Welcome to Anchors Of Truth 00:00:13.14\00:00:15.21 live from the 3ABN Worship Center. 00:00:15.24\00:00:17.81 We do welcome you to the final presentation 00:00:21.55\00:00:25.42 in what has been a really exciting and spiritual 00:00:25.45\00:00:29.39 series of presentations dealing with the law and with love. 00:00:29.42\00:00:33.90 So we welcome our audience here in Thompsonville, Illinois 00:00:34.13\00:00:37.63 and we welcome those of you who are watching 00:00:37.67\00:00:39.90 and listening from around the world. 00:00:39.93\00:00:41.60 The other night Ty and I were talking and we happened to hit 00:00:41.64\00:00:45.67 on a subject that was sort of tangential to what 00:00:45.71\00:00:48.48 he's been preaching about. 00:00:48.51\00:00:49.84 And he said, "C.A., you've got to preach this." 00:00:49.88\00:00:52.25 And I have a fairly long list of things that I want to 00:00:52.28\00:00:55.58 preach on, so I said, "Well, I'll add that. 00:00:55.62\00:00:57.09 You know, I'll put it there somewhere 00:00:57.12\00:00:58.45 on the bottom of the list." 00:00:58.49\00:00:59.82 Because he was giving me a homework assignment. 00:00:59.85\00:01:01.22 And I didn't need another homework assignment. 00:01:01.26\00:01:02.99 I tend not to like homework assignments. 00:01:03.29\00:01:05.16 But he said, "You've got to preach this." 00:01:05.19\00:01:07.10 And then as he went into the message that night 00:01:08.16\00:01:10.63 and the subsequent nights, that assignment kept coming 00:01:10.67\00:01:14.20 closer to the top of the list. 00:01:14.24\00:01:15.60 And now that I've heard four of his presentations, 00:01:15.64\00:01:17.74 now I've got to preach it. 00:01:17.77\00:01:19.11 In fact, the next time I preach, I will probably 00:01:19.14\00:01:20.48 preach on that subject. 00:01:20.51\00:01:21.84 Because it is tangential to what we are talking about. 00:01:21.88\00:01:24.48 What Ty has been walking us through is really, 00:01:24.51\00:01:27.98 not the necessity of keeping the law, 00:01:28.42\00:01:31.92 but as we discussed today, the inevitability of 00:01:32.12\00:01:35.29 keeping the law once you've got a functioning 00:01:35.32\00:01:37.43 working love relationship with Jesus Christ. 00:01:37.46\00:01:40.20 So that it's not something you do, it is something you are. 00:01:40.40\00:01:43.53 It's not something that you're striving to do. 00:01:43.57\00:01:45.60 It's something that comes as a natural consequence 00:01:45.63\00:01:48.04 of being in love with Jesus. 00:01:48.14\00:01:49.80 And that is an old doctrine, but it is also a new doctrine. 00:01:50.61\00:01:54.61 Because the Adventist church has had to, sort of, 00:01:54.81\00:01:56.78 wrestle with that since its early days. 00:01:56.81\00:01:58.98 Keep the law? Yeah. 00:01:59.41\00:02:00.98 But how do you keep the law? 00:02:01.02\00:02:03.22 Why do you keep the law? 00:02:03.25\00:02:04.92 You put Christ in the center of the law, 00:02:05.02\00:02:07.29 and the law makes sense. 00:02:07.32\00:02:09.16 It's not something you are striving and grasping to do. 00:02:09.19\00:02:12.03 It is something that's a natural consequence 00:02:12.06\00:02:13.93 of being in love with Jesus Christ. 00:02:13.96\00:02:15.70 And that's what we found out during these last several days. 00:02:15.73\00:02:18.37 And so tonight's presentation, No Harm, I'm sure will 00:02:18.47\00:02:21.87 follow in that context. 00:02:21.90\00:02:23.51 Danny and Ty and I were discussing this. 00:02:23.54\00:02:26.91 This is what the Adventist church needs. 00:02:26.94\00:02:29.34 This is what the world needs. 00:02:29.38\00:02:31.28 It needs to know that it all revolves around Jesus. 00:02:31.31\00:02:36.69 That it becomes so much easier when you start with a 00:02:36.72\00:02:39.52 loving relationship with Jesus. 00:02:39.55\00:02:41.46 You don't start with the law. 00:02:41.49\00:02:43.02 You start with Jesus. 00:02:43.06\00:02:44.49 And everything else follows in its train. 00:02:44.53\00:02:46.76 And Ty has done that so very, very beautifully and 00:02:46.80\00:02:50.53 illustrated that for us during these last several sessions. 00:02:51.10\00:02:53.67 And we expect no less than that again this evening. 00:02:53.70\00:02:56.10 Of course, our guest, our speak, is Ty Gibson. 00:02:56.14\00:02:58.51 He is co-founder of Light Bearers Ministry. 00:02:58.54\00:03:01.14 And as has been so well articulated, they have given 00:03:01.18\00:03:03.95 hundreds of millions of pieces of literature out 00:03:04.15\00:03:06.25 around the world. 00:03:06.28\00:03:07.62 And doing a wonderful job doing that. 00:03:07.65\00:03:11.59 If you have known 3ABN for many years, 00:03:11.99\00:03:14.56 you remember Ty from the days when he was a young guy 00:03:14.59\00:03:17.29 with a beard, a young guy trying to look old. 00:03:17.33\00:03:20.90 Now he's an older guy trying to look young. 00:03:20.93\00:03:23.00 He's gotten rid of that beard and he looks a little better. 00:03:24.10\00:03:26.53 I think clean shaven, for me. 00:03:26.57\00:03:27.90 You can actually see his face. 00:03:27.94\00:03:29.27 Good looking guy once you can see that face 00:03:29.30\00:03:31.34 out from under all that beard. 00:03:31.37\00:03:33.04 And really a wonderful... 00:03:33.61\00:03:34.94 I'll tell you why I shaved my beard. 00:03:36.64\00:03:38.38 Because I was on 3ABN and I got mail from 3ABN viewers, 00:03:39.35\00:03:44.52 most of them older women, who said, 00:03:45.25\00:03:49.16 "You look like the criminal element. 00:03:49.19\00:03:51.49 You need to get that hair off your face." 00:03:53.36\00:03:55.60 - So I shaved. - Praise the Lord. 00:03:56.10\00:03:57.87 We'll edit that later. 00:04:00.00\00:04:01.37 The question really is, and Ty has been asking it 00:04:03.91\00:04:07.78 for these past several presentations, 00:04:07.81\00:04:10.08 do you love God? 00:04:10.11\00:04:11.45 How much do you love God? 00:04:12.08\00:04:13.62 And if you love Him, let your actions 00:04:13.85\00:04:17.05 let the whole world know. 00:04:17.09\00:04:19.15 We'll pray, and then sing that song. 00:04:19.19\00:04:22.26 And then Ty will give us his presentation. 00:04:22.29\00:04:23.96 Father God, we praise You and we do love You. 00:04:23.99\00:04:27.26 What we want is to love You more, 00:04:28.13\00:04:32.50 to love You best, so that You can use us 00:04:33.70\00:04:37.54 any way that you see fit. 00:04:37.87\00:04:40.08 Please, Lord, speak to us just now, because we want to 00:04:40.91\00:04:45.35 hear a word from You. 00:04:45.38\00:04:46.78 And we thank You in Jesus' name, amen. 00:04:47.28\00:04:50.52 Do you love God more than anything? 00:05:00.20\00:05:07.00 Do you love God? 00:05:07.40\00:05:12.27 Do you love God more than anything? 00:05:13.07\00:05:19.18 Do you love my God? 00:05:19.21\00:05:26.12 Love is all that He asks in return 00:05:26.82\00:05:34.10 for all that He has given. 00:05:34.13\00:05:39.97 Love will be the endless theme 00:05:40.17\00:05:47.18 throughout the course of heaven. 00:05:47.38\00:05:53.52 Do you love God more than your car or home? 00:05:54.02\00:06:00.62 Do you love God? 00:06:00.66\00:06:05.69 Do you love God more than all you own? 00:06:06.43\00:06:13.23 Do you love my God? 00:06:13.27\00:06:18.84 Tell me, do you love God more than your family? 00:06:19.04\00:06:26.15 Really, really, really love Him? 00:06:26.18\00:06:30.29 If you do, just let the whole world know. 00:06:30.55\00:06:36.76 That's all He asks of you. 00:06:37.13\00:06:44.67 Do you love God more than your car or home? 00:06:46.47\00:06:53.74 Do you love God? 00:06:53.94\00:06:58.81 And do you love God more than all you own? 00:06:59.61\00:07:06.86 Do you love God? 00:07:06.89\00:07:11.83 Tell me, do you love God more than your family? 00:07:11.86\00:07:19.33 Really, really, really love Him? 00:07:19.37\00:07:23.57 If you do, just let the whole world know 00:07:23.94\00:07:30.11 that you love the Lord. 00:07:30.55\00:07:32.55 Come on, let the whole world know, let them know, 00:07:32.58\00:07:36.92 that you love the Lord. 00:07:36.95\00:07:39.89 Let the whole world know, 00:07:39.92\00:07:45.99 let the whole world know, 00:07:46.39\00:07:52.40 let the whole world know. 00:07:52.80\00:07:59.61 That's all He asks 00:07:59.81\00:08:07.68 of you. 00:08:08.18\00:08:13.19 Hmmm, thank you, C.A. 00:08:23.47\00:08:25.03 What an appropriate song for the message this afternoon. 