Announcer: BREATH OF LIFE
PRESENTS EXPERIENCE THE POWER
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WITH WALTER L. PEARSON, JR.
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(music) TODAY, PASTOR PEARSON'S
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MESSAGE IS ENTITLED
"WATER FROM YOUR OWN WELL."
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WP: HERE IT IS.
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PROVERBS, CHAPTER 5, VERSE
15 SAYS, DRINK WATERS OUT OF
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THINE OWN CISTERN AND RUNNING
WATERS OF THINE OWN WELL.
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THERE IT IS.
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TONIGHT WE'RE
SPEAKING ON THE TOPIC, DRINKING
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FROM YOUR OWN WELL.
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WOULD YOU PRAY WITH
ME BEFORE WE BEGIN ?
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FATHER IN HEAVEN, WE ARE SO
GRATEFUL TONIGHT FOR ANOTHER
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OPPORTUNITY TO ENJOY THE WORD
OF GOD, TO EXPERIENCE THE POWER
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OF JESUS IN THE WORD OF GOD.
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SOME PEOPLE SEEM TO
THINK THAT IT'S DRUDGERY TO
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BE IN THE BIBLE.
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THEY SEEM TO WANT
TO MAKE IT DRUDGERY.
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BUT WHEN WE OPEN THE
WORD, THERE IS POWER, THERE IS
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JOY, THERE IS SALVATION.
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AND SO TONIGHT WE PRAY,
FATHER, THAT THE HOLY SPIRIT
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WILL HOVER OVER US AND
MOVE AMONG US SO THAT WE MIGHT
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FEEL THE POWER AND SENSE
IT IN OUR MINDS AND HEARTS.
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IN THE NAME OF JESUS, AMEN.
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LET ME DO SOMETHING TONIGHT THAT
I'VE DONE AT LEAST ONCE BEFORE.
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I HAVE INVERTED MY SERMON.
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I SOMETIMES WANT TO
PUT THE BEST FOR LAST.
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IN THE BIBLE, YOU REMEMBER ABOUT
THE WATER THAT JESUS CHANGED.
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AND WHEN HE HAD FINISHED, THEY
SAID, WHERE DID THIS COME FROM.
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AND SOMEBODY REMARKED,
YOU SAVED THE BEST FOR LAST.
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WELL, IF JESUS COMES
IN THE HOUSE, IT'S GOOD AT
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THE BEGINNING, AND IT
GETS BETTER AND BETTER.
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WHAT DO YOU SAY ?
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INCIDENTALLY, A CHRISTIAN
MARRIAGE OUGHT TO BE THAT WAY.
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IT OUGHT TO BE JUST LIKE THAT.
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JESUS PERFORMED THAT
MIRACLE AT A WEDDING.
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IT'S A GOOD SYMBOL.
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IF YOU ARE CONNECTED IN
CHRIST, IT OUGHT TO START
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GOOD AND GET BETTER.
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SO, LET'S BEGIN WITH A
FEW GENERAL ADMONITIONS.
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MOST OF THE FOLK IN
HERE WHO ARE MARRIED ALREADY
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KNOW THESE THINGS,
BUT LET'S JUST REMIND YOU.
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FIRST OF ALL, YOU
SHOULD DO WHATEVER YOU CAN TO
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MAINTAIN FAMILY WORSHIP.
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NOW, IN THESE DAYS, IT'S
NOT EASY, BECAUSE EVERYBODY'S
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ON A DIFFERENT SCHEDULE.
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BUT IF YOU TAKE THE TIME, IF YOU
MAKE THE TIME TO PULL THE FAMILY
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TOGETHER AND TO WORSHIP THE GOD
OF HEAVEN, TO LET JESUS HAVE A
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PLACE IN YOUR LIFE, I GUARANTEE
IT WILL MAKE A DIFFERENCE.
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YOU OUGHT TO PLAN
WEEKLY FAMILY DAYS.
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FAMILY DAYS.
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NOT EASY TO MAINTAIN, BUT
YOU OUGHT TO SIT DOWN AND LOOK
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AT EACH OTHER AT LEAST ONCE.
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A LONG TIME AGO, LET ME TELL ALL
OF YOU YOUNG PEOPLE, AGES AGO
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PEOPLE USED TO EAT TOGETHER.
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I KNOW IT'S HARD TO BELIEVE.
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BUT THEY ACTUALLY SAT DOWN AT
A TABLE, ALL AT ONE TIME, AND AT
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THAT MOMENT THEY WOULD SAY GRACE
OVER THE FOOD AND THEN SOMETIMES
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THEY'D REPEAT TEXT, SOMETIMES
THEY'D SHARE SOMETHING.
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BUT IT GAVE THEM A
MOMENT TO COME TOGETHER.
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YOU OUGHT TO PLAN NOT
ONLY WORSHIP BUT DAYS WHEN THE
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FAMILY COMES TOGETHER.
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YOU OUGHT TO MAKE
FAMILY ACTIVITIES JOYOUS.
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SOME HOUSES RESEMBLE MAUSOLEUMS.
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AND IF YOU THINK THAT'S GOING
TO MAKE YOU GROW AND BE HAPPY,
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IN FACT, SOMETIMES IT WORRIES
ME THAT PEOPLE BELVE THAT
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IN ORDER TO BE
HOLY YOU SHOULD BE SAD.
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OH, COME ON.
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DON'T LIKE YOU
HAVEN'T SEEN ANY OF THEM.
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I'VE MET PEOPLE WHO LOOKED LIKE
THEY WERE, WHO ACTED LIKE THEY
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WERE BAPTIZED IN LEMON JUICE.
