 00:09:38.14\00:09:48.72 Prayer changes things, 00:09:48.82\00:09:52.32 but those things should not change 00:09:52.39\00:09:56.29 faster than the one trait. 00:09:56.36\00:10:01.00 All right. 00:10:01.06\00:10:02.60 Have you noticed that Nehemiah Prayer is actually filled 00:10:02.60\00:10:06.74 with more repentance than requesting? 00:10:06.74\00:10:11.37 It is filled with more contrition 00:10:11.44\00:10:14.34 then the collecting of things. 00:10:14.34\00:10:16.75 Are y'all catching this today, friends, 00:10:16.75\00:10:18.65 so that when you look at me 00:10:18.65\00:10:19.41 and my prayer is not him coming before God and saying, God, 00:10:19.88\00:10:22.05 give me this and give me that and give me the other 00:10:22.05\00:10:24.19 I want, I want, I need, I need this man. 00:10:24.19\00:10:26.86 Prayer is actually fueled with this sense of remorse 00:10:26.86\00:10:29.86 where he literally talks about how he said 00:10:29.89\00:10:32.19 how my father's house have sinned, 00:10:32.19\00:10:33.86 how the generations have sinned against you, 00:10:33.86\00:10:36.23 how we've done wickedness, and how we have your commend mix. 00:10:36.23\00:10:40.64 And see, there is a particular movement 00:10:40.84\00:10:43.84 behind the way that Nehemiah phrase, 00:10:43.97\00:10:46.27 because Nehemiah understands that it was their unwillingness 00:10:46.27\00:10:50.05 to repent that was the cause of the exile. 00:10:50.05\00:10:53.75 And if they God concludes the exile. 00:10:53.88\00:10:56.89 But there is no repentance, there is going to be 00:10:56.99\00:11:00.26 a revisiting of the judgments of Babylon by another nation. 00:11:00.26\00:11:06.76 See the happiness of this moment brings 00:11:06.83\00:11:10.10 Nehemiah to a place of complete and utter despair. 00:11:10.10\00:11:13.60 Understand that 00:11:13.80\00:11:14.94 the reason Nehemiah fuels this prayer repentance 00:11:14.94\00:11:18.94 is because even if God changes their outward circumstances 00:11:19.01\00:11:23.81 without changing their inner disposition, 00:11:23.91\00:11:26.78 that disposition is gone. 00:11:26.78\00:11:28.25 Will those same circumstances back into reality 00:11:28.25\00:11:33.15 so that if God changes their financial posture 00:11:33.22\00:11:36.22 and their legislative posture and their political posture 00:11:36.46\00:11:40.40 without amending their spiritual posture, I need you to know 00:11:40.60\00:11:44.60 life will have this cyclical nature to it 00:11:44.60\00:11:47.34 and instead of Babylon, it's going to be somebody else. 00:11:47.34\00:11:51.97 I don't know if we're quite getting what Nehemiah 00:11:52.07\00:11:53.91 prays this prayer of repentance 00:11:53.91\00:11:57.15 and with weeping and grief, it's crazy 00:11:57.21\00:12:01.05 because they've been in exile 00:12:01.12\00:12:03.59 for seventy years. 00:12:03.59\00:12:07.42 Okay, 00:12:07.49\00:12:09.46 So it's strange to me 00:12:09.46\00:12:11.16 why Nehemiah breaks down and cries 00:12:11.16\00:12:14.83 when he hears that the gates have been burned 00:12:14.93\00:12:17.87 and the walls have been torn down. 00:12:17.87\00:12:20.64 Like, in other words, that should have been given. 00:12:20.64\00:12:23.41 They have been taken by siege and taken from their country 00:12:23.41\00:12:27.54 over 70 years ago. 00:12:27.68\00:12:29.11 Why is Nehemiah 00:12:29.11\00:12:30.38 now weeping about broken walls and burned gates? 00:12:30.38\00:12:33.95 That should have been an assumption. 00:12:34.12\00:12:35.85 That's what happens 00:12:35.85\00:12:36.99 whenever one country absorbs another country. 00:12:36.99\00:12:40.69 But understand there is something 00:12:40.86\00:12:42.79 about the visual that is communicated that 00:12:42.79\00:12:45.79 communicates a more deeper and powerful truth 00:12:45.79\00:12:48.86 because the broken down walls and the burned gates are simply 00:12:49.03\00:12:53.64 an outward reflection of Israel's spiritual condition. 