00:08:26.17\00:08:29.74 I'm glad you stayed by. 00:08:29.77\00:08:31.24 This is the meeting after lunch. 00:08:31.64\00:08:34.18 And I think some of you know what that means. 00:08:34.21\00:08:36.95 I'm a little at a distance from you, so it won't be that easy 00:08:37.61\00:08:41.58 for me to pay attention to the glazed over look 00:08:41.62\00:08:44.25 in some of your eyes as your lasagna tries to interfere 00:08:44.29\00:08:48.62 with our purpose just now. 00:08:48.66\00:08:50.39 So I want to encourage you to put forth extra special effort, 00:08:50.66\00:08:55.53 if necessary correct your posture, 00:08:55.56\00:08:58.23 take a few deep breaths, as we launch in to God's Word. 00:08:58.27\00:09:02.40 You need your frontal lobe to be engaged just now. 00:09:02.44\00:09:06.57 Alright? 00:09:06.61\00:09:07.94 This morning, Danny asked me to share about an exciting 00:09:07.98\00:09:12.25 new set of Bible studies. 00:09:12.35\00:09:14.35 And some of you, you said it just went by too fast. 00:09:14.38\00:09:17.02 You didn't get where they could be obtained, 00:09:17.05\00:09:21.02 what it's about. 00:09:21.06\00:09:22.39 Let me just briefly repeat. 00:09:22.42\00:09:23.79 This is a brand new set of Bible studies, 00:09:23.83\00:09:25.86 27 Bible studies in the series, called, Truth Link. 00:09:25.89\00:09:29.96 They are a very unique resource that I think will just 00:09:30.27\00:09:34.87 absolutely blow your mind and take your heart 00:09:34.90\00:09:38.34 in your relationship with Jesus to a whole new level, 00:09:38.44\00:09:41.38 and give you a tool to share the message 00:09:41.41\00:09:44.98 with absolute biblical doctrinal integrity. 00:09:45.18\00:09:49.72 Simultaneously, the love of God and the gospel of Christ 00:09:49.95\00:09:54.56 woven in to every single biblical doctrine. 00:09:54.59\00:09:58.19 So get a set of these Bible studies and begin 00:09:58.23\00:10:00.56 making use of them, not only for your own 00:10:00.60\00:10:03.00 personal spiritual growth and edification, 00:10:03.10\00:10:06.20 but also to have on hand something to study 00:10:06.23\00:10:10.71 with family and friends. 00:10:10.81\00:10:12.47 So they're available at, lightbearers.org. 00:10:12.51\00:10:17.48 Lightbearers, the name of the ministry I represent,.org. 00:10:17.51\00:10:21.38 You can also go to that website and just get the phone number 00:10:21.42\00:10:24.12 from there and call and order them on any day of the week. 00:10:24.15\00:10:28.92 Alright, so I'm excite about our subject right now. 00:10:28.96\00:10:32.09 And in order to access the concepts that we want to 00:10:32.36\00:10:36.56 begin developing regarding the law of God, 00:10:36.60\00:10:39.43 in this our final session on the subject, 00:10:39.47\00:10:42.90 I want to explore with you, ask you to explore with me, 00:10:43.10\00:10:45.67 something that we all experience. 00:10:45.71\00:10:50.05 Have you noticed that we tend to cringe when we witness 00:10:50.18\00:10:56.89 pain or suffering of just about any kind? 00:10:56.92\00:11:01.19 Have you noticed that? 00:11:01.22\00:11:02.56 Just today earlier somebody was sharing with me 00:11:02.82\00:11:07.43 from their heart and they began talking about the breakdown 00:11:07.46\00:11:13.34 in a relationship between a mother and a daughter. 00:11:13.64\00:11:16.81 And as he was describing to me the disintegration of 00:11:17.44\00:11:21.78 that relationship, I noticed that his eyes were tearing up. 00:11:21.81\00:11:26.88 And as he continued describing the breakdown of the 00:11:27.15\00:11:30.39 relationship, I could just feel the stab of that pain 00:11:30.42\00:11:35.02 in my own heart, and I felt my eyes beginning to tear up. 00:11:35.06\00:11:39.53 Almost involuntarily. 00:11:39.83\00:11:41.93 Just last week a woman came to me, somebody I know, 00:11:42.36\00:11:45.73 and I've known her for some time. 00:11:45.77\00:11:47.80 And she walked up and rather abruptly said, 00:11:48.04\00:11:51.84 "Ty, my husband just informed me that he's seeing another woman." 00:11:52.24\00:11:59.98 And immediately, boom, the pain was there. 00:12:00.45\00:12:03.45 It was residual pain for me. 00:12:03.69\00:12:05.25 It wasn't even my experience. 00:12:05.29\00:12:07.36 But I could empathize, I could feel the pain 00:12:07.52\00:12:12.29 that was throbbing in her heart. 00:12:12.33\00:12:14.90 Even pain on what might be regarded as a lesser level 00:12:15.46\00:12:22.30 is difficult for us to witness as human beings. 00:12:22.34\00:12:25.47 I'm driving down the road just, I don't know, a few months ago 00:12:25.51\00:12:28.78 and I'm doing, I don't know, 50 or 60 miles an hour. 00:12:28.81\00:12:31.95 And as I'm driving along, suddenly I see out of the 00:12:32.15\00:12:36.48 corner of my eye, here comes a rabbit. 00:12:36.52\00:12:40.32 And everything in me, I'm willing to risk my life 00:12:41.02\00:12:45.53 and run into trees and hit mountain sides 00:12:45.56\00:12:49.36 to avoid the bunny. 00:12:49.40\00:12:51.63 Because everything in me is against the pain, the suffering, 00:12:52.17\00:13:00.61 the death that might be inflicted on a creature 00:13:00.64\00:13:05.61 of nature. 00:13:05.95\00:13:07.28 Now it is possible, and often is the case, 00:13:07.32\00:13:10.62 that we as human beings can become jaded. 00:13:11.15\00:13:14.79 We can become insensitive. 00:13:15.49\00:13:18.93 And insensitivity can move into being not just 00:13:18.96\00:13:24.07 insensitive, but literally callus and hard and cold. 00:13:24.47\00:13:28.84 Where we can begin to hear about and witness 00:13:29.10\00:13:32.87 relational breakdown and suffering and pain 00:13:33.48\00:13:36.28 and it means nothing to us. 00:13:36.31\00:13:37.91 We don't feel anything. 00:13:37.95\00:13:39.98 And then when you get past the point of just being insensitive, 00:13:40.02\00:13:43.69 a human being can be brought to the place where they 00:13:43.95\00:13:47.09 feel no pain or empathy at all. 00:13:47.12\00:13:50.83 And that's called, psychopathy. 00:13:50.93\00:13:54.06 That's when a human being gets to the place 00:13:54.26\00:13:56.70 where they have no emotional response 00:13:56.73\00:14:00.27 to the suffering and pain of others. 00:14:00.87\00:14:04.94 Now I bring all of this to our attention 00:14:05.14\00:14:09.48 to direct you to one of what I would regard to be 00:14:09.94\00:14:14.35 one of the most important biblical perspectives 00:14:14.38\00:14:18.85 on the law of God, and one that I think 00:14:18.89\00:14:22.62 many of us might find to be a totally new idea. 00:14:22.82\00:14:26.43 We know lots of Bible verses about the law. 00:14:26.46\00:14:28.76 And I would venture to say that when we turn to this one, 00:14:28.80\00:14:32.07 you'll say, "Yeah, yeah, yeah, I've read that." 00:14:32.10\00:14:33.94 But almost none of us have read the second half of the verse, 00:14:34.10\00:14:39.37 or at least allowed it to register. 00:14:39.41\00:14:41.41 Go to this verse in Romans chapter 13. 00:14:41.44\00:14:45.11 Go to Romans 13. 00:14:45.31\00:14:46.78 Just an amazing text from which I have drawn the 00:14:46.82\00:14:50.19 title of this message. 00:14:50.22\00:14:52.19 Notice this text, it's about the law of God. 00:14:52.45\00:14:55.46 But we're going to unpack and explore a dimension, 00:14:55.49\00:15:00.36 an aspect, of the law of God that is rarely ever considered. 00:15:00.40\00:15:04.47 Alright, this is Romans chapter 13 00:15:04.50\00:15:09.00 and verse 10. 00:15:09.50\00:15:12.97 Notice the language. 00:15:13.01\00:15:14.58 "Love does no..." What? 00:15:14.61\00:15:19.88 "...no harm to a neighbor; therefore..." 00:15:20.12\00:15:24.85 Notice the grammatical flow. 00:15:24.89\00:15:26.55 Notice the connection. 00:15:26.59\00:15:27.92 "Love does no harm to a neighbor; therefore 00:15:28.96\00:15:34.83 love is the fulfillment..." 