Sermon #S005 - Know Your Worth 00:00:09.07\00:00:20.32 Pastor Snell: Genesis Chapter 30 and we will begin together at 00:00:20.35\00:00:25.42 verse 25. I will be reading from the New King James' version of 00:00:25.45\00:00:29.06 the Bible. And I should tell you, once again, you all look fantastic here in the house of 00:00:29.09\00:00:32.59 the Lord. Turn to your neighbor and say, "You look good today." Turn to the other neighbor 00:00:32.63\00:00:36.73 and say, "The blessing of the Lord is on you today." Amen. Genesis Chapter 30, 00:00:36.77\00:00:46.91 and we are going to look together at verse 25. 00:00:46.94\00:00:49.78 The Bible says, and it came to pass when Rachel had born 00:00:49.81\00:00:56.92 Joseph, that Jacob said to Laban, "Send me away that I may go to my own place, to my 00:00:56.95\00:01:04.19 country. Give me my wives and my children for whom I have served you, and let me go, for you know 00:01:04.23\00:01:11.70 my service, which I have done for you. And Laban said to him, "Please stay if I have found 00:01:11.73\00:01:19.34 favor in your eyes, for I have learned by experience that the Lord has blessed me for your 00:01:19.37\00:01:26.11 sake." Then he said, "Name me your wages, and I will give it." 00:01:26.15\00:01:30.72 So Jacob said to him, "You know I have served you and how your livestock has been with me, 00:01:30.75\00:01:39.26 for what you had before I came was little, and it has increased 00:01:39.29\00:01:46.37 to a great amount. The Lord has blessed you since my coming, and now, when shall I be able to 00:01:46.40\00:01:53.34 provide for my own house?" So he said, "What shall I give you?" 00:01:53.38\00:01:57.31 Jacob said, "You shall not give me anything. If you do this 00:01:57.35\00:02:03.89 thing for me, I will again feed and keep your flocks. Let me pass through all your flock 00:02:03.92\00:02:11.63 today, removing, from there, all the speckled and spotted sheep, and all the brown ones among the 00:02:11.66\00:02:18.40 lambs and the spotted and speckled amongst the goats. And these shall be my wages. 00:02:18.43\00:02:23.44 So my righteousness will answer for me in time to come when the subject of my wages comes before 00:02:23.47\00:02:29.74 you. Everyone that is not speckled and spotted amongst the goats, and brown amongst the 00:02:29.78\00:02:37.45 lambs, will be considered stolen if it is with me." Laban said, "Oh that it was according to 00:02:37.49\00:02:45.39 your word." So he removed, that day, the male goats that were 00:02:45.43\00:02:49.56 speckled and spotted and all the female goats that were speckled 00:02:49.60\00:02:53.37 and spotted, everyone that had some white in it and all the brown ones amongst the lands 00:02:53.40\00:02:57.77 and gave them into the hand of his sons. He put a three days journey between himself and 00:02:57.81\00:03:04.91 Jacob, and Jacob fed the rest of Laban's flock. 00:03:04.95\00:03:08.68 Now, Laban took rods of green poplar, almond, and chestnut trees, peeled white strips in 00:03:08.72\00:03:18.49 them, and exposed the white in the rods. The rods, which had been peeled, he set before the 00:03:18.53\00:03:26.74 flocks in the gutters, in the watering troughs where the flocks came to drink so that 00:03:26.77\00:03:37.28 they should conceive when they came to drink. So the flocks conceived before the rods, and 00:03:37.31\00:03:46.05 the flocks brought forth streaked, speckled, and spotted. Then Jacob separated the lambs 00:03:46.09\00:03:52.99 and made the flocks face toward the street and all the brown and the flock of Laban. 00:03:53.03\00:03:54.96 He put forth his own flocks by themselves and did not put them with laban's flock, 00:03:55.00\00:04:00.87 and it came to pass whenever the strong livestock conceived that Jacob places the rods 00:04:00.90\00:04:07.54 before the eyes of the livestock in the gutters that they may conceive amongst the rods. 00:04:07.58\00:04:12.88 But when the flocks were feeble, he did not put them in. So the feebler were Laban's, 00:04:12.91\00:04:19.52 and the stronger, Jacob's. Thus the man became exceedingly prosperous and had large flocks, 00:04:19.55\00:04:26.80 female and male servants, camels, and donkeys. 