Amazing Facts Presents

Adultery, Loyalty and Love

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01:00 >>THIS PRESENTATION IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY THE FRIENDS
01:03 OF THE AMAZING FACTS MINISTRY.
01:11 >>CAN A PERSON HAVE A PERVERTED APPETITE FOR FOOD? YEAH.
01:14 CAN A PERSON BE A GLUTTON? SAME THINGS WITH THE DESIRES
01:18 FOR SEX. EVERYTHING GOOD THAT GOD HAS
01:20 MADE, THE DEVIL HAS SOUGHT TO CORRUPT.
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01:46 >>WE'RE CONTINUING WITH OUR SERIES TALKING ABOUT THESE LAWS
01:49 OF LOVE AND LIBERTY. AND TODAY, IN PARTICULAR,
01:52 WE ARE ON COMMANDMENT #7. SOME OF YOU, IF YOU KNOW YOUR
01:58 BIBLES AND YOU LEARNED THIS GROWING UP AND GOING TO CHURCH,
02:01 YOU KNOW WHAT THAT IS. IT'S ONLY FIVE WORDS.
02:05 SOMETIMES PEOPLE LEAVE ONE OF THOSE WORDS OUT.
02:08 'THOU SHALT NOT COMMIT ADULTERY.' YOU KNOW, IT'S
02:14 POSSIBLE TO BE DISTRACTED TO DEATH. THAT'S RIGHT.
02:21 I UNDERSTAND EVERY YEAR THAT AROUND NORTH AMERICA AND
02:24 PROBABLY IN MANY PARTS OF THE WORLD, THAT THE CASUALTY OF DEER
02:29 SPIKES. JUST IN ILLINOIS, FOR INSTANCE,
02:33 THEY REPORT MORE THAN 17,000 DEER DIE EACH YEAR AFTER BEING
02:37 STRUCK BY MOTORISTS AND CARS. MOST OF THE TIME IT'S IN THE
02:42 FALL. DO YOU KNOW WHY?
02:45 THAT'S WHEN THE BUCKS ARE GOING THROUGH THE RUT SEASON.
02:49 THEY ARE PREOCCUPIED WITH MATING.
02:53 AND BECAUSE OF THAT PREOCCUPATION AND THEY BECOME SO
02:56 CONCERNED ABOUT THEIR TERRITORY AND THEY CAN BECOME SO CONCERNED
03:01 ABOUT OTHER BUCKS, THEY'LL GET ENGAGED IN EITHER FIGHTING
03:05 ANOTHER BUCK OR FOLLOWING A DOE AND THEY DON'T EVEN CARE IF A
03:08 SEMI IS COMING DOWN THE ROAD AND THEY GET TO WHERE THEY ARE
03:12 DISTRACTED TO DEATH. UNFORTUNATELY, THIS PROBLEM DOES
03:16 NOT JUST HAPPEN WITH DEER. AND IT DOESN'T JUST HAPPEN WITH
03:21 BUCKS. IT HAPPENS WITH HUMAN BUCKS AND DOES. THEY CAN BECOME
03:27 SO PREOCCUPIED WITH THE OPPOSITE SEX THAT IT BECOMES
03:31 SPIRITUALLY FATAL. AND YOU CAN FIND THE RECORD OF
03:36 THIS IN THE BIBLE. OF COURSE THE COMMAND - EXODUS 20:14 -
03:42 "THOU SHALT NOT COMMIT ADULTERY". WHAT IS ADULTERY?
03:48 DEFINITION - AND THERE'S A DISTINCTION BETWEEN THE WORDS
03:51 'ADULTERY' AND 'FORNICATION'. THEY BOTH FALL UNDER THE SEVENTH
03:54 COMMANDMENT. ADULTERY IS VOLUNTARY SEXUAL
03:57 INTIMACY BETWEEN A MARRIED PERSON AND A PARTNER OTHER THAN
04:01 THE LAWFUL SPOUSE. WHEREAS FORNICATION IS SEXUAL
04:05 INTERCOURSE BETWEEN PARTNERS WHO ARE NOT MARRIED TO EACH OTHER.
04:10 AND BOTH ARE CLEARLY FORBIDDEN IN THE BIBLE.
04:13 YOU CAN FIND, FOR INSTANCE, IN GALATIANS 5:19, "NOW THE WORKS
04:16 OF THE FLESH ARE EVIDENT, WHICH ARE: ADULTERY, FORNICATION," -
04:21 RIGHT THERE HE MAKES A DISTINCTION, DOESN'T HE?
04:23 - "ADULTERY, FORNICATION, UNCLEANNESS, LEWDNESS" - AND
04:26 THAT'S TALKING ABOUT OBSCENE BEHAVIOR - DIRTY JOKES IS LEWD
04:29 BEHAVIOR. 1 CORINTHIANS 6, VERSES 9 AND
04:34 10, "DO YOU NOT KNOW THAT THE UNRIGHTEOUS WILL NOT INHERIT THE
04:38 KINGDOM OF GOD? DO NOT BE DECEIVED.
04:41 NEITHER FORNICATORS, NOR IDOLATERS, NOR ADULTERERS, NOR
04:45 HOMOSEXUALS, NOR SODOMITES WILL INHERIT THE KINGDOM OF GOD."
04:49 AND I WANT TO INCLUDE - SO THAT PEOPLE DON'T LOSE HOPE - "AND
04:53 SUCH WERE SOME OF YOU." PAUL WRITES TO THE CORINTHIAN
04:56 CHURCH - THEY HAD ALL KINDS OF PROBLEMS THERE.