00:15:34.86\00:15:37.17 The fulfilling of what? 00:15:37.20\00:15:39.00 "...the law." 00:15:39.37\00:15:40.70 Here, the apostle Paul is informing us that God's law 00:15:40.74\00:15:47.24 is a realm of existence, if you will, a set of parameters 00:15:47.94\00:15:57.55 within which there is no harm. 00:15:57.59\00:16:01.32 One version says, "Love does no hurt 00:16:02.32\00:16:05.96 to its neighbor, therefore, love is the fulfilling of the law." 00:16:06.80\00:16:11.37 Within the parameters of God's law, there is an 00:16:11.40\00:16:15.54 absence of harm, there's an absence of hurt. 00:16:15.57\00:16:20.11 Now in our first presentation, we explored what we called, 00:16:20.48\00:16:25.21 The Law Before the Law. 00:16:25.25\00:16:26.75 And we essentially tried to point out that God's law 00:16:27.02\00:16:32.05 is not an arbitrary set of rules that He concocted willy-nilly 00:16:32.09\00:16:37.76 out of nowhere. 00:16:37.79\00:16:39.13 And I posed the question to you, could God have come up 00:16:39.16\00:16:42.00 with another ten other than the Ten Commandments? 00:16:42.03\00:16:45.53 Could He have just said, "You know what, not these ten. 00:16:45.57\00:16:48.17 But I'll come up with another totally different ten. 00:16:48.20\00:16:51.84 Move that pile of rocks twice a day; 00:16:51.87\00:16:54.14 commandment number one. 00:16:54.18\00:16:55.71 Commandment number two; every day look up, down, 00:16:55.74\00:16:59.18 to your left, to your right. 00:16:59.21\00:17:00.55 And then do it again four times. 00:17:00.58\00:17:02.45 Commandment number three..." 00:17:02.48\00:17:03.89 Those would be arbitrary commands that have no 00:17:04.25\00:17:06.69 grounding in relational existence, 00:17:06.72\00:17:10.93 no grounding in reality. 00:17:10.96\00:17:12.96 In other words, God's law is not an arbitrary list 00:17:12.99\00:17:16.43 of externally imposed rules. 00:17:16.46\00:17:19.37 It is in fact, the law of God is in fact a transcript of the very 00:17:19.47\00:17:23.97 character of God. 00:17:24.01\00:17:25.61 It is the essence of God's own identity. 00:17:25.64\00:17:29.54 The law of God describes for us how God thinks, 00:17:30.05\00:17:34.82 and feels, and behaves toward all others. 00:17:34.85\00:17:38.92 It's not arbitrary. 00:17:39.62\00:17:40.96 It's intrinsic to the very nature of God. 00:17:40.99\00:17:45.43 Do you see what I'm saying? 00:17:45.46\00:17:46.96 So this helps us to understand that the law of God 00:17:47.00\00:17:52.90 is basically a description of what relational integrity 00:17:53.00\00:17:59.14 looks like. 00:17:59.17\00:18:00.51 The Bible uses another word to describe this. 00:18:00.54\00:18:03.65 And that word is, covenant. 00:18:03.68\00:18:05.78 I'll leave this for you to study in your own time. 00:18:05.81\00:18:08.68 Look in Scripture at the usage of the word, covenant, 00:18:09.25\00:18:14.19 and you will discover that over and over again 00:18:14.22\00:18:18.36 the Ten Commandment law of God is called, 00:18:18.39\00:18:21.23 a covenant. 00:18:21.26\00:18:22.60 Now a covenant is simply a word that describes 00:18:22.70\00:18:26.74 what a relationship looks like when it's mutual. 00:18:26.77\00:18:30.47 A covenant is when I live for you, and you live for me. 00:18:31.17\00:18:38.81 It is the perfect arrangement for all relationships. 00:18:39.11\00:18:43.59 I live for you, and I don't say, "Wow, I really like the..." 00:18:43.99\00:18:48.86 Or you don't say, "I really like the fact 00:18:48.89\00:18:50.63 that he's living for me. 00:18:50.66\00:18:51.99 I think I'll live for me too. 00:18:52.03\00:18:53.40 This is a great arrangement. 00:18:54.26\00:18:55.66 How about everybody live for me." 00:18:55.70\00:18:57.63 That's not a covenant. 00:18:58.83\00:19:00.20 The covenant occurs when I live for you, and you reciprocate. 00:19:00.87\00:19:06.91 This is what Jesus is describing. 00:19:06.94\00:19:08.81 He gets to the heart of it. 00:19:08.84\00:19:10.18 This is what Jesus is describing in Luke 6:38. 00:19:10.21\00:19:12.88 One of the best verses in all the Bible. 00:19:12.91\00:19:14.78 This should be something you know like your phone number, 00:19:14.82\00:19:17.82 or your social security number, or your wife's birthday. 00:19:17.85\00:19:21.02 This verse, Jesus describes the whole deal. 00:19:22.29\00:19:26.56 He says, "Give, and it shall be given to you. 00:19:26.76\00:19:33.34 Pressed down, shaken together, and running over 00:19:33.97\00:19:37.07 shall others give into your bosom," or into your life. 00:19:37.11\00:19:41.64 In other words, in the process of living for others, 00:19:41.68\00:19:46.11 Jesus is saying it starts a chain reaction. 00:19:46.15\00:19:50.05 There's a reciprocation that occurs. 00:19:50.09\00:19:52.49 There's a cause and there's an effect. 00:19:52.52\00:19:54.62 You also find this principle in 1 John 4:19 00:19:54.66\00:19:58.16 where the gospel is encapsulated in this simple statement, 00:19:58.26\00:20:02.53 "We love God because He first loved us." 00:20:02.56\00:20:06.33 In other words, in that text there are two usages 00:20:06.60\00:20:09.60 of the word, love. 00:20:09.64\00:20:10.97 There is God's love that is primary and active 00:20:11.01\00:20:14.64 toward me regardless of my condition. 00:20:14.68\00:20:17.38 It doesn't matter if I'm doing good, bad, or otherwise, 00:20:17.68\00:20:20.62 God's love is a constant, covenantal, faithfulness to me. 00:20:20.65\00:20:25.02 The Bible says in another place that if we are unfaithful, 00:20:25.05\00:20:30.69 God is or remains faithful, because He cannot deny Himself. 00:20:30.79\00:20:36.36 In other words, God cannot go contrary to who He is. 00:20:36.50\00:20:40.74 He can't be other than what He is. 00:20:40.77\00:20:42.67 And what is He? He's faithful. 00:20:42.70\00:20:44.31 Whether I am or not, whether I am or not. 00:20:44.34\00:20:47.54 And that faithful love then initiates a response in me. 00:20:47.78\00:20:53.48 One author says, "Love begets love." 00:20:53.72\00:20:57.59 In other words, God's love is a creative force. 00:20:57.85\00:21:00.92 It produces after its own kind. 00:21:00.96\00:21:05.23 And so the apostle Paul says, "Love does no harm 00:21:05.93\00:21:13.03 to its neighbor." 00:21:13.44\00:21:14.77 In other words, there is an absence of relational violation 00:21:14.80\00:21:20.98 where love is occurring. 00:21:21.01\00:21:22.64 Love is not a silly sentimental cotton candy sweet kind of 00:21:23.35\00:21:27.95 sentimentalism. 00:21:28.15\00:21:29.52 It's not just a warm fuzzy feeling. 00:21:29.98\00:21:32.75 Love is a powerful principle. 00:21:33.52\00:21:37.83 It is a force to be reckoned with. 00:21:37.86\00:21:41.63 And the force to be reckoned with in the love of God 00:21:42.03\00:21:46.07 is that He will be good and faithful to you and me 00:21:46.43\00:21:50.17 no matter what we do to Him. 00:21:50.21\00:21:51.97 And that's why we see God's love reaching its pinnacle expression 00:21:52.21\00:21:56.28 at Calvary. 00:21:56.41\00:21:57.85 John chapter 13 verse 1, as Jesus is coming to the 00:21:58.71\00:22:02.15 end of His ministry, this is such a powerful line, 00:22:02.18\00:22:06.22 He's coming to the end of His ministry. 00:22:06.25\00:22:07.72 He's about to wash the disciples feet. 00:22:07.76\00:22:09.76 He's about to celebrate the Passover with them. 00:22:09.79\00:22:11.76 He's about to go to Calvary. 00:22:11.79\00:22:13.33 And John 13:1 says, "...having loved His own 00:22:13.36\00:22:18.30 who were in the world, He loved them to the end." 00:22:18.33\00:22:22.77 He loved them to the end. 00:22:23.41\00:22:25.57 That is to say, He loved them to the end of Himself. 00:22:25.61\00:22:29.74 When Jesus died at the cross, Jesus perfected, personified, 00:22:30.21\00:22:35.12 revealed, and put on living display the love of God 00:22:35.15\00:22:39.92 in its most beautiful possible expression. 00:22:39.95\00:22:43.89 He loved all others above and before Himself. 00:22:44.36\00:22:48.56 And He wasn't feeling super sentimentally or emotionally 00:22:48.86\00:22:54.00 high while He was hanging on the cross. 