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THEY WANTED TO BE HOLY,
BUT THEY PRETENDED THAT BEING
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SAD MAKES YOU HOLY.
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IF YOU EVER READ IN GALATIANS
CHAPTER 5, WHERE IT TALKS
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ABOUT THE FRUIT OF THE
SPIRIT, OF COURSE LOVE IS
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THE FRUIT OF THE SPIRIT.
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BUT THE FIRST
MANIFESTATION AFTER THAT IS JOY.
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SO IF THE HOLY SPIRIT DWELLS
IN YOU, THERE OUGHT TO BE JOY.
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YOU OUGHT TO
DEMONSTRATE LOVE CONSTANTLY.
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NOW, GENTLEMEN, THIS IS A
TIME WHEN MAYBE WE NEED TO TALK.
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BECAUSE I KNOW SOME OF US THINK
THAT IF YOU BRING HOME MONEY AND
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IF YOU BRING FOOD AND IF YOU
SUPPLY THINGS, THAT YOUR WIFE
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OUGHT TO KNOW THAT YOU LOVE HER.
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WELL, THERE'S SOMETHING ABOUT
THE WAY WOMEN ARE WIRED. . .
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THEY LIKE TO KIND OF
HEAR IT, EVEN THOUGH IT MAY
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SEEM OBVIOUS TO YOU.
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SO LOOK, IT REALLY WON'T, IT
WON'T CRACK YOUR JAW, IT WON'T
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HURT YOUR THROAT, IT WILL
NOT MAKE YOUR TEETH LOOK WORSE.
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YOU CAN ACTUALLY SQUEEZE IT OUT.
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REMEMBER BEFORE YOU GOT MARRIED
ALL THAT STUFF YOU USED TO TALK?
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YOU HAD SONGS THAT EVERYBODY
KNEW, BUT YOU PUT A LITTLE
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TWIST ON THEM.
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YOU HAD POEMS THAT YOU
THOUGHT SHE HAD NEVER HEARD
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BEFORE AND YOU PRETENDED
THAT THEY MIGHT HAVE BEEN YOURS.
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BUT YOU ALWAYS HAD SOME
LITTLE SWEET SOMETHING TO SAY.
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NOW WHEN YOU GET MARRIED,
ALL YOU GO TO DO (MAKES NOISE).
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YOU'VE GOT TO DO
BETTER THAN THAT.
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THE FACT IS THAT MARRIAGE DOES
NOT CONSIST OF TEMPORAL THINGS.
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THAT'S A $5 WORD THAT
MEANS IT DOESN'T MATTER
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HOW MUCH YOU HAVE.
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I WANT TO READ A TEXT
ABOUT THAT ONE BECAUSE THERE
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ARE SOME PEOPLE, IN FACT,
I KNOW LADIES WHO ARE LOOKING
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FOR A MAN WITH MONEY.
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AND YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE.
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LUKE, CHAPTER 12.
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THIS IS IN THE BIBLE.
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AND WHILE I'M ON IT, I
MIGHT AS WELL SAY THAT THERE
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ARE SOME MEN WHO ARE
LOOKING FOR WOMEN WITH MONEY.
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IF MY GRAND-DADDY COULD
HAVE GOTTEN A HOLD OF YOU.
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GRAND-DADDY HAD SOME STUFF
TO SAY ABOUT A MAN WHO WOULDN'T
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TAKE CARE OF THE HOUSE.
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BUT I GOT THAT COMING.
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THIS IS LUKE, CHAPTER
12, AND VERSE 15 SAYS THIS.
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AND HE SAID UNTO THEM, TAKE
HEED AND BEWARE OF COVETOUSNESS,
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FOR A MAN'S LIFE CONSISTETH
NOT IN THE ABUNDANCE OF
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THINGS WHICH HE POSSESSETH.
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LIFE IS NOT MADE UP OF MONEY.
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I USED TO READ ALL THE
TIME ABOUT HOWARD HUGHES.
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A WEALTHY MAN WHO
DIED IN A STRANGE SITUATION
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AND PROVED BY HIS LIFE
THAT MONEY CAN'T BUY HAPPINESS.
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MONEY IS OKAY.
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I'M NOT MAD AT MONEY, BUT
MONEY OUGHT NOT BE THE ONLY
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CRITERIA YOU USE TO
MAKE YOUR MARRIAGE WORK.
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THERE ARE PEOPLE
WHO HAVE LOTS OF MONEY.
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WHEN I STARTED IN THE MINISTRY,
I WENT TO A CHURCH JUST FOR A
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WHILE, AND THEY ASSIGNED ME
A COUPLE THAT NEEDED COUNSEL.
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I FELT VERY OUT OF PLACE.
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I HADN'T BEEN
MARRIED THAT LONG MYSELF.
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AND WHEN THESE PEOPLE
CAME IN, I DISCOVERED THAT
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THEY WERE VERY WEALTHY.
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IN FACT, WHEN I ASKED THE
LADY WHAT WAS THE PROBLEM,
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SHE SAID, I DON'T HAVE ENOUGH.
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HE WON'T SHARE ENOUGH.
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AND HE OUTLINED WHAT HE GAVE
HER, HE SAID, WELL, I GAVE HER
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JAGUAR AND SHE DIDN'T LIKE IT.
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I BOUGHT HER A SEVILLE
AND SHE DIDN'T LIKE THAT.
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I BOUGHT HER A MERCEDES
AND SHE DIDN'T LIKE THAT.
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I GIVE HER AN ALLOWANCE.
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I THINK WAY BACK THEN IT WAS
SOMETHING LIKE $2,000 A WEEK.
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AND YOU KNOW WHAT MY
BRAIN WAS SAYING, HE DIDN'T GIVE
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YOU ENOUGH MONEY ?