04:59 NOT ONLY WITH HOMOSEXUALITY BUT WITH FORNICATION, WITH ADULTERY
05:02 AND THEN PAUL GOES ON TO SAY "AND SUCH WERE" - PAST TENSE -
05:07 "SOME OF YOU. BUT YOU'VE BEEN WASHED, BUT YOU
05:10 WERE SANCTIFIED," - YOU'VE BEEN CLEANSED THROUGH POWER OF GOD.
05:13 AND SO, AS WE TALK ABOUT THIS SUBJECT, AS WITH THE OTHER SINS
05:17 - YOU KNOW WHEN WE TALK ABOUT THE TEN COMMANDMENTS, NONE OF
05:19 THEM ARE CALLED THE UNPARDONABLE SIN, BUT THEY ARE CALLED SIN AND
05:25 SIN IS DEADLY IF IT IS NOT REPENTED OF AND FORSAKEN.
05:30 AND JESUS CAME TO SAVE US NOT IN OUR SINS, BUT THE ANGEL SAID HE
05:33 CAME TO SAVE US FROM OUR SINS - AND THIS IS ONE OF THOSE SINS -
05:39 ADULTERY. PROVERBS 6, VERSE 32, "WHOEVER
05:43 COMMITS ADULTERY WITH A WOMAN LACKS UNDERSTANDING; HE WHO DOES
05:47 SO DESTROYS HIS OWN SOUL." IT NOT ONLY HAS SOMETIMES
05:53 PHYSICAL RAMIFICATIONS AND SOCIAL RAMIFICATIONS,
05:56 IT DEFINITELY HAS SPIRITUAL RAMIFICATIONS.
06:00 KEEP IN MIND, MARRIAGE WAS PART OF GOD'S PERFECT PLAN.
06:03 IT HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH REDEMPTION.
06:06 IT WAS A SACRED ORDINANCE OF GOD WHEN WE HAD A PERFECT WORLD AND
06:11 IT IS STILL PART OF HIS PERFECT PLAN.
06:16 MARRIAGE DOESN'T HAVE TO DO WITH BEING SAVED BECAUSE MAN HAD NOT
06:19 FALLEN YET WHEN GOD INTRODUCED MARRIAGE.
06:23 IT'S SOMETHING THAT IS HOLY BECAUSE IT EXISTED BEFORE THERE
06:26 WAS EVEN SIN IN THE WORLD. AND WHEN WE'RE INVITED TO
06:29 PARTICIPATE IN MARRIAGE AND WHEN WE MAKE THESE COVENANTS - IT'S
06:32 NOT JUST A PROMISE, IT'S A COVENANT WITH ANOTHER PERSON
06:35 BEFORE WITNESSES IN THE PRESENCE OF GOD.
06:40 SO GOD HAS MADE MARRIAGE, IT'S PART OF HIS PERFECT PLAN AND HE
06:44 HAS CREATED US WITH A DESIRE FOR THE OPPOSITE SEX PARTLY TO
06:50 PROCREATE. YOU KNOW, IF IT WASN'T FOR THAT
06:53 SEXUAL DESIRE, VIRTUALLY NONE OF US WOULD BE HERE.
06:57 ISN'T THAT RIGHT? AND IF IT WASN'T FOR HUNGER YOU
07:00 PROBABLY WOULDN'T BE HERE ALSO. GOD GAVE YOU THE DESIRE TO
07:03 HUNGER FOR FOOD OR YOU WOULD EVENTUALLY DIE OUT.
07:07 AND HE ALSO PLANTED WITHIN US THIS HEALTHY, HOLY DESIRE FOR
07:11 SEX THAT, GOVERNED BY A SANCTIFIED MIND,
07:15 IS A GOOD THING. SEX IS NOT SOMETHING THE DEVIL
07:18 INVENTED SO WE'VE GOT TO BE CAREFUL TO NOT COMMUNICATE THAT.
07:22 SEX IS A BEAUTIFUL THING THE WAY - WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT IT - HOW
07:27 TWO PEOPLE COME TOGETHER THROUGH AN ACT OF LOVE AND EMBRACE AND
07:32 THEY ARE ABLE TO REPRODUCE ANOTHER PERSON.
07:36 IT'S A BEAUTIFUL THING IN THE CONTEXT THAT GOD HAS DESIGNED.
07:40 BUT THE DEVIL HAS SUCCEEDED IN MAKING IT UGLY AND DIRTY AND HE
07:43 CAN - THE DEVIL CAN WARP AND PERVERT EVERYTHING THAT GOD
07:47 MAKES. CAN A PERSON HAVE A PERVERTED APPETITE FOR FOOD?
07:51 YEAH. CAN A PERSON BE A GLUTTON?
07:53 SAME THING WITH THE DESIRES FOR SEX.
07:56 EVERYTHING GOOD THAT GOD HAS MADE, THE DEVIL HAS SOUGHT TO
07:58 CORRUPT, INCLUDING MARRIAGE AND THAT INSTITUTION AND THOSE
08:03 DESIRES. THOSE DESIRES MUST BE
08:05 RESTRAINED, AS WITH THE DESIRES FOR FOOD.
08:08 IF THEY'RE NOT, THERE ARE CONSEQUENCES FOR THAT.