00:22:54.04\00:22:57.01 He was experiencing excruciating pain 00:22:57.31\00:23:00.98 and the pain of self denial to keep loving, loving, loving 00:23:01.01\00:23:06.08 you and me above Himself to the Nth degree of self-sacrifice. 00:23:06.11\00:23:11.49 That's what love looks like in action. 00:23:11.52\00:23:13.62 Now for you and me, God envelopes us with this love. 00:23:13.99\00:23:19.89 Again to quote an author that really gets this. 00:23:19.93\00:23:24.83 We're surrounded with an atmosphere of grace, 00:23:25.07\00:23:28.00 the whole human race, 00:23:28.04\00:23:29.37 we're surrounded with an atmosphere of grace 00:23:29.54\00:23:32.07 as real as the air we breathe. 00:23:32.11\00:23:34.91 In other words, whether you turn to the left or to the right, 00:23:35.34\00:23:38.08 up or down, any direction you look within the parameters 00:23:38.11\00:23:42.62 of the gospel, you realize that, to use the language of John 00:23:42.65\00:23:47.52 in John chapter 1, God has heaped upon us 00:23:47.56\00:23:50.63 grace upon grace. 00:23:50.66\00:23:52.83 He's always good, no matter what. 00:23:54.30\00:23:57.00 And the only question is, do we see it? 00:23:57.03\00:24:00.47 And once we see it and it really rivets our attention, 00:24:00.70\00:24:03.97 we begin to voluntarily of our own free will, 00:24:04.01\00:24:07.44 spontaneously we begin to return to Him 00:24:07.48\00:24:10.58 from the inside out. 00:24:10.61\00:24:12.55 It's not merely an outward demand or compliance 00:24:12.58\00:24:17.92 that God's looking for. 00:24:17.95\00:24:19.29 He's not looking for robots or machines or slaves. 00:24:19.32\00:24:22.56 He's looking for living, volitional, emotional, 00:24:22.92\00:24:26.73 rational friends. 00:24:26.76\00:24:29.86 He's looking for people who will know Him 00:24:30.07\00:24:32.57 in the interior of His heart and like what they see, 00:24:33.00\00:24:37.87 and reciprocate and love Him back. 00:24:38.54\00:24:42.54 So here we have Paul telling us, "Do you want to know what 00:24:42.64\00:24:48.12 the law is all about?" Paul says. 00:24:48.15\00:24:50.29 It's about no harm. 00:24:51.22\00:24:52.75 It's about relational integrity. 00:24:53.12\00:24:55.12 When a man comes to me and he says, 00:24:55.82\00:24:59.79 "I just can't sustain this marriage. 00:24:59.83\00:25:02.36 I'm going to leave. 00:25:03.47\00:25:04.87 I don't love her anymore. 00:25:04.90\00:25:07.14 I don't love her anymore." 00:25:07.60\00:25:10.57 What he's describing is the breakdown 00:25:10.77\00:25:15.91 of what the Bible calls, love. 00:25:16.18\00:25:18.15 Relational disintegration is occurring. 00:25:18.18\00:25:21.08 And essentially what he's saying is that he refuses 00:25:21.18\00:25:24.19 to continue to keep his vow. 00:25:24.22\00:25:26.35 He refuses to be faithful. 00:25:26.39\00:25:28.96 When the Bible says, "God is love," 00:25:29.06\00:25:31.73 it doesn't simply mean that God has warm sentimental 00:25:32.89\00:25:36.50 feelings toward you. 00:25:36.53\00:25:37.87 It means God is faithful to you. 00:25:38.00\00:25:40.57 God will follow through. 00:25:41.00\00:25:42.50 If you want to summarize the whole Bible, 00:25:42.60\00:25:44.67 here it is, here's the Bible. 00:25:44.87\00:25:47.48 There's the Old Testament and the New Testament; here it is. 00:25:47.84\00:25:49.68 The Old Testament is a promise made, 00:25:49.88\00:25:52.91 and the New Testament is a promise kept. 00:25:52.95\00:25:55.45 That's what it is. 00:25:55.58\00:25:56.92 That's why it's called the old covenant, or testament, 00:25:56.95\00:26:00.32 and the new covenant. 00:26:00.36\00:26:01.69 It's God saying, "I love you. I'll keep loving you. 00:26:01.72\00:26:05.93 And I will give My Son." 00:26:05.96\00:26:07.70 And the whole testament is one Messianic 00:26:07.73\00:26:09.80 prophecy after another. 00:26:09.83\00:26:11.17 Jesus is coming. 00:26:11.20\00:26:12.53 "I will give Him as a covenant to the people," 00:26:12.57\00:26:15.90 the Old Testament says. 00:26:16.27\00:26:17.64 Jesus will come and He will fulfill the covenant. 00:26:17.67\00:26:21.91 He will confirm the covenant with many for one week. 00:26:22.01\00:26:25.78 And in the midst of the week He will be cut off. 00:26:25.81\00:26:28.38 He will go to Calvary to ratify relational faithfulness. 00:26:28.42\00:26:33.05 That's Daniel chapter 9. 00:26:33.09\00:26:35.02 So the whole Bible is God saying, "I love you. 00:26:35.19\00:26:39.03 And I'll prove it." 00:26:39.23\00:26:40.56 And the New Testament is, in Jesus Christ, God proving it. 00:26:40.60\00:26:44.40 God following through to keep covenant with you and me 00:26:44.87\00:26:48.10 regardless of our unfaithfulness. 00:26:48.14\00:26:50.47 The love of God is nothing less than relational faithfulness. 00:26:50.64\00:26:57.21 It is faithfulness at any cost to one's self. 00:26:57.78\00:27:03.89 And so this "no harm" idea, let's unpack it further. 00:27:04.25\00:27:07.72 What in the world does Paul mean when he says there's 00:27:07.76\00:27:12.23 no harm done when love is being exercised? 00:27:12.26\00:27:17.33 When love is in play, there's no harm. 00:27:17.37\00:27:19.97 That means that in any given relationship, 00:27:20.20\00:27:23.74 I am, you are, God is, whoever the participants are, 00:27:24.07\00:27:27.98 in any given relationship the individuals are 00:27:28.01\00:27:30.95 choosing what is best and right for the other, 00:27:30.98\00:27:35.08 for the other, first and foremost above self. 00:27:35.38\00:27:39.92 So there's no violation occurring. 00:27:40.82\00:27:43.39 Now God has chosen to create human beings to operate 00:27:44.66\00:27:50.80 in precisely this manner. 00:27:50.83\00:27:52.27 I want you to look with me at Genesis real quick. 00:27:52.47\00:27:54.90 We're going to do a little tour de force here 00:27:54.94\00:27:57.87 of the Bible. 00:27:57.91\00:27:59.24 And we're going to begin at the beginning with Genesis. 00:27:59.34\00:28:01.88 I want you to notice something here, a pattern 00:28:01.91\00:28:04.15 in Genesis chapters 1 and 2. 00:28:04.18\00:28:07.52 For the sake of time, I'm just going to tell you some things 00:28:07.55\00:28:10.45 you already know, and then focus on some parts that 00:28:10.49\00:28:12.45 we need to have really emphasized for us 00:28:12.49\00:28:15.72 and brought to our attention. 00:28:15.76\00:28:17.23 Each day of creation, watch this, God comes to the end 00:28:18.06\00:28:22.36 of that particular segment of what He made, 00:28:22.40\00:28:25.17 and He says, "It's good." 00:28:25.20\00:28:26.53 Right? You know this part. 00:28:26.57\00:28:27.90 It's good. 00:28:28.10\00:28:29.44 Comes to the end of the second day, 00:28:29.47\00:28:30.81 He looks at everything He made and He says, "It's good." 00:28:30.84\00:28:33.21 Third day; it's good. 00:28:33.94\00:28:35.48 Fourth day; it's good. Fifth day; good. 00:28:35.51\00:28:37.35 End of the sixth day God says something, He modifies 00:28:37.38\00:28:40.32 His declaration. 00:28:40.35\00:28:41.68 He says, "Behold, now it is very good." 00:28:41.72\00:28:46.02 Now the difference between, "good," and, "very good," 00:28:46.09\00:28:48.62 in the development of the narrative is that 00:28:48.66\00:28:52.23 "good" is descriptive of the constituent parts of creation 00:28:52.26\00:28:57.97 under development. 00:28:58.00\00:28:59.53 In other words, good for what it is on that day at that level 00:29:00.04\00:29:04.81 at that stage of the creation venture. 00:29:04.84\00:29:07.58 Okay? 00:29:07.61\00:29:08.94 The difference between, "good," and, "very good," 00:29:08.98\00:29:11.28 is creation in process... 00:29:11.31\00:29:13.45 "Yep, that's good. Good, good, good." 00:29:13.48\00:29:15.32 ...and creation complete. 00:29:15.35\00:29:17.69 Now what makes creation complete? 00:29:18.19\00:29:21.59 The creation of the man and the woman 00:29:21.82\00:29:24.56 on the latter part of the sixth day. 00:29:24.79\00:29:27.13 Once the man and the woman are created, 00:29:27.33\00:29:30.57 they are placed, as it were, in this incredible 00:29:30.60\00:29:35.00 material environment that surrounds them. 00:29:35.04\00:29:38.11 And it says in chapter 2 that God put them in a garden. 