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IF HE GAVE IT TO ME,
I COULD BE HAPPY AND MY
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WIFE COULD BE HAPPY.
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WE COULD BOTH BE HAPPY.
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WHAT I DISCOVERED WAS THAT IT'S
NOT MONEY THAT MAKES YOU HAPPY.
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IT'S WAY MORE THAN THAT.
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WHAT DO YOU SAY ?
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FIRST TIMOTHY,
CHAPTER 5, AND VERSE 8.
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LADIES, YOU OUGHT TO
TURN OVER HERE BECAUSE THIS IS
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GOING TO TALK ABOUT
WHAT A MAN OUGHT TO DO.
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AND I KNOW YOU WANT TO
TAKE THIS SOMEWHERE AND HANG
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IT ON THE WALL, BUT YOU'D
BETTER BE CAREFUL, BECAUSE
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I'VE GOT ONE FOR YOU.
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FIRST TIMOTHY,
CHAPTER 5, AND VERSE 8.
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SHORT LITTLE TEXT.
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IT'S AMAZING.
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I DON'T KNOW HOW IT CAME
TO BE THAT WAY, BUT THE THINGS
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THAT SAY WHAT MEN OUGHT TO
DO TEND TO BE KIND OF NARROW.
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AND THE ONES THAT SAY WHAT WOMEN
OUGHT TO DO, KIND OF GET BROAD.
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SOME PEOPLE SAY IT'S
BECAUSE OF THE TIME WHEN
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THE BIBLE WAS WRITTEN.
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I DON'T KNOW.
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LET'S JUST SEE
WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS.
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THIS IS FIRST TIMOTHY,
CHAPTER 5, AND VERSE 8.
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BUT IF ANY PROVIDE NOT FOR
HIS OWN, AND ESPECIALLY FOR
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THOSE OF HIS OWN HOUSE,
HE HATH DENIED THE FAITH AND
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IS WORSE THAN AN INFIDEL.
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IF THAT STRONG ENOUGH ?
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SO I GUESS WHAT I WANT TO SAY TO
A BRETHREN IS, BEFORE YOU SAY,
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I DO, MAKE SURE YOU CAN.
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I AM STILL SHOCKED AT THE
PEOPLE WHO GET READY TO GET
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MARRIED AND IF THEY COME
TO ME FOR COUNSEL, ONE OF THE
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SECTIONS OF MY COUNSEL IS,
LET'S TALK ABOUT YOUR BUDGET.
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AND THEY SAY, BUDGET ?
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YEAH, BUDGET.
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WHERE'S YOUR INCOME
GOING TO COME FROM ?
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AND I AM SHOCKED
SOMETIMES TO DISCOVER THAT MAYBE
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NOBODY WORKS.
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WELL, I'VE GOT TO LEAVE
THAT ALONE BECAUSE I'LL SPEND
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TOO MUCH TIME ON IT.
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WHAT DO THEY THINK
IS GOING TO HAPPEN ?
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YOU KNOW, BEING ALONE
WITH NO INCOME IS BAD ENOUGH.
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YOU'RE GOING TO JOIN WITH
SOMEBODY ELSE IN THIS SITUATION?
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SO WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO ?
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I KNOW WHAT THEY BELIEVE.
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THEY BELIEVE THAT
LOVE CONQUERS ALL.
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AND THAT MAY BE TRUE,
BUT IT WILL HAVE A STRUGGLE
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WITH HUNGER PAINS.
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LOOK AT PROVERBS, LADIES,
BEFORE YOU GET TOO EXCITED.
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PROVERBS.
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ACTUALLY THERE'S A WHOLE CHAPTER
IN PROVERBS THAT YOU OUGHT TO
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READ, BUT I WON'T GO THROUGH
IT BECAUSE IT WOULD SEEM UNEVEN.
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SO, I'M ONLY GOING TO READ ONE
VERSE FROM PROVERBS, CHAPTER 31.
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PROVERBS,
CHAPTER 31 AND VERSE 30.
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HERE IS THE CONCLUSION.
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LADIES, IF YOU REALLY WANT
TO CHECK, BECAUSE THE REASON
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WHY YOU OUGHT TO CHECK
IS BECAUSE YOUR HUSBAND IS
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GOING TO GO READ THIS.
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SO YOU MAYBE WANT
TO KNOW WHAT HE READ.
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HE WILL READ
PROVERBS, CHAPTER 31.
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YOU MIGHT WANT TO READ IT.
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I'M ONLY GOING TO GIVE YOU
THE CONCLUSIVE END, AND HERE'S
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WHAT IT SAYS IN VERSE 30.
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WELL, LET ME
READ VERSE 30 AND 31.
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FAVOR IS DECEITFUL
AND BEAUTY IS VAIN.
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BUT A WOMAN WHO FEARETH
THE LORD, SHE SHALL BE PRAISED.
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GIVE HER THE FRUIT OF HER
HANDS AND LET HER OWN WORK
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PRAISE HER IN THE GATES.
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IF YOU GO BACK THROUGH THIS
CHAPTER, YOU WILL DISCOVER THE
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TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE DESCRIBED.
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TODAY WE KNOW THAT
THERE ARE MARRIAGES THAT ARE
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NONTRADITIONAL OR CONTEMPORARY.
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THERE ARE MARRIAGES
WHERE THE MAN IS NOT THE ONLY
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BREAD WINNER.
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IN FACT, SOME WOULD SAY
THAT YOU CAN'T MAKE IT WITHOUT
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HAVING BOTH OF THE
SPOUSES BEING BREAD WINNERS.
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WHEN THE WIFE GOES TO
WORK, YOU ARE NO LONGER IN A
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TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE.