00:12:53.64\00:13:00.74 And Nehemiah 00:13:00.84\00:13:01.48 understands that if God changes outward structures 00:13:01.91\00:13:05.21 before he reveals the inner structure of the people, 00:13:05.31\00:13:08.48 see this, see this is the tension 00:13:08.58\00:13:10.65 that someone is living in right now, in this moment. 00:13:10.65\00:13:13.22 Because me you're frustrated 00:13:13.22\00:13:14.86 because prayer hasn't changed things, 00:13:14.86\00:13:18.16 but you realize that that thing was sent to change. 00:13:18.23\00:13:20.93 You wanting God to change this uncomfortable thing. 00:13:20.93\00:13:29.50 But that uncomfortable thing was sent to create a character 00:13:29.60\00:13:33.54 stirring and agitation that was to bring about 00:13:33.58\00:13:37.48 a permanent change in your soul disposition 00:13:37.48\00:13:42.45 and see God understands this, that if God makes bad 00:13:42.52\00:13:46.19 circumstances good without making bad character 00:13:46.22\00:13:50.16 good, then bad character becomes permanent. 00:13:50.16\00:13:55.86 You see, sometimes 00:13:55.93\00:13:57.63 we mismanage the narrative. 00:13:57.63\00:14:02.00 We all quiet in church today. 00:14:02.10\00:14:04.61 don't at your watch. 00:14:04.61\00:14:05.37 Look at me. I'm right here. Amen. 00:14:05.37\00:14:09.14 So this is one of the things I'm 00:14:09.24\00:14:10.75 starting to wrestle with in my mind, 00:14:10.75\00:14:12.15 because we say, man, that God takes a long time 00:14:12.15\00:14:16.55 to change things. 00:14:16.58\00:14:19.15 Well, some 46 says that God is our refuge 00:14:19.15\00:14:21.92 and our strength, a very present help in the time of trouble. 00:14:21.92\00:14:26.59 And I guess my question is, does God take a long time 00:14:26.66\00:14:30.47 to change things or do we just take a long time to change? 00:14:30.63\00:14:36.47 Is the issue how slow God is to move 00:14:36.57\00:14:40.31 or is the issue how slow we are to adjust 00:14:40.48\00:14:44.51 to the chastening buffeting circumstances life 00:14:44.51\00:14:48.05 that are designed to drive us back 00:14:48.22\00:14:53.05 in the direction of our Savior. 00:14:53.15\00:14:56.59 So sometimes God 00:14:56.66\00:14:58.29 doesn't change that irritating circumstance 00:14:58.29\00:15:01.90 because he knows that 00:15:01.96\00:15:02.80 if he changes the placement of the circumstance 00:15:03.03\00:15:05.37 before he changes 00:15:05.37\00:15:06.43 the placement of your character, 00:15:06.43\00:15:08.07 then your character is going to get set in stone 00:15:08.07\00:15:11.04 or cemented in something that has you on the outside of 00:15:11.04\00:15:14.64 the city looking in. When The earth is made new 00:15:14.64\00:15:19.11 and this is why 00:15:19.18\00:15:19.81 Nehemiah says, Man, we got to repent 00:15:20.05\00:15:23.52 now that we're repented ain't done by the fancy church word, 00:15:23.62\00:15:25.85 it simply means a turn around and turn away from it. 00:15:25.85\00:15:28.89 It means that we've got to turn 00:15:28.89\00:15:30.09 in the direction of Jesus Christ 00:15:30.09\00:15:32.43 and see this thing I like about Nehemiah, 00:15:32.43\00:15:34.30 and this is why I need the church 00:15:34.30\00:15:35.46 to really kind of embrace the principle. 00:15:35.46\00:15:37.60 Notice that Nehemiah didn't do a bunch of asking. 00:15:37.60\00:15:39.87 He didn't ask, Hit it, ask God for bricks and straw and mortar. 00:15:39.87\00:15:43.44 He just says, Lord, we're sorry. 