00:29:38.14\00:29:44.61 And God actually gave the garden a name. 00:29:45.11\00:29:47.98 He gave the garden a name. 00:29:48.02\00:29:49.35 He said the garden that He put them in would be called, 00:29:49.38\00:29:52.52 chapter 2 verse 8, Eden. 00:29:52.55\00:29:54.99 Now develop this with me. 00:29:56.36\00:29:58.46 When we read the word, "Eden," we think, "Oh that's just 00:29:58.93\00:30:03.63 the name that God came up with for the garden." 00:30:03.67\00:30:07.50 And it is the name that God came up with. 00:30:07.54\00:30:09.47 But it's not just a collection of letters to create a certain 00:30:09.50\00:30:14.11 phonetic sound. 00:30:14.14\00:30:15.74 Every name in the Bible means something. 00:30:16.04\00:30:20.72 It all has definition. 00:30:21.08\00:30:22.82 Whether it's the name of a person 00:30:22.85\00:30:24.69 or it's the name of a place. 00:30:24.89\00:30:26.96 Every place and thing and person is named according to 00:30:27.16\00:30:34.63 its function, according to its intrinsic value, 00:30:34.73\00:30:39.03 what it's for, what it does. 00:30:39.07\00:30:41.07 The word, "Eden," isn't just a nice name 00:30:41.40\00:30:45.54 to refer to a place. 00:30:45.57\00:30:47.21 It literally has a meaning. 00:30:47.24\00:30:49.21 Eden is the Hebrew word for pleasure. 00:30:49.78\00:30:54.18 So literally, here's what we see taking place. 00:30:54.22\00:30:57.49 God creates this incredible material environment. 00:30:57.52\00:31:02.66 Okay, He creates landscapes. 00:31:02.86\00:31:06.29 He creates a profusion of colors; 00:31:06.59\00:31:10.33 from the flowers and the trees and the skyline. 00:31:10.37\00:31:13.84 He creates flowing brooks with gentle water that fills the ear. 00:31:13.87\00:31:20.94 He fills the sky with birds. 00:31:20.98\00:31:23.65 And He says, "You know what? 00:31:24.15\00:31:25.48 Not only are these going to be visually beautiful, 00:31:25.81\00:31:28.82 I'm going to make them sing." 00:31:29.12\00:31:30.89 And so God creates birds that sing. 00:31:30.92\00:31:33.56 They fill the sky with their visual beauty 00:31:33.59\00:31:38.83 and the beauty of the song that they sing. 00:31:38.86\00:31:42.76 God surrounds the man and the woman with what? 00:31:42.80\00:31:46.97 With beauty of every kind. 00:31:47.00\00:31:48.40 He says, "I'm going to create tasty stuff for you to eat." 00:31:48.44\00:31:52.01 So He creates various different trees that bear fruit. 00:31:52.94\00:31:56.71 They're not all the same. 00:31:56.75\00:31:58.21 They're different. 00:31:58.71\00:32:00.05 This one tastes like that and the other like something else. 00:32:00.08\00:32:04.25 And these flavors are engineered by God to just dance 00:32:04.29\00:32:08.39 all over their taste buds so that with every bite 00:32:08.42\00:32:11.56 there's delight. 00:32:11.59\00:32:13.19 This is all intentional. 00:32:13.40\00:32:15.26 This is telling us something about the character of God. 00:32:15.43\00:32:18.30 God could have said, "I'm going to create the man and 00:32:18.33\00:32:21.07 the woman, and I'm going to have one tree. 00:32:21.10\00:32:23.84 And it's going to have a tube hanging from it. 00:32:24.11\00:32:27.41 And every day for one hour I'll have them hook up 00:32:27.44\00:32:29.41 to an IV machine and get some nourishment." 00:32:29.44\00:32:32.18 He could have said, "No, I'll have one tree. 00:32:33.15\00:32:35.58 And the fruit will be brown in color and it will 00:32:35.62\00:32:39.49 taste like cardboard." 00:32:39.52\00:32:41.32 No. 00:32:42.39\00:32:43.73 God, out of the beauty and abundance of His creativity, 00:32:43.76\00:32:47.96 says, "I'm going to create lots of different trees. 00:32:48.00\00:32:50.57 And man oh man, they're going to taste good. 00:32:50.60\00:32:53.13 They're going to love this stuff." 00:32:53.80\00:32:55.70 This is the kind of God we're dealing with. 00:32:55.87\00:32:57.91 He surrounds them with visual beauty, 00:32:58.11\00:33:01.88 auditory beauty, flavors. 00:33:01.98\00:33:05.81 He creates them and puts them in the garden of pleasure, 00:33:07.02\00:33:12.02 the garden of pleasure. 00:33:12.12\00:33:13.52 Now here we are post fall in the world in which we live. 00:33:13.56\00:33:18.53 And it's natural for us as believers in Christ 00:33:19.09\00:33:24.17 to sometimes have a negative view of the word 00:33:24.27\00:33:27.07 or the concept of pleasure. 00:33:27.10\00:33:29.20 But biblically speaking, pleasure is the invention 00:33:29.60\00:33:35.08 of Almighty God. 00:33:35.11\00:33:36.44 God is the author of pleasure. 00:33:36.75\00:33:39.85 God is the one who created the human machine, if you will, 00:33:40.08\00:33:44.05 this thing that we are, to intellectually 00:33:44.09\00:33:47.69 enjoy the process of problem solving. 00:33:47.72\00:33:51.13 To scientifically investigate the mysteries of the universe 00:33:52.29\00:33:55.50 and just be delighted to discover new things. 00:33:55.53\00:33:58.63 God is the one that created the emotional component 00:33:58.80\00:34:02.74 in the human being. 00:34:03.74\00:34:05.07 To walk up and to develop a relationship with somebody 00:34:05.34\00:34:09.44 and have them look back into your eyes, 00:34:09.48\00:34:11.85 and you get the feeling that, 00:34:11.88\00:34:13.21 "Wow, I like you and you like me," 00:34:13.25\00:34:15.52 and that feeling of emotional satisfaction. 00:34:15.55\00:34:18.02 God's the author of that. 00:34:18.05\00:34:19.52 God is the one who created the body with its ability 00:34:20.09\00:34:25.69 to feel pleasure. 00:34:25.73\00:34:27.93 God is the one who said, "Not only am I going to create a man, 00:34:27.96\00:34:31.47 I'm going to create a man and a woman. 00:34:31.50\00:34:33.54 And I'm going to let them fall in love 00:34:33.57\00:34:36.40 and enjoy one another's friendship." 00:34:36.60\00:34:38.74 God's the author of all of this. 00:34:39.27\00:34:41.24 Now having created this kind of environment, 00:34:41.28\00:34:43.98 this kind of world, this garden of pleasure, 00:34:44.01\00:34:47.85 God put the man and the woman there. 00:34:47.88\00:34:49.78 And He basically said, "Hey, have a great time. 00:34:49.82\00:34:53.49 Be fruitful, multiply, and expand the garden 00:34:54.16\00:34:57.49 to encompass the whole earth." 00:34:57.53\00:34:59.89 Steward all of this beauty in such a way that the 00:35:00.16\00:35:04.50 garden of pleasure grows to take in the whole planet. 00:35:04.53\00:35:08.44 And multiply. 00:35:08.47\00:35:09.80 Procreate all kinds of other human beings 00:35:09.90\00:35:12.37 who themselves will join in all the fun of existence. 00:35:12.41\00:35:17.51 This is God. 00:35:17.95\00:35:19.28 Now, having created that kind of environment and that kind of 00:35:20.05\00:35:26.59 world, sin enters the picture in chapter 3. 00:35:26.62\00:35:31.86 But I want you to notice now a contrast. 00:35:32.16\00:35:35.13 Because this is the first time that we encounter 00:35:35.16\00:35:38.43 the principle of God's law and what sin is by contrast. 00:35:38.47\00:35:45.21 Again, this is the first time we encounter in Scripture 00:35:45.24\00:35:48.84 the principle of God's law. 00:35:48.94\00:35:50.75 I say, the principle of God's law, because we don't 00:35:50.78\00:35:52.75 find in Genesis 1 and 2 the Ten Commandments; 00:35:52.78\00:35:55.08 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10; 00:35:55.12\00:35:56.75 "Thou shalt..." "Thou shalt not..." 00:35:56.79\00:35:58.12 We don't find that in Genesis 1 and 2. 00:35:58.15\00:35:59.52 But we find the essence of the law in Genesis 1 and 2 00:35:59.79\00:36:05.99 in that God created the man and the woman 00:36:06.03\00:36:08.46 to live in relational integrity. 00:36:08.50\00:36:11.73 Each one living wholly for the other, 00:36:12.63\00:36:15.54 and both of them living for God, and God living for them. 00:36:15.57\00:36:18.47 That's the law of God, in essence. 00:36:19.24\00:36:21.48 It's right there in principle. 00:36:21.64\00:36:23.11 Now God did something very interesting 00:36:23.55\00:36:26.38 when He created this environment. 00:36:26.41\00:36:27.75 Chapter 2, notice carefully verse 16. 00:36:27.78\00:36:31.19 "And the Lord God commanded the man, saying..." 00:36:33.15\00:36:37.06 Notice the language. 