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NOW, THERE ARE MEN WHO BELIEVE
THAT EVEN AFTER SHE GOES TO
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WORK, THE RULES STILL APPLY.
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I WISH YOU'D GO IN
THERE AND COOK SOMETHING.
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SOMEBODY NEEDS TO VACUUM.
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SOMEBODY OUGHT
TO DO THE LAUNDRY.
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WELL, IF YOU'RE
WORKING AND SHE'S WORKING, THE
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SOMEBODY MAY BE YOU.
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I'LL BE HONEST WITH YOU.
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MY WIFE HAD A JOB, WELL, SHE'S
HAD A FEW JOBS WHERE SHE MADE
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WAY MORE MONEY THAN I DID.
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YOU SHOULD HAVE SEEN ME.
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WHEN SHE BROUGHT THE
BIG OL' CHECK HOME, I PUT A
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SMILE ON HER FACE.
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(MAKES NOISE).
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EVERY NOW AND THEN I'D
EVEN GO IN THE KITCHEN AND
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GET ME A BUNCH OF TIMERS
AND A BUNCH OF RECIPES AND
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AT LEAST LET HER KNOW I
WAS TRYING TO COOK SOMETHING.
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COME ON IN, GIRL.
00:12:56.96\00:12:59.43
SHE MAY HAVE HAD TO PUT
SOMETHING IN IT TO MAKE IT
00:12:59.43\00:13:01.43
RIGHT, BUT WHAT I WANTED
TO LET HER KNOW IS HONEY, WHEN
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YOU PLUNK THAT BIG CHECK
DOWN AND IT GOES BONG--I'M A MAN
00:13:04.36\00:13:10.20
WORKING TO MAKE IT GOOD FOR YOU.
00:13:10.20\00:13:12.60
(LAUGHTER AND
APPLAUSE) SO, HERE'S WHAT
00:13:12.60\00:13:17.16
YOU'VE GOT TO DO.
00:13:17.16\00:13:18.26
YOU'VE GOT TO DECIDE DO YOU
HAVE A TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE OR
00:13:18.26\00:13:20.16
A NONTRADITIONAL MARRIAGE.
00:13:20.16\00:13:21.50
IF IT'S TRADITIONAL, AND
SHE STAYS HOME, THEN YOU GOT A
00:13:21.50\00:13:23.73
RIGHT TO GO ON IN THERE
AND, YOU KNOW, UH, UH, YOU KNOW.
00:13:23.73\00:13:32.30
IF YOU'RE PAYING THE BILLS, IF
YOU ARE THE ONLY BREAD WINNER,
00:13:32.30\00:13:38.10
THEN YOU WILL FIND IN THIS
CHAPTER WHERE IT SAYS, SISTER,
00:13:38.10\00:13:41.56
DON'T BE HOME, YOU
KNOW, DIALING UP THOSE SHOWS.
00:13:41.56\00:13:48.30
MAN LEAVES HOME,
YOU'VE GOT ROLLERS--DO THEY
00:13:48.30\00:13:50.30
STILL WEAR ROLLERS ?
00:13:50.30\00:13:51.90
I THINK THEY DO.
00:13:51.90\00:13:53.90
I SAW A LADY THE OTHER DAY.
00:13:53.90\00:13:56.66
AND THEN WHEN HE COMES
BACK, YOU HAVEN'T MOVED.
00:13:56.66\00:14:00.20
NOTHING IN THE HOUSE HAS MOVED.
00:14:00.20\00:14:03.46
YOU KNOW.
00:14:03.46\00:14:04.50
GO ON IN THERE.
00:14:04.50\00:14:05.36
I THINK THERE'S
SOMETHING LEFT OVER.
00:14:05.36\00:14:08.03
THAT'S NOT THE DEAL.
00:14:08.03\00:14:09.76
BUT IF BOTH OF YOU ARE WORKING,
THEN YOU'VE GOT TO SHARE
00:14:09.76\00:14:12.16
THE RESPONSIBILITIES.
00:14:12.16\00:14:13.06
DOES THAT SOUND OKAY TO YOU ?
00:14:13.06\00:14:16.26
LOOK AT FIRST PETER, CHAPTER 3.
00:14:16.26\00:14:18.93
FIRST PETER, CHAPTER 3.
00:14:18.93\00:14:20.96
I WANT TO TALK ABOUT SOME OF THE
PRACTICAL THINGS THAT CAN HAPPEN
00:14:20.96\00:14:25.26
IN A MARRIAGE TO MAKE IT BETTER.
00:14:25.26\00:14:27.03
FIRST PETER, CHAPTER
3, AND WE'RE GOING TO
00:14:27.03\00:14:29.13
START WITH VERSE 8.
00:14:29.13\00:14:30.26
THIS IS A TEXT THAT MOST
PEOPLE WOULD NOT APPLY TO
00:14:30.26\00:14:32.06
MARRIAGE, BUT I'M GOING
TO DO IT, BECAUSE IT FITS.
00:14:32.06\00:14:35.90
FIRST PETER, CHAPTER
3, STARTING WITH VERSE 8.
00:14:36.66\00:14:38.50
FINALLY, BE ALL OF ONE
MIND, HAVING COMPASSION
00:14:38.50\00:14:43.26
ONE OF ANOTHER.
00:14:43.26\00:14:45.46
LOVE AS BRETHREN, THAT
DOESN'T MEAN YOU'RE NOT
00:14:45.46\00:14:48.90
MARRIED, BUT LOVE AS BRETHREN.