08:11 THE BIBLE TELLS US IN HEBREWS 13:4, "MARRIAGE IS HONORABLE
08:17 AMONG ALL, AND THE BED UNDEFILED; BUT FORNICATORS AND
08:21 ADULTERERS GOD WILL JUDGE." GENESIS 2:18, "AND THE LORD GOD
08:26 SAID, 'IT IS NOT GOOD THAT MAN SHOULD BE ALONE;" -
08:28 I READ THAT TO YOU ALREADY. 1 CORINTHIANS 7:9, IT SAYS THAT
08:33 "...IF THEY CANNOT EXERCISE SELF-CONTROL, LET THEM MARRY.
08:36 FOR IT IS BETTER TO MARRY THAN TO BURN WITH PASSION."
08:40 YOU KNOW, I'VE GOT A QUOTE HERE FROM C.S. LEWIS. HE SAYS,
08:43 "EITHER MARRIAGE WITH COMPLETE FAITHFULNESS TO YOUR PARTNER OR
08:46 TOTAL ABSTINENCE. THOSE ARE THE ONLY OPTIONS FOR THE BELIEVER."
08:50 AND YOU CAN'T BE MAKING EXCUSES, 'WELL, I'M SINGLE, GOD DOESN'T
08:53 EXPECT ME TO JUST BE ABSTINENT AND SO I'M GOING TO GO OUT AND
08:57 HIRE A PROSTITUTE - MALE OR FEMALE.
09:00 I MEAN, THAT'S WHERE THAT LOGIC WILL TAKE YOU.
09:03 GOD EXPECTS US TO USE SELF-CONTROL. DID JESUS?
09:09 DO YOU THINK THAT JESUS WASN'T TEMPTED IN ALL POINTS AS WE ARE?
09:12 THE BIBLE SAYS HE WAS. BUT HE LIVED A HOLY LIFE.
09:15 AND SO CAN WE.
09:17 WHEN YOU'RE A CHRISTIAN 'OLD THINGS PASS AWAY, ALL THINGS ARE
09:19 MADE NEW.' NOW I'M TAKING THIS LITTLE RABBIT TRAIL TO JUST
09:22 REINFORCE THE PRINCIPLE THAT EVERYBODY THAT IS HUMAN IS GOING
09:27 TO BE TEMPTED AND THE DEVIL IS EVEN GOING TO TEMPT PEOPLE
09:31 WITHIN GOOD CHRISTIAN MARRIAGES TO THINK THINGS THEY SHOULDN'T
09:33 THINK. DON'T FALL FOR THE IDEA THAT YOU ARE A VICTIM AND YOU
09:37 ARE HELPLESS AND YOU CAN'T MAKE CHOICES. EVERYBODY CAN MAKE
09:41 CHOICES. PEOPLE WHO FALL INTO ADULTERY USUALLY HAVE MADE A
09:45 SERIES OF CHOICES. THEY ARE FIRST USUALLY STEPPING OVER
09:51 THE LINE TO BECOMING TOO FRIENDLY OR TOO FAMILIAR.
09:54 VERY RARELY DOES IT HAPPEN JUST SUDDENLY UNEXPECTEDLY.
09:58 PEOPLE, LITTLE BY LITTLE, START OPENING THE DOOR TO A FORBIDDEN
10:01 RELATIONSHIP AND THEY START MAKING FRIENDS WITH THE OPPOSITE
10:05 SEX WHILE THEY'RE MARRIED AND THEY START BECOMING INTIMATE
10:10 AND SHARING INTIMATE DETAILS AND THEY SAY, 'OH, BUT HE JUST MAKES
10:14 ME FEEL SO GOOD AND THEN I GO HOME AND MY HUSBAND IS SO CRABBY
10:18 AND MEAN AND UNAPPRECIATIVE AND THIS PERSON IS SO NICE'.
10:20 AND THE DEVIL WILL START GETTING YOU TO MAKE THESE COMPARISONS
10:24 AND EXCUSES AND YOU CAN EVEN CONVINCE YOURSELF, 'YOU KNOW, I
10:28 THINK THE LORD IS LEADING ME IN THIS.
10:31 I KNOW THE BIBLE SAYS ONE THING, BUT IN MY SPIRIT' - PEOPLE
10:35 CONFUSE A LOT OF THINGS FOR THE SPIRIT.
10:37 TOO MUCH PIZZA CAN MAKE YOU THINK THE SPIRIT IS LEADING YOU
10:42 AND JUST SO, YOU KNOW, IF IT'S NOT IN THE WORD, FRIENDS, DON'T
10:46 FALL FOR THAT. GOD'S SPIRIT IS NEVER GOING TO
10:48 LEAD CONTRARY TO GOD'S WORD. YOU KNOW, ONE OF THE WAYS WE
10:53 LEARN HOW TO BE CHRISTIANS IS THROUGH LOVING THE LORD AND
10:56 LOVING EACH OTHER. THE BIBLE SAYS YOU'VE GOT TO
10:58 LOVE THE LORD AND LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR.
11:00 WHO CAN BE MORE - A CLOSER NEIGHBOR THAN YOUR SPOUSE?
11:05 HOW CAN YOU SAY YOU LOVE GOD WHO YOU CAN'T SEE WHEN YOU CAN'T
11:08 LOVE YOUR SPOUSE THAT YOU'VE MADE A COVENANT WITH.
11:12 AND IF THE BIBLE TELLS US TO LOVE OUR ENEMIES THEN WHAT
11:15 EXCUSE DO YOU HAVE FOR NOT LOVING YOUR SPOUSE?