00:04:26.83\00:04:31.33 I want to read for emphasis, verse number 30, what Jacob said, "For what you had before I 00:04:31.37\00:04:40.11 came was little, and it has increased to a great amount, for the Lord has blessed you since 00:04:40.14\00:04:47.98 my coming. And now, what shall I provide for my own house?" Today, I want to talk to you, 00:04:48.02\00:04:55.12 as we talk about Black excellence and wealth, about the importance of knowing your 00:04:55.16\00:05:03.63 worth. Let us pray together. Father, I pray that in this little while, you will say much. 00:05:03.67\00:05:09.77 I am praying that there would be an inspiration in the hearing of 00:05:09.80\00:05:15.34 the word. I am praying that my vision would be enlarged. I pray that the faith of your people 00:05:15.38\00:05:22.18 will be multiplied. So, Lord, I pray that you allow the word to go forth without interruption or 00:05:22.22\00:05:29.12 human hindrance. Once again, would you please hide me in the shadows of the cross, that 00:05:29.16\00:05:34.60 Jesus, alone, might be seen, that Christ, alone, would be heard, and, at the end of our 00:05:34.63\00:05:40.24 time together, may Jesus, alone, be praised. We ask this in the name of Him who is altogether 00:05:40.27\00:05:44.01 lovely. It is in the name of Jesus that we pray. Let God's people say together, Amen. 00:05:44.04\00:05:50.11 You may be seated there in the house of the Lord. 00:05:50.15\00:05:59.59 As we get into today's teaching, 00:05:59.62\00:06:03.59 one of the things that we have got to do is begin to amend our relationship with money. 00:06:03.63\00:06:11.33 One of the mistakes we often make is we assign certain roles, traits, or characteristics to 00:06:11.37\00:06:20.14 money. And what sometimes happens in the black church is we either treat money as Satan 00:06:20.18\00:06:28.68 or savior. We treat money as a demon or deliverer, and sometimes because of a 00:06:28.72\00:06:37.93 misreading of scripture, we teach that money is the root of 00:06:37.96\00:06:42.53 all evil, when the Bible teaches that it is the love of money that is the root of all evil. 00:06:42.56\00:06:49.04 How many of us understand that money is not immoral? Money is 00:06:49.07\00:06:56.71 actually a moral, meaning it has no moral quality. It simply takes on the characteristics of 00:06:56.75\00:07:04.95 the one who possesses it. So, that the same money used in a drug deal is also put in the 00:07:04.99\00:07:14.10 offering tray to allow the work of God to go forward. And so there are times that we actually 00:07:14.10\00:07:20.50 think that money changes people, that money makes good people go bad. That is not true. Money. 00:07:20.54\00:07:26.57 does not change people. Money just reveals people. So, if you are kind of a jerk when you are 00:07:26.61\00:07:34.98 broke, all money does is reveal or create the platform for the world to see who you actually 00:07:35.02\00:07:41.69 are. So, it is wrong for us to treat money as Satan, but equally, it is wrong for us to 00:07:41.72\00:07:49.26 treat money as a savior. In other words, if you treat money as a savior, then you are 00:07:49.30\00:07:54.57 destined to worship it. It is why Jesus said that you could not serve both God and money. 00:07:54.60\00:07:59.94 And though we will never give praise to the hundred dollar 00:08:00.04\00:08:05.05 bill, and we will never lift holy hands to our Amex card, 00:08:05.08\00:08:08.95 sometimes our idolatry is seen in what money means to us. 00:08:08.98\00:08:14.62 How many of us know that money should never mean significance, 00:08:14.66\00:08:19.86 that money ought not ever to equate to security, that money ought not ever to mean status, 00:08:19.89\00:08:26.70 that money ought not ever to make you feel important? 00:08:26.74\00:08:30.57 How many of us know that you are worth is not in how much you get 00:08:30.61\00:08:35.14 paid? Your worth is seen in the price that was paid for your 00:08:35.18\00:08:40.35 salvation. In other words, friends, when you allow significance to be attached to 00:08:40.38\00:08:46.25 money, you make yourself vulnerable to the enemy. 