00:36:37.09\00:36:38.59 "Of every tree of the garden..." 00:36:38.63\00:36:42.06 What are the next three words? 00:36:42.10\00:36:44.33 "...you may freely..." 00:36:44.37\00:36:46.87 "...you may..." "...you may..." 00:36:47.50\00:36:51.21 "...you may freely eat..." 00:36:51.31\00:36:55.01 Okay, grammatically, as God is speaking, He is formulating 00:36:55.04\00:37:01.18 a positive grammatical structure. 00:37:01.22\00:37:04.09 He's telling them what they may do. 00:37:05.39\00:37:08.36 And it's a vast horizon of freedom. 00:37:08.72\00:37:11.46 He says, "Of every tree of the garden you may freely eat." 00:37:11.49\00:37:15.53 But then notice verse 17. 00:37:15.56\00:37:18.10 "But," qualification, "of the tree of the knowledge of 00:37:18.13\00:37:21.70 good and evil you shall not eat, for in the day that you eat 00:37:21.74\00:37:27.34 of it you will surely die." 00:37:27.38\00:37:28.81 Notice this. 00:37:28.84\00:37:30.18 God presents a huge, a vast horizon of liberty and freedom. 00:37:30.21\00:37:37.25 "Of every tree you may freely eat. 00:37:37.42\00:37:40.76 But not this one." 00:37:40.79\00:37:43.73 And the one qualification embedded in God's language 00:37:43.76\00:37:49.90 is a protective language. 00:37:49.93\00:37:53.10 "Because I don't want you to be hurt. 00:37:53.13\00:37:56.14 I don't want you to die." 00:37:56.54\00:37:59.31 Now two things we need to see here from the get go. 00:37:59.34\00:38:02.01 Number one, the Scripture does not say, 00:38:02.04\00:38:05.95 "Of every tree of the garden you may freely eat; 00:38:06.35\00:38:08.35 but not this one, because if you do I'll kill you." 00:38:08.38\00:38:10.79 It doesn't say, "Don't eat of that one or I'll kill you." 00:38:11.89\00:38:16.83 It's not, "Don't, or I'll kill you." 00:38:16.86\00:38:18.86 It's, "Don't, or you'll die." 00:38:18.89\00:38:21.16 God is describing the nature of reality 00:38:21.50\00:38:25.87 as God created reality to function. 00:38:25.90\00:38:28.64 He's describing a state of affairs in which 00:38:28.67\00:38:33.74 relational breakdown, relational violation, 00:38:33.78\00:38:38.01 causes pain and hurt and disintegration. 00:38:38.05\00:38:42.52 He's not giving a threat. 00:38:43.59\00:38:45.45 He's describing the cause and effect relationship 00:38:45.92\00:38:49.62 that is involved in either love or selfishness. 00:38:49.86\00:38:54.56 It's very interesting though, because when the devil 00:38:54.96\00:38:57.97 comes to tempt the man and the woman, 00:38:58.00\00:39:01.34 beginning with the woman, notice chapter 3 verse 1. 00:39:01.37\00:39:04.24 And you will immediately... This is just going to click on. 00:39:04.27\00:39:06.21 The lights are going to come shining. 00:39:06.24\00:39:08.08 If your lasagna can get out of the way, 00:39:08.11\00:39:10.45 you're about to realize something very profound. 00:39:10.48\00:39:13.05 Notice chapter 3 verse 1. 00:39:13.08\00:39:15.38 "Now the serpent was more cunning..." 00:39:15.42\00:39:18.19 Notice, "cunning." 00:39:18.22\00:39:19.99 Another version says, "subtle." 00:39:20.29\00:39:22.22 He's coming with an intent to what? 00:39:23.36\00:39:26.03 To deceive. 00:39:26.29\00:39:27.63 He's not coming with truth. 00:39:27.70\00:39:29.76 He's coming with a skewed view of things. 00:39:29.80\00:39:34.24 "Now the serpent was more cunning than any beast 00:39:35.37\00:39:38.07 of the field which the Lord God had made. 00:39:38.11\00:39:39.77 And he said..." 00:39:39.81\00:39:41.14 And what are you going to expect out of this guys mouth? 00:39:41.18\00:39:43.71 Some kind of tweak. 00:39:44.65\00:39:47.85 Some kind of... 00:39:47.95\00:39:49.28 He's going to twist it. 00:39:49.88\00:39:51.29 "And he said to the woman, 'Has God indeed said, 00:39:52.12\00:39:56.46 "You shall not eat of every tree of the garden."'" 00:39:56.49\00:40:01.50 Do you hear the difference? 00:40:02.56\00:40:04.20 Do you catch the subtlety? 00:40:05.47\00:40:07.14 Notice that God presented the matter as big freedom, 00:40:07.90\00:40:13.98 minor restriction, for your good. 00:40:14.48\00:40:16.78 The devil comes along and he flips it, and he presents 00:40:18.28\00:40:22.55 vast restriction. 00:40:22.92\00:40:25.05 And he doesn't even mention any freedom. 00:40:25.45\00:40:27.86 He essentially says, "Has God told you that you can't eat 00:40:28.86\00:40:32.29 of everything?" 00:40:32.39\00:40:33.73 He's trying to arouse in humanity a sense of restriction. 00:40:33.86\00:40:39.70 "You can't..." 00:40:39.73\00:40:41.07 Notice, if you compare verse 16 of chapter 2, 00:40:41.10\00:40:44.91 underline or circle, if you do that in your Bible, 00:40:44.94\00:40:47.41 or take notes. 00:40:47.44\00:40:48.78 God says, "You may." 00:40:49.28\00:40:51.81 Circle the words, "You may." 00:40:52.08\00:40:54.12 The devil, down in chapter 3 verse 1, says, "You shall not." 00:40:54.75\00:40:59.85 This is the difference between the biblical true view of 00:41:00.79\00:41:06.66 God's law and the demonic tweaking of God's law. 00:41:06.70\00:41:14.34 God is not a God of, He's not primarily, 00:41:14.54\00:41:18.07 He is not fundamentally a God of restriction. 00:41:18.11\00:41:20.41 He's a God of pleasure and liberty. 00:41:20.44\00:41:22.24 In fact, the New Testament calls God's law a 00:41:22.88\00:41:25.05 perfect law of liberty. 00:41:25.08\00:41:26.58 It's all about freedom, it's not about restriction. 00:41:26.92\00:41:29.32 And the only thing that God ever forbids 00:41:30.49\00:41:34.69 it that which would hurt us, that which would bring harm, 00:41:34.72\00:41:39.39 that which would break down the quality of our lives 00:41:39.43\00:41:43.80 and our capacity for pleasure and enjoyment in life. 00:41:43.83\00:41:48.94 Look now with me, if you don't mind, go quickly 00:41:49.20\00:41:53.61 over to Deuteronomy chapter 5. 00:41:53.64\00:41:57.38 And notice how God frames His law in chapter 5 of Deuteronomy. 00:41:57.58\00:42:02.52 You're going to love this. 00:42:02.55\00:42:03.89 This is just so important to understand 00:42:03.92\00:42:06.55 when we're dealing with the law of God. 00:42:06.59\00:42:08.52 And that's what this five part series is about. 00:42:08.56\00:42:10.66 Deuteronomy chapter 5 verse 29. 00:42:11.63\00:42:14.56 This should be foremost in our notes regarding the law of God. 00:42:14.86\00:42:20.10 And this is in quote marks in mine. 00:42:20.54\00:42:22.10 I'm using the New King James Version. 00:42:22.14\00:42:23.81 So Moses is literally quoting the Lord. 00:42:23.84\00:42:26.54 This is God talking directly. 00:42:26.84\00:42:28.74 And God says, verse 29, "Oh, that they had such a..." What? 00:42:28.94\00:42:35.12 "...such a heart in them that they would fear Me..." 00:42:35.38\00:42:39.95 That is, "with awe, reverence, and really understand 00:42:39.99\00:42:42.96 who I am to them." 00:42:42.99\00:42:44.33 "...that they would fear Me and always keep 00:42:44.49\00:42:48.76 My commandments..." Comma. 00:42:48.80\00:42:51.73 And what follows is brilliant. 00:42:51.87\00:42:53.37 God doesn't say, "Oh, that they would always 00:42:54.70\00:42:58.51 keep My commandments. 00:42:58.54\00:42:59.87 Because I'm God and they're not. 00:42:59.91\00:43:01.24 And by golly, they better do what I say." 00:43:01.28\00:43:02.81 It's not God framing our existence in terms of 00:43:04.71\00:43:09.18 restrictions for restrictions sake. 00:43:09.22\00:43:12.15 Do you hear my words? 00:43:12.42\00:43:13.76 He's not restrictive for restrictions sake. 00:43:13.86\00:43:18.43 No. 00:43:18.46\00:43:19.79 Here, God is saying, "Oh, I wish that they had a heart in them 00:43:19.83\00:43:25.07 that would keep all My commandments. 00:43:25.10\00:43:27.10 Not because I'm a micro-managing control freak." 00:43:27.14\00:43:30.01 Do you see the words after the comma? 00:43:31.47\00:43:33.41 "...that it might be well with them 00:43:35.44\00:43:40.72 and with their children forever." 00:43:40.75\00:43:43.45 What is God describing here? 00:43:44.19\00:43:46.05 God is saying, "Oh, how I wish that they had a heart in them." 00:43:46.25\00:43:52.46 Not just behavioral compliance. 