11:18 >>ONE OF THE MOST COMMON QUESTIONS WE GET HERE AT AMAZING
11:20 FACTS IS REGARDING TROUBLED MARRIAGES.
11:23 PEOPLE ARE STRUGGLING IN THEIR FAMILIES.
11:26 WE KNOW ABOUT HALF OF THE AMERICAN MARRIAGES
11:28 END IN DIVORCE. DOES THE BIBLE OFFER SOME ANSWERS? ABSOLUTELY.
11:32 IN THE SCRIPTURES, THERE ARE KEYS TO MAKE A GOOD MARRIAGE
11:35 BETTER AND TO HELP REDEEM AND SALVAGE A TROUBLED MARRIAGE.
11:38 WE'D LIKE TO SEND YOU THIS SPECIAL STUDY GUIDE,
11:41 'KEYS FOR A HAPPY MARRIAGE'.
11:42 YOU'LL LOOK AT THE SCRIPTURES HERE THAT WILL REALLY GIVE YOU
11:45 THE POWER TO DO SOME PRACTICAL THINGS TO INSPIRE,
11:48 ENCOURAGE, HEAL, STRENGTHEN YOUR MARRIAGES.
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12:00 AND FRIENDS, WHEN YOU RECEIVE THIS FREE RESOURCE, PLEASE READ
12:03 IT AND THEN SHARE IT WITH A FRIEND. WE WANT TO GET THE WORD
12:05 OUT BECAUSE GOD'S MESSAGE IS OUR MISSION.
12:11 NOW THERE ARE BIBLE GROUNDS FOR DIVORCE. WHAT DOES JESUS SAY?
12:14 IF YOU HAVE YOUR BIBLES YOU GO TO MATTHEW 19, VERSE 9, "AND I
12:19 SAY TO YOU, WHOEVER DIVORCES HIS WIFE, EXCEPT FOR SEXUAL
12:23 IMMORALITY, AND MARRIES ANOTHER, COMMITS ADULTERY;" I KNOW, EVEN
12:27 AS I SPEAK ABOUT THIS, A LOT OF PEOPLE HERE YOU - STATISTICALLY
12:32 40% OF EVEN PRACTICING CHRISTIANS THAT ARE OF MARRYABLE
12:37 AGE OR HAVE BEEN MARRIED HAVE EXPERIENCED THAT.
12:40 AND SO WE'RE NOT HERE TO CONDEMN, WE'RE HERE TO TELL YOU
12:43 WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS AND THAT WE'RE TO BE CHRISTIANS.
12:46 THE BIBLICAL GROUNDS FOR DIVORCE AND, BY THE WAY, IF THERE HAS
12:50 BEEN MARITAL INFIDELITY, IF THERE HAS BEEN SEXUAL INFIDELITY
12:54 IN A MARRIAGE, IT DOESN'T MEAN YOU HAVE TO GET DIVORCED.
12:59 THERE CAN STILL BE FORGIVENESS AND HEALING.
13:02 HAVE YOU READ THE BOOK OF HOSEA? WHERE EVEN AFTER HIS WIFE WAS
13:05 UNFAITHFUL - AND BY THE WAY, WE'RE THE BRIDE OF CHRIST, THE
13:09 CHURCH, AND HAS THE CHURCH BEEN UNFAITHFUL?
13:11 LOOK AT THE HISTORY OF ISRAEL. SO OFTEN THEY WENT AFTER OTHER
13:14 GODS AND HE WOULD FORGIVE THEM AND BRING THEM BACK AGAIN.
13:17 AND SO CAN EVEN THIS BE HEALED AND THIS BE FORGIVEN?
13:21 YES IT CAN.
13:23 AND SO YOU LOOK HERE IN MALACHI CHAPTER 2, VERSE 16, "'FOR THE
13:28 LORD GOD OF ISRAEL SAYS THAT HE HATES DIVORCE, FOR IT COVERS
13:32 ONE'S GARMENT WITH VIOLENCE,' SAYS THE LORD OF HOSTS."
13:36 THE REASONS FOR REMARRIAGE, BIBLICALLY, IS IF YOUR SPOUSE
13:41 HAS DIED - PAUL TALKS ABOUT THAT.
13:45 IF YOU - IF THE MARRIAGE COVENANT HAS BEEN VIOLATED
13:48 THROUGH ADULTERY AND IF THERE IS ANY HOPE OF RECONCILIATION - IF
13:54 THERE'S ANY REDEEMABLE QUALITIES, THE BEST THING YOU
13:56 CAN DO AS A CHRISTIAN IS SAVE THE MARRIAGE.
13:59 STARTING OVER IS TOUGH.
14:02 AND SOMETIMES YOU MIGHT HAVE GROUNDS FOR SEPARATION AND WE'LL
14:06 TALK ABOUT THAT IN JUST A MOMENT.
14:08 AND, YOU KNOW, AT SOME POINT, IF THE CHURCH IS NOT GOING TO BE
14:11 THE PLACE WHERE GOD SAYS, 'HERE IS THE LINE OF WHAT'S
14:14 APPROPRIATE AND THIS IS A COVENANT AND IT'S IMPORTANT AND
14:17 IT MEANS SOMETHING, THEN WHERE IN OUR CULTURE CAN WE LOOK?
14:21 TELL ME. IF IT'S NOT GOING TO HAPPEN IN THE CHURCH WHERE
14:24 YOU'RE GOING TO DRAW A LINE AND SAY, 'MARRIAGE IS SACRED.