00:14:48.90\00:14:51.16
BE PITIFUL AND COURTEOUS,
NOT RENDERING EVIL FOR EVIL, OR
00:14:51.16\00:14:55.63
RAILING FOR RAILING,
BUT CONTRARY-WISE, BLESSING,
00:14:55.63\00:15:00.26
KNOWING THAT YOU ARE
THERE UNTO CALL THAT YOU SHOULD
00:15:00.26\00:15:02.86
INHERIT THE BLESSING.
00:15:02.86\00:15:04.50
FOR HE THAT WILL LOVE LIFE AND
SEE GOOD DAYS, LET HIM REFRAIN
00:15:05.43\00:15:12.20
HIS TONGUE FROM EVIL AND HIS
LIPS THAT THEY SPEAK NO GUILE.
00:15:12.20\00:15:17.03
LET HIM ESCHEW EVIL AND DO GOOD.
00:15:17.03\00:15:19.60
LET HIM SEEK PEACE AND ENSUE
IT, FOR THE EYES OF THE LORD ARE
00:15:19.60\00:15:25.36
OVER THE RIGHTEOUS AND HIS EARS
ARE OPEN ONTO THEIR PRAYERS.
00:15:25.36\00:15:29.06
BUT THE FACE OF THE LORD
IS AGAINST THEM THAT DO EVIL.
00:15:29.06\00:15:33.40
WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW IS THAT
WHEN YOU SHUT THE DOORS OF YOUR
00:15:33.40\00:15:36.50
HOUSE, GOD IS STILL LOOKING.
00:15:36.50\00:15:41.43
THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO
HAVE SPLIT PERSONALITIES
00:15:41.43\00:15:43.46
IN THEIR MARRIAGES.
00:15:43.46\00:15:45.70
WHEN THEY'RE OUT, THEY'RE,
OH, HONEY, HOW ARE YOU ?
00:15:45.70\00:15:48.43
COME DEAR, THIS IS MY WIFE.
00:15:48.43\00:15:52.20
YES, HONEY.
00:15:52.20\00:15:53.40
YOU KNOW, AND THEN
WHEN THEY GET INSIDE. . .
00:15:53.40\00:16:00.46
. . .SEE YOU TOMORROW.
00:16:00.46\00:16:01.70
TAKE OUT THE TRASH.
00:16:01.70\00:16:03.96
DID YOU PAY THE BILLS.
00:16:03.96\00:16:05.90
YOU TURN INTO
MAINTENENCE CONVERSATION.
00:16:05.90\00:16:08.86
BUT WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW
IS THAT FAKE YOU'RE PUTTING ON
00:16:08.86\00:16:11.13
OUTSIDE, YOU NEED TO BE BETTER
INSIDE THE HOUSE WHEN NOBODY'S
00:16:11.13\00:16:14.56
LOOKING THAN WHEN SOMEBODY
IS LOOKING, BECAUSE THE EYES OF
00:16:14.56\00:16:18.96
GOD ARE ON YOU.
00:16:18.96\00:16:21.40
SO YOU GOT TO PAY
ATTENTION TO THAT.
00:16:21.40\00:16:24.16
YOU OUGHT TO, EPHESIANS,
CHAPTER 4, AND VERSE 26.
00:16:24.16\00:16:27.20
THE BIBLE SAYS THAT YOU OUGHT
TO END EACH DAY WITHOUT THE
00:16:27.20\00:16:32.50
SUN GOING DOWN ON YOUR WRATH.
00:16:32.50\00:16:34.80
I'M GOING TO GET TO SOME
WONDERFUL THINGS THAT WILL
00:16:34.80\00:16:37.30
KIND OF CONNECT WITH THIS.
00:16:37.30\00:16:39.83
BUT IF YOU WANT TO
STAY MARRIED A LONG TIME,
00:16:40.70\00:16:42.56
DON'T LET STUFF BUILD UP.
00:16:42.56\00:16:46.50
HANDLE IT WHILE IT'S SMALL.
00:16:46.50\00:16:49.23
THERE ARE NO TWO
PEOPLE WHO FIT PERFECTLY.
00:16:49.23\00:16:52.46
SOMEBODY IN YOUR FAMILY HAD A
HABIT THAT YOU THOUGHT WAS OKAY.
00:16:52.46\00:16:57.03
BUT WHEN YOU GET IN A HOUSEHOLD
WITH SOMEBODY ELSE, I DON'T
00:16:57.86\00:17:00.40
CARE IF YOU WERE REARED
NEXT-DOOR TO EACH OTHER, THERE
00:17:00.40\00:17:03.16
ARE THINGS THAT YOUR
FAMILY DID AND THINGS THAT YOUR
00:17:03.16\00:17:05.96
FAMILY DID THAT DON'T MATCH.
00:17:05.96\00:17:08.36
SO, YOU MAY BE SITTING
THERE AND, YOU KNOW, IT GETS A
00:17:08.36\00:17:10.43
LITTLE QUIET WHEN YOU
FIRST GET TO THE REAL MARRIAGE.
00:17:10.43\00:17:13.83
I'M NOT TALKING ABOUT THAT AHH.
00:17:13.83\00:17:18.46
EVERYBODY CAN DEAL WITH THAT.
00:17:18.46\00:17:19.60
THAT'S WHAT YOU
SAW ON TELEVISION.
00:17:19.60\00:17:23.90
AND THEN IT KINDS OF GETS
TO, HEY, HOW ARE YOU DOING ?
00:17:23.90\00:17:28.96
AND THEN (MAKES SLURPING NOISE)
YOU KNOW, YOU'RE TRYING TO
00:17:28.96\00:17:35.23
FIGURE OUT, HOW COULD
YA MISS THAT WHEN YOU ALL
00:17:35.23\00:17:37.90
WERE DATING EACH OTHER ?