00:08:46.29\00:08:49.42 Because if the devil knows that if he can hold your significance by holding your paycheck, 00:08:49.46\00:08:55.50 the enemy knows that if he can take your money, he can take away your security. 00:08:55.53\00:09:01.40 He knows that if your piece is connected to your money, all he is got to do is hold up your 00:09:01.44\00:09:07.61 money, and he can confiscate your peace, and God wants somebody to know that the 00:09:07.64\00:09:14.28 security and significance and worth that you are drawing from money, God designed that you 00:09:14.32\00:09:19.52 were to draw your worst and your security and identity from him. 00:09:19.55\00:09:23.63 We have got to get to the place where we stop trying to create a relationship with the gift, 00:09:23.66\00:09:29.90 and we learn to put our trust in the One who gave it. 00:09:29.93\00:09:33.90 In other words, our gifts ought to simply enhance our relationship with the Giver. 00:09:33.94\00:09:40.24 Are you all with me today? Let me say it this way. Every now and then, I am trying to be a 00:09:40.28\00:09:46.85 good husband. So, what I will do is I will buy a gift by surprise 00:09:46.88\00:09:52.05 for my wife. I remember on one occasion, I bought her some flowers and a gift, 00:09:52.09\00:09:56.39 and I put it upstairs where I knew she would run into it. And so what happened is, 00:09:56.42\00:10:02.33 when she came into the house, I greeted her downstairs, and she 00:10:02.36\00:10:07.50 went upstairs. I knew right away when she found the gift because once he found the gift, 00:10:07.54\00:10:13.21 she immediately came back downstairs with the gift in her hand and began to hug 00:10:13.24\00:10:19.28 and kiss the husband who gave it. In other words, 00:10:19.31\00:10:22.85 she was not so impressed with the gift that she did not forget 00:10:22.88\00:10:27.62 to come downstairs and say thank you before she even opened it. See, how many of us know that 00:10:27.66\00:10:35.43 Christ is the bridegroom, that Jesus is the bride? And when the bridegroom gives a gift, you do 00:10:35.46\00:10:43.37 not get so caught up with their gift. You run back to the one who gave it and begins to show 00:10:43.41\00:10:49.24 appreciation to him. In other words, my gift does not separate 00:10:49.28\00:10:52.81 me from the Giver. It actually pushes me back toward the God who gave it. Are you hearing me 00:10:52.85\00:10:58.29 today, church? And so go back with me, if you do not mind, to 00:10:58.32\00:11:03.06 Genesis Chapter 30 and verse number 27 as we unpack a few things together, Genesis 30 and 00:11:03.09\00:11:09.26 verse 27. When you get there, say, Amen. Genesis 13 verse 27, 00:11:09.30\00:11:14.44 the Bible says, and Laban said to him, "Please stay if I have found favor in your eyes, 00:11:14.47\00:11:20.54 for I have learned by experience that the Lord has blessed me for 00:11:20.58\00:11:27.78 your sake." Then he said, "Name your wages, and I will give it 00:11:27.82\00:11:32.82 to you." Now, friends of mine, I need you to understand as we look at the story of Jacob that 00:11:32.85\00:11:40.40 Jacob is not the most virtuous cat in the scriptures, but he is a high-functioning individual. 00:11:40.43\00:11:48.90 And this story, friends, has implications not just for our church but the witness we have 00:11:48.94\00:11:55.21 in our daily profession because what this story teaches us first is that sometimes, God blesses 00:11:55.24\00:12:02.02 the unbelieving because of the presence of the believing. Let me say that again. Sometimes, 00:12:02.05\00:12:06.65 God blesses the wicked because of the presence of the righteous. Do I have a witness 00:12:06.69\00:12:12.99 today? In other words, here, 00:12:13.03\00:12:15.06 we find Jacob having fulfilled his years of service that he gave as a response to the dowry 00:12:15.10\00:12:24.24 that he wanted to pay to receive Rachel, and he also completes the additional years he had to 00:12:24.27\00:12:31.68 serve because of the trickery of Laban when he inserted Leah into 00:12:31.71\00:12:37.79 the equation. But understand now that he has come to an end of 00:12:37.82\00:12:42.82 his tenure. It is time for him to make a profit for himself. 