00:43:52.79\00:43:54.86 Where is God trying to get? 00:43:54.90\00:43:56.26 Into our hearts. 00:43:56.53\00:43:57.90 "Oh that they had a heart in them to keep 00:43:58.57\00:44:00.87 all My commandments." 00:44:00.90\00:44:02.24 Why? What's God's motive? 00:44:02.27\00:44:03.67 "So that things would go really well for them, 00:44:04.77\00:44:07.08 and for their children. 00:44:07.54\00:44:08.91 Forever." 00:44:09.28\00:44:10.61 In other words, God is describing in the word, 00:44:10.71\00:44:13.62 "forever," the only way that life is ultimately sustainable. 00:44:13.65\00:44:19.02 With joy and pleasure and happiness. 00:44:19.05\00:44:21.09 Within the parameters of God's law there is vast freedom. 00:44:21.49\00:44:25.89 Let me give a simple example. 00:44:26.49\00:44:27.90 Our popular culture is obsessed with sexuality, 00:44:28.63\00:44:32.17 if you haven't noticed. 00:44:32.20\00:44:34.04 Billboards, magazines, television shows, music. 00:44:34.07\00:44:37.14 We live in a society that is just saturated 00:44:37.34\00:44:41.24 with smutty sexuality. 00:44:41.28\00:44:44.18 Now watch this. 00:44:44.58\00:44:45.91 The impression that's out there is that God's ways 00:44:45.95\00:44:50.79 with regards to sexuality are restrictive. 00:44:50.82\00:44:53.82 God says, "You shall not commit adultery." 00:44:55.22\00:44:58.59 And the world tilts their head and crosses their arms 00:44:58.76\00:45:02.63 and says, "Wow, that is so narrow minded. 00:45:02.66\00:45:08.04 Is God a party pooper or what?" 00:45:08.24\00:45:10.77 But here's the truth of the matter. 00:45:11.44\00:45:12.91 Listen to this. 00:45:13.17\00:45:14.51 When God says, "Here are the parameters for sexuality," 00:45:14.74\00:45:21.62 right, do you know what He's actually doing? 00:45:22.72\00:45:25.35 He's describing the parameters within which 00:45:25.82\00:45:30.66 great freedom can occur. 00:45:31.49\00:45:35.00 Because within a monogamous relationship for life 00:45:35.66\00:45:40.14 between one man and one woman... 00:45:40.17\00:45:42.24 Watch this. Here's what happens. 00:45:42.27\00:45:44.51 When a man and a woman mutually commit to one another, 00:45:44.54\00:45:48.44 they'll have some hard times. 00:45:48.48\00:45:49.81 After all, we're sinners. 00:45:49.84\00:45:51.18 We're messed from the word, go. 00:45:51.21\00:45:52.55 Look in the mirror, you're dysfunctional. 00:45:52.58\00:45:54.32 The fact is, that if God were to back up one little baby step 00:45:55.05\00:45:59.29 from you and me, you would lose it, and so would I. 00:45:59.32\00:46:01.72 We are one step away from insanity at any given moment. 00:46:02.16\00:46:06.09 But for the grace of God, there go I, there go you. 00:46:06.43\00:46:09.83 But when two people come together and they 00:46:10.17\00:46:11.70 make a commitment, here's what happens. 00:46:11.73\00:46:13.47 The commitment itself, that is, the relational faithfulness... 00:46:14.47\00:46:19.51 That's what we're talking about here. 00:46:19.54\00:46:20.88 That commitment itself will be tried. 00:46:21.01\00:46:23.68 But if they continue to be committed to one another, 00:46:23.71\00:46:26.95 and at the point of stress don't give up, 00:46:26.98\00:46:30.19 there are levels of trust and security right around 00:46:30.82\00:46:36.62 the corner that would never be possible 00:46:36.66\00:46:39.86 if you throw in the towel at the two year point 00:46:39.89\00:46:43.63 or the three year point or the seven year point 00:46:43.67\00:46:46.00 where you just can't stand him anymore. 00:46:46.03\00:46:48.44 Well, if you keep working through it... 00:46:49.97\00:46:53.38 And there are exceptions of abuse and just on going 00:46:53.41\00:46:57.88 terrible, terrible treatment. 00:46:58.21\00:46:59.71 There is the exception of adultery. 00:46:59.75\00:47:02.78 But even that is a question that we could explore further. 00:47:02.82\00:47:05.15 But listen carefully to me. 00:47:05.19\00:47:06.86 People who give up in a relationship 00:47:07.96\00:47:10.66 never know what it's like to have the level of security 00:47:11.43\00:47:16.10 and trust and relational bliss that is only for those 00:47:16.36\00:47:21.80 who stay committed to one another for life. 00:47:22.00\00:47:24.31 Verses those who enter into one relationship, 00:47:24.64\00:47:27.68 and when it gets tough they give up and they move on. 00:47:27.71\00:47:29.58 And they have another relationship, 00:47:29.61\00:47:30.95 and it gets tough and they give up. 00:47:30.98\00:47:32.31 And they're called, serial daters. 00:47:32.35\00:47:34.08 I don't know what it has to do with cereal. 00:47:34.12\00:47:35.78 No, that's serial with an "s". 00:47:35.88\00:47:37.22 Okay, so they get together and they break up, 00:47:37.25\00:47:40.02 and get together and break up, and get together and break up. 00:47:40.06\00:47:41.92 And what are they never, ever, ever, ever experiencing 00:47:41.96\00:47:44.89 psychologically, emotionally, relationally? 00:47:44.93\00:47:46.96 Where do they never go? 00:47:47.16\00:47:49.13 They never go to the point where they bond 00:47:49.56\00:47:53.20 at the deepest possible level where you know security 00:47:53.23\00:47:56.67 and trust in ways that you never thought possible. 00:47:56.71\00:48:00.94 So when God says, "Here are the parameters for sexuality," 00:48:01.34\00:48:05.51 He's not trying to make life hard and miserable. 00:48:05.55\00:48:08.82 He's saying, "No, no, no, no. Listen to Me, listen to Me. 00:48:08.92\00:48:11.89 Faithful committed love will pay dividends." 00:48:12.52\00:48:17.56 There is nothing more beautiful, this couple that I met 00:48:19.06\00:48:22.40 not long ago, there's nothing more... 00:48:22.43\00:48:23.93 This man, this woman, they have been married 00:48:24.03\00:48:26.67 approximately forever. 00:48:26.70\00:48:28.07 These guys are so old, I have never seen in close proximity 00:48:29.04\00:48:33.07 people this old before. 00:48:33.11\00:48:34.54 These people informed me, this man and woman, 00:48:34.88\00:48:38.41 that they had been married, married for 60 years. 00:48:38.45\00:48:42.82 If you can even imagine that. 00:48:42.85\00:48:44.32 And this brother is still holding her hand. 00:48:45.42\00:48:47.26 And I'll tell you what. 00:48:47.29\00:48:48.62 One of the most beautiful things you will ever witness 00:48:48.66\00:48:50.46 is elderly people who are still head over heels 00:48:50.66\00:48:54.10 in love with one another. 00:48:54.13\00:48:55.46 And if you will ask and you will explore, you will find out 00:48:55.53\00:48:57.87 they had some hard times. 00:48:57.90\00:48:59.50 Most men are jerks and need to be educated 00:48:59.53\00:49:03.67 by their wife in order to overcome some things 00:49:03.77\00:49:07.08 that are embedded in malehood. 00:49:07.11\00:49:09.14 And if she's patient, and if he is able to be taught, 00:49:09.34\00:49:14.95 it's amazing the beauty that develops as they age together. 00:49:15.15\00:49:20.36 Now nobody has that outside the parameters of God's law. 00:49:20.49\00:49:24.19 When God says, "This is My will for you," He's saying, 00:49:24.53\00:49:27.76 "It's so that it will go well for you. 00:49:28.26\00:49:30.37 I want things to go really great for you. 00:49:30.67\00:49:32.93 That's My goal for you." 00:49:32.97\00:49:34.54 This is one of my favorite verses on the law of God, 00:49:34.74\00:49:37.51 go to Psalm 119. 00:49:37.54\00:49:39.27 This is going to, this is just going to take it 00:49:39.31\00:49:41.24 to a whole new level. 00:49:41.28\00:49:42.74 Look at Psalm 119, and wow, verse 32. 00:49:43.11\00:49:50.75 Astounding. 00:49:51.02\00:49:52.49 Don't forget this one. 00:49:53.96\00:49:55.29 If you forget all the others that we've explored, 00:49:55.32\00:49:57.29 don't miss Psalm 119 and verse 32. 00:49:57.33\00:50:02.26 Look at this, wow. 00:50:02.30\00:50:03.83 Okay, I'm going to begin with the New King James Version. 00:50:04.80\00:50:08.30 Alright, here's what it says in the New King James Version. 00:50:08.60\00:50:11.17 David is contemplating God's law, and he says, 00:50:12.14\00:50:15.58 "I will run in the course of Your commandments, 00:50:15.61\00:50:21.45 for You have enlarged my heart." 