00:17:37.90\00:17:41.46
DID YOU ALWAYS MAKE THAT SOUND ?
00:17:41.46\00:17:49.30
SHE SAID, WELL,
YOU'VE GOT A NERVE TO TALK.
00:17:49.30\00:17:51.43
YOU DROP CLOTHES ALL
THROUGH THE HOUSE EVERY
00:17:51.43\00:17:53.86
DAY WHEN YOU COME HOME.
00:17:53.86\00:17:55.00
AND IF YOU KEEP ON
LETTING LITTLE STUFF GO BY LIKE
00:17:55.00\00:17:57.40
THAT, YOU'VE GOT TO
HANDLE IT PROACTIVELY.
00:17:57.40\00:18:01.33
BUT THE BIBLE SAYS, NO MATTER
WHAT GOES ON, DON'T LET THE
00:18:01.33\00:18:04.23
SUN GO DOWN ON YOUR WRATH.
00:18:04.23\00:18:06.40
IN FACT, PROVERBS 15 AND
VERSE 1 SAYS, THAT A SOFT
00:18:06.40\00:18:10.70
ANSWER TURNETH AWAY WRATH.
00:18:10.70\00:18:12.63
I'M GETTING READY TO GIVE YOU
A RULE THAT IS NOT IN THE BIBLE
00:18:12.63\00:18:16.23
BUT I CAN ALMOST QUALIFY IT AS
AN EXPERIENCE-THE-POWER MOMENT.
00:18:16.23\00:18:21.26
THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK.
00:18:21.26\00:18:30.43
LET ME TELL YOU
SOMETHING ABOUT WORDS.
00:18:30.43\00:18:33.10
YOU BELIEVE THAT LITTLE
STUFF YOU HEARD WHEN YOU
00:18:33.10\00:18:35.36
WERE A KID, STICKS AND
STONES MAY BREAK MY BONES, BUT
00:18:35.36\00:18:38.26
WORDS WILL NEVER HURT ME ?
00:18:38.26\00:18:41.16
THE REASON WHY YOU NEED
TO THINK, IN FACT, SOMETIMES
00:18:41.16\00:18:43.36
YOU NEED TO JUST SHUT UP.
00:18:43.36\00:18:48.50
PRAY.
00:18:48.50\00:18:50.80
BECAUSE ONCE WORDS GET OUT
THERE, YOU CAN'T PULL THEM BACK.
00:18:50.80\00:18:56.93
AND YOU WANT YOUR
SPOUSE TO FORGIVE AND FORGET.
00:18:56.93\00:19:00.43
BUT YOU'D BE SURPRISED,
NINE YEARS LATER, YOU'LL BE IN
00:19:00.43\00:19:02.96
AN ARGUMENT. . .
00:19:02.96\00:19:06.86
I REMEMBER WHAT YOU SAID.
00:19:06.86\00:19:10.60
SO TRY TO LET AS FEW NEGATIVE
WORDS GET OUT THERE AS POSSIBLE.
00:19:10.60\00:19:14.96
GUARD YOUR TONGUE.
00:19:14.96\00:19:16.50
THAT'S SOME GOOD ADVICE.
00:19:16.50\00:19:17.80
TRUST ME.
00:19:17.80\00:19:19.33
THEN, LET ME RUN
DOWN A FEW THINGS.
00:19:19.33\00:19:21.76
YOU OUGHT TO INSPIRE
EACH OTHER TO ACHIEVE.
00:19:21.76\00:19:27.46
LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING.
00:19:27.46\00:19:31.03
ANYTHING THAT A SPOUSE BECOMES,
IS AFFECTED BY THEIR PARTNER.
00:19:31.03\00:19:42.63
YOU GET THE WRONG PARTNER,
AND YOU KNOW, YOU COME IN WITH
00:19:42.63\00:19:45.56
YOUR IDEA, HEY, YOU KNOW
SOMETHING, I'M GOING TO GO
00:19:45.56\00:19:47.93
AND I'M GOING TO TAKE SOME
COURSES, BECAUSE I'M THINKING
00:19:47.93\00:19:51.16
I'VE GOT A LITTLE SKILL.
00:19:51.16\00:19:53.06
YEAH, WHAT YOU OUGHT TO DO
IS STAY ON THAT JOB YOU GOT.
00:19:53.06\00:20:01.06
I DON'T KNOW ABOUT
HOW YOU ALL DREAMS.
00:20:01.06\00:20:05.36
I KNOW YOU'RE GETTING A CHECK.
00:20:05.36\00:20:12.33
SO, YOU KNOW WHAT YOU JUST DID ?
00:20:12.33\00:20:14.43
YOU JUST KILLED A DREAM.
00:20:14.43\00:20:17.03
WHY DON'T YOU SIT DOWN
WITH HIM AND SAY, YEAH.
00:20:17.03\00:20:19.33
LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING.
00:20:19.33\00:20:20.53
YOU SEE THAT LITTLE LADY
I'M MARRIED TO THERE, THAT'S
00:20:20.53\00:20:22.76
A POWERFUL LITTLE WOMAN.
00:20:22.76\00:20:25.00
THERE ARE TIMES WHEN I THINK
I CAN'T DO STUFF AND SHE'LL
00:20:25.00\00:20:28.43
START TALKING HER STUFF.
00:20:28.43\00:20:30.93
I START FEELING MYSELF GROW.
00:20:30.93\00:20:40.23
YOU KNOW, I'M
THINKING I'VE GOT AN IDEA.
00:20:40.23\00:20:42.10
SHE'LL SAY, YEAH, DO THAT.