14:26 IT IS HOLY. IT IS TO BE PRESERVED.' EVEN IF IT MEANS AT
14:30 THE INCONVENIENCE OF SOME, THIS INSTITUTION MUST BE
14:33 CAREFULLY GUARDED. IF NOT AT THE CHURCH, THEN WHERE?
14:37 WHERE ARE WE GOING TO GO? TELEVISION?
14:39 WHERE ONE GUY'S GOT FOUR WIVES? WHERE ARE WE GOING TO GO TO
14:43 EXALT MARRIAGE TO THE HOLY PLACE WHERE IT BELONGS?
14:49 IT'S HERE, ISN'T IT? IT'S IN GOD'S WORD.
14:51 IT'S IN THE CHURCH. AND SO THIS IS THE IDEAL.
14:57 NOW MARRIAGE IS NOT JUST - ADULTERY IS NOT JUST SOMETHING
15:00 THAT IS REVEALED IN AN ACTION. JESUS ALSO TEACHES US THAT
15:05 ADULTERY CAN HAPPEN IN AN ATTITUDE, RIGHT?
15:09 MATTHEW CHAPTER 5, VERSE 27, "YE HAVE HEARD THAT IT WAS SAID BY
15:12 THEM OF OLD TIME, THOU SHALT NOT COMMIT ADULTERY:" - WHEN HE SAYS
15:15 'THEM OF OLD' HE'S ACTUALLY QUOTING HIMSELF IN THE TEN
15:17 COMMANDMENTS - "BUT I SAY UNTO YOU, THAT WHOSOEVER LOOKETH ON A
15:21 WOMAN TO LUST AFTER HER HATH COMMITTED ADULTERY WITH HER
15:25 ALREADY IN HIS HEART." NOW, IF A PERSON THINKS A
15:31 LUSTFUL THOUGHT, AND IF YOU CAN PROVE YOUR SPOUSE HAS THOUGHT A
15:35 LUSTFUL THOUGHT, AND SINCE JESUS SAYS THEY'VE COMMITTED ADULTERY
15:38 IN THEIR HEART, DO YOU NOW HAVE GROUNDS FOR DIVORCE?
15:43 WHAT DO YOU SAY? DO YOU WANT TO ANSWER?
15:44 ANYONE WANT TO VENTURE? BOLD ENOUGH? NO.
15:48 BECAUSE THERE IS A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A THOUGHT AND AN ACT.
15:52 THINK ABOUT THIS FOR A MINUTE. IF YOU THINK ABOUT MURDER CAN
15:59 YOU BE EXECUTED ACCORDING TO OUR GOVERNMENT? NO.
16:03 BECAUSE A PERSON THINKS A MURDEROUS THOUGHT DOESN'T MEAN
16:06 THEY ARE A MURDERER AND THEY ARE NOT GOING TO BE PROSECUTED AS A
16:08 MURDERER BECAUSE THEY THINK A THOUGHT.
16:10 NOW IF YOU CONSPIRE - IF YOU GET THE TOOLS AND THE WEAPONS AND
16:13 YOU'RE GOING TO PLAN IT - YES, THAT'S A DIFFERENT STORY.
16:16 BUT THINKING A THOUGHT IS NOT THE SAME AS DOING IT AND I'VE
16:18 HAD SOME PEOPLE WHO'VE SAID TO ME, 'PASTOR DOUG, I MAY AS WELL
16:21 GO AHEAD AND DO IT BECAUSE I'M THINKING ABOUT IT AND JESUS SAID
16:25 IF YOU THINK ABOUT IT, IT'S THE SAME THING.
16:27 NO HE DOESN'T SAY IT'S THE SAME THING.
16:29 HE'S TRYING TO SHOW YOU THAT HE NOT ONLY WANTS US TO KEEP THE
16:32 SEVENTH COMMANDMENT AND NOT LITERALLY COMMIT ADULTERY OR
16:34 FORNICATION, HE'S TRYING TO TELL US I WANT YOU TO DO IT IN YOUR
16:37 HEART AS WELL BECAUSE IF YOU'RE KEEPING THE COMMANDMENT IN YOUR
16:41 HEART, YOU WILL KEEP IT IN YOUR MARRIAGE.
16:44 AND I WANT TO REMIND EVERYBODY, ESPECIALLY OUR YOUNG PEOPLE OR
16:48 ANY SINGLES HERE, THE SEVENTH COMMANDMENT IS NOT JUST FOR
16:50 MARRIED COUPLES. THE SEVENTH COMMANDMENT IS FOR
16:53 EVERYBODY BECAUSE THAT COVERS THE SUBJECT OF FORNICATION AND
16:58 THAT'S ANY KIND OF SEXUAL ACTIVITY OUTSIDE OF MARRIAGE.
17:03 AND SO WE'RE ALL CALLED TO HOLINESS.
17:06 HE SAYS, 'BLESSED ARE THE PURE IN HEART, THEY WILL SEE GOD'.
17:09 HE WANTS US TO BE PURE IN OUR HEARTS.
17:10 SO JESUS WASN'T SAYING, 'WELL, YOU'RE THINKING IT, YOU MAY AS
17:13 WELL DO IT.' HE'S SAYING, 'IF YOU'LL BE SAVED IN YOUR HEART -
17:16 IF YOU'LL LET ME RECREATE YOUR HEART - YOU WON'T HAVE TO WORRY
17:18 ABOUT THE LETTER OF THE LAW BECAUSE YOU'LL BE KEEPING THE
17:21 SPIRIT OF THE LAW. YOU'LL AUTOMATICALLY KEEP THE
17:24 LETTER OF THE LAW WHEN YOU KEEP THE SPIRIT. ISN'T THAT RIGHT?