00:12:42.86\00:12:46.59 And so he tells his father-in-law, "I want you to let me go, me, my wife, 00:12:46.63\00:12:53.54 and my children, and everything that belongs unto me." 00:12:53.57\00:12:58.11 Understand that they had worked with so much skill that Laban's tiny flock had morphed into a 00:12:58.14\00:13:09.38 significant heard of financial consequence. 00:13:09.42\00:13:12.42 In fact, the anointing of Jacob was so strong that Laban does not just want to keep him around 00:13:12.45\00:13:22.26 as a worker, he is able to discern that the presence of God 00:13:22.30\00:13:28.07 is on a Jacob, and he just wants to have him around in the 00:13:28.10\00:13:32.14 estate. In fact, he testifies from his own mouth, "I have learned by my own experience 00:13:32.17\00:13:43.22 that God has blessed me just because you are here." In other words, he recognizes as an 00:13:43.25\00:13:50.66 unbeliever. Remember that Laban is not a believing person. He is literally an idol-worshipping 00:13:50.69\00:13:58.33 unbeliever. And he says, "I do not want you to go anywhere because God is blessing me 00:13:58.37\00:14:05.54 because you hang around." And you see, friends of mine, I need you to know that this is not an 00:14:05.57\00:14:11.38 outlier in scripture. It is actually a trend. So, when you look at Joseph in Egypt, 00:14:11.41\00:14:16.85 one of the things that became clear is that God blessed Egypt because of the presence of 00:14:16.89\00:14:24.33 Joseph. Where are you all at today, church? 00:14:24.36\00:14:26.36 When you look at Daniel and Babylon, God bless a foreign nation because he had children 00:14:26.39\00:14:33.64 at work there. Remember when Paul was on a ship on the way to Rome with other prisoners 00:14:33.67\00:14:39.04 and criminals that the storm wanted to destroy the ship, 00:14:39.07\00:14:42.44 but God was able to preserve the ship because God had one of his 00:14:42.48\00:14:48.25 children there. And the thing I need somebody to know is that the blessings of God are not 00:14:48.28\00:14:54.26 stagnant. They do not function in isolation. I need you to know that the blessings of God 00:14:54.29\00:15:02.90 function in the overflow. [Congregation: Cheering] 00:15:02.93\00:15:04.93 Let me say it this way. I need you to understand that what we have done is we have made the 00:15:04.97\00:15:10.01 concept of overflows selfish. But you know how the overflow 00:15:10.04\00:15:14.74 works, that when you are pouring liquid into a cup or container, once the container is filled and 00:15:14.78\00:15:22.75 you keep pouring, the content simply begins to overflow and fall on everything that is close 00:15:22.78\00:15:29.52 to it. And you see, we think that the overflow is simply where God gives us more than 00:15:29.56\00:15:36.63 what we can handle. But how many of us know that God will bless your cup so good that the 00:15:36.67\00:15:43.71 blessings of God just overflows to everybody that is in your sphere of influence? 00:15:43.74\00:15:49.61 The problem with the contemporary church is we want the wicked to just see the 00:15:49.64\00:15:59.02 righteous being blessed. In other words, we just want the blessings of the Lord to 00:15:59.05\00:16:06.29 validate us and affirm us, but we do not want it to fall on or 00:16:06.33\00:16:10.07 impact them. But how many of us know that if God allows you to prosper while everyone else is 00:16:10.10\00:16:16.91 suffering, then the suffering is going resent your prosperity, 00:16:16.94\00:16:21.08 and they are going to wring their hands at the God who gave 00:16:21.11\00:16:25.31 it? Remember the Abrahamic Covenant. He said to Abraham, "I am gonna make of you a great 00:16:25.35\00:16:32.15 nation, and in you, shall all the nations of the earth be 00:16:32.19\00:16:36.93 blessed." In other words, the blessings of God were not supposed to be stored. They were 00:16:36.96\00:16:45.27 supposed to be shared. In other words, friends of mine, 00:16:45.30\00:16:47.77 I need you to know that the blessing of protection overflows whenever the righteous are in a 00:16:47.80\00:16:55.14 place. Is there anybody that knows that there were some planes that should have fallen 00:16:55.18\00:17:01.08 out of the sky, but God had some righteous saints seated in first 00:17:01.12\00:17:05.85 class? Are you all hearing me today, saints? 