00:20:42.10\00:20:43.90
YOU KNOW, SHE MAY ASK ME, NOW
HOW ARE YOU GOING TO FINANCE IT?
00:20:43.90\00:20:45.96
THAT'S OKAY.
00:20:45.96\00:20:48.30
BUT YOU'VE GOT TO
INSPIRE THE BEST IN EACH OTHER.
00:20:48.30\00:20:52.16
AND, UNLESS YOU FIND OUT THAT
SOMEBODY DOES INSPIRE THE BEST
00:20:52.16\00:20:57.96
IN YOU, DON'T MARRY THEM.
00:20:57.96\00:21:02.16
BY THE TIME THEY GET THROUGH
PUSHING YOU DOWN AND DOWN
00:21:02.16\00:21:05.70
AND DOWN, AND THERE ARE
SOME PEOPLE WHO GET EXCITED
00:21:05.70\00:21:07.83
ABOUT PUSHING YOU DOWN.
00:21:07.83\00:21:08.93
YOU CANNOT HAVE THAT
KIND OF EXPERIENCE IN YOU.
00:21:08.93\00:21:11.53
YOU OUGHT TO INSPIRE
EACH OTHER TO DO MORE THINGS.
00:21:11.53\00:21:13.53
YOU OUGHT TO SHARE INTERESTS.
00:21:13.53\00:21:16.10
MARRIAGE IS LIKE A LADDER.
00:21:16.10\00:21:19.86
THE TWO VERTICAL PIECES
MUST HAVE CONNECTING RUNGS.
00:21:19.86\00:21:26.56
IF YOU HAVE NOTHING IN COMMON, I
ALMOST SAID IF YOU HAVE NOTHING
00:21:26.56\00:21:30.70
IN COMMON BUT SENSUALITY.
00:21:30.70\00:21:34.00
BUT IF YOU HAVE NOTHING IN
COMMON, THERE WILL COME A TIME
00:21:34.00\00:21:36.70
WHEN YOU'LL TRY TO FIGURE
OUT, WHAT SHALL WE DO NOW ?
00:21:36.70\00:21:40.53
BUT YOU OUGHT TO HAVE
SOME THINGS THAT ARE IN COMMON.
00:21:40.53\00:21:43.43
YOU OUGHT TO LEARN TO
LIKE THE THINGS THAT INTEREST
00:21:43.43\00:21:47.83
YOUR SPOUSE.
00:21:47.83\00:21:49.50
WHEN MY WIFE AND I
GOT MARRIED, I COULD CARE
00:21:49.50\00:21:51.53
LESS ABOUT FURNITURE.
00:21:51.53\00:21:53.60
THE FAMILY WHERE I GREW UP,
WE DID NOT HAVE DISCRETIONARY
00:21:53.60\00:21:56.16
INCOME TO WORRY
ABOUT STYLES OF FURNITURE.
00:21:56.16\00:22:02.16
WE THOUGHT A
CHAIR WAS STILL A CHAIR.
00:22:02.16\00:22:08.06
BUT MY WIFE HAD
STUDIED THESE THINGS AND SO I
00:22:08.06\00:22:10.70
MUST TELL YOU THAT AT
FIRST IT WAS A LITTLE AWKWARD.
00:22:10.70\00:22:13.90
BUT WHAT KIND OF CHAIR IS THAT ?
00:22:13.90\00:22:16.33
THAT'S A MEDITERRANEAN--AH.
00:22:16.33\00:22:24.80
ALL RIGHT, I CAN SEE THAT.
00:22:24.80\00:22:30.56
I ALWAYS LIKE TO LOOK AT CARS,
EVEN WHEN I COULDN'T BUY THEM.
00:22:30.56\00:22:33.40
SO SHE'D GO OUT
AND LOOK AT CARS.
00:22:33.40\00:22:34.96
I COULD SEE SHE DIDN'T
PARTICULARY LIKE CARS, BUT YEAH.
00:22:34.96\00:22:37.86
YOU'VE GOT TO SHARE THINGS.
00:22:37.86\00:22:40.33
AND THE MORE THINGS YOU
SHARE, THE TIGHTER YOUR TWO
00:22:40.33\00:22:44.60
VERTICAL PIECES BECOME,
AND IT WELDS YOU TOGETHER.
00:22:44.60\00:22:52.06
IF ALL THE THINGS YOU LIKE
ARE WITH THE GIRLS, OR IF ALL
00:22:52.06\00:22:56.50
YOUR THINGS THAT YOU LIKE ARE
WITH THE BOYS, YOU'RE GOING TO
00:22:56.50\00:23:00.16
GROW CLOSER TO THE GIRLS
AND THE BOYS THAN TO EACH OTHER,
00:23:00.16\00:23:04.03
AND TROUBLE WILL FOLLOW.
00:23:04.03\00:23:07.03
I SHOULD HAVE CHARGED TONIGHT.
00:23:07.03\00:23:08.26
I KNEW IT.
00:23:08.26\00:23:11.50
REMEMBER SPECIAL DAYS.
00:23:11.50\00:23:15.00
GENTLEMEN, LET'S BE REAL.
00:23:15.00\00:23:19.96
THERE ARE SOME DAYS YOU OUGHT
TO PUT IN YOUR PALM PILOT, YOUR
00:23:19.96\00:23:26.73
ORGANIZER, YOUR ROLODEX, WRITE
THEM ON A PIECE OF PAPER AND
00:23:26.73\00:23:33.30
STICK THEM IN YOUR CLOSET.
00:23:33.30\00:23:35.76
BUT THERE ARE DAYS
YOU CAN'T LET PASS.
00:23:35.76\00:23:39.16
ALL RIGHT ?
00:23:39.16\00:23:40.06
YOU LET AN ANNIVERSARY GO BY.