17:28 DON'T YOU HAVE TO FIRST THINK IT IN YOUR HEART BEFORE YOU ACT IT
17:30 OUT? AND LET'S FACE IT, IN THE WORLD, PEOPLE TREAT SEX LIKE
17:35 SHAKING HANDS. THAT'S NOT THE WAY IT IS WITH
17:38 CHRIST. THE BIBLE HASN'T CHANGED.
17:40 YES, OUR CULTURE HAS CHANGED BUT THE TRUTH HAS NOT CHANGED.
17:43 JESUS SAID, 'I AM THE LORD. I DO NOT CHANGE'.
17:46 WHAT NEEDS CHANGING IS WE DO.
17:49 GOD'S CHURCH NEEDS TO START BEING A LIGHT ON A HILL AND
17:51 SHOWING THE WORLD WHAT HOLINESS LOOKS LIKE AND THAT MEANS IN OUR
17:57 LIVES AND IN OUR HOMES AND IN OUR MARRIAGES.
18:01 PETER, DESCRIBING HIS AGE - AND IT'S NOT MUCH DIFFERENT FROM
18:04 OURS - PETER - 2 PETER CHAPTER 2, VERSE 14, "HAVING EYES FULL
18:08 OF ADULTERY, AND THAT CANNOT CEASE FROM SIN, ENTICING
18:12 UNSTABLE SOULS." YOU NOTICE, IT STARTS WITH A
18:15 LOOK AND - THAT LINGERING LOOK, DID IT GET DAVID IN TROUBLE?
18:22 PROVERBS 9:17, "STOLEN WATER IS SWEET, AND BREAD EATEN IN SECRET
18:26 IS PLEASANT." PEOPLE THINK, 'WELL, IT WAS A SECRET
18:29 RENDEZVOUS. NO ONE WILL KNOW.' SOLOMON GOES ON TO SAY, "BUT HE
18:33 DOES NOT KNOW THAT THE DEAD ARE THERE, THAT HER GUESTS" -
18:36 SPEAKING OF AN HARLOT - "ARE IN THE DEPTHS OF HELL."
18:40 ADULTERY DOES NOT BEGIN BELOW THE BELT.
18:45 ADULTERY BEGINS ABOVE THE NECK. IT STARTS IN THE MIND.
18:51 IF WE KEEP OUR MINDS FIXED ON THOSE THINGS THAT ARE GOOD AND
18:55 IF WE MAKE A COVENANT WITH OUR EYES, AS JOB SAYS, IT CAN KEEP
18:59 US OUT OF A LOT OF TROUBLE. YOU LOOK, FOR INSTANCE, IN JOB
19:03 31, VERSE 1, - LOOK AWAY AND LIVE - HE SAYS, "I HAVE MADE A
19:08 COVENANT WITH MY EYES; WHY THEN SHOULD I LOOK UPON A YOUNG
19:10 WOMAN?" WE'VE GOT TO LEARN HOW TO BOUNCE
19:13 OUR EYES WHEN YOU SEE SOMETHING THAT'S NOT RIGHT.
19:17 DID JOSEPH - YOU KNOW I LOVE THE STORY OF JOSEPH.
19:19 HE'S ONE OF THE HEROES IN THE BIBLE, NOT JUST BECAUSE OF HIS
19:23 FORGIVENESS, BUT JOSEPH IS ONE OF THE RARE EXCEPTIONS YOU FIND
19:26 IN THE BIBLE OF A GODLY MAN WHO SAID NO TO A TEMPTATION THAT
19:30 WOULD HAVE BEEN VERY DIFFICULT FOR MOST PEOPLE.
19:33 HE SAID, 'NO, HOW CAN I SIN AGAINST GOD?'
19:35 HIS LOVE WAS SO STRONG FOR GOD HE SAID, 'I CAN'T DO THIS
19:37 THING'. HE SAID NO TO ADULTERY.
19:40 SO WHENEVER WE THINK, 'OH, WE'RE ALL HUMAN' - I REMEMBER HEARING
19:43 ONE WOMAN SAY, 'ANY MAN COULD BE HAD.
19:47 ANY MAN COULD BE HAD' - AND I WAS INSULTED BY THAT BECAUSE I
19:49 DON'T BELIEVE THAT'S TRUE. I THINK THAT WHEN PEOPLE HAVE
19:52 GOD'S SPIRIT THAT WE CAN LIVE LIVES OF INTEGRITY.
19:57 PROVERBS CHAPTER 4, VERSE 25, "LET YOUR EYES LOOK STRAIGHT
20:00 AHEAD AND YOUR EYELIDS LOOK RIGHT BEFORE YOU" -
20:03 HE'S TALKING ABOUT WHEN YOU'RE TEMPTED.
20:05 PSALM 101, VERSE 3, "I WILL SET NOTHING WICKED BEFORE MY EYES; I
20:10 HATE THE WORK OF THOSE WHO FALL AWAY; IT SHALL NOT CLING TO ME."