00:17:05.89\00:17:07.79 Is there anybody that believes that the only reason a mass shooting did not take place in 00:17:07.82\00:17:13.16 Walmart or your job while you were there was that God had some of his children stashed on 00:17:13.19\00:17:20.67 station in that place? In fact, the only reason some tornadoes did not touch down on your 00:17:20.70\00:17:27.84 street was that there were some praying people calling on the 00:17:27.88\00:17:32.61 name of the Lord. Do not get me wrong. I believe that in Adam's Fallen World, guess what? 00:17:32.65\00:17:37.39 Bad things still happen to good people. In fact, Jesus said that the rain is going to fall on the 00:17:37.42\00:17:43.32 just and the unjust, but what I believe is that we will never be able to count the number of 00:17:43.36\00:17:50.90 times that weapons have been formed, but they never got to prosper because God had his hand 00:17:50.93\00:18:01.31 covering his children. Are you all hearing me today, saints? So I need you to know that the 00:18:01.34\00:18:07.42 blessing of protection overflows. I need you to know that the blessing of increase 00:18:07.45\00:18:11.72 overflows as well. In other words, I need somebody to know that because God has you on the 00:18:11.75\00:18:17.79 job. I need you to know that the company is prospering. 00:18:17.83\00:18:20.80 I need somebody to believe that Huntsville hospital thrives because there are some Christian 00:18:20.83\00:18:28.77 nurses and doctors walking up and down the hallway, that the school system thrives 00:18:28.80\00:18:34.48 because there are some praying teachers laying hands over the classrooms before you go in. 00:18:34.51\00:18:39.98 I need you to know that your office is thriving simply because God has you there as His 00:18:40.02\00:18:46.89 witness. And do not resent that they share in the blessing 00:18:46.92\00:18:50.49 because you ought to be at a place where you understand that the blessing is not just in what 00:18:50.53\00:18:57.17 you receive. Your blessing is getting to know Jesus for 00:18:57.20\00:19:03.97 yourself. I remembered probably about 4 or 5 years ago. 00:19:04.01\00:19:06.24 It was my daughter's third or fifth birthday, 00:19:06.27\00:19:10.31 and see how many of us understand that whenever one child has a birthday, 00:19:10.35\00:19:16.92 all the other kids get to be a part of the party. In other 00:19:16.95\00:19:21.66 words, we had had a party to celebrate her birthday, but because we were celebrating her, 00:19:21.69\00:19:28.00 guess what, the cake got to overflow into all the other kids that were at the party. 00:19:28.03\00:19:33.80 And so my daughter was right there sitting on my lap as we were cutting up the cake, 00:19:33.84\00:19:39.01 and her older brother got a larger slice of cake, and he 00:19:39.04\00:19:45.28 began to boast and brag that even though it is your birthday, I got the bigger piece of cake. 00:19:45.31\00:19:50.12 While she is sitting on my lap, 00:19:50.15\00:19:52.92 she let him know that the only reason you got some cake was that I let you celebrate my 00:19:52.95\00:20:01.50 birthday, and she said, "You might have gotten the bigger piece, but I got Daddy." You all 00:20:01.53\00:20:07.10 did not hear it today. How many of us know that you never worry about the size of the portion as 00:20:07.14\00:20:16.14 long as you got a relationship with the Father? Because as long as you got the daddy, you can 00:20:16.18\00:20:23.32 always get a bigger portion. So do not look at the portion. Focus on the relationship. Are 00:20:23.35\00:20:33.06 you hearing the word today? [Congregation: I hear you.] 00:20:33.09\00:20:34.73 Snell: So the first thing you got to learn is that sometimes God blesses the wicked 00:20:34.73\00:20:40.87 because of the presence of the righteous, but the second thing that teaches us, friends of 00:20:40.90\00:20:45.91 mine, is the value of knowing your own worth. 