00:50:22.05\00:50:26.22 Do you like that language? 00:50:26.72\00:50:28.06 "I will run in the course of Your commandments, 00:50:28.19\00:50:32.63 because You have enlarged my heart." 00:50:32.73\00:50:34.86 Let's just unpack that for a minute. 00:50:34.90\00:50:36.26 Think this through carefully. 00:50:36.30\00:50:37.63 If you were in a room that is ten feet by ten feet, 00:50:38.07\00:50:41.84 or even twelve by twelve, or even fourteen by fourteen, 00:50:41.87\00:50:45.27 can you run? 00:50:46.24\00:50:47.58 No, you can't run. 00:50:49.78\00:50:51.11 Even if there's no furniture. 00:50:51.15\00:50:52.65 Go against the back wall, and right over there is the 00:50:52.68\00:50:55.88 next wall ten feet ahead, twelve feet ahead. 00:50:55.92\00:50:58.39 Just go ahead, just sprint. 00:50:58.42\00:51:00.49 Boom, you're going to hit the wall. 00:51:01.19\00:51:03.22 You can't work up momentum. 00:51:03.46\00:51:05.79 You can't get your legs moving underneath you. 00:51:05.83\00:51:08.73 You can't run in a restricted area. 00:51:08.76\00:51:12.33 You have to have space in which to run. 00:51:13.10\00:51:16.94 Am I right? Yeah. 00:51:16.97\00:51:18.77 So David says here, this is remarkable, 00:51:18.97\00:51:22.04 He says, "I will run in the course of Your commandments." 00:51:22.08\00:51:27.62 David perceives the commandments of God as a large horizon 00:51:27.65\00:51:33.69 of freedom, not a restricted small area to deal in. 00:51:33.72\00:51:40.36 It's big, God's law. 00:51:40.80\00:51:43.33 When God says, "You shall not bear false witness 00:51:44.07\00:51:47.60 against your neighbor," you know what He's doing? 00:51:47.64\00:51:49.87 He's saying, "If you always tell the truth 00:51:50.07\00:51:52.87 and you deal with integrity with everyone around you, 00:51:52.91\00:51:56.98 that will open them up relationally to you, 00:51:57.01\00:52:00.85 and your parameters for trust will expand. 00:52:00.88\00:52:06.12 If you'll do business that way." 00:52:06.92\00:52:08.96 Stephen Covey, the late Stephen Covey who wrote one of the 00:52:09.49\00:52:14.23 best selling business books of all time, 00:52:14.26\00:52:16.00 The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, 00:52:16.03\00:52:18.53 one of the seven habits is what he calls, the win-win principle. 00:52:18.77\00:52:23.14 He basically says... 00:52:23.17\00:52:24.64 I don't know if he knows he's tapping into 00:52:24.67\00:52:26.91 Scripture on this or not. 00:52:26.94\00:52:28.28 I don't know what he was thinking. 00:52:28.31\00:52:29.64 But he basically says, every single business deal 00:52:29.68\00:52:33.28 that you conduct in life should be a win-win situation. 00:52:33.31\00:52:37.65 A win for you, but you deliberately make sure 00:52:37.69\00:52:41.92 the other person wins too. 00:52:41.96\00:52:44.63 Don't ever take advantage of anybody. 00:52:44.76\00:52:46.73 Don't ever cut a deal where there is a lack of integrity. 00:52:46.76\00:52:52.00 And you know what he goes on to describe? 00:52:52.80\00:52:54.50 Your business will boom. 00:52:55.20\00:52:56.81 It will expand. 00:52:57.31\00:52:58.64 People will want to do business with you. 00:52:58.67\00:53:01.04 Because they know that you will not violate them relationally. 00:53:01.24\00:53:05.18 They will know that you're the kind of person 00:53:05.21\00:53:07.68 who has their best interest at heart. 00:53:07.72\00:53:10.35 Isn't that amazing? 00:53:10.69\00:53:12.02 So God's law is this huge vast expansive horizon of liberty 00:53:12.12\00:53:20.00 that involves security and trust and fidelity 00:53:20.03\00:53:23.83 and loyalty in relationships. 00:53:23.87\00:53:26.13 You know how your life ends up restricted and small? 00:53:26.23\00:53:29.60 By violating people. 00:53:30.74\00:53:32.27 One after another they will back up from you. 00:53:33.01\00:53:37.01 And sin always incrementally leads to isolation. 00:53:38.05\00:53:43.92 People pull back from people who violate them. 00:53:44.35\00:53:48.79 And you do it as well. 00:53:48.99\00:53:50.66 There's restriction in sin. 00:53:51.46\00:53:53.40 There is freedom in God's love, in God's law. 00:53:53.43\00:53:58.33 He says, "I will run in the course of Your commandments." 00:53:58.37\00:54:01.40 And this is amazing, he says, 00:54:01.57\00:54:03.17 "For You shall enlarge my heart." 00:54:03.20\00:54:06.71 Isn't that something? 00:54:06.84\00:54:08.18 How many of you want to have a larger heart? 00:54:08.21\00:54:09.58 I was in an airport recently. 00:54:09.61\00:54:11.31 Because I'm always recently in an airport. 00:54:11.35\00:54:13.82 And while I was there, I saw a man speaking very 00:54:13.85\00:54:19.02 disrespectfully to what appeared to have been his wife. 00:54:19.05\00:54:22.82 Just right in public being rude and mean to her. 00:54:23.29\00:54:27.96 And then I noticed a little boy with his mom. 00:54:28.36\00:54:31.47 And they were completely unrelated. 00:54:31.50\00:54:33.07 But the little boy was just watching, 00:54:33.10\00:54:35.10 and I'm over here on this side. 00:54:35.14\00:54:36.74 So there's me, there's the mom and little boy, 00:54:36.77\00:54:38.94 and then there's this going on. 00:54:38.97\00:54:40.51 And the little boy says to his mom, 00:54:40.68\00:54:43.51 "Mommy, I think he needs to get a bigger heart." 00:54:43.55\00:54:47.62 What does it mean when God says that within His law 00:54:50.09\00:54:55.22 He will enlarge our hearts? 00:54:55.26\00:54:57.89 We began our time together in this particular message 00:54:58.36\00:55:03.73 by pointing out that we cringe at pain and suffering 00:55:03.77\00:55:07.70 and relational breakdown. 00:55:07.74\00:55:09.44 But we also pointed out that if you continue doing 00:55:10.51\00:55:13.94 those things that violate others in order to 00:55:14.68\00:55:17.65 justify self, we put up all kinds of psychological 00:55:17.68\00:55:22.15 survival mechanisms to shield ourselves from our own guilt. 00:55:22.25\00:55:25.79 And we become increasingly insensitive. 00:55:25.95\00:55:28.49 Part of the new covenant, part of the writing of 00:55:30.66\00:55:33.53 God's law in the deep interior of our hearts and minds, 00:55:33.56\00:55:38.23 it that it makes us sensitive again. 00:55:38.63\00:55:40.67 The stony heart is replaced with a heart of flesh. 00:55:41.90\00:55:47.21 We become sensitive again. 00:55:47.61\00:55:49.34 Empathy begins to develop. 00:55:49.58\00:55:52.71 We begin to feel what other people feel 00:55:52.75\00:55:57.29 within God's law. 00:55:57.62\00:56:00.06 I want you to imagine, in closing, a society, 00:56:00.66\00:56:05.83 a city maybe the size of St. Louis, in which 00:56:05.86\00:56:10.40 every husband and wife are head over heels in love, 00:56:10.53\00:56:16.57 and enjoy one another's company. 00:56:16.67\00:56:18.54 A city in which every parent/child relationship 00:56:19.44\00:56:23.45 is one in which the parents and the children 00:56:23.48\00:56:28.45 enjoy one another and never violate one another. 00:56:28.98\00:56:32.22 A society in which nobody ever lies, or steals, 00:56:32.79\00:56:37.23 or even wants anybody else's stuff. 00:56:37.26\00:56:39.83 "That's you stuff. Cool. 00:56:39.93\00:56:41.36 I'm happy with my stuff, perfectly contend with my stuff. 00:56:41.46\00:56:44.13 Don't want your stuff." 00:56:44.17\00:56:45.50 Imagine a society like that. 00:56:46.03\00:56:49.80 And ask yourself the question, "Would I want to live there?" 00:56:50.11\00:56:53.17 And of course, anybody in their right mind would say, 00:56:53.21\00:56:55.38 "Yeah, bring it on." 00:56:55.41\00:56:56.75 But what the world doesn't realize is, 00:56:57.15\00:56:58.85 all we've just described is the law of God 00:56:58.88\00:57:04.45 in action in a human society. 00:57:05.55\00:57:08.79 Is it any wonder that the Bible says 00:57:09.32\00:57:12.29 that, "The law of the Lord is perfect, converting the soul." 00:57:12.59\00:57:17.73 It's a good law. 00:57:17.97\00:57:19.30 And it's a law in which there is no harm. 00:57:19.63\00:57:23.27 Would you pray with me. 00:57:23.47\00:57:24.81 Father in heaven, thank You for loving us the way You do. 00:57:24.84\00:57:29.51