20:14 AND THEN SOLOMON ALSO SAID - PROVERBS 5:15 - "DRINK WATER
20:18 FROM YOUR OWN CISTERN, AND RUNNING WATER FROM YOUR OWN
20:21 WELL...LET THEM BE ONLY YOUR OWN, AND NOT FOR STRANGERS WITH
20:25 YOU." NOW, YOU KNOW,
20:26 IT'S WONDERFUL IF YOU'VE GOT A SPRING IN YOUR
20:28 BACKYARD AND YOU'VE GOT YOUR OWN WELL AND YOU CAN DRINK ALL THE
20:31 WATER YOU WANT FROM YOUR OWN WELL - THAT'D BE SUCH A
20:32 BLESSING. WITHIN MARRIAGE, THAT INTIMACY
20:37 IS A BLESSING. MATTER OF FACT, IN THE BIBLE
20:41 IT'S COMMANDED THAT THE COUPLES COME TOGETHER.
20:44 SO MUCH OF THE MARRIAGE COUNSELING THAT HAPPENS IS
20:47 ALMOST NEVER BECAUSE COUPLES ARE HAVING TOO MUCH SEX.
20:51 IT'S BECAUSE THEY'RE NOT HAVING ENOUGH.
20:54 IF THE TRUTH BE KNOWN, NINE TIMES OUT OF TEN THAT'S A
20:58 PROBLEM. AND SO, WITHIN MARRIAGE, IT'S A
21:00 WONDERFUL THING. BUT OUTSIDE OF MARRIAGE, WITH
21:04 SOMEONE THAT IS NOT YOUR SPOUSE, THAT'S WHERE IT'S A PROBLEM.
21:09 NOW, HAVING SAID ALL THIS, I THINK IT'S PRETTY CLEAR WHAT
21:12 ADULTERY IS AND THAT IT'S A SIN. I WANT TO ALSO MAKE IT CLEAR IT
21:16 IS NOT THE UNPARDONABLE SIN. HAVE YOU EVER WONDERED?
21:21 AND EVEN DIVORCE AND REMARRIAGE WITHOUT BIBLICAL GROUNDS, THE
21:27 BIBLE DOES NOT CALL THAT THE UNPARDONABLE SIN.
21:30 AFTER DAVID SINNED WITH BATHSHEBA - WAS THAT A FORBIDDEN
21:33 ADULTEROUS RELATIONSHIP? YES IT WAS - IN EVERY WAY -
21:37 CONNECTED WITH MURDER. DID DAVID SUFFER?
21:41 DID BATHSHEBA SUFFER? DAVID LOST FOUR OF HIS SONS.
21:46 THE LORD, DIRECTLY IN THE PROPHECY OF NATHAN, CONNECTED
21:49 THE LOSS OF FOUR CHILDREN WITH HIS ACTION.
21:53 SO, DO YOU THINK DAVID THOUGHT IT WAS WORTH IT?
21:57 SOMETIMES PEOPLE FALL INTO ADULTEROUS RELATIONSHIPS AND
21:59 THEY DON'T REALIZE WHAT THE CONSEQUENCES ARE GOING TO BE.
22:03 A LOT OF KIDS HAVE BEEN PERMANENTLY SCARRED BECAUSE OF
22:07 THE DECISION THAT THEIR PARENTS MADE - A VERY SELFISH
22:11 DECISION, USUALLY. WHEN PEOPLE COMMIT ADULTERY, WHO
22:14 ARE THEY THINKING ABOUT? GOD AND HIS GLORY OR THEMSELVES?
22:19 WHAT ABOUT THE WOMAN AT THE WELL?
22:22 JOHN 8:38 - THE SCRIBES BROUGHT THIS WOMAN CAUGHT IN THE ACT OF
22:26 ADULTERY. SHE WAS GUILTY.
22:29 ACCORDING TO THE LAW SHE SHOULD BE STONED.
22:31 ACCORDING TO THE LAW THE MAN SHOULD BE STONED TOO.
22:33 I'VE ALWAYS WONDERED, HOW IN THE WORLD WAS IT THEY WERE ABLE TO
22:35 CATCH HER IN THE ACT BUT NOT THE MAN?
22:39 THAT'S PRETTY STRANGE. AND, EVIDENTLY, SHE WAS SET UP.
22:45 MANY THINK THIS MAY HAVE BEEN MARY MAGDALENE'S FIRST ENCOUNTER
22:48 WITH JESUS AND I COULD GIVE YOU MY OTHER ARGUMENTS FOR THAT
22:51 LATER. BUT THEY ALL STOOD AROUND READY TO EXECUTE HER.
22:57 HE SAID, 'HE THAT IS WITHOUT SIN, CAST THE FIRST STONE'.
23:01 YOU KNOW ONE REASON THAT ADULTERY IS SO RAMPANT IN THE
23:03 CHURCH IS BECAUSE OF THIS STORY AND NO ONE WANTS TO EVER DEAL
23:07 WITH ADULTERY IN A CHURCH - ON A CHURCH BOARD - NO ONE WANTS TO -
23:11 I SHOULDN'T SAY 'NO ONE' - VERY FEW PEOPLE ARE WILLING TO
23:13 ADDRESS THOSE THINGS BECAUSE IT'S SO PREVALENT.
23:16 WE ALL QUOTE THE SCRIPTURE 'HE THAT IS WITHOUT SIN, LET HIM
23:19 CAST THE FIRST STONE' AND PEOPLE TAKE THAT TO MEAN THAT WE'RE NOT
23:22 SUPPOSED TO DEAL WITH IT AT ALL SO WE'RE ALL KIND OF AMBIVALENT
23:27 ABOUT SOMETHING THAT GOD'S VERY CLEAR ABOUT.