00:20:45.94\00:20:52.95 You see, one of the things that become clear is that not only does Laban know Jacobs' worth. 00:20:52.98\00:21:00.69 One of these just becomes clear is that Jacob understands his 00:21:00.72\00:21:07.23 own worth. You see, what literally shifts the relationship is that Jacob 00:21:07.30\00:21:15.17 understands his value. What allows him to dictate the terms of his next contract is that he 00:21:15.20\00:21:24.21 understands his own value. His boss comes to him and says, name 00:21:24.25\00:21:29.02 your own wages. Jacob understands his worth. 00:21:29.05\00:21:31.69 I need somebody to get this that Jacob has this start clarity that if my gifts can make you 00:21:31.72\00:21:44.13 rich, then my gifts can enlarge and enrich me. Yall not hearing 00:21:44.17\00:21:48.74 this today. In other words, he knows that if what I am doing can grow your house, 00:21:48.77\00:21:55.54 then these same gifts can be used to grow my house. Now, I do want to pause and say this. 00:21:55.58\00:22:01.38 I do not believe that everybody is called to be an entrepreneur. 00:22:01.42\00:22:05.62 Now, everybody has the discipline, accounting, vision, or the ability to make hard 00:22:05.65\00:22:12.33 decisions, but I want to encourage the body of Christ that you do not just let your 00:22:12.36\00:22:19.47 gifts make somebody else rich, but you ought to create some additional streams that are 00:22:19.50\00:22:24.21 going to bless and grow your own house so you can give back. Are you all hearing me today? 00:22:24.24\00:22:31.08 So, Laban says, "What do you want me to give you?" Notice 00:22:31.11\00:22:38.19 what Jacob says. Jacob says, "You cannot give me anything." 00:22:38.22\00:22:45.73 Understand the principle at work that even him offering Jacob a salary is another form of 00:22:45.76\00:22:56.07 trickery. In other words, even him giving Jacob a handsome salary is a way of capping his 00:22:56.10\00:23:02.88 income. It is a way of limiting his growth. It is making sure he always remains at a certain 00:23:02.91\00:23:09.92 level. I need you to understand that even when you get paid a 00:23:09.95\00:23:15.62 handsome salary, your employer has made a calculation that whatever they pay you, they will 00:23:15.66\00:23:22.70 give it because they are going to make three or four times that off of you. They did not hire 00:23:22.73\00:23:30.47 you to make you rich. They hired you in order to make them rich. Are you all hearing what I am 00:23:30.51\00:23:38.41 saying? What Jacob says is, "No, you cannot give me a salary. 00:23:38.45\00:23:42.02 We got to create a partnership that allows me to grow at the same level that the flock is 00:23:42.05\00:23:51.36 going to grow." Are you hearing me today? 00:23:51.39\00:23:53.46 The thing that I want to say to us as a community is that we have been assimilated into the 00:23:53.50\00:23:58.73 larger culture, and we have been brainwashed to believe that we come to college, get a job 00:23:58.77\00:24:03.61 and work for somebody else while immigrants from other nations come in and they start their own 00:24:03.64\00:24:11.58 businesses, and they do not function as employees, but they function as employers 00:24:11.61\00:24:16.55 because they do not think, "Get a job." They think, "Own a 00:24:16.58\00:24:20.36 business." Are you all hearing what I am saying today? 