00:15:43.57\00:15:45.27 He just says, Lord, we acknowledge what we have done 00:15:45.27\00:15:47.88 because Nehemiah 00:15:47.88\00:15:48.81 understands this, that if they are able to repent, 00:15:48.94\00:15:52.15 they don't even have to ask God for a whole lot of things. Why? 00:15:52.38\00:15:56.28 Because God's design for them are greater than what 00:15:56.48\00:16:00.16 they can even ask for. 00:16:00.16\00:16:01.49 I think God said to them 00:16:01.49\00:16:03.36 in the Prophet Jeremiah, he says, I've got 00:16:03.36\00:16:07.50 I have plans to prosper, you know, give you a future 00:16:07.50\00:16:11.07 and a hope. 00:16:11.07\00:16:12.07 And see, the problem is we want to request without repenting. 00:16:12.33\00:16:15.87 But if you repent, I need you to know that God will give you 00:16:15.97\00:16:19.57 ten times more than what you can ever request. 00:16:19.71\00:16:22.84 Is anybody realize that we serve the God of a three in 320 00:16:23.04\00:16:27.05 that says now unto him 00:16:27.25\00:16:29.08 that is able to do exceedingly and abundantly. 00:16:29.08\00:16:33.09 Above all, you can ask or think, but you've got to put 00:16:33.19\00:16:36.76 some repent tents before your requesting 00:16:36.76\00:16:44.77 Seems crazy because people want to put the cart 00:16:44.83\00:16:46.74 before the horse 00:16:46.74\00:16:48.20 and wonder why we can't make any motion or traction. 00:16:48.20\00:16:51.21 I mean, it's just like I remember one time know 00:16:51.27\00:16:52.94 we were in the house and and, you know, there was some food 00:16:52.94\00:16:55.71 had been in the fridge too long 00:16:55.71\00:16:56.91 and one of the kids put it inside of the trash can. 00:16:56.91\00:16:59.78 And after a while it began to give off a bad odor throughout. 00:16:59.78\00:17:02.52 The house. 00:17:02.52\00:17:03.18 And it's crazy because, 00:17:03.18\00:17:04.25 like once everybody smelled the bad order, 00:17:04.25\00:17:06.55 you know what their initial response was to 00:17:06.55\00:17:08.06 do was to get air freshener 00:17:08.06\00:17:11.83 and spread all over the house. 00:17:11.89\00:17:14.13 But how many of us understand that air freshener only lasts 00:17:14.13\00:17:16.53 for a few minutes? 00:17:16.53\00:17:18.07 C, c c air freshener? 00:17:18.07\00:17:19.97 It won't kill stench. 00:17:19.97\00:17:22.64 It just mask it for a little while 00:17:22.64\00:17:25.84 and see 00:17:25.91\00:17:26.37 those that make requests without repentance. 00:17:26.91\00:17:29.64 All they do is mask the stench. 00:17:29.81\00:17:33.11 But God is saying to somebody, You got to take out the trash 00:17:33.21\00:17:36.69 in your life. 00:17:36.69\00:17:38.22 You got to get rid of the garbage and stop masking 00:17:38.22\00:17:42.29 the things that you don't want to address 00:17:42.29\00:17:46.73 so that if God changes your finances 00:17:46.80\00:17:50.10 without addressing your stewardship, 00:17:50.17\00:17:53.17 he's just masking the inevitable. 00:17:53.40\00:17:56.71 If God changes your health status 00:17:56.77\00:17:59.71 without you changing your health practices, it 00:17:59.71\00:18:05.18 we're just masking the inevitable. 00:18:05.25\00:18:08.25 If God changes the condition of the marriage, 00:18:08.38\00:18:11.02 if without changing your posture and the way you talk down to 00:18:11.02\00:18:14.82 your spouse, 00:18:14.82\00:18:16.76 it is just a masking of the inevitable. 00:18:16.76\00:18:20.36 And what I'm saying to somebody today 00:18:20.46\00:18:22.20 is that God does not function on the level of your image, 00:18:22.20\00:18:25.33 that God is functioning on the level of your character. 00:18:25.47\00:18:28.47 So how many of us 00:18:28.54\00:18:29.70 see we're grateful that we serve a God who saves, 00:18:29.70\00:18:35.58 but we don't rejoice 00:18:35.68\00:18:36.85 over the God who sanctifies sin. 00:18:36.85\00:18:40.68 We just want the God that just say expunge is the record. 00:18:40.68\00:18:44.19 We just want the God that wipes away the strain. 00:18:44.29\00:18:47.22 But I need a God that doesn't just make me new in heaven. 00:18:47.22\00:18:51.99 I want a God that's going to do a work 00:18:52.06\00:18:55.00 so powerful in me on earth that what he says about me 00:18:55.00\00:19:00.60 in heaven becomes true in my walk on earth. 00:19:00.60\00:19:04.44 So he doesn't just say, I'm righteous up there, 00:19:04.54\00:19:07.38 but it can be said about me as I walk down here. 00:19:07.38\00:19:10.75 But I need you to know that character growth 00:19:10.81\00:19:13.48 will not always be done voluntarily. 00:19:13.48\00:19:19.59 Come on and save in church. 00:19:19.69\00:19:22.16 God has to choose for us. 00:19:22.16\00:19:25.89 The That's why through Isaiah, 00:19:25.93\00:19:27.30 he says, I have chosen for you the furnace of affliction, 00:19:27.30\00:19:32.80 man. I be like, God, 00:19:32.87\00:19:34.47 I wish I could grow men in 00:19:34.47\00:19:37.47 in a space of extreme comfort. 00:19:37.67\00:19:42.11 I wish character grew when you just had millions in the bank. 00:19:42.21\00:19:45.11 Come on, Azamat. 00:19:45.11\00:19:46.61 I just wish, man, that man, I became more prayerful. 00:19:46.61\00:19:48.92 The more nice things people said about me. 00:19:48.92\00:19:51.55 I wish I became more diligent, the more friends I have. 00:19:51.55\00:19:54.69 But how many of us can tell the truth? 00:19:54.79\00:19:56.39 That's not where we grow, 00:19:56.39\00:19:59.39 right? 00:19:59.39\00:20:00.43 I love how you looking at me right now. 00:20:00.43\00:20:01.73 I mean, come on. 00:20:01.73\00:20:03.00 Like it is when you are so broke, you can't pay attention. 00:20:03.00\00:20:07.74 That's you. 00:20:07.80\00:20:08.20 Stop praying, 00:20:08.20\00:20:08.90 rehearse prayers, and you start praying like Nehemiah. 00:20:09.30\00:20:12.67 It is 00:20:12.77\00:20:13.11 when your enemies seem like they're going to overcome you, 00:20:13.98\00:20:16.11 that you begin seeking God with a different of intentionality. 00:20:16.14\00:20:20.15 And see, I need you to know that God will never allow you 00:20:20.32\00:20:23.25 to be swallowed up. 00:20:23.25\00:20:24.35 He will never allow you to be overwhelmed. 00:20:24.35\00:20:26.59 He'll never allow you to be burned by the fire. 00:20:26.59\00:20:29.22 But he's going to tailor the fire. 00:20:29.22\00:20:31.19 He's going to tailor the heat so that it removes the dross 00:20:31.19\00:20:34.30 and the impurities so that it fixes in place 00:20:34.46\00:20:39.67 heavenly properties 00:20:39.73\00:20:41.67 that God is able to use for His glory. 00:20:41.67\00:20:44.54 I hear me today, friends, this is I'm almost done. 00:20:44.54\00:20:47.51 Nehemiah Chapter versus eight through ten. 00:20:47.51\00:20:49.68 Look at with me real quick Nehemiah one verse eight. 00:20:49.68\00:20:52.28 The word says this Remember, I pray 00:20:52.28\00:20:56.89 the word that you commended your servant Moses, 00:20:56.95\00:21:01.59 saying who? 00:21:01.66\00:21:04.66 Jesus 00:21:04.89\00:21:08.46 is so good. 00:21:08.53\00:21:10.23 Remember, I pray the word that I commanded 00:21:10.23\00:21:12.33 your servant Moses, saying, If you are unfaithful, 00:21:12.33\00:21:16.04 I will scatter amongst the nations. 00:21:16.14\00:21:19.14 But if you return to me, 00:21:19.24\00:21:24.15 keep my commandments and do them. 00:21:24.25\00:21:26.88 Those. 00:21:26.88\00:21:27.18 Some of you were cast out to the farthest part of the heavens. 00:21:28.15\00:21:32.25 Are you all catching this church 00:21:32.32\00:21:36.32 yet? I will gather them 00:21:36.42\00:21:38.63 from there and will bring them to the place 00:21:38.63\00:21:41.83 which I have chosen as a dwelling 00:21:42.03\00:21:45.47 for my name. 00:21:45.57\00:21:49.80 Last thing I need somebody to know 00:21:49.87\00:21:51.91 is that no matter how far you get from God, 00:21:51.91\00:21:55.38 God always leaves the light on for His people. 00:21:55.44\00:22:03.72 Chris, I read this 00:22:03.82\00:22:05.55 and my soul almost exploded because. 00:22:05.55\00:22:10.19 What Nehemiah is praying is the promise 00:22:10.19\00:22:14.00 that God made to Moses and Deuteronomy 31. 00:22:14.00\00:22:18.33 And it shows something powerful about God's grace. 00:22:18.57\00:22:23.34 That grace is never reactionary. 00:22:23.41\00:22:27.41 Grace is always preemptive. 00:22:27.51\00:22:32.71 So notice what God says. 00:22:32.78\00:22:34.62 He says literally, that man, if you are stray, 00:22:34.62\00:22:39.45 he says, I'm gonna scatter you 00:22:39.52\00:22:41.82 to the furthest parts of the earth. 00:22:41.82\00:22:44.83 But notice what he says, that if you ever return 00:22:44.96\00:22:49.60 and keep my commandments, I'm gonna leave the light of grace 00:22:49.66\00:22:54.57 on so that you can always find your way home. 00:22:54.57\00:23:00.21 In other words, I need somebody to understand 00:23:00.31\00:23:03.04 that the grace of God, it is not a permissiveness of sand, 00:23:03.04\00:23:07.68 but it is God's acknowledgment of your sinful nature. 00:23:07.92\00:23:11.82 It is an expression of His great love, where God 00:23:11.92\00:23:15.42 says, I don't want you to sin, but guess what? 00:23:15.42\00:23:18.53 I understand who you are. 00:23:18.53\00:23:20.76 I understand how fallen you must be so that even when you do 00:23:20.76\00:23:28.30 know God, 00:23:28.40\00:23:30.04 He didn't say If you do it, 00:23:30.04\00:23:33.01 he says, When you do it, 00:23:33.01\00:23:35.34 I want you to know that even before you sing, 00:23:35.34\00:23:39.08 before you stray, 00:23:39.18\00:23:40.92 I want you to know that even when you get far from me, 00:23:40.92\00:23:44.25 and even when you are using my breath 00:23:44.49\00:23:48.62 to do your dirt, 00:23:48.72\00:23:51.26 I want you to know that no matter how far you get from me, 00:23:51.26\00:23:56.03 I'll always leave the light on 00:23:56.13\00:23:59.33 so that you can find your way back home. 00:23:59.40\00:24:06.34 So it's just kind of like this. 00:24:06.41\00:24:08.01 Those of us have small kids. 00:24:08.01\00:24:09.08 I remember there'll be times where you're on Sabbath. 00:24:09.14\00:24:11.75 You go to somebody's house, 00:24:11.75\00:24:13.11 and there be times where I would have to make 00:24:13.11\00:24:14.42 two or three stops when Sabbath afternoon. 00:24:14.42\00:24:16.38 And so if man, you know, I would tell the kids, 00:24:16.38\00:24:18.89 you know, that that, you know, if you go in here 00:24:18.89\00:24:21.09 and you know how you have to do as a parent, 00:24:21.09\00:24:22.29 you got to you got to threaten them, 00:24:22.29\00:24:25.66 you got to say act like you got some sense, Come on. 00:24:25.73\00:24:28.53 Your parents ever told you, act like you got home training. 00:24:28.53\00:24:31.30 Come on and say, man. 00:24:31.30\00:24:32.73 And I tell them, man, don't you be out there in the backyard 00:24:32.73\00:24:35.40 don't you be crawling all over the floor. 00:24:35.40\00:24:37.17 Don't get your church clothes dirty. 00:24:37.17\00:24:38.97 Now, I give them that instruction 00:24:38.97\00:24:41.28 and I expect them to do it. 00:24:41.28\00:24:43.21 But guess what? 00:24:43.21\00:24:43.98 You know, your kids. 00:24:43.98\00:24:46.78 So I know that if I'm going to a house 00:24:46.78\00:24:49.05 where they're going to be other kids, guess what? 00:24:49.05\00:24:51.62 I don't bring a change of clothes 00:24:51.62\00:24:54.29 because I know they don't get dirty. 00:24:54.29\00:24:56.52 Y'all missed it. 00:24:56.52\00:24:57.89 In other words, I'm not giving them permission to get dirty, 00:24:57.89\00:25:01.43 but I just love them so much that I can't take them 00:25:01.66\00:25:05.50 to the next place. Still soiled. 