23:29 WHEN JESUS SAID 'HE THAT IS WITHOUT SIN, LET HIM CAST THE
23:32 FIRST STONE' - THEY WERE GOING TO KILL MARY!
23:35 THEY WERE GOING TO EXECUTE THIS WOMAN.
23:37 AND WHEN HER ACCUSERS LEFT HE SAID, 'WOMAN, WHERE ARE THOSE
23:41 THINE ACCUSERS? HAS NO MAN CONDEMNED YOU?'
23:43 SHE SAID, 'NO MAN, LORD'. HE SAID, 'NEITHER DO I CONDEMN
23:47 YOU'. NOW WAS JESUS SAYING THAT
23:49 ADULTERY IS OKAY, I'M NOT GOING TO CONDEMN IT ANYMORE?
23:52 SOME PEOPLE HAVE READ IT THAT WAY.
23:54 WHENEVER SOMEONE IN THE CHURCH FALLS INTO ADULTERY, INSTEAD OF
23:56 THERE BEING ANY KIND OF CENSURE OR COUNSELING, THEY JUST SAY,
24:00 'WELL, JESUS SAID 'I DON'T CONDEMN' SO GO AND FREELY SIN.
24:04 IS THAT WHAT HE SAID? NO, HE SAID, 'I DO NOT CONDEMN YOU.
24:08 GO AND SIN NO MORE'. YOU KNOW WHY HE COULD SAY,
24:10 'I DON'T CONDEMN YOU'? BECAUSE HE WAS GOING TO TAKE HER
24:13 DEATH PENALTY. IS THE PENALTY FOR SIN STILL
24:16 DEATH? IS THE PENALTY FOR BREAKING THE
24:19 SEVENTH COMMANDMENT STILL SIN? AND SO IS IT STILL DEATH?
24:24 AND SO HOW COULD JESUS TELL MARY YOU'RE FREE TO GO?
24:27 BECAUSE HE WAS GOING TO TAKE HER DEATH PENALTY.
24:29 THAT'S WHY HE TOLD HER 'GO AND SIN NO MORE'. HE CALLED IT A SIN
24:35 AND HE SAID 'STOP IT. I'LL FORGIVE YOU. DON'T DO IT ANYMORE
24:40 BECAUSE I'LL DIE FOR YOU.' DOES THAT MAKE SENSE?
24:44 BUT ISN'T IT INTERESTING THAT BOTH - MARY MAGDALENE WAS THE
24:48 FIRST ONE TO PROCLAIM THE RISEN LORD AND THE WOMAN AT THE WELL
24:52 WAS THE FIRST ONE TO PROCLAIM HIM AMONG THE GENTILES?
24:55 SO IT IS SOMETHING THAT GOD CAN FORGIVE, BUT GOD IS ALSO TELLING
25:00 US HE STILL WANTS US TO OBEY. ADULTERY IS STILL A SIN.
25:05 HE'S NOT RECOMMENDING THAT WE DO A LITTLE LESS OF IT, HE'S
25:09 SAYING, 'THOU SHALL NOT COMMIT ADULTERY'.
25:15 THIS IS THE WILL OF GOD.
25:16 HE WANTS US TO BE A HOLY PEOPLE AND HE WANTS US NOT TO COMMIT
25:19 ADULTERY ON HIM BECAUSE, ULTIMATELY, HUSBANDS ARE TO LOVE
25:24 THEIR WIVES AS CHRIST LOVES THE CHURCH.
25:26 AND YOU, AS PART OF THE CHURCH, HE LOVES YOU AS A BRIDEGROOM.
25:29 WOULD YOU WANT TO BREAK HIS HEART?
25:31 ANY TIME ANYBODY FLIRTS WITH THE IDEA OF COMMITTING ADULTERY ON
25:35 THEIR SPOUSE, THEY'RE GOING TO BE COMMITTING ADULTERY ALSO ON
25:37 THE LORD AND ON THEIR FAMILY AND ON SOCIETY.
25:40 IT'S NOT JUST ONE PERSON THAT'S GOING TO BE HURT.
25:46 DAVID, WHEN HE REPENTED OF HIS SIN, IN PSALM 51 HE SAID,
25:50 'AGAINST THEE AND THEE ONLY HAVE I SINNED'.
25:52 JOSEPH, WHEN HE WAS TEMPTED TO COMMIT ADULTERY WITH POTIPHAR'S
25:54 WIFE - HE SAID, 'HOW CAN I DO THIS WICKED THING AND SIN
25:57 AGAINST GOD?' AND SO THE BEST REASON TO KEEP
26:00 THIS COMMANDMENT AND EVERY COMMANDMENT IS BECAUSE JESUS
26:04 LOVES US AND HE HAD TO DIE TO SAVE US FROM OUR SINS.
26:08 ISN'T THAT RIGHT? AND IT'S THROUGH HIS SHED BLOOD
26:13 THAT WE'RE GIVEN POWER TO LIVE HOLY LIVES.
26:15 WHEREVER YOU ARE IN YOUR EXPERIENCE IN YOUR LIFE, WHETHER
26:19 YOU'RE OLD ENOUGH TO BE MARRIED OR YOU'VE BEEN MARRIED BEFORE OR
26:22 DIVORCED. MAYBE YOU HAVEN'T GOT BIBLICAL
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26:27 HIM FOR THE POWER OF THE BLOOD TO LIVE A NEW LIFE FROM HERE ON.
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27:55 AMAZING FACTS: GOD'S MESSAGE, OUR MISSION.
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