00:23:40.06\00:23:43.96
SHE WON'T COME STRAIGHT AT YOU.
00:23:43.96\00:23:50.26
I GUESS TODAY IS
JUST A REGULAR DAY, HUH ?
00:23:50.26\00:23:57.13
IF YOU'VE GOT A BAD
MEMORY, WRITE THEM DOWN.
00:23:57.13\00:23:59.33
PUT THEM IN A BOOK
YOU ALWAYS LOOK IN.
00:23:59.33\00:24:01.36
AND LADIES, YOU OUGHT
NOT MAKE IT A ONE-WAY AFFAIR.
00:24:01.36\00:24:05.83
THE MAN IN YOUR LIFE
DESERVES TO HAVE SPECIAL
00:24:05.83\00:24:08.06
DAYS RECOGNIZED, TOO.
00:24:08.06\00:24:11.13
IN FACT, YOU OUGHT TO
MAKE EVERY DAY SPECIAL.
00:24:11.13\00:24:15.60
THE THINGS YOU USED TO DO
WHEN YOU WERE TRYING TO WIN EACH
00:24:15.60\00:24:20.00
OTHER AND IMPRESS EACH OTHER.
00:24:20.00\00:24:22.93
COME ON NOW.
00:24:22.93\00:24:23.63
I'M NOT GOING TO
BOTHER WITH YOU LONG.
00:24:23.63\00:24:25.36
I DON'T HAVE TIME.
00:24:25.36\00:24:26.33
BUT YOU REMEMBER,
DON'T, WAIT A MINUTE, HONEY.
00:24:26.33\00:24:34.60
YOU IN ?
00:24:34.60\00:24:36.96
MOVE OVER JUST A LITTLE BIT.
00:24:36.96\00:24:43.10
DO YOU REMEMBER THAT ?
00:24:43.10\00:24:45.33
NOT, HEY, WHAT YOU WAITING FOR ?
00:24:45.33\00:24:52.36
AND SISTER, COME ON NOW,
TALK TO ME ABOUT THAT MEAL.
00:24:52.36\00:24:55.93
EVEN WHEN YOU HAD TO GO TO
YOUR MOM'S PLACE TO GET HER
00:24:55.93\00:24:59.03
TO COOK THE THINGS, WHEN YOU
BROUGHT IT HOME, IT WAS YOURS.
00:24:59.03\00:25:04.96
AND YOU HAD A LITTLE
CANDLE LIGHT, YOU KNOW, AND
00:25:04.96\00:25:06.96
ALL KINDS OF STUFF.
00:25:06.96\00:25:07.96
AND YOU HAD A LITTLE
(MAKES NOISE) YOU KNOW ?
00:25:07.96\00:25:11.43
YOU'VE GOT TO
KEEP ON DOING THAT.
00:25:11.43\00:25:13.10
IF YOU KNOW THE MAN LIKES
A SPECIAL KIND OF SOMETHING,
00:25:13.10\00:25:16.16
COOK IT AGAIN.
00:25:16.16\00:25:19.76
AND KIND OF LOOK LIKE YOU
USED TO LOOK WHEN YOU COOKED IT.
00:25:19.76\00:25:27.76
BECAUSE IF YOU MAKE
EVERY DAY SPECIAL, THE LIFE YOU
00:25:27.76\00:25:31.23
LIVE TOGETHER WILL BE A JOY.
00:25:31.23\00:25:33.56
LET ME TELL YOU WHAT I
NEED TO SHARE WITH YOU.
00:25:33.56\00:25:35.56
THERE IS A GENTLEMAN IN AFRICA
WHO'S LIKE A BROTHER TO ME.
00:25:35.56\00:25:38.53
I HEARD HIM EXPRESS SOMETHING
AND I BORROWED IT, AND I ASKED
00:25:38.53\00:25:40.73
HIM, COULD I, AND HE SAID YES.
00:25:40.73\00:25:42.90
WE ARE TEACHING, ALL OF US
MARRIED FOLKS, ARE TEACHING
00:25:42.90\00:25:48.30
A GENERATION OF CHILDREN
SOMETHING THAT IS A LIE.
00:25:48.30\00:25:53.46
LET ME DEMONSTRATE IT.
00:25:53.46\00:25:56.36
YOU ARE IN YOUR CAR IN TRAFFIC.
00:25:56.36\00:25:59.56
THE RED LIGHT COMES ON AND
YOU'RE BEHIND A CAR WHERE A
00:25:59.56\00:26:03.46
MAN AND A WOMAN ARE SO CLOSE
TOGETHER THAT YOU CAN BARELY
00:26:03.46\00:26:08.20
TELL WHO'S DRIVING.
00:26:08.20\00:26:12.50
ARE THEY MARRIED OR SINGLE ?
00:26:12.50\00:26:16.26
YOU CAN'T MAKE UP YOUR MIND.
00:26:16.26\00:26:19.06
YOU'RE BEHIND A CAR AND
THE MAN IS ON THIS DOOR.
00:26:19.06\00:26:29.10
AND THE WOMAN IS ON THIS DOOR.
00:26:29.10\00:26:31.33
MARRIED OR SINGLE ?
00:26:31.33\00:26:38.73
LET ME TELL YOU WHAT
WE'RE TEACHING CHILDREN.
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STICK WITH ME.
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THIS IS SERIOUS.
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WE ARE TEACHING YOUNG
PEOPLE THAT YOU CAN ONLY
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BE HAPPY WHEN YOU SNEAK.
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Announcer: JOIN US NEXT TIME
FOR MORE OF PASTOR PEARSON'S
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MESSAGE FROM PROVERBS 5.
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(music)
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