00:25:05.50\00:25:08.14 I got to put some clean clothes over them 00:25:08.14\00:25:11.14 and cover their stains. 00:25:11.14\00:25:13.14 And what I'm saying what John said, he says, 00:25:13.14\00:25:16.11 I write these things that you do not sin. 00:25:16.11\00:25:19.21 But the good news is that if any man says 00:25:19.41\00:25:22.35 we have an advocate with Father Jesus Christ, the righteous, 00:25:22.35\00:25:29.69 and say, I need somebody to understand that the grace of God 00:25:29.79\00:25:32.69 is never reactionary, it is always preemptive. 00:25:32.69\00:25:36.16 So I need you to understand that even Jesus 00:25:36.30\00:25:40.60 was not a reaction 00:25:40.67\00:25:43.44 to Adam. Sam, 00:25:43.44\00:25:48.24 After Adam and Eve ate the fruit, 00:25:48.31\00:25:50.48 the father didn't say, Jesus, what you want to do about it? 00:25:50.48\00:25:53.88 See, I need you to know that the plan of salvation, 00:25:53.95\00:25:56.48 it was not a reaction to man's lushness. 00:25:56.48\00:25:59.49 The plan of salvation was a part of the original design. 00:25:59.55\00:26:04.06 The plan of 00:26:04.13\00:26:04.83 this salvation was laid before the earth was framed. 00:26:05.23\00:26:08.66 Our gravity put in place. 00:26:08.66\00:26:10.47 It is why, when John and Revelation 13 00:26:10.47\00:26:13.23 eight sees Jesus, he says, Behold the lamb 00:26:13.23\00:26:17.47 that was slain from the foundation of the Earth, 00:26:17.54\00:26:22.28 so that before he created the world, 00:26:22.38\00:26:25.61 he created it a plan of redemption. 00:26:25.71\00:26:28.92 Because grace is not a reaction. 00:26:29.02\00:26:33.15 It is preemptive. 00:26:33.22\00:26:35.32 And God always, always has you in mind the same. 00:26:35.32\00:26:39.23 Can the Church say amen? 00:26:39.23\00:26:43.16 It's graduation season. 00:26:43.16\00:26:45.03 And I want to say congrats to all of our recent graduates. 00:26:45.03\00:26:48.04 And though we're thankful for how God is blessing you, 00:26:48.27\00:26:51.11 the only problem is that we ask 18 or 19 year olds 00:26:51.11\00:26:54.94 to make decisions that affect the rest of their lives. 00:26:55.01\00:26:58.71 That's why I'm inviting you to join me for our 00:26:58.81\00:27:01.52 first ever breath of life decision day. 00:27:01.52\00:27:04.52 It's a one day online conference on July the seventh. 00:27:04.65\00:27:08.86 I'm going to be joined by a number of individuals. 00:27:08.96\00:27:11.59 They're going to help 00:27:11.59\00:27:12.26 our young people make decisions about their future. 00:27:12.69\00:27:15.50 We're going to be discussing 00:27:15.56\00:27:16.50 things like how to discover your calling. 00:27:16.50\00:27:19.57 Doesn't HBCU put me out of this advantage? 00:27:19.77\00:27:23.20 When do I need to pivot? 00:27:23.27\00:27:24.64 Changing schools are majors or how to dream big. 00:27:24.64\00:27:29.61 It's going to be held on July the seventh from 10 a.m. 00:27:29.71\00:27:32.65 to 2:00 PM. 00:27:32.65\00:27:34.18 It's a free conference, 00:27:34.18\00:27:35.68 but we don't just want the kids to come. 00:27:35.68\00:27:37.62 We want the parents to come so that we can make these decisions 00:27:37.62\00:27:41.42 with God's tutelage as a village. 00:27:41.69\00:27:44.66 So again, that's going to be July the seventh from 10 a.m. 00:27:44.86\00:27:47.73 to 2 p.m. 00:27:47.73\00:27:49.16 I need you to know it's going to be a great time of learning. 00:27:49.16\00:27:51.63 You're going to be equipped. 00:27:51.63\00:27:52.83 You're going to be given some tools 00:27:52.83\00:27:54.64 to make sure 00:27:54.64\00:27:55.20 that you land at the right place 00:27:55.34\00:27:57.07 and that you make the right choice. 00:27:57.07\00:27:59.11 I look forward to seeing you soon. 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