00:24:20.39\00:24:23.39 I need you to understand this, young sister, that if you can do 00:24:23.43\00:24:31.97 some nails, they do not come in at first because of the name on the door, but after a while, 00:24:32.00\00:24:37.74 their loyalty is going to be to you. Are you hearing me? If you 00:24:37.77\00:24:45.68 can do some hair, I may start coming because of the salon, but if the stylist goes, "I am going 00:24:45.71\00:24:51.59 wherever she is going." Are you all hearing what I am saying? If you can cut some hair, I may 00:24:51.62\00:24:57.73 come because of the shop, but once I connect with the right barber wherever he goes, that is 00:24:57.76\00:25:02.16 where I am going. If you are good at doing massage therapy, they may come because you 00:25:02.20\00:25:08.50 started at Massage Envy, but if you work out the knots and kinks to the right point, wherever you 00:25:08.54\00:25:15.64 go, that is where they will go. In other words, folks do not follow the franchise, they 00:25:15.68\00:25:20.98 follow the excellence, and if you do it with excellence, the business is going to follow. Are 00:25:21.02\00:25:28.66 you all hearing what I am saying? Listen, some of you guys know that my wife is a 00:25:28.69\00:25:32.29 photographer by trade. I remember when we were in a small town in Mississippi. She cut her 00:25:32.33\00:25:38.23 teeth at Sears Portrait Studio, but I need to know. At first, they came in looking for Sears, 00:25:38.27\00:25:44.07 but after a while, they came in looking for Miss Snell. And what we learned is that if we can use 00:25:44.11\00:25:50.81 those gifts to grow them, guess what? We can open up something that is going to bless our 00:25:50.85\00:25:54.72 house. Are you hearing me today saints. The thing I want somebody to get is that if you 00:25:54.75\00:26:01.92 do not understand your worth, you will live as a slave to somebody else's appraisal. And I 00:26:01.96\00:26:09.06 want to say to somebody today, not only do you need to know your value professionally, you 00:26:09.10\00:26:13.54 need to know your value personally. Young people on the balcony, you need to know your 00:26:13.57\00:26:21.78 value romantically. If you do not understand your value, your discount that which still has 00:26:21.81\00:26:27.22 great worth. The reason some of our singles stay in unhealthy relationships is that you do not 00:26:27.25\00:26:33.96 understand your worth. The reason that some of us married down and not up is that we do 00:26:33.99\00:26:39.89 not understand our worth. The reason you are willing to share your significant other is that 00:26:39.93\00:26:46.57 you do not understand your worth. The reason you lie down with everyone who asks is that 00:26:46.60\00:26:52.47 you do not understand your worth. The reason you let her talk to you in any kind of way 00:26:52.51\00:26:58.51 is that you do not understand your worth. And even if I did not make it clear last week, I 00:26:58.55\00:27:03.72 want you to know that even if you are married, I do not believe in domestic violence. 00:27:03.75\00:27:06.49 I need you to know that if somebody is beating you or abusing you physically or 00:27:06.52\00:27:13.29 emotionally, you are worth so much that you do not have to stay in that predicament. 00:27:13.33\00:27:18.00 In other words, church, I am not going to tell you to get a 00:27:18.03\00:27:22.64 divorce, but I am going to tell you to get on up out of that house. Are you all hearing me 00:27:22.67\00:27:27.61 today? Somebody is sitting there mad saying, "Pastor, the Bible does not really address domestic 00:27:27.64\00:27:33.15 violence." No, the First Corinthians 6 says, No, ye not. Your body is the temple of the 00:27:33.18\00:27:40.52 Holy Ghost." It says that you are bought with a price. 00:27:40.56\00:27:43.19 Therefore, glorify God in your body and your spirit, which are 00:27:43.22\00:27:48.63 His. In other words, because my body belongs to God because He paid so much for it, 00:27:48.66\00:27:54.87 I cannot let anybody beat it. I cannot let anybody abuse it. 00:27:54.90\00:27:59.17 How many of us know that tolerating domestic violence is 00:27:59.21\00:28:07.12 bad stewardship? You cost too much to let somebody abuse or denigrate the temple of the Holy 00:28:07.15\00:28:18.29 Ghost. Pastor Snell: Hi everyone, this is Pastor Snell. That word blessed me and I'm 00:28:18.33\00:28:24.27 praying that it blessed you. I want to encourage you that you make sure you come back same 00:28:24.30\00:28:29.14 time, same place next week. As we give you installment #2 of the message entitled "Know Your 00:28:29.17\00:28:35.11 Worth" (Breath of Life Music) 00:28:35.14\00:28:55.93 [END